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Commented on Please help me! I have a female friend who is a wonderful person but not great in the grooming dept. She picks crumbs out of her hair & eats them; I think it's unconscious/stress related. She's extremely sensitive. How can we tell her that it's gross and

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Commented on Dear Wise Ass, four months ago my brother passed away from cancer and I have been severely depressed, and also very lonely. I really want to be with someone but I feel as though they will be turned off by my depression. Would anyone be interested in someo

Commented on My boyfriend says he "doesn't believe in Valentine's Day", but I told him I wanted to celebrate it because I've never been with anyone on the day. He doesn't want to do anything, and it's kind of upsetting me. Am I right to be annoyed?

Commented on My husband has a profile on an "adult friend finder" site. I asked him about it and he completely denies knowing anything, and said it may have come from a porn site he registered for. But the profile info is pretty specific. What should I do? He's never

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Commented on I was adopted when I was twelve. I am grown up now (as in, done with college), but I have never had a relationship because I have always been in love with my adoptive father. Who is, obviously, married to my adoptive mother. I'd never actually show it and

Commented on How do I tell my guy friend that i have feelings for him but he has a girlfriend...?

Commented on I'm continually running into a situation where I casually hang out/date a guy for about a month, then when I express I don't want to sleep w them just yet, the flirty texts, invites, etc. abruptly stop. Do you have some tips for how I cannot take this per

Commented on What's the name of that contraption men used to wear to hold their socks up? Please please tell me. Do men use it anymore?

Commented on I'm continually running into a situation where I casually hang out/date a guy for about a month, then when I express I don't want to sleep w them just yet, the flirty texts, invites, etc. abruptly stop. Do you have some tips for how I cannot take this per

Commented on How do I tell my guy friend that i have feelings for him but he has a girlfriend...?

Commented on Ex and I were hooking up then I couldn't anymore because I still had feelings. He tried even harder until I got upset with him. He apologized and is still friendly, but I feel uncomfortable. Not sure where to place him in my life now. I know it's an unavo

Commented on I know you guys are, well, guys. But any advice for dealing with mean girls? Would be so so appreciated, because at the moment it's just getting my spirits down.

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Commented on I love my BF. That's the #1 item on my list of pros and cons for staying w/ him. The cons involve him having a crappy job, no ambition, still living at home, afraid to commit, etc. The pros are: I love him, he isn't threatened by me (women's equality), we

Commented on I know you guys are, well, guys. But any advice for dealing with mean girls? Would be so so appreciated, because at the moment it's just getting my spirits down.

Commented on Thoughts on getting involved with a guy who is legally separated but not divorced? He also has a young child with his "ex" wife.

Commented on Why are skinny girls more attractive then heavier ones? Don't you think people should look on the inside not the outside?

Commented on Why did my boyfriend of three years not ask me how I felt about him getting a tattoo before he had it done!?

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Commented on My husband treats my son--his stepson--like crap. He treats our daughter like royalty and my son like a loser. He has been nasty and uncaring to him from the day he met him when my son was 4 years old. Now he's 24 and having panic attacks and feels useles

Commented on My girl is starting to need to shave her chin. Should I stay or run?

Commented on My husband treats my son--his stepson--like crap. He treats our daughter like royalty and my son like a loser. He has been nasty and uncaring to him from the day he met him when my son was 4 years old. Now he's 24 and having panic attacks and feels useles

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Commented on How big a p*ssy am I for opting out of a friend's wedding because I don't want to have to deal with my ex, who will be there. He has known them longer, and I just feel weird because our relationship ended on REALLY bad terms and I haven't seen him since.

Commented on My guy thinks naked is weird. We get naked together only for sex or a shower. He says that no one looks that good naked and he's more used to seeing people with clothes on. I'm self-conscious about being naked now that I realize that he doesn't think it l

Commented on Okay, this is kind of weird, but how do I get my bf to shower more frequently? He does it like every 3 or 4 days and the results of that infrequency are not so appealing. When he showers, he's out in about 3 minutes, even if I drag him in with me. Do guys

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Commented on how often should i shave down there? I have sensitive skin and don't want to get irritation, as that is just gross, but i am wondering how often someone without sensitive skin would shave and how often is the generally accepted time period. thank you!

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Commented on I read an article from yahoo that revealed the results from a mens health magazine poll about the hottest women of all time and Jennifer Aniston was number one. Seriously? of all time? I wouldn't even put her on my top ten. So then I got to wondering what

Commented on WA- help! My boyfriend recently came for a visit. We haven't been face to face for a year. Also I live with my parents. He wants to be all over me in front of them and I'm just not comfortable with that. When I told him politely to back off, he got all hu

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Commented on My ex lost his house to a tornado so he had to leave his dog with his ex & because I trusted him I thought nothing of it. When we got together he swore he's not perfect but has never cheated. Months after we broke up, he is with that same ex. Do you think

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Commented on Oh wisest of all asses, I need your guidance in knowing what is right. I have been dating this guy for a little over six months, but it doesn't seem to be going anywhere. If I date other guys, do I have to tell him? Why or not?

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Commented on I don't find ANY guys really attractive. Not one in my whole group of friends would I want to have a meaningful relationship with. Too short, too skinny, awful shoes, smokes..I know exactly the type of guy I want and he's nowhere to be seen! I refuse to l

Commented on What is an inexpensive gift I can get for the guy I'm dating that says I'm sorry with out being sappy?

Commented on I don't find ANY guys really attractive. Not one in my whole group of friends would I want to have a meaningful relationship with. Too short, too skinny, awful shoes, smokes..I know exactly the type of guy I want and he's nowhere to be seen! I refuse to l

Commented on WA I need you desperately! My bf (2years) and I live together and split expenses. The problem is his mom always asks for $100 here $200 there!! He gives it to her and then I end up forking more money into our bills. His reason is always "That's my mom."

Commented on My boyfriend constantly picks on what I eat. I have to eat what he wants me to eat and he is always insisting that his is more healthy. Over dinner last night, he stopped me thrice from eating rice. I was really hungry. He always says that he's not gonna

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Commented on WA, one of your colleagues suggested recently that divorced women are undateable because we have "a ships hold of baggage." Do you agree?

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Commented on WA, one of your colleagues suggested recently that divorced women are undateable because we have "a ships hold of baggage." Do you agree?

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Commented on WA, one of your colleagues suggested recently that divorced women are undateable because we have "a ships hold of baggage." Do you agree?

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Commented on I just slept w/ my ex. He has a girlfriend, but says he "melts" and "folds" when he see's me...

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Commented on I was born into a poor family and money has always been an issue. Now that I'm older (23), is it immoral or shallow to only want to date successful/wealthier men? I am not a gold digger, but I want to live a comfortable life as an adult, unlike my childho

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Commented on How do you get over a guy who isn't into you? Is there some sort of step by step guide? You'd think with my 100% rejection rate I would have perfected it by now, but I haven't.

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Commented on He played me, then left town without saying goodbye. Two years later, he calls out of the blue, and reluctantly, I spoke to him. Now it's been over a year, and we're talking everyday for hours. He won't tell me where he lives, and he won't visit. Why? I'v

Commented on How do you politely tell your boyfriend to please not text me as much? I am a full time college student plus carrying two jobs and often don't have time to sit and text nonstop. He can't understand this and gets all mopey and shit, and it's really frustra

Commented on He played me, then left town without saying goodbye. Two years later, he calls out of the blue, and reluctantly, I spoke to him. Now it's been over a year, and we're talking everyday for hours. He won't tell me where he lives, and he won't visit. Why? I'v

Commented on My bf refuses to watch movies with ANY sex. I'm not talking full on porn; I mean films like 'Fatal Attraction' or 'Rosemary's Baby' or 'Match Point.' If a sex scene should occur, he storms out of the room and remains angry for the rest of the night, and o

Commented on So...what is the funniest joke you can think of at the moment?

Commented on Hey there Girls' BFF! My ex and I have been broken up for about a year now. Recently, he told me he wanted me back but has done nothing in the past year to show he even cares or still has feelings. Is he just talking or does he really mean it? If he means

Commented on I recently read this in a relationship book for women: "The first time you sleep over, wake up early and sneak out without saying good-bye or leaving a note..... what is your take on this? do you concur?

Commented on do you guys have other jobs? can we know what y'all do? just curious. thanks :) you can keep yours vague if you'd like MM

Commented on About a year ago, a longtime friend told me he was in love with me. We had a good (though awkward) talk, and I confessed to not feeling the same. We haven't really spoken much since. He's now getting married. They invited me to the wedding, but I wonder i

Commented on SOS, Wise-Ass! I'm a girl who can't stand to be in any club that would have her as a member. Asides from a couple of exceptions, the more into me a guy is, the less I like him. In a world with "The Game" and countless etiquette rules, I feel like instinct

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Commented on My boyfriend constantly brings up things that he doesn't like about me, and it's getting harder and harder for me to be normal and affectionate around him. I feel like I must not be the right one for him, but he won't end things! What gives? Is he trying

Commented on Hi my name is Stephanie. How do I talk to a white guy on the metro train going home?

Commented on Since our wedding night, my husband makes excuses to get out of sex. I am despairing. He had MANY sex partners before me and still attracts women like crazy. He said sex was about conquering, not love. Now we are expecting our first child, and I feel trap

Commented on WA - I broke up with my ex about a year ago. Have had no contact since. Would it be considered weird/creepy if I emailed him just to say hi? I really miss him. Not sure if I want him back as a boyfriend but I miss us just being friends. Thoughts?

Commented on What should I expect of our "first time" if my boyfriend is a virgin and I'm not?

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Commented on It's not fair that the same question gets answered multiple times..and stupid questions at that!

Commented on My BF made the comment "stop losing weight, I don't want a twiggy GF." (lost 2 lbs doing yoga) I thought guys like skinny girls. Isn't that why all Playboy models, strippers, and most porn stars are skinny? Plus guys love VS models, they're all skinny. If

Commented on Do guys in general really like homemade presents? Or am I gonna look like a total dork if I give my bf a scrapbook or some handmade card? I'm on a budget but I wanna give him something he'll like! Thanks for your time.

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Commented on My bf kissed a chick when he was drunk at a college party. He told me two days later, wildly apologetic & convinced he'd screwed things up permanently. We are two hours away from each other, going to different schools. I love him. What should I do?

Commented on Hey WA! Love your answers! My sister and I are close except she says I should accept family when they reach out. I am warm toward some, but I stay away (I say hi) from a few. She says they've changed but I'm still not strong enough to deal with "No one wi

Commented on Do men keep old naked pictures of ex's forever? I am so embarrassed, and hate that he has these pics!!

Commented on Hey WA! Love your answers! My sister and I are close except she says I should accept family when they reach out. I am warm toward some, but I stay away (I say hi) from a few. She says they've changed but I'm still not strong enough to deal with "No one wi

Commented on My bf kissed a chick when he was drunk at a college party. He told me two days later, wildly apologetic & convinced he'd screwed things up permanently. We are two hours away from each other, going to different schools. I love him. What should I do?

Commented on The Wisest of the Wise: No matter how much I tried, I cant get along with my boyfriend's parents. They don't like my family, calling them barbaric and untrustworthy because my parents don't supervise me with their 21 year old son. We're planning to get en

Commented on Do men keep old naked pictures of ex's forever? I am so embarrassed, and hate that he has these pics!!

Commented on I used to be extremely intimidating. No one messed with me and i wasn't afraid of anybody. But then a couple years ago i got hurt in my karate class and then all of a sudden my fire was gone. I feel like every ounce of confidence is gone esp with guys. I

Commented on When we're fooling around in bed, why do guys always ask if I like their dick?

Commented on So...I was having an affair with a married man, and suddenly, he stopped texting and calling. I was just in it for the sex, but he seemed to try to make a relationship out of it. How hard is it to actually be able to have no strings attached sex? I tho

Commented on After sex, my bf ALWAYS says "Thank you, that was nice" or some variation. I've said that this makes me feel like I'm giving him a "freebie". He has the vocab, but sticks with that. IYO, is he intentionally disregarding my wishes or do orgasms just make h

Commented on My guy doesn't like horror movies! I LOVE them! Even the bad ones. He says they're boring. Have any truly amazing horror movie suggestions to maybe sway his opinion?

Commented on After sex, my bf ALWAYS says "Thank you, that was nice" or some variation. I've said that this makes me feel like I'm giving him a "freebie". He has the vocab, but sticks with that. IYO, is he intentionally disregarding my wishes or do orgasms just make h

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Commented on I'm a 21 year old college student, I just got a DUI and crashed my dad's car...I feel like a completely worthless piece of shit. This is the first real "bad" thing I've done and I'm not sure how to get over it....

Commented on Cary, please, please help me. I fell in love with a friend who doesn't feel the same way. For the past two years I've been fighting it but I can't stop. I'm active in my life but I don't get dates so what do I do to get over him? I love him so much. I'm t

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Commented on Cary, please, please help me. I fell in love with a friend who doesn't feel the same way. For the past two years I've been fighting it but I can't stop. I'm active in my life but I don't get dates so what do I do to get over him? I love him so much. I'm t

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Commented on What is your take on a separation to see if a marriage is salvageable? I want one, but my husband doesn't.

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Commented on Do most men realize that women's breasts are not identical? I mean, are they out telling their friends about a women they were with that had one breast larger than the other?

Commented on When we're fooling around in bed, why do guys always ask if I like their dick?

Commented on Dude. My girlfriend is mad at me for something I said to her in her dream...HELP.

Commented on Generally speaking, is it easy for a man to orgasm during oral sex? I gave my man a BJ two times and he came twice,i don't have any former experience so i don't know if he was faking it or not, but he did ejaculate...

Commented on You guys are all amazingly articulate at relating the 'guy's' take on life. I realize this is why you got this gig... but my question is... do you think are representative of guys between 15 - 50? Or are you an elite bunch of emotionally intelligent wri

Commented on My boyfriend didn't come to my birthday party. He didn't call or text that he wasn't coming =he wasn't dying,etc. Been together for over a year. We have a family cruise planned in one month. I'm breaking it off with him. Should I allow him to go since he

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Commented on My guy is constantly picking his nose (at home and in public) and it's driving me crazy! I'm not sure how to broach the subject without it being awkward or making him uncomfortable?

Commented on Boy meets Girl. Boy dumps Girl, but asks to be friends. Girl agrees. Boy starts dating New Girl. Girl is overcome with jealousy. Girl de-friends Boy because she realizes it's too much for her to handle. Boy is hurt and New Girl rips Girl a new one. Should

Commented on Wa- I'm a single mom and I've been seeing a really great guy for about two months. Problem is, my son and he have never met. I feel it's too soon for that. He however is insisting on meeting him now. How can I explain to him that I think it's too soon for

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Commented on I hear a lot of people say that girls can't be as funny as guys, or funny at all, just because they don't have that y chromosome... what is your opinion on this?

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Commented on Is it psycho to set up my guy to catch him cheating? I once created a fake online dating profile and confronted my then-BF when he responded to this "hot chick." He was pissed, broke up w/me. Okay to do it again with my new BF to see if he's committed?

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Commented on I need some good ol fashion wise-assery. Had an awesome first date. He seemed totally into in and having fun. When I got home I texted "had a great time lets do it again soon" and his response was "no problem". Did I misinterpret the interest and good tim

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Commented on I confess this was a bad prank, felt bad as soon as i pulled it. But I pranked my bf(who doesnt want kids)leaving a very believable message saying id been calling and that I was pregnant.I thought he'd freak out but he was calm and when I told him it was

Commented on What is your opinion on a guy giving a girl a facial? My boyfriend seems into it and I want to satisfy him but I also feel they're kinda gross and degrading. Help?

Commented on Wa- I'm a single mom and I've been seeing a really great guy for about two months. Problem is, my son and he have never met. I feel it's too soon for that. He however is insisting on meeting him now. How can I explain to him that I think it's too soon for

Commented on I have never broken up with anyone before, and I was wondering if you could give me some advice on how to do it kindly and cleanly. We were together for three years.

Commented on ♥♥♥ I am not sure which among you are dads (MM, GBff, WA and FG?), but HaPpY FaThErS' DaY! Just wanted to greet you all and say we truly appreciate you men. ♥♥♥

Commented on This guy I am dating just told me he has experimented with men but prefers women... so am I dating a gay guy?

Commented on I need a blunt answer. Is having arm hair a turnoff? I know a few girls who shave their arms... but it just kind of seems weird to me. I shave my legs and underarms and everywhere I'm supposed to, of course, just not my arms. Is it a big deal, or turnoff?

Commented on This guy I am dating just told me he has experimented with men but prefers women... so am I dating a gay guy?

Commented on The Scenario: When you're on a first or second or third date with a girl, do you prefer she say up front she isn't going to sleep with you, or would you rather she set boundaries in the heat of the moment? (note: she WANTS you ... she just wants to wait,

Commented on I have never broken up with anyone before, and I was wondering if you could give me some advice on how to do it kindly and cleanly. We were together for three years.

Commented on A guy told me he had always had a place for me I don't understand what it means.

Commented on My boyfriend calls me whore,slut,bitch,dyke an then says hes joking. Ive told him this hurts my feelings, and he'll stop for a few days and then he does it again. I dont know if I should stick around to see if he changes, or kick his ass to the curb. Advi

Commented on A guy I went out with once left me a voicemail one night around 9pm. Then he texted me five times the next day while I was at work. The texts went from asking me to go out again to things like "Did I say or do something to scare you off?!?" At what point

Commented on Do you believe in Karma? Like what goes around comes around? I dated this REALLY Bad guy and I feel like he deserves his. Do you think he will get it? (I won't be the one giving it to him btw!!! lol)

Commented on I know I can't make a man love me, but I'm so confused. I was dating this guy, and he told me that he loves spending time with me, it's the best sex he's ever had, that I'm hot as hell, that I am a great person, but there is something missing?I don't get

Commented on I don't shave my arms. They're not like gorilla hairy like, but there is quite some hair on them. It's thin and soft, but I overheard that guys think arm hair is a turn off. Should I just shave it all off?

Commented on Hi MM! My guy complains about his mothers' behaviour, but he does exactly the same things she does without knowing it! If the answer to his "issue" is smacking me in the face, can I tell him, or is that too shrinky?

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Commented on My boyfriend is a truly great guy whom I care about a lot, but I am not in love with him anymore. Does a not-so-painful way to break up with him exist? I think it's utterly wrong to go on like this, yet at the same time I hate the thought of hurting him.

Commented on I don't mind my man having accounts online, but why would he hide a myspace full of his ex's and his best friend, then denies it when i asked him about it?

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Commented on Dear Wise Ass, PLEASE answer my question. My dad passed away a while ago. I know it's none of my business but I really hate to see my mom lonely (they had a very good relationship). Is there a chance she could ever date again, even though she has five kid

Commented on My boyfriend frequently calls me "mom" and sometimes "sis"when we are having sex....your thoughts?

Commented on My boyfriend's little brother is smoking a lot of weed. Their dad provides it, and it's starting to affect little brother's schoolwork. My bf and I have been together a year--can I step in?

Commented on Father's Day is coming. My kid is 6 and her father and I have been divorced for 5 years. I have no problem helping her buy a little something for my partner, whom I have been with since the divorce, but I'm getting tired of buying crap for my ex. He has a

Commented on I'll be going on a few camping trips this summer. How do guys feel about girls in makeup while camping? Just maybe basic chapstick and mascara. I don't want to be *that* girl who obsesses over looking perfect while in the forest, but I also don't want to

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Commented on THE FIRST MOVE: can a girl make it or is it a nono? I feel like I've heard contradicting thoughts on this topic for forever and would like to hear your opinion and your reasoning behind it. Thanks Wise-Ass!

Commented on My boyfriend's penis smells really bad. I've tried hinting that he should clean it more often and even wash it for him when we shower together, but no luck. How do I get it to stop smelling?? It's a turn off.

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Commented on Would value your take on this Cary. How can I identify if a married man is flirting with me? He was v attentive & complimentary in a social setting & when the chat turned to love & life he mentioned going thru some soulsearching re: his personal life. If

Commented on I am married and seeing a close friend who is also married but in an open marriage. Her husband and son follow me on Facebook and now it's getting to be a little weird for me. I have had the best of all times with her sexually but, feel this is one that c

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Commented on My family is very conservative Christian. I hold to these same beliefs but I'm also the wild child...I'm living with my bf. I'm more than ok with my choice but I am frequently under attack by my family because they don't agree. How do I handle this? And h

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Commented on after an epic fight with my bf, i'm sure it's normal that i'm not fully back to "i love you" even once we've talked it out--esp since he did something pretty hurtful. i want to get over it, so will time make things go back to the way they were before? o

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Commented on My roommate won't stop having shower sex in the bathroom we share. I've spoken to her about it before and she promised me she won't do it again, but she keeps doing it, and I find it disgusting! How do I get her to stop?

Commented on My border masturbates soo loudly, I can hear his groans of pleasure in my upstairs bedroom. Last night he left his bedroom door open and I could hear the physical contact (slapping sounds). It is my home and he rents from me. What to do?

Commented on Should I be concerned if my boyfriend repeatedly comments on his ex-girlfriend's photos and statuses on Facebook?

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Commented on I have an older professional acquaintance who shamelessly hits on me. I want to keep the professional relationship but I need the flirting, hugging and jokes about us being "in an affair" to stop. How do I tell this much older man to stop without ruining

Commented on My border masturbates soo loudly, I can hear his groans of pleasure in my upstairs bedroom. Last night he left his bedroom door open and I could hear the physical contact (slapping sounds). It is my home and he rents from me. What to do?

Commented on I have an older professional acquaintance who shamelessly hits on me. I want to keep the professional relationship but I need the flirting, hugging and jokes about us being "in an affair" to stop. How do I tell this much older man to stop without ruining

Commented on My friend is completely hooked on a guy who uses her to pump his ego. I've told her he's just being a jerk, so have many others, and she seems to understand, yet he continues to have this power over her. Is there anything I can do? Maybe talk to the guy?

Commented on My family is very conservative Christian. I hold to these same beliefs but I'm also the wild child...I'm living with my bf. I'm more than ok with my choice but I am frequently under attack by my family because they don't agree. How do I handle this? And h

Commented on I love my boyfriend, but he says he's genuinely "in the mood" about once every other week. I'm ready to roll two or three times a week. Can this situation be saved? We're both frustrated and don't know what to do about it.

Commented on I'm almost 24...after sleeping with X amount of guys makes me a skank?

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Commented on My family is very conservative Christian. I hold to these same beliefs but I'm also the wild child...I'm living with my bf. I'm more than ok with my choice but I am frequently under attack by my family because they don't agree. How do I handle this? And h

Commented on I love my boyfriend, but he says he's genuinely "in the mood" about once every other week. I'm ready to roll two or three times a week. Can this situation be saved? We're both frustrated and don't know what to do about it.

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Commented on Attention please! How can i turn on a man who is 36,divorced while i'm 23.

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Commented on I cry a lot. I can't help it. I always have. I cry at sad movies, when I see something moving, in school (I've gotten teased a lot), even during church despite being agnostic. My bf knew this before we were together. But he says me crying disturbs him and

Commented on My boyfriend hasn't been to the dentist in years. His gums sometimes bleed and I'm worried they're infected. I've told him I'm worried about it, but he shrugs it off. I think he's embarrassed. How do I get him to go to

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Commented on I've been hooking up with this guy that I work with. We hang out, head to bed, have sex, and I usually leave while he's sleeping... Then at work the next morning, we act like nothing happened. We both don't want any attachment, so it should be good. But I

Commented on is there some thing wrong with me wanting to date a guy who is technicly stilll married and lives with his wife or ex even tho he claims there is no relationship between them they stay living together due to financial problems and because of there son , i

Commented on I cry a lot. I can't help it. I always have. I cry at sad movies, when I see something moving, in school (I've gotten teased a lot), even during church despite being agnostic. My bf knew this before we were together. But he says me crying disturbs him and

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Commented on My boyfriend is 38 and has only been in two relationships -- a brief one is high school and a one-year relationship with a single mom. I'm 25 and we've been together for over a year. Any reason to be wary about older men who have not had real relationship

Commented on I cry a lot. I can't help it. I always have. I cry at sad movies, when I see something moving, in school (I've gotten teased a lot), even during church despite being agnostic. My bf knew this before we were together. But he says me crying disturbs him and

Commented on Why hasn't my boyfriend introduced me to his parents yet? It's been four and a half months and pretty serious.

Commented on My roommates are messy and it's getting on my nerves. Whenever I bring it up, they pretty much say they don't care or that they're too busy, but I'M GOING CRAZY! I end up cleaning every night while they get to sleep. I'm stuck here b/c of my lease. I want

Commented on I'm almost 24...after sleeping with X amount of guys makes me a skank?

Commented on How do mean feel about really bad scars on a woman (like.. disfiguring body scars)? I asked this question several times with no response so I'm guess the answer is a bad one.

Commented on Help, W-A. My boss is almost twice my age, got the feeling he was into me, and my coworkers just told me he's "in love" with me. I was so wigged out I literally went under the table at the restaurant. We do NOT work. I feel uncomfortable with the thought

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Commented on How can I convince my parents that I need to see a therapist? My sister has had clinical depression for years, which makes my case almost negligible in my parents' eyes. However, I have been very down lately. I have no job and no friends, and I don't have

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Commented on Help! My boyfriend just lost his job. What can I do to make him feel better? Am I just supposed to be there for him or do I try to do something to help him? I am at a lost right now!

Commented on Help! Have you ever been with a girl who didnt like nipple play? My boyfriend tells me that he knows what women like and keeps going straight for my boobs, but I can barely feel it! And it just ends up seeming oedipal and odd. Every girl I talk to loves t

Commented on I kissed my ex's best friend after we'd broken up. It never went anywhere, in fact I was rudely snuffed. Now I'm back in contact and trying at friendship with my ex after a personal tragedy of his. Am I obligated to tell my ex what happened?

Commented on Ok so I know you will give me a no bs answer, Wise-Ass. Here goes: I think my guy friend of several years has feelings for me. He has never admitted it, but I just have that intuition. I either need to hear that he doesn't if he hasn't made a move and all

Commented on How long can you date a woman who is too old to marry (and whom you have told to her face that you will not marry her) without ruining her life by taking her final attractive (mid- and late-30s) years?>

Commented on i never believed in the whole "the worlds going to end in 2012" thing..but as its nearing and all of these disasters are happening, i find myself wondering..if theres 1 year to live shouldnt i be with the one i love?..the only problem is we broke up for a

Commented on How long can you date a woman who is too old to marry (and whom you have told to her face that you will not marry her) without ruining her life by taking her final attractive (mid- and late-30s) years?>

Commented on I want the hard truth. My perfect bf is friends with an ex, and when she visits from out of town 3-4 times a year, he drops everything (including me) to take her to dinner 2-3 times. I demanded he stop seeing her and it ended the relationship. We're both

Commented on How long can you date a woman who is too old to marry (and whom you have told to her face that you will not marry her) without ruining her life by taking her final attractive (mid- and late-30s) years?>

Commented on i never believed in the whole "the worlds going to end in 2012" thing..but as its nearing and all of these disasters are happening, i find myself wondering..if theres 1 year to live shouldnt i be with the one i love?..the only problem is we broke up for a

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Commented on Hello Wise-Ass, my bf's mom always compares him to his two brothers who went to college and have really high-paying jobs. My bf decided to be a mechanic and is really happy with that decision but she always puts him down and tells me I should find a bette

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Commented on my ex(who has a gf) texted me the other night telling me basically that he wanted to do me. when I said no, it seemed like he was really okay with that. Is it possible he was just seeing if I still wanted him and had no real interest in seeing me? and do

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Commented on An ex from two years ago recently tried to "be my friend again" even though I'm currently taken and live four states away. I told him I have no desire to stay in touch. He got pissy and told me I'd never learn anything in life if that's how I handle my p

Commented on I'm getting married very soon to the most wonderful man. I just have one very silly problem. I'm a virgin (I love Jesus!) and I'm wondering whether I should 'groom my nethers.' I've tried to bring it up with my man, but he was all like "eh." So, what sho

Commented on I've got a big problem. I have been dating my bf for 2 years, but the whole time I had lied to him about graduating college. He found out and wants me to move out. I want to work on things but can't convince him that two convos and ignoring each other is

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Commented on okay my boyfriend just proposed.. but weve always been long distance..weve never had normal couple things...like seeing eachother everyday, or going on dates..when we see eachother its purely sexual and just catching up..i know its no way to live, but it

Commented on Gimme a piece of your mind Wise-ass, my boyfriend of 1.5 years doesn't really show his appreciation to me. Its definitely not because I don't return the favor--plenty o' that. When I've brought it up in the past, it just resulted in an argument--no resolv

Commented on I don't know what my deal is, but it really freaks me out to have sex in the daytime or with the light on. This really gets on my boyfriend's nerves and when I turn down sex in these situations, he gets upset. I think I feel chubby and awkward... I've don

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Commented on Wise-Ass, give it to me straight! I've been single for 9 months after ending a 5-yr relationship. Not being with someone else is fine,but in that time I've not had even a date or a kiss. When in this dry spell should I start to be concerned? I wasnt expec

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Commented on If you get set up on a blind date (something you really hate and not requested) by one of your relatives, is there an obligation to be on your best behavior? Or is it okay to explain your situation (ex: not looking for a relationship) and leave early?

Commented on My boyfriend can cook and I can't. This just feels wrong. I mean, I love eating, I just couldn't make a decent meal to save my life. Is this a horrible girlfriend quality? How do I make up for this?

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Commented on He says he's a virgin....he's 25!! and a little too smooth at life to be a virgin in my eyes...he's still in college, getting his masters, plenty of sex everywere, and he means to tell me he's not getting any???! Is he telling the truth, or should I put u

Commented on what does a guy think of a average size girl that eats a lot? I will pig out on great food and candy. I love to eat. Is this a turn off for men? I never let my weight get out of hand, I am very active and have a good body, but when I pig out, what do you

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Commented on Is it all right for me to want to kiss and touch my man whenever i feel like it? This is my first serious relationship. I don't want to seem to clingy, but every time I see him my hormones come to life. I need some advice on this.

Commented on 100% serious, please dont make fun :( I'm super good about hygiene, almost to the point of obsessive, bit i'm always afraid to let a guy go down on me cause i think my butt will smell bad and that's a closely related area. do girls ever smell not pleasant

Commented on So after being with the same guy for 2 years and not getting a single gift for any holiday...I finally got one for vday this year! A WONDERFILE! Plus he was a half an hour late picking me up due 2 the fact he was hanging out with his friends. Should I be

Commented on Is it all right for me to want to kiss and touch my man whenever i feel like it? This is my first serious relationship. I don't want to seem to clingy, but every time I see him my hormones come to life. I need some advice on this.

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Commented on Mr. F. Guy - Sorry to be blunt but I just don't get this. Why do men like to eat pussy? Most of the guys I've dated went right there... once given the chance. Is there a real attraction to the thing or just a hope for like favors in return?

Commented on ever had a situation where you really love someone and don't want to cheat, but then that fat girl still gives the best head ever?

Commented on my boyfriend bought me a bouquet of half dead flowers from the grocery store and made me a box of potatoes for dinner. i'm serious, i'm eating them as i type. we are not rednecks. do i have a right to be pissed off for yet another underwhelming birthday w

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Commented on My question never gets answered but i really need this one. I recently broke up with my ex-bf for cheating on me but he continues to text/call me even though he is with a new girl. When i post a status on FB about guys I like, he texts me and cusses me ou

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Commented on What do men really think about working women with babies? I asked a friend of mine what he thought about it, and he said that any woman who works during the first year of the kid's life is fucked up :( Is that generally the consensus?

Commented on O Great Wise-Ass I have a Q 4 U. Guy & I've been dating 5yrs. Won't put me anywhere on Fbook (wants to keep that part of his life "private.") Never lets me see his phone & his txt inbox/outbox are always empty. He has no good answer for the txt thing. He

Commented on How do I know if a guy wants me for a playmate or potential partner? Guys are always thinking about sex, so what do I look for before I get intimate with a guy?

Commented on The girl I am in love with has only had sex with one guy in her life. He cheated on her, and contracted herpes. Which she now has. I'm happy she told me, but how should I feel?

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Commented on What do men really think about working women with babies? I asked a friend of mine what he thought about it, and he said that any woman who works during the first year of the kid's life is fucked up :( Is that generally the consensus?

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Commented on The past 3 guys I dated all have done this: suggested I date their best friend. They each mentioned that their best friend likes me and may be a good fit for me. Am I picking the wrong dude in the crew or are they tryna play pass the chick??

Commented on My boyfriend's penis smells really bad. I've tried hinting that he should clean it more often and even wash it for him when we shower together, but no luck. How do I get it to stop smelling?? It's a turn off.

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Commented on My boyfriend's penis smells really bad. I've tried hinting that he should clean it more often and even wash it for him when we shower together, but no luck. How do I get it to stop smelling?? It's a turn off.

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Commented on My boyfriend's penis smells really bad. I've tried hinting that he should clean it more often and even wash it for him when we shower together, but no luck. How do I get it to stop smelling?? It's a turn off.

Commented on The past 3 guys I dated all have done this: suggested I date their best friend. They each mentioned that their best friend likes me and may be a good fit for me. Am I picking the wrong dude in the crew or are they tryna play pass the chick??

Commented on I met this guy through friends at my church. I could tell he was interested. I found him on facebook through my friends pages, should I add him? Or would he think that's creepy?

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Commented on My boyfriend's penis smells really bad. I've tried hinting that he should clean it more often and even wash it for him when we shower together, but no luck. How do I get it to stop smelling?? It's a turn off.

Commented on If a woman keeps being there for a guy, keeps being a true friend to him, treating him well, helping him through catastrophes, smiling while dying inside when he dates other girls...do you think that one day he'll eventually figure out how much you love h

Commented on my sons biological father just came into the picture after 12 years after not ever being around, and my husband has raised my son since he was 18 months old, and my husband doesn't want the biological father to be a part of my sons life,. and on top of t

Commented on my bf hit me. slapped and punched me a few times and then stopped and started to cry. i would tell anyone else to leave this relationship but my friends all say "the rules are different if your gay"; some say i should stay. i don't know waht to do though.

Commented on What do you do when your boyfriend's whole family hates you but you've been with him for over two years?

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Commented on I'm a virgin but my boyfriend isn't and that really bothers me. We've talked about it a few times and it definitely helped, but I still can't get over the pain of imagining him with her. Any advice? (And please don't tell me to just sleep with him because

Commented on My bff's current boyfriend is always over at our apt and they're always snuggling/making dinner/having sex. I'm single and I miss hanging out w/her. I resent her dependency on him and that I'm a third wheel in my own apt. Am I being a jealous bitch? I fee

Commented on My boyfriend just told me that I'm "getting fat and cottage-cheesy" and need to work out more. I'm 5'7" and have never weighed over 125 lbs in my life. Is this a dump-able offense?

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Commented on Is it too desperate if I mail him? I asked him out, he said yes, I said I couldn't on this and that day but am free otherwise. No response. It's been 3 days and I'm going on holiday soon. Can I mail him to ask him what's going on?

Commented on My guys says I often put him on the defensive when I talk to him about something that is bothering me. I don't do it intentionally nor do I realize I am doing it. Is this a ploy to make me feel bad? If not, how do I reform my horrible ways?

Commented on A large majority of the guys I've hooked up with like to suck on my nipples when we're hooking up. While I definitely enjoy it, there's something disturbingly Oedipal about it. Am I overanalyzing? Do guys do this simply because they love breasts?

Commented on My bf is perfect, except he has never taken me out to eat, has never offered to pay for anything, and never gives me things. I always give him gifts and would LOVE if he would just OFFER to pay or give me small gifts. Help me?

Commented on Do you get paid to give out advice? Or are you really generous and volunteer your time for free? Or say things woman would LIKE to read?

Commented on My bf is perfect. But a slight problem: he has never taken me out to eat (anywhere), has never offered to pay for anything (ever), and never gives me things. I always give him gifts and would LOVE if he would just once just OFFER to pay (not actually pay,

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Commented on My bf is perfect, except he has never taken me out to eat, has never offered to pay for anything, and never gives me things. I always give him gifts and would LOVE if he would just OFFER to pay or give me small gifts. Help me?

Commented on My bf is perfect. But a slight problem: he has never taken me out to eat (anywhere), has never offered to pay for anything (ever), and never gives me things. I always give him gifts and would LOVE if he would just once just OFFER to pay (not actually pay,

Commented on I couldn't get pregnant after a year of trying. I assumed that something was wrong with me and apologized to my husband many times. Today he told me he is sterile and has known for years. How do I forgive him for letting me worry and feel guilty so long?

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Commented on For some reason, you're asshole attitude makes you a total candidate for a one night stand (and that's it.) Wanna fuck?

Commented on My boyfriend and I are discussing marriage. I want to keep my name, but he says he's unwilling to marry someone who 'rejects' his name. I love mine, it's part of who I am. I am adamant about not changing it. Hyphenated won't work. How can we resolve this?

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Commented on How can I make my husband shower after work? He works up to 13 hours but will only take a shower in the morning. I have tried complimenting him when he smells nice, and even bitching about it. HELP!!! I am sick of washing the sheets every other day.

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Commented on How can I make my husband shower after work? He works up to 13 hours but will only take a shower in the morning. I have tried complimenting him when he smells nice, and even bitching about it. HELP!!! I am sick of washing the sheets every other day.

Commented on My guy hates when I put makeup on and when I have cleavage. What does that mean?

Commented on My guy friend and I drunkenly made out last week. Problem: He has a girlfriend of 2.5 years. I know he loves her and I don't have feelings for him, but now he won't return my texts. Why? What should I do? I'd like us to stay friends.

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Commented on Dear Mystery Man- how do you not assume that every single girl in the world is an absolute psycho? (or do you|?) You have to admit, this site gets some pretty awesomely psychotic female questions......

Commented on For his birthday/Christmas (within two days of each other) is it okay to combine gifts? Would a scrapbook of pictures/memories of us be a good idea, or too corny?

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Commented on Ok Wise Ass, I need your help. In ANY universe, if you date your really good friend of many years for several months, is it EVER casual? He dumped me out of the blue claiming it was casual. I disagree, but maybe I'm blind.

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Commented on hello mystery man. i need help. what do you do in manipulative relationships? like the guy threatens to kill himself if you don't get back together with him, etc? thanks!

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Commented on Why do you guys answer questions from people who are obviously trolling, stupid, and/or drunk? I've submitted a couple of decent, sincere questions and haven't seen anything similar answered for months back in the archives; meanwhile, answer space is dedi

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Commented on I need a blunt answer. Is having arm hair a turnoff? I know a few girls who shave their arms... but it just kind of seems weird to me. I shave my legs and underarms and everywhere I'm supposed to, of course, just not my arms. Is it a big deal, or turnoff?

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Commented on Mom of 2 girls, my bf of a year adores my 6yo but can't stand my 13yo, who's cheeky and took a dvd from his home without asking. How do I get these two to become friends? It stresses me out--he won't have her in his house! I feel like I have to choose.

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Commented on This probably sounds ridiculous but here goes. I'm scared of men. It scares me that they're bigger and stronger than I am, and can easily overpower or hurt me if they wanted to. I've never been abused or anything, so whats wrong with me?

Commented on I am not in favor of my brother's current girlfriend, but he seems to think it's okay to invite her to family gatherings. Should I tell him upfront or just back off?

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Commented on Can you give up a guy secret? How do you know if a man's checking out your cleavage? Not the teenage boy stare, but the more subtle ways?

Commented on Why, when frustrated by work, school, money, etc., will a guy take it out on his girlfriend? When confronted he'll apologize, but a week later does the SAME thing?! If you apologize and see you're wrong, shouldn't you CHANGE?

Commented on This probably sounds ridiculous but here goes. I'm scared of men. It scares me that they're bigger and stronger than I am, and can easily overpower or hurt me if they wanted to. I've never been abused or anything, so whats wrong with me?

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Commented on I have an STD and started taking antibiotics, which were prescribed for my bf, too, but he refuses to take them. Says "Why should I bear responsibility for your mistakes?" and "I don't have symptoms--it's gone." I can get reinfected! What should I do?

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Commented on Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?

Commented on My wife is pregnant and wants me with her during the delivery, but I don't know if I can handle it. I don't pass out at the sight of blood, but I can't stand seeing her in so much pain. My heart aches when she has a simple cold. What should I do?

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Commented on On Sunday, my boyfriend and I were heavy petting on the sofa while the football game was on. As I reached for the condom, he asked "How do you want it?" I replied with, "Reverse cowgirl so you can watch the game, silly!" No question here, just wanted so

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Commented on I am seeking your awesome music matching skills Nick! I am getting married to an awesome guy, but we are having trouble finding the right kind of music to play for the recessional part of the ceremony (after the kiss). I suggested "Wouldn't It Be Nice" bu

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Commented on Whenever you see an attractive person, do you find yourself thinking about being with them instead of who you're with now or do you simply think that they are attractive? In other words, is it a bad sign if I'm daydreaming of other guys instead of my bf?

Commented on Even after years of marriage does the novelty of the breast wear off? Do you get tired of looking at your wife's same ol' breast after years of marriage?

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Commented on Is it pointless to date someone who you know you won't marry, but you still enjoy their company, want to get to know them more, and are attracted to them? (and lets pretend for arguments sake that it is an absolute definite that you won't ever marry this

Commented on Wise-Ass, can you kick me in the butt for not being able to get over my player? He's now moved to Las Vegas (Player Paradise?), and he's wrong for me for so many reasons.

Commented on Is it pointless to date someone who you know you won't marry, but you still enjoy their company, want to get to know them more, and are attracted to them? (and lets pretend for arguments sake that it is an absolute definite that you won't ever marry this

Commented on I'm in college and I feel like everyone is telling me to 'enjoy my years of freedom' and hook up and have sex all the time, and 'make the most of it'. Is it wrong that I just don't want to have sex all over the place just because I can?

Commented on My boyfriend brags to his friends in front of me that I give excellent blowjobs. I have confronted him about this and he says im only joking. Am i being oversensitive???? I find these sort of remarks juvenile and degrading.

Commented on Have all you Guys actually met each other, or do you just read and answer questions from home, instead of at some 'Guyspeak HQ?'

Commented on My mom wants to move in with my boyfriend and me because she says she can't find a job. We both get along ok with her, but I would prefer that she get a place of her own. I worry that it will affect my relationship in a negative way. Thoughts please?

Commented on My male friend has a new girlfriend and he wants me to stop calling him and he will call me instead at the end of the week.

Commented on My boyfriend's best friend recently made a pass at me, suggested I sleep with him and not tell my boyfriend. Should I tell my boyfriend or let it be? They have been best friends for 8 years and I've only been dating my guy 7 months.

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Commented on He e-mails his ex that I (his new gf) am perfect for him and he recognizes good in me he wouldn't have noticed if not for their relationship. He told her he's a changed man and better boyfriend because of her. Why does he feel the need to tell her this?

Commented on What do you think when you see a modestly dressed Jewish woman who has a beautiful face? Do you think she is sexy or will you not even give her a second glance just because she is Jewish?

Commented on I told him I didn't love him. He's hurt. I'm hurt. But it's true. What now?

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Commented on I can't climax with penetration only. During sex, when my bf is 'done', we're done. He won't pleasure me because, as he put it, "women are too complicated and it's too hard to get them to climax." What's the deal and how do I get him to want to do that?

Commented on I do Ironman triathlons, own my house, have a great career but am single at 33. I realize there could be other reasons I am single but could it be that men intimidated by my success and athleticism?

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Commented on My friend keeps making jokes around our guy friends about me being a slut. I do wear more cleavage-y clothes than her but I'm not a slut. I know she's just joking but I don't like it. How do I get her to stop?

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Commented on How come advice and literature about men assumes they are horny, sex-crazed, one-track-minded people? I've known men who don't masturbate or talk sex all the time. Where is the advice to deal with these guys?

Commented on Is it normal to not have much to talk about after three months of dating? I'm getting a little tired of the awkward silences my boyfriend and I keep falling into...

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Commented on My boyfriend keeps asking me if i think he's big. Honestly, he isn't the most well-endowed guy ever, and I know better than to say THAT, but I'm a horrible liar. What's the best way to answer him in the future?

Commented on Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?

Commented on My fiance makes me feel old with comments about our age difference (I'm 31, he's 26). Today he found a gray hair and said, "I'm getting old -- just like you." I think it's rude and hurtful. He thinks I'm oversensitive. Insight?

Commented on How fat is too fat to wear a bikini? I'm about 20 pounds overweight and have some small love handles. My bf says i look fine but i feel like people are staring. How big can we be until people think that it's gross?

Commented on My fiance makes me feel old with comments about our age difference (I'm 31, he's 26). Today he found a gray hair and said, "I'm getting old -- just like you." I think it's rude and hurtful. He thinks I'm oversensitive. Insight?

Commented on The guy I'm currently seeing always gets hard during our goodbye kiss. I feel bad leaving him there all horny, without "a happy ending," but I feel like it's too early to do anything sexual. Is this mean?

Commented on Is it ok for a girl to wait for her man while he is in prison?

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Commented on we were at the mall and my bf went to order food from arbys and didn't even offer me anything. then he just sat there and ate it in front of me

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Commented on My husband says he doesn't ever think about another women naked ....Is that true???

Commented on Are guys disgusted with arm/leg/under arm hair?

Commented on How do guys feel about women's labia minora? Do they want them small, big? Many women are getting the surgery done, because they think that men prefer them small.

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Commented on My on-again, off-again boyfriend of three years owes me $2000 but refuses to talk about it. I have asked every way possible but he just ignores me. Does it make him feel powerful to do that? I don't understand how he can just ignore me when I helped him.

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Commented on Do you really believe in "Once a cheater always a cheater?" My boyfriend cheated on both of his ex girlfriends but swears he would never cheat on me. I am weary but I trust him, will I eventually get my feelings hurt?

Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?

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Commented on Do you have any advice for how to manage an alpha-male-type employee who is upset a female colleague (me) got promoted into a supervisory position over him?

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Commented on What do you think about polygamous relationships? Would this type of relationship work better for guys than monogamous ones since they're always cheating??

Commented on I'm 33 & have never let a guy climax in my mouth. Spit or swallow? Fugetaboutit! The very idea makes me sick. No guy I've dated has ever requested I do it, but my male BFF says it could be a dating deal-breaker. Do you agree?

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Commented on What is it with men not looking me in the eye when I'm talking to them? Really, what I'm asking here, Wise-Ass, is for you to explain men's seemingly primal fascination with breasts.

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Commented on I love my bf so much. We've been through such highs & lows and are stronger than ever. We can both see a future together but I just want to be single for a while (we're 22). How can I explain this without breaking his heart & ruining hope of reconnecting?

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Commented on My boyfriend constantly talks about other girls he finds attractive and he describes the things he wants to do with them. Will he cheat on me?

Commented on My boss is constantly making lewd jokes about women who come into the store. I guess he tells me because I'm the only one in earshot, but it's obnoxious. I've told him to stop and he just says I'm being too sensitive. How do I get him to shut up?

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Commented on At what point in a relationship would you seek outside help? My on-again-off-again boyfriend wants to be on again. I think we should see a counselor to sort out our obvious problems, but he doesn't. I just want the cycle to end. Am I being unreasonable?

Commented on What's your opinion of a 28 year old man who wants his parents to decide as to who he should be with?

Commented on I love your advice! Please help me! I cheated and am completely and deeply sorry. It made me learn a lot about myself and recognize what I need to work on. What is the best way to attempt to get my guy back?

Commented on I have extremely large nipples, and feel like they make my DD breasts look weird. I am only 20, and very self conscious about my chest appearing saggy. Do guys care about nipple size?

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Commented on I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?

Commented on I just found out my boyfriend e-mailed a naked pic he had taken of me to his friend. He claims it was an accident and he meant to send another pic. What should I do? He got offended when I told him he's full of shit.

Commented on I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?

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Commented on A friend of mine is always whining about how no girls like him, usually followed by him asking me out. I can never tell if he's joking, but I don't like him, so I say no. He then says he's joking, but DOES seem sort of upset. Is he really asking me out?

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Commented on We've all heard that guys don't see a girl's flaws, but how can you not? I cringe when my guy rubs his hands over my flabby stomach and back fat! What goes through his mind? He can't be thinking, "mm, yeah." I'm not stupid. I just want the truth!

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Commented on A friend of mine is always whining about how no girls like him, usually followed by him asking me out. I can never tell if he's joking, but I don't like him, so I say no. He then says he's joking, but DOES seem sort of upset. Is he really asking me out?

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Commented on I have been dating an older man. Sometimes he will get upset at me and say very mean things, like how he's having sex with other women and they are prettier than me, etc. Then two days later he will say I am the love of his life. What gives?

Commented on there is this guy that i like and i mean really really like..he is married..but i still like him alot. he doesn't know that i like him but he has told some of my friends that if he could he would have me. usually i would be against this kind of stuff but

Commented on I screwed up by telling my boyfriend to 'just go away'. I was annoyed with his behavior that day. Now, he will not speak to me, text me back, answer my calls, nothing. What do I do?

Commented on I've been on a few dates with a guy and I really like him. The problem is, he's a pretty terrible kisser and it worries me that maybe it means he's bad at other things, too. Should I just move on?

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Commented on I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. (I'm not unattractive, and I'm in pretty good shape.) What am I doing wrong?

Commented on Do guys really care what girls look like "down there?" I don't mean in regards to waxing or shaving, but things that can't be changed without vagina surgery.

Commented on I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. (I'm not unattractive, and I'm in pretty good shape.) What am I doing wrong?

Commented on My bf said he likes rougher sex, so we tried it and I've never seen him so turned on. Problem: It was scary. I was bruised and queasy afterward. He apologized but I feel uncomfortable with him now. Should I let it go or is this a sign of something else?

Commented on How come advice and literature about men assumes they are horny, sex-crazed, one-track-minded people? I've known men who don't masturbate or talk sex all the time. Where is the advice to deal with these guys?

Commented on Is "I'm not looking for anything serious" code for: I don't want to see you any more, or I want to take things slow?

Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?

Commented on I messed around with a SUPER drunk guy. He got it up but couldn't get off no matter what! Was it because of me or the drinks?

Commented on I gave him some oral services and he hasn't called or texted since...have i been officially dumped? Should i call to verify?

Commented on I recently broke up with my bf, but we've stayed good friends. However, when I text him stuff like, "So glad we're friends," "You're an incredible person," "I care so much about you; I want you to be happy," his only reply is a smiley face. WTF?!

Commented on My boyfriend keeps asking me if i think he's big. Honestly, he isn't the most well-endowed guy ever, and I know better than to say THAT, but I'm a horrible liar. What's the best way to answer him in the future?

Commented on O Great Wise-Ass, I am a freshman in college and a virgin. I've been intimate with guys before, just haven't lost the big V. I'm thinking I should just get it over with, since I'm not necessarily waiting until marriage, but I'm not sure. Advice?

Commented on Hey Cary, I'm a single mom. My son is 6 years old and I really want to date but find that I'm blocked. I don't want to parade a bunch of men in and out of my sons life. How do I go about the dating scene with a young child in tow?

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Commented on My husband of 43 years says he only has to be accountable to God. What is your take on this?

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Commented on If a guy tells you he wants a "committed, yet casual and exclusive relationship" what does that mean?

Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?

Commented on My husband is not my children's father and he treats them like they are the worst kids on the planet. He fusses at them constantly and it's getting old. We broke up once because of it and he promised to do better. I love him very much, any advice?

Commented on Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?

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Commented on I'm a 43 year old single mother of two. I've been dating this guy for 15 months and we have not gone out for dinner, movies, bowling, nothing except sex. Should I dump him or hold on?

Commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?

Commented on So, since this is a site for women, how do we know you're not just telling us what we want to hear? Would you hold the same views, say, if this were Men.com?

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Commented on My boss is constantly making lewd jokes about women who come into the store. I guess he tells me because I'm the only one in earshot, but it's obnoxious. I've told him to stop and he just says I'm being too sensitive. How do I get him to shut up?

Commented on After the first date, is it bad if a gal calls up to three times to ask him out on another? Each call would be spaced out about every two or three days and would have a voice message,

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Commented on I was with a guy for two years. Towards the end of the relationship, I cheated on him because I felt like he wasn't there for me, at all. When he found out, we broke up, and he wanted absolutely nothing to do with me, even when I apologized and begged for

Commented on I have been married 20 years, and my husband does not satisfy me in bed. I've tried everything to help him -- books, porn, telling him what I like. Nothing works. He says I satisfy him fully. What else can I do?

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Commented on I've cheated on my spouse three times in our relationship. Now he wants to punish me by having a threesome with one of my friends. Is that fair?

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Commented on Hey Cary! I would love to hear your view on this. I used to be really heavy and recently lost forty pounds. But I still have a bit of a tummy and my boyfriend constantly teases me about it. He says he is only joking but I'm not so sure. What do you think?

Commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?

Commented on Hey Cary! I would love to hear your view on this. I used to be really heavy and recently lost forty pounds. But I still have a bit of a tummy and my boyfriend constantly teases me about it. He says he is only joking but I'm not so sure. What do you think?

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Commented on Hi Cary! At what point in a relationship should one reveal mental issues -- that are completely controlled by medication -- like bipolar disorder? I don't want someone to feel ambushed but I also don't want to be shut down before they get to know me.

Commented on My boyfriend got mad at me because I go tanning,he thinks I'm killing myself, and is now furious with me and is holding a grudge. What can I do to make it up to him? Or at least get him to talk to me?

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Commented on I want/need anal in our sex life. My boyfriend will not go there. Is it a lost cause he will come around?

Commented on Do men find it attractive when a woman masturbates? Not necessarily in front of them, but just in general?

Commented on I've recently met a guy who's PERFECT for me! He's easy to talk to, funny and treats me well. The catch? I'm not physically attracted to him. There's no "spark" for me. Should I hang in there and hope it changes? Or would it have already happened by now?

Commented on I recently met a rich guy who keeps offering to buy me stuff, from groceries to larger items. I'm not a girl who's looking for a dude to pay her bills. Should I be saying yes or no to his offers? I don't want him to think that's all I want him for.

Commented on When having sex, and a girl tells you exactly what they want, whats your reaction?

Commented on Are large nipples a turn-off to guys? How common are large nipples in women?

Commented on I recently met a rich guy who keeps offering to buy me stuff, from groceries to larger items. I'm not a girl who's looking for a dude to pay her bills. Should I be saying yes or no to his offers? I don't want him to think that's all I want him for.

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Commented on My husband of 43 years says he only has to be accountable to God. What is your take on this?

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Commented on When and how do I tell my husband that I think he drinks too much, again?

Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?

Commented on I'm pregnant &, although it wasn't planned, I couldn't be happier. My husband is still in shock & says he doesn't want to come to the baby shower... but it would mean a lot to me if he came. How do I make that clear?

Commented on What are your views on a woman with stretch marks?

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Commented on My boyfriend lives in a group foster home. I want to ask him why he's living there but I don't want to be rude. Please keep in mind he's 14 and I'm 13. Thanks.

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Commented on What would possibly possess a guy to say, "I love you but can't do anything about it"? No, he isn't married or in another relationship. Is he simply afraid to commit? What a weirdo!

Commented on I found gay porn under my boyfriend's bed. I'm really afraid of confronting him about it. What should I do??

Commented on I need a blunt and truthful answer, and I know you will deliver beautifully. Why would an ex tell me he wanted me in his life and to contact him but then ignore me?

Commented on Would it bother most guys if a woman had one breast a cup size smaller than the other?

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Commented on Dear John, I am getting married soon and I am virgin and never been more than... half naked with a guy. How can I be sexy for husband on our wedding night?

Commented on What does it mean if a guy constantly has to check up on you all the time? Checking cell phone, reading journal, calling to make sure I am where I said I was going to be... that sort of thing.

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Commented on Is it odd of me to be concerned that my boyfriend's favorite book is Catcher in the Rye (and only references that one book...he hasn't read anything else by Salinger)? I don't believe he's going to shoot John Lennon or anything.

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Commented on From a guy's perspective, what style of jeans look best on most girls? ie boot cut, skinny jeans, etc

Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?

Commented on Oh, most highly exalted, breathtakingly charming Wise-Ass, do you believe a woman's hair can be too long? If so, at what point?

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Commented on Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him.

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Commented on Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him.

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Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?

Commented on My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but I absolutely HATE it. We've tried it before and he knows I don't like it, but he still tries anyway and gets mad when I refuse. Is this weird? How do I make him stop trying?

Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?

Commented on My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but I absolutely HATE it. We've tried it before and he knows I don't like it, but he still tries anyway and gets mad when I refuse. Is this weird? How do I make him stop trying?

Commented on How do I tell my ex-boyfriend that I don't ever want (or need) to talk to him again? I am just done!

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Commented on I asked my husband if he thinks about other hotter women when we have sex.....he said no....is he lying?

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Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?

Commented on I absolutely HATE giving blowjobs. I feel like they are so humiliating and I am completely self-conscious when I try to do it. Is this a total deal breaker for a guy?

Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?

Commented on How do I know that my husband of 11 years (together 15 years) still thinks that I'm hot and beautiful? I feel like he's just going through the motions and only says nice things because he feels obligated.

Commented on Why does is seem like all men have a former girlfriend in the their lives as a "best friend"? I find this ridiculous. How can a guy have such a close friendship with someone he's been in a relationship with and not have romantic feelings for her?

Commented on My boyfriend's mother is kind of a cold fish. I'd really like to get to know her better, but she's extremely intimidating and not very welcoming. Plus I think she still loves my guy's ex-fiancee. What can I do to get to her to like me?

Commented on I absolutely HATE giving blowjobs. I feel like they are so humiliating and I am completely self-conscious when I try to do it. Is this a total deal breaker for a guy?

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Commented on You blogged about "11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack." How about the flip side? What are some surefire turn-ons?

Commented on What is it with men not looking me in the eye when I'm talking to them? Really, what I'm asking here, Wise-Ass, is for you to explain men's seemingly primal fascination with breasts.

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Commented on Do you care what type of car a woman drives? Would you approach a woman in a mini-van?

Commented on My boyfriend doesn't dig phone sex. I suggest it, ask for it, and have tried to start it, but he's never interested. We only see each other twice a week. I need it. How can I help him find interest?

Commented on My husband is always driving and texting. He will not stop... even when our kids are in the car. It scares me. How do I get my message across?

Commented on I want to break up with him leaving him feeling he broke up with me. Without blowjobs, please! How do I do it?

Commented on If you're dating a girl you really like, and she tells you she wants to wait until after she's married to have sex, is that an automatic deal breaker for you?

Commented on My boyfriend doesn't dig phone sex. I suggest it, ask for it, and have tried to start it, but he's never interested. We only see each other twice a week. I need it. How can I help him find interest?

Commented on So this girl [friend of a friend] emailed me and wants to "get some coffee and catch up." Thing is, I don't really know her. She's seen my rock band once years ago, and I've helped her with college grants [my job], but that's it. Feels awkward.

Commented on Why is it that every eligible guy I meet takes one look at me and sees friend? I'm attractive, fun to be around. I love to laugh. I love baseball not football. I'm not demanding or overbearing. I'm easygoing. What's not to like?

Commented on I met a guy. He's intensely into me in a way I've never experienced. He is fresh off a horrible breakup from a 5 year relationship where they were living together. We clicked instantly but I can tell he's not ready to get involved. What do I do?

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Commented on Why do guys tune us out - do we sound like the adults on the Charlie Brown cartoons? Sometimes there's real info in there!

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Commented on Do guys really prefer it all shaven off down there? What is too much/too little?

Commented on I want to apologize to an ex I left during at her lowest. Problem is, it's been 8 years, and we haven't talked since. Should I just leave this in the past, or try and "clear the air" so to speak?

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Commented on Do guys really prefer it all shaven off down there? What is too much/too little?

Commented on Is CNN The New Jerry Springer?

Commented on What is your opinion of older women dating younger men, and is there an age a 45 year old women should not considering dating?

Commented on I've been dating this guy for going on 6 months. I do everything girlfriend like - meeting his family, talking on the phone every night, spending free time together, but he has yet to call me his girlfriend. He says its coming, be patient. What gives?

Commented on Why do all the men I've been with love vacation sex so very very much? What's the huge appeal? Why are they better in bed in another city? And why does it have to been done AS SOON as my bags are placed on the floor of the hotel room?

Commented on I've been dating a guy for a few weeks but find he'd rather text me than call. It's really annoying. I've told him I prefer he'd call so we can chat and get to know each other over the phone, but he seems more comfortable typing. What the hell?

Commented on I've been married for years, but my husband believes that flatulent emissions should never be shared. I've practically jumped from a moving vehicle so as not to pass gas in front of him. Am I wrong to think this is crazy?

Commented on The best sex I've ever had is with a guy who (years later) is now in a serious monogamous relationship. We're still good friends, but we never talk about our sexual past. Would it be wrong of me to let him know that he's still the best in my book?

Commented on What would be your ideal first date? I've got a date with a self-proclaimed geek this week and I really want to show him that deep down, I'm a geek too.

Commented on The best sex I've ever had is with a guy who (years later) is now in a serious monogamous relationship. We're still good friends, but we never talk about our sexual past. Would it be wrong of me to let him know that he's still the best in my book?

Commented on Where are all the good men hiding? I live in NYC and they're definitely not here. They're either married, gay or both and have too many options available to them in this city.

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Commented on Are guys really okay with girls asking them out? Is that a turn-on or do you think a girl should wait for the guy to make the first move?

Commented on My stepsister, a college freshman, met a guy and they studied together once, but she's not interested. Now he won't leave her alone -- calls, shows up at her house, sends angry texts. She asked him to back off, but he hasn't. What should she do?

Commented on What do you think is the best way for couples to share household duties? For example, are some tasks better suited to one gender or the other? Do you feel that there are any chores that, although a woman is capable of doing them, a man should do them?

Commented on Why are men such annoying babies when they get sick? Seriously, after 20 years together, I would gladly suffer a full-out case of H1N1 if it meant I could avoid putting up with my husband having the sniffles for a day or two.

Commented on Why is it that guys seem much more responsive when I tell them I work at Express versus when I tell them I'm a lawyer? I want to be honest, but it seems like the info is intimidating ...

Commented on How can I tell my boyfriend (nicely) that sometimes, I just wish he would be more of the MAN in our relationship and take the lead. I'm in charge a lot at work and I'd like to follow his lead once in a while, if he would just do some leading...

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Commented on What do you think is the best way for couples to share household duties? For example, are some tasks better suited to one gender or the other? Do you feel that there are any chores that, although a woman is capable of doing them, a man should do them?

Commented on What exactly do guys do with "the sock"?

Commented on My husband swears all the time. I'm concerned because our 3 year old yelled out our window last night, "That f**king guy is making too much f**king noise!" He said it was my fault for reacting. What should I do?

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