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- Who is your celebrity look alike?No friggin clue.
- Who is your celebrity crush?Eddie Vedder, Kate Winslet, Neil Gaiman
- If you were stranded on a desert island and could only have two things with you (objects, not people or food) what would they be?A cell phone to get off the island. Can you hear me now?
- Name one food you hate:Peas
- How often do you talk to your mother a week/month?As little as I possibly can.
- Who is one person you would love to have dinner with?The Dalai Lama
- Boxers, briefs, or freeball?On guys, I like boxers or boxer briefs.
- Dog, cat, neither?cats, dogs, fish, birds...all animals.
- Name one magazine in your house right now:Harpers
- What’s your favorite quote?Don't shit where you eat.
- What is your favorite song?Anything that will make me cry.
- What’s your favorite movie of all time?http://pensivesea.livejournal.com/tag/favorites
- Do you text, email, or call?Text, email, snail-mail. I hate the phone.
- If you could donate $1 million to a charity – which one would you choose?Something for animals.
- How many days in a row do you wear the same socks?One
- If you had a daughter, and she asked you real nice, would you let her paint your toenails?I have a daughter and yes I would.
- Do you have any sisters, and if so, are they older or younger than you? If not, do you have any siblings at all, and where do you fall in the mix?1 older sister, 3 older brothers.
- What is your Twitter username?Twitter can kiss my ass
- Your Astrological Sign:Virgo
- What's your favorite sport?To play? Badminton. To watch: Just the Red Sox.
- What's your favorite professional sports team?Red Sox
- Do you have kids? If not, do you want rugrats one day?Just one daughter and that's plenty!
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Cary McNeal commented on
Things We Must Teach Our Daughters
I agree with you, but that's not what I meant. I'm talking about young women who are ashamed of being virgins when others their age are not, or girls who are being pressured at too young an age to be sexually active. Are you going to teach a 12-year-old "how to say yes, safely, if she wants"? Like it or not, in some instances virginity is a good thing....
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Quiz commented on
Things We Must Teach Our Daughters
Great list, Cary! I think daughters (especially daughters) should know the importance of honesty and being up-front with people. If one communicates clearly from the beginning and doesn't play head games, things are SO much easier. My guy friends taught me this one and it's helped in all areas of my life....
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Lakers commented on
Things We Must Teach Our Daughters
If I had a daughter I would have taught her that 1) there is no such thing as free 2) always know you can support yourself financially 3) if sounds too good to be true, it probably is....
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Auntie commented on
Things We Must Teach Our Daughters
Regardless of what your preferences are; this blog was written from a father's point of view for his daughter. As you have stated, everyone is entitled to their own opinions, and in this case; you're defending against opinion (which is a waste of time and a complete double standard by what you are preaching). Even though I enjoy debate as much as the next person, there's a difference between bringing constructive criticism into a post; and being a troll. This was not a personal blog to target you, nor was it a statement of fact for the rules of how...
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Cary McNeal commented on
Things We Must Teach Our Daughters
Good. Then don't say that....
