Melissa
- Website: aloshaskitchen.blogspot.com
- Who is your celebrity look alike?Sandra Bullock. When I'm thin.
- Who is your celebrity crush?Liam Neeson
- If you were stranded on a desert island and could only have two things with you (objects, not people or food) what would they be?Laptop with endless battery and a lighter
- Name one food you hate:There isn't one, yet
- How often do you talk to your mother a week/month?Twice per week usually, sometimes more
- Boxers, briefs, or freeball?I love my husband's boxer briefs. A nice compromise.
- Dog, cat, neither?Andy kitty!
- Name one magazine in your house right now:Fine Cooking
- What’s your favorite quote?Your worst enemy cannot harm you as much as your own unguarded thoughts. ~Buddha
- What’s your favorite movie of all time?The Lord of the Rings trilogy ranks way up there
- Do you text, email, or call?All three, frequently
- Do you have any sisters, and if so, are they older or younger than you? If not, do you have any siblings at all, and where do you fall in the mix?One, two years older
- Your Astrological Sign:Gemini
- What's your favorite sport?Basketball
- What's your favorite professional sports team?Lakers
- Do you have kids? If not, do you want rugrats one day?No and I don't know!
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- Commented on Ive been told to just be myself with men. Well what are you supposed to do when none of them are liking who you are? How are you supposed to be confident when you have nothing to be confident about? I'm average. Nothing special.
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- Commented on my boyfriend keeps bringing up the fact that he wants us to get married. i've dated lots, but he hasnt. i'm the 2nd girl hes ever slept with. is he ready to get married?
- Commented on Anytime we go out my husband walks far ahead of me, not by my side. It feels very isolating. I have asked him a couple of times if we can walk together. He seems to be in a rush or anxious. Is there something else I can do or ask of him?
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- Commented on I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. (I'm not unattractive, and I'm in pretty good shape.) What am I doing wrong?
- Commented on I recently broke up with my bf, but we've stayed good friends. However, when I text him stuff like, "So glad we're friends," "You're an incredible person," "I care so much about you; I want you to be happy," his only reply is a smiley face. WTF?!
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- Commented on Recently I've became atheist but I haven't told my mother and my family in general.Everyone expect me to go to church with them but I hate to!What should I do?
- Commented on My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now and recently our sex life has gotten stale... We talked about it and he wants me to be "more slutty"and initiate more. Any suggestions on how to do this?
- Commented on I've cheated on my spouse three times in our relationship. Now he wants to punish me by having a threesome with one of my friends. Is that fair?
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- Commented on For the past couple of months, my boyfriend has been really into "guys night". It makes me really uneasy when he is going to the city every other night with just guys and not me. Should I be questioning him so much or should I just trust him?
- Commented on Recently I've became atheist but I haven't told my mother and my family in general.Everyone expect me to go to church with them but I hate to!What should I do?
- Commented on Assuming we could generalize, what would you consider *THE* most important quality for a man's "ideal woman" to have? (Let's leave sex out of it, for the purposes of this one question.) Many thanks!
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- Commented on I'm married w/ 2 kids, I love my husband, but I talk to guys online, and send and receive dirty pics. Is this really cheating to a guy?
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- Commented on Dear fellows, I have a lot of limitations. How do I go about finding my special someone? Please give detailed step by step advice asap.
- Commented on I'm in love with my best friend but he is marrying another girl soon. I know he loves her, but she is a total b**ch. She's cheated on him twice that I know of and I think she is just using him for something. What should I do?
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- Commented on My husband is always driving and texting. He will not stop... even when our kids are in the car. It scares me. How do I get my message across?
- Commented on What's with the sudden mainstream obsession with (Hetero) anal? Seemed like a kinky fetish before, and is now touted as a common couple indulgence. Half the girls I know have 'gone there' (even while hating it) to please their men. What gives?
- Commented on My boyfriend doesn't dig phone sex. I suggest it, ask for it, and have tried to start it, but he's never interested. We only see each other twice a week. I need it. How can I help him find interest?
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Nautilus commented on
My best guy friend has girlfriend,both sleep around. We have messed around,but he said that it was a bad idea to have sex.He loves me (so he says) BUT i don't get why he flirts,but doesn't wanna get with me.Why bother? Why sleep around if he loves his GF?
See...i told you JDV is one of the best...very well said....
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rxy commented on
My best guy friend has girlfriend,both sleep around. We have messed around,but he said that it was a bad idea to have sex.He loves me (so he says) BUT i don't get why he flirts,but doesn't wanna get with me.Why bother? Why sleep around if he loves his GF?
Hey thanks for your replies. (I asked the question btw). The thing is, I'm too close to the situation to really give myself advice. We've known each other for about a year, we are practically 24/7 together, hanging out, doing anything. A lot of our friends think we are dating, but we are not. I have tried to get out of this f**cked up friendship a zillion times, but he keeps coming back. If i block him, delete his facebook friendship thing, ignore texts etc. he will show up, call my home, phone or pass messages from friends etc. He...
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just me commented on
i think eating boogers is kinky... is that something guys would be willing to try, or not? almost everyone i've been with thinks it's over the line.
so how does your sex life survive without oral? if you never tryed it, you dont know what you are missing out on, if you done it and didnt like the person that did it didnt know what they were doing it. and if you think that its dirty and full of bacteria think again, the two places in the body with most bacteria are the mouth and hands. you kiss the hands, bite it, lick it sometimes and the mouth almost everything goes in there, pens, pencil, nails, fingers, etc., so your excuse for not doing oral is lame....
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toxicbarbieoxymoron commented on
my boyfriend keeps bringing up the fact that he wants us to get married. i've dated lots, but he hasnt. i'm the 2nd girl hes ever slept with. is he ready to get married?
Seriously, if I only slept with two people, I would have lost my mind and would have begged the guy who gives me shots in the padded room to have sex with me. We need "lovin'" just as much as the players out there. It is possible for this guy to want to marry the 2nd girl he sleeps with but, he is ,also, a freak of nature. I am backing MM on this one....
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secrets commented on
Ive been told to just be myself with men. Well what are you supposed to do when none of them are liking who you are? How are you supposed to be confident when you have nothing to be confident about? I'm average. Nothing special.
Ive been told to just be myself with men. Well what are you supposed to do when none of them are liking who you are? How are you supposed to be confident when you have nothing to be confident about? I'm average. Nothing special asking for donations thank you...
