John DeVore

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• Commented on Have all you Guys actually met each other, or do you just read and answer questions from home, instead of at some 'Guyspeak HQ?'
• Answered the question “My BF is acting different. My gut tells me to leave but my hormones tell me to stick it out. Problem is I'm married 9yrs. Hubby is aware of the open relationship. But how do I get the BF to chill and just enjoy!”
• Posted “John DeVore ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted 15 Pick-up Lines To Use On Guys to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Of all the dinosaurs, which one do you most resemble in traits...and/or which dinosaur traits would you most like to have?”
• Answered the question “Hey John, I have a pretty straight forward question that I'm pretty sure you can answer in a snap. I'm one of those "pretty but lonely" girls that gets double-takes and stares all the time...but I rarely get approached. What gives?! Is there anything I c”
• Answered the question “"And you know, technically, I have a girlfriend." What the hell does that mean? How does a guy technically have a girlfriend? This was one of the reasons given to me when a guy that's been flirting with me at work suddenly went all deep on me. The other r”
• Answered the question “Do you love me?”
• Posted Men Can Hug to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What do two people do with a mutually felt earth-shatteringly strong connection and monumentally bad timing?”
• Posted “Steak ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Why do guys go MIA. I'm not talking about, disapearing after a few dates, or the first month, I'm talking about over a year of dating. Then poof, just out of the blue gone. Enlighten me John. And don't pretend you've never done the disapearing act. ”
• Answered the question “In your opinion, what are some things that can clue a girl into a guy's assholishness? Like, I have the inkling that this guy I was recently with is a dbag bc when I said I didn't plan on taking my pants off for him he said "you know you want to." ”
• Answered the question “Okay, say you meet the girl of your DREAMS. After 2 years of dating, you find out that she was born with a vagina AND a vestigial penis. However, she had the penis removed at birth. She can still have babies. What would YOU, John DeVore, do?”
• Posted How To Tell If He's Cheating On You to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “GTL” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What are your thoughts on time travel? Are you a "Go back in time and kill Hitler" kind of guy, or a "step on a butterfly, end the world" kind of guy?”
• Answered the question “What are you supposed to do when you have a 100% proof that your brother-in-law is cheating on your sister with men?”
• Answered the question “My married boyfriend dumped me because my husband found out. Now I'm unhappy, they're both pissed off and what the hell do I do now?”
• Answered the question “I told him I didn't love him. He's hurt. I'm hurt. But it's true. What now?”
• Answered the question “Until recently, I was engaged to an amazing man.The long distance didn't bother us, but his racism, jealousy, and lack of compassion for others hurt me. He was never cruel to me in any way, but refuses to change. Should I go back to him?”
• Posted Women Should Propose Marriage to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Casual sex relationship for 10mths. Found out about a fling with another woman so I said if it's over between us just tell me and he never said yes or no but he made plans to see me that night and continues to. Does this action mean he's really into me?”
• Answered the question “This guy I know plays the "numbers" game. He tells 100 women he loves them and out of that maybe 50 will respond back to him. He's so sly that you can't tell he does this, so how do you avoid men like this while trying to find a worthwhile one? ”
• Answered the question “My best guy friend has girlfriend,both sleep around. We have messed around,but he said that it was a bad idea to have sex.He loves me (so he says) BUT i don't get why he flirts,but doesn't wanna get with me.Why bother? Why sleep around if he loves his GF?”
• Answered the question “How come every time I ask my boyfriend about his ex or their past relationship hi gets very mad and he doesn't want to talk about it. Does he still love her?”
• Answered the question “Ive been told to just be myself with men. Well what are you supposed to do when none of them are liking who you are? How are you supposed to be confident when you have nothing to be confident about? I'm average. Nothing special.”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend HAS my engagement ring. I don't know what he is waiting for. What will make him want to give it to me faster?”
• Posted Where I apologize to my girlfriend... to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “jdv, i've become so jaded after a long string of truly terrible experiences that i no longer have the heart to believe that men can fall in love, that they're interested in anything but sex and the continuing promise of sex. please say something to help?”
• Answered the question “I have been in a long distance relationship for about 3 yrs. But he never visits! Should I be worried?”
• Answered the question “So, your answers...well, frankly, they suck. Why are you even on here???”
• Commented on why do men think its ok to love 2 different woman??
• Answered the question “My boyfriend loves boyshort undies and Id rather wear lacy numbers. What up w boyshorts, they seem so unsexy?”
• Answered the question “why do men think its ok to love 2 different woman??”
• Answered the question “Hey bro. I've been in a relationship with my girl for over two years now. We love each other, but she's told me that she doesn't want to marry me. If she doesn't want to marry me, why is she still with me?”
• Answered the question “Why do you look like such a douch in your picture?”
• Posted My Deepest, Darkest Secret to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm asian and my boyfriend always comments that he is not into Asians, but that makes me feel rejected. Why does he do that?”
• Commented on What should love feel like? I think I love my bf.
• Answered the question “how do you feel about girls that are nice but accidentally a little slutty sometimes?”
• Answered the question “What should love feel like? I think I love my bf.”
• Answered the question “I have a rendevouz set up with an off-limits guy. But everything in me is screaming no. How do I say no, do the right thing without looking like a total fool?”
• Answered the question “why are guys such assholes? I mean seriously ever one if them either start out as one or end up being an ass!!!”
• Answered the question “Should i attend my girlfriends 10th year high school reunion?”
• Answered the question “I live with a guy friend, nothing romantic at all. Problem is he has pube hairs all over the bathroom. How can I kindly go about asking him to clean them up and don't you guys realize when your pubes are all over??”
• Commented on If I don't remember having sex with someone, do I have to count it? If a tree falls in the forest and no one is there to hear it, does it still make a sound?
• Answered the question “If I don't remember having sex with someone, do I have to count it? If a tree falls in the forest and no one is there to hear it, does it still make a sound?”
• Answered the question “I am a gay boy. I dated this guy who was straight when we started seeing each other (according to him); then he said maybe he was bi when he was my bf and said he was straight again when we broke up? What does that mean?”
• Answered the question “How do I find a man who hasn't slept with a lot of women? The thought of my future husband being with other ladies skeezes me out.”
• Posted 10 Things Women Have Taught Me About The World Cup to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I got a text saying please stop texting me i need space right now. What the hell does that mean? I'm not that clingy annoying girl!”
• Answered the question “My husband is very secretive about his myspace accout. I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but it's hard. His page is private, and I am not a friend so I cant see it. What do I do to bring this to his attention without sounding accusatory?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend doesn't like The Notebook!!!!!! Now, you might say, "Congratulations, he is, in fact, a man," but he likes other chick flicks! I am appalled- The Notebook is way cuter than How to Lose a Guy! What is going on in that man's head????”
• Answered the question “What do guys think when a girl pokes them on facebook?”
• Answered the question “Can you give me the play by play of a booty call? Like how a guy expects it to happen.”
• Answered the question “Boy meets Girl on dating website. Boy lives in same apartment complex as Girl.Boy and Girl went out ONE TIME. Boy is interested in Girl. Girl is not interested in Boy and says so. Boy sends Girl creepy texts. How long does girl wait before calling police?”
• Answered the question “What does long hair (mid-back or lower) say about a girl? What about shoulder-length hair? I want to know what message I'm sending before I decide whether to grow mine out!”
• Posted 15 Signs He's A Man to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Assuming the man's to shoulder the brunt of the blame for this hypothetical situation, what's going through a guy's head/heart when he see's he's made his girlfriend or wife cry?”
• Answered the question “What can i do to turn a guy on sexually in a public setting?”
• Answered the question “I'm in a monogomous relationship and don't want to use condoms as I am on birth control. Would a man be opposed to me asking for him to get STD tested with me so that we can be confident and less stressed out ?”
• Answered the question “What are the rules for "Friend with Benefits" if the guy has a girlfriend? Oh, and he is my ex of two and a half years also.”
• Answered the question “Hey John, is it possible for/would a man to fly all the way to a girl's country just so that he can have sex with her?? I don't want to start thinking wishful thinking here (i.e. He MUST love me). Please help me, John!”
• Answered the question “My ex recently lost his job and i want to help him out by anonymously sending him a small amount of $ for at least his gas tank. i'm just not sure if i should or not.”
• Posted 15 Things Not To Say On A First Date to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Okay so this guy asked me to hook up but im not sure if im a rebound... his girl friend broke up with him like three weeks ago.. but hes always hit on me and stuff... what should i do?”
• Answered the question “What are some subtle non-verbal clues that a guy makes when he thinks you are attractive?”
• Answered the question “Iv'e been with my boyfriend for a while now, and everything is great, except his manscaping..how do i get him to shave "down there"?”
• Answered the question “I've been dating someone 6 months. He is 41 and has never been married, no kids. He has slowed down the intimacy because he says it causes relationships to move too fast. I'm going to see other people. He is a great guy. Should I keep him around too? ”
• Posted 12 Filthy, X-Rated Supersex Moves That Will Drive Him Loony With Lust to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Imagine the perfect woman's body. Big boobs, micro waist, whatever-hips-you-want. Be unrealistic. You with me? Ok. Now which is less skanky for her to wear: a low cut tank top or a miniskirt?”
• Answered the question “OK, is he just not into me or is just BS? I met a guy who cannot ejaculate with a condom. Can only come without one lying down...yep even a blow job.Is it performance anxiety? Do i simply move on?”
• Answered the question “Weird Question: My boyfriend is moving in and I'm really nervous. I'm afraid of what he'll think when he sees me in the morning. Will he be turned off by my messy hair/oily skin/bad breath? What can I do?”
• Posted 20 Compliments Men Want To Hear to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How do guys feel about women's labia minora? Do they want them small, big? Many women are getting the surgery done, because they think that men prefer them small.”
• Answered the question “I have lost all hope in finding a man. Everytime there is a possibility, I'm seen as just a friend. I'm tired of it. I'm doomed to be lonely for the rest of my life. Even if I put myself out there, there's no man. What do I do? My heart can't go on. ”
• Answered the question “My best friend recently found out that her exboyfriend took naked pictures of her on his phone when she was sleeping. I think that's kind of a big deal but she just kind of brushed it off and said I was over reacting. I mean that is a big deal right? ”
• Answered the question “What's the best way to flirt with a construction guy?”
• Answered the question “I told a guy I work with (and see daily!) that I have a boyfriend but he asked me out for a drink anyway. I reminded him I have a boyf & he says "I know, was trying to forget the boyfriend." I've agreed to the drink as he's a nice guy but what shall I do?”
• Posted How To Tell If He's Lying to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How do men feel about other men checking out their women? Especially if I am wearing a snug fitting shirt or low cut dress ?”
• Answered the question “I'm so embarressed I'm dating 3 guys and I like all 3 but I want to narrow it down to 1 guy how do I choose? Help! Help! I feel like 3 guys are smothering me and I'm ready to settle.”
• Commented on Do you really believe in "Once a cheater always a cheater?" My boyfriend cheated on both of his ex girlfriends but swears he would never cheat on me. I am weary but I trust him, will I eventually get my feelings hurt?
• Answered the question “My man and I get in fights and he gives me the silent treatment. I have tried being calm, crazy, easy-going, dropping hints, every different way possible to talk out our issues and it ALWAYS ends in him giving me the silent treatment! What do I do?”
• Commented on Do you really believe in "Once a cheater always a cheater?" My boyfriend cheated on both of his ex girlfriends but swears he would never cheat on me. I am weary but I trust him, will I eventually get my feelings hurt?
• Answered the question “Do you really believe in "Once a cheater always a cheater?" My boyfriend cheated on both of his ex girlfriends but swears he would never cheat on me. I am weary but I trust him, will I eventually get my feelings hurt?”
• Answered the question “What do you think about polygamous relationships? Would this type of relationship work better for guys than monogamous ones since they're always cheating??”
• Answered the question “What are deal-breakers in a relationship for YOU that other people might find trivial? Like, for instance, I wouldn't date a smoker.”
• Posted How To Get Over A Broken Heart to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Power Wink ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Are hairy-backs a turn-off?”
• Answered the question “Just want your opinion because I truly do value it: Anniversaries... like six months - should they be celebrated? Is it a big deal if your boyfriend says nothing about it/does nothing day of and it just passes by?”
• Answered the question “So, he asked me to tell him one of my fantasies... I told him the idea of being tied up and spanked turns me on. He looked at me like I said I wanted to get gang banged by the local motorcycle club. I can't take it back. Now what?”
• Answered the question “I'm married and have been wearing the same hairstyle since 8th grade. I wanna change it before I turn 30. I dont look good with long hair, but my husband will leave me if I cut it. He's being a hair nazi. Can I tell him to kick rocks then? Its my hair. ”
• Answered the question “I f@#ked up and, in a drunked stupor, slept with another guy. I'm engaged. What do I do, I don't want to loose my fiance. Do I carry this burden to save his heart or do I clear my conscious and buckle up for troubled waters?! Please help :(”
• Answered the question “Help me out here, RP. I respect your honest opinion on this one. How do white guys feel about dating black women? Sometimes it seems like they try to hide it from people who know them, like they are ashamed or embarrassed.”
• Posted “Dry Rub ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “He moved on to someone so tall and sexy. I thought we were in love and in 8 weeks, he's moved on. He tried to talk to me yesterday and I acted with dignity, politely saying hi. How do I move on? ”
• Answered the question “My guy and I attended my father's birthday bash and I looked at him looking at my sister. Is he checking her out? I mean she's pretty and she has a great personality. But what is up with that?”
• Answered the question “Are men turned off when a woman's [ladyflower makes a certain sound*?]”
• Answered the question “i'm middle aged going out with a man for 2 years who has a girlfriend for 15 years. I'm the other woman but he won't have intercourse with me. Everything else but not that. What does that mean?”
• Answered the question “How do I nicely ask my boyfriend to stop talking to his ex girlfriend. I'm fine with all of his other exes except this one. She's batshit crazy. She once faked a pregnancy and she's even accused him of beating her.”
• Answered the question “Should I tell my wife everything? Like my darkest fantasies or about tiny little harmless indiscretions?”
• Commented on Don't worry, I'll take care of it...
• Posted Don't worry, I'll take care of it... to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Please help! I'm going through a divorce and I explain to men that I'm not ready to date yet. But these guys keep trying, and I keep giving excuses. Honest ones in saying I'm not ready for that. I don't want to be mean, but they won't take a hint! ”
• Answered the question “I really just want to be his non-sexual friend. But we hooked up a few times and now he barely even talks to me. How can I explain to him that I JUST want to be friends without sounding like I still have "feelings" for him? ”
• Commented on Do men have pity sex? The female explanation: "I did it because I felt bad even though didn't really want to." Most of my friends still admit they've done it before. What do you say?
• Answered the question “I am starting to wonder if men really need and want love. They seem to be so reckless with woman and their relationships with them it's making me wonder. I would like some feedback about this.”
• Answered the question “Do men have pity sex? The female explanation: "I did it because I felt bad even though didn't really want to." Most of my friends still admit they've done it before. What do you say? ”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a man says thank you after sex?”
• Answered the question “What's so hot about lesbians?”
• Answered the question “I am very very bad at flirting. When a guy starts flirting with me, I can only give a smile and yes/no answers. And when a guy compliments my necklace/ hair/ dress is that flirting? What should I do to be a better flirt? Thanks, from a shy college girl.”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy walks out the house to talk on the phone?”
• Answered the question “Are men intimidated by vibrators during sex? I'm now dating a guy who keeps asking me how he can please me in bed. Should I ask him to use a vibrator, or will it hurt his ego?”
• Answered the question “I found out my boyfriend of 2 years slept with an escort several times during the first year of our relationship. I want to forgive him and move forward bc I love him, but does this type of behavior ever really change? ”
• Posted Jim Carrey And Jenny McCarthy Break Up Via Twitter to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm a very good looking girl, (not to sound cocky) but guys don't come on to me very much. My guy friends assured me that guys have actually told them that they are intimidated by me. How can I get them to stop thinking that? ”
• Answered the question “I just started seeing this girl and everything is great about her BUT she has a crazy ex issue. He's been trying to mess up what we have going. I don't know if I should end this with her and move on or should I give this a chance?”
• Answered the question “I seem to be able to sense when girls are bisexual. I'll just pick them out in public places, or just choose one out of a bunch of acquaintances to get close to. Is this normal for other guys ?”
• Answered the question “I was dating this guy and he broke up with me, saying he wasn't ready for the relationship. I was sad but okay with that. But now everytime he gets drunk, he calls me up and starts talking like nothing happened. Please help me figure this guy out!”
• Answered the question “How do i get my boyfriend to stop smoking marijuana every day?”
• Posted The Rules Of Cuddling to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “From a male POV what does it feel like to orgasm???”
• Answered the question “What is it about a woman with a child that sends men running as fast as they can in the opposite direction? I have a 10 month old son and it seems like everytime I get close enough to a guy to reveal I my son, I never hear from the guy again. Thoughts?”
• Answered the question “Is it possible to rebuild trust after a devastating break-up? He broke up with me more than once for circumstances that had nothing to do with our relationship, then begged me to take him back. Am I an idiot to consider taking him back again? I love him.”
• Answered the question “I admit up front I'm not beautiful. I'm sweet but shy. I'm overweight but workout every day. First guy I have sex with, I wind up the monthly booty call which I hate. The sex makes me want to cry too. How do I get out of this situation?”
• Answered the question “Should I tell these women that a man I know is playing them. He travels out of town on business. Everywhere is goes he hits on women in motels, restaurants, and even other women he works with. He is another Tiger Woods to me.”
• Answered the question “So my boyfriend cheated on me and I've decided to forgive him. His reasoning for cheating was "What if theres nothing after this?" What does that mean?”
• Answered the question “Why would my friend w/ benefits of 2 years go get a girlfriend and have no problem cheating on her with me within weeks of them dating when he could have just asked to date me instead in the first place?”
• Posted 10 Nicknames For Jesse James Worse Than "Vanilla Gorilla" to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Why do guys find belly rings so sexy?”
• Answered the question “A woman with a six-pack: Turn on or turn off?”
• Posted Spring Is Coming And That Means Only One Thing... to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My new boyfriend isnt into kinky things in bed and im all into biting and spanking. I'm not asking for anything that would harm him or me, just alittle more kick in the bed room. Anyway, how do i get him to do it my way every once in awhile?!?!”
• Answered the question “What does it REALLY mean when a guys says, "This is going too fast and I want to slow things down". Keep in mind this is after 3 great months and he was talking about buying a house together. ”
• Answered the question “So my boyfriend does not like me to wear lingerie or sexy things. I've tried and he tells me he doesn't find them sexy. What's up with this? Am I somehow not attractive to him?”
• Answered the question “How do I get guys to stop trying to date me without being rude or telling them I'm in a relationship with a girl? I'm not emotionally ready to come out. But I know it really hurts my girlfriend when guys hit on me. How can they get that no means no?”
• Posted You Might Be A Player If... to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What do guys think of a girl who kisses on the first date? I went on a date last night and I kissed him. No extreme lip lock just a kiss. Did i do the right thing? ”
• Answered the question “I love my fiance, but I am such a dirty flirt. As a waitress, I can't help but to endlessly flirt with our sexy bartender who is all over me as well. I'm 100% committed to my man, so why can't I stop my 'player' ways? ”
• Answered the question “A very busy man didn't call for a couple of days. He is married but going through a divorce. Why dont those type of men call or text?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy says "My life is complicated"?”
• Answered the question “How long do you "date" before you can ask that dreaded question, what the hell are we?”
• Posted Get Rid Of Your Stripper Pole (Unless You're A Stripper) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I found over $700 in a box in my boyfriend's (of four years) bedroom. I want it to be for an engagement ring, but I'm sure its for something else. How come he won't put a ring on it?”
• Answered the question “Okay honestly what is it with some guys liking twins?! I'm a twin and guys always make comments saying like ooohh twins along with other stuff. Please enlighten me John!”
• Answered the question “I'm getting married soon but I found out my fiance was cheating on me. He was really calm when I confronted him. I asked him why he didn't seem sorry. He says he doesn't show his feelings on his face. I think he's still cheating on me, what should I do? ”
• Answered the question “Does it mean anything for a girl if her guy friends have mentioned how they think her mom is "so hot", "so fine" etc. What about the girl?!”
• Commented on My boyfriend acts shady around me when he gets a phone call or a text message. He says he has issues with privacy and that he doesn't like people knowing what he's doing all the time. Do I have the right to feel like he's hiding another girl from me?
• Commented on My boyfriend acts shady around me when he gets a phone call or a text message. He says he has issues with privacy and that he doesn't like people knowing what he's doing all the time. Do I have the right to feel like he's hiding another girl from me?
• Answered the question “What kind of clothes really catch a man's eye?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend acts shady around me when he gets a phone call or a text message. He says he has issues with privacy and that he doesn't like people knowing what he's doing all the time. Do I have the right to feel like he's hiding another girl from me?”
• Commented on Maybe I've been watching too much "He's just not that into you," but I refuse to text a guy first. If he is interested he will text me. Not only the first time, but like as we date he should always text me first. How do guys feel about this?
• Answered the question “Maybe I've been watching too much "He's just not that into you," but I refuse to text a guy first. If he is interested he will text me. Not only the first time, but like as we date he should always text me first. How do guys feel about this?”
• Answered the question “Ok you seem like a guy who would know about this...so me and this guy are FWB...he has a gf and he says he loves her, so why does he still mess around with me? Does he like me or have feelings for me?”
• Answered the question “One date. OK, a GREAT one date, but still one date. He sent me a Facebook friend request. I don't want him to be moving too fast. Is he? That's kinda a 5 or more dates thing, don't you think? What do I do? ”
• Posted “Vaginaphobia ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Does the old rule "He won't buy the cow if he's getting the milk for free" hold true? If I like someone then I want to fool around (i.e. bone) and not play the games...does that automatically disqualify me as girlfriend material?
• Commented on My ex boyfriend came over on V-Day and told me that he wants to try again but wants to take things slow but he won't talk about the problems we had that broke us up. What does that mean in guy language?
• Answered the question “Does the old rule "He won't buy the cow if he's getting the milk for free" hold true? If I like someone then I want to fool around (i.e. bone) and not play the games...does that automatically disqualify me as girlfriend material? ”
• Answered the question “My ex boyfriend came over on V-Day and told me that he wants to try again but wants to take things slow but he won't talk about the problems we had that broke us up. What does that mean in guy language? ”
• Answered the question “I need some tips for flirting with a bartender. He has sleeves of tattoos and piercings but I'm a blond hair, blue eyed girl next door type. I don't think I'm his type... how can I possibly catch his interest? ”
• Posted How To Be Successful At Online Dating to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I just found out the guy I am seeing has a long distance girlfriend (they have apparently been on and off, but are now "on"). I sent a politely worded 'we need to talk' email. Tonight I have to tell him I know. How do I go about this?”
• Answered the question “Sometimes I squirt when I have an orgasm, is this something guys think is sexy, or does it gross them out?”
• Answered the question “I've been seeing a guy I met online for about a month. I'm ready to lock him down. Not sure if he's ready to lock me down. Is one month too soon to ask if he's dating/sleeping with other girls?”
• Answered the question “I met this great guy, but last night i drunk texted him. I am so embarrassed and don't know what to say to him. What do I do? From Kissanddish.com”
• Posted 25 Ways To Say "I Love You" For Valentine's Day to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Dude, got a problem. I live with my fiancée. I'm not so sure about the whole relationship thing. I've never had a problem picking up girls. I miss the chase. After 3 years of being together I'm not sure I can stick out the relationship. What do I do?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend asked his female friends for boob pics. Says it means nothing and it's like porn. Is this okay?”
• Answered the question “I'm entering a serious relationship with a really awesome guy. I know he is VERY experienced and I'm cool with it. I'm not that experienced. I'm open to trying things. But I'm nervous that I'm not enough for him. Is that a deal breaker?”
• Answered the question “Is the guy I'm seeing still playing the field? His only MySpace friends are his drinking buddies, and he hardly talks to them offline. Yet he signs on to MySpace every couple days. Who is he talking to on there?”
• Answered the question “Do the guys who are nicer to girls have a smaller penis then the guys who are ass holes? My friend has dated a lot of guys and told me the nicer they are, the smaller their penis is. Is this true?”
• Posted It's A Gross Word, But We're Going To Change That to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I hit it off with this guy I met last year. We ended up sleeping together. He stopped talking to me because he "hits it and quits it". I'm going to be seeing him this Thursday. I was wondering if I had a chance with this guy or not? ”
• Commented on iiF Myy BoYFRiieNd aNd ii CaLL eaCh oTHeR HuSByy&.WiiFeyy BuT He STiiLL CHeaTs WHaT SHouLd ii dO.?
• Answered the question “He moaned and said "ohhhh Susan" recently when I was giving him oral. That's great and all, but my name isn't Susan. He caught himself, and called me "honey" the rest of the time. We were together for 12 hours before that so why the slip? ”
• Answered the question “iiF Myy BoYFRiieNd aNd ii CaLL eaCh oTHeR HuSByy&.WiiFeyy BuT He STiiLL CHeaTs WHaT SHouLd ii dO.?”
• Answered the question “When you "friendzone" a guy, does he know that's happened? I know sometimes women say guys are clueless...but truly...you guys aren't THAT clueless are you?”
• Commented on For the past couple of months, my boyfriend has been really into "guys night". It makes me really uneasy when he is going to the city every other night with just guys and not me. Should I be questioning him so much or should I just trust him?
• Answered the question “For the past couple of months, my boyfriend has been really into "guys night". It makes me really uneasy when he is going to the city every other night with just guys and not me. Should I be questioning him so much or should I just trust him?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now and recently our sex life has gotten stale... We talked about it and he wants me to be "more slutty"and initiate more. Any suggestions on how to do this?”
• Posted One Thing I Love About Women (Hint: It Smells Like Fruit) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend has never "released" on my face after oral because I've always felt it was disrespectful. About a week back, he did just that and I started to cry. Now he feels bad and we haven't had any sex for weeks. Help? ”
• Answered the question “I've been told by several people that the best way to get over someone is to hook up with someone else. What do you think?”
• Answered the question “How does a girl know when a guy is actually lying to them?”
• Answered the question “How do I get my guy to manscape without offending him? I would love to give him oral, but I feel like I'm flossing!”
• Answered the question “What is it with guys wanting to Video tape sex ?? Is it for their egos or do they use this for inspiration while masturbating ??”
• Posted “Facebook Hot ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I am going through some financial troubles and need to file bankruptcy, do I have to telly my boyfriend ? I'm embarassed and independent and make my own money so is it really something I need to divulge?”
• Posted The Questions Dudes Ask Themselves About Chicks to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Assuming we could generalize, what would you consider *THE* most important quality for a man's "ideal woman" to have? (Let's leave sex out of it, for the purposes of this one question.) Many thanks!
• Answered the question “Assuming we could generalize, what would you consider *THE* most important quality for a man's "ideal woman" to have? (Let's leave sex out of it, for the purposes of this one question.) Many thanks!”
• Answered the question “I secretly dated a guy on/off for three months and I broke it off because I knew it was unhealthy. He then got a gf, and now I want him back as a non-secret BF. What do I do?”
• Answered the question “I contacted an ex after I heard he had cancer. He started talking to me in tears and shock that id have anything to do with him. I lost my v card to him 5 yrs ago. He cheated and left me. He's in remission and single. Should I give him a 2nd chance? ”
• Commented on Does my boyfriend think about other girls, such as having sex with them or making out with them?
• Commented on My Deepest, Darkest Secret
• Answered the question “Does my boyfriend think about other girls, such as having sex with them or making out with them?”
• Answered the question “Sexually speaking.. while being intimate.. is it ok to pleasure mysel? In conjunction w sex of course with my mate ? I don't want my man to think he isn't doing the job right but I find it enhances things for me in certain positions.”
• Answered the question “What does it generally mean when a guy mostly just talks to only girls on facebook? And I mean, A LOT of girls. Attractive girls. Attractive, party girls.”
• Answered the question “If my husband spent thousands of dollars at a strip club, did he get "something"? He claims that nothing happenned. I beg to differ cause I would have got somthing for that much money!”
• Commented on I'm just wondering why a guy would keep things that belongs to his ex? And when the new girl he is casually seeing asks him about her stuff he acts as if its not a big deal that he still has her stuff?
• Answered the question “I'm just wondering why a guy would keep things that belongs to his ex? And when the new girl he is casually seeing asks him about her stuff he acts as if its not a big deal that he still has her stuff?”
• Posted “Drunkatronic ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Is it hot when girls are loud during sex?”
• Posted 10 Sexual New Year's Resolutions For 2010 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Pretty blunt, what makes a good blow job? What to do and what not to do?”
• Answered the question “If my husband cheated and I know he cheated, and he knows I know he cheated, If I choose to stay do you think he feels that I am stupid for staying with him?”
• Posted The Hottest Chick Of 2009 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm a martial artist trained in several different disciplines, but you couldn't tell by looking at me (short, geeky). How does it affect a guy to find out I'm capable of winning a fight? ”
• Answered the question “Hey there John, what is it about a 17 year old girl's innocence that attracts older men so much?”
• Posted “Tinkerberry ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I just broke up with a man. In the beginning he was the most charming man in the world. He slowly became controlling, mean to my son, trying to make me jealous by threatening to sleep with his ex if I left him. He promises he can change. What do I do?”
• Answered the question “Why do guys tell a girl she's his girlfriend but tells others he's single and get with other girls behind her back? Why don't they just stay single then and play the field?”
• Posted The Number One Sign He's A Modern Day Ebeneezer Grinch Doosh to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “It bothers me that my boyfriend Never posts on my Facebook page. He does have me listed as his relationship status but thats it. Am I reading too much into this ?”
• Answered the question “When me and my bf started off we spent alot of time together, now since after his mother passed its like i try to be there for him but he advoids me and go talk to his brothers. Am i doing anything wrong?”
• Commented on I have talked to this guy for the past couple of weeks. We even went on a coffee date the other day. The only problem is, I hear from mutual friends he has a girlfriend. Why has he never brought her up to me? Is he looking to cheat on her with me?
• Answered the question “I have talked to this guy for the past couple of weeks. We even went on a coffee date the other day. The only problem is, I hear from mutual friends he has a girlfriend. Why has he never brought her up to me? Is he looking to cheat on her with me?”
• Answered the question “Would you rather see a girl in skinny jeans and heels or flared/bootcut jeans ?”
• Answered the question “On our final date the boy I was seeing (we were not exclusive) shows up with a hickey the size of Texas. I, disgusted leave the date midway through. He says I am over reacting. I think it is disrespectful and don't plan on seeing him again. Thoughts?”
• Answered the question “I recently had a threesome with a guy I am casually seeing and his ex-girlfriend. During the festivities I think they reached across me and high fived. This is not a good sign in it?”
• Answered the question “My friend's say my boyfriend is a player. He has never done anything that makes me think he is, but i could be wrong. Ive heard about how he was before we started dating, but he says he changed. "It's different this time." How can i tell if this is true?”
• Posted Make Out At The Bar, I Won't Judge You to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Vulcan Love Pinch ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Can you please enlighten me and tell me why do guys stop calling with no reason whatsoever? Is it so hard to say 'This isn't going anywhere' or 'it's over'? Are guys afraid we'll act psycho and/or melodramatic by saying so? What's the deal with this?”
• Answered the question “I'm in love with my best friend but he is marrying another girl soon. I know he loves her, but she is a total b**ch. She's cheated on him twice that I know of and I think she is just using him for something. What should I do?”
• Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?
• Answered the question “Sorry to be explicit, but I can't get him to orgasm! Never had this problem before. I know it affects things, but...how much? Is this a real dealbreaker or is it okay that, except for the occasional pang of guilt, I'm not about to kill myself over it?”
• Answered the question “Yo, this guy I've been hanging out with a lot has been booty-calling a friend of mine. Is it a good call to steer clear of a potential relationship with him?”
• Answered the question “Does casual sex ever really exist between two people?”
• Posted “Throatee” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What does it mean if a guy you think is interested in you touches you all the time?”
• Posted 10 Adult Beverage Themed Gifts That Will Light Your Man Up Like A Christmas Tree to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “He blocked my number. Is there a chance to get back together?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy tells you he'll be your hero?”
• Answered the question “When having sex, and a girl tells you exactly what they want, whats your reaction?”
• Answered the question “Dear John, I am getting married soon and I am virgin and never been more than... half naked with a guy. How can I be sexy for husband on our wedding night?”
• Commented on Is sex all men really want? That's what a couple of guys told me...
• Answered the question “Is sex all men really want? That's what a couple of guys told me...”
• Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?
• Commented on Cats, My Number One Dealbreaker
• Commented on Which "Star Wars" movie is the best? Some guys at a party were debating (for three hours!!), and I only know that Jamaican alien is offensive, or annoying atbest. But I want to seem more in the know. I'll netflix one of them.
• Posted “Nerdgasm ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I'm almost 22 and I have never had a boyfriend. I'm a tomboy and I always find myself in the friend zone with guys. What can i do to change that?”
• Posted Cats, My Number One Dealbreaker to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on How To Improve The Chances That Your Question Will Be Answered
• Answered the question “So I met this guy at a party where I was completely hammered and acting a fool. He facebooked me and we talked all night partly about how crazy i was and now he wants to meet up again. Is he only trying to get with the crazy loose girl?”
• Answered the question “Why does he not help around the house? He comes in from work and lays around. And always tired.”
• Answered the question “How do you tell a guy that his kissing skills need some refinement?”
• Commented on Why do guys always have to make dating some kind of ridiculous game?
• Answered the question “Can I get my guy to stop looking at other women?”
• Answered the question “I came home last night to find my boyfriend in bed with another hot dude. I did get angry and storm out to stay with a close friend. What should I do today and say to my boyfriend? I love him so but want to make him happy.”
• Posted Do Men Prefer Boobs or Booty? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My bf & I have been together 5 yrs, lived together 4. I have a promise ring as a promise to marry someday. We are both 37. But his best friend told me when they went out the other nite, my bf was partying & dancing with college girls. What do I do?”
• Commented on Which "Star Wars" movie is the best? Some guys at a party were debating (for three hours!!), and I only know that Jamaican alien is offensive, or annoying atbest. But I want to seem more in the know. I'll netflix one of them.
• Commented on I'm a size 6/8 but I have a little tummy and I'm self-conscious. I'm thinking about not making out with a guy until I lose it, which could be a while. How preoccupied are men with washboard abs?
• Answered the question “If you met a guy online and he says he loves you before you've met in person, what does that mean?”
• Posted “Chew Break ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I met a bad-boy type guy through mutual friends, opposites in every way, but we have chemistry.We once sat up just talking from 12 to 5am.Two Saturdays ago we hooked up for the first time on the dance floor. Should I date him?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend had moved away for a year. When he came back I was honest with him that I had dated someone else while he was gone. I wanted things to start new so I wanted to be honest. I was surprised that he was upset and it pushed him away. Why do I do?”
• Answered the question “Is a smiley face a flirty jesture in a text?”
• Posted Don't Order That Salad! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I love my boyfriend but I'm also attracted to his roommate/friend. No, I don't want to know if this is okay, I'm well aware that I should ignore said feelings but my real question is: How do I get him to make a move on me?
• Answered the question “I love my boyfriend but I'm also attracted to his roommate/friend. No, I don't want to know if this is okay, I'm well aware that I should ignore said feelings but my real question is: How do I get him to make a move on me?”
• Answered the question “If a guy talks to you all the time and then just stops does that mean he doesn't like you no more?”
• Answered the question “I loved a real jerk for six years, two years ago he gets all drunk and handsy with me and I freaked out (I was passed out...). We had a huge falling out. FFW to the present, we are emailing now, he seems to have changed. Should I run for the hills?”
• Answered the question “I met a guy. He's intensely into me in a way I've never experienced. He is fresh off a horrible breakup from a 5 year relationship where they were living together. We clicked instantly but I can tell he's not ready to get involved. What do I do?”
• Posted An Interview with Marie Claire's Dating Blogger Rich Santos to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Angry Meatball ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Angry Meatball ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “over the weekend I accidentally found out my guy is using testim gel (he left the empty tube in my bathroom) now he hasn't said anything to me, should I ask him about it or wait for him to tell me?”
• Answered the question “My ex-boyfriend and I broke up 2 years ago. During this period he has maintained a sexual relationship with me, even though he has a girlfriend he "really cares about." I have not dated at all, yet he accuses me of being a whore. Why does he say that?”
• Answered the question “A guy friend that I had always thought of as being as gay has recently started to "flirt" with me and telling me he's bisexual. At first, I thought he was kidding, but now I'm not so sure. Any advice?”
• Answered the question “How am I supposed to get over my best friend? I've been in love with him for five years consistently (he knows it and can't feel the same way).I can't just "dump" him because...well. he's my best friend!”
• Answered the question “Do you think guys really notice the difference between girls with or without their makeup? We ladies can always tell but does it really matter to guys?”
• Commented on The best sex I've ever had is with a guy who (years later) is now in a serious monogamous relationship. We're still good friends, but we never talk about our sexual past. Would it be wrong of me to let him know that he's still the best in my book?
• Posted My Cell Phone Is Free Of Nakedness to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Man Tiara ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “The best sex I've ever had is with a guy who (years later) is now in a serious monogamous relationship. We're still good friends, but we never talk about our sexual past. Would it be wrong of me to let him know that he's still the best in my book? ”
• Answered the question “What do guys want after they've had sex with a girl?”
• Commented on Why are men such annoying babies when they get sick? Seriously, after 20 years together, I would gladly suffer a full-out case of H1N1 if it meant I could avoid putting up with my husband having the sniffles for a day or two.
• Commented on Whenever I spend time with my best friend and his girlfriend, they are always kissing or cuddling. I feel awkward. Should they be the ones to stop or should I not be intruding?
• Answered the question “Who should be responsible for supplying the condoms? The guy or the girl?”
• Answered the question “How can I tell my boyfriend (nicely) that sometimes, I just wish he would be more of the MAN in our relationship and take the lead. I'm in charge a lot at work and I'd like to follow his lead once in a while, if he would just do some leading...”
• Answered the question “I don't want to leave my husband of 15+ yrs & have never cheated before, but due to sexual dissatisfaction (my husband is *very* conventional, won't do oral) I'd like to indulge in a purely sexual affair while I'm still in good shape. What do I do?”
• Posted No, I Won't Dress Up For Halloween to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Elbow Bump ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I'm 27, have had diverse lovers (age/experience) but never an orgasm during sex. Nothing physically wrong w/ me, just hasn't happened. I'm a faker (I know, no lecture necessary). Don't want to fake it anymore...Should I discuss it with my next lover? ”
• Answered the question “What exactly do guys do with "the sock"?”
• Commented on How important are big boobs? Is it true that all you need is a handful? Would you rather have a hot girl with small real ones or big fake ones?
• Commented on Okay I'm tired of meeting guys at clubs, bars, etc. Where can I go to meet NICE guys who are going to be interested in trying new things?
• Commented on Recently, my sex drive has been super low. I hardly ever feel like having sex, but I do anyway because when I say I don't want to my boyfriend seems really hurt. I love him to death...how can we get past this?
• Commented on My best friend occasionally lets her male friends share her bed after a night out w/ their friends (just bc it's late, people are drunk, etc) & insists things are innocent. I disagree. She's hot and I think guys secretly enjoy it.
• Posted 25 Approved Nicknames For My Genital Organs to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Balloon Boy ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My best friend occasionally lets her male friends share her bed after a night out w/ their friends (just bc it's late, people are drunk, etc) & insists things are innocent. I disagree. She's hot and I think guys secretly enjoy it.”
• Answered the question “do you like girls with tattoos?”
• Answered the question “Why do all the men I've been with love vacation sex so very very much? What's the huge appeal? Why are they better in bed in another city? And why does it have to been done AS SOON as my bags are placed on the floor of the hotel room?”
• Answered the question “So many men do not like to have sex while a woman has her period. This is a mistake for many reasons in my opinion. I can multi orgasm very easily by grinding on my guys leg and it works well during "that" time of the month. Is this a strange alternative ”
• Answered the question “Can an average looking girl be successful in the dating world?”
• Posted The Mile High Club Is For Losers (110% True) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Zombie Love” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Taco Cups” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “On my last few dates the men were blatantly REALLY nervous. Not sure why...I think myself nice/approachable/friendly. I try humor to break the ice. Why are they so nervous? What can I do to make them more comfortable?”
• Answered the question “How do you explain away the "war wounds," as in the STDs? How do you move forward, knowing you risk infecting your future with your ill-advised past?”
• Answered the question “DO I HAVE TO GO DOWN ON HER IF SHE GOES DOWN ON ME?”
• Answered the question “After 2 years of dating and living together for 6 months, my boyfriend says he's still not sure he wants to get married. Is there any hope or do I end it?”
• Answered the question “What's the worst pick-up line you've used on a girl... and did it work?”
• Posted “Battle Broyale” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “A guy at a bar asked for my number and gave me his. It's been a week and he hasn't called yet... do you think he is waiting for me to call him?”
• Answered the question “My co-workers think my boss has a thing for me and that's why I got a promotion over them, which is simply not true! How do I get them to see I that my work is just better than theirs?”
• Posted We Don't Like False Advertising (Especially When It Comes To Your Booty) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “When my boyfirend drinks, he gets really obnoxious. What can I do?”
• Answered the question “How come when a guy sleeps around he's a stud, but when a girl sleeps around she's a slut? I don't see a anything wrong with a woman sleeping around. What do you think?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend didn't get me a present for my birthday... again! He's a great guy but terrible in the gift giving dept... so how do I drill home that I would like a thoughtful gift once in a while?”
• Posted Women Shouldn't Serve On Submarines to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Lady Flower ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted Celebrity Incest: As Creepy As Regular Incest to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted How To Have Sex With Your Clothes On to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I went through my boyfriend's cell & saw that his ex-girlfriend continues to call him. Should I confront him about it?”
• Answered the question “Why do guys always have to make dating some kind of ridiculous game?”
• Posted Why You Went Home With That Total Douche to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Men Don't Have Style, And We Like It That Way to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Go Ahead, Have An Office Fling to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Superfox ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Broceries ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Fifth Base ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Amish-style ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Vomit Donkey ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

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• Rach commented on If I don't remember having sex with someone, do I have to count it? If a tree falls in the forest and no one is there to hear it, does it still make a sound?
  spelt? seriously? ...... that's actually a type of grain....
• rhilex commented on My Deepest, Darkest Secret
  Pfft, that's just awesome! I'm actually going to see Phantom of the Opera on Sunday (my second time seeing it). The US tour is disbanding this fall. =(...
• Dovey commented on My Deepest, Darkest Secret
  The first half of the first season -before they went on hiatus- was FANTASTIC. I must admit though, that the second half just didn't do it for me. It was terrible....
• jude commented on why do men think its ok to love 2 different woman??
  Or he could just be using them both for sex. DOUCHE!...
• M commented on Do you really believe in "Once a cheater always a cheater?" My boyfriend cheated on both of his ex girlfriends but swears he would never cheat on me. I am weary but I trust him, will I eventually get my feelings hurt?
  I was not equating those three things. I stand by my comment that "normal" people still don't do any of said things....