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Commented on My boyfriend cheated on me again, three times with some family friend. He's cheated on me before with two other women and my (now former) best friend. I told him if I caught him again we're through, so I dumped him. I just can't stand being alone and with

Commented on What's your opinion on sending "sexy" pictures to someone you like or are dating or are in a relationship with? Should a woman never do it or anyone because it could come back to bite them in the ass?? When is it acceptable? Will every guy show someone th

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Commented on What's your opinion on sending "sexy" pictures to someone you like or are dating or are in a relationship with? Should a woman never do it or anyone because it could come back to bite them in the ass?? When is it acceptable? Will every guy show someone th

Commented on How fat is too fat to wear a bikini? I'm 15-20 pounds overweight and have small love handles. My bf says I look fine but I feel like people are staring.

Commented on I dumped him last night, and he took it well. He said he will always love me, and that he'll miss me. He didn't cry. I was hoping for some tears, thrashing, and, "Nooooo!" Instead, I felt like I was the one being dumped! Was he just acting maturely, or wa

Commented on So I know that guys like all different skin colors on women. But what about at the beach? I'm very very fair skinned and I can't tan. I usually always feel sexy but at the beach I'm afraid that all the guys will be gawking at the glistening tan women inst

Commented on Why will a guy sleep with you and talk to you everyday but never take you out?

Commented on Why would a man break up with a girl he clearly loves? I know that sometimes people are different...but why lose someone you love instead of making yourself better (if that's what it would come down to, to fix the issues)?

Commented on Trying to be friends w/ ex who I hooked up w/ after breakup. This summer we're working together; he invites me to hang w/ him, but I think he wants to hook up again. What can I do? I like talking to him but I just think hooking up will get me hurt again.

Commented on do guys like when you jump on them when you see them?in other words do guys like it when you run up to them and hug them and wrap your legs around them

Commented on Trying to be friends w/ ex who I hooked up w/ after breakup. This summer we're working together; he invites me to hang w/ him, but I think he wants to hook up again. What can I do? I like talking to him but I just think hooking up will get me hurt again.

Commented on My ex remarried, regrets it and is now contacting me. What should I do?

Commented on Whats the difference between being turned on amd having an errction? (a girl is asking)

Commented on GBFF. Q:my dad left my mom when she was pregnant with me. I'm 23 now and the issues are getting into my own relationship (I'm engaged): I'm terrified of being left over anything and cry uncontrollably when we argue. How do I keep my mom's fate from affect

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Commented on I think my boyfriend is too good for me. He's smart, handsome, accomplished, and politically active. I lack ambition. Does he only like me for my looks? It's difficult for me to believe he'd settle for a just a pretty girl. Yet here we are and I feel outm

Commented on my "friend" attacked me, holding me down & grabbing my breasts. i kicked him and RAN. he said i was being immature, i was "asking for it," he thought i wanted to "get rough." the next week he started dating a girl i know who has told me she tends to date

Commented on Where am I supposed to look during sex (when in postions where my face is exposed)? I figure eye contact brings some (or too much) intimacy. I don't know where the appropriate place/length to look is-& haveclosed my eyes for a bit (not in a forced wincing

Commented on My husband asked a woman he knows to send him pictures of her boobs. Why would he do that?

Commented on Hey MM! You know the saying: "She'll chase you around for a while but there'll be a day when she's gonna stop running in circles." Well, I finally became that girl. I stopped chasing and I let him go. So here's my question: Do guys ever regret/realize the

Commented on My husband asked a woman he knows to send him pictures of her boobs. Why would he do that?

Commented on how do i get out of a sexless marriage?

Commented on Im attractive &have been told I give off a sexy vibe. However, Ive noticed NUMEROUS men who are captivated by my looks and shall I say...come off desperately that they want to be seduce (supposedly by my wily seductive look). It makes me sick and in no wa

Commented on Hi MM. I = the voice of inexperience, so my apologies for this stupid question. Is there a way to kill your feelings for someone? He didn't want me. It's over. We're not in contact, but I still care for him deeply, and it still hurts like hell. Help

Commented on So I've been obsessing over a celebrity and it's not healthy. Celebrity crushes may seem silly but when you see someone that funny, good looking and brilliant, it's difficult to get them off of your mind. & I've tried thinking about his worst moments on-s

Commented on i had been telling my boyfriend to find a new job because i had a feeling they were going to fire him, but he never listened to me. he got fired and he is sad, but i dont want to say "i told you so" what do i do?

Commented on Hey, so my bf has this body pillow thing with a picture of a naked anime girl on it. She looks like she's 14 and it's creepy, He says it's just a pillow and I'm making it a big deal. Is it bad I don't want it in my bed? We live together.

Commented on Online dating etiquette question: What do I do when someone I'm not interested in messages me? I don't want to be cold and not reply, but I also don't want to give them the impression that I'm interested and make them feel like I've led them on when I'm j

Commented on I'm pregnat...we only had sex once, but pill did not work. Do I tell him?! If so, how?

Commented on Online dating etiquette question: What do I do when someone I'm not interested in messages me? I don't want to be cold and not reply, but I also don't want to give them the impression that I'm interested and make them feel like I've led them on when I'm j

Commented on My BF asked me to give him a 'Golden Shower'......is this really something guys like?

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Commented on My boyfriend does not understand why I don't want anal sex.I've never tried it before and he thinks that trying it at least once is a good compromise between my reluctance and his desires.But I have my reasons and even if he understands them for a while h

Commented on RP, you would know the answer, i need your help. PLEASE clarify--is it always the case that "i'm not looking for anything serious" equates to "i'm not looking for anything serious with you"? or is it possible that a man really doesn't want a serious relat

Commented on How do I show more affection to my fiance when we are 3000 miles apart? I'm really bad at expressing my feelings in words and don't know how else I can be affectionate over the phone.

Commented on if my boyfriend makes out with his own twin brother does this mean he is cheating on me?

Commented on Do you have any thoughts on guys who make sounds (little moans) while hugging? I think there is a time and a place for audible hugging but maybe it is more common than I know.

Commented on Met a guy thru an online dating site. Really like each other but the other night he told me he got a girl pregnant by a 1ns & just found out it was born. He's planning to support financially, but doesn't want a relationship w/ mother. I come from a conser

Commented on If you miss your ex after a breakup, does that mean that you made a mistake in breaking up with them?

Commented on I've been flirting for weeks with a married man One night we met All we did that night was makeout & give oral We talked carriyng on a purely sexual relationship Nothing has happened since that night He is still flirty & says to text him. Can I ask i

Commented on Are guys turned off by red pubic hair? I've heard they are...obviously every guy can't be, but is this a general truth?

Commented on How do u pick what questions to answer im hanging on like 3 ?s ive asked lately ... Whats a girl to do ???

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Commented on I am married for almost 15 yrs. However, i have reconnected with an old crush in high school. Hes great! I have fallen in love with him, i cant wait to see him again n he gives me that feeling. We have somuch in common also. We have history! However, my

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Commented on Morals AsideHe likes her She likes himHe wants toShe wants tooProblem:They r both involved w/someone elseHes a good guy n probably wont make the 1st moveHis mouth says 1 thing n his body says another... How can she get him 2 act on his desir

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Commented on So, this guy asks to go out with me, at first I'm hesitant, but soon I agree. We make plans, tell each other how we can't wait see one another, then all of sudden, he is a no show! He's avoiding me now and I'm confused! What's going on that I don't know a

Commented on Please help RP your my only hope. I've been dating this navy guy for 5 mons & things are great. I'm catching feelings & want to take things further but he insist we take things slow b/c he going on deployment for a yr soon. When he's drunk he tells me he

Commented on My bf got chewed out by his boss before a date.That night he was in a bad mood & eventually just starting listing off things that he didn't like that I did, how he just did things because I wanted too & just being mean to the point that I cried.I asked if

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Commented on Please help RP your my only hope. I've been dating this navy guy for 5 mons & things are great. I'm catching feelings & want to take things further but he insist we take things slow b/c he going on deployment for a yr soon. When he's drunk he tells me he

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Commented on Hey BFF, kinda weird question: My wonderful boyfriend pees sitting down when he can, provided it isn't a public urinal/middle of the woods situation. He said if he doesn't, it's kind of messy and gross. I'm all for keeping clean, but in general, isn't tha

Commented on Ok..been dating this guy for going on 3 months. We've spent every weekend together except 2. We grew up together. He's asked me to move in with him and then did a 180 - not that I was going to but it kinda seemed strange. Can you tell me if I'm overre

Commented on A guy I've dated for months says he likes me but he don't see a future in us, he said he's very sad about that but he refuse to tell me the reason which keeps me hanging. I really hope he can give it a try. what can I do?

Commented on Why do men stay with women they no longer see a future with? Why not finish it when they know there won't be a future, move on and find someone else?

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Commented on After college I moved back home with my parents. I have a master's degree and I can't find a job! Small town, nothing to do, no friends. No dates. I keep thinking how much happier I used to be. I'm a type A go-getter stuck in a suburban rut. Its been a ye

Commented on My big brother stays with this girl who cheats on him again and again, she's not even sly about it anymore. He breaks things off when he finds out but almost immediately takes her back. He may be able to forgive her but I can't not after hearing how hurt

Commented on I started dating this guy 2 months ago. Usually we meet on Saturday night, but recently he's not available on weekends anymore. So we changed to meet on Friday night, and sometimes he wants to meet me on weekdays too. Is he two-timing me? Like I'm his bac

Commented on I've worked very hard in my MA program and my department gave me a scholarship for a PhD program. I was excited and told a friend and he replied that I only got the scholarship because I have big boobs and the chair wants to f*** me. Is that really how it

Commented on My name is Stephanie. When a guy says text you later what does that mean?

Commented on why persons lick the cock during sex is it not harmful.

Commented on GBFF, this is kind of random, but a guy friend (who I really like) is always trying to share food with me, like 'let's share this sandwich'...a few bites him, a few bites me & he doesn't do this with any other friends. Maybe I'm reading too much into it,

Commented on GBFF your insight por favor- it went from me wanting to call it off because I was getting smothered to suddenly he's not interested- the tables turned in one day. I guess I'm kind of relieved because now I don't have to be smothered- but also confused WTF

Commented on Me and a girl share a lot of interests. We're good friends and she gives me hints that she WOULD circumstancially date me. We met in college. Same age. Issue? She's engaged. But she does and doesn't like him. Hes clingy douche and other things.

Commented on my neighbor came over asked me if I wanted to have sex with him since Im single now,, he is married not getting any.I told him I was shy and not a slut,well I really do want him too,what should I do ?

Commented on I was eating a delicious burger at Five Guys when these two women sat next to me. I couldn't help but overhear their conversation on vibrators...ew, I just lost my appetite. Personally, I don't think it's okay to talk about that kind of stuff in public li

Commented on Do men prefer someone who is thin with an okay face over someone who is pretty but full figured (considered overweight)?

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Commented on (Part 1) Is there ever a justification for hitting your partner or does it automatically make you an abuser? I've had weight problems all my life and was finally at a size I was comfortable with. My bf, who knew about my insecurities, begged me to gain we

Commented on Is it ever a good idea to go back to an ex?

Commented on What does it mean if the new guy I'm dating's Twitter is filled with pornstars on his "Following" list that he made? Is this a red flag?

Commented on Is it ever a good idea to go back to an ex?

Commented on How many women have you slept with in your life? ...all of them.

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Commented on If a girl is constantly late to meeting with a guy and he confronts her... is it like the known fact that guys say it once and get over it or if she is late again he will just get upset..... i guess theres a few Qs in there but lastly....are guys bothered

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Commented on My bf hates my sense of fashion. He's likes vintage, stuff that makes me look like an obedient housewife rather than the 19yr old that i am. i dnt mind dressin up for him once in a while, but lately i cant even shop for what i want cuz im afraid he'll hat

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Commented on The day after a guy told me he wasn't interested in dating anymore but that he genuinely wanted to be friends, I tried to call him again to talk. He blocked me on facebook and never responded to my texts. I really want to apologize and try to be platonic

Commented on while doing sex why we all men slap on girls bum?

Commented on A guy I'm semi-seeing tells me "you're heavier than you look" in a number of different ways pretty often. He doesn't say I'm fat or overweight, but why does he keep mentioning how 'heavy' I am? I'm 5'8" and 130lb! I feel like that size is normal...

Commented on i want to fuck my girl frnd but she is having periods is it ok to do sex with her or it may be harmful for my penis

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Commented on Do you like big butts and you cannot lie? No other brother can deny when a girl walks in with itty an-bitty waist and a round thing in you face you get sprung.

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Commented on This guy I work with makes it quite clear to everyone who would listen, that he likes me. I went to the ladies room one day and someone came in after me. I looked up and saw his head peaking over the cubicle, licking his lips. I bought pasta for lunch.

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Commented on I found out about a month ago I have breast cancer I am 27 I am married to a wonderful man that I love so much he is 58 When I told my frined about haveing cancer my friend said "if you have a Mastectomy and you husband passes away no other man will want

Commented on Why do builders on construction sites always perv at woman?

Commented on My boyfriend threatens to break up with me whenever we argue or fight as a trump card to make me agree or stop fighting. How can I get him to stop this? It really hurts and makes me feel silenced.

Commented on I've been single for 6 years. I have a kid & go to school. Have a job, pay my own bills. I have great friends. I try to look nice (& friends say I'm cute). BUT, last few years I ask a guy out, I get shot down. I haven't been on a date in 6 months, 3rd dat

Commented on My boyfriend is going out of town with his ex for the weekend. How can I tell him that I'm not comfortable with this without seeming jealous? I trust him but not his ex.

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Commented on How can I distinguish love from infatuation? What's the difference?

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Commented on How can I distinguish love from infatuation? What's the difference?

Commented on MM: I sent you a question recently, feeling that I wanted to die. I just thought you'd like to know that I did find a therapist, and he seems helpful. So often I read through what everyone wrote when things are going bad, and it helps me carry on, so... t

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Commented on What is, in your opinion, the best kept sex secret? I'll tell you mine. ENTHUSIASM. Genuinely enjoying it, wanting to do it, makes it SO much better. Oral? Awesome. Sex? The bomb-diggity. Your turn!

Commented on What does it mean when a guy says i want to pork you?

Commented on Hey guys! Thanks a lot for your male perspective, I get all the amusing answers in my inbox! This ones for PJ. How do I break up with him (dated on&off for 2yr), caught him cyber cheating on me. He has no idea because I snooped :/ I have def decided to du

Commented on Are attention whores worth our time as men? They put on this innocent act that what they do is perfectly normal to them. When we know that they are insecure and fucked in the head. Probably from childhood neglect. They lead guys on and when the guy says h

Commented on If I want to meet a white military guy where do I go?

Commented on my husband went on a holiday on his own as i was busy with my family issue.. he had affaire with a young girl there for two days, and come back tell me the truth.. i didn't handle that well. we are now broke up but not on paper yet.. as everything happene

Commented on I'm 21, and a lot of guys won't date me because apparently (according to them) I'm the wife/wifey type. What does that even mean? Am I screwed for forever? Because I feel like giving up.

Commented on my boyfriend leaves me to sit by the bar alone when in a club and goes off without telling me also he grinds with other girls infront of me what do i do?

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Commented on please please please i need an answer: if you are on the phone with a guy and he is very quick in his answers, short replies and gives the feeling that he is rushing the conversation on the phone ,then would this type of behavior indicate a disinterest fo

Commented on In love with my best friend. Have chosen not to tell him. He needs a new room mate and asked me to move in with him (platonically of course). Please just knock some sense into me.

Commented on I'm trying online dating, but I'm only receiving messages from the trashy loser types. I know that I'm pretty, smart, funny, and nice, and there's nothing glaringly wrong with my profile that seems obvious. But the guys with my same qualities just aren't

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Commented on Husband recntly said he'll never have sex with me again.He's rich guy & masturbates w/porn.Told me if I tell anyone how he treats me he'll "destroy" me & my family.I just had baby 8 wks ago &made me sign a prenup when we married giving up rights to everyt

Commented on he left me after 10 years how long ntil he comes back

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Commented on My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months but he won't have sex with me and Everytime we are together he has a hard...why???

Commented on Help, I am deathly jealous. I can't do anything with my boyfriend. We can't go out, we can't watch television, we can't play video games. I hate that everyday my boyfriend drives to work and sees billboards with slutty women on them. I feel like I'm ruini

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Commented on My husband has a profile on an "adult friend finder" site. I asked him about it and he completely denies knowing anything, and said it may have come from a porn site he registered for. But the profile info is pretty specific. What should I do? He's never

Commented on My boyfriend says he "doesn't believe in Valentine's Day", but I told him I wanted to celebrate it because I've never been with anyone on the day. He doesn't want to do anything, and it's kind of upsetting me. Am I right to be annoyed?

Commented on If I hooked up with a guy off of craigslist does that make me pathetic?

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Commented on I saw my boyfriends inbox & it was full of convos with women dating back to the 1st(4 yrs 2gether) yr in our relationship.It said he wanted to make luv to them & would leave me if they wanted him. He says he didnt do anything with them & it was only enter

Commented on My bf of 6 mos has a bday coming up. As part of his gift I want to register for a breast cancer run in memory of his mom who died of breast cancer 10 yrs ago...but since it's still a new relationship (and since I never met her) I can't tell if I would com

Commented on I had an affair(I'm married) with my ex, I want to see him again for some nsa sex, how long should I wait to contact him so I don't look desperate?

Commented on MM There is no one I would rather ask this to. Hubby is an out of work, halo playing, fat slob. Goes bananas at the idea of me cheating but fails to keep me happy emotionally and sexually. Talked to him (over and over and f*cking over). Now he's in a tizz

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Commented on I love my BF. That's the #1 item on my list of pros and cons for staying w/ him. The cons involve him having a crappy job, no ambition, still living at home, afraid to commit, etc. The pros are: I love him, he isn't threatened by me (women's equality), we

Commented on My whiteboyfriend says to me "Keep your hood ass on your hood block where you belong. He is also an out of work brick layer, semi emotinally abusive and has NO friends.We havent spoke since last Friday...Is it over? Why do I care so much and constantly

Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i

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Commented on I figure that until we have a talk about exclusivity, I am free to date other people. Is that fair?

Commented on I'm dating an old man for money

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Commented on Panama I need your help. I have a friend who's really nice and sweet but is kinda ignorant (it comes from lack of exposure to people of color, not hate). So we usually end up talking about race and I try to educate him. We have rational conversations and

Commented on BF scoffed at me for wearing Coach shoes. I work extremely hard each week, know how to save/budget my money, and wanted to treat myself for once. I told him he was rude and I was very hurt. He made me feel like a snob for wearing shoes I really like. He s

Commented on I found out that my boyfriend committed statutory rape a couple of months before we started dating. He was 28 and slept with a 16 year old that he had met online. He says it was just once and that he "indulged in a fantasy." He had tried to hook up with h

Commented on Why are skinny girls more attractive then heavier ones? Don't you think people should look on the inside not the outside?

Commented on My boyfriend didn't acknowledge me as his girlfriend online. On Facebook, he is listed as single. Being extremely handsome, talented, intelligent, and charismatic, he has both men and women flirting constantly, but he didn't mention me. When I told him i

Commented on Why are skinny girls more attractive then heavier ones? Don't you think people should look on the inside not the outside?

Commented on What does it mean when your girlfriend don't want to have sex with you no more?

Commented on Hey handsome...quick question: what's the best way to approach a guy when you need to talk? If you want to minimize freakout on his side that is. Text before? Tell him you should talk soon? Or just get to it directly?

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Commented on I find underwear in the nightstand, later 2 condoms gone, naked texts from several women, bff w/ex (ex is married). He says he didn't know panties were there, masturbates in condoms sometimes, and haven't asked about nudes. He says I am the only one, beau

Commented on Looking for some cool thoughts/quotes/life lessons/goals to live by this year/line my diary with lol. Non cheesy/cliche ones. Got any goodies? Commenters suggestions would also be awesome! Thanks and Happy New Year!!xx

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Commented on My boyfriend thinks it's okay to cuddle (sometimes in bed) with his bff who is female. I don't think he's going to cheat but I still think it crosses the line a little bit. How do I bring this up to him without seeming controlling or like I don't want her

Commented on My girl is starting to need to shave her chin. Should I stay or run?

Commented on I am a 44 year old woman. Am I completely out of the loop to expect exclusivity before having sex with someone? I've dated 3 men (long term) over the past 3 years and EVERY one has "cheated". They claim that we weren't "exclusive". I am now very wary

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Commented on Cliche problem, but: Dated this guy exclusively, then he decided we should just hook up; we tried but I wasn't happy with it. He likes me but doesn't want to be exclusive. I still like him but I think I want something more exclusive. Can we solve this or

Commented on I am a self proclaimed "f*g hag." It seems the only guys that are ever around me are gay and as much as I love hanging with my gays, I need a straight boyfriend! Is my overwhelming amount of gay bffs ruining my chances of finding a hetero man?

Commented on I love my boyfriend but hate his body. He got gastric but isnt taking care of himself. Im afraid I'll never be able to find someone who treats me this well and is attractive/not gross. Can I have flings to curb my urge for a hot man stomach?

Commented on MM-FollowUp Q from 10/15: Should I stay or GO-OH: We had 3 dates in Oct to keep connected. I asked for 1wk N/C this wk. After a few days he called wanting to end break, b/c he loves me and is ready. I asked if slept w/anyone since we broke in Sept: yes,1.

Commented on What is up with this new "Timeline" Facebook thing? It is so confusing and makes stalking exes (in a normal, non-creepy way) that much harder!

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Commented on I've slept with 5 different girls, am i a whore?

Commented on My husband and I have only been married a little over a month. But I found that he is looking and signing up for casual sex on dating site. My feelings are so hurt. Any advice. Please don not advise divorce.

Commented on I'm 22 and me and a guy at my job have been flirting. He told me has 2 children and a girlfriend(who's not the childrens mother) he recently told me he wanted to kiss me but I reminded him he had a g/f ... do you think he thinks I'm lame now? Will we rema

Commented on If a guy looks nervous or uncomfortable when your next to him, what does that mean?

Commented on I was emailing with this guy on a dating site. Things were going great. Today I tried to respond to his latest email. Apparently he deleted his profile outta NOWHERE. What the eff?! Why do I feel so slighted?

Commented on Brand new man, hes funny, v keen, v open about feelings, but alarm bells are going nuts already. All he does is talk about himself, truly said 'girls get infatuated with me' and never throws anything back my way in sex, just lies there. Whats a tactful wa

Commented on I'm not sexually attracted to anyone. I've wondered if I could be a lesbian but I'm not really into girls either. I hate kissing guys. I'm not comfortable with sex. I want to be able to have a relationship but even dates make me uncomfortable. Am I just d

Commented on I have a crazy friend who told me about a gay sexual practice called "stromboli". Is he crazy?

Commented on MM-FollowUp Q from 10/15: Should I stay or GO-OH: We had 3 dates in Oct to keep connected. I asked for 1wk N/C this wk. After a few days he called wanting to end break, b/c he loves me and is ready. I asked if slept w/anyone since we broke in Sept: yes,1.

Commented on MY BOYFREIND IS SWEET AND NICE.BUT I CANT TRUST HIM.I ALWAYS SEE HIM LOOK AT OTHER GIRLS PICTURES AND HE STILL TEXT HIS EX.HE ALSO HAVE PICTURES OF GIRL INSIDE HIS PHONE. HE SAYS I CAN TRUST HIM BUT I DONT KNOW WHY I CANT.HE WENT OUTSIDE FOR A PHONE CAL

Commented on My bf left his FB logged on, and I saw a convo between him and another girl that was very inappropriate. He owned up to it, but I couldn't shake the feeling I had. I logged onto his email and found 4 pics of different girls, all sexual in nature. How do I

Commented on I am very embarrassed by this but my boyfriend never says or comments about it but I always fart like to seconds before I orgasm from him fingering me. Do you think its gross or bothers him. I don't know how to stop it :(

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Commented on I just slept w/ my ex. He has a girlfriend, but says he "melts" and "folds" when he see's me...

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Commented on I believe in unconditional love. I have it for my family and friends and I have it for my long term BF. But I'm wondering if that's smart - to unconditionally love somebody who CAN just up and leave you if he wants. I mean, we're not married. Should uncon

Commented on How do you get over a guy who isn't into you? Is there some sort of step by step guide? You'd think with my 100% rejection rate I would have perfected it by now, but I haven't.

Commented on I popped a blood vessel in my eye from giving a guy a blow job. Now it's all bloody and looks like I've been punched in the face. Crazy, strange, but true. I have a date with him tonight. What do I do? When we go on the date do I explain why my eye is blo

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Commented on He played me, then left town without saying goodbye. Two years later, he calls out of the blue, and reluctantly, I spoke to him. Now it's been over a year, and we're talking everyday for hours. He won't tell me where he lives, and he won't visit. Why? I'v

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Commented on I've been with my boyfriend 1.5yrs and it's serious (talking marriage). I've never dated younger (he's 22, I'm 25), and he does things like sleep until noon, play Xbox for hours, only works part-time, doesn't save $ for the future, etc. Should I accept th

Commented on MM -Should I stay or should I GO-OH? 5 month BF said he loves me/ I'm his best friend but hasnt dated since divorce. Needs to "go meet other ppl". It's been a month apart and he calls every day...we talk like nothings changed (honey this, baby that) but h

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Commented on I was seeing,(sleeping w/ and exchanging whitty texts) w/ a guy who lives on the other side of the country from me. HE invited me to come see him for 6 days, go to an amazing hotel, only to tell me halfway thru the trip that "he doesnt want to hurt me, bu

Commented on My boyfriend of a month is still "single" on facebook. It bugs the hell out of me. But I know for a fact that he's give me a hard time for bringing it up, because apparently talking about facebook is considered immature.What can I do?

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Commented on Do you think that all rich men cheat? My fiance is very well off and all of my friends and family are telling me that adultry is going to be guaranteed and that i should except it. I love him and i know he loves me and i don't think that he would ever che

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Commented on I am sorry but I really have a hard time believing your actually a "reformed player" you are reaaally not good looking AT ALL. Your picture looks like those overweight dorks that always hit on women & creep them out. figuring this website needed guy write

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Commented on Girls BFF, need your insight. Dating for a month, says he wants to give us a fair shot. Other night, a female friend spent night. He swears no sex, not even kissing, but admitted they spent all night cuddling and talking till 4 am. WTF?!?

Commented on Hey Wise-Ass, I REALLY need your advice on this one. I'm dating this guy, but I can tell he still has feelings for his ex. Should I wait for him or run as fast as I can? I really do care about him. We started dating one year ago and he's still not ready.

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Commented on Im very single and want a boyfriend. But Ive been told I am very negative and bossy. People always say "be yourself", in the case of having a boyfriend, can I be myself or do I have to change? Should I become all happy, positive, and full of pretentious s

Commented on So...I was having an affair with a married man, and suddenly, he stopped texting and calling. I was just in it for the sex, but he seemed to try to make a relationship out of it. How hard is it to actually be able to have no strings attached sex? I tho

Commented on I'm pregnant and we're keeping it.The plan is for us to get married so I can see an OB. Nothing has changed in months, so I told him I'm moving out for a while. He reacted as though I'd just told him I never want to see him again!.He says it makes no sens

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Commented on After many previous degrading relationships with guys I've finally found someone who is just as much fun as he is respectful. And I feel really lucky to be with someone awesome and who makes me feel amazing about myself too. This is new for me.

Commented on Iv just left my bf of 4 years and the father of my two children because,a)iv found emails to other women b)he wont live with me c) he can be violent (but blames me for that) d) he has had affairs in the past e) constantly chooses his friends over me-but i

Commented on Dear BFF, you just answered a question and said "When dating anybody you have to put your trust in them." And you're right - dating does require trust. But on the other hand, you can't control another person's actions and you can never really be 100% cert

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Commented on Recently my boyfriend randomly told me that if I don't go down on him, he won't go down on me. He knows that I think that my mouth is a little too precious for that, and we've never had this problem in the past. Not only do I think that this is unfair, bu

Commented on My husband's friend is very cruel to me when my husband isn't there. He says my husband doesn't find me attractive, sex with me is a chore, he doesn't understand why anyone would want me ect (Its only gotten worse since i became pregnant). I know he's lyi

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Commented on My friends bf refuses to have sex with her.It's been going on for 5 years! He says that he just doesn't need it? They sleep in separate rooms and she complains he won't show any affection. She's miserable and insecure about it but won't leave because (asi

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Commented on "Today's forward thinking is tomorrow's common sense." That's a quote from I don't know who... but it's true! Do you think the main types of discrimination we see today (against races, homosexuals, women, stoners, etc..) will be for the most part gone in

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Commented on Fate has played a very cruel joke on me. I was raped and have been depressed ever since. I finally met a guy who makes me feel happy, safe and loved. But hes a defense attorney and it bothers me that he helps the same type of men who hurt me.

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Commented on I have been cheating on my boyfriend of 10 months.It's sexual,thats it. He doesn't "do it" for me sexually. We've tried to have sex,but it just doesn't work out. Do I tell him I cheated? I don't wanna lose him! Idk what to do!

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Commented on This valentine's day I spent forever planning something nice for my bf (of a year) and he didn't do ANYTHING. Not even a card or a backrub. I ended up crying b/c he didn't put any effort in at all. He said he loves me but this made me question it.What was

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Commented on My bf said I have a cute little butt. What does that mean? Isn't that a weird thing to say? Why do guys look at girls' butts? Also, I'm 21, not a 12 year old totally naive girl. I just still don't get the butt thing. Break it down for me Chic geek.

Commented on I get called sexy alot and i hate it. It makes me feel good sometimes but as well it makes me feel like a slut. I want to be that sweet girl people think is cute but it just doesnt happen. Then again when i was called cute, i wanted to be sexy. What is be

Commented on After his work xmas party my bf spent the night with coworkers in a hotel. I worried all night! He said it was 'no big deal' but now he's texting a girl from work all the time and hanging out with her. I'm worried something is up. Rough patch or problem?

Commented on Hello Mr. Mystery Man; I understand if you're far too busy to answer this- but I am a very shy girl, and I was just wondering that in all of your experience, if you knew of any tips that possibly a 'shy girl' has done to get your attention...? Thank you..

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Commented on OK MM...got a TOUGH one! :( I "over-called" this guy I've been seeing for 4wks. Several calls, text, email 2 days after our last date on Sunday. We had tentatively planned dinner for Tues, but he never confirmed. Yes, he said HE would call. Bad judgemen

Commented on Nick..I've caused an EPIC FAIL. Dating a guy 5 wks. He's a man's man, w/ an ego. We went out Sunday and he said, let's have dinner on Tues. I didn't hear from him by Tues at noon, so I called. And texted. And Emailed. Several times. No reply. I'm

Commented on I recently lost a lot of weight and I'm getting lots more attention from guys than I used to, especially ones I'm attracted to. But I find myself resenting them because I know they wouldn't have given me the light of day 70lbs ago. What should I do?

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Commented on Hey JD..would you consider it stalkerish if I sent her a message? I met a guy online and been dating/sleeping with him 4 a few weeks who has recently friended this hot looking girl on facebook. He told me he isnt seeing others, but is often "busy" and doe

Commented on I met my boyfriend online. I want to do a background check on him for peace of mind for me & my family. How do I ask him if thats ok? Its understandable, right?

Commented on My boyfriend's best friend recently made a pass at me, suggested I sleep with him and not tell my boyfriend. Should I tell my boyfriend or let it be? They have been best friends for 8 years and I've only been dating my guy 7 months.

Commented on I met this guy a month ago and said I was a sports fan (using the term liberally and trying to impress him). He messaged me talking about sports stuff that I didn't really care about before transitioning into regular conversation. Does he like me or is he

Commented on Okay, say you meet the girl of your DREAMS. After 2 years of dating, you find out that she was born with a vagina AND a vestigial penis. However, she had the penis removed at birth. She can still have babies. What would YOU, John DeVore, do?

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