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• Commented on I recently entered into a relationship with a very sweet man who was honorably discharged from the army; we get along great but I feel as if I might be walking on eggshells with him. Would you have any advice to give on this subject?
• Commented on My husband spends hours researching speakers, TVs and "toys" online and then spends more time "tweaking" our home theater set up. I honestly just want to be able to watch TV with sound - I don't care if I can hear the water dripping in a scene.
• Commented on My husband is addicted to World of Warcraft - plays 3-4 times a week. Did I mention he's 40? As a WoW widow, how do I handle this?
• Commented on I'm 27, have had diverse lovers (age/experience) but never an orgasm during sex. Nothing physically wrong w/ me, just hasn't happened. I'm a faker (I know, no lecture necessary). Don't want to fake it anymore...Should I discuss it with my next lover?
• Commented on Do guys really prefer it all shaven off down there? What is too much/too little?
• Commented on Will my c-section scar be a turn-off/unattractive to my husband?
• Commented on What is a guy's opinion to when girls curse frequently? Is it a turn off?
• Commented on I like to go deep when giving a blowjob but my man always grabs my hair and likes when I stay there ( making it hard to breath ) ive tried telling him let me breath lol .. but he gets to excited how do i get him to relax and to enjoy it at the same time !
• Commented on What is the definition of an "open" marriage?
• Commented on The Old Spice Guy Is All Sorts of Awesome
• Commented on My guy has a temper. He's only yelled at me twice in the 1+ yrs we've been together, but he gets angry (and violent) over the smallest things, I hate it! I get scared sometimes and have to leave the room. Is this something I can help change? How?? I know
• Commented on I've been faking orgasms EVERY TIME I have sex with my bf. Now he thinks I can climax easily, but it actually takes me a long time and lots of clit stimulation. I don't want to lie anymore. How can I tell him what I need without hurting him (and his ego)?
• Commented on What do guys think about the first time their girl farts in front of them?
• Commented on How do I get my girlfriend to like anal sex?
• Commented on Who would you rather marry, Alicia Keys or Beyonce. And why?
• Commented on Best sex songs?
• Commented on Best sex songs?
• Commented on I am 45 and my boyfriend is 53. He's asked me to not only get a breast augmentation, but wants me to pay for it. I told him I wasn't comfortable with that and he reminded me that his last three exes got an augmentation. What do I say or do?
• Commented on Is it weird to be insecure/jealous about my boyfriend's beautiful sister? Does it change anything about how he views me? I'm worried because i look completely opposite. Thanks!
• Commented on Recently my boyfriend asked me not to shave (down there) and the thought of not shaving completely grosses me out. I wanted to do it at least once for him just to make him happy but it makes me feel repulsive. I hate the way it looks, feels, and just kno
• Commented on My hubby wants to have fun with loads of women as one night stands. He says that he is being honest and I should be understanding about it.We have been married for 14 years,its understandable he wants change.pls tell me that its alright to be heart broken
• Commented on Even after much convincing, my boyfriend of 3 years still doesn't like any sci-fi (apart from Doctor Who, my greatest conquest), including but not limited to Star Wars, Star Trek, Stargate, and even Hitch-hiker's Guide to the Galaxy. Should I give up and
• Commented on I have been in a long distance relationship for about 3 yrs. But he never visits! Should I be worried?
• Commented on jdv, i've become so jaded after a long string of truly terrible experiences that i no longer have the heart to believe that men can fall in love, that they're interested in anything but sex and the continuing promise of sex. please say something to help?
• Commented on How do you keep men whipped?
• Commented on My hubby and I are pregnant with our first child, and he wants to be "down there" when our kid's born. The problem is, I really don't want him to be. (I'm afraid he'll not want to have sex again.) Is there some way I can tell him, and not upset him?
• Commented on No questions about Twilight Saga: Eclipse, Nick? Or have you managed to avoid it?
• Commented on No questions about Twilight Saga: Eclipse, Nick? Or have you managed to avoid it?
• Commented on I can't climax with penetration only. During sex, when my bf is 'done', we're done. He won't pleasure me because, as he put it, "women are too complicated and it's too hard to get them to climax." What's the deal and how do I get him to want to do that?
• Commented on I can't climax with penetration only. During sex, when my bf is 'done', we're done. He won't pleasure me because, as he put it, "women are too complicated and it's too hard to get them to climax." What's the deal and how do I get him to want to do that?
• Commented on What does a man think if a woman sleeps with him on the first date?
• Commented on I'm white, and my boyfriend is white also, but he told me that he prefers to date Asian women. Am I wasting on time on someone who will never be truly happy with me because I'm not his preference? Would he feel like he is missing out on
• Commented on I'm white, and my boyfriend is white also, but he told me that he prefers to date Asian women. Am I wasting on time on someone who will never be truly happy with me because I'm not his preference? Would he feel like he is missing out on
• Commented on why does my guy have a box of old photo albums of him and his high school girlfriend?
• Commented on How can I get my boyfriend to become more motivated to get things done? He is lazy to clean up and do chores, which is really irritating. He is 25. Is it possible for him to stop being so lazy?
• Commented on I am dreadful on top during sex, something to do with co-ordinating the rhythm of my hips with their thrusting, so i prefer to be submissive. Is this a problem for most guys? I worry that they think i'm lazy as opposed to cripplingly embarrassed of f- ups
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• Mystery Man commented on I am dreadful on top during sex, something to do with co-ordinating the rhythm of my hips with their thrusting, so i prefer to be submissive. Is this a problem for most guys? I worry that they think i'm lazy as opposed to cripplingly embarrassed of f- ups
  Sorry Sarah, only just saw your comment! Not hugely familiar with the problems arthritis causes for sex, but a quick google gave me this: "# Using the furniture. If your main concern in having sex with arthritis is being able to hold yourself above your partner, experiment with having your partner sit on a counter or desk so you can enter her while standing in a straight, natural position." (From http://www.mademan.com/mm/5-sex-positions-wont-aggravate-arthritis.html) Know it is aimed at men, but the reverse should work too, and playing on the furniture adds a certain spice....
• Laje Kahr commented on My husband is addicted to World of Warcraft - plays 3-4 times a week. Did I mention he's 40? As a WoW widow, how do I handle this?
  LOL. My point was that DDO is a lot less involving and because you can pay as you play there is less "pressure" to "get your money's worth" like WoW. As a further note, at the behest of my wife, because she likes to play WoW, I started playing again. I'm still finding I don't log that many hours playing it though. In fact, almost none this last few weeks. Starcraft 2 has gotten a lot more play time. :) It has to be a balance in all things like the guy below posted about having His and Hers days....
• Cute1991 commented on Recently my boyfriend asked me not to shave (down there) and the thought of not shaving completely grosses me out. I wanted to do it at least once for him just to make him happy but it makes me feel repulsive. I hate the way it looks, feels, and just kno
  Shaving isn't more hygienic than having hair there. I have a feeling that this myth was created and perpetuated so people could give a more scientific-sounding reason for why they shave. In our society, female shaving wasn't popularized until razor companies started putting out ads (to sell more razors) that told us having body hair is gross. And it's working, isn't it? Aren't many people convinced that body hair is disgusting and unhygienic? Aren't these companies selling more razors?...
• brat02 commented on I have been in a long distance relationship for about 3 yrs. But he never visits! Should I be worried?
  I've been in a similar situatian, my ex and I tried the long distance thing, and eventually we decided to break up. (neither of us can drive, so that was a factor) I say, time to move on. I mean what's the point of dateing someone long distance if you rarely see them??...