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• Commented on My mom wants to move in with my boyfriend and me because she says she can't find a job. We both get along ok with her, but I would prefer that she get a place of her own. I worry that it will affect my relationship in a negative way. Thoughts please?
• Answered the question “My mom wants to move in with my boyfriend and me because she says she can't find a job. We both get along ok with her, but I would prefer that she get a place of her own. I worry that it will affect my relationship in a negative way. Thoughts please?”
• Answered the question “I'm constantly getting heartbroken and everyone tells me to "get over it" or "let it go" ... which is easy to say and hard to do. How do you actually move on?”
• Answered the question “He broke up with me countless times because he does'nt want a 'ball and chain', 'to go with the flow', yet he keeps coming back. What gives!”
• Answered the question “This is probably a stupid question but my fiance will be moving into my place on Saturday and I'm a little nervous. I've never lived with a boyfriend before. Any words of advice so I can make this transition as smooth as possible for both of us?”
• Answered the question “I know you receive many a question about guys disappearing on girls. I'm more concerned with closure - is it reasonable to ask him the reason(s) behind his Houdini act? I'm debating whether I should send the schmuck a "what gives?" email or just move on.”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend fell asleep while i was giving him head last night. Is this somewhat normal? He drank alot. but i'm just worried i suck/it was boring. I was offended but usually people tell me i give good head. Should i apologize for getting so mad at him?”
• Commented on My male friend has a new girlfriend and he wants me to stop calling him and he will call me instead at the end of the week.
• Answered the question “My male friend has a new girlfriend and he wants me to stop calling him and he will call me instead at the end of the week.”
• Commented on My boyfriend's best friend recently made a pass at me, suggested I sleep with him and not tell my boyfriend. Should I tell my boyfriend or let it be? They have been best friends for 8 years and I've only been dating my guy 7 months.
• Answered the question “My boyfriend's best friend recently made a pass at me, suggested I sleep with him and not tell my boyfriend. Should I tell my boyfriend or let it be? They have been best friends for 8 years and I've only been dating my guy 7 months.”
• Commented on should i confront my husband about catching him masterbating he dont know that i see him do it
• Commented on He e-mails his ex that I (his new gf) am perfect for him and he recognizes good in me he wouldn't have noticed if not for their relationship. He told her he's a changed man and better boyfriend because of her. Why does he feel the need to tell her this?
• Answered the question “should i confront my husband about catching him masterbating he dont know that i see him do it”
• Answered the question “He e-mails his ex that I (his new gf) am perfect for him and he recognizes good in me he wouldn't have noticed if not for their relationship. He told her he's a changed man and better boyfriend because of her. Why does he feel the need to tell her this?”
• Answered the question “I've been hooking up with this guy for about four months. We don't see each other often, but the past few times together he's been more affectionate towards me. How can I tell if he is really beginning to have more interest in me other than just sex?”
• Posted Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 9 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on What do you think when you see a modestly dressed Jewish woman who has a beautiful face? Do you think she is sexy or will you not even give her a second glance just because she is Jewish?
• Answered the question “What do you think when you see a modestly dressed Jewish woman who has a beautiful face? Do you think she is sexy or will you not even give her a second glance just because she is Jewish?”
• Answered the question “O Great Wise-Ass, my boyfriend is shy and doesn't seem very comfortable with much pda. How should I go about trying to get him to be a little more affectionate in public?”
• Commented on I told him I didn't love him. He's hurt. I'm hurt. But it's true. What now?
• Commented on I live in Alaska and do not live in an igloo. Alaska chicks rock!
• Commented on I live in Alaska and do not live in an igloo. Alaska chicks rock!
• Answered the question “I went on a bad date with this guy I work with. He keeps asking me to hang out again. I feel bad so i keep agreeing. How do i get him to back off with hurting his feelings?”
• Answered the question “I live in Alaska and do not live in an igloo. Alaska chicks rock!”
• Answered the question “Is no sex a deal-breaker? I'm religious and take sex really seriously, and I don't plan to sleep with anyone until marriage is in the picture. I haven't had much luck dating guys with similar beliefs. Is it even worth looking to other guys?”
• Answered the question “my bf watches granny porn, should i be concerned????”
• Posted Engage This to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I can't climax with penetration only. During sex, when my bf is 'done', we're done. He won't pleasure me because, as he put it, "women are too complicated and it's too hard to get them to climax." What's the deal and how do I get him to want to do that?
• Commented on I do Ironman triathlons, own my house, have a great career but am single at 33. I realize there could be other reasons I am single but could it be that men intimidated by my success and athleticism?
• Commented on why are people so retarded?
• Answered the question “I can't climax with penetration only. During sex, when my bf is 'done', we're done. He won't pleasure me because, as he put it, "women are too complicated and it's too hard to get them to climax." What's the deal and how do I get him to want to do that?”
• Answered the question “HJ?”
• Commented on Lighting Round: 30 Questions Answered In A Flash
• Answered the question “What defines a woman to be a freak in the sheets?”
• Commented on I do Ironman triathlons, own my house, have a great career but am single at 33. I realize there could be other reasons I am single but could it be that men intimidated by my success and athleticism?
• Answered the question “why are people so retarded?”
• Answered the question “This guy was flirting with me and stopped talking to me when he got into a relationship. They recently broke up and he's been texting me to hang out. What does he really want??”
• Posted Lighting Round: 30 Questions Answered In A Flash to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Please help! I told my boyfriend of five months that I love him and he said he isn't ready to say it back. I feel so rejected. Why can't he say it back?”
• Commented on Suspicious Pregnancies, Shameless Cheaters and Ghosts of Boyfriends Past: GuySpeak's Best of the Week!
• Commented on What does "lady friend" mean?
• Commented on I have been in a long distance relationship for about 3 yrs. But he never visits! Should I be worried?
• Answered the question “What does "lady friend" mean?”
• Commented on So, your answers...well, frankly, they suck. Why are you even on here???
• Answered the question “I broke up with my bf of three months via long email. But the prob is, he didn't acknowledge the break-up part in my email and said something else. What does he actually mean?”
• Answered the question “My bf of 4 yrs broke up with me, said he didn't feel the same anymore. Next time I saw him we both cried and he said he was deeply sorry because he still cared about me (not like that). Then took me for ice cream as we talked and laughed. Is there hope?”
• Commented on Why do you look like such a douch in your picture?
• Answered the question “My bf just started a new job and is always tired and grumpy. I want to be supportive of his hard work, but how do I make him understand that when he's like this it hurts my feelings?”
• Commented on What does it mean when a man says 'we'll play it by ear' on the phone? We talk a lot on the phone but we've never met in person (online dating site).
• Answered the question “What are some signs that you should not marry your boyfriend?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a man says 'we'll play it by ear' on the phone? We talk a lot on the phone but we've never met in person (online dating site).”
• Answered the question “What should I say to people (like aunts, uncles) who ask me why I don't have a boyfriend? I'm almost 21, never been in a relationship, and not terribly happy about that fact.”
• Commented on Guyspeak Vs. Lemondrop: Is it wrong not to tell him she's pregnant?
• Answered the question “Ever doubt you were in love?”
• Posted Guyspeak Vs. Lemondrop: Is it wrong not to tell him she's pregnant? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My ex and I texted for 2 months which culminated in us having sex last week (2am booty call style). He has a gf. I know it was wrong & I'm embarrassed. It was very anti-climactic. We haven't spoken since. I'm a mess and need some words of wisdom.”
• Answered the question “I've been faking orgasms EVERY TIME I have sex with my bf. Now he thinks I can climax easily, but it actually takes me a long time and lots of clit stimulation. I don't want to lie anymore. How can I tell him what I need without hurting him (and his ego)?”
• Commented on Do guys want to know if a girl's pregnant?
• Commented on I've been with the same guy for 8 years!!! I want to get married!!!!
• Answered the question “My boyfriend's best friend keeps joking that I should be a porn star and makes other sex jokes about me. Does this mean anything, and how can I stop his friend from saying things like that to me?”
• Commented on What about sex on the first date?
• Commented on Toy Story 3 And Other Movies That Turn Guys Into Big Weepie Babies
• Commented on What about sex on the first date?
• Answered the question “Whenever my boyfriend and I argue, he lets his temper get the best of him and curses me out, calls me a bitch, says f**k you, etc. This hurts me but he says that I'm just too sensitive and wants him to talk "like a girl." Am I wrong to be upset?”
• Answered the question “What about sex on the first date?”
• Answered the question “I like a 28yo who still lives w/his parents. Not sure what to think. I still live at home, too, and don't want to be a hypocrite. BUT I'm 26, saving money for a home & I pay rent. I don't know his story. Does this tell me something about his character?”
• Posted Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 8 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on My friend keeps making jokes around our guy friends about me being a slut. I do wear more cleavage-y clothes than her but I'm not a slut. I know she's just joking but I don't like it. How do I get her to stop?
• Commented on 99 Things Women Do That Turn Guys On
• Answered the question “My friend keeps making jokes around our guy friends about me being a slut. I do wear more cleavage-y clothes than her but I'm not a slut. I know she's just joking but I don't like it. How do I get her to stop?”
• Commented on How come advice and literature about men assumes they are horny, sex-crazed, one-track-minded people? I've known men who don't masturbate or talk sex all the time. Where is the advice to deal with these guys?
• Answered the question “I've been with the same guy for 8 years!!! I want to get married!!!!”
• Commented on Is it normal to not have much to talk about after three months of dating? I'm getting a little tired of the awkward silences my boyfriend and I keep falling into...
• Commented on 99 Things Women Do That Turn Guys On
• Answered the question “Is it normal to not have much to talk about after three months of dating? I'm getting a little tired of the awkward silences my boyfriend and I keep falling into...”
• Commented on 99 Things Women Do That Turn Guys On
• Answered the question “Please help! In a few weeks I'm meeting my boyfriend's ENTIRE family, parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc, for the first time. I am terrified of making a bad impression and want everything to go perfectly. Can you please give me some tips?”
• Commented on 99 Things Women Do That Turn Guys On
• Commented on 99 Things Women Do That Turn Guys On
• Posted 99 Things Women Do That Turn Guys On to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “so there is this guy i really like, he is super hot, funny, and we get along perfectly. only problem is, he is a TERRIBLE KISSER! what do i do to help him be a better kisser without offending him?”
• Commented on My boyfriend keeps asking me if i think he's big. Honestly, he isn't the most well-endowed guy ever, and I know better than to say THAT, but I'm a horrible liar. What's the best way to answer him in the future?
• Commented on Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?
• Answered the question “Is it psycho to set up my guy to catch him cheating? I once created a fake online dating profile and confronted my then-BF when he responded to this "hot chick." He was pissed, broke up w/me. Okay to do it again with my new BF to see if he's committed?”
• Answered the question “Help! I want to thank this awesome guy by cooking him his favorite meal: steak. I'm a chicken/fish kinda gal and know nothing about beef. What is a good cut of meat that is hard to screw up? Rare, medium-rare, medium? How do I know?”
• Answered the question “Anytime we go out my husband walks far ahead of me, not by my side. It feels very isolating. I have asked him a couple of times if we can walk together. He seems to be in a rush or anxious. Is there something else I can do or ask of him?”
• Posted “Cooter Cutters” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Myrus” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on My fiance makes me feel old with comments about our age difference (I'm 31, he's 26). Today he found a gray hair and said, "I'm getting old -- just like you." I think it's rude and hurtful. He thinks I'm oversensitive. Insight?
• Commented on How fat is too fat to wear a bikini? I'm about 20 pounds overweight and have some small love handles. My bf says i look fine but i feel like people are staring. How big can we be until people think that it's gross?
• Commented on My fiance makes me feel old with comments about our age difference (I'm 31, he's 26). Today he found a gray hair and said, "I'm getting old -- just like you." I think it's rude and hurtful. He thinks I'm oversensitive. Insight?
• Answered the question “My fiance makes me feel old with comments about our age difference (I'm 31, he's 26). Today he found a gray hair and said, "I'm getting old -- just like you." I think it's rude and hurtful. He thinks I'm oversensitive. Insight?”
• Commented on The guy I'm currently seeing always gets hard during our goodbye kiss. I feel bad leaving him there all horny, without "a happy ending," but I feel like it's too early to do anything sexual. Is this mean?
• Commented on Is it ok for a girl to wait for her man while he is in prison?
• Answered the question “The guy I'm currently seeing always gets hard during our goodbye kiss. I feel bad leaving him there all horny, without "a happy ending," but I feel like it's too early to do anything sexual. Is this mean?”
• Commented on Worst Pickup Lines Ever!
• Posted What Not To Get Your Dad For Father's Day to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Worst Pickup Lines Ever!
• Commented on we were at the mall and my bf went to order food from arbys and didn't even offer me anything. then he just sat there and ate it in front of me
• Answered the question “He calls/texts me all the time. He's even mentioned that we'll probably get married someday. And we'll get an apartment together next year. However, we're not even dating, so what the heck is his deal?”
• Answered the question “How fat is too fat to wear a bikini? I'm about 20 pounds overweight and have some small love handles. My bf says i look fine but i feel like people are staring. How big can we be until people think that it's gross? ”
• Commented on Are bilingual women sexy?
• Answered the question “Are bilingual women sexy?”
• Answered the question “I have a secret that I'm not sure how to reveal. Years ago my uncle touched me and I'm still not sure it was abuse, but I don't want the rest of my family finding out since I'm not certain. Is it a good idea to share this information with my bf?”
• Commented on My husband says he doesn't ever think about another women naked ....Is that true???
• Answered the question “If your girl is 22 and has had a threesome and 12 partners, is that too much for her age?”
• Answered the question “Is there a certain amount of time after which a guy should know if he loves you or not? I've been with this guy on/off for 15 months now. I love him and have said so. He said he doesn't love me but sees hope for the future. Should I wait?”
• Commented on Are guys disgusted with arm/leg/under arm hair?
• Answered the question “My recently divorced mother wants to start bar hopping with me (I'm 25). While she's very well preserved, it's obvious that she's my mother. If I were to meet someone, how freaked out would this make them?”
• Commented on How do guys feel about women's labia minora? Do they want them small, big? Many women are getting the surgery done, because they think that men prefer them small.
• Commented on Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 7
• Posted Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 7 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I am uncomfortable being naked in front of my husband. He tells me I am beautiful but is constantly looking at younger women. He will even stop a conversation with me to watch an attractive woman on TV. Am I wrong to feel insecure?”
• Commented on Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 5
• Commented on Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 5
• Commented on Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 5
• Commented on Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 5
• Answered the question “My friend was raped 5 yrs ago and has received incredible healing through therapy. She now wants to date again. As her overprotective BFF, I'm curious how guys will treat her once they find out. Is she setting herself up for heartbreak?”
• Commented on My on-again, off-again boyfriend of three years owes me $2000 but refuses to talk about it. I have asked every way possible but he just ignores me. Does it make him feel powerful to do that? I don't understand how he can just ignore me when I helped him.
• Commented on How To Tell If He's Lying
• Answered the question “My on-again, off-again boyfriend of three years owes me $2000 but refuses to talk about it. I have asked every way possible but he just ignores me. Does it make him feel powerful to do that? I don't understand how he can just ignore me when I helped him.”
• Commented on Defining Moments In A Relationship: Hers vs. His
• Commented on Defining Moments In A Relationship: Hers vs. His
• Posted Defining Moments In A Relationship: Hers vs. His to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Do you really believe in "Once a cheater always a cheater?" My boyfriend cheated on both of his ex girlfriends but swears he would never cheat on me. I am weary but I trust him, will I eventually get my feelings hurt?
• Answered the question “I had sex with my lover and later he made a statement that I was a nasty girl. Please give me some input on this?”
• Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?
• Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?
• Commented on What's horchata?
• Answered the question “Ok, so I screwed up. Nothing major, I just didn't trust him and freaked out. Now he won't talk to me. I was wrong and have apologized; how do I get him to forgive me? He's acting like I slept with his best friend.”
• Commented on Do you have any advice for how to manage an alpha-male-type employee who is upset a female colleague (me) got promoted into a supervisory position over him?
• Commented on Do you have any advice for how to manage an alpha-male-type employee who is upset a female colleague (me) got promoted into a supervisory position over him?
• Commented on Do you have any advice for how to manage an alpha-male-type employee who is upset a female colleague (me) got promoted into a supervisory position over him?
• Commented on A Wise-Ass Look At Maxim's Hot 100
• Commented on What do you think about polygamous relationships? Would this type of relationship work better for guys than monogamous ones since they're always cheating??
• Answered the question “Do you have any advice for how to manage an alpha-male-type employee who is upset a female colleague (me) got promoted into a supervisory position over him?”
• Commented on I'm 33 & have never let a guy climax in my mouth. Spit or swallow? Fugetaboutit! The very idea makes me sick. No guy I've dated has ever requested I do it, but my male BFF says it could be a dating deal-breaker. Do you agree?
• Answered the question “I'm 33 & have never let a guy climax in my mouth. Spit or swallow? Fugetaboutit! The very idea makes me sick. No guy I've dated has ever requested I do it, but my male BFF says it could be a dating deal-breaker. Do you agree?”
• Commented on A Wise-Ass Look At Maxim's Hot 100
• Commented on What is it with men not looking me in the eye when I'm talking to them? Really, what I'm asking here, Wise-Ass, is for you to explain men's seemingly primal fascination with breasts.
• Commented on A Wise-Ass Look At Maxim's Hot 100
• Commented on A Wise-Ass Look At Maxim's Hot 100
• Commented on A Wise-Ass Look At Maxim's Hot 100
• Posted A Wise-Ass Look At Maxim's Hot 100 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I love my bf so much. We've been through such highs & lows and are stronger than ever. We can both see a future together but I just want to be single for a while (we're 22). How can I explain this without breaking his heart & ruining hope of reconnecting?
• Commented on I love my bf so much. We've been through such highs & lows and are stronger than ever. We can both see a future together but I just want to be single for a while (we're 22). How can I explain this without breaking his heart & ruining hope of reconnecting?
• Commented on I love my bf so much. We've been through such highs & lows and are stronger than ever. We can both see a future together but I just want to be single for a while (we're 22). How can I explain this without breaking his heart & ruining hope of reconnecting?
• Answered the question “I love my bf so much. We've been through such highs & lows and are stronger than ever. We can both see a future together but I just want to be single for a while (we're 22). How can I explain this without breaking his heart & ruining hope of reconnecting?”
• Answered the question “Do guys enjoy sucking and licking girls nipples? Because it honestly doesn't do anything for me?”
• Answered the question “Do you think that long-distance relationships are a good thing?”
• Posted Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 5 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm a 20-year-old girl and insecure to the point of paralysis. What can I do to not be so daunted by guys my age?”
• Commented on Lane Bryant Says Bra Ad Banned by ABC & Fox -- What Do The Guys Think?
• Answered the question “If a woman can't cook...is that a turn off? I mean, they say the way to a man's heart is through his stomach...”
• Answered the question “Emergency question, Wise-Ass! I'm dating a guy in his 30s (I'm 23) and meeting his friends soon. They're all his age and married and super close. I don't know how to "measure up" to the girls or if I can still joke around with the guys. HELP!”
• Commented on 81 Reasons Why He Hasn't Called
• Commented on 81 Reasons Why He Hasn't Called
• Posted 81 Reasons Why He Hasn't Called to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on What Makes A Man Undateable?
• Commented on My boyfriend constantly talks about other girls he finds attractive and he describes the things he wants to do with them. Will he cheat on me?
• Answered the question “My boyfriend constantly talks about other girls he finds attractive and he describes the things he wants to do with them. Will he cheat on me?”
• Commented on My boss is constantly making lewd jokes about women who come into the store. I guess he tells me because I'm the only one in earshot, but it's obnoxious. I've told him to stop and he just says I'm being too sensitive. How do I get him to shut up?
• Answered the question “How do I get over a guy who did nothing wrong? I broke up with him out of anger after a huge (but stupid) fight, and I really regret it. It would be so much easier to move on if he had given me a reason to hate him, but he was a great guy.”
• Commented on What Makes A Man Undateable?
• Commented on What Makes A Man Undateable?
• Commented on What Makes A Man Undateable?
• Commented on What Makes A Man Undateable?
• Commented on What Makes A Man Undateable?
• Commented on What Makes A Man Undateable?
• Posted What Makes A Man Undateable? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on At what point in a relationship would you seek outside help? My on-again-off-again boyfriend wants to be on again. I think we should see a counselor to sort out our obvious problems, but he doesn't. I just want the cycle to end. Am I being unreasonable?
• Commented on What's your opinion of a 28 year old man who wants his parents to decide as to who he should be with?
• Answered the question “My fiance seems almost uninterested in me. Our sex life has completely gone out the window. All of the little things he used to do, the little sweet things, have disappeared. It seems like it's torture for him to be romantic. What should I do?”
• Commented on I love your advice! Please help me! I cheated and am completely and deeply sorry. It made me learn a lot about myself and recognize what I need to work on. What is the best way to attempt to get my guy back?
• Commented on I have extremely large nipples, and feel like they make my DD breasts look weird. I am only 20, and very self conscious about my chest appearing saggy. Do guys care about nipple size?
• Answered the question “I love your advice! Please help me! I cheated and am completely and deeply sorry. It made me learn a lot about myself and recognize what I need to work on. What is the best way to attempt to get my guy back?”
• Commented on Want A Long-Lasting Relationship? Read This.
• Commented on I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?
• Commented on I just found out my boyfriend e-mailed a naked pic he had taken of me to his friend. He claims it was an accident and he meant to send another pic. What should I do? He got offended when I told him he's full of shit.
• Commented on I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?
• Commented on I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?
• Commented on I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?
• Answered the question “I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is away and my nipples are in need of attention. What should I do?”
• Posted Want A Long-Lasting Relationship? Read This. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I just found out my boyfriend e-mailed a naked pic he had taken of me to his friend. He claims it was an accident and he meant to send another pic. What should I do? He got offended when I told him he's full of shit.”
• Answered the question “Hi Cary, my parents greatly dislike my ex-boyfriend. After a year of not dating, we're getting back together and I'm wondering what's the best idea to bridge the gap and hopefully inspire a change of heart in them. Thanks.”
• Answered the question “My ex and I had a tumultuous relationship for 2 years, during which he broke up with me 10+ times. Now he wants me back, says he is seeking therapy to become a better person and wants to marry me and have kids. I love him dearly. Should I believe him?”
• Posted “STFU” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My new boyfriend keeps offering to buy me a boob job. I tell him it's not going to happen but he's hoping I'll change my mind. How do I make him understand that I'd never have an elective surgery just for his pleasure?”
• Commented on Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 4
• Commented on Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 4
• Commented on Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 4
• Posted Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 4 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on A friend of mine is always whining about how no girls like him, usually followed by him asking me out. I can never tell if he's joking, but I don't like him, so I say no. He then says he's joking, but DOES seem sort of upset. Is he really asking me out?
• Commented on Meet Gal Pal!
• Answered the question “I went out with a guy only to be frowned upon by my family (big influence) because he's 10 yrs older + experience. I stopped going out with him but I'm not sure. He is still trying but I don't know if I should keep him or dump him. Help!”
• Answered the question “What is your favorite part of a woman?”
• Answered the question “Why do so many men think Tiger Woods is "the man"? Don't they get that what he did was grimy and wrong?”
• Answered the question “A friend of a friend asked me out twice. The first time, he cancelled on me. The second time, he stood me up. Now he has been calling, texting and e-mailing me for the last year, but I haven't responded. How do I get him to stop without seeming rude?”
• Commented on Guyspeak vs. Lemondrop: Should A Spouse Know About Your Sexual Fantasies?
• Posted Guyspeak vs. Lemondrop: Should A Spouse Know About Your Sexual Fantasies? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on What Makes A Woman Undateable?
• Commented on We've all heard that guys don't see a girl's flaws, but how can you not? I cringe when my guy rubs his hands over my flabby stomach and back fat! What goes through his mind? He can't be thinking, "mm, yeah." I'm not stupid. I just want the truth!
• Commented on We've all heard that guys don't see a girl's flaws, but how can you not? I cringe when my guy rubs his hands over my flabby stomach and back fat! What goes through his mind? He can't be thinking, "mm, yeah." I'm not stupid. I just want the truth!
• Commented on What Makes A Woman Undateable?
• Commented on What Makes A Woman Undateable?
• Answered the question “We've all heard that guys don't see a girl's flaws, but how can you not? I cringe when my guy rubs his hands over my flabby stomach and back fat! What goes through his mind? He can't be thinking, "mm, yeah." I'm not stupid. I just want the truth!”
• Commented on A friend of mine is always whining about how no girls like him, usually followed by him asking me out. I can never tell if he's joking, but I don't like him, so I say no. He then says he's joking, but DOES seem sort of upset. Is he really asking me out?
• Answered the question “A friend of mine is always whining about how no girls like him, usually followed by him asking me out. I can never tell if he's joking, but I don't like him, so I say no. He then says he's joking, but DOES seem sort of upset. Is he really asking me out?”
• Commented on What Makes A Woman Undateable?
• Commented on I have been dating an older man. Sometimes he will get upset at me and say very mean things, like how he's having sex with other women and they are prettier than me, etc. Then two days later he will say I am the love of his life. What gives?
• Answered the question “How do I get my man back if he claims to have fallen out of love with me and in love with another girl? I believe he still loves me, but needs more space.”
• Posted What Makes A Woman Undateable? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on there is this guy that i like and i mean really really like..he is married..but i still like him alot. he doesn't know that i like him but he has told some of my friends that if he could he would have me. usually i would be against this kind of stuff but
• Commented on there is this guy that i like and i mean really really like..he is married..but i still like him alot. he doesn't know that i like him but he has told some of my friends that if he could he would have me. usually i would be against this kind of stuff but
• Commented on there is this guy that i like and i mean really really like..he is married..but i still like him alot. he doesn't know that i like him but he has told some of my friends that if he could he would have me. usually i would be against this kind of stuff but
• Answered the question “Hi Cary, what do you think of women who date men significantly older than them? I tried to go out with guys my age, but they make me feel motherly. I always seem to be attracted to men who are 10-15 years older than me. Is that a problem?”
• Commented on I screwed up by telling my boyfriend to 'just go away'. I was annoyed with his behavior that day. Now, he will not speak to me, text me back, answer my calls, nothing. What do I do?
• Commented on I screwed up by telling my boyfriend to 'just go away'. I was annoyed with his behavior that day. Now, he will not speak to me, text me back, answer my calls, nothing. What do I do?
• Commented on I've been on a few dates with a guy and I really like him. The problem is, he's a pretty terrible kisser and it worries me that maybe it means he's bad at other things, too. Should I just move on?
• Commented on My Guilty Celebrity Crushes
• Answered the question “I've been on a few dates with a guy and I really like him. The problem is, he's a pretty terrible kisser and it worries me that maybe it means he's bad at other things, too. Should I just move on?”
• Commented on I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. (I'm not unattractive, and I'm in pretty good shape.) What am I doing wrong?
• Commented on Do guys really care what girls look like "down there?" I don't mean in regards to waxing or shaving, but things that can't be changed without vagina surgery.
• Answered the question “I screwed up by telling my boyfriend to 'just go away'. I was annoyed with his behavior that day. Now, he will not speak to me, text me back, answer my calls, nothing. What do I do?”
• Answered the question “I have been dating an older man. Sometimes he will get upset at me and say very mean things, like how he's having sex with other women and they are prettier than me, etc. Then two days later he will say I am the love of his life. What gives?”
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• Commented on I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. (I'm not unattractive, and I'm in pretty good shape.) What am I doing wrong?
• Commented on I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. (I'm not unattractive, and I'm in pretty good shape.) What am I doing wrong?
• Commented on I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. (I'm not unattractive, and I'm in pretty good shape.) What am I doing wrong?
• Commented on I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. (I'm not unattractive, and I'm in pretty good shape.) What am I doing wrong?
• Answered the question “I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. (I'm not unattractive, and I'm in pretty good shape.) What am I doing wrong?”
• Commented on My bf said he likes rougher sex, so we tried it and I've never seen him so turned on. Problem: It was scary. I was bruised and queasy afterward. He apologized but I feel uncomfortable with him now. Should I let it go or is this a sign of something else?
• Answered the question “My bf said he likes rougher sex, so we tried it and I've never seen him so turned on. Problem: It was scary. I was bruised and queasy afterward. He apologized but I feel uncomfortable with him now. Should I let it go or is this a sign of something else?”
• Commented on How come advice and literature about men assumes they are horny, sex-crazed, one-track-minded people? I've known men who don't masturbate or talk sex all the time. Where is the advice to deal with these guys?
• Answered the question “How come advice and literature about men assumes they are horny, sex-crazed, one-track-minded people? I've known men who don't masturbate or talk sex all the time. Where is the advice to deal with these guys?”
• Commented on Is "I'm not looking for anything serious" code for: I don't want to see you any more, or I want to take things slow?
• Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?
• Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?
• Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?
• Answered the question “Is "I'm not looking for anything serious" code for: I don't want to see you any more, or I want to take things slow?”
• Commented on I messed around with a SUPER drunk guy. He got it up but couldn't get off no matter what! Was it because of me or the drinks?
• Commented on I gave him some oral services and he hasn't called or texted since...have i been officially dumped? Should i call to verify?
• Answered the question “I gave him some oral services and he hasn't called or texted since...have i been officially dumped? Should i call to verify?”
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• Commented on I recently broke up with my bf, but we've stayed good friends. However, when I text him stuff like, "So glad we're friends," "You're an incredible person," "I care so much about you; I want you to be happy," his only reply is a smiley face. WTF?!
• Answered the question “I recently broke up with my bf, but we've stayed good friends. However, when I text him stuff like, "So glad we're friends," "You're an incredible person," "I care so much about you; I want you to be happy," his only reply is a smiley face. WTF?!”
• Commented on My boyfriend keeps asking me if i think he's big. Honestly, he isn't the most well-endowed guy ever, and I know better than to say THAT, but I'm a horrible liar. What's the best way to answer him in the future?
• Answered the question “Am I too old to get married at 40?”
• Commented on My boyfriend keeps asking me if i think he's big. Honestly, he isn't the most well-endowed guy ever, and I know better than to say THAT, but I'm a horrible liar. What's the best way to answer him in the future?
• Commented on My boyfriend keeps asking me if i think he's big. Honestly, he isn't the most well-endowed guy ever, and I know better than to say THAT, but I'm a horrible liar. What's the best way to answer him in the future?
• Answered the question “My boyfriend keeps asking me if i think he's big. Honestly, he isn't the most well-endowed guy ever, and I know better than to say THAT, but I'm a horrible liar. What's the best way to answer him in the future?”
• Commented on O Great Wise-Ass, I am a freshman in college and a virgin. I've been intimate with guys before, just haven't lost the big V. I'm thinking I should just get it over with, since I'm not necessarily waiting until marriage, but I'm not sure. Advice?
• Answered the question “O Great Wise-Ass, I am a freshman in college and a virgin. I've been intimate with guys before, just haven't lost the big V. I'm thinking I should just get it over with, since I'm not necessarily waiting until marriage, but I'm not sure. Advice?”
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• Answered the question “so when you bf tells you that four years is too soon to start thinking about getting married and that we should wait ten, what does that mean?”
• Commented on Hey Cary, I'm a single mom. My son is 6 years old and I really want to date but find that I'm blocked. I don't want to parade a bunch of men in and out of my sons life. How do I go about the dating scene with a young child in tow?
• Commented on Hey Cary, I'm a single mom. My son is 6 years old and I really want to date but find that I'm blocked. I don't want to parade a bunch of men in and out of my sons life. How do I go about the dating scene with a young child in tow?
• Commented on Hey Cary, I'm a single mom. My son is 6 years old and I really want to date but find that I'm blocked. I don't want to parade a bunch of men in and out of my sons life. How do I go about the dating scene with a young child in tow?
• Answered the question “Hey Cary, I'm a single mom. My son is 6 years old and I really want to date but find that I'm blocked. I don't want to parade a bunch of men in and out of my sons life. How do I go about the dating scene with a young child in tow?”
• Commented on How to tell my guy to go down for me..without saying anything
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• Commented on My husband of 43 years says he only has to be accountable to God. What is your take on this?
• Answered the question “How to tell my guy to go down for me..without saying anything”
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• Commented on If a guy tells you he wants a "committed, yet casual and exclusive relationship" what does that mean?
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• Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?
• Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?
• Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?”
• Commented on My husband is not my children's father and he treats them like they are the worst kids on the planet. He fusses at them constantly and it's getting old. We broke up once because of it and he promised to do better. I love him very much, any advice?
• Commented on Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?
• Commented on Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?
• Commented on Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?
• Answered the question “Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?”
• Commented on What are your views on a woman with stretch marks?
• Answered the question “My husband is not my children's father and he treats them like they are the worst kids on the planet. He fusses at them constantly and it's getting old. We broke up once because of it and he promised to do better. I love him very much, any advice?”
• Commented on What are your views on a woman with stretch marks?
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• Commented on You Don't Send Me Flowers Anymore. Okay?
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• Answered the question “What do you say to a woman who hasn't dated in five years because she's afraid to get hurt again?”
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• Commented on I'm a 43 year old single mother of two. I've been dating this guy for 15 months and we have not gone out for dinner, movies, bowling, nothing except sex. Should I dump him or hold on?
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago but now he is coming around being all sweet and trying to win back my heart. If he wanted me so much, why couldn't he be that way the first time around?”
• Commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
• Answered the question “I'm a 43 year old single mother of two. I've been dating this guy for 15 months and we have not gone out for dinner, movies, bowling, nothing except sex. Should I dump him or hold on?”
• Commented on So, since this is a site for women, how do we know you're not just telling us what we want to hear? Would you hold the same views, say, if this were Men.com?
• Commented on Valentine's Day: Don't Be Hatin'
• Answered the question “So, since this is a site for women, how do we know you're not just telling us what we want to hear? Would you hold the same views, say, if this were Men.com?”
• Posted Valentine's Day: Don't Be Hatin' to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on My boss is constantly making lewd jokes about women who come into the store. I guess he tells me because I'm the only one in earshot, but it's obnoxious. I've told him to stop and he just says I'm being too sensitive. How do I get him to shut up?
• Commented on My boss is constantly making lewd jokes about women who come into the store. I guess he tells me because I'm the only one in earshot, but it's obnoxious. I've told him to stop and he just says I'm being too sensitive. How do I get him to shut up?
• Commented on My boss is constantly making lewd jokes about women who come into the store. I guess he tells me because I'm the only one in earshot, but it's obnoxious. I've told him to stop and he just says I'm being too sensitive. How do I get him to shut up?
• Answered the question “My boss is constantly making lewd jokes about women who come into the store. I guess he tells me because I'm the only one in earshot, but it's obnoxious. I've told him to stop and he just says I'm being too sensitive. How do I get him to shut up?”
• Commented on After the first date, is it bad if a gal calls up to three times to ask him out on another? Each call would be spaced out about every two or three days and would have a voice message,
• Answered the question “After the first date, is it bad if a gal calls up to three times to ask him out on another? Each call would be spaced out about every two or three days and would have a voice message,”
• Commented on 7 Romantic <i>Lost</i> Moments
• Answered the question “At what point in a relationship would you seek outside help? My on-again-off-again boyfriend wants to be on again. I think we should see a counselor to sort out our obvious problems, but he doesn't. I just want the cycle to end. Am I being unreasonable?”
• Commented on A guy who tells me everyday he loves me adores me wants to take care of me and wants to marry me do you think he is committed to me
• Answered the question “Oh Wise One, I require your sacred advice. There is this guy I flirt with sometimes, and its all good until the flirting turns into lewd comments. Is there a polite way to tell him he crossed the line without totally turning him off?”
• Commented on I was with a guy for two years. Towards the end of the relationship, I cheated on him because I felt like he wasn't there for me, at all. When he found out, we broke up, and he wanted absolutely nothing to do with me, even when I apologized and begged for
• Answered the question “I'm dating a man who's absolutely perfect for me: hilarious, honest, hard-working, and treats me wonderfully. I'm very happy with him. One problem: he lives with his parents (age 28 and pays rent). He talks about moving out but hasn't. What's the deal? ”
• Answered the question “How can I get my boyfriend to stop asking me questions about my past? I told the truth about my sex number... and it's 4 more than he has slept with... now he is obsessed about knowing my sexual histories with guys.”
• Commented on I have been married 20 years, and my husband does not satisfy me in bed. I've tried everything to help him -- books, porn, telling him what I like. Nothing works. He says I satisfy him fully. What else can I do?
• Commented on How do I tell a guy that he stinks without being rude?
• Posted Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 2 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have been married 20 years, and my husband does not satisfy me in bed. I've tried everything to help him -- books, porn, telling him what I like. Nothing works. He says I satisfy him fully. What else can I do?”
• Commented on I've cheated on my spouse three times in our relationship. Now he wants to punish me by having a threesome with one of my friends. Is that fair?
• Commented on I've cheated on my spouse three times in our relationship. Now he wants to punish me by having a threesome with one of my friends. Is that fair?
• Answered the question “I've cheated on my spouse three times in our relationship. Now he wants to punish me by having a threesome with one of my friends. Is that fair?”
• Commented on How do I tell a guy that he stinks without being rude?
• Commented on Hey Cary! I would love to hear your view on this. I used to be really heavy and recently lost forty pounds. But I still have a bit of a tummy and my boyfriend constantly teases me about it. He says he is only joking but I'm not so sure. What do you think?
• Answered the question “How do I tell a guy that he stinks without being rude?”
• Commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
• Answered the question “My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?”
• Commented on Hey Cary! I would love to hear your view on this. I used to be really heavy and recently lost forty pounds. But I still have a bit of a tummy and my boyfriend constantly teases me about it. He says he is only joking but I'm not so sure. What do you think?
• Commented on Hey Cary! I would love to hear your view on this. I used to be really heavy and recently lost forty pounds. But I still have a bit of a tummy and my boyfriend constantly teases me about it. He says he is only joking but I'm not so sure. What do you think?
• Answered the question “Hey Cary! I would love to hear your view on this. I used to be really heavy and recently lost forty pounds. But I still have a bit of a tummy and my boyfriend constantly teases me about it. He says he is only joking but I'm not so sure. What do you think?”
• Commented on What We Like About You: In Praise Of Women
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• Posted What We Like About You: In Praise Of Women to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend didn't get me anything for Christmas. He is out of work right now and says he only bought gifts for his son. Should I be upset he didn't get me anything? I don't expect much but at least a card would've been nice.”
• Commented on Hi Cary! At what point in a relationship should one reveal mental issues -- that are completely controlled by medication -- like bipolar disorder? I don't want someone to feel ambushed but I also don't want to be shut down before they get to know me.
• Answered the question “Hi Cary! At what point in a relationship should one reveal mental issues -- that are completely controlled by medication -- like bipolar disorder? I don't want someone to feel ambushed but I also don't want to be shut down before they get to know me.”
• Commented on My boyfriend got mad at me because I go tanning,he thinks I'm killing myself, and is now furious with me and is holding a grudge. What can I do to make it up to him? Or at least get him to talk to me?
• Answered the question “My fiance has lied before in his other relationships and I've caught him in a bunch of lies as well. None of the lies really involve me. Most are about his past. I really do love him, but I don't know if I should keep forgiving him.”
• Commented on 5 Simple Ways To Win A Guy
• Answered the question “Since you won my heart in an earlier post: Am I being too harsh by dismissing guys who payed me no never-mind in HS? I've been getting some special attention from guys who never even considered me WWAAYY back when. I just feel like they've ran their cours”
• Commented on I want/need anal in our sex life. My boyfriend will not go there. Is it a lost cause he will come around?
• Posted 5 Simple Ways To Win A Guy to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Do men find it attractive when a woman masturbates? Not necessarily in front of them, but just in general?
• Commented on Do men find it attractive when a woman masturbates? Not necessarily in front of them, but just in general?
• Answered the question “Do men find it attractive when a woman masturbates? Not necessarily in front of them, but just in general?”
• Commented on I've recently met a guy who's PERFECT for me! He's easy to talk to, funny and treats me well. The catch? I'm not physically attracted to him. There's no "spark" for me. Should I hang in there and hope it changes? Or would it have already happened by now?
• Answered the question “I've recently met a guy who's PERFECT for me! He's easy to talk to, funny and treats me well. The catch? I'm not physically attracted to him. There's no "spark" for me. Should I hang in there and hope it changes? Or would it have already happened by now?”
• Commented on I recently met a rich guy who keeps offering to buy me stuff, from groceries to larger items. I'm not a girl who's looking for a dude to pay her bills. Should I be saying yes or no to his offers? I don't want him to think that's all I want him for.
• Commented on When having sex, and a girl tells you exactly what they want, whats your reaction?
• Commented on Are large nipples a turn-off to guys? How common are large nipples in women?
• Answered the question “I recently met a rich guy who keeps offering to buy me stuff, from groceries to larger items. I'm not a girl who's looking for a dude to pay her bills. Should I be saying yes or no to his offers? I don't want him to think that's all I want him for.”
• Commented on I recently met a rich guy who keeps offering to buy me stuff, from groceries to larger items. I'm not a girl who's looking for a dude to pay her bills. Should I be saying yes or no to his offers? I don't want him to think that's all I want him for.
• Answered the question “Are large nipples a turn-off to guys? How common are large nipples in women?”
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• Answered the question “Why won't guys ask me out? I'm pretty, smart, funny, laugh at jokes, and fun to be around but guys always seem to "just be friends." I don't understand! Please help.”
• Answered the question “What are good comebacks for snotty mean girls?”
• Commented on You Need Better New Year's Resolutions. I Can Help.
• Answered the question “I am 23 and very attractive. Why are older men way better at sex?”
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• Commented on My husband of 43 years says he only has to be accountable to God. What is your take on this?
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• Answered the question “My husband of 43 years says he only has to be accountable to God. What is your take on this?”
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• Commented on When and how do I tell my husband that I think he drinks too much, again?
• Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?
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• Answered the question “When and how do I tell my husband that I think he drinks too much, again?”
• Commented on I'm pregnant &, although it wasn't planned, I couldn't be happier. My husband is still in shock & says he doesn't want to come to the baby shower... but it would mean a lot to me if he came. How do I make that clear?
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• Answered the question “I had a great date with a guy who's 30 (I'm 21). We had a nice time but he hasn't called or texted me. What did i do wrong? ”
• Answered the question “What are your views on a woman with stretch marks?”
• Answered the question “My bf is really experienced, but I'm a virgin and will tell him but by convention.. who buys the condoms? is lube necessary? who buys that? WHERE? should we be planning this out, just let it happen..what is proper first-time etiquette to minimize stress e”
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• Answered the question “My boyfriend lives in a group foster home. I want to ask him why he's living there but I don't want to be rude. Please keep in mind he's 14 and I'm 13. Thanks.”
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• Commented on What would possibly possess a guy to say, "I love you but can't do anything about it"? No, he isn't married or in another relationship. Is he simply afraid to commit? What a weirdo!
• Answered the question “What would possibly possess a guy to say, "I love you but can't do anything about it"? No, he isn't married or in another relationship. Is he simply afraid to commit? What a weirdo!”
• Commented on I found gay porn under my boyfriend's bed. I'm really afraid of confronting him about it. What should I do??
• Answered the question “He is to pick me up at the airport. Last heard from him Dec.13th. To fly in to his town Dec.28th. I am worried he will not be there. I have left messages. No reply.”
• Commented on I need a blunt and truthful answer, and I know you will deliver beautifully. Why would an ex tell me he wanted me in his life and to contact him but then ignore me?
• Commented on Would it bother most guys if a woman had one breast a cup size smaller than the other?
• Answered the question “I need a blunt and truthful answer, and I know you will deliver beautifully. Why would an ex tell me he wanted me in his life and to contact him but then ignore me?”
• Commented on How do i get my boyfriend to stop asking for anal?
• Answered the question “He said he loves me after only two days of dating. Does he really mean it?”
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• Commented on Dear John, I am getting married soon and I am virgin and never been more than... half naked with a guy. How can I be sexy for husband on our wedding night?
• Answered the question “My friend finally broke up with this idiot guy, but now she's considering getting back together with him. How do I convince her that it's a stupid idea?”
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• Commented on What does it mean if a guy constantly has to check up on you all the time? Checking cell phone, reading journal, calling to make sure I am where I said I was going to be... that sort of thing.
• Answered the question “This guy uses me as a booty call, but i really like him, so whenever he calls I go meet him. Should I play hard to get and stop answering his calls? He always avoids my questions about a relationship.”
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• Answered the question “How do i get in a guys pants?”
• Answered the question “When a guy asks if you want to hang out, how are you supposed to know if he means as friends or if it's a date?”
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• Commented on 9 Gifts That Your Guy Doesn't Want This Holiday
• Commented on 9 Gifts That Your Guy Doesn't Want This Holiday
• Answered the question “Is this a good present for my boyfriend: a box decorated with stuff he likes with 365 reasons why i love him in it? PLEASE i really need an answer!”
• Commented on 9 Gifts That Your Guy Doesn't Want This Holiday
• Commented on 9 Gifts That Your Guy Doesn't Want This Holiday
• Commented on 9 Gifts That Your Guy Doesn't Want This Holiday
• Answered the question “What are you really thinking when she's on top?”
• Posted 9 Gifts That Your Guy Doesn't Want This Holiday to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on How do you ask a boy out even though he has a girlfriend?
• Answered the question “I'm in college and want to be asked out on dates. Any advice for single gals?”
• Commented on Is it odd of me to be concerned that my boyfriend's favorite book is Catcher in the Rye (and only references that one book...he hasn't read anything else by Salinger)? I don't believe he's going to shoot John Lennon or anything.
• Answered the question “How do you ask a boy out even though he has a girlfriend?”
• Commented on From a guy's perspective, what style of jeans look best on most girls? ie boot cut, skinny jeans, etc
• Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?
• Commented on From a guy's perspective, what style of jeans look best on most girls? ie boot cut, skinny jeans, etc
• Answered the question “From a guy's perspective, what style of jeans look best on most girls? ie boot cut, skinny jeans, etc”
• Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?
• Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?
• Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?
• Commented on Oh, most highly exalted, breathtakingly charming Wise-Ass, do you believe a woman's hair can be too long? If so, at what point?
• Commented on Oh, most highly exalted, breathtakingly charming Wise-Ass, do you believe a woman's hair can be too long? If so, at what point?
• Answered the question “I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?”
• Commented on A Wise-Ass Holiday Gift Guide For Your Man
• Answered the question “Oh, most highly exalted, breathtakingly charming Wise-Ass, do you believe a woman's hair can be too long? If so, at what point?”
• Commented on A Wise-Ass Holiday Gift Guide For Your Man
• Commented on A Wise-Ass Holiday Gift Guide For Your Man
• Commented on What is a nice way to say no to a guy when he asks you out?
• Commented on What is a nice way to say no to a guy when he asks you out?
• Commented on What is a nice way to say no to a guy when he asks you out?
• Answered the question “What is a nice way to say no to a guy when he asks you out?”
• Commented on A Wise-Ass Holiday Gift Guide For Your Man
• Posted A Wise-Ass Holiday Gift Guide For Your Man to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Why Are We Surprised When Celebrities Cheat? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Epcrotch” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Finna” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him.
• Commented on Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him.
• Commented on Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him.
• Answered the question “How do i nicely tell my boyfriend that I am not ready to meet his family? We have only been dating for two months.”
• Commented on 10 Things I Learned From China's Coverage Of The Tiger Woods Crash
• Answered the question “How do you ask out a senior girl if you are a freshman?”
• Commented on Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him.
• Commented on Tiger Woods Has A Smoking Hot Wife: Why Would He Cheat?
• Answered the question “Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him. ”
• Commented on How To Improve The Chances That Your Question Will Be Answered
• Commented on How do you deal with a boner in public?
• Commented on How do you deal with a boner in public?
• Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?
• Commented on My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but I absolutely HATE it. We've tried it before and he knows I don't like it, but he still tries anyway and gets mad when I refuse. Is this weird? How do I make him stop trying?
• Answered the question “How do you deal with a boner in public?”
• Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?
• Commented on My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but I absolutely HATE it. We've tried it before and he knows I don't like it, but he still tries anyway and gets mad when I refuse. Is this weird? How do I make him stop trying?
• Commented on My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but I absolutely HATE it. We've tried it before and he knows I don't like it, but he still tries anyway and gets mad when I refuse. Is this weird? How do I make him stop trying?
• Commented on How do I tell my ex-boyfriend that I don't ever want (or need) to talk to him again? I am just done!
• Commented on Football Widow
• Commented on Believe What You See From Your Guy
• Commented on Believe What You See From Your Guy
• Answered the question “My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but I absolutely HATE it. We've tried it before and he knows I don't like it, but he still tries anyway and gets mad when I refuse. Is this weird? How do I make him stop trying?”
• Commented on How do I go about telling a guy I like him?
• Commented on How To Improve The Chances That Your Question Will Be Answered
• Commented on How To Improve The Chances That Your Question Will Be Answered
• Answered the question “How do I go about telling a guy I like him?”
• Answered the question “When a guy says, "We need to take a break from each other," what does that mean really?”
• Answered the question “When you take a girl out to dinner, what do you find most attractive for her to order? Salad, nice and light? Steak, rich and meaty? Or something in the middle, like chicken, or whatever?”
• Commented on I asked my husband if he thinks about other hotter women when we have sex.....he said no....is he lying?
• Commented on In Praise Of Older Women: 10 Hotties Over 40
• Answered the question “How can I pick up women?”
• Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?
• Commented on I absolutely HATE giving blowjobs. I feel like they are so humiliating and I am completely self-conscious when I try to do it. Is this a total deal breaker for a guy?
• Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?
• Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?
• Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?
• Answered the question “Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?”
• Answered the question “I've been dating this guy for about two months. He said something strange the other day when we were talking about being exclusive. He said he's not into labels. What exactly does this mean?”
• Commented on How do I know that my husband of 11 years (together 15 years) still thinks that I'm hot and beautiful? I feel like he's just going through the motions and only says nice things because he feels obligated.
• Commented on How do I know that my husband of 11 years (together 15 years) still thinks that I'm hot and beautiful? I feel like he's just going through the motions and only says nice things because he feels obligated.
• Commented on Why does is seem like all men have a former girlfriend in the their lives as a "best friend"? I find this ridiculous. How can a guy have such a close friendship with someone he's been in a relationship with and not have romantic feelings for her?
• Answered the question “How do I know that my husband of 11 years (together 15 years) still thinks that I'm hot and beautiful? I feel like he's just going through the motions and only says nice things because he feels obligated.”
• Commented on My boyfriend's mother is kind of a cold fish. I'd really like to get to know her better, but she's extremely intimidating and not very welcoming. Plus I think she still loves my guy's ex-fiancee. What can I do to get to her to like me?
• Commented on My boyfriend's mother is kind of a cold fish. I'd really like to get to know her better, but she's extremely intimidating and not very welcoming. Plus I think she still loves my guy's ex-fiancee. What can I do to get to her to like me?
• Posted Believe What You See From Your Guy to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend's mother is kind of a cold fish. I'd really like to get to know her better, but she's extremely intimidating and not very welcoming. Plus I think she still loves my guy's ex-fiancee. What can I do to get to her to like me?”
• Commented on I absolutely HATE giving blowjobs. I feel like they are so humiliating and I am completely self-conscious when I try to do it. Is this a total deal breaker for a guy?
• Answered the question “Why does is seem like all men have a former girlfriend in the their lives as a "best friend"? I find this ridiculous. How can a guy have such a close friendship with someone he's been in a relationship with and not have romantic feelings for her?”
• Commented on I absolutely HATE giving blowjobs. I feel like they are so humiliating and I am completely self-conscious when I try to do it. Is this a total deal breaker for a guy?
• Answered the question “I absolutely HATE giving blowjobs. I feel like they are so humiliating and I am completely self-conscious when I try to do it. Is this a total deal breaker for a guy?”
• Commented on What's the difference between "hot" and "beautiful"?
• Answered the question “What's the difference between "hot" and "beautiful"?”
• Commented on Oh Internet Women, Why Do You Love Me So?
• Commented on You blogged about "11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack." How about the flip side? What are some surefire turn-ons?
• Commented on You blogged about "11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack." How about the flip side? What are some surefire turn-ons?
• Commented on You blogged about "11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack." How about the flip side? What are some surefire turn-ons?
• Commented on You blogged about "11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack." How about the flip side? What are some surefire turn-ons?
• Commented on You blogged about "11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack." How about the flip side? What are some surefire turn-ons?
• Commented on You blogged about "11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack." How about the flip side? What are some surefire turn-ons?
• Answered the question “You blogged about "11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack." How about the flip side? What are some surefire turn-ons?”
• Commented on What is it with men not looking me in the eye when I'm talking to them? Really, what I'm asking here, Wise-Ass, is for you to explain men's seemingly primal fascination with breasts.
• Answered the question “What is it with men not looking me in the eye when I'm talking to them? Really, what I'm asking here, Wise-Ass, is for you to explain men's seemingly primal fascination with breasts.”
• Commented on Just Tell Me What You Want
• Commented on The Joy Of Having Your Child Expose Your Mistakes
• Commented on Just Tell Me What You Want
• Posted Just Tell Me What You Want to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I've been seeing this guy who says he really likes me, yet he seems never to be free. He's a student, so I know he's busy, but he takes days to call back and we only go out once a week. Wouldn't a guy make time for someone he really likes?”
• Commented on Do you care what type of car a woman drives? Would you approach a woman in a mini-van?
• Commented on Do you care what type of car a woman drives? Would you approach a woman in a mini-van?
• Commented on My boyfriend doesn't dig phone sex. I suggest it, ask for it, and have tried to start it, but he's never interested. We only see each other twice a week. I need it. How can I help him find interest?
• Commented on My husband is always driving and texting. He will not stop... even when our kids are in the car. It scares me. How do I get my message across?
• Commented on I want to break up with him leaving him feeling he broke up with me. Without blowjobs, please! How do I do it?
• Commented on If you're dating a girl you really like, and she tells you she wants to wait until after she's married to have sex, is that an automatic deal breaker for you?
• Posted “S.O.L.” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on My boyfriend doesn't dig phone sex. I suggest it, ask for it, and have tried to start it, but he's never interested. We only see each other twice a week. I need it. How can I help him find interest?
• Answered the question “Do you care what type of car a woman drives? Would you approach a woman in a mini-van?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend doesn't dig phone sex. I suggest it, ask for it, and have tried to start it, but he's never interested. We only see each other twice a week. I need it. How can I help him find interest?”
• Commented on So this girl [friend of a friend] emailed me and wants to "get some coffee and catch up." Thing is, I don't really know her. She's seen my rock band once years ago, and I've helped her with college grants [my job], but that's it. Feels awkward.
• Commented on Why is it that every eligible guy I meet takes one look at me and sees friend? I'm attractive, fun to be around. I love to laugh. I love baseball not football. I'm not demanding or overbearing. I'm easygoing. What's not to like?
• Answered the question “I've been on a few dates with a guy but I'm ready to move on. The problem is that we talked about how his mom died of cancer. It feels callous to ignore his calls after he shared something so personal. What is the best way to break it off?”
• Commented on I met a guy. He's intensely into me in a way I've never experienced. He is fresh off a horrible breakup from a 5 year relationship where they were living together. We clicked instantly but I can tell he's not ready to get involved. What do I do?
• Answered the question “Not really interested in dating at the moment, as I have many things I want to focus on personally: money, career, etc. I think a break will bolster my chances of making a real connection in the future - or is a self-imposed hiatus a bad idea?”
• Commented on An Interview with Marie Claire's Dating Blogger Rich Santos
• Commented on What His Gadget Says About Him
• Commented on How To Blow-Dry Your Hair Like A Schmo
• Answered the question “I'm friends with my ex-boyfriend on Facebook. This bothers my current boyfriend a lot and he's even threatened to break up with me if I don't de-friend my ex. Do you think this is a reasonable request? I think it means he doesn't trust me.”
• Posted How To Blow-Dry Your Hair Like A Schmo to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Football Widow
• Commented on Why Dating Now Sucks Compared To Dating In 2525
• Commented on 7 Things I Learned While Watching Notting Hill.
• Commented on Why do guys tune us out - do we sound like the adults on the Charlie Brown cartoons? Sometimes there's real info in there!
• Commented on Why do guys tune us out - do we sound like the adults on the Charlie Brown cartoons? Sometimes there's real info in there!
• Posted “Guitar face” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Retail: It's Not For Everyone
• Answered the question “Why do guys tune us out - do we sound like the adults on the Charlie Brown cartoons? Sometimes there's real info in there!”
• Commented on Do guys really prefer it all shaven off down there? What is too much/too little?
• Commented on I want to apologize to an ex I left during at her lowest. Problem is, it's been 8 years, and we haven't talked since. Should I just leave this in the past, or try and "clear the air" so to speak?
• Commented on 11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack, Part 2
• Commented on Do guys really prefer it all shaven off down there? What is too much/too little?
• Answered the question “Do guys really prefer it all shaven off down there? What is too much/too little?”
• Commented on Is CNN The New Jerry Springer?
• Commented on What is your opinion of older women dating younger men, and is there an age a 45 year old women should not considering dating?
• Commented on I've been dating this guy for going on 6 months. I do everything girlfriend like - meeting his family, talking on the phone every night, spending free time together, but he has yet to call me his girlfriend. He says its coming, be patient. What gives?
• Commented on Why do all the men I've been with love vacation sex so very very much? What's the huge appeal? Why are they better in bed in another city? And why does it have to been done AS SOON as my bags are placed on the floor of the hotel room?
• Commented on I've been dating a guy for a few weeks but find he'd rather text me than call. It's really annoying. I've told him I prefer he'd call so we can chat and get to know each other over the phone, but he seems more comfortable typing. What the hell?
• Commented on I've been married for years, but my husband believes that flatulent emissions should never be shared. I've practically jumped from a moving vehicle so as not to pass gas in front of him. Am I wrong to think this is crazy?
• Commented on I've been married for years, but my husband believes that flatulent emissions should never be shared. I've practically jumped from a moving vehicle so as not to pass gas in front of him. Am I wrong to think this is crazy?
• Answered the question “I've been married for years, but my husband believes that flatulent emissions should never be shared. I've practically jumped from a moving vehicle so as not to pass gas in front of him. Am I wrong to think this is crazy?”
• Commented on The best sex I've ever had is with a guy who (years later) is now in a serious monogamous relationship. We're still good friends, but we never talk about our sexual past. Would it be wrong of me to let him know that he's still the best in my book?
• Commented on What would be your ideal first date? I've got a date with a self-proclaimed geek this week and I really want to show him that deep down, I'm a geek too.
• Commented on The best sex I've ever had is with a guy who (years later) is now in a serious monogamous relationship. We're still good friends, but we never talk about our sexual past. Would it be wrong of me to let him know that he's still the best in my book?
• Commented on Where are all the good men hiding? I live in NYC and they're definitely not here. They're either married, gay or both and have too many options available to them in this city.
• Posted “Dutch Oven” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on 11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack, Part 2
• Commented on Are guys really okay with girls asking them out? Is that a turn-on or do you think a girl should wait for the guy to make the first move?
• Posted 11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack, Part 2 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Are guys really okay with girls asking them out? Is that a turn-on or do you think a girl should wait for the guy to make the first move?”
• Answered the question “My husband has a close working relationship with a woman who is a known swinger. He gets text messages from her at night that I haven't questioned. His biz is his biz - but how can I find out without being accusatory?”
• Commented on My stepsister, a college freshman, met a guy and they studied together once, but she's not interested. Now he won't leave her alone -- calls, shows up at her house, sends angry texts. She asked him to back off, but he hasn't. What should she do?
• Commented on My stepsister, a college freshman, met a guy and they studied together once, but she's not interested. Now he won't leave her alone -- calls, shows up at her house, sends angry texts. She asked him to back off, but he hasn't. What should she do?
• Commented on My stepsister, a college freshman, met a guy and they studied together once, but she's not interested. Now he won't leave her alone -- calls, shows up at her house, sends angry texts. She asked him to back off, but he hasn't. What should she do?
• Answered the question “My stepsister, a college freshman, met a guy and they studied together once, but she's not interested. Now he won't leave her alone -- calls, shows up at her house, sends angry texts. She asked him to back off, but he hasn't. What should she do?”
• Posted “Munson” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on What do you think is the best way for couples to share household duties? For example, are some tasks better suited to one gender or the other? Do you feel that there are any chores that, although a woman is capable of doing them, a man should do them?
• Commented on Why are men such annoying babies when they get sick? Seriously, after 20 years together, I would gladly suffer a full-out case of H1N1 if it meant I could avoid putting up with my husband having the sniffles for a day or two.
• Commented on Why is it that guys seem much more responsive when I tell them I work at Express versus when I tell them I'm a lawyer? I want to be honest, but it seems like the info is intimidating ...
• Commented on How can I tell my boyfriend (nicely) that sometimes, I just wish he would be more of the MAN in our relationship and take the lead. I'm in charge a lot at work and I'd like to follow his lead once in a while, if he would just do some leading...
• Commented on No, I Won't Dress Up For Halloween
• Answered the question “Why are men such annoying babies when they get sick? Seriously, after 20 years together, I would gladly suffer a full-out case of H1N1 if it meant I could avoid putting up with my husband having the sniffles for a day or two.”
• Commented on What do you think is the best way for couples to share household duties? For example, are some tasks better suited to one gender or the other? Do you feel that there are any chores that, although a woman is capable of doing them, a man should do them?
• Commented on What exactly do guys do with "the sock"?
• Commented on My husband swears all the time. I'm concerned because our 3 year old yelled out our window last night, "That f**king guy is making too much f**king noise!" He said it was my fault for reacting. What should I do?
• Answered the question “What do you think is the best way for couples to share household duties? For example, are some tasks better suited to one gender or the other? Do you feel that there are any chores that, although a woman is capable of doing them, a man should do them?”
• Commented on Could you help me explain to my tweens exactly what a "disco stick" is? I'm having trouble coming up with a plausible answer for them.
• Commented on My husband swears all the time. I'm concerned because our 3 year old yelled out our window last night, "That f**king guy is making too much f**king noise!" He said it was my fault for reacting. What should I do?
• Answered the question “My husband swears all the time. I'm concerned because our 3 year old yelled out our window last night, "That f**king guy is making too much f**king noise!" He said it was my fault for reacting. What should I do?”
• Commented on Retail: It's Not For Everyone
• Commented on Could you help me explain to my tweens exactly what a "disco stick" is? I'm having trouble coming up with a plausible answer for them.
• Posted Retail: It's Not For Everyone to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Taint” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on What do guys do with their junk when they are riding a bicycle? Seems like the seat could be a problem for some guys...
• Posted “Vagina McManpants” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What do guys do with their junk when they are riding a bicycle? Seems like the seat could be a problem for some guys...”
• Answered the question “My friend just got divorced and I have a problem because I grew to like her husband better than I like her. I don't want to have to break up with him as well. Am I within my rights to tell her I want to remain friends with her ex?”
• Commented on Could you help me explain to my tweens exactly what a "disco stick" is? I'm having trouble coming up with a plausible answer for them.
• Commented on I hada threesome with my boyfriend and another guy. The other guy was much bigger than my boyfriend, and I got a little carried away.My boyfriend is small, but I had gotten over it. He wasn't happy with my admiration for the other guy's member...
• Commented on DO I HAVE TO GO DOWN ON HER IF SHE GOES DOWN ON ME?
• Commented on Could you help me explain to my tweens exactly what a "disco stick" is? I'm having trouble coming up with a plausible answer for them.
• Commented on My brother's girlfriend wants him to wax the hair on his chest. I told him he shouldn't do it. What would you do if a girl you were seriously in love with asked you to go hairless?
• Answered the question “Could you help me explain to my tweens exactly what a "disco stick" is? I'm having trouble coming up with a plausible answer for them.”
• Commented on 6 Signs That Your Man Is Probably Going To Break Up With You.
• Commented on My brother's girlfriend wants him to wax the hair on his chest. I told him he shouldn't do it. What would you do if a girl you were seriously in love with asked you to go hairless?
• Answered the question “if a guy really isn't "that into you," what are the best ways to tell?”
• Commented on 11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack
• Posted 11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on My brother's girlfriend wants him to wax the hair on his chest. I told him he shouldn't do it. What would you do if a girl you were seriously in love with asked you to go hairless?
• Posted “Scrote” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on My husband gets me the worst gifts. He tries - but they are just terrible! How can I be stealth about giving him a few good ideas? Or is there a way I can tell him without hurting his feelings?
• Answered the question “My brother's girlfriend wants him to wax the hair on his chest. I told him he shouldn't do it. What would you do if a girl you were seriously in love with asked you to go hairless?”
• Commented on My brother's best friend just asked me out. My brother is pissed but I am psyched! Can you give me some advice on calming my brother down?
• Answered the question “My brother's best friend just asked me out. My brother is pissed but I am psyched! Can you give me some advice on calming my brother down?”
• Posted “Earworm” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted A Monday Rant About Lousy Music to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “I smell a 'but'” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on The Joy Of Having Your Child Expose Your Mistakes
• Posted “HTFU” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How come guys have issues with girls that are perhaps smarter and funnier than they are? Is the male ego really that delicate? It's destroying my relationship and I just don't get it.”
• Posted 6 Great Ways Not To Get A Second Date to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Football Widow” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Gosselin” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Manstruation” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My boyfriend loves to cook, but his food tastes terrible. Should I tell him?”
• Answered the question “How do I get my guy to prioritize spending time with me over sitting in front of the TV all day watching football every single Sunday?”
• Posted In Praise Of Older Women: 10 Hotties Over 40 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Bluetool” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “TPS reports” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “FML” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How do I tell my ex-boyfriend that I don't ever want (or need) to talk to him again? I am just done!”
• Answered the question “I'm pregnant &, although it wasn't planned, I couldn't be happier. My husband is still in shock & says he doesn't want to come to the baby shower... but it would mean a lot to me if he came. How do I make that clear?”
• Posted The Joy Of Having Your Child Expose Your Mistakes to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Poser” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
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• secrets commented on why are people so retarded?
  that's funny...
• secrets commented on I do Ironman triathlons, own my house, have a great career but am single at 33. I realize there could be other reasons I am single but could it be that men intimidated by my success and athleticism?
  who told you that you intimidate?...
• secrets commented on What does "lady friend" mean?
  what does "lady" mean? i haven't heard that word in a while....
• secrets commented on I have been in a long distance relationship for about 3 yrs. But he never visits! Should I be worried?
  I live life expecting the best, and preparing for the worst i don't i plan for the worst, and HOPE for the best! people call me "negative" thank you...
• Nataliesmommy commented on My mom wants to move in with my boyfriend and me because she says she can't find a job. We both get along ok with her, but I would prefer that she get a place of her own. I worry that it will affect my relationship in a negative way. Thoughts please?
  Based on language alone...I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that YouNeedJesus needs Jesus! Just one more reason why this Christian doesnt go to church....full of bible thumping hypocrites! Anyway, I couldnt live with my mom unless it was an emergency. I would help my mom find a job and agree to let her stay for 3 months, after that she needs to work on getting her own place. While she was there, there would be some ground rules like: do not get involved in our arguments, unless we both come to you and ask your...