Caitlin
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- Commented on What is your opinion of dating a girl with a baby?
- Commented on Dear Chic Geek, I understand you're busy and there are more important questions, but how important are formal weddings to men? I tried to convince my Fiancé to elope, have just our immediate family, but he said we should do a proper wedding. we're at t
- Commented on My Bestfriend of 16yrs is cool and friendly with my ex who was physically and verbally abusive to me and made my life miserable. I've told her how this bothers me and she treats me as if I'm overreacting and that it's not a big deal? It really pisses me o
- Commented on Why are you afraid to talk about "Mama's Boys"?! Is it a packed you guys said to never mention or bring it up? There are ALOT of them out there!
- Commented on I'm 24 and just recently moved in with my bf. And ever since I moved my bff has gone batshit crazy jealous. Help! She goes out 4 times a week and whenever I don't go she says I put my bf b4 her. I work 50 hrs per week and go to grad school pt, I'm not goi
- Commented on I'm Catholic and my boyfriend is Jewish. His family wants me to convert so that the children are Jewish. I'm not serious about my Catholicism as it is and my boyfriend isn't serious about his religion either, he just doesn't want his parents mad at him.
- Commented on What's your take on The Rapture?
- Commented on I have somewhat of a mini celebrity for a fiance. I'm an average looking girl who is constantly trying to improve herself. However he has to continuously work with models and gorgeous actresses, and it's definitely taking a toll on my self-esteem. Any adv
- Commented on Is it appropriate to play 'Bounce' at your wedding in front of your family?
- Commented on My SO is gone due to being in the Military. He has been gone for over 3 months. My question is why am I so sexually frustrated, I have been single longer than this with no nookie, so why is it bothering me now?? And is there anyway to get this to stop?
- Commented on He said "I love you" on our 3rd date during our first romp in the hay. He said it more than once and while looking me in the eyes. I didn't reply. It's been a few days since this event and I've heard nothing from him. Is he freaking out? Should I do s
- Commented on My boyfriend has a habit of not introducing me to people we run into out in public that he knows. It makes me feel awkward and it kind of hurts my feelings. Am I over reacting? He says he doesn't introduce me to people that aren't important to him but it
- Commented on What does it mean when a guy comes over only when its dark out?
- Commented on Do guys really think about other women during sex? Why?
- Commented on GEEK QUESTION!!! Who's your favorite Robin? For that matter, who's your favorite Bat'?
- Commented on Bow chicka wow wow.
- Commented on What does it mean when a guy leaves the bathroom door open when he pees?
- Commented on If a guy (in his early 20's) is really into partying and drugs now does it mean that he will be like that for the rest of his life? (he was really into partying and drugs in high school too)
- Commented on My boyfriend is the guy that taught Negative Ned all he knows. He is so negative, and the smallest thing going wrong will ruin the next week of his life, no matter my efforts to improve his day. It really takes a toll on our relationship- I am at the rece
- Commented on What is your opinion on taking a month long break in a relationship?
- Commented on Am I too thin? I train horses and work hard every day, so I get an automatic workout, but my boyfriend keeps trying to make me gain weight. I have a D chest, a tiny waist, stong arms, legs, and abs, and a curvy backside, so I'm happy with my body, and I'm
- Commented on I'm "dating" a guy i met on the net, but we've never met. We talk on the phone for hours but I'm nervous that when we meet i might not live up to what he thinks of me. How can I talk to him about this?
- Commented on Can an uncircumcised man orgasm during sex with a condom?
- Commented on I've been talking to this guy for the last 6 weeks, and about a week ago he tells me he wants to be with me. I replied by saying "Let's see what happens." In the last few days he has not been calling at night, even though we text & talk throughout the d
- Commented on I'm travelling over 3,000 miles to visit my boyfriend (arriving on our 1st anniversary)! I can't wait to see him, 'cept his mother expects me to sleep in his sister's room! Claiming that we 'need our space'. What do we do?
- Commented on Hey Panama, so...I direct theater and last night I got asked out by one of my actors - so I know him pretty well. He's a great guy, my age, same interests, relatively attractive...but I don't sense any chemistry. Is it worth giving it a try when I'm not f
- Commented on I met my boyfriend online. I want to do a background check on him for peace of mind for me & my family. How do I ask him if thats ok? Its understandable, right?
- Commented on If my boyfriend is willing to pay half of my gym membership because I can't afford it by myself, does that mean that he wants me to work out so bad he's willing to pay the money?
- Commented on I told him I didn't love him. He's hurt. I'm hurt. But it's true. What now?
- Commented on Should i attend my girlfriends 10th year high school reunion?
- Commented on I might sound like a psychotic, jealous gf but I don't like it when my bf has tickle wars with other girls he knows. It's not so much the tickling as WHERE he tickles. The mid to high thigh areas are a no-no for me but I know that he and I are from differ
- Commented on Recently my boyfriend asked me not to shave (down there) and the thought of not shaving completely grosses me out. I wanted to do it at least once for him just to make him happy but it makes me feel repulsive. I hate the way it looks, feels, and just kno
- Commented on Weird Question: My boyfriend is moving in and I'm really nervous. I'm afraid of what he'll think when he sees me in the morning. Will he be turned off by my messy hair/oily skin/bad breath? What can I do?
- Commented on Top Five Romantic Christmas Songs (Besides That Mariah Carey One)
- Commented on I have acne and slight scarring from chicken pox. The guy I'm seeing didn't seem hesitant to kiss me when I didn't wear make-up for the first time on one of our dates. Is acne not as big a deal to guys? Should I go back to wearing less make-up since I d
- Commented on In winter, I sleep in pjs and my bf is a great snuggler/spooner. But now that it is getting warmer, I sleep nude and he won't even venture near me. What gives? I thought most guys would love to be next to a naked woman in their bed.
- Commented on Just want your opinion because I truly do value it: Anniversaries... like six months - should they be celebrated? Is it a big deal if your boyfriend says nothing about it/does nothing day of and it just passes by?
- Commented on Do you think Kristen Stewart is hot?
- Commented on Hey Nick! Can you help? You seem *NICE*. ..so is the guy I'm seeing (shy, technology dude) and we've been dating 6 wks (talk daily, meet up 2x/wk). We're both young 40s. He doesn't want to have sex yet tho! Otherwise VERY affectionate. I sleep over-we cu
- Commented on Are men intimidated by vibrators during sex? I'm now dating a guy who keeps asking me how he can please me in bed. Should I ask him to use a vibrator, or will it hurt his ego?
- Commented on What do I do if I've been with my girl a year or more and she still doesn't trust me?
- Commented on I went out with a guy only to be frowned upon by my family (big influence) because he's 10 yrs older + experience. I stopped going out with him but I'm not sure. He is still trying but I don't know if I should keep him or dump him. Help!
- Commented on How do you interpret "Love ya" in a fairly new relationship. Is that hard to say "Love you", or is he just not feeling it?
- Commented on My ex was IN LOVE with me and i felt a little too clustered so i dumped him and for a while he would come back and then he just stopped, now i miss him like crazy & hes hangin with other girls and he seems just fine like he doesnt even care , what do i do
- Commented on heyy there mystery guy so I'am getting merry next week and I told my boy friend that I was virgen but I really ain't what should I do???????????????
- Commented on How do you get your boyfriend to quit or cut back on smoking?
- Commented on What do you say to a woman who hasn't dated in five years because she's afraid to get hurt again?
- Commented on What do guys think about a girl who plays guitar and electric guitar, even when he can't play anything?
- Commented on If youre a virgin but the guy doesnt know will he be able to tell that you are the first time you have sex with him? Or is it possible he wont even notice?
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- Submitted the question “My boyfriend admits that he hates strip clubs- says the whole situation makes him uncomfortable. Since this flies in the face of a strong male stereotype, I thought I would ask if there are many men who feel the same? Do lots of guys merely go along with this male ideal? Obviously, I know you don't speak for all men...”
- Submitted the question “You seem to have established yourself as the guy to answer questions regarding abuse, insecurity, and other psychological issues... why do you think this is? You seem to have a lot of information and experience with these topics.”
- Submitted the question “I would love to have this answered by all of our guyspeak men, but what, in your opinion, are the top three things that tend to annoy men about women the most?”
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JamieLee commented on
My Bestfriend of 16yrs is cool and friendly with my ex who was physically and verbally abusive to me and made my life miserable. I've told her how this bothers me and she treats me as if I'm overreacting and that it's not a big deal? It really pisses me o
I really appreciate all of the advice! She made me feel as if I was overreacting and that I was living "in the past", etc. That's not the case. I have moved on. I'm now with an amazing person that would give me the world! That doesn't make it "okay" for her to continue a so-called "friendship" with that douche. It still haunts me. I still think about it sometimes, unfortunately. I don't want to remember those years. I call them "the dark days". It was traumatizing to say the least. He was my past and needs to stay IN...
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JamieLee commented on
My Bestfriend of 16yrs is cool and friendly with my ex who was physically and verbally abusive to me and made my life miserable. I've told her how this bothers me and she treats me as if I'm overreacting and that it's not a big deal? It really pisses me o
I really appreciate all of the advice! She made me feel as if I was overreacting and that I was living "in the past", etc. That's not the case. I have moved on. I'm now with an amazing person that would give me the world! That doesn't make it "okay" for her to continue a so-called "friendship" with that douche. It still haunts me. I still think about it sometimes, unfortunately. I don't want to remember those years. I call them "the dark days". It was traumatizing to say the least. He was my past and needs to stay IN...
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Katie commented on
My Bestfriend of 16yrs is cool and friendly with my ex who was physically and verbally abusive to me and made my life miserable. I've told her how this bothers me and she treats me as if I'm overreacting and that it's not a big deal? It really pisses me o
I always wondered the same, personally. As someone who was emotionally abused for many years, I've had a lot of people still rank that as being below physical abuse... But abuse is abuse... whether it's hitting or manipulating, it's damaging and painful....
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JamieLee commented on
My Bestfriend of 16yrs is cool and friendly with my ex who was physically and verbally abusive to me and made my life miserable. I've told her how this bothers me and she treats me as if I'm overreacting and that it's not a big deal? It really pisses me o
I never said it was ranked higher? I think abuse IS abuse, no matter if it's physical, mental, or emotional; it's abuse. Words can hurt worse than a black eye. He was both. Neither is "better or worse" than the other....
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silkysly commented on
What is your opinion of dating a girl with a baby?
You aren’t immature. I’m older & didn’t want to date guys with small kids. If you don’t have one, it’s just not your thing. It’s that simple. Don’t sweat it....
