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• Commented on Hey CG! This guy I like is the funniest, nerdiest, sweetest, guy ever. Been through everything with him, but one problem: he's dating. When we're together, I swear he likes me, but then he looks like he's really into his gf. My friend says that I'm like t
• Commented on i recently joined a dating website& didnt post pics b/c i didn't want anyone i know to see me on there. i sent a couple guys i've been emailing with pics privately, then they stop emailing.not to sound bad, but i'm told i'm pretty a lot& these guys arent
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• Commented on My boyfriend admits that he hates strip clubs- says the whole situation makes him uncomfortable. Since this flies in the face of a strong male stereotype, I thought I would ask if there are many men who feel the same? Do lots of guys merely go along with
• Commented on MM, I am a strong Christian and I want to know how you and other non-Christians feel about us talking about and sharing our faith... do you see it as pushy or arrogant? and what about a situation where a friend is asking big life questions and I feel like
• Commented on MM, I am a strong Christian and I want to know how you and other non-Christians feel about us talking about and sharing our faith... do you see it as pushy or arrogant? and what about a situation where a friend is asking big life questions and I feel like
• Commented on So i havent seen my boyfriend in a few days and today i find a hairpin on his dresser that definitely isnt mine. Is there any scenario here where he didnt blatantly fuck around while i was away?
• Commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?

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• Nick Nadel commented on i recently joined a dating website& didnt post pics b/c i didn't want anyone i know to see me on there. i sent a couple guys i've been emailing with pics privately, then they stop emailing.not to sound bad, but i'm told i'm pretty a lot& these guys arent
  Good advice. You should always post photos on a dating profile. Most men will not contact profiles without photos, just like women rarely contact guys who don't post at least one photo. If she's that worried about someone she knows seeing her on the site, change the settings so that only people she contacts can see her photo....
• ohmic12 commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
  Wow slow it down there Laje Kahr i will be the first one to admit that some mainstream porn that sets a unrealistic example of what sex should be like (ie very well hung guys and women fake moaning) but theres a difference between fantasy and reality and if a person cant make out these differences then they shouldnt be looking at porn at the first place And for the record I dont find anything wrong with true amature porn ie (real couples) having sex as it is realistic as it gets and being 28 thats the most type of...
• Laje Kahr commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
  Yes, there is some porn out there that is realistic. I will grant you that, but that is NOT the majority of porn out there. The vast majority is totally unrealistic. The porn stars themselves even admit this. Shoot, there are whole news articles dedicated to how the porn producers photoshop every image to "perfection". The videos have whole teams just to polish the production. When was the last time you met a girl that engaged in lesbian sex for the pleasure of a man? When was the last time someone you know had a threesome? Or any of these...
• Laje Kahr commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
  Counseling and a lawyer. NOW, please. There is something definitely going wrong there. He sounds a bit like he might have already checked out of the relationship, but this doesn't mean it can't be salvaged. I wish I could give more, but from what you've given here it's hard to make a judgement call one way or the other, so please, please seek help. And, men don't really majorly change when they get married. At most, he realizes that he's committed to the relationship and maybe struggles with what that means, but a major change indicates he is or was...
• Shnon commented on MM, I am a strong Christian and I want to know how you and other non-Christians feel about us talking about and sharing our faith... do you see it as pushy or arrogant? and what about a situation where a friend is asking big life questions and I feel like
  I follow no religion. I was raised protestant... that sucked horribly. I was taught in church that "a girl's body is god's temple" and that we had to have it pretty... so we were taught to put on make up... we were aged 7-9 so that was rather ridiculous. Girls and boys were separated as well, and when I asked to join the boys (they play basketball while we were taught about make up and taught bible quotes and the like) I was told I couldn't because boys had more energy and couldn't sit still... we also were taught to...