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• Cary McNeal commented on At 22 did you have any idea where you were going in life, or what was going to make you happy down the line? Cause I do believe that at 22 I am royally effed. Quarter-life crisis/post-college depression advice?
  Thank you, Chrissie....
• simplysara commented on Is cellulite on a girls thighs a total turn off for a guy?
  It takes all kinds....lol! Realistically this should never really come up...think about it...dude's love a woman with a big butt or huge boobies. Do you think that most woman are realistically perfect with these features...? Women with really big boobs and butts usually have stretch marks and cellulite..it comes with the territory. Of course there are exceptions to the rules...no one is perfect and if someone is seeking perfection in you...they don't deserve to even see your thighs or be around you!!!...
• goodkarmagirl commented on I've worked very hard in my MA program and my department gave me a scholarship for a PhD program. I was excited and told a friend and he replied that I only got the scholarship because I have big boobs and the chair wants to f*** me. Is that really how it
  Congratulations girl. Don't let (as Dan's tag says) his "douchebaggery" intimidate you or make you doubt your hard work. If anything, it's a pre-cursor to future corporate leadership hurdles smart, driven women will often experience. Don't let this jade you but please consider the source and motivation when you receive comments like this. Onward and upward....
• goodkarmagirl commented on I've worked very hard in my MA program and my department gave me a scholarship for a PhD program. I was excited and told a friend and he replied that I only got the scholarship because I have big boobs and the chair wants to f*** me. Is that really how it
  Give it up already....
• Jlove commented on I've worked very hard in my MA program and my department gave me a scholarship for a PhD program. I was excited and told a friend and he replied that I only got the scholarship because I have big boobs and the chair wants to f*** me. Is that really how it
  I'm a little late, but I just want to say congrats on the PhD scholarship! Like everyone else said your friend is jealous and don't let this douche mess with your head. He's trying to bring you down so he can feel better. You have worked really hard and accomplished so much on your own. DON'T EVER LET ANYONE STEAL YOUR SHINE! So keep being fantastic. Also I would confront this friend about what he said, that's not cool, you would be excited and happy for him, he should be too....