Dan Seitz

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• Answered the question “Will most guys cheat , given the chance ?My brother was honest enough to break the man code - and tell me if men can get away with it - like being abroad on business and a hot chick throws themselves at them no strings - they will cheat. He said he ”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Why, Yes, Women Read Fantasy Novels to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My best friend (since kindergarten) and I broke up just days before my guy proposed. I don't know how to feel. I've literally always imagined her by my side, and sharing this with her. I want to be his wife, but the wedding stuff just seems dreary and awf”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend says he needs space but its nothing to do with me and he loves me. He has 2 kids which he isn't being allowed to see by his ex and he's just sleeping all the time. What do I do?”
• Answered the question “I'm going to a friends wedding this summer, last wedding i went to i ended up breaking down during the daddy daughter dance and felt horrible about it (my dad died when i was a baby ). should i just let my friend know I'll be excusing myself during the da”
• Posted Why I Highly Recommend Being Lit On Fire to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend of 1 yr although has introduced me to his parents and grown up children, doesn't invite me out with his male friends - I feel excluded, especially has he says he loves me....”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is friends with a girl he's known since childhood. For certain reasons, I dont like how close they are but I deal. I lost my v at 16 with a guy I later became friends with for 6 years no attraction. My boyfriend made me cut off ties w/ the gu”
• Answered the question “my ex boyfriend wants me to stay away and leave him alone forever”
• Posted “"But I'm A Nice Guy"” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted The Male Perspective: Four Reasons I Don't Want In On This PMS Thing to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “This guy I'm seeing is also seeing two other girls but gets very possessive and jealous about me showing interest in other boys. why is he doing this? what is the purpose? what is he thinking?”
• Answered the question “He told me he didn't want a commitment (I was hoping to change that, he kept telling me how much he liked me, we laughed a lot, had sparkling talks). We tried to sleep together twice but he could not keep it up. Last time we met was great, but he suddentl”
• Answered the question “Please help, RP! The extroverted new guy I've been seeing talks about himself a LOT. But he doesn't come off as majorly arrogant because he's also very caring and sweet towards me. Do you think it could be nervousness, insecurity, a way to fill the silenc”
• Commented on The Five Worst Things A First Date Has Actually Said To Me
• Answered the question “my boyfriend constantly calls and sometimes he says who can i hear in the background then accuses me of cheating”
• Commented on The Five Worst Things A First Date Has Actually Said To Me
• Posted The Five Worst Things A First Date Has Actually Said To Me to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How can you tell if a guy is still in love with his ex, who is also the mother of his child?”
• Answered the question “What do you think of the term "Gaslighting:" when someone confronts their partner about their own inconsiderate behavior (such as being late or saying rude things) and the partner responds with phrases like "stop being so sensitive" "you're overreacting" ”
• Answered the question “I thought I was booty called but it turned into a morning snuggle and brunch. Plus was more about pleasing me than using my body.Does sex early on (like the second meeting) necessarily mean there is no chance of a friendship or relationship?”
• Posted “Hollywood, D.C.” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Three Reasons Pro Sports Needs To Knock Off The Homophobia
• Posted The Male Perspective: Three Reasons Pro Sports Needs To Knock Off The Homophobia to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What are some signs a player has really fallen for a girl or fallen in love and doesnt really know it?”
• Answered the question “I've never been very good at monogamy. I'm not a cheater, I've just always been very clear with the men in my life about what they could expect from me. I've met a guy who's worth it, but how do I do it? How do I keep from wanting, and not hate myself or ”
• Answered the question “Is there such a thing as expecting too much of your significant other? If so I may be doing that b/c I am constantly disappointed in him. I feel like he should be meeting certain expectations that aren't difficult I want to be with him & I don't want to b”
• Posted Five Things Nobody Tells You About Moving In Together to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My bf knocked me up. i know he'd take full responsibility and wouldn't run away, we talked about this before and he said he'd be happy if this happened. but i don't feel ready to have a child. would it be unfair if i'd go for abortion? what may be the con”
• Answered the question “Why does my ex still have our pictures up on his fb one month after I broke up with him?”
• Answered the question “Is it any different to like "tumblr submitted self-shots" of hott girls ? Real girls, taking real pictures of themselves, not just professionally done. I don't mind porn or the artsy naked pictures of women on tumblr, but those self-shots bother me when ”
• Posted “Tumblebed” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “he says he loves me but doesn't answer my phone calls! i called him 73 times yesterday! why doesn't he answer me?”
• Posted Cats, Fats, And Goldbricks: Our Best Of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted The Male Perspective: Three Uncomfortable Truths About The Korean Beauty Pageant "Scandal" to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have an ex who ignores my emails but friended me on facebook and all the social networks, what's up with that? I don't understand what he wants?”
• Answered the question “If a man is genuinely supportive of you and you're career, is that a sign thathe cares about you? Also what if the same man flirts with you in a sexual way, is he interested? And what if that same man has said to you before he isn't looking for a relation”
• Answered the question “I love camping! But my bf says he won't go camping with me until I can do a pull-up. I'm in pretty decent shape, but I can't even come close to a single pull-up! I'm going to have to work out like crazy! Is it unfair that I'm pretty pissed that I'm having”
• Posted The Checklist: Five Things You Need To Have Together Before Dating to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Guy at works flirts a lot, sexts, but doesn't ask me out. What's up with that?”
• Answered the question “Why do men stay in a relationship when they don't want their girlfriend anymore?”
• Answered the question “I live in Boston. With all the chaos that happened this past week I have been shaken up like the rest, thankfully not directly impacted. I have anxiety disorders so I decided to turn down all invitations to vigils and memorial cervices. Apparently that ma”
• Posted “Internet Limbo” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My BF of 5 yrs loves me with a tan. I've been using tan lotion for yrs. I read that it might cause cancer and I'm scared- but I know my BF fell in love with me w/a tan and wants me to be tan. He said he'd still be attracted to me w/light skin, but he will”
• Commented on How do I answer the "why are you single" question when men ask me? I usually just find some reasonably generic answer to give them, but it always makes me feel awkward.So... why do men ask me this? And how do I answer it politely and non-awkwardly?
• Commented on My ex wants to get coffee-to "catch up"-but I have a BF now. Do I have to tell him? He's a bit insecure and I don't think he would approve. Neither of us would do anything and we don't even flirt, but admittedly, our co
• Answered the question “How do I answer the "why are you single" question when men ask me? I usually just find some reasonably generic answer to give them, but it always makes me feel awkward.So... why do men ask me this? And how do I answer it politely and non-awkwardly?”
• Answered the question “My ex wants to get coffee-to "catch up"-but I have a BF now. Do I have to tell him? He's a bit insecure and I don't think he would approve. Neither of us would do anything and we don't even flirt, but admittedly, our co”
• Answered the question “My long distance boyfriend wants to watch me masturbate the next time we are together. We're willing to try anything together but I thought this was something you did in private so I'm hesitant. Google says lots of people do it but how? How ”
• Posted The Boston Marathon Tragedy And The Constant Refresh to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do guys in college/early 20s take romantic relationships seriously? I am a junior in college and since I've started college I've been cheated on twice, led on, and dumped for very immature reasons. I don't know how much more my heart can take. It seems no”
• Answered the question “My boyfirend of almost 2 years wont add me on his facebook because he said im too jealous and ask too many questions. He is tryong to avoid the drama. I told him many times that i will behave. I am 22 and he is 30. Should i be concern? Is he cheating on m”
• Answered the question “Do ultimatums ever work with men in a relationship?”
• Posted “Gordian Dining” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Three Creepy Fashion Articles For Spring
• Answered the question “Guy to guy time... what's the key to female orgasms? my ex told she never experienced an orgasm neither with me or anyone. and now i can't sense if my present girl feels anything or just fakes it... i want her to feel satisfied”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Three Creepy Fashion Articles For Spring to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do guys think of sex every ten seconds you talk to them?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend 'loves' me.However, he constantly talks about how he wants to have sex with tons of women. He's very shallow and makes me insecure. He checks out other women in my presence, talks about my friends etc.I work out constantly, trying to feel "go”
• Commented on Five Snappy Answers To Stupid Wedding Questions
• Commented on Do guys put girls in the "friend zone"? If a guys is attracted will he always want to sleep with her no matter how comfortable they get? Have you ever successfully been "just friends" with a girl? I'd like to hear from all the guys out there on this one
• Commented on Dose Jelqin Actualy work!!?If you don't know don't answer please I want to know if it really works from experience or knowledge and can it make your penisThicker
• Commented on I figured out that this man that I am sleeping with is talking to another girl that I work with, and talking dirty to her. It kinda bothers me, even though we aren't in a relationship. Should I talk to him about this and what we should do in our "relation
• Answered the question “Hi there Reformed Player. I am just wondering I have cheated a few times we have been together a year and a half now and he has forgiven me for all times I cheated. Now I am truly wondering does he really still love me or is he plotting his revenge?? Plea”
• Posted Five Snappy Answers To Stupid Wedding Questions to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Dose Jelqin Actualy work!!?If you don't know don't answer please I want to know if it really works from experience or knowledge and can it make your penisThicker”
• Answered the question “I figured out that this man that I am sleeping with is talking to another girl that I work with, and talking dirty to her. It kinda bothers me, even though we aren't in a relationship. Should I talk to him about this and what we should do in our "relation”
• Commented on Dated a guy for 5 years, its now finally over and it looks like he is dating someone else. I have no desire to be with him anymore but I sooo want to give one parting blow so to speak! but I want to look like im above it all, because doesn't that really g
• Answered the question “Dated a guy for 5 years, its now finally over and it looks like he is dating someone else. I have no desire to be with him anymore but I sooo want to give one parting blow so to speak! but I want to look like im above it all, because doesn't that really g”
• Posted “Televisual Treadmill” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Four Dumb Things People Have Told Me That I, As A Man, Must Believe About Birth Control
• Posted The Male Perspective: Four Dumb Things People Have Told Me That I, As A Man, Must Believe About Birth Control to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My bf (well ex now) dated an abusive woman (she punched him, forged cheques, etc). He keeps going back to her... Then hates himself for it. He said he loves me but isn't in love with me (his head's still a mess over the ex), but he's amazing to my so”
• Answered the question “Are sexual texts always bad news?”
• Answered the question “why is he afraid to tell me hes cheated in the past but yet has the nerve to say he didnt and call me the hoe when im not?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy wants sex on first date”
• Posted Four Ways To Spot A Jerk On The First Date to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My ex-boyfriend dumped me because he said he wasn't sure if he loved me anymore. He told me he had felt this way for less than a month, after a year and a half of dating. Is it possible to lose feelings that fast? Will he come back?”
• Answered the question “Am I wrong for telling my boyfriend that he should get a new bed ...if we wanna live together. I don't want his old bed to be in our new home. He had to many women on it.”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend has herpes but has not had an out break for years... Can I get herpes if I suck his dick?”
• Posted “Textalache” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted The Male Perspective: The "Right" Not To Be Offended to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend really seems to be into me, but I think he might be really my bi-friend in the closet. I have asked him straight already, but I have not got a definate yes or no exactly. We spend a lot of time together, but some weirdness is there.How do I g”
• Answered the question “I am worried about getting into a relationship with someone because most guys I know eventually want a family and I have tokophobia(a pathological phobia of pregnancy and childbirth.) I like kids, but I can only have them with lots and lots of support, a”
• Answered the question “I'm close friends with a male colleague. He's always been self-involved but lately he seems to care less and less about me. It's making me sad. I really love him as a friend (he's gay) but I think I've always put more into the friendship than him. Does he”
• Commented on Is it weird that my boyfriend (of 6 months) and I have never had a fight? Not even a little altercation? My friends think its strange and unhealthy. What do you think?
• Commented on Navigating The Politics Of Facebook
• Answered the question “So I'm dating a med student and (While Naked) he mentioned that if our relationship was going to have a future I (we) needed to be healthier. I'm average size, eat very healthy but I have a high stress job. I can't help but think he was calling me fat. Th”
• Posted Navigating The Politics Of Facebook to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is it weird that my boyfriend (of 6 months) and I have never had a fight? Not even a little altercation? My friends think its strange and unhealthy. What do you think?”
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Why "Creep-Shaming" Is Ridiculous
• Answered the question “Are flat butts a relationship ender?”
• Answered the question “Do people assume nonmonogamy is pathological? I've never been in a relationship because I've never met a poly guy I got along with, though I have been straightforward with my sex partners - a non-issue since they were casual anyway. I'm completely honest ”
• Posted “Concert Kludger” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted The Male Perspective: A Fashion Blog Even Guys Can Love to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “why do some guys get so antagonistic when women reject their advances? even if the rejection is made as politely as possible?”
• Answered the question “Reformed player, Are women annoying?”
• Commented on I got blackout drunk at a friends party which my BF did not attend, and a man I have history with took advantage of that and apparently we ended up sleeping together. I am disgusted at the thought and hate myself, and I plan to never drink again. Will tel
• Answered the question “I run anywhere from 6-7 miles a day and strength train several times a week... and recently (in the course of about 9 months) lost about 35 pounds. I rarely drink beer and cut out most "bad" foods that I used to eat on a regular basis. I still don't have ”
• Posted Why "Why Don't We See Any Women In This Career" Is Kinda The Wrong Question to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I got blackout drunk at a friends party which my BF did not attend, and a man I have history with took advantage of that and apparently we ended up sleeping together. I am disgusted at the thought and hate myself, and I plan to never drink again. Will tel
• Answered the question “I got blackout drunk at a friends party which my BF did not attend, and a man I have history with took advantage of that and apparently we ended up sleeping together. I am disgusted at the thought and hate myself, and I plan to never drink again. Will tel”
• Answered the question “Is t true men like women with glasses because they have fantasies about sexual librarians and such?”
• Answered the question “I've been with my fiance for 3yrs. He's cheated on me, was manipulative & flat-out lied to me. He proposed to me in public, so I couldn't refuse. Now that I'm trying to leave, he wants to give our relationship his all & I don't. He's accusing me of not tr”
• Posted “Pregnancy Push” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me because he feels I don't love him. I do so many things with and for him and I tell him I love him. I don't know why he can't see it. I know how I feel about him! It hurts so much, there must be another reason? I d”
• Answered the question “Are you a virgin if you masturbate?and do guys like it when a girl masturbates?”
• Answered the question “So, I have been married to my husband for over 8 years. He cheated on me and left me for some skank. Shortly afterwards he got in trouble and now lived in prison, karma is a mother....Anyhow, of course he is sooo sorry and wants to work it out. But he's”
• Commented on I caught my boyfriend on a dating website a while back, but we resolved those issues. last night I found out that he has been using another dating site for three weeks and even hung out with one of the girls he met. he claims nothing happened and is beggi
• Answered the question “Hi, I think I have a problem. I like being single, but sometimes I feel lonely. Some hot guy's are after me, but I feel like I'm no longer able to love someone, I'm 21! Help?!”
• Posted The Two Rules Of Housework to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I caught my boyfriend on a dating website a while back, but we resolved those issues. last night I found out that he has been using another dating site for three weeks and even hung out with one of the girls he met. he claims nothing happened and is beggi”
• Answered the question “How can you tell if a guy is playing hard to get or just not interested? An older (& single) guy @ work has been throwing me mixed signals (I've stopped doing that). He'll gawk @ me one day & run away from me the next. Contact me, then ignore me. I gave h”
• Answered the question “My ex-bf broke up with me because he felt I was busting his balls. Now we're talking again and I don't know how to act with him? Should I try not to push him for anything? I do want us to get back together”
• Posted “Battle-Ex” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I've been with my BF for 2yrs. I suspected he was cheating in the 1st yr, snooped at his FB & found msgs to girls. I confronted him and we worked things out but I know he's still jacking off to photos on FB, he told me its normal? And I caught him giving ”
• Posted Extroverts, Lesbians, and Sex Music: Our Best of The Week to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted The Male Perspective: Drugstores Don't "Get" Your Period to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My ex wanted to get back together. While broken up, I drunkenly hooked up w/ one of his friends even though I still have feelings for my ex. Ex found out, thinks now is not a good idea to get back together bc he is angry at me. Should I move on? Or should”
• Answered the question “My ex-boyfriend tells me he still loves me and is in love with me, we live in different states, and have been broken up almost three months. Every time I start to get over him he tells me he misses me and loves me. Why is he stringing me along?”
• Commented on Dear Internet: Stop Telling The Engaged How Much Their Wedding Should Cost
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Find Not Your Relationship Advice On Pinterest
• Answered the question “Now that my bf and I are considering marriage, I am more freaked out by the tons (at least 50-60) of women he slept with in the past. I know sex is natural and fun and was thrown at him, but it makes me wonder if he'll miss his glory days after being with”
• Posted Dear Internet: Stop Telling The Engaged How Much Their Wedding Should Cost to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm casually seeing this guy, it's been two months, the sex is good, but he doesn't know how to get me off. I want him to go down on me, but because we're "casual" i feel awkward bringing it up. I mean he must not want to do it if he doesn't try it, right”
• Answered the question “I have been dating a cop since October. Everything has been wonderful up until about a month ago. He has turned into a drama king! Constantly questioning everything and not trusting me. All my free time is spent with him. What gives, really tired of ”
• Answered the question “So, my bf will be going to med school next year. He might stay in state, he might not. We haven't talked about if/how our relationship will continue next year. When and how should I bring up this situation? I don't want the relationship to end, but he's”
• Posted “Candy Crush Saga” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My boyfriend has cheated in every relationship he has been in but he says that only happens when he has been really hurt and had enough. I asked if he has ever cheated on me and he either laughs and says no or gets annoyed says no and tells me to drop it ”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Find Not Your Relationship Advice On Pinterest to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “RP, please help! whenever I see the new guy I've been dating long-distance things have gotten steamy. but he always seems to stop me before sex happens. I'm not sure, could he be a virgin? I don't know how to ask him without making things awkward. and how”
• Answered the question “If he physically, emotionally and verbally abuses me and its escalating over the years, then he tries to kick me out his house, then later tells me he didnt mean any of it, what is wrong with him? Is he scared of change? Of being alone?”
• Commented on Why Can't Anne Hathaway Win?
• Answered the question “My fiance and I have a great sex life. Lots of spice & variety. Recently, I have discovered that he looks at a LOT of porn. Which is no big problem for me. But then I found out that he looks at mostly anal porn, complete with enormous dildos and even (eeu”
• Posted Why Can't Anne Hathaway Win? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What is the best way to decline a date from an older guy on the rebound? He's nice and I like and respect him as a friend, so I don't want to hurt him. What is the best way you've been let down?”
• Answered the question “I feel like my boyfriend either isn't taking our relationship seriously or is just a man whore. He messages many girls on facebook and talks to a few on dating sites as well (right infront of me). The messages for the most part are long and intricate. Is ”
• Answered the question “I just met dis guy who already has a girlfriend buh we gettn closer by d day.am confused if am on d verge of breaking a relationship or he's just using me to while away time.”
• Posted “Twitspolsion” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “This morning while looking for a nail clipper, I saw that my boyfriend of 2 years has a prescription bottle of Viagra in his toiletry kit. Should I be worried that he hasn't told me he takes it? Should I confront him?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Parenthood Doesn't Absolve You Of Manners to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy says, that he can't introduce you to his friends because they're not nice guys?”
• Answered the question “OK WHY do all men want to shave their heads? It does NOT look good. Some can pull it off, but most of them-NOT. I have been together with my BF for 1 year and he does not even ask me about it first. Does not my opinion matter? HE looks bad.. And I do not ”
• Answered the question “do men befriend women just to get them into bed?”
• Commented on Your Sister Doesn't Have To Follow The Guy Code, Dudes
• Posted Your Sister Doesn't Have To Follow The Guy Code, Dudes to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Married for almost 12 yrs (bf&gf 18yrs total)w/4 kids. His cousin is always staring @ me & has mentioned he likes me and I have to admit I secretly fantasize about him also. How do I overcome this feeling cuz I do love my husband???”
• Answered the question “I'm in love with a guy who is separated & has been living on his own 2.5 yrs My issue is he says that they haven't discussed divorce & she has no idea that he's seeing me He has young kids & he says it's that he won't push it because he's putting his kids”
• Answered the question “Dear Reformed Player,What is it with a guy who texts a lot(mainly during the night) and who isn't rushing to have a booty call, although when he invites me over to his place we just cuddle till we fall asleep? But when I invite him out, he bails on me.”
• Commented on "I love you" but I don't know if I want children. Does he really not know, or does he know and not want to tell me? Been together over a year. I'm 26 and he's 34- the dude knows, doesn't he?
• Commented on Became FWB with my brother's best friend (who is in an open relationship). My brother found out, wants nothing to do with either of us. I know he'll come around because I'm his sister, but he's done with his friend...is there anything I can do to fix this
• Commented on Became FWB with my brother's best friend (who is in an open relationship). My brother found out, wants nothing to do with either of us. I know he'll come around because I'm his sister, but he's done with his friend...is there anything I can do to fix this
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Why "Creep-Shaming" Is Ridiculous
• Posted “Forcible Theme Music” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My boyfriend of seven years cheated on me with my ex sister-in-law. He then walked out on me and our children. He was with her for a month and then begged me to take him back, and cut off contact with her. I do love him but I am having a very difficult ti”
• Answered the question “Became FWB with my brother's best friend (who is in an open relationship). My brother found out, wants nothing to do with either of us. I know he'll come around because I'm his sister, but he's done with his friend...is there anything I can do to fix this”
• Answered the question “How long after a break up are you allowed to talk about it to your close friends? I got out of a year long relationship 3 days ago. I am sad and upset over it but I feel like I've been moping and talking about it too much to my friends. I dont want to ann”
• Answered the question “"I love you" but I don't know if I want children. Does he really not know, or does he know and not want to tell me? Been together over a year. I'm 26 and he's 34- the dude knows, doesn't he?”
• Posted If You Stop Taking Valentine's Day Seriously, You Might Actually Enjoy It to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “do guys like engraved stuff or to soppy? like a pen with name or something?”
• Answered the question “I'm 5'6", 110lbs, and i'm quite flatAnyway, I've had several other women (mostly curvy women) say that girls that aren't curvy or busty or that are thin aren't "real" women. And that men don't like girls without curves because there's nothing for them t”
• Answered the question “is it wrong to make a pass at your doctor?”
• Posted “Roommate Threshold” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I'm 23 and am very sexually inexperienced. I've had sex once (it was better than expected) and have never given a hj or a bj. Could my inexperiences be a negative factor down the line when looking for something serious? Should I consider getting a fwb typ”
• Answered the question “what does a man typically feel when he gets someone pregnant accidentally whom he was dating previously? Would love some insight. Does he consider trying to make a relationship work? Does he hate the woman? What does this change mean to a guy? Do they sof”
• Commented on I have a male roommate that doesn't bring his women (plural) to the house out of respect for me. We used to be involved but that's over now. I think he's being kind but my BFF thinks he's a dick. Thoughts??
• Answered the question “RP, I need help. He's my friend. We've slept together on and off for 5 years. Had sex 3 weeks ago, I got the flu and we didn't talk for awhile. He showed up yesterday at my work with a box of my stuff, and left. Texted me he's sorry he's a douche, it's no”
• Commented on "A Culture Of Violence", But Not The Way People Expect
• Answered the question “My boyfriend read my journal and emails.He's upset bc he read about crushes I had in the past.He had asked me if I had had crushes in the recent past, and I said no only because it's private. I do feel bad that I lied to him, but he shouldn't have snooped”
• Posted "A Culture Of Violence", But Not The Way People Expect to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “If a woman told you "If I got pregnant and knew my son would turn into the man that you are I'd have a f***ing abortion".Would such words hurt you...the slightest bit?This guy put me through hell and I tried to be nice but he just wouldn't give up b”
• Answered the question “Dear reformed player, my bf recently gave me the key to his apartment and though I know it is a trustworthy act, I dont understand why my friends are making such a big deal about it. What does it mean for a guy to do that?”
• Commented on Do men like small boobs such as 34A?
• Answered the question “I have a male roommate that doesn't bring his women (plural) to the house out of respect for me. We used to be involved but that's over now. I think he's being kind but my BFF thinks he's a dick. Thoughts??”
• Posted “Girl Scout Cookies” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “After too much time only focused on work and studies and being a good girl, now I find myself at 25 feeling lonely, horny, bored to death, and angry for not finding my dream job. I'm already independent, so I just want very badly to get laid, get into tro”
• Answered the question “Been flirting w a hot guy for months, it got very sexual over txt and emails, he even sent me multiple pics of his junk. But in person he is polite, nicely dressed (always catching women's attention), proper and almost a bit socially awkward. Seems hot n ”
• Answered the question “Why do cute guys check out my profile on OKCupid, or give me a nice rating, but never message me?”
• Posted Why One Specific Type Of Football Fan Makes Sure I Never Watch The Super Bowl to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Im in a long distance relationship B/c of the distance we get into stupid arguments I get aggravated when he doesnt answer my txts in a timely fashion he gets aggravated when I get aggravated&so on How do we get into less petty arguments? B/c its kinda ha”
• Answered the question “what does it mean when a guy asks a woman he likes on the first date if she wants to have a baby with him in the next 12 months?”
• Answered the question “He cheated, I ended it... what to do with the engagement ring?”
• Posted “Maury Gap” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted Toxic BFFs, Ripped Workout Buddies, And Tweeted Boobs: Our Best Of The Week to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Serious question here, After sex, he wants you to know you can stay if you want, you dont HAVE to go, but he's probably going to bed soon. So i choose to leave. How do you know when to stay, and when to go? actually, how the hell do you ever know what to ”
• Answered the question “me and my boyfriend have been seeing each for 6 months he lives with his mom right because he has a 3 year old son and pay daycare and more. his mother does not agree with our realtionship and is always begging him for money, says i do nothing with my lif”
• Commented on Caught my fiance of 8 years looking at porn. This devastates me and makes me feel cheated. He's the best fiance a girl could ask for but what is the best way to help him give it up? He has warned that he may never be able to, and i don't want to push him
• Answered the question “Caught my fiance of 8 years looking at porn. This devastates me and makes me feel cheated. He's the best fiance a girl could ask for but what is the best way to help him give it up? He has warned that he may never be able to, and i don't want to push him ”
• Posted The Wedding "Disinvitation": Ego Or Diffidence Gone Amok? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I really like this guy, he broke up with me for another girl. why does he keep texting me?”
• Answered the question “I'm a male model 21 yr's have posed for All the high dollar agencies. I;m into weight lifting and i'm Straight...I was offered a part in an movie paying $250,000. US dollars if I spend the night with the producer,contract ready to signed if i do. Help ”
• Answered the question “I'm thinking about doing a "dating do's and don'ts" or a "what he really means" bulletin board for my freshmen girls. I'm their RA. Have any go-to answers for stuff like that? Thanks!”
• Posted “Ruzzle” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What if my cheating husband left me and now decides he wants to come back. I lean on the fact that i love him and this is the only reason I consider taking him back. Will this give him more power to continue cheating on me?”
• Answered the question “Do guys eat a girl with pubic hair out ?”
• Commented on Bad News, America: 'All My Babies Mamas' Is Apparently Not Going To Air
• Answered the question “I've been with my husband for almost 8 years in total. We have a 1 year old son. In the past, i've caught my husband looking at porn, but i just didn't think it was a big deal. More recently, i've caught him on dating sites, and sexsearch sites...and i've”
• Commented on What do you think about the new Show "Making Mr. Right" ?
• Commented on Bad News, America: 'All My Babies Mamas' Is Apparently Not Going To Air
• Commented on Bad News, America: 'All My Babies Mamas' Is Apparently Not Going To Air
• Answered the question “I asked my ex if he would be open to trying again. He replied that he was unsure; he did not want to say no but did not know if he should say yes. I confronted him to just tell me no then to help me move on. He eventually acquiesced w/ "fine, I do not thi”
• Posted Bad News, America: 'All My Babies Mamas' Is Apparently Not Going To Air to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have been with my guy 7 years we have a 1 year old baby I am happy he is calm and he is a great father but I want to have sex with other men and date them. But I also want to stay with him. Our relationship lost its lust over a year ago. Is it really so”
• Answered the question “Why does a guy say "I'm not married and I don't have kids"?”
• Answered the question “What do you think about the new Show "Making Mr. Right" ?”
• Posted “Golden Globes” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Dear RP, HELP! is true that mens behavior after sex reveals how they truly feel about you? after sex this guy stayed a couple of minutes before telling me he was going to the corner store to buy a drink and asked if I wanted something. WTF?”
• Answered the question “While cleaning our room, I found an old love letter to my bf from his ex wife. Most of our things are in a storage unit. All of his photos, etc. Should I be concerned this is the only item he didnt put in storage?”
• Answered the question “What type of women do married men choose to cheat with? I am asking because I seem to attract married men for the last three years. Each time I have turned them down. Why am I attracting these men?”
• Posted Floridians Solve Their Sex Problems With Beatings, Pooping to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hi, I know every guy is not the same but what do guy think about woman in shapewear? Hard corsets? To suff like spanx? Do men tend to like a woman going camando Or do they prefer girly undies?thanks”
• Answered the question “don't all men love giving oral sex as much as receiving it?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend accidentally stuck it in the wrong hole, so to speak. I wasn't ready and it hurt like hell! He swears it was an accident and I think I believe him, except it seems like a hard "mistake" to make. The lights were on. Does that kind of "oops" re”
• Answered the question “I am a real girl you can trust, I was just in a relationship and broke off with him (with a lie then told the truth because I needed time to my self because I was assaulted) He then told me some things that made me think there is a magic number I should h”
• Posted “Flop Chef” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “if a guy says i'm not looking for a relationship, what does that really mean?”
• Answered the question “do men friend zone women so they can date them later in life? i have a guy friend and i know he has feelings for me but he always wants to stay friends.. he is in a phase where he just wants to have fun and he knows that i want commitment n will not settl”
• Answered the question “What do you want in a wife? Realistically? Assuming a man is ready for commitment, what makes him want to spend the rest of his life with someone? Love is too vague, there must be something more, right?”
• Answered the question “what do i do when the guy i just broke up with for being a bad boyfriend is sending mixed signals now? acting as if he is interested in me, but acted like he wasnt when we were together?”
• Posted Facebook Hasn't Ruined Love. It's Just Made It More Efficient. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “i like a guy who is sometimes on my train, lots of eye contact and theres a chemistry there but hes married he always seems quiet and distant as well, i boldly gave him my no., nothing came of it but we still say hi and thats about it its been like this f”
• Answered the question “So I spent the better part of a year dating this guy who is clearly trouble. He's been involved in illicit activities, had his share of DUIs, stuff that I'm not sure I should really be talking about online. He's disappeared several times, can I pull the ”
• Answered the question “Would you like to see pics of me naked?”
• Answered the question “Do niceguys really finish last?I think that self-proclaimed "niceguys"(NOT ALL but a fair amount)aren't actually nice.They are entitled people who think that being "nice" makes them special.Nice is a great quality to have,but its what I expect from ALL pe”
• Answered the question “after few months of seeing this guy i got to know he has a girlfriend, and i started to really like him, and he told me everything about the situation. i dont know what to do, cause he doesnt want to let me go, but says that he doesnt want to hurt that gi”
• Answered the question “Is it possible for a guy to say he's not looking for a relationship and then after getting to know someone, change his mind?”
• Answered the question “What is an appropriate response when asked about your looks. People always ask me if I think I'm beautiful & when I honestly answer that I do, they act like Im conceited. But if I ever say that I think I'm average I get lectured on my low self-esteem & my”
• Posted How To Throw A Reasonable New Year's Party to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do guys like girls with short hair?”
• Answered the question “My now ex boyfriend cheated on me and got the girl pregnant. I have so much hate in my heart towards him i just wish i can erase him out my memory. What should i do to get over this situation faster?”
• Answered the question “My current BF claims to be a reformed cheater, since he met me. Yet he always accuses me of being unfaithful while joking and arguing. I have not cheated on him but he swears I want to sleep with everyone that I smile towards. What gives!? I really do car”
• Posted How To Post About A Tragedy On Facebook (Without Being An Ass) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My ex broke up with me because I didn't approve of him smoking pot and drinking most days. I miss him and care about him a lot but he is ignoring me now. Should I just leave it alone and move on?”
• Answered the question “is it every okay to forgive a cheating boyfriend?”
• Answered the question “My bf wants to get revenge frm his ex gf.He hates her so much cz of wat shes done to him. This has been goin on for quite awhile nw bt they've broke up a long time ago. I just don't get y he still wants revenge when he says hes over her?”
• Posted “Lockout Blockout” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How should I feel about my man watching porn? We've watched it together a few times, but I don't watch porn alone because I don't feel loyal doing so. I'm scared that he wants to watch other women, but he says he just uses it as a visual aid once in awhil”
• Posted Momma's Boys, Flat Chests and Geeky Gifts: Our Best Of The Week to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I pretended to be someone i'm not and started to talk to this guy. And he ended up finding out and told me not to talk to him ever again. But I never got to say how I felt. What should I do?”
• Answered the question “My fiancee's ex wants him back. Now he is too "busy" to talk or call. And now he is telling me I have to call before I come over. Should I leave? Or give him a chance?”
• Posted Hard Truth Of The Week: You Can't Make Someone Marry You to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “This may sound stupid, but my boyfriend lied about having braces when he was younger. I'm worried that it could actually be him testing me to see if he could get away with lying to me in the future. What do you think of it?”
• Answered the question “I dated a guy for 15 years and I know he cheated on me, he admitted it. I left him a year ago but we stayed in contact. He's now with another woman but says he can't get over me and wants to see me again. Should I? He says he's changed.”
• Answered the question “How do I make my ex boyfriend who broke up with me miss me?”
• Posted “Dog Blitz” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My married male best friend and I talk every day by and arrange late night chats where we talk into the early hours.He loves music and is a deep thinker.He calls me pet names,teases me,flirts a Little,he's now played me simply reds "you make me feel brand”
• Answered the question “Every time I try to break up with someone, they won't let me. "No, we can make this work" type of thing. Even when I insist it isn't working, guys drag it out for days telling me they don't want to break up, which leads to really messy, drawn out breakups”
• Answered the question “PLEASE tell me if there is some formula for truthiness proportional to drunkness. Can I take anything he does while UIA at face value?”
• Answered the question “Should guys still pay for dates?”
• Posted How To Survive Your Office Holiday Party to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “what does "superman" mean?”
• Answered the question “A (male) friend of mine at a party publicly and loudly says "A BJ from a hooker isn't cheating." I argue with him. None of the guys in the room including my BF say a word. Do they agree or are they just avoiding confrontation? I'm afraid to ask. Is this o”
• Posted “Bleeding Lip December” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My husband cheated on me repeatedly before we got married. We broke up, he changed dramatically, I took him back & we got married. Now he's extremely jealous whereas before he didn't care at all what I did! What's the problem?!”
• Posted The Male Perspective: The Liz Lemon Double-Standard to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I've been told I'm very pretty and attractive but my boobs are really ugly, I have large areolas and my boobs aren't very perky. I feel like guys get disappointed when I take my bra off, is this a deal-breaker?”
• Answered the question “What does brunch mean to guys?”
• Answered the question “I've been with my bf for almost a year, and I have a few ideas of what to get him for Xmas, but I can't really afford it. I'm worried he is going to go all-out (he makes A LOT more than me) and I'll feel bad bc I can't return the generosity, even though h”
• Commented on The "War" On "Men"
• Posted The "War" On "Men" to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What are the chances of a real relationship with a man who tells you he has strong feelings for you and has done for years, but is living with another woman and doesn't want to hurt her feelings. Will he ever change? This has been going on for a number ”
• Answered the question “Is there any way to combat the post-sex sleepiness? Other than sleep?”
• Answered the question “one of my dads friends who is in his mid 50's always raises his eyebrows and smiles at me,sometimes I catch him checking me out from behind,he gets close enough to sniff my hair.What does this mean?Does he like me?”
• Posted “Arrow” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How to make him text me first?Im seeing this guy for quite a while now, he's a busy man, but most of the time i have to text him or ask him out! how do i change that?”
• Answered the question “Why are men never ready for babies?”
• Posted The Reddit Chastity Belt Man And The Abused Mindset to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is it ok for me to feel threatened by porn, and would it help to watch it with him, or would guys rather keep that separate and private?”
• Answered the question “Is it ok that my bf is totally grossed out by my period? During sex, I didn't realize that I had started my period, and he saw a little blood. He refused to continue and was uncomfortable about it for the rest of the day. I feel like that was immature, es”
• Answered the question “Do guys find tomboys attractive? If so, what makes them attracted to one?”
• Posted “Panera Panic” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted The Male Perspective: Why Is It So Hard To Accept Women Play Video Games? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I recently had sex with a guy we were face to face from start to finish when we both climaxed he told me his condom was on the floor now im pregnant after plan b did not work what i don't understand is if his condom came off wouldn't it have been inside m”
• Answered the question “I have been with many guys and my boyfriend has only been in 4 long term relationships. Is this going to be an issue with us?”
• Answered the question “How can I tell if my boyfriend is cheating? Recently, he's been taking alot of business trips and not calling me for long periods of time. He used to stay in touch ALOT. I'm getting a bit suspicious...”
• Answered the question “what do u do if u like someone but thy have a girlfriend and u already told him how u feel ut he still doesnt dump her but u cant stop thinkn about him?”
• Posted Surprise! You Have A Facebook Couples Page! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Should I be proud or ashamed? My fiance has slept with 3 women and I've only been with him. I am 21 and he is 22 btw.”
• Answered the question “Why do guys keep girls numbers even though they don't talk to them anymore?”
• Answered the question “What are your thoughts on slut shaming? I honestly love sex (safe of course) but I can't stand when people just assume I'm some huge whore when I admit that. Women and men slut shame constantly and I think that needs to stop. Slut Movement 2012 anyone?”
• Posted “Sunday Twitdown” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My BF just found out he has a baby with a woman he slept with before meeting me (so nearly a yr ago). She told him she had an abortion (which he wanted) but now 13 mos later she's contacted him telling him he's a dad. Our world has been rocked & I'm afrai”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Sadly, You Have Not Heard The Last Of Sexist Politicians to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is it better to be a virgin or not in the dating world?”
• Answered the question “What do I do with my LD- bf? Right now, he says he can't visit me b/c he can't afford to due to legal expenses. BUT, he calls me every night, sometimes more. & we talk for hours. However, he has kept his Profile up on the date website, saying it's hard ”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months. Lately he's been uninterested in sex and picks on me about everything. He seems to be distancing himself. Is he cheating on me or just over the relationship? If so, why doesn't he just tell me? If no”
• Posted Some Things To Argue About Now That The Election Is Over to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have no motivation. I feel so burned out and like I just don't care. Nothing matters to me. I don't feel depressed, just indifferent about everything. What is wrong with me?”
• Answered the question “I am a loner. My BF is very social. He wants to hang with his friends and wants me to as well. I am not liking that. I will once in awhile, but its not something I want to do all the time. He feels hurt. I don't expect him to be friends with mine! How sho”
• Posted Are You Cheating On Your BF With Your BFF? Guyspeak's Best Of The Week to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend told me that when I'm telling him my problems, he really doesn't care. He told me that it's my problem and I should fix it by myself. I mean, why wouldn't he? That's one point of being in a relationship, right? What does he simply mean by tha”
• Posted “Confornity” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “This guy asked me out. Turns out he's 32, divorced, and has 2 kids. He doesn't seem like a creep and seems genuinely nice...but I'm in my early 20's and hesitant. Why would a 30-something guy want to date a 22 year old anyway?”
• Answered the question “if you can't stop thinking about your ex after five years and they have moved on would you tell the ex that you can't stop thinking about them and would like a friendship or something of some sort to get over your feelings seeing that you didn't have prop”
• Answered the question “Ex-boyfriend trying to get back together but keeps adding girls on fb, liking flirtatious pictures, saying he'll stay home but adding girls at 3am. He hid his activity but I got him on closest friends list so I know he's doing it. Goes clubbing, deletes w”
• Answered the question “This guy I'm dating doesn't want me to go to his home. He has 2 children that he hasn't introduced me to. I can't meet his friends. Do you think that he will change and how long is too long to wait for him to do the right thing.”
• Answered the question “Is it normal for a guy to call his girl when he is with his friends?”
• Posted How To Pick A Horror Movie to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My man wants to go up my butt, I don't. I tried "you first" way back when. Turns out he was raped as a kid. Been together 5 years. It drops then comes back. We attempt, then fail.He won't cheat or take the offer of doing it up my friend. I want to get it ”
• Answered the question “At a Halloween party, my boyfriend started talking about how he and his friend, who has he hooked up with in the past, were going out on Halloween and were planning on doing a themed costume together. He didn't invite me to join them. Is he really that ”
• Answered the question “I went too far on a date last night. Will I ever hear from this guy again?”
• Posted “Satanic Gambit” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “do guys really no feel guilty about cheating?”
• Answered the question “How do i know if a guy really wants me for a girlfriend or for a fling.By the way he's married.”
• Answered the question “I just found out that my boyfriend is bullying other people, some of them my best friends... Ive tried talking to him about it but he's just shrugging it off...what should I do to stop this?”
• Answered the question “Is it okay to flirt for fun or the attention when you have a bf?”
• Answered the question “i've recently slept with my ex,he tells me he loves me, but just can'tcommit, as he has got so much family drama atm. i'm so confused and fallen for him again, how do prove to him should be together.I'm the only girl he's slept with since we broke up,6 mo”
• Posted The Wedding Registry, As It Turns Out, Is Serious Business to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “When is it a good time to be jealous and when is it just plain psycho? Like if the guy I've been seeing for about a month goes out with his friends, do I have a right to be jealous/worried he'll hit on other girls?”
• Answered the question “I'm a pretty girl but I'm a bit on the heavier side... I'm in the process of being more in shape, but in the meantime, is it better to have sex with very dim lights/lights off so he doesn't get grossed out or just be seen? He wouldn't tell me he's grossed”
• Answered the question “I have been dating a guy for two years. I recently found out he has been soliciting hookers from the internet,and has kept profiles on dating sites all through the duration of our relationship. I bailed out quick. He wants us to go to counseling. I say he”
• Posted “Mother/Food Coefficient” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Mother/Food Coefficient” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I carpool, and I've noticed that lately everytime I give him a goodbye kiss he makes sure that a few of the men I work with who are also coming into work see us. It's like he wants to mark his territory. I'm a very loyal girlfriend; I ”
• Answered the question “A guy invites you to be in a 3 way relationship (often) with his fiance without first asking her but intends to ask. Having his cake and eating it too. Sound I expect nothing but heartache from this?”
• Answered the question “I lost my virginity a few weeks ago to a guy that I thought was my boyfriend. Turns out, he viewed me as only a "fuck buddy"...so a day after I told him I loved him, he just disappeared. Won't respond to my texts or calls. But I would like to keep him a”
• Answered the question “reformed player.. i am 21 years old. is a guy 28 to old for me”
• Answered the question “I've been dating my boyfriend for a year. I thought everything was ok until I asked him about the future. He said he didn't see a future with me but also didn't want the relationship to end. I'm so confused. Am I wasting my time?”
• Posted The Funniest Comment On Maxipad Ads Ever Gets A Hilarious Response to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do guys find large areolas attractive?”
• Answered the question “How do you know if your mans erectile problems are because of you or his health? He is 28, too young to have ED. He is healthy and exercises almost daily. I know I can be insecure so I tend to beat myself up if he cant get turned on. I blame myself and f”
• Answered the question “Hi RP,My fwb is in a LDR w another girl.I made him tell her abt our situation early on, but am not sure how ok she is abt it.He says she understands that he has needs but also gets really jealous when he talks to other girls.I don't like tt but I like s”
• Posted “"Louie"-Grade Discomfort” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Just found out the assistant store manager(my boss)is actually friends and living with the new girl hired in on my level. Soon this new girl is moving in with another manager(also our boss) that does the hiring. Conflict of interest? this is a serious pro”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Creepshots And Entitlement to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My crush has a girlfriend and I already kinda told him that i liked him. Plus he is a ladies man. What do I do?”
• Answered the question “my man never lets me be on top during sex; what does that mean?”
• Answered the question “What's your opinion of 'ghosting'?”
• Posted How To Spot An Insincere Apology to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How can I make him love me? He is single, in love with someone else and I am married.”
• Answered the question “how to i show my man i forgiven him?”
• Answered the question “My friends say I don't let guys know when I'm interested in them, but I'm terrible at flirting and not sure when I'm crossing the line into 'easy' territory. How do I show guys I like them without making a fool of myself?”
• Posted “Game/Life Balance” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted The Male Perspective: Why I Like Tori Amos to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “what's your stance on "nice guys finish last"? the few that i've "hungout" with were passive-aggressive people who always tried to play the victim. what gives?”
• Answered the question “Does being in a committed relationship mean you're going to get married? If not, why are guys so afraid of committment?”
• Answered the question “I like one of my ex-booyfriends friend.Their like best friends; the thing is that when I was crying about a problem we had a week before the break up;his best friend called him all these names and told to smile cause Im better off without him. I dont want”
• Answered the question “How do you get the guy you like to ask you for your phone number? (when your friends)”
• Posted Here's The Most Bonkers Political Ad Aimed At Women I've Ever Seen to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Can I look attractive even though my face is ugly?”
• Answered the question “Serious question: can a guy who habitually cheats on his wife - and has been doing so for several years - be an otherwise "good" or "decent" guy? Do I, despite being friends with him, have a responsibility to shun him for what he does? Am I in the wrong i”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I split two days ago. I'm seeing him Tuesday. What can I do to get him back?”
• Posted “Derp Derp” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My bf says all his ex's would attack him many times a day with BJ's. One gf often 5X/day. He thinks this is normal and desires bj's at least 1/day. If he doesn't get it I awake to his erotic dreams through the night. He isn't demanding, but is this norma”
• Answered the question “I have a cup boobs and I know my bf prefers larger boobs, they recently plumped up and then went back to an a and he sounded disappointed when I told him theyre back to an a. the physical side of the relationship is great but not sure if it should bother ”
• Answered the question “Why do some men settle for less? They marry the wrong girl, and then have affairs. Why not break up if you are not happy? It makes me wonder if some me like me for me or because they just want a piece of me. Enlighten me please.”
• Answered the question “Are men jealous of sex toys? My boyfriend apparently seems jealous. I have no clue why as 1) Im not cheating. 2)It makes me happy (and doesnt he want me to be happy?).....I guess the problem may be that I dont see him very often and he may seem it as a re”
• Answered the question “Should I tell a guy I'm in a sexual "relationship" in that I don't want to see him anymore, or just stop contacting him? Will he care either way?”
• Posted High School: The Theater of Cruelty to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How do guys feel about girls contacting them first on an online dating site? I know it is suppose to be acceptable but I feel like they wouldn't be as interested in a girl that initiated contact and she may come off as too eager. At least the guys that ar”
• Answered the question “So my past few relationships have ended because my boyfriends have cheated on me. And currently a married coworker has asked me out on a date. Am I doing something to attract these kinds of guys if so how do I stop ?”
• Answered the question “Will a guy be able to tell that I'm a virgin when we have sex if I don't tell him?”
• Posted “Existential Dredd” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How do you initiate giving a blowjob?”
• Posted Smug Marrieds, Friendship As Consolation, and Jealousy: Our Best Of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “hey reformed player! I have been totally duped by a player. i feel so stupid, but i just dont want him to think he has won and that im just another link in his chain. Do i tell him off or let it go? since you have the inside scoop on players, what approac”
• Answered the question “I want my guy friend who I am falling for (and he shows signs likes me more than a friend to) to know I like him but am afraid to say it. So next time we hug I want to massage or rub his back and then kiss his cheek. Will he get the hint? and am I crossin”
• Answered the question “I have genital HSV -1 & have not yet told my boyfriend of almost a year . Its eating away at me to tell him but I'm afraid he will be closed minded and not understand. He has oral hsv1 so the chances of him contracting it are slim to none. How do I tell h”
• Posted Science Versus Fashion: The Obesity Paradox to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I just want to know: if a guy tells other women that he's single & you've been dating for 4 years, what does it mean? he's a very serious person & very jealous to the point that he checks my phone every time and asks about the guys. i just want to know wh”
• Answered the question “i just dropped the guy i have been seeing for the past seven years and it really bothers me that he doesnt get why i wont talk to him anymore. He didn't want to put in the effort towards the relationship, and he drinks too much, among a list of things wro”
• Answered the question “Hi! I'm very happy with my boyfriend of seven months. He gets together with just the guys at least once a week, which I'm completely for. One night he was telling me that his friend who is getting engaged soon was trying to find a girl to hook up with... ”
• Posted “Bad Idea Bears” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I recently found out my boyfriend has 2 Facebook pages one where im on and one Im not. On his other page is flooded with pictures of him and his ex. Should I confront him about this he says he wants to keep us quiet for now which has been almost a year bu”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Dear Busybodies to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm not brating!Men always physical attracted to me but that's the end.I got a bachelors degree n i read.How can i show them i'm more than the girl they can have affairs or the freak in bed,after all i just a24 years old virgin.”
• Answered the question “Do I haves right to be upset that my boyfriend would go to a porn convention this January? He knows how I feel about porn. We have been dating for 3years. His friends are constantly asking him if he is going to go. His friends are single.”
• Answered the question “Does no contact bring your ex back faster or does it help him forget you quicker?”
• Posted Adulthood Vs. "Adulthood" to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Gyms Banning the Skinny Is...Actually Not a Bad Idea
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is.. very experienced. Me, well, I'm very shy, but I want to try some of the freaky things he likes and that I've heard about. How do I go about becoming a freak in the sheets?”
• Answered the question “How do you tell the difference between a guy being really nice to you because he likes you, and a guy being really nice to you because he's just really nice to everyone? What should I be looking out for? HELP ME. Pretty please?”
• Answered the question “I was dating a guy for 7 weeks. We have such a strong physical attraction. he butt dials me and he's with a girl. The next day he tweets "after last night I know I have a winner." (he knows i look at his tweets). I asked him was he seeing someone else bes”
• Posted “Dekindled” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Why do guys love doggy-style so much?”
• Answered the question “I broke up with my boyfriend, and after a few weeks of having little to no contact I messaged him asking if we could be friends. His response was cold saying he was in a different page and he couldn't be my friend because "feeling would get in the way," w”
• Answered the question “I recently started seeing my ex-boyfriend. I never met his family for the 4 years we were together (outside of his dad and son). Now, all of a sudden he wants double with his brother. We agreed that we are not dating. What he means by a double with his fa”
• Answered the question “He googled an ex girlfriend, should I be worried?”
• Answered the question “Will my friends with benefits become something more?We used to date but no has said he doesnt't want anyone, could he want me later on if I carry on being fwb and play it cool?”
• Posted Michelle Obama and The Politics of Popularity to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is there anyway to know if my ex boyfriend still likes me? We broke up last year and has remained friends but recently he has been initiating a lot of contact. He would notice the changes of my looks, stalks me on facebook and ask me if my guy friend lik”
• Answered the question “my bf frequents 4chan, a most wretched hive of scum and villainy. he keeps saving fan made pics of my fave cartoon characters naked and/or getting boned. now when i watch my shows all i see is them...naked and getting boned. it's really bugging me. tried ”
• Answered the question “I feel that my ex boyfriend is warming up to me again. He initiates many contact, stalks my Facebook and wen invites me to join him at his friend's party. Do you think he is interested me again?”
• Posted “Labor Day” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I'm sleeping with a guy who has girlfriend. we meet regularly and it has been 9 months since the first time. i had a crush on him from the first day i saw him and i did not know he has a girlfriend until oneday in bed and she called him.I feel so bad for ”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Oh, Spare Me, Ann Romney to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I am insecure about my lady parts but my new boyfriend is obsessed w/looking. I've had a child and it surely is not the same, nor does it look the same as it once did down yonder, hence the insecurities. Do I just let him have free reign to do so as he pl”
• Answered the question “I am married but still enjoy flirting with guys every now and then (nothing beyond that). Been flirting with a coworker and apparently he didn't know I was married (hello? I wear my wedding ring everyday!). As soon as he learned that I was married, his fl”
• Answered the question “do guys expect a blow job on the first date”
• Posted An Open Letter To Donald Trump to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I understand men have to be ready for marriage on their own terms that's why I don't want to screw this up. About to attend a wedding and I just know we'll be asked when will be our turn. What's the best reaction to give so he know I'm interested but not ”
• Answered the question “Would a real man make his ex girl choose between him and her current bf who she doesent know if she likes?”
• Answered the question “i am having sex with my ex-husbandhe has a live in girlfriend. he tells me he doesn't love er and they are like roomates. he comes to my place and tells me he misses me. he left me for the one he is living with....what do i do, i have feelings for hi”
• Posted “Netflix Weekend” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Netflix Weekend” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I noticed usually fashion bloggers have good looking boyfriends but the thing is their guy looks fit & they are plus size (nothing wrong with that) but just wondering do guys really notice a girl based on her style?”
• Posted Jealous Men, Religion, and Jerk Dads: Our Best of the Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted The Male Perspective: Circumcision And Internet Stupidity to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What does sexual tension feel like? How do you know it's mutual?”
• Answered the question “I noticed a toothbrush in the guest bathroom at my boy friends house...should I ask him who's it is? Or not bring it up?”
• Answered the question “I've had my heart broken by an abusive cheating psychopath about 4 years ago and am settled down with a 'normal' guy, but I can't seem to keep my insecurities and trust issues in check. He is the love of my life but I can't seem to stop pushing him away. ”
• Posted Put Not Your Faith Solely In Shoes to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do guys put girls in the "friend zone"? If a guys is attracted will he always want to sleep with her no matter how comfortable they get? Have you ever successfully been "just friends" with a girl? I'd like to hear from all the guys out there on this one”
• Answered the question “Ok so i'm a virgin. I want to have sex, but i don't want to sleep with a random stranger. Do you think that if i ask my guy who's a friend to have sex with me he will?”
• Answered the question “Dude at work asked me out on a date, led me on, then blew me off when I told him I don't kiss on a first date. Probably cause he realized I'm not easy, right? Now at work he's a chauvinistic and douchey. Best approach? I prefer to just be bitchy back but ”
• Posted “Ex-Pendables” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted The Male Perspective: The Baffling World of Breastfeeding to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “When guys are in public, do they ever go to the restroom to masturbate?”
• Answered the question “Why did my ex (who broke up with me) get mad that i assumed he had moved on and was having sex again?”
• Answered the question “Why are unnatractive white girls constantly pursued by hot guys?..simply because they're white? There are a lot of OTHER beautiful girls from other races you know!!!”
• Posted Why I Can't Wait To See 'Cosmopolis' to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Are meeting the inlaws as scary as it seems?”
• Answered the question “My husband loves big boobs. That is why he married me. We are both 40.The problem I have is when he stares literally at the boobs of a for example, a 15 yr old girl who is well developed and he gets into a trance staring at her boobs. It's creepy and ”
• Answered the question “I found a text on my bf's phone that said, "I'm not upset with you. I just don't think we should see each other anymore. You break things in the apt and I caught you literally taping me behind my back." We've been together 1.5 years and spend all our time”
• Posted “Petblocked” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “what does dolphin you mean?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Clarissa Shields And Internet Tough Guys to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “why would my ex BF want to still go to a wedding w me next week when he has a new girlfriend?”
• Answered the question “What lengths and measures do you think guys will generally take just to get laid? is it really to the point it is portrayed in the movies in which a guy will tell a girl whatever she wants to hear just to get laid? I'm finding it hard to trust any guy I d”
• Commented on Rihanna Is Too Sexy For Nivea? Seriously?
• Answered the question “My ex broke up with me. He has been randomly messaging me over last year. The first ones said he missed me and wasnt sure if he wanted me back. Then he just wants to be friends So i told him its time for both of us to move on. But he now is emailing aga”
• Commented on do men like women to wear underwear when they were a skirt or have nothing on?
• Posted Rihanna Is Too Sexy For Nivea? Seriously? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “do men like women to wear underwear when they were a skirt or have nothing on?”
• Answered the question “I've seen this boy near where I live a few times and he's friends of friends. I want to get to know him. What's the first move I should make on Facebook?”
• Answered the question “Me and my fiancee constantly brake up then get back together. He's never the first one to cave or apologize If I don't go see him after a fight he suspects that i'm with other guys and if I do go see him he makes me beg then we're okay. I do want to be wi”
• Posted “Cycling Partner” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My bf is not a virgin, I am. We are both christians and my belief is to wait until marriage. He accepts that. He doesn't want sex with me. But he's saying "once you try sex you cannot stop" and he feels like he cant wait with me so he will have sex with s”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Fifty Shades of Grey to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “me and this guy that I've had a crush on for a while now have been sleeping together off and on for the past two yrs...but he hasn't had a girlfriend since I've known him and isn't ready to commit to me. what do i need to do about him? should i quit sleep”
• Answered the question “alright ive been dating my bf for a year and a half and he has to move away to play hockey and the pucksluts in this city are nuts. I dont know if it is better to stay together and wonder about him or break-up an let him go on a pussy tear he tells me he ”
• Answered the question “I have an ugly blow job face. its perfectly cute and sexy when im just toying and teasing but when i get to the full on sucking part my face is hideous. Now im really self conscious about giving oral. i used to really enjoy doing it until this realization”
• Posted Confession Time: I Don't Care About The Olympics to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “He wants me to wait. We have been "together" for two years. He makes it known that we are not exclusive, that he sees other women and we have no title. I told him that I am not waiting and while I am not sleeping with anyone else I will date other guys .”
• Answered the question “how do you get a man going through a divorce to want you?”
• Answered the question “my bf has a problem with randomly not coming home.last night he had to run errands after work and he didnt come home at all! I dont have a phone so we usually fb message and i blocked him because i get no answer. i want to get the message thru that other ”
• Answered the question “Why do some guys propose so quickly while others don't? I'm usually very confident about my long term relationship until I see cuoples who got together after us getting married. Is my man not as confident about us? Is he not as sure? Everything feels GREA”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend wants me to "be a freak" when I go down on him. I'm not a super freak but I am confident and good in bed. Still though, how am I supposed to get freakier than a dick in my mouth and balls in my hand?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: The Lust Fallacy to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How to you get a guy to notice you without showing off your boobs and ass?”
• Answered the question “He has a lot going on (his own 80 hour week business, mom and widowed sister with health problems, daughter getting married) and can't devote as much time to the relationship as I want/need. But is saying, "Maybe we can try again someday when I have my a”
• Answered the question “My husband and I were doing a trial separation and agreed to not see other people. I now find out he has dating profile and is listed as "single", and he just starting going on some dates with women. I'm ending my marriage -is it ok for me to contact thes”
• Posted Why You Shouldn't Merge Your Music Collections to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm 24 and I've never had sex. I'm finally with a guy who I think I want my first time to be with... is it weird that I want him to dominate me - like tie my hands, nothing too crazy? Or should I wait to try that kind of thing until we've done it a few ti”
• Answered the question “So my bf is obsessed with Grimes. She's putting out these rings shaped like vaginas, and I heard they're molds of HER vagina. He wants one and it makes me feel weird. Is it bad I don't like the idea of him wearing her vajayjay on his finger?”
• Answered the question “how can i get a guy whipped?”
• Posted “Cupid Shuffle” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Is it unfair to try dating even though I am still in love with someone else? Me and the someone else will most likely not work out. We have never dated but because of distance it'd never work.. Please help”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Free Fred Willard! No, Just the Guy to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My cup size is DD, so obviously HUGE. But I sort of have big Areolas, but my nipples are normal sized. Is having big areolas a turnoff guys?”
• Answered the question “My boy friend refuses to shave his chest hair because he says all the other girls he's dated thought it was manly and sexy. I've told him how it really turns me off. Am I reading too much into this or does it say something about our relationship?”
• Answered the question “Okay, all you guys just say if your not ready for sex tell the guy but heres my question. What was your reaction when a girl said that to you? No guy just accepts it, they all pressure you for it or get the s***s when you say no. So any other advice to av”
• Posted Why I Started Feeling Bad for Juggaloes to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “so if we go to family functions, dinner dates, we have met each others family and friends, we see each other 4 or more times a week, am i still fwb?”
• Answered the question “Is it ever right to have an affair with a married man?”
• Posted “Beer Worm” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What is going on in the mind of a guy who says he wants to get you pregnant so you can 'be mine forever'... during sex, no less. We've been exclusively dating for a year and this is puzzling. No talk of marriage yet, but have discussed moving to a shared ”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend told me he really likes it rough, and I just wanna know what I can do for him, advice? I just feel a little clueless and I think it would be sexier if I came into the act contributing something, too.”
• Answered the question “My fiancé is finishing his BMT. This [CENSORED] has been trying to get with him for years. Rejected. so she is now engaged to his best bud. Now this [CENSORED] is posting all over his FB flirting with him. And trying to make fun of me. Can you Help me la”
• Answered the question “Often I have anal sex, but it only feels good when I'm reaching my peak. It's painful before and after that point. Because of this, I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend that often because I know that every time we do it he's expecting anal at some p”
• Answered the question “Do guys remember their first time like girls do? Do they stress about it?”
• Answered the question “How do i get my gf to stop asking questions about my ex? We have been together for about 6 yrs and she still brings her up. I dont like answering questions about my past because it has nothing to do with us. Every time it comes up we have an argument. i k”
• Posted Snooping: Why You Shouldn't Do It to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do men like small boobs such as 34A?”
• Commented on snooping.. when is it ok? and how do you confront your spouse when you find something that disrespect your relationship.. and no, i dont mean porn.. inappropriately conversations specifically.
• Commented on snooping.. when is it ok? and how do you confront your spouse when you find something that disrespect your relationship.. and no, i dont mean porn.. inappropriately conversations specifically.
• Answered the question “snooping.. when is it ok? and how do you confront your spouse when you find something that disrespect your relationship.. and no, i dont mean porn.. inappropriately conversations specifically.”
• Answered the question “I gave my bf oral for the first time and guided his hand to my hair (it was because my gag reflex is non existent so I wouldn't be bothered by choking). For the first three seconds of the bj he guided me, but by midway, he barely had his hand on my head a”
• Posted “Gag Reflex Gag” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I'm a 19 year old virgin. How big is a man's penis?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: 1Flesh, No Brains to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is a guy who has a lot of close friends that are girls a red flag?”
• Answered the question “are gays good at sex”
• Answered the question “My Ex just found out that I have been dating an acquaintance of his. He got mad stating that my boyfriend should have asked his permission to date me because they are "Friends" is this some kind of man code I am not aware of? I am not his property and the”
• Posted How to Get Out of Working Holidays When You're Single to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What does it mean if a guy says he's a legs man?”
• Answered the question “What's the deal with mixed signals? My main man friend has been sending them a lot, especially when beer is involved. Should I ignore the mixed signals or do something about them?”
• Answered the question “I'm 38, single, attractive, and starting to look around. I'm more attracted now to men who are at least 10 years older than I am, but weirdly I get hit on constantly by guys who are anything from 10-15 years younger! Why do such young guys want someone my”
• Posted “Defiant Drunk” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Would a guy find it weird if I'm 18 and I've never been in a proper relationship before? I'm not totally inexperienced with guys, but I've just never had a boyfriend. I used to think it was because I'm shy but now I'm not so sure. Is that a turn off?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Why Is Some Cooking Off Limits Based on Gender? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Smothering, Star Trek, and Oral: Our Best of the Week to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “HELP! My bf distanced himself from me cause I freaked out in a txt & it reminded him of his ex (unhappy with for 3 years & was cheated on) We all have emotional baggage (freak out was due to own baggage) Just want to talk but he only txt. Says he loves me”
• Answered the question “My bf =23, minimum wage job, no real ambitions. I pushed him to go to school, which he did (mechanic, his dream). Now failing his classes and broke (debts of 10 000$ that his parents will pay off for him, oh and will buy him a car too). My family and I lo”
• Answered the question “A guy I dated, his best friend just made a pass at me. I turned him completely down & now stuck between a rock & hard place. I have to tell my guy but we're currently not on speaking terms. I'd rather bring this to him in person but afraid he won't accept”
• Posted Natalie Nunn on Getting Married, Bridesmaidzillas, and Returning to Reality TV to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Alright, so this guy asked what turns me on and I said "words," as in I like being charmed and then he told me that I obviously must not have sex a lot. Wtf? So apparently it's too much to ask of someone to have a human conversation before I have sex with”
• Answered the question “i am a vlut apparently...a virgin slut. An ex of mine re tweeted this off of one of those stupid joke twitter pages and implied this described me. Can i take this as him thinking about me? don't really care about the lame insult. I just want to make sure ”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I are really close, and I love him a lot. I've only known him for a few months, but should i move into his apartment with him? (Im 20)”
• Posted “'I'm Not a Racist, But..."” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted The Male Perspective: Gyms Banning the Skinny Is...Actually Not a Bad Idea to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My ex's new gf posts pics of them on her Facebook page, but he has zero pics of her on his. What's up with that?”
• Answered the question “A male friend who I really like recently asked me to have a mmf threesome. I asked him if he ever asked his exwife to do that. He said he would never do that with his wife because he would want to be in a monogamous relationship with his wife. Does this”
• Answered the question “why would a guy you have been sexual with not let you know his address i know the city though”
• Answered the question “Why do guys become players that lead on a ton of girls at once and then never go out with any of them?”
• Posted Toxic Friends And How To Treat Them to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I was talking about my dating experiences with a friend (I'm a 23 y/o female who has only been on a few dates) and she called me selfish & picky b/c I didn't continue dating the guys because I wasn't really excited by them. I thought I okay until her reac”
• Answered the question “my single guy friend ask me do i have any single female friends that want to chill lax (relax and chill) is he asking me to find sex for him ie...friends with benefits. i thought he was asking me in a round about way was i single bt now im thinking diffe”
• Answered the question “Why do guys like playing with women's breasts and nipples so much? I mean, they aren't the ones feeling anything - the women are. I find it amazing, but other than pleasing me, what's the appeal?”
• Posted “Moves Like Jagged” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Will I scare a guy off if I talk to him about my ex when we have just started dating?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Yes, Teaching Dating In High School Is a Good Idea to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My ex has a new girlfriend, but he recently reached out to me and told me that everday he rereads the first love letter I've given to him. What are his intentions? Is he just trying to see if he still has a hold on me and trying to mess with my emotions? ”
• Answered the question “Are stretch marks disgusting to guys?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend's favorite sex position is doggy style. Is that normal? He says he likes to change it up every now and then for fun- but we always go back to doggy.”
• Commented on If You Text In a Movie Theater, Everyone Hates You
• Posted If You Text In a Movie Theater, Everyone Hates You to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Would you be offended if your future spouse asked for a pre-nup?”
• Answered the question “I am 21, my boyfriend is 22. Recently I lost my job and my boyfriend who makes about 50k a year is supporting me during the summer. He says it's ok, and I make sure I cook and clean and do as much as I can for him, but is it really ok? We have dated for 1”
• Answered the question “My husband is demanding that I quite my job b/c he thinks its ruining my health, which I'll admit is taking a slight toll buts its not life threatening. He is an investment banker so money is not an issue but I love my job. We fight about this every day w”
• Posted “Prometheus” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Is it weird for a young, straight women to be turned on by lesbian and gay porn, extreme violence, and rape?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Fun With Tampons to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Should I take him back, he realizes that he misses me, loves me, is depressed without me. but the whole reason for the breakup was because he didnt want to do long distance. now = in a heart beat he would do LD he says. we are in germany, hes going to US.”
• Answered the question “My bf of 1 yr who I live with mentioned offhand that he wasn't attracted to me anymore but didn't want to break up. We're in our late 20's and have talked about marriage/kids (he brought them up) and now it seems like he wants to give up. Should I look fo”
• Answered the question “I cheated on my ex about 2 weeks before we broke up (mutual, things going downhill for a while), trying to be friends & feel SUPER guilty I never told him... should I tell him now? He's an amazing guy & didn't deserve to be cheated on, idk what was wrong ”
• Posted Why Do Unqualified People Insist On Giving Marriage Advice? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “RP You're awesome and always have good advice. My bf tells me he can't do cowgirl because he's afraid his penis will bend or get hurt. If we try it - even slowly and carefully - he goes soft instantly. Honestly, he's not the first I've met with this ph”
• Answered the question “Is it normal for a guy to not have even a slight erection after 2nd base and 3rd base action? Buck-Naked girl laying on them and no erection :( Does this happen to guys very often or is this impotency? 90% of the guys I know would get aroused if a girl ju”
• Answered the question “When a girl shaves down low how short should she make it?”
• Posted “Gaydar” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Why would a guy want to know when the last time I had sex after just having sex with me for the first time?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Nobody Ever Cared About Your iPhone to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Should I tell him I'm pregnant with his baby? He is a real a-hole who has a girlfriend. I do not want him in my baby's life and I just know that he will be a douche about it.”
• Answered the question “RP: I intend to save my self until the marriage bed. I believe that I am a pretty appealing woman physically and emotionally otherwise (being completely honest), and other than The Act itself, I am pretty open to physical contact. How hard do you think i”
• Answered the question “Can I call my boyfriends' ex for a dinner to ask some little question about my boyfriend”
• Posted Here's Why You Should Never Pay Attention to "Scientific" Studies About Women to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do stretch marks bother guys?”
• Answered the question “I've been seeing this guy for 4 1/2 years, I just recently found out we will be having a baby. A few weeks ago his bf of 5 years whos a female texted me saying that they have been sleeping together for 4 years.Should I stay with him for the baby and becau”
• Posted “Immemorial Day” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My boyfriend pays more attention and gives more affection to his two little dogs then he does with me!What should I do?”
• Answered the question “Would a single man have an affair with a married woman if he knows her husband; if she showed interest?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Rules For Fools to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hey RP- a little advice if you will, just got dumped last night. It was pretty mutual as I had considered doing the same thing a few days ago, (the relationship isn't going anywhere) but I couldnt bring myself to because I do like the guy a lot. My feelin”
• Answered the question “I'm 28, the guy I'm interested in is 24. Does this qualify me as a cougar? Will he see me as much too old to date or be put off by my interest?”
• Answered the question “he lives with the girlfriend but isnt in love with her and doesnt want to kick her out but he cheats”
• Posted Why It Doesn't Matter What He Really Means to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Dear RP! Is it possible that my ex changed his mind after having ended our relationship because he couldn't commit? We met recently for the first time after the break-up and he's hitting on me and being kinder than ever. I'm not keeping my hopes up, but I”
• Answered the question “What's your opinion on sending "sexy" pictures to someone you like or are dating or are in a relationship with? Should a woman never do it or anyone because it could come back to bite them in the ass?? When is it acceptable? Will every guy show someone th”
• Answered the question “Why will a guy sleep with you and talk to you everyday but never take you out?”
• Posted “No Sex In The Champagne Room” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Trying to be friends w/ ex who I hooked up w/ after breakup. This summer we're working together; he invites me to hang w/ him, but I think he wants to hook up again. What can I do? I like talking to him but I just think hooking up will get me hurt again. ”
• Answered the question “My husband that I'm divorcing and have a daughter with appears to be seeing a girl who is about to graduate from high school. He's 24...am I wrong to be repulsed? I'm not jealous, just disturbed by it. Just strikes me as pathetic.”
• Posted The Male Perspective: What We Don't Talk About When We Talk About Privilege to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted An Interview with Jake DiMare, Good Men Project's Political Writer to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on How To Split Money In a Relationship, The Adult Way
• Answered the question “Why does he always ask me how my weekend was, and what my weekend plans are? Is he hinting he wants to hang out?”
• Commented on How To Split Money In a Relationship, The Adult Way
• Commented on How To Split Money In a Relationship, The Adult Way
• Posted How To Split Money In a Relationship, The Adult Way to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Why wont my boyfriend tell his ex that he is in a committed relationship”
• Answered the question “My bf and I were very close friends before we started going out. I told him a lot about my sexual past since we were friends. Now, he brings up my sexual past and uses it against me. How can I get him to stop making comparisons? It's getting to the point ”
• Answered the question “Where am I supposed to look during sex (when in postions where my face is exposed)? I figure eye contact brings some (or too much) intimacy. I don't know where the appropriate place/length to look is-& haveclosed my eyes for a bit (not in a forced wincing”
• Posted “Confrontation Surprise” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Can guys control when they get a boner?”
• Posted Jackhammers and Body Pillows: It's Got To Be The Best Of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Things have gotten a little, um, different with one of my co-workers. I caught him looking at me in a meeting, touched me during a conversation, and he compleately lost track of what he was saying when I walked past him the other day. Is he intentionally ”
• Answered the question “what do guys really think of girls with eating disorders? how long should i wait to tell a guy that i have this problem, if at all? Is it a turn off and do they find it weird and pathetic?”
• Answered the question “Im attractive &have been told I give off a sexy vibe. However, Ive noticed NUMEROUS men who are captivated by my looks and shall I say...come off desperately that they want to be seduce (supposedly by my wily seductive look). It makes me sick and in no wa”
• Posted If He's Broken, It's Not Your Job To Fix Him to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hello RP. Is it normal for my best guy friend and I (both hetero) to discuss somewhat personal details about sex? Stuff like history, likes and dislikes, porn, masturbation, kinky stuff we've done. I'm wondering if it might lead to us crossing the platoni”
• Answered the question “How does a girl attract a quality guy? I attract guys easily, but never the ones I want (I know, age-old problem...) Thanks!”
• Posted “Gwynething” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “how many guys can a girl sleep with before you see them as a slut?”
• Answered the question “Why does my husband give me hickeys?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: No, Your Children Did Not "Dethrone" You, You Cheating Jerk to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Online dating etiquette question: What do I do when someone I'm not interested in messages me? I don't want to be cold and not reply, but I also don't want to give them the impression that I'm interested and make them feel like I've led them on when I'm j”
• Answered the question “What are your thoughts on a guy who doesn't like sexting? No pictures, just innuendo. He says it isn't something he likes to do, but would do it if I like it. He always responds to something dirty with something sweet. Do you think he appreciates getting ”
• Answered the question “The man I've just started seeing, has informed me that he's slept with at least 90 women in the past!! Why would he tell me this??”
• Posted Friends with Your Ex? Always Disclose to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “RP, you would know the answer, i need your help. PLEASE clarify--is it always the case that "i'm not looking for anything serious" equates to "i'm not looking for anything serious with you"? or is it possible that a man really doesn't want a serious relat”
• Answered the question “If a guy tell me that we aren't getting back together, does he mean it?”
• Answered the question “My ex still wants to be friends with me. He's the one that wanted to end it. Whenever he sees me he tries to make me jealous by talking about girls. & whenever I'm talking to someone he makes a joke & aks "Is that you're new bf?" I know he doesn't want to”
• Posted “Dumping Your Ex” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I recently am in a relationship and it's going wonderfully. I have not cheated and know that I never will. He's also very understanding and not the jealous type. However, when I find myself talking to other guys I feel like I'm betraying him. Is this some”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Why "Creep-Shaming" Is Ridiculous to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted The Male Perspective: Why "Creep-Shaming" Is Ridiculous to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Met a guy thru an online dating site. Really like each other but the other night he told me he got a girl pregnant by a 1ns & just found out it was born. He's planning to support financially, but doesn't want a relationship w/ mother. I come from a conser”
• Answered the question “when it comes to sex, do men like bigger women?”
• Answered the question “How can I ask my guy to get an STD test before we start having sex?”
• Posted Foul Bachelorette Frog Is Ratting You Out And That's a Good Thing to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I just broke up with my boyfriend. I've had a thing for a good guy friend for 5 years. I'm confident enough now to straight out tell him I have feelings for him and would consider just being f*buddies regardless. Is this a good idea? What would most guys ”
• Answered the question “I've been flirting for weeks with a married man One night we met All we did that night was makeout & give oral We talked carriyng on a purely sexual relationship Nothing has happened since that night He is still flirty & says to text him. Can I ask i”
• Answered the question “how long should you wait to give/receive oral sex and vaginal sex?”
• Posted “'80s Fauxstalgia” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I found out my boyfriend had an affair with a married woman for 1 1/2 years before me. It really bothers me. Is this something that I should learn to accept as a part of his past or is this a huge character flaw that should raise red flags? He says the wo”
• Posted The Male Perspective: "Breaking Up" With a Clothing Line? What The?! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Ok so there's this guy that I'm like obsessed with. He's so hot and he thinks I'm hot too. He's one of those players like 100% but I don't even care. He won't do anything with me though because I just turned 18 and he's 32 and it sucks! How can I convince”
• Answered the question “I found out my bf of 3 years dated a Russian stripper before he met me. I just don't know if I can continue our relationship as strippers and what they represent are taboo. Am I being over sensitive?”
• Answered the question “Do you think a guy would b into exclusively dating a woman who still wants to see other men? I know this may sound weird to a lot of people, but to me it seems like the ideal option for myself. Are there men into this kind of dating?I'm hoping not to get ”
• Commented on Lily Aldrin, Girls, And The Pop Culture Double Standard
• Commented on Lily Aldrin, Girls, And The Pop Culture Double Standard
• Posted Lily Aldrin, Girls, And The Pop Culture Double Standard to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I know my guy loves me and I also know he enjoys sex with men . where does that leave me ? Am I just a cover foe his gay life?”
• Answered the question “How do I let boyfriend know that he pulled the cruelest mindf*** on me that I've ever seen? I want him to FEEL my anger”
• Answered the question “Help! I cannot keep up with my hubs in the sex dept since I've had our daughter. He constantly wants it, I just want sleep. I hate the fact that he watches porn and masturbates but I just don't kno what to do. Opinion?”
• Posted “The Lily Aldrin Effect” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Why are there mixed signals about "hooking up" being bad verse how many people do it? I'm so confused about if I want to hook-up, or if its social pressure? And it leaves me feeling horrible no matter if I "hook-up" or if I don't because I feel like I lea”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Or Maybe We Just Don't Understand Teenagers? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Morals AsideHe likes her She likes himHe wants toShe wants tooProblem:They r both involved w/someone elseHes a good guy n probably wont make the 1st moveHis mouth says 1 thing n his body says another... How can she get him 2 act on his desir”
• Answered the question “My fiance is still Facebook friends with his ex he dated just before me. He still talks to her sometimes on Facebook chat. He said they broke up because he didn't love her. I believe him.Why then are they still friends? Can I ask him if he told her ab”
• Commented on Ugh, Mitt Romney Again
• Commented on Ugh, Mitt Romney Again
• Answered the question “So I read that girls who are more attractive/hot are usually worse in bed because "guys are so pumped to be with such a hottie that the girl can lie back and enjoy the ride", where as less attractive girls are better in bed because they work for it. Opini”
• Posted Ugh, Mitt Romney Again to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Please help RP your my only hope. I've been dating this navy guy for 5 mons & things are great. I'm catching feelings & want to take things further but he insist we take things slow b/c he going on deployment for a yr soon. When he's drunk he tells me he ”
• Commented on I left my ex of a year a month ago. He posted a status saying he's with another girl and the girl commented! He says he was hacked. I don't believe him but he still won't let it go. He usually owes up to being wrong, and he knows even though we aren't fri
• Answered the question “Can you please tell me why I only attract taken men. Is there an "other woman" gene I am unaware of? I am average looking, dress rather conservatively, and am not a wild child, but I can get down if the opportunity presents itself. Please explain.”
• Answered the question “Do guys like moving stuff for girls? Like furniture and other large items?”
• Posted “Soft-Rocker” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I left my ex of a year a month ago. He posted a status saying he's with another girl and the girl commented! He says he was hacked. I don't believe him but he still won't let it go. He usually owes up to being wrong, and he knows even though we aren't fri”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Why Working From Home Will Help Fix The Wage Gap to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What do guys think about girls with past eating disorder issues? How long before I should tell a guy that it happened in the past but I am better now?”
• Answered the question “Why do I smell like sex most of the time? It's not a bad smell just different and makes me very self-consciousness. My BF says his ex never smelled like that. I never smelled like sex with my ex either.Is having an orgasm making me smell like sex? My B”
• Answered the question “How can I stop being insecure over porn?”
• Posted A Plea For Sex Education For Our Legislators to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Truth please! I met this inexperienced guy. Taught him a few things and tried a few tricks on him he had never heard of . So ..will a man stick around if the sex is toe curling ohmygodimspeechless amazing? I feel like i made him feel like " the man" so ”
• Answered the question “I'm in a long distance relationship and we've started sexting a lot. It's great and mutual. But I'm wondering if this will discourage him from making an effort to actually, physically get together with me (same location). Is this like getting the milk ”
• Answered the question “I'm having sex with my ex and he has a girlfriend. Me and him still both have some feelings for eachother and we both like sex. She's kind of getting the hint that somethings going on. she messaged me today asking what was going on. my ex saw the messages”
• Posted “Business Drunk” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I've worked very hard in my MA program and my department gave me a scholarship for a PhD program. I was excited and told a friend and he replied that I only got the scholarship because I have big boobs and the chair wants to f*** me. Is that really how it”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Condoms and Trust to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Can a guy shower you with money and gifts, fix numerous things in your home, be your shining knight in tough jams; and still only want you for sex? This man has been running hot and cold for over a year now, and sends a lot of mixed signals. What's a gal ”
• Answered the question “What is a weird age difference; 5 years, 10 years, 15 years? I am about to be 24 and am having trouble connecting to guys in their 20's. I am thinking of jumping in to the 30 and over pool, but how far can I go before we are venturing into daddy issue ter”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is respectful, kind, funny, adorable...but he doesn't go down on me. I did it to him once and he really enjoyed it, then I waited weeks for reciprocation and nada. He's also anal-opposed. I feel like this is a deal breaker. Does that make me ”
• Posted Why 'Carrie' Doesn't Need To Be Remade to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What do you do if you have a friend who recently came out of the closet, and is hitting on you, but you'r unsure if you want to flirt back! im straight/curious!”
• Answered the question “I'm in a sex-only relationship with a guy and I want out. How do I tell him? the reason is that the sex isn't what i was hoping and I leave frustrated. also, outside of the bedroom, he's a dick.”
• Answered the question “I can't use birth control. my guy and i each have kids from previous relationships, he's an excellent father. we've been together a year. he says he doesn't want more kids, but he never uses condoms. wtf? obviously he knows how it happens. do you think ma”
• Posted “Drama-Seeking Missile” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “why persons lick the cock during sex is it not harmful.”
• Posted Hypocrisy, Cheating, and Pushy People: It's The Best Of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is cellulite on a girls thighs a total turn off for a guy?”
• Commented on "The Hunger Games" and The "Twilight" Problem
• Commented on "The Hunger Games" and The "Twilight" Problem
• Answered the question “whenever I give my boyfriend oral pleasure.. he insists on grabbing the back of my head and slamming it into his penis until he climaxes. I have a small mouth and a sensitive gag reflex. He doesn't get it and wont stop. please help me!”
• Answered the question “Do you think a woman should be in an open relationship with a guy she wants to date exclusively, to see if he will eventually commit to her?”
• Posted "The Hunger Games" and The "Twilight" Problem to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “If a guy changes his number after a breakup, obviously that is a big sign he never wants to hear from me again. But it has been a few years and I would like to reconnect. What do you think of re-connections? Bad idea? Just leave it be?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy who dumped you goes out with one of your best friends 2 days later?”
• Answered the question “I recently got offered a job out of state that I'll be starting in July, so I decided to break things off with the guy I've been dating for a few weeks. He's taken it really hard, but I know it'll be worse if we drag things out. Should I stand my ground, ”
• Posted “Words With Enemies” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I just found out I have an STD (chlamydia) and am devastated. I feel so dirty and worthless. I always practice safe sex with new partners/one night stands so its not like I was irresponsible. What are the chances of getting some through protected sex and ”
• Posted The Male Perspective: What's With All The Vagina Bothering? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted The Male Perspective: What's With All The Vagina Bothering? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I fell in love with my boyfriend (lived together for 2 years, no job, has a daughter with ex, doesn't pay child support or any bills)'s best buddy (great guy, share interests and values with me, responsible) that he had known for 8 years. I am so confuse”
• Answered the question “What is it about masturbation that guys find as such a turn on? My guy and I have a great sex life. Neither one of us holds back and we're open to just about everything. He still finds one of his greatest joys from watching me "get myself off". What gi”
• Answered the question “Is it ever a good idea to go back to an ex?”
• Posted Three Reasons Not to Out Cheaters Publicly to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My Ex boyfriend is dating a younger girl a month after we broke up. I found out and sent him very nasty text messages about what i thought of him. We got in a fight and agreed to never talk to each other. But now i regret that. Is there any hope of us ev”
• Answered the question “why would a guy give a contact a name such as 'di do not answer'”
• Answered the question “I kicked my BF & his disrespectful pothead 17 year old son out of my house. He's pissed with me & has taken EVERYTHING of his except his precious BBQ that he used to cook on EVERY night. It's not like he could miss it, so why'd he leave it? I think he's”
• Posted “Chugaway” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I am 26 and have been a widow for about a year and a half. I'm interested in dating, but I'm a little worried that guys will shy away when they learn that my husband passed away... As a guy, would you feel weird about dating a widow?”
• Commented on How do you get over a situation where a guy you were dating marries the girl he cheated with.
• Answered the question “Not sure if this is going to be controversial or not, but is it possible/okay to find a hook up buddy to do everything with but sex? I'm a busy college girl "virgin" (everything but sex) and I want some action, but a hook up buddy is not someone I want to”
• Answered the question “Can you have found who you want to marry when you're 18?”
• Answered the question “A guy tried to hook up with me six times at a party. I rejected him every time because he was totally drunk and looked stoned and I thought he thought I was a different girl every time he tried. My friend told me today that he knew what he was doing, so I”
• Answered the question “How do you get over a situation where a guy you were dating marries the girl he cheated with.”
• Commented on The Pathetic Rise and Further Fall of Rush Limbaugh
• Posted The Pathetic Rise and Further Fall of Rush Limbaugh to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is that true that white guys like a black women with a big butt?”
• Answered the question “The day after a guy told me he wasn't interested in dating anymore but that he genuinely wanted to be friends, I tried to call him again to talk. He blocked me on facebook and never responded to my texts. I really want to apologize and try to be platonic ”
• Commented on what can i tell a girl to convince her to give me oral sex ?
• Answered the question “what can i tell a girl to convince her to give me oral sex ?”
• Posted “Mass Erect” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on The Male Perspective: The Awkward Conversation Fallacy
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy says to you "we need to talk"?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: The Awkward Conversation Fallacy to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Five Ways to Avoid Becoming a Video Game Widow
• Answered the question “I want to stop having sex until I am married (I am 23). I'm not particularly religious, but I am terrified of STD's so this weighs on my decision. Do you think the guys I date from now until then will understand, especially since I have been active before”
• Commented on Four Steps to Handle Getting Walked In On
• Answered the question “Hi! So I ran into a casual guy friend when we were both extremely drunk one night (I'm in college if that helps) and he said that he's always liked me and wants to be together...but next day he doesn't remember our convo. I'm not sure if I should believe ”
• Answered the question “My husband of 10 yrs revealed to me that 20 years ago in college he had sex with one of his fraternity brothers. He says it lasted a few months and they even said "I love you" He says that he was experimenting and that he thought maybe he was bi,but real”
• Posted Four Steps to Handle Getting Walked In On to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “is man cock size related our any body part?”
• Answered the question “So i've been seeing this guy, he's going through a divorce and from the first night he said he is just looking for fun with not strings attach. His actions speaks differently from his words. He takes me out, been nothing but sweet. He is really honest, bu”
• Posted “Pulling a Brewer” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “If you have a new girlfriend is there a chance you till love your ex but aare hiding it?”
• Answered the question “I've been single for 6 years. I have a kid & go to school. Have a job, pay my own bills. I have great friends. I try to look nice (& friends say I'm cute). BUT, last few years I ask a guy out, I get shot down. I haven't been on a date in 6 months, 3rd dat”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Living Single to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I've been seeing a guy for over a year. He tells me hes in love with me yet every time I talk to him about being my boyfriend he says he doesn't have time for a relationship. Should I move on?”
• Answered the question “hello! just wondering if a guy wants to make me a playlist and we're not seeing eachother is it a ploy to get in my pants?”
• Commented on Three Ways to Make an Engaged Couple Want to Kill You
• Commented on Three Ways to Make an Engaged Couple Want to Kill You
• Answered the question “My BF has to be right about everything. He tells me exactly how I should apply for a new job, preaches why standards are better than automatics, etc. He'll keep going until I agree with him. I've told him I'm allowed to have my own ideas and that he belit”
• Posted Three Ways to Make an Engaged Couple Want to Kill You to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “what did it meant, when a guy on the day we met said he wanted to rape me?”
• Answered the question “Why do guys insult girls they're hitting on? It's a turn off. All I want is for a guy to be nice to me.”
• Posted “Facebook Slapfight” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Will a guy ever apologize even if he was the biggest jerk ? I was diagnosed with a neurological disease and he left and came back but come to find out he was living with another girl and told her he was just using me and that I was sick and that's why he ”
• Commented on Is Snooping Really A Necessary Evil?
• Answered the question “Basically, there is this guy I really like, but he has a girlfriend that lives very far away.We hang out a lot and shows lots of different signs that he has feelings for me. He knows that I know he has a girlfriend, but he has never mentioned her to me or”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Toys, Toys, Toys to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “When my partner has even the slightest cold he won't sleep with me. He says he wants to, and he can get hard, but still we won't have sex. He just says that he can't, and that he's ill. I don't understand, because when I've a cold I'm still horny / up for”
• Commented on Dear Chris Brown, Please Go Away
• Commented on My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with porn that has older ladies in it, and as a girl who is a lot younger than him, it kind of makes me insecure. Should I be worried that I am not what he wants
• Answered the question “Why doesn't this guy I've been dating for 8 mths. not show signs of jealousy that I'm dating other guys? He clearly wants to be with me a lot, but not ready for a full commitment. He has told me he doesn't want to date anyone but that I have every right ”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with porn that has older ladies in it, and as a girl who is a lot younger than him, it kind of makes me insecure. Should I be worried that I am not what he wants”
• Commented on Teachers Are Human, Too
• Posted Teachers Are Human, Too to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “DO MEN CARE ABOUT LABIA SIZE”
• Answered the question “I know this is wrong, but no matter if i'm super interested in a guy i'm seeing/dating at first, I will start to pick apart their appearance& stop being attracted to them. I know I'm not perfect either (I have several issues with my own appearance too) bu”
• Posted “Galentine's Day” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Are attention whores worth our time as men? They put on this innocent act that what they do is perfectly normal to them. When we know that they are insecure and fucked in the head. Probably from childhood neglect. They lead guys on and when the guy says h”
• Commented on I am a DC comics fan, but almost all the characters I see as role models are male. I have nothing against them, and male representation has flaws, too. But the main female feature seems to be "hot." What do you think of male vs. female comic roles?
• Commented on my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and he hasn't proposed to me yet! He calls me his wife all the time, and it is so annoying when I don't have a ring! He says he doesn't have the money, but I know he does. Whats going on?
• Commented on my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and he hasn't proposed to me yet! He calls me his wife all the time, and it is so annoying when I don't have a ring! He says he doesn't have the money, but I know he does. Whats going on?
• Answered the question “my boyfriend leaves me to sit by the bar alone when in a club and goes off without telling me also he grinds with other girls infront of me what do i do?”
• Posted The Marrying Kind, The Lying Swine, and the Online Shame Machine: Guyspeak's Best Of the Week to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “my boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and he hasn't proposed to me yet! He calls me his wife all the time, and it is so annoying when I don't have a ring! He says he doesn't have the money, but I know he does. Whats going on?”
• Answered the question “I have been "dating" someone for 3 months. He pays (even when I offer to), asks me to stay over, makes me breakfast and is super affectionate but we still aren't official. To me his behavior screams boyfriend, but he has never mentioned a relationship be”
• Answered the question “please please please i need an answer: if you are on the phone with a guy and he is very quick in his answers, short replies and gives the feeling that he is rushing the conversation on the phone ,then would this type of behavior indicate a disinterest fo”
• Posted The Three Things You Should Trust If You're Single On Valentine's Day to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Sorry about the Raunchy question.Ive been with my bf for over a yr. He's 10 yr's older than me and our sex sucks now. It's to the point I rather pull out my toys than screw him meanwhile he's always asking for a BJ. Any suggestions, Ive tried talking.”
• Answered the question “I broke up with a guy who said he wasn't sure if he wanted a relationship, but then came back and said he did, only to find him saying the same thing a month later. Did I do something, or is he just an ass?”
• Posted “Stupor Bowl” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How do I get a guy at my university to back off when I am in a long distance relationship with someone I really like? I talk about the person I like all the time, but it has little effect. He sometimes calmly makes weird comments (e.g. at lab closing time”
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Breasts and Politics
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Breasts and Politics
• Answered the question “he left me after 10 years how long ntil he comes back”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Breasts and Politics to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I was talking to this guy and getting to know him and then I started to like him and went to a party together I find out he has a gf which he lied saying he didn't and said it's wrong and I can't date him until he's single... Hee wants me to be "patient" ”
• Answered the question “I hate V-day and don't want to celebrate with my BF. How do I go about this?”
• Commented on The Single Worst Piece Of Advice I've Ever Heard
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months but he won't have sex with me and Everytime we are together he has a hard...why???”
• Posted The Single Worst Piece Of Advice I've Ever Heard to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I'm secretly on this porn website where I get paid for XXX videos and pics. I could earn a lot more money if I was doing those with a partner. Should I ask my boyfriend of 4 months to do some with me or would he be freaked out and maybe tell everybody? Pe
• Answered the question “I'm secretly on this porn website where I get paid for XXX videos and pics. I could earn a lot more money if I was doing those with a partner. Should I ask my boyfriend of 4 months to do some with me or would he be freaked out and maybe tell everybody? Pe”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend of over a year broke up with me totally out of the blue. Didn't really give me a very valid reason. Should I try to sort it out or just leave it?”
• Posted “Splash Damage” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What's your opinion on couples who complain about each other, cheat on each other, break up and get back together a bunch of times, etc. Are they happy this way? I don't get it.”
• Answered the question “I saw my boyfriends inbox & it was full of convos with women dating back to the 1st(4 yrs 2gether) yr in our relationship.It said he wanted to make luv to them & would leave me if they wanted him. He says he didnt do anything with them & it was only enter”
• Posted The Male Perspective: "Feminism" Vs. "Equality" to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on What kind of things are bullshit reasons to cancel a date? Do you think a guy saying his car needs to be fixed but says "As soon as it's fixed we're definitely hanging! :)" is just his way of getting out of it but being nice about it?
• Answered the question “Do you believe that some people biologically aren't meant to be monogamous? I feel like I am the exception to every "female" stereotype (granted I know some men are like this as well that's why I said stereotype) in love and dating, i.e. commitment, wanti”
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Princesses Need Not Apply
• Answered the question “What kind of things are bullshit reasons to cancel a date? Do you think a guy saying his car needs to be fixed but says "As soon as it's fixed we're definitely hanging! :)" is just his way of getting out of it but being nice about it?”
• Answered the question “Is it true that men like crazy women? Not bats--t, but good/ amusing crazy.”
• Posted Three Reasons Your Boyfriend Needs to Join Pinterest to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Are you the guy in the picture?”
• Answered the question “my boyfriend has never been in a relationship longer than 2 yrs.we have been together for 4 and in may it will be 5 yrs.he says he wants to get married but everytime he wants to ask me i do something to make hm mad.maybe im scared cause i been married.he”
• Answered the question “Why does the guy "never leave the wife"?”
• Posted “Downton Abbey” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Princesses Need Not Apply
• Answered the question “I have found my husband watches gay porn online. He has so many pictures of guys and videos online. I have spoken to him about it but he doesn't admit. Do guys like to see same sex pics or what? I also saw he visited a gay chatting website and he says he”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Princesses Need Not Apply to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “what does it mean when a guy who sags his pants walks up to you & gets as close as an inch apart then lifts his shirt all the way up then pulls his pants up, waits a few seconds then leaves?Also what does it mean if he goes from being quiet to allof a”
• Answered the question “What's a sexy way to use handcuffs when he doesn't have a headboard/bed post to hook them on? And how can I talk dirty while doing it? Not my forte.”
• Commented on A Short Primer On The Nightmare That Is Buying an Engagement Ring
• Answered the question “Is it odd for a guy to just randomly leave and come back smelling strongly of cologne?”
• Commented on A Short Primer On The Nightmare That Is Buying an Engagement Ring
• Commented on A Short Primer On The Nightmare That Is Buying an Engagement Ring
• Posted A Short Primer On The Nightmare That Is Buying an Engagement Ring to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “So I just recently had sex for the third time and it still isn't feeling good.. like missionary hurts, but when I'm on top it doesn't really feel like anything.. Is this normal and will it start to feel good?”
• Answered the question “Do guys like shaved or unshaved?”
• Posted “Foreigner” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I'm working through some things and will call you when the dust settle”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Housework to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is it unfair to give my bf an ultimatum that he won't like but that is for his benefit? I want him to either get his license and be in school or to get his license and get a job if we're going to stay together/if he wants to move in with me. Is that too m”
• Answered the question “Pippa Middleton:naturally Gorgeous girl, sweet face but hot body? No No. I hear/read peoples interest in her "bum". From pictures, it just looks wide and flat. If guys really find that attractive then my perception of physical beauty is completely wrong.”
• Commented on So You're Thinking About Moving In Together
• Answered the question “when a guy says he only wants to be friends with benefits because he isn't reay for a relationship, then you say your going to date other people, he says ok. What does tha mean?”
• Answered the question “Why are skinny girls more attractive then heavier ones? Don't you think people should look on the inside not the outside?”
• Commented on So You're Thinking About Moving In Together
• Posted So You're Thinking About Moving In Together to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “RF, I've always appreciated you as a straight-shooter. I like a guy and we have chemistry. He seeks me out to talk to daily. He once commented that he "definitely didn't run straight" but hasn't ever mentioned it, or a partner, again. Is there a tactful w”
• Answered the question “Interested in an interracial relationship but why is it so hard, putting the public aside, to actually come by anyone out of your dating zone who actually has a genuine interest and is not just out to sample the buffet?”
• Posted “Robonakkuh” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “should your man forward your calls to his phone without your permission what type of man he is”
• Answered the question “Boyfriend said he's ok with me sleeping with a girl, but if that'd be a guy, our relationship would be ruined. I do not understand it. I might have great, explosive sex with a girl, orgasming as I never do with him - and that's ok. But if I have a dick in”
• Commented on The Male Perspective: When Cheating Paranoia Goes Too Far
• Posted The Male Perspective: When Cheating Paranoia Goes Too Far to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “It seems like any guy that finds out I have depression/anxiety runs. When do I tell them? Are there any that are willing to look past that? I don't want the next guy to get scared away when he sees me freaking/depressed. I'm normally good at hiding it but”
• Answered the question “I don't want to keep living together and not be married. If I give him an ultimatum will that make him marry me?”
• Answered the question “I want to date multiple guys at once. Just casual dating. I won't go past 2nd base until I find one I really like. Is this possible? Whenever I tell my friends, they look at me like it's a bad idea. Is it? I may want more later, but right now I am still ”
• Posted No, You Should Not Date the Married to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My ex and I have been trying to work things out for a few months. He stopped trying and I kept trying and he got mad. So I started moving on which upset him. He says he wants us to date other people then try but still wants to be in my life and still send”
• Answered the question “I feel like my boyfriend thinks that there are magic phrases that fix everything. Like when he verbal vomited "where did you get that whiny bitch voice? I've never heard you use it before", realized what he said and then said "love youuuu....." Why does h”
• Posted “New Beers Day” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on What What In The Butt
• Answered the question “Why is my newish guy ok with sex once or twice a week? And how can I tell him I need more?”
• Posted New Year's Thieves and the Singles Tax to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is it wrong for a girl to send pictures in her underwear to a guy shes dating, even if he swears not to send them? I say yes, but she thinks otherwise.. Help?”
• Commented on He keeps a photo of me by his bed, beams when he sees me, reaches for my hand any time I'm in reach, texts/calls any time he thinks of me, introduces me to parents, shares toe curling kisses with me, tells me I'm beautiful and sexy and cute, says he loves
• Answered the question “He keeps a photo of me by his bed, beams when he sees me, reaches for my hand any time I'm in reach, texts/calls any time he thinks of me, introduces me to parents, shares toe curling kisses with me, tells me I'm beautiful and sexy and cute, says he loves”
• Commented on What What In The Butt
• Answered the question “my husbands bff told me 1 ngt he loved me I just brushed it off but he was persistant we ended up hvg sex He was with someone 2. I ended it, he got married a week later. 6 yrs later hes divorced but engaged and contacts me on fb saying I am the one not he”
• Posted What What In The Butt to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “he just got divorced and says "he's not ready" but he give me tons of compliments and wants to hold my hand and spend time with me. Do I stick around, hoping he'll be ready soon, or do I run in the other direction?”
• Answered the question “While xmas shopping, a vendor was condescending to me (my bf was purchasing from them). Later, when I mentioned this, my bf chuckled and found his behavior toward me to be amusing. This is a very small event, but I think it's a bit of a red flag. Your tho”
• Answered the question “How does the no contact rule work if hes also not contacting me?”
• Posted “Crashmas” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I love my boyfriend but hate his body. He got gastric but isnt taking care of himself. Im afraid I'll never be able to find someone who treats me this well and is attractive/not gross. Can I have flings to curb my urge for a hot man stomach?”
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Porn
• Posted The Male Perspective: "Text the Romance Back" to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “A coworker constantly flirts with me and our personalities are really compatible. I really am starting to fall for him, but... he's married (and 12 years older than me). He also knows I'm a good girl and thats part of what he likes about me. Is there any ”
• Answered the question “my step daughter is a senior in college. Her boyfriend is also a senior in college. they are both from wealthy parents. She has been paying for some/all of his airfares for his vacation holidays. any suggestions on how to tell her to get rid of this freel”
• Answered the question “Speaking of 3somes, be honest, do you think they're worth it? I mean, I definitely watch 3some porn on the regular and it totally turns me on - but the thought of my precious relationship with my BF, which is so much more than just sex.. it just seems lik”
• Posted The Cosmo Orgasm Quiz: They're Doing It Wrong to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My guy says he's turned on by watching me get turned on by other women, and we have discussed a 3some, which I am down for, but is there any other reason he wants this too?”
• Answered the question “I'm in a ldr n each time i go to my bfs house something always comes up, hairties, hair in his bedroom n bathroom that isn't mine, condoms in his dresser, a earing, a girls shirt n even a sextoy toy that was out of a package n looks like it was used. But ”
• Answered the question “I am friends w/ sexting a guy I work with. In 4 years, he's never mentioned his gf, and I know about her. Seems they're like roomies w/ bens - and all of his friends dislike her . I really like him, and we get along so well. How do I let him know how I fe”
• Posted “Christmas War” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Porn
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Porn
• Commented on Three Reasons We All Need to Calm Down About Virginity
• Commented on Three Reasons We All Need to Calm Down About Virginity
• Answered the question “If he really cares about me, would he leave me if i only let him watch certain porn [only stuff like normal sex, oral sex,love making,no rape,no anal,no orgy,no bondage, no young girls or degrading stuff. Or if i don't do oral unless he returned the favor”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Porn to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I am a self proclaimed "fag hag." It seems the only guys that are ever around me are gay and as much as I love hanging with my gays, I need a straight boyfriend! Is my overwhelming amount of gay bffs ruining my chances of finding a hetero man?”
• Answered the question “I've never been overly concerned with marriage, or even ameniable to the idea of it. But suddenly it seems like all my oldest friends are getting married. I'm left wondering why I'm in love with the greatest boyfriend I've ever had, yet so far away from t”
• Answered the question “Are there guys that are sexually attracted to their sister? I know I am being paranoid, but recently I stumbled on a random site that was discussing this issue saying it was apparently more common than people thought. It has made me slightly worried becau”
• Posted Three Reasons We All Need to Calm Down About Virginity to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I NEED to know!! What do you say to a man in a situation where youve just started having sex and he is having troubles staying hard? What ACTUALLY helps to hear in that patricular moment? Because im sure we say a lot of dumb sh*t that doesn't help...”
• Commented on Why are some penises really ugly?
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is in jail and we can't touch each other at the moment so we've been masturbating for each other during our booth visits. He's told the boys in jail about me doing this for him. I feel cheap and used. Is he just showing off to the boys? I”
• Posted “Theme Detune” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Why are some penises really ugly?”
• Posted 15 Christmas Songs To Use Against Your Coworkers to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I've slept with 5 different girls, am i a whore?
• Answered the question “Okay, my friend always bugs me about having a slightly hairy upper lip. I used to never be self conscious about it, until she kept pointing it out. Do you think guys notice? If so, do you think they care enough to let that be a reason not to date me?”
• Answered the question “I've slept with 5 different girls, am i a whore?”
• Answered the question “Is it inappropriate that my long-term live-in boyfriend has Christmas porn pictures saved on his phone that came from a chain text from one of his buddies? I mean I get it, 'tis the season... but why the f are they saved on his phone?!!”
• Answered the question “My bf seems to like my bj's more than having sex with me. We haven't had actual sex in over 2 weeks, and he swore he'd never eat a girl out, so I'm getting frustrated. I kind of understand because he almost always orgasms much stronger with a bj, but I ha”
• Posted It's the Most Exhausting Time Of The Year...But It Doesn't Have To Be to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I've heard you shouldn't try to make a guy jealous when you're talking/dating them. How true is that and why? The only reason I would do that is to is if they like me and its kinda cute.”
• Answered the question “I'm 22 and me and a guy at my job have been flirting. He told me has 2 children and a girlfriend(who's not the childrens mother) he recently told me he wanted to kiss me but I reminded him he had a g/f ... do you think he thinks I'm lame now? Will we rema”
• Answered the question “I started dating a guy at work about 6 months ago.he's a great guy- funny,smart, sensitive and very cool.. i just found out that he asked a friend of mine out about 4 years ago,She also works in the same office but she didn't say yes. I feel weird because”
• Posted “Neighsayer” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on If your in a long term relationship and your girl says she gonna get on the pill, why do you get upset? Isn't she being wise?
• Commented on If your in a long term relationship and your girl says she gonna get on the pill, why do you get upset? Isn't she being wise?
• Commented on Ten Things I Hate About The Christmas Season
• Posted Ten Things I Hate About The Christmas Season to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “If your in a long term relationship and your girl says she gonna get on the pill, why do you get upset? Isn't she being wise?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is sooo boring over text. Does that mean he doesn't want to talk to me?”
• Commented on Can you get herpes from sucking d*ck?
• Answered the question “Can you get herpes from sucking d*ck?”
• Answered the question “Can guys really tell if they would (or would not) sleep with a woman immediately? I overheard a conversation about the "yes/no," rule. If you see a girl, she's either a Yes (good looking enough to bang) or a No (not gonna happen)?”
• Answered the question “My baby daddy slipped up again.talking to other girls. they think he is a marine and is like 26 but he's actually 40 and in prison. he uses them for $$ and gifts. anyway, i know hes been doing this for years now, do i confront him again or just let it rid”
• Answered the question “I knew my friend is a jerk, but I didn't know to what extent. I got angry when he didn't follow thru on a favor and he just snapped, used bad language, and told me if I didn't apologize, we wouldn't speak anymore. I'm not a proud person but I think what h”
• Answered the question “Is it appropriate for my boyfriend of over 2 years to be following a porn star on twitter?”
• Posted “Decypher Monday” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on I have a crazy friend who told me about a gay sexual practice called "stromboli". Is he crazy?
• Answered the question “Can guys tell when a girl is easy? As in, they know that they don't have to make an effort or date her?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Why The Fashion Industry Makes Shopping a Living Hell For Men to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted The Three Weirdest Questions I Haven't Answered to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have been casually hooking up with someone for over three months now. The sex is out of this world.I recently have had reason to believe that he has a GF. If he does-would it be wrong of me keep seeing him? He initially told me that he didn't have time ”
• Answered the question “Is admitting to getting a blow job different than admitting having sex with another woman? How much different? If someone admits to getting a blow job from amother woman, does it mean that he will admit to having sex? If not. Why?”
• Answered the question “Do girls who act more "ditzy" or hide how smart they are actually get more guys? Or is that just the female equivalent of "Nice guys finish last" more seen in the media than in reality?”
• Posted “The Nico” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I'm a virgin and I'm literally terrified of having sex with my boyfriend. He's not pressuring me into it, but I just really don't think I'll ever be comfortable enough with my body or anyone else to actually have sex with them. The thought of it makes me ”
• Commented on My bf left his FB logged on, and I saw a convo between him and another girl that was very inappropriate. He owned up to it, but I couldn't shake the feeling I had. I logged onto his email and found 4 pics of different girls, all sexual in nature. How do I
• Answered the question “My bf left his FB logged on, and I saw a convo between him and another girl that was very inappropriate. He owned up to it, but I couldn't shake the feeling I had. I logged onto his email and found 4 pics of different girls, all sexual in nature. How do I”
• Answered the question “I am very embarrassed by this but my boyfriend never says or comments about it but I always fart like to seconds before I orgasm from him fingering me. Do you think its gross or bothers him. I don't know how to stop it :(”
• Answered the question “I hate playing mind games, and those 'he will text first/she will text first' battles are Greek and Latin to me. Are they so important for keeping a guy intrigued?”
• Answered the question “ever since my boyfriend and i broke up he has been ignoring me since. i dont get it the break up was even. i broke up with him we got back together then i let him break up with me. its been three years and he hasnt said a word to me and i see him every da”
• Posted Three Ways To Survive The Day Before Thanksgiving to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How can I get my friend to see she is dating a cheater? She says she doesnt trust him yet she stays with him. If he cheats on her (or trys to again) she will look like an idiot... and I kinda think she does now. What can I do?”
• Answered the question “how important is bad breath in the morning to men? what i mean is... will a guy dump you if you have it? or can you men deal with it?”
• Answered the question “How do I make him not be mad at me anymore for being a bitch to girls that he is friends with and show him that I am making more of an effort? Also after we talk, how can I get him to want to have makeup sex with me?”
• Posted “Black Hole of Selfishness” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I'm 20 and an older guy [less than 30] and I have been flirting. He just revealed to me he has a kid, but he's single. What should I do?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Joe Paterno and the Corrupting Influence of Football to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My bf has always been a loyal guy. Recently he went on a business trip with some jerks I have never liked who took him to a strip club. He texted me how beautiful the girls were then stopped talking to me. The next morning he told me he didn't even know w”
• Answered the question “Whats the best way to make a guy jealous?”
• Commented on We go out with friends on weekends occasionally & we watch football together sober every Sunday. We always do it after the game, sober. He says he loves my boobs, he's attentive, makes sure I'm satisfied & I hang around after until I feel like going back
• Answered the question “We go out with friends on weekends occasionally & we watch football together sober every Sunday. We always do it after the game, sober. He says he loves my boobs, he's attentive, makes sure I'm satisfied & I hang around after until I feel like going back”
• Posted Three Reasons TV Has So Many Nagging Women to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I like a guy who says he likes me too, but he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship because he says he gets stressed with family issues and school and so forth and when he gets stressed he takes it out on people, but he only says that because th”
• Answered the question “I have a friend with a birth mark on her vagina and its like 8 cm long. Do you think this would stop a guy from having a sexual encounter with her. Shes very insecure about it.”
• Posted “The Trapped Spelunker” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “should he be taking his ring off for the gym?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Kim Kardashian and the Hate Circus to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “No contact after a break up. Yay or nay?”
• Answered the question “I'm 21& losing hope.I've heard &followed the advice "Join some clubs or volunteer, u can meet guys there!" but every club at school are mostly girls &the places I've volunteered at are full of girls! Either a few or no guys at all. Do u know which volunte”
• Commented on Kris Humphries: Three Reasons I Feel Bad For Him
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Do Women Really Have to Choose Between Family and Career?
• Commented on Kris Humphries: Three Reasons I Feel Bad For Him
• Answered the question “So, there's this guy. He tells me how much he loves me. The only problem is he has a girlfriend. How do I know he's telling the truth and he really does love me and what should I do? Is he playing me??”
• Posted Kris Humphries: Three Reasons I Feel Bad For Him to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What Are A Few Things That Guys Hate That Us, Females, Do?”
• Answered the question “I've decided that online relationships aren't for me. I'm 19, a biochem major, always look good, BUT a size 18. I was hoping that, if men got to know how smart and funny I am, my weight wouldn't matter. It obviously does, because guys at school want noth”
• Answered the question “Is it weird when women don't shave/trim on their privates? Do guys prefer it bare???”
• Posted “Costume Wonder Twins” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Three Things New Parents Desperately Need to Understand
• Answered the question “I'm 19 and a virgin, I went to an all girls school and never had any boyfriends or anything. I met a guy at college and we've been seeing each other for a couple of weeks, I know sex will be expected very soon, Do guys get turned off by virgins? When shou”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Do Women Really Have to Choose Between Family and Career? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. He's the only guy I have been with that likes to watch porn. He says he don't like girls watching it with him because it takes the fun away. He also likes to watch videos of girls shaking their butts. How”
• Commented on I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. He's the only guy I have been with that likes to watch porn. He says he don't like girls watching it with him because it takes the fun away. He also likes to watch videos of girls shaking their butts. How
• Answered the question “Should I tell the girlfriend that her dream hunny has been sleeping with me? I think she needs to know, he has been doing it the entire time they have been together?”
• Commented on I know you guys are, well, guys. But any advice for dealing with mean girls? Would be so so appreciated, because at the moment it's just getting my spirits down.
• Posted Five Horror Movies For Halloween to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I know you guys are, well, guys. But any advice for dealing with mean girls? Would be so so appreciated, because at the moment it's just getting my spirits down.”
• Answered the question “sometimes when I feel my boyfriends balls they are smaller then usual. Does this mean he has had sex already, or has masturbated?”
• Answered the question “Why does men never admits that they are cheating? even though you have all the evidence, the only reply you get is," that is nothing"?”
• Posted “Talkblocker” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How can you tell if your ex still loves you and wants you?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: What's So Bad About Evolutionary Psychology? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Please help This guy used me for sex&a place to stay I lost my virginity to him B/c of this I did stupid things Now Im bein talked about I really want to feel better How can I? What do I do with all his crap because its in my room&I havent given it back t”
• Answered the question “I just recently started dating a guy who's girlfriend broke up with him a little over a month ago. He says he's over her but constantly talks about how he hates her and how she's such a bitch. Does he miss her or should it not be a cause for concern?”
• Commented on The Reason He Plays Video Games
• Answered the question “Please explain this to me. Do men need sex? Do they need prostitutes? I'm so confused.”
• Answered the question “i found out that he was married and has a special needs child (cerebral palsy). his phone has been off for days, so i just left a message saying f*** you scumbag, i'm done. do you have any tips on how to heal and get over it?”
• Posted The Reason He Plays Video Games to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Playa, I'm dyin' to know your thoughts on this. I haven't gotten a straight answer. Why would a 20 something guy let the right girl go just because he's not at that "right place" to be in a relationship (and she is)? Or, when the absolute "right girl" co”
• Answered the question “So I've been called a butter face? How am I suppose to respond to that..confusing on both ends cause I didn't think my bod was hot (but I do have nice legs :) and I didn't think my face was gross. He teases people a lot, but every joke has a seed of truth”
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Is Reality TV Making Girls More Horrible To Each Other?
• Answered the question “I'm a straight girl in a happy relationship. Sometimes I like to watch lesbian porn, sometimes gay men porn but honestly very rarely straight porn. I have a great sex life with my boyfriend and I am so attracted to him, so is this weird? Should I be as”
• Posted “Infomercial Hell” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on How do you tell your guy's female BFF to step the eff off?
• Commented on The Male Perspective: Is Reality TV Making Girls More Horrible To Each Other?
• Answered the question “How do you tell your guy's female BFF to step the eff off?”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Is Reality TV Making Girls More Horrible To Each Other? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “With all the movies talking about how girls are needy and guys are liars, and all the naysayers talking about how love doesn't really exist, and the divorce rate going up, I feel like it's getting more and more difficult to remain positive and hopeful abo”
• Commented on Is Masturbation A Sin?
• Commented on Three Things New Parents Desperately Need to Understand
• Posted Three Things New Parents Desperately Need to Understand to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “RP, I feel like you might know best. If you're initially attracted to someone, and then as you're getting to know them, you're not so sure anymore. Is that your gut telling you the person probably isn't right for you? Or is it something else? Should I giv”
• Commented on Why I Don't Work In Retail, And Other Things That Shouldn't Surprise You
• Answered the question “I met a guy (in person) 6 months ago who lives 1500 miles away from me. We spent hours on the phone/Skype for 4 months prior to seeing each other again, and he just bought me a plane ticket to go visit him. Does he just want a bootycall? I know for a fa”
• Commented on my boyfriend gets all hurt when he wants to stay over and i say no, but, he goes to bed at 9 and then takes up the whole bed, snores, and puts his arm under my pillow and my head and then tosses and turns all night....the more i try to explain this, the m
• Answered the question “my boyfriend gets all hurt when he wants to stay over and i say no, but, he goes to bed at 9 and then takes up the whole bed, snores, and puts his arm under my pillow and my head and then tosses and turns all night....the more i try to explain this, the m”
• Posted “FNAR” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on do you guys have other jobs? can we know what y'all do? just curious. thanks :) you can keep yours vague if you'd like MM
• Answered the question “My ex and I broke up. When I get sad about it all I am really thinking about was how I liked hooking up with him and how im going to miss his body & the ease & comfort we had with each other when we hooked up...does this mean I wasn't that into him emotio”
• Posted The Male Perspective: Chris Christie and Fat Female Politicians to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “A guy liked me while he had a gf.So i told him that he broke it off with his gf that i would date him..he laughed it off and said he just wants to be single for now. But now that he broke it off with his gf hes backing off of me and he hardly talks to me ”
• Posted Three Ways to Research His Hobbies (Without Feeling Dumb) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Graduated from a top university last May, 5'11'', kind, pretty, outgoing.....Ummm, I'm not approached :/”
• Answered the question “is it true that some guys would have sex with a "fat," girl but never date her/publically acknowledge their relationship? I literally saw a guy kiss a plus size girl goodbye, and then turn around tell his friend, "she's a scooter.. i only ride her at nigh”
• Answered the question “Is porn ok?”
• Posted “Moped” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What the hell does she mean when she says "I'm not sure how I'm feeling". We are in a open relationship and she went to visit the man in another state. This is the response she gave me when I asked how she was feeling about him. Help please.”
• Answered the question “I got pregnant by a guy who was cheating on his gf. We both found out. 2 mos later she texted she was pregnant 2. My baby's 2 mos now; her dad's only seen her 3x, but he's due to have this new baby any sec. I'm hurt; I feel she did this out of spite. How ”
• Commented on Three Relationship 'Strategies' That Don't Work
• Posted Three Relationship 'Strategies' That Don't Work to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do you think that all rich men cheat? My fiance is very well off and all of my friends and family are telling me that adultry is going to be guaranteed and that i should except it. I love him and i know he loves me and i don't think that he would ever che”
• Answered the question “plz help this 1 time i really dont know eles what to do. I keep getting sexually harassed & ppl think its funny but it makes me so angry that im not strong enough. I try to stop them and i say no but they dont listen. I was never raped but they push me ag”
• Answered the question “I do good job of not "blowing up" a guy's phone but when i don't txt or call for a day or two and wait for him to contact me in his own time he manipulates my lack of contact "so you're not talking to me anymore?" How do i respond to that?”
• Posted “Flanboy” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Do you think a person could be someone's kryptonite? (i.e. They cheat on their girlfriend just because of that person and do things they normally wouldn't do).”
• Commented on Chic Geek's Guide to Wonder Woman, Batman, and Other New DC Comics You Should Read
• Answered the question “So, I love my man.But my problem is this: I know I'm not the best sex he's ever had. (No he hasn't said anything.) The best blow job yes, but not the best sex. He's been my first and only.I think it's my inability to master girl on top. Any tips to either”
• Posted Three Halloween Costume Rules To Keep In Mind to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “do guys like it when girls where padded bras? is it deceiving?”
• Answered the question “I am sorry but I really have a hard time believing your actually a "reformed player" you are reaaally not good looking AT ALL. Your picture looks like those overweight dorks that always hit on women & creep them out. figuring this website needed guy write”
• Posted “B-Ass Master” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My boyfriend told me that he would break up with me if I ever happen to get drunk with friends at a bar. He finds it disrespectful. I have not once gotten drunk since we started dating, but I cannot say that I will never get accidentally overly tipsy when”
• Answered the question “Am I shallow if I don't like dating guys or having boyfriends that way less than me? I'm not fat it's just skinny guys like my curvy body and it makes me feel bigger cuz they're really skinny!”
• Answered the question “My ex's friends have requested me on facebook, I haven't seem my ex in over a year but he has texted me a couple of times and I've ignored it. But I'm really confused of why his best friends are requesting me on Facebook. What should I think?”
• Answered the question “Ok so i had a one night stand. I am very much aware of the rule of not contacting the person, but will i ever have the chance of being a friend? I just dont know how to approach him. Help!”
• Posted How Not To Make a Movie Tagline to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My best friend (a guy) is getting engaged to his gf. I know our friendship will have to change, but I don't want to loose him. How do u remain close friends when someone is married and u can't stand the fiance (yet I do respect their relationship)?”
• Posted “Stupidity Shields” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What is your opinion on sexting outside of a relationship? Recently I've heard of many guys doing it and claiming its not cheating. What do you think?”
• Commented on My boyfriend was supposed to move in w me after a long trip -- I already have a roomie who's a friend. I was getting a feeling that it might not be the best idea to mix them, told him he should think of another place to live when he's back. We have a grea
• Answered the question “My boyfriend was supposed to move in w me after a long trip -- I already have a roomie who's a friend. I was getting a feeling that it might not be the best idea to mix them, told him he should think of another place to live when he's back. We have a grea”
• Commented on what does it mean when your dating a guy and he suddenly ignores you and wont talk to you?
• Answered the question “what does it mean when your dating a guy and he suddenly ignores you and wont talk to you?”
• Commented on Three Lessons You Can Learn From Alyssa Bereznak
• Answered the question “My bf of two years dumped me but says he still loves me. I actually believe him. Stupid of me? If he does, why would he dump me? He's going through a sort of transitional period in his life (read: college). He says he doesn't want to date other girls but ”
• Commented on Three Lessons You Can Learn From Alyssa Bereznak
• Posted “Bereznak Attack” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What is the protocol for eye contact during sex? Is it hot or awkward?”
• Posted Three Lessons You Can Learn From Alyssa Bereznak to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “a friend and I are trying to decide if we should have sex or not. Tension is high, known each other for 10 years, he says he's afraid it would change our friendship in a negative way. He isnt ready for commitment but he acts like he really, really likes m”
• Answered the question “what kind of guy would say they love you and want to marry you and not mean it”
• Answered the question “Will a boy only date me if I put out? I'm an 19 year old virgin who hasn't even kissed a boy or had a bf yet. My mum says that the 'right guys' don't want me because I don't put out. I've never had a bf so I guess she might be right, though i stick by my ”
• Posted Hello...Is There Anybody In There? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “If a guy who was your boyfriend 12 years ago contacts you & you end up dating again but she has married,so the x who she's havin a affair with tells her he played her and stops talking to her, then in a email tells her iris by the googoo dolls. What would”
• Answered the question “I gave a guy my #, and he texted me a few hours later and then texted me again the next day to see how I was. That was two days ago. Would it be weird for me to text him to say hey/keep the conversation going?”
• Commented on Foreskin and Seven Years Ago: The Battle, A Head.
• Answered the question “Why can't guys commit- marriage before the age of 30? The real reason, is it because they want to see what else is out there. I've noticed marriage doesn't usually come until after a baby has been involved.”
• Posted “Geographical Internet Tough Guy” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “every where i go i have women in there 30's hating on me because of how young i am.and always making comments on how husbands these days leave there wives for younger girls. are older women always so jealous of younger women?”
• Answered the question “I broke up with my boyfriend for a guy whom I've known for a long time and am starting to fall for. Everything is going amazing, but long story short, he has a TINY penis. As in penetration not physically possible tiny. He feels bad so I try not to make i”
• Commented on why would a man like to have butt sex when he has a wife
• Commented on Who are you?
• Commented on Three Reasons 'Teen Mom' Should be Required Viewing
• Commented on Three Reasons 'Teen Mom' Should be Required Viewing
• Commented on Three Reasons 'Teen Mom' Should be Required Viewing
• Commented on Three Reasons 'Teen Mom' Should be Required Viewing
• Answered the question “when very attractive men marry women who aren't necessarily considered that great looking, is there a higher chance that he'll lose interest and find himself eying more attractive women? do thoughts like those come across a mans head often?”
• Posted Three Reasons 'Teen Mom' Should be Required Viewing to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on why would a man like to have butt sex when he has a wife
• Commented on So...I was having an affair with a married man, and suddenly, he stopped texting and calling. I was just in it for the sex, but he seemed to try to make a relationship out of it. How hard is it to actually be able to have no strings attached sex? I tho
• Answered the question “why would a man like to have butt sex when he has a wife”
• Posted “Gleed On” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “recently my bf and i agreed that i was allowed to sleep with another random guy. however, all i think about now is sex with the guy. i dont know what to do now with my bf. please help!”
• Commented on do most black guys with no job date white girls to take care of them?
• Answered the question “So...I was having an affair with a married man, and suddenly, he stopped texting and calling. I was just in it for the sex, but he seemed to try to make a relationship out of it. How hard is it to actually be able to have no strings attached sex? I tho”
• Answered the question “Can a man who you just met then basically spent the weekend with, was very affectionate & more concerned about your pleasure than his, tried talking you out of having sex but was amazing at it, gave you oral sex the first night, took you out for breakfast”
• Commented on Three Reasons Grammar Counts In Dating
• Commented on Do guys like women who masturbate ? and can they tell the difference between women who do ,and women who don't ??
• Answered the question “I recently tried initiating sex with my husband only to be rejected. I feel humiliated and wonder if I should give up on that whole idea. I thought men liked women to initiate? Seriously, WTF??”
• Posted Three Reasons Grammar Counts In Dating to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on What's your opinion on paying for dates? I've paid for almost every single dinner for my BF cause he said he'd pay me back. It's been one year and $500 dollars and still nothing.
• Commented on do most black guys with no job date white girls to take care of them?
• Commented on do most black guys with no job date white girls to take care of them?
• Commented on What the hell does "I'm sprung" mean?
• Answered the question “What's your opinion on paying for dates? I've paid for almost every single dinner for my BF cause he said he'd pay me back. It's been one year and $500 dollars and still nothing.”
• Posted “Skatetown USA” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Do guys like women who masturbate ? and can they tell the difference between women who do ,and women who don't ??”
• Answered the question “Iv just left my bf of 4 years and the father of my two children because,a)iv found emails to other women b)he wont live with me c) he can be violent (but blames me for that) d) he has had affairs in the past e) constantly chooses his friends over me-but i”
• Answered the question “I love my boyfriend and our life together, but I can only climax while thinking of women. Does that mean I should be in a relationship with a woman?”
• Commented on are black men attracted to white girls and if so why? and what do they look for in a girl?
• Answered the question “why do men like to smell ladies panties? i've never understood this fascination...”
• Posted Three Reasons You Can Be Your Best Friend's Worst Dating Enemy to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Recently my boyfriend randomly told me that if I don't go down on him, he won't go down on me. He knows that I think that my mouth is a little too precious for that, and we've never had this problem in the past. Not only do I think that this is unfair, bu
• Answered the question “Recently my boyfriend randomly told me that if I don't go down on him, he won't go down on me. He knows that I think that my mouth is a little too precious for that, and we've never had this problem in the past. Not only do I think that this is unfair, bu”
• Commented on I Went to Harvard And All I Got Was This Lousy STD
• Answered the question “are black men attracted to white girls and if so why? and what do they look for in a girl?”
• Posted “W.D.N.S.O.T” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is angry with me because I can't get time off work to go to his bday party. I have been trying to get a job for six weeks & have just managed to secure one in a pretty good position & I don't want to muck it up. I missed work for his bday on ”
• Commented on Four Reasons A Woman Isn't Promiscuous If She's Had Five Partners
• Answered the question “My husband's friend is very cruel to me when my husband isn't there. He says my husband doesn't find me attractive, sex with me is a chore, he doesn't understand why anyone would want me ect (Its only gotten worse since i became pregnant). I know he's lyi”
• Answered the question “A girl cheated and tried to push someone elses baby onto me before it was even born by claiming it mine. What's the proper form of action here? Revenge? Explosions?”
• Posted Four Reasons A Woman Isn't Promiscuous If She's Had Five Partners to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm pretty convinced my bf likes/loves his best friend more than me, and he at least hasn't denied it. (Turk and JD syndrome, anyone?) We've been going out for two years. Is this pretty normal for guys or should I bring it up directly?”
• Answered the question “How do guys feel about mental disorders?”
• Posted “Wikihole” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Sex Question: How many men do you think would be into a MFM 3-some? (percentage) Really want to ask my Husband but afraid he will freak out-But no Male to Male contact is expected. Don't Judge! I think the response would be diff if I asked about FMF 3 som”
• Answered the question “Do fake nails, hair, boobs, ect. turn guys off?”
• Commented on When a guy says he's slept with more than 6 women, around what number is the exact number? More than 6 as in 8 or 9, or more than 6 as in 20+?
• Answered the question “When a guy says he's slept with more than 6 women, around what number is the exact number? More than 6 as in 8 or 9, or more than 6 as in 20+?”
• Posted Three Things VH1 Reality Shows Have Taught Me About Dating to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My friends bf refuses to have sex with her.It's been going on for 5 years! He says that he just doesn't need it? They sleep in separate rooms and she complains he won't show any affection. She's miserable and insecure about it but won't leave because (asi”
• Posted “Feminist Chauvinist Pig” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Is it unfair to say that I don't want to be the bread winner when my boyfriend and I get married? I already work more and harder then him and make more money. I'm afraid that he is going to get used to this and expect this when we get married.”
• Answered the question “is the cake a lie?”
• Commented on Ask real men questions about anything and get real answers. should I be worried that my guy likes me to put a small vibrater in his ass
• Answered the question “Ask real men questions about anything and get real answers. should I be worried that my guy likes me to put a small vibrater in his ass”
• Commented on hey! okay soo it bothers me that im not listed as my boyfriends girlfriend on facebook @ that there are no pictures of me on his page and his wall is private. There are however still pics of his ex from 4 exes ago and he freaks out if i grab his phone ..
• Answered the question “hey! okay soo it bothers me that im not listed as my boyfriends girlfriend on facebook @ that there are no pictures of me on his page and his wall is private. There are however still pics of his ex from 4 exes ago and he freaks out if i grab his phone .. ”
• Commented on my boyfriend is getting fatter, help!
• Answered the question “Do men care what a vag looks like? I'm really insecure about mine it's, to put it explicitly, mostly pink but partly grey/brownish. And I have this funny little flap right above the 'entrance'. Sorry if this was too forthcoming but it worries me.”
• Posted Three Reasons All Guys Should Go Down to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How can you tell if you sabotage your relationships or if you are just trying to get into ones that are doomed to fail anyway? Can't fix a problem if you don't know what it is!”
• Posted “Rexting” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “my boyfriend is getting fatter, help!”
• Answered the question “If a man wants to find you, he will find you right? I deleted my email and changed my phone after a recent breakup. We still have mutual friends. If he wanted me back, it wouldn't really deter him if he had to search to contact me, would it?”
• Answered the question “Generally speaking ,is it not easy or take sometimes for man to orgasm during the oral sex? I gave BJ for my man two times and he came twice,i don't have any former experience so i don't know he was fake it or not, but he did ejaculated.”
• Posted Four Reasons I'm a Brony to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm a lesbian and my Guy friend tries to sleep with me, why?”
• Commented on I'm 22 yo. I have zero experience with guys ( I mean zero, no holding hands, no kissing, no anything ever). I've completely given up on ever finding love. Do you think it's possible to live one's whole life without ever having experienced love and still b
• Answered the question “I'm 22 yo. I have zero experience with guys ( I mean zero, no holding hands, no kissing, no anything ever). I've completely given up on ever finding love. Do you think it's possible to live one's whole life without ever having experienced love and still b”
• Commented on My name is Stephanie. How do I talk to a white guy on the train doing to work in the DC metro area?
• Answered the question “he doesn't notice all of the things i do for him. What do i do?”
• Posted “Brony” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “how do you know when a guy is going to break up with you?”
• Commented on I am a virgin, but I masturbate often. I can have a clitoral orgasm but when I masturbate with a vibrator or use sex toys/penises in my vagina, I don't feel anything. Does this mean that when i have sex I wont be able to reach a vaginal orgasm..?
• Commented on Is my penis too large for her?
• Answered the question “Do you think a younger women ( early twenties) is weird to online date? She is normal, has had traditional real world interactions that lead to relationships, and isn't super fugly just is growing tired of the bar scene and lives in a area where its hard ”
• Answered the question “how can you tell if a guy is turned on?”
• Posted Three Reasons a Dog Is Your Best Wingman to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is my penis too large for her?”
• Answered the question “I ran into an old friend, and as we were catching up, I noticed that he was continually playing with his wedding ring. Your thoughts?”
• Posted “R.I.D.” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “If a guy puts up a sort of douchey image and people that know of him think he is a douche or asshole, but he is really nice to me and he has some really good friends, what do I believe?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend & I broke up. Now we are both online. He peaks at my profile but never sends me an email, calls or text me. I think if he was really interested in me he would call me, text me or email me. So why does he keep reviewing my profile? He know's I”
• Answered the question “Is there such a thing as being too loud during sex? Not dirty talk, but moans, groans, etc. I was told something along the line of "like havin sex with a porn star" cause I was vocal. Not sure if its a good thing or a bad thing. I just prefer to express m”
• Posted Three Ways To Meet People (That Don't Involve Bars) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “So I'm hoping that as a "reformed player" you will have some insight here....I'm a sane and pretty 23 year old woman who is a virgin- my virginity is something I hold very dear, however I'm afraid that it somehow makes me "off the market" to even the most”
• Answered the question “If a girl is a little overweight does it stop men from hitting on her?”
• Posted “DLC” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “okay, so im cheating on my "perfect match" with a guy who is probably the worst guy i could choose. he is so awesome, and he gets me, but idk what to do. help??”
• Answered the question “I am a virgin, but I masturbate often. I can have a clitoral orgasm but when I masturbate with a vibrator or use sex toys/penises in my vagina, I don't feel anything. Does this mean that when i have sex I wont be able to reach a vaginal orgasm..?”
• Posted Three Reasons Why the Sammie Spades 'Story' Isn't One to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have been with my "boyfriend" for 10 years, but I'm not that into our relationship and haven't been for 2 years. Sexualy not at all. I can't really jsut leave because we have kids together. I'm sleeping with a yonger man who can be great, but after sex ”
• Answered the question “Virgins. How do guys feel about them?”
• Answered the question “What color do men like women to wear the most?”
• Posted “Southparking” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How much of our problems can we unload to a guy?”
• Answered the question “Can a man TRULY be bisexual? I think men are either straight or gay, I believe that sexuality is fluid, but men are known to be black and white. This or that. Gay or straight. They cant truly LOVE a woman if they also sexually want a man as well? I think ”
• Answered the question “When i text a guy why does he always ask for pictures of me?”
• Posted Three Ways Technology Can Kill Your Relationship to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “If a man places his work as a priority above you, is that a deal breaker? His parents have drilled that kind of mentality into him, as he is expected to take over the family business. I feel neglected, but also guilty.”
• Answered the question “Would a single normal hot man who's never been married before actually want to date a divorced young woman with two kids?”
• Posted “TV Tradeoff” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Why do guys who've been cheated on in the past become cheaters themselves?”
• Answered the question “I have a hard time meeting guys. I work in an industry that is all women and I don't really go out, work is my life. I am open to meeting someone, but it also takes me awhile to get comfortable. Meaning I can't just jump into a relationship sexually until”
• Answered the question “I don't mind my man having accounts online, but why would he hide a myspace full of his ex's and his best friend, then denies it when i asked him about it?”
• Posted 6 Songs That Have Accidentally Killed The Mood For Me to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I need to know how to give a good BJ...can you help?”
• Answered the question “If i am dating a guy and not happy should i stay, even though he claims i only care about my feelings?”
• Posted “Blankcation” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “So i havent seen my boyfriend in a few days and today i find a hairpin on his dresser that definitely isnt mine. Is there any scenario here where he didnt blatantly fuck around while i was away?”
• Answered the question “Not sure how I feel about my partner watching porn. I know alot of men watch porn but my problem is that even if I participate with him I feel as though he is more interested in the girls than me. What do you think about this?”
• Commented on When my guy and I have sex, he can't finish inside me unless he's wearing a condom. I'm on the pill and have been for quite some time so we bareback it sometimes, but he can't finish when we do and it bugs him hugely. Any feedback on this?
• Answered the question “When my guy and I have sex, he can't finish inside me unless he's wearing a condom. I'm on the pill and have been for quite some time so we bareback it sometimes, but he can't finish when we do and it bugs him hugely. Any feedback on this?”
• Posted Four Things Not To Do Before the First Date to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Ok here is the problem, I'm a virgen and my guy is very blessed. I'm worried about him fitting! Lets just say he is an extra large and I'm a small. Can I fix this??”
• Answered the question “can a guy truly love a woman even though he keeps cheating on her”
• Posted “Remedial Day” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I check my guys phone records and noticed that he blatantly lies to me about talking to certain girls and how often. What should I do?”
• Commented on I am married and seeing a close friend who is also married but in an open marriage. Her husband and son follow me on Facebook and now it's getting to be a little weird for me. I have had the best of all times with her sexually but, feel this is one that c
• Answered the question “My 1 yr old puppy, Jax, died suddenly of some illness. He was the best dog in the world n it was really upsetting. Now 4 months later I'm looking for a new one but my BF keeps making jokes about my dead one. Constantly saying I should name him Jax 2. It b”
• Answered the question “I am married and seeing a close friend who is also married but in an open marriage. Her husband and son follow me on Facebook and now it's getting to be a little weird for me. I have had the best of all times with her sexually but, feel this is one that c”
• Posted The Three Instantly Dumpable Offenses to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Any time I like a guy and things start to get serious, they end up ditching me for my best friend (the same friend each time). What am I doing wrong?”
• Answered the question “will he leave his wife ?”
• Posted “Nerdoir” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Is it appropriate to play 'Bounce' at your wedding in front of your family?”
• Commented on WA, how can I make my friends stop making me feel bad about not leaving tips when eating out? Some have stopped eating with me because of this. I didn't grow up with American values and I don't really practice the culture despite living in the U.S. Beside
• Answered the question “If a guy trys to hook up with you at a party, and after you reject him he is completely rude and horrible to you in other social situations, why is it that he will try to hook up with you again at the next party, then the one after that, and the one after”
• Answered the question “Why is it taking a man who's just graduated college, has a job lined up and has been in love with me for three years taking so long to put this into full gear? We've been dating on and off for forever, and Im ready to work towards marriage. Help!”
• Posted Three Reasons Why Everybody Dates Jerks to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “what does it mean when a man keeps sleeping with you after your break up”
• Answered the question “Sex. I want to--he doesn't. We've slowly climbed the ladder of intimacy, and yet he can't bring himself to do it because he's still traumatized from his last relationship. I get he's not ready. So, is there anything I can do to ...help speed things up?”
• Posted “Terrible Tuesdays” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Whenever I get even the slightest bit upset my face turns BRIGHT RED and I start to cry. I am 23 and HATE feeling like a baby. My boyfriend says I act like a 5 year old with the "crying act" but I really can't help it. Any advice on how to get over this??
• Answered the question “Whenever I get even the slightest bit upset my face turns BRIGHT RED and I start to cry. I am 23 and HATE feeling like a baby. My boyfriend says I act like a 5 year old with the "crying act" but I really can't help it. Any advice on how to get over this??”
• Answered the question “Attention please! How can i turn on a man who is 36,divorced while i'm 23.”
• Answered the question “why is it that some men dont know how to have a relationship?”
• Posted 3 Sex Questions I Just Had To Answer to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “snooping right or wrong?”
• Answered the question “I cheated on my boyfriend on a 3 week trip with someone and now: pregnant with an std - how do I tell them?”
• Posted “Suffragette City” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My Husband is abusive. I want to leave but I feel so guilty. A few of years ago (before the abuse) I had a serious surgery and he was my donor. I feel as though I owe him my life (which I technically do) and that im some heartless b*tch who left the man t”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend last a really long time in bed....way tooo long. it gets to the point where im ready to roll over and go to sleep. What can I do to speed things up?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend used to be a total player---so please help!!! We've been together a year and a half, and he cheated about a year ago. I can't get over it, I think about it constantly. I always think he's doing it again. Should I break up with him and take ti”
• Posted Five Pet Peeves Gay Guys Have With Straight Women to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Alright, what's the deal with spanking?
• Answered the question “Alright, what's the deal with spanking?”
• Posted “Phishstick” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How do you get a guy to be interested in you again?”
• Answered the question “I'm a virgin and the guy that I'm planning to lose it to is pretty experienced.. i don't want to ask him this because I think it's awkward. Am I supposed to shave that area? Shave everything? Shave a little? Shave nothing? what am I supposed to do??”
• Answered the question “How do I tell if a guy is not interested? I have pursued him (in a non-stalker way) and we have hooked up. He told me a relationship is not an option for him at this time. Yet he always texts me back right away, takes time to help me with problems, etc. W”
• Answered the question “What do you think of a man with a stripper pole in his LIVING ROOM? He's a ballroom dancer and teaches dance in his home on occasion. But a stripper pole in his LIVING ROOM?? It turned me off ...not on.”
• Answered the question “Are guys more likely to think a girl is hot if she wears heels or flats?”
• Posted 20 Bets You Won't See Made On The Royal Wedding to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is it normal in a long term relationship to miss being single, but not want to leave the person you're with for fear of loosing them forever?”
• Posted “Pronned” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Reformed Player, since you're reformed and all, can you tell us now how you did it? How did you fool so many women? (i.e., backhanded insults or old fashioned B.S.) Oh boy, I can't wait to hear this. So many players will finally shed a tear because their ”
• Answered the question “Is it guy's job to hunt & conquer and women's job to accomodate and accept whoever decides to pick her?”
• Posted Three Reasons Guys Don't Know How To Deal With Your Anger to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “So this is very embarrassing but here goes. My boyfriend and I love rough sex and sometimes I end up with slight bruises. My mother visited us this week and saw some of the bruises and now refuses to leave our house because she is convinced that he is abu”
• Commented on Hey Reformed Player- Quick (maybe not so quick) question.. Do most men prefer skinnier women? I know all women feel uncomfortable about their bodies, some more than others. But doesn't it matter as much to men as it does to us gals? Or does it matter mor
• Answered the question “Hey Reformed Player- Quick (maybe not so quick) question.. Do most men prefer skinnier women? I know all women feel uncomfortable about their bodies, some more than others. But doesn't it matter as much to men as it does to us gals? Or does it matter mor”
• Answered the question “I've never had sex with a guy who wasn't completely fine using condoms. My long term boyfriend recently mentioned that sex feels better without one. It wasn't a demand, just a statement of physiological fact. This really bothered me and I can't figure out”
• Posted “Bag Reflex” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Am I obligated to tell guys that I am dating more than one person if none of them asked or even implied that they wanted to be exclusive with me?”
• Answered the question “My guy friend told me that men often say they love you without feeling that way or even being encouraged because they want women to be in love with them. He says men do it to gain the upper hand over women! Confirm or deny this please!”
• Posted Five Signs That You're the Other Woman to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Help! My fiance was physically abused by his parents growing up(hitting, kicking, etc.), but he doesn't see anything wrong with being raised this way. How do I tell him it will NOT be okay to do this with our children without sounding insulting to his par”
• Answered the question “A guy friend keeps trying to hook up with me. He has a girlfriend. I've told him flat out, "no," I've told him exactly what I think of him, and have ignored/avoided him, but he STILL keeps trying! Will guys like this ever give up?”
• Commented on So how exactly do you go about picking questions to answer?
• Commented on Why would my boyfriend want to watch me with another guy? He wants to have a threesome, two guys and me, I told him I wouldnt have the two girl one guy threesome. He said he wants me to experience the pleasure??
• Answered the question “Why would my boyfriend want to watch me with another guy? He wants to have a threesome, two guys and me, I told him I wouldnt have the two girl one guy threesome. He said he wants me to experience the pleasure??”
• Posted “Bailgait” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Do you think an ex lover that left his girl to the girl's best friend and probably later broke up with the girl's best friend to be with his ex which was his first girl - can be trusted?”
• Commented on I'm sleeping with a man who has a girlfriend. He has feelings for me, and I have a bit of a crush on him as well. I would never date him. Is it wrong to be sleeping with him? I'm sure if it wasn't me it would be someone else. I'm only in it for the sex. A
• Answered the question “do you think its true that a nice guy or a guy who really cares about you won't be dominant in bed?”
• Commented on Five Ways to Get the Most Out of a Dating Website
• Commented on Five Ways to Get the Most Out of a Dating Website
• Answered the question “I'm sleeping with a man who has a girlfriend. He has feelings for me, and I have a bit of a crush on him as well. I would never date him. Is it wrong to be sleeping with him? I'm sure if it wasn't me it would be someone else. I'm only in it for the sex. A”
• Posted Five Ways to Get the Most Out of a Dating Website to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I've been dating a new guy for about 3months. We started sleeping together a month ago. Everytime we have sex, he says he's gotten off but I never feel cum. Most guys I've been with have practically gushed inside of me. Is it possible he's orgasmed withou”
• Answered the question “I lost my virginity by rape when I was 13, 7 years later I'm still scared. I have a boyfriend and he really wants to, but the mere thought of sex scares me. I never told anyone, so I don't know how to bring it up and I'm scared that he'll leave me because”
• Posted “Bro Doze” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on How long can you date a woman who is too old to marry (and whom you have told to her face that you will not marry her) without ruining her life by taking her final attractive (mid- and late-30s) years?>
• Answered the question “if my bf accuses me of cheating but I didnt and he is totally against getting back together do you think he is feeling guilty?”
• Commented on How long can you date a woman who is too old to marry (and whom you have told to her face that you will not marry her) without ruining her life by taking her final attractive (mid- and late-30s) years?>
• Answered the question “what should you do if you catch your best friend's partner cheating?”
• Commented on How long can you date a woman who is too old to marry (and whom you have told to her face that you will not marry her) without ruining her life by taking her final attractive (mid- and late-30s) years?>
• Answered the question “How long can you date a woman who is too old to marry (and whom you have told to her face that you will not marry her) without ruining her life by taking her final attractive (mid- and late-30s) years?>”
• Posted Five Basic Rules for Getting It On to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “help! i've never given oral to a guy and am worried what he might think of me once im bad at it. ps... how many questions do i have to ask to get a freaking answer?!”
• Answered the question “Ex-Sex. Is it ever a good idea?”
• Posted “Bash Brother” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on you know what i don't get, guys who feel the need to "butter you up" when all they want is a one night stand! Like i am ok with the one night thing but come on, just be honest about it! no need to compliment me and laugh at my jokes all night and make me
• Answered the question “you know what i don't get, guys who feel the need to "butter you up" when all they want is a one night stand! Like i am ok with the one night thing but come on, just be honest about it! no need to compliment me and laugh at my jokes all night and make me ”
• Answered the question “I do volunteer work and while I was eating lunch my group was discussing what traits we liked in the opposite sex. One of the guys explained that he only goes for one type of girl: dark skinned, dark eyes, etc. I look nothing like this, but when we were a”
• Answered the question “Why is it that when a man relentlessly pursues a girl its cute or romantic, but when a girl does the same its viewed as pathetic or even slutty? It seems nearly impossible to woo a man who is uninterested, yet a girl who is uninterested needs only to be w”
• Posted The Three (Risky) Methods of Sonic Seduction to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on My friend tried to set me up with a guy she knew. When he got there, he glanced at me, laughed, turned to her and said "you bitch," and drove away. My friend said it was because I refused to wear the see-through blouse she had suggested. I think it's bec
• Answered the question “I am 22 turning 23. I have had intercourse before but I am still unsure and not very confident in the bedroom. I've been with this great guy for almost 2 months now and I am not entirely sure how to approach him about this. I also recently discovered I ma”
• Answered the question “Is it wrong of my to ask my current bf of 7 months to not talk, txt or email his ex? The issue is that his ex is still his wife technically. They r currently in the divorce process. I have stated that I don't like the situation, but he states "they r j”
• Posted “Horkmouth” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My friend tried to set me up with a guy she knew. When he got there, he glanced at me, laughed, turned to her and said "you bitch," and drove away. My friend said it was because I refused to wear the see-through blouse she had suggested. I think it's bec”
• Answered the question “how many girls does it take for a guy to sleep with to be considered a man whore?”
• Commented on The Three (Aggravating) Guys In Romantic Comedies
• Answered the question “What do you think of the pickup artist community? Do all those little tricks work?”
• Posted The Three (Aggravating) Guys In Romantic Comedies to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “my bf is very upset at me for not giving him his space and bring up the past when i get mad at him (stupid stuff like him dancing once w someone else) now he is really mad and said i need to change. how can i fully trust him and not feel rejected when he ”
• Answered the question “Is there really such thing as a "reformed player"? My boss has a wild past but now is settled down with wife and kids. Recently, he tried to hook up with me, catching me completely off guard.”
• Posted “Epic Flail” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Isn't it a bit extreme to say that women and men can never be friends? What about best friends? Aren't there cases where (or people for whom) it can be completely platonic?
• Answered the question “Isn't it a bit extreme to say that women and men can never be friends? What about best friends? Aren't there cases where (or people for whom) it can be completely platonic?”
• Commented on Do you like black girls? I wonder sometimes if white men generally like black women. Idk why. I'm genuinely surprised when a white guy tells me I'm hot. I understand preference and all, but on a general level, is there an attraction there?
• Answered the question “Do you like black girls? I wonder sometimes if white men generally like black women. Idk why. I'm genuinely surprised when a white guy tells me I'm hot. I understand preference and all, but on a general level, is there an attraction there?”
• Commented on The Five Things Not To Do If You Catch Your Partner Cheating
• Commented on I'm a feminist, passionate about gender issues. Guys have told me that I lecture/"get preachy" when I try to start discussion. Don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm bashing hetero men, I believe these aren't just "women's issues" so I try to start honest
• Posted The Five Things Not To Do If You Catch Your Partner Cheating to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm a feminist, passionate about gender issues. Guys have told me that I lecture/"get preachy" when I try to start discussion. Don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm bashing hetero men, I believe these aren't just "women's issues" so I try to start honest ”
• Answered the question “Is it true that guys don't commit until they start running out of options for casual sex? A lot of other male advice bloggers say so. To get commitment, is it better to find the guys who can't get laid otherwise?”
• Answered the question “What do guys think of imperfections in a woman's body? Stretch marks over hips/butt, a stomach that isn't perfectly flat, a girl with larger hips/thighs, a girl who's skinny but has no shape? Honest thoughts! Not just- 'if u like them u won't mind'. Are t”
• Posted “Snookalike” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Hey RP, I have a question for you. And I think I'm speaking for the rest of the awesome single chicks out there too. Why are some gorgeous, kind, outgoing, fun etc. etc. women still single? Stop hitting on us and do something about it, single guys!”
• Commented on My husband won't stay off of dating sites. this makes me feel unwanted and betrayed. No trust=no sex. but even a three month no entry warning has no effect. What do I do? Divorce is not an option. Going on almost six months with no sex, he is still o
• Answered the question “Why is it that guys will not come up to me in public, but on a dating site, I cant get them to stop messaging me? I have been told im intimidating and i think thats a BS excuse for a man to not talk to a woman...thoughts?”
• Commented on Three Questions I Get A Lot (and Their Answers)
• Commented on My husband won't stay off of dating sites. this makes me feel unwanted and betrayed. No trust=no sex. but even a three month no entry warning has no effect. What do I do? Divorce is not an option. Going on almost six months with no sex, he is still o
• Answered the question “My husband won't stay off of dating sites. this makes me feel unwanted and betrayed. No trust=no sex. but even a three month no entry warning has no effect. What do I do? Divorce is not an option. Going on almost six months with no sex, he is still o”
• Commented on so i was talking to one of my guy friends last night and he brought up the point that some girls can have a "weird" vagina. what constitutes a "weird" vagina? how do i know if i have one? i feel very self conscious now.
• Posted Three Questions I Get A Lot (and Their Answers) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Oscars? I Got Your Oscars Right Here
• Answered the question “so i was talking to one of my guy friends last night and he brought up the point that some girls can have a "weird" vagina. what constitutes a "weird" vagina? how do i know if i have one? i feel very self conscious now.”
• Posted “Bangover” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How do you feel about being the 'other' person? I met this guy and we really hit it off. I'm not looking for a relationship and he already has one. I'm ready to jump in but my friends condemn me. He'd probably cheat with or without me. Are they right? Do ”
• Commented on Can guys pull off green Chinos?
• Answered the question “I'm seeing a self-proclaimed party animal. Is it possible he want a good girl that is going to "tame" him? Sometimes it seems he implies that...”
• Commented on Five Reasons Not To Move In With Your Boyfriend
• Commented on My boyfriend isnt into the shower sex or taking a shower together, he states its his own personal time or its awkard for him. I never met a guy that would turn that down!! We have been together for 10 months and have sex together so what gives??? Maybe he
• Answered the question “What's the best way to tell a girl to back off without sounding jealous when she's flirting with my boyfriend right in front of me?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend isnt into the shower sex or taking a shower together, he states its his own personal time or its awkard for him. I never met a guy that would turn that down!! We have been together for 10 months and have sex together so what gives??? Maybe he”
• Posted Five Reasons Not To Move In With Your Boyfriend to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Worst way you broke up with a girl?”
• Answered the question “Im 14 and my penis is 5 inchs long and 1.5 wide how do i have sex with my girlfriend with that tiny thing?”
• Posted “Jerk Chicken” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “The guy I'm seeing wears clothes from old ex girlfriends, like t-shirts, maybe jeans. I think it's kind of weird...your thoughts on this?”
• Commented on The guy I'm seeing wears clothes from old ex girlfriends, like t-shirts, maybe jeans. I think it's kind of weird...your thoughts on this?
• Answered the question “HELP!!! i complained to my man that we dont have enough sex and he said he cant get a hard on so i told him to go to the dr and he said no but i cant keep living without sex and when we do have sex like once a month hes a "two pump chump" :( how can i mak”
• Answered the question “I saw my boyfriend talking with his ex today, and it sort of worries me. I've been cheated on previously by other guys, and I'm terrified that it'll happen again. I feel like, if given the chance, my boyfriend would leave me to be with his ex. This may b”
• Posted Five Things You Don't Want To Know About Your Boyfriend's History to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend used to love getting blowjobs, but since we had sex, he never wants it anymore. He says it's just because he'd rather "kill two birds with one stone" in his words, but I can't help but think it's something I did.”
• Commented on Ok, girl works at a bar. I want her. What now?
• Commented on Ok, girl works at a bar. I want her. What now?
• Commented on Ok, girl works at a bar. I want her. What now?
• Answered the question “Ok, girl works at a bar. I want her. What now?”
• Posted “Schwingman” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Do men label a single woman as a "slut" if she's enjoying experiencing different people sexually (smartly, safely etc)? I've heard that even guys who get physical with her on some level don't think too well of her b/c she didn't wait, even if it's not a r”
• Commented on Valentine's Day Gifts For The Geeky Guy In Your Life
• Commented on ever had a situation where you really love someone and don't want to cheat, but then that fat girl still gives the best head ever?
• Answered the question “ever had a situation where you really love someone and don't want to cheat, but then that fat girl still gives the best head ever?”
• Answered the question “I'm 5'4'' & a size 12. I've been told I'm beautiful & have a pretty face. I've been hit on by guys, but no one seems to ask me out. I've never had a boyfriend - I'm 20. Is it because of my size? Is it too late for me to have a bf? & I worry about being a”
• Posted How Much Does Personality Matter When It Comes To Hooking Up? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm a teenage girl who has been with her boyfriend for a total of two months. Whilst I'm perfectly happy doing 'dirty' stuff (i.e. grinding, fondling etc.) he seems much more hesitant and wants to take it more slowly.”
• Commented on Tonight I was giving my guy a bj but he kept having me move to different positions, then decided he didn't want me going down so he started tittyfucking me. then he stopped that too. and then wouldn't have anything sexual at all...yet he kept saying he wa
• Answered the question “Tonight I was giving my guy a bj but he kept having me move to different positions, then decided he didn't want me going down so he started tittyfucking me. then he stopped that too. and then wouldn't have anything sexual at all...yet he kept saying he wa”
• Posted “Clockblocked” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on What's Good For the Goose Isn't Good For the Gander
• Commented on Joy and Pain - a day in the life.
• Answered the question “For some crazy reason, I have a low libido. I'm in shape, I eat healthy, I just don't need it all that often. My live-in bf, of course, does. I feel bad if I don't give him any but I usually feel worse (and gross) when I'm not feeling it and I do. How do ”
• Answered the question “so if a guy has been arrested ( but not convicted) does this count him out of the dating game with a very nice "good girl"?”
• Answered the question “Ask real men questions about anything and get real answers... So there we are on a three hour drive from Jersey and I hear a series of vibrations. My phone is on ring and his is on GPS. He has a history of "extra" cell phones a few years ago. Should I ”
• Commented on You're not even attractive at all.....How were you ever a player?
• Commented on Is Girl-on-Girl Cheating AOK?
• Answered the question “How do guys feel about a girl going commando even under jeans? Do they prefer sexy panties, g-strings, thongs, etc or no panties at all? I just start going commando and I like it but I want to know if it will turn a guy off.”
• Posted Is Girl-on-Girl Cheating AOK? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Working for Tipsy” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on What are the rules for dating a student dating her college professor? And if it's okay..what are some tips to keeps things professional, while seeing if there's an attraction there and if he's interested? (from the student side ;) )
• Commented on What are the rules for dating a student dating her college professor? And if it's okay..what are some tips to keeps things professional, while seeing if there's an attraction there and if he's interested? (from the student side ;) )
• Answered the question “How many woman should I have slept with by age 25?”
• Answered the question “If a woman keeps being there for a guy, keeps being a true friend to him, treating him well, helping him through catastrophes, smiling while dying inside when he dates other girls...do you think that one day he'll eventually figure out how much you love h”
• Answered the question “What are the rules for dating a student dating her college professor? And if it's okay..what are some tips to keeps things professional, while seeing if there's an attraction there and if he's interested? (from the student side ;) )”
• Posted Why Friends with Benefits is Never "No Strings Attached" to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Toolbar” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

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• goodkarmagirl commented on How do I answer the "why are you single" question when men ask me? I usually just find some reasonably generic answer to give them, but it always makes me feel awkward.So... why do men ask me this? And how do I answer it politely and non-awkwardly?
  My (now ex) BF asked several times about why I never had been married. It was a passive aggressive nasty thing to say... So my responses each time accompanied by a glare were: "Because YOU, Mr. 3-Peat, were married enough for the both of us." -and- "Listen, I don't marry everyone I date. I get to know them longer than on a drive to The chapel in Vegas" Good luck....
• Boomtown commented on How do I answer the "why are you single" question when men ask me? I usually just find some reasonably generic answer to give them, but it always makes me feel awkward.So... why do men ask me this? And how do I answer it politely and non-awkwardly?
  I get asked this a lot too and it is super annoying!! But I answer the question honestly - I'm single because I haven't met someone that I want to be in a relationship with that happens to also want to be in a relationship with me. Pretty simple stuff!! The reason it's so annoying for me is because I feel like the people who ask that kind of question are the type of people who think of a relationship as a status symbol or some kind of goal - I have always refused to view it that way and,...
• Just-me commented on So You're Thinking About Moving In Together
  one of the best thing we did with my bf - moved in together. i take care of paying the rent, he takes care of paying the bills. if we're both home - we cook together, if i come home late - he takes care that meal is ready when i come back from work and vice versa... I love cleaning alone because i organise everything in my mind and he's not into house cleaning but if i'm away or really tired - he doesn't mind to do the dishes or loundry if it's needed... it's all about communication and...
• bookwormgrrl commented on The Five Worst Things A First Date Has Actually Said To Me
  I once went on a date with someone who worked as a councilor at an addiction facility. Not only did he admit to me (within the first 30 minutes of the date) that he was a meth addict who thought I would "be a lot of fun on meth", but halfway through he began to look disinterested while I was speaking. I asked him if he was okay and this was his response: "It's not you.. I'm just filled with ennui." complete with nose in the air and hand flourish. As I left I looked around for the hidden camera......
• Alie commented on The Five Worst Things A First Date Has Actually Said To Me
  I went out on a blind date...that in itself was awful but anyways....he made me walk around like 3/4/5 blocks with him because he parked at his doctor's office so we'd get free parking (Strike 1- cheap)....then we went to a museum with slanted ceilings and he jumped to touch about every single one AND was kicking and jumping outside with sticks and rocks (Strike 2 - man child)....then after allll the walking we sit down outside of Starbucks and he sat there letting snot drip down his nose onto his lips AS he was talking and proceeded to tell...