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- Commented on I recently met a beautiful, funny, and intelligent girl. Only problem is, she is kind of famous (my area's weather girl). Guys hit on her constantly, ask her out, and she has a lot of fans. We've been out a few times already, and I dig her.. How do I stan
- Commented on Mystery Man, I've read about my husband going to strip clubs... but still have a question: He's not allowed to touch?! But on a private dance he can slap her booty and she gets totaly naked and scrubs herself on to his pants and face. Isn't it touch? the
- Commented on I told a man I love him, and he said you dont know me well enough to say that. what should I say now?
- Commented on I love that you guys say "you decide what to do with what's inside your legs", "wear what you bloody want", "the best position is the one that makes my woman shout OH GOD!"... But be honest: when you were younger you were not so patient and supporters of
- Commented on I only get to see my bf once every few weeks, and our next meet up is over a week away. I've recently come to the end of my rope with this relationship. He's just not trying to fix any of the issues. Should i wait to break up face to face, or would the ph
- Commented on Where am I supposed to look during sex (when in postions where my face is exposed)? I figure eye contact brings some (or too much) intimacy. I don't know where the appropriate place/length to look is-& haveclosed my eyes for a bit (not in a forced wincing
- Commented on Met this girl a year ago, we get lunch almost every day now, she constantly talks about me to her family but quickly corrects them when they think we're an item, She flirts with me touching my face/arm/hand and seeks me out 1 on 1 when the rest of our mut
- Commented on Hey Panama, Is it really true that everything a man does in his life revolves around sex? I've heard this multiple times before and it's hard for me to believe.
- Commented on I told a man I love him, and he said you dont know me well enough to say that. what should I say now?
- Commented on Im attractive &have been told I give off a sexy vibe. However, Ive noticed NUMEROUS men who are captivated by my looks and shall I say...come off desperately that they want to be seduce (supposedly by my wily seductive look). It makes me sick and in no wa
- Commented on i had been telling my boyfriend to find a new job because i had a feeling they were going to fire him, but he never listened to me. he got fired and he is sad, but i dont want to say "i told you so" what do i do?
- Commented on Dear MM, I've always loved and respected your answers here and really need your help now. I never wanted to be his gf, still don't. But now that he's told me he wants us to go from FWB back to being just friends, I'm feeling quite sad. I agree with him an
- Commented on Hi MM. I = the voice of inexperience, so my apologies for this stupid question. Is there a way to kill your feelings for someone? He didn't want me. It's over. We're not in contact, but I still care for him deeply, and it still hurts like hell. Help
- Commented on how many guys can a girl sleep with before you see them as a slut?
- Commented on Whats the point in talking to a girl if your just going to ignore her later???
- Commented on how many guys can a girl sleep with before you see them as a slut?
- Commented on Online dating etiquette question: What do I do when someone I'm not interested in messages me? I don't want to be cold and not reply, but I also don't want to give them the impression that I'm interested and make them feel like I've led them on when I'm j
- Commented on If you saw a girl sitting alone at a bar, what is your REAL thoughts?I always think guys sitting alone (unless ravingshingly attractive) are serial killers, or weirdos for drinking alone...just being honest!
- Commented on Online dating etiquette question: What do I do when someone I'm not interested in messages me? I don't want to be cold and not reply, but I also don't want to give them the impression that I'm interested and make them feel like I've led them on when I'm j
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- Commented on The man I've just started seeing, has informed me that he's slept with at least 90 women in the past!! Why would he tell me this??
- Commented on RP, you would know the answer, i need your help. PLEASE clarify--is it always the case that "i'm not looking for anything serious" equates to "i'm not looking for anything serious with you"? or is it possible that a man really doesn't want a serious relat
- Commented on RP, you would know the answer, i need your help. PLEASE clarify--is it always the case that "i'm not looking for anything serious" equates to "i'm not looking for anything serious with you"? or is it possible that a man really doesn't want a serious relat
- Commented on My boyfriend does not understand why I don't want anal sex.I've never tried it before and he thinks that trying it at least once is a good compromise between my reluctance and his desires.But I have my reasons and even if he understands them for a while h
- Commented on My boyfriend does not understand why I don't want anal sex.I've never tried it before and he thinks that trying it at least once is a good compromise between my reluctance and his desires.But I have my reasons and even if he understands them for a while h
- Commented on RP, you would know the answer, i need your help. PLEASE clarify--is it always the case that "i'm not looking for anything serious" equates to "i'm not looking for anything serious with you"? or is it possible that a man really doesn't want a serious relat
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- Commented on Is it wrong of me to get angry that while I am at a difficult college, studying and working like crazy so I can graduate, my bf (who takes 2 online classes through his community college) is going out with "the guys" every night and coming home at 4am, goi
- Commented on Is it wrong of me to get angry that while I am at a difficult college, studying and working like crazy so I can graduate, my bf (who takes 2 online classes through his community college) is going out with "the guys" every night and coming home at 4am, goi
- Commented on Met a guy thru an online dating site. Really like each other but the other night he told me he got a girl pregnant by a 1ns & just found out it was born. He's planning to support financially, but doesn't want a relationship w/ mother. I come from a conser
- Commented on Met a guy thru an online dating site. Really like each other but the other night he told me he got a girl pregnant by a 1ns & just found out it was born. He's planning to support financially, but doesn't want a relationship w/ mother. I come from a conser
- Commented on Wise Ass, I just need some general insight. My bf just broke up with me & I made good effort to let him know that I still care and just want us to be on good terms. He is so cold & just plain mean. Blocked me on Fbook after another guy wrote on my wall, c
- Commented on Oh Wise Ass, honest truth. What does a 26yo man (never married no kids) want with a (divorced with children) 33yo woman? Is he thinking " great f*ck/experienced teacher/story to tell or can he actually be in it for a relationship? Can this really go anywh
- Commented on A guy I've dated for months says he likes me but he don't see a future in us, he said he's very sad about that but he refuse to tell me the reason which keeps me hanging. I really hope he can give it a try. what can I do?
- Commented on A guy I've dated for months says he likes me but he don't see a future in us, he said he's very sad about that but he refuse to tell me the reason which keeps me hanging. I really hope he can give it a try. what can I do?
- Commented on I found out my boyfriend had an affair with a married woman for 1 1/2 years before me. It really bothers me. Is this something that I should learn to accept as a part of his past or is this a huge character flaw that should raise red flags? He says the wo
- Commented on I found out my boyfriend had an affair with a married woman for 1 1/2 years before me. It really bothers me. Is this something that I should learn to accept as a part of his past or is this a huge character flaw that should raise red flags? He says the wo
- Commented on So, I have been seeing someone for about a month, and I feel really happy around him, we connect really well and he makes me laugh. I am attracted to him, we are 'official', but he is a realist when it comes to relationships and does not believe in true l
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- Commented on Dear MM, I was offered a great job in another country.My male friend got dramatic and called me to tell me he loves me and wants me to stay with him.I told him this is something I have wanted for a long time,to work overseas! I'm not even attracted to him
- Commented on Can you please tell me why I only attract taken men. Is there an "other woman" gene I am unaware of? I am average looking, dress rather conservatively, and am not a wild child, but I can get down if the opportunity presents itself. Please explain.
- Commented on What is a weird age difference; 5 years, 10 years, 15 years? I am about to be 24 and am having trouble connecting to guys in their 20's. I am thinking of jumping in to the 30 and over pool, but how far can I go before we are venturing into daddy issue ter
- Commented on what does it mean when a guy tells you he wants to eat you out
- Commented on One of my guy friends and I got drunk at a party we were at and we got snippy. I tried to leave, and he put his arms around my neck/chest to stop me. It was more playful than violent, but I was mad so I pushed him. Relations between us have been frosty si
- Commented on Dear MM, I was offered a great job in another country.My male friend got dramatic and called me to tell me he loves me and wants me to stay with him.I told him this is something I have wanted for a long time,to work overseas! I'm not even attracted to him
- Commented on So if this guy can initiate booty calls then why can't I? I started trying and now he totally backed off. What gives? If he can ask then i should be able to too..22 years of no boyfriends proves guys only want sex anyways. I'm not trying to date the guy (
- Commented on Oh Wise Ass, honest truth. What does a 26yo man (never married no kids) want with a (divorced with children) 33yo woman? Is he thinking " great f*ck/experienced teacher/story to tell or can he actually be in it for a relationship? Can this really go anywh
- Commented on A guy I've dated for months says he likes me but he don't see a future in us, he said he's very sad about that but he refuse to tell me the reason which keeps me hanging. I really hope he can give it a try. what can I do?
- Commented on I'm in a long distance relationship and we've started sexting a lot. It's great and mutual. But I'm wondering if this will discourage him from making an effort to actually, physically get together with me (same location). Is this like getting the milk
- Commented on ok so my bf went to Vegas to a porn convention and took a pic with a porn star...and he put his hands on her butt!!! Kind of upset me, but he was very honest about it! Should I be upset, is this cheating??
- Commented on I started dating this guy 2 months ago. Usually we meet on Saturday night, but recently he's not available on weekends anymore. So we changed to meet on Friday night, and sometimes he wants to meet me on weekdays too. Is he two-timing me? Like I'm his bac
- Commented on I started dating this guy 2 months ago. Usually we meet on Saturday night, but recently he's not available on weekends anymore. So we changed to meet on Friday night, and sometimes he wants to meet me on weekdays too. Is he two-timing me? Like I'm his bac
- Commented on How long will a "player" stay with a girl and "play" her before he realizes/understands she won't be having sex with him?(vs. a non-player who loves the girl and doesn't mind if/when it happens)
- Commented on How long will a "player" stay with a girl and "play" her before he realizes/understands she won't be having sex with him?(vs. a non-player who loves the girl and doesn't mind if/when it happens)
- Commented on What does it mean when I feel his penis twitching/pulsating inside of me? When he cums he pulls out and cums on me. But when I feel the pulsating, he never cums on me. He says he didn't have an orgasm. Then why was his penis pulsating?
- Commented on I've been dating my BF for 3 months now. He's met my family and he wants me to meet his dad and stepmom (most of his fam is far away). Last time he talked with his dad though, his dad said something about "is it really time for me to meet her?" and about
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- Commented on If you have been in a relationship for 10 years and the guy still has not committed to marriage, should I move on?
- Commented on My husband took off work to go buy a new fridge(ours died). We spent 2 hours discussing style, etc. because I couldn't go with him. He came home with a brand new credit card that gave him 5% off. Am I wrong in being angry? That seems like the kind of thin
- Commented on Is that true that white guys like a black women with a big butt?
- Commented on is man cock size related our any body part?
- Commented on What is your opinion of having sex with socks on but nothing else?
- Commented on I've had some HORRIBLE reactions to hormonal birth control and have been taking a few months "getting over" an illness caused by my pill before being well enough to go back on. Problem is, I'm terrified of it making me sick again. I've been off the pill f
- Commented on Why do guys insult girls they're hitting on? It's a turn off. All I want is for a guy to be nice to me.
- Commented on My wife of 4 years refuses to get a job. I recently became disabled (permanently) and the amount of time we are together tripled. Number one we need the $, number two I need some room. Relationship has not been easy. I dont need care and still feel conf
- Commented on My boyfriend of over a year broke up with me totally out of the blue. Didn't really give me a very valid reason. Should I try to sort it out or just leave it?
- Commented on ok so my bf went to Vegas to a porn convention and took a pic with a porn star...and he put his hands on her butt!!! Kind of upset me, but he was very honest about it! Should I be upset, is this cheating??
- Commented on I'm 35 he is 26, are connection is amazing.He is very mature for his age. We have been seeing each other off and on for 6 mths. I chose to break it off two times because he wasn't ready for anything long term, but we keep coming back to each other. He sai
- Commented on My boyfriend of 1 year and I spend 90% of the time together. I truely believe he hasn't cheated on me, he's always with me, but I've seen flirty texts on one specific girl, (they've been friends for 9 years, kissed once, she's interested in him), and his
- Commented on this guy keeps sleeping with me though i am married, he is single lots of money and could easily have a girlfriend. Why does he choose to continue to see me. It's been this way for a year now.
- Commented on I have found my husband watches gay porn online. He has so many pictures of guys and videos online. I have spoken to him about it but he doesn't admit. Do guys like to see same sex pics or what? I also saw he visited a gay chatting website and he says he
- Commented on why does my ex boyfriend post pics of himself with his new girlfriend on facebook?
- Commented on My guy is from a war-torn country and spent some time in the military, so violence doesn't faze him. It frightens me, though. Do you think it turns him off that I don't have the same life experiences he does?
- Commented on How can you tell the difference between a creep/smooth talker and a genuine/sincere guy?
- Commented on How can you tell the difference between a creep/smooth talker and a genuine/sincere guy?
- Commented on How can you tell the difference between a creep/smooth talker and a genuine/sincere guy?
- Commented on Is it unfair to give my bf an ultimatum that he won't like but that is for his benefit? I want him to either get his license and be in school or to get his license and get a job if we're going to stay together/if he wants to move in with me. Is that too m
- Commented on Panama I need your help. I have a friend who's really nice and sweet but is kinda ignorant (it comes from lack of exposure to people of color, not hate). So we usually end up talking about race and I try to educate him. We have rational conversations and
- Commented on BF scoffed at me for wearing Coach shoes. I work extremely hard each week, know how to save/budget my money, and wanted to treat myself for once. I told him he was rude and I was very hurt. He made me feel like a snob for wearing shoes I really like. He s
- Commented on BF scoffed at me for wearing Coach shoes. I work extremely hard each week, know how to save/budget my money, and wanted to treat myself for once. I told him he was rude and I was very hurt. He made me feel like a snob for wearing shoes I really like. He s
- Commented on My dad has loads of porn in his computer. He's 60 something. My mom and he have been married for over 25 years. She's not into computers so I'm guessing she has no idea. I know this is supposed to be "normal" but I still think it's weird.
- Commented on How do you tell an ex-boyfriend that you are currently dating someone he knows? Should you tell him before he finds out from someone else?
- Commented on I am a 44 year old woman. Am I completely out of the loop to expect exclusivity before having sex with someone? I've dated 3 men (long term) over the past 3 years and EVERY one has "cheated". They claim that we weren't "exclusive". I am now very wary
- Commented on Boyfriend said he's ok with me sleeping with a girl, but if that'd be a guy, our relationship would be ruined. I do not understand it. I might have great, explosive sex with a girl, orgasming as I never do with him - and that's ok. But if I have a dick in
- Commented on I was seeing,(sleeping w/ and exchanging whitty texts) w/ a guy who lives on the other side of the country from me. HE invited me to come see him for 6 days, go to an amazing hotel, only to tell me halfway thru the trip that "he doesnt want to hurt me, bu
- Commented on when a guy says he only wants to be friends with benefits because he isn't reay for a relationship, then you say your going to date other people, he says ok. What does tha mean?
- Commented on No, You Should Not Date the Married
- Commented on Thoughts on getting involved with a guy who is legally separated but not divorced? He also has a young child with his "ex" wife.
- Commented on I found out that my boyfriend committed statutory rape a couple of months before we started dating. He was 28 and slept with a 16 year old that he had met online. He says it was just once and that he "indulged in a fantasy." He had tried to hook up with h
- Commented on when a guy says he only wants to be friends with benefits because he isn't reay for a relationship, then you say your going to date other people, he says ok. What does tha mean?
- Commented on I need some help.I'm very confident in myself & my body(I'm a plus-size gal), the ONLY exception is when I'm on top during sex.I have a mental freak out about it & can't have an orgasm/stay wet enough to continue.This has been an issue w/ every guy I've b
- Commented on Interested in an interracial relationship but why is it so hard, putting the public aside, to actually come by anyone out of your dating zone who actually has a genuine interest and is not just out to sample the buffet?
- Commented on Boyfriend said he's ok with me sleeping with a girl, but if that'd be a guy, our relationship would be ruined. I do not understand it. I might have great, explosive sex with a girl, orgasming as I never do with him - and that's ok. But if I have a dick in
- Commented on No, You Should Not Date the Married
- Commented on No, You Should Not Date the Married
- Commented on I want to date multiple guys at once. Just casual dating. I won't go past 2nd base until I find one I really like. Is this possible? Whenever I tell my friends, they look at me like it's a bad idea. Is it? I may want more later, but right now I am still
- Commented on I am a 44 year old woman. Am I completely out of the loop to expect exclusivity before having sex with someone? I've dated 3 men (long term) over the past 3 years and EVERY one has "cheated". They claim that we weren't "exclusive". I am now very wary
- Commented on My girl is starting to need to shave her chin. Should I stay or run?
- Commented on Would it be cheating if I flirt and cuddle with another guy?
- Commented on I feel like my boyfriend thinks that there are magic phrases that fix everything. Like when he verbal vomited "where did you get that whiny bitch voice? I've never heard you use it before", realized what he said and then said "love youuuu....." Why does h
- Commented on My girl is starting to need to shave her chin. Should I stay or run?
- Commented on I am a 44 year old woman. Am I completely out of the loop to expect exclusivity before having sex with someone? I've dated 3 men (long term) over the past 3 years and EVERY one has "cheated". They claim that we weren't "exclusive". I am now very wary
- Commented on If I use a sex toy without my boyfriend, is that cheating?
- Commented on The guy I'm with is 27 and has had 46 sex partners. Is this normal? And is it possible he's STD free? He says he is, but I'm not sure I believe him.
- Commented on The guy I'm with is 27 and has had 46 sex partners. Is this normal? And is it possible he's STD free? He says he is, but I'm not sure I believe him.
- Commented on What do you think about a girl proposing to a guy? My bf of 2+ years is sweet and shy and it takes him forever to make a decision about anything. We are facing a situation where we will be living in other countries. I feel like it's now or never! Is it f
- Commented on My husband is checking out porn sites. I've caught him a few times and asked him to stop doing it because I find it disrespectful and wrong. I actually feel like my self-esteem is going down after opening a laptop and seeing he checked out porn sites. He
- Commented on "I" (hint hint, my vagina) smell terrible to me. I don't like the odor at all. But my boyfriend loves it, he says it turns him on. Is this normal?? Why??
- Commented on My husband is checking out porn sites. I've caught him a few times and asked him to stop doing it because I find it disrespectful and wrong. I actually feel like my self-esteem is going down after opening a laptop and seeing he checked out porn sites. He
- Commented on Are there guys that are sexually attracted to their sister? I know I am being paranoid, but recently I stumbled on a random site that was discussing this issue saying it was apparently more common than people thought. It has made me slightly worried becau
- Commented on Is it inappropriate that my long-term live-in boyfriend has Christmas porn pictures saved on his phone that came from a chain text from one of his buddies? I mean I get it, 'tis the season... but why the f are they saved on his phone?!!
- Commented on MM! My bf said he "already spent enough on me" and not to really expect anything for Christmas. I think that's rude. I don't care about gifts, just the fact that he puts a limit on our relationship. I already got him his presents without a second thought
- Commented on Spent Thanksgiving w/ bf's family. I look young and his bro said I look like a little girl and should sit at the kids table. He was joking but it still hurt. Bf didn't do a thing. Days later, he said he talked to his bro. I'm so upset and hurt that he did
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- Commented on GC, I've loved your advice in the past, but I need your help. My guy got gastric bypass surgery a year ago. He's dropping weight and looks great, but he only eats meat and carbs now bc he's convinced that that's the healthiest. Looked online, eating veggi
- Commented on Hi MM. I dated a kind caring guy. He got a job in another state and in the months previous to him moving things were very cold between us. I feel he wanted to break up with me ever since he got the job. Things got better, but we broke up before he moved a
- Commented on Is admitting to getting a blow job different than admitting having sex with another woman? How much different? If someone admits to getting a blow job from amother woman, does it mean that he will admit to having sex? If not. Why?
- Commented on What would a guy do if they met the perfect girl at a time when they really didn't have the time or money for a girlfriend and were extremely focused on their career in their early 20s. Would they let the girl go or find someway to make it work?
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- Commented on Have you seen the trailer for Snow White and the Huntsman? Could Kristen Stewart really ever be fairer than Charlize Theron? I think they might have cast the Queen too well and then fell a bit short of the mark with Snow
- Commented on Boobs. I know you guys love them. I know you guys love cleavage. But what about girls that leave that to the imagination? Is it a turn off if a girls boobs aren't in your face and waving around? Personally, I think it's totally slutty for a girl to have h
- Commented on We go out with friends on weekends occasionally & we watch football together sober every Sunday. We always do it after the game, sober. He says he loves my boobs, he's attentive, makes sure I'm satisfied & I hang around after until I feel like going back
- Commented on A man tried really hard and long to win me over. He finally did, then he bailed? What is up with that? Thrill of the chase?
- Commented on I have a friend with a birth mark on her vagina and its like 8 cm long. Do you think this would stop a guy from having a sexual encounter with her. Shes very insecure about it.
- Commented on I like a guy who says he likes me too, but he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship because he says he gets stressed with family issues and school and so forth and when he gets stressed he takes it out on people, but he only says that because th
- Commented on I like a guy who says he likes me too, but he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship because he says he gets stressed with family issues and school and so forth and when he gets stressed he takes it out on people, but he only says that because th
- Commented on I just slept w/ my ex. He has a girlfriend, but says he "melts" and "folds" when he see's me...
- Commented on What does it mean when a man tells you "I am a man after all" several times in a conversation when you are talking about things?
- Commented on I believe in unconditional love. I have it for my family and friends and I have it for my long term BF. But I'm wondering if that's smart - to unconditionally love somebody who CAN just up and leave you if he wants. I mean, we're not married. Should uncon
- Commented on I believe in unconditional love. I have it for my family and friends and I have it for my long term BF. But I'm wondering if that's smart - to unconditionally love somebody who CAN just up and leave you if he wants. I mean, we're not married. Should uncon
- Commented on People say things like "if you were close enough with him to sleep with him, you should be able to have a baby with him." But I don't buy it. If I want to sleep with a random guy I just met, that's my prerogative, and I'm adult enough to be responsible fo
- Commented on Dear GBFF,I cannot keep female friends to save my life. I can't deal with the pass-agg games. However, I LOVE my guy friends and just feel more at home with straight men. I've tried desperately to cultivate true friendships with women, but it never wor
- Commented on I am a 24 year old single woman with hopes of falling in love and having a family someday. Am I naive to think that I can find true love the 'old fashioned' way, like meeting someone in the grocery store, rather than through dating websites?
- Commented on My boyfriend tends to post exceptionally goofy and unattractive pictures of himself on facebook, I mean total creeper pics. He's an attractive guy, but I never know whether to joke with him about them. I know they're meant to be funny, but I don't know if
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- Commented on sometimes when I feel my boyfriends balls they are smaller then usual. Does this mean he has had sex already, or has masturbated?
- Commented on Ok, the bf says that he wouldn't mind if I got pregnant and seemed genuinely disappointment that I wasn't. That kinda surprises me. Should I be concerned? Isn't that attitidue rather unusual? I love him, but we're not even engaged yet. Your insight
- Commented on He poked me on Facebook. Does it really mean he wants "something" from me? I personally think poking is really dumb (and we're in college, not middle school). Note that the guy is really hot.
- Commented on If you were married would you close a FB message to a high school friend "love, your name" if you hadn't seen or heard from her in 13 or more years? and never spoke her name or anything in your whole relationship with your wife?
- Commented on If you were married would you close a FB message to a high school friend "love, your name" if you hadn't seen or heard from her in 13 or more years? and never spoke her name or anything in your whole relationship with your wife?
- Commented on Hi! I'm naturally a high-maintenance woman. I was not conscious of it until someone told me that I was. Are males not attracted to high-maintenance girls? And should I change to become a woman who is less high-maintenance?
- Commented on Hi! I'm naturally a high-maintenance woman. I was not conscious of it until someone told me that I was. Are males not attracted to high-maintenance girls? And should I change to become a woman who is less high-maintenance?
- Commented on I've been seeing a guy for a month now and we finally had sex a couple days ago... and he didn't finish. He didn't cum the next time, or the time after that. What's wrong??
- Commented on would you poke a girl that poked you on facebook back ?
- Commented on Playa, I'm dyin' to know your thoughts on this. I haven't gotten a straight answer. Why would a 20 something guy let the right girl go just because he's not at that "right place" to be in a relationship (and she is)? Or, when the absolute "right girl" co
- Commented on Playa, I'm dyin' to know your thoughts on this. I haven't gotten a straight answer. Why would a 20 something guy let the right girl go just because he's not at that "right place" to be in a relationship (and she is)? Or, when the absolute "right girl" co
- Commented on I have been single for a while now and I'm looking to get talking with the ladies again. It just seems when I'm focused on love, I'm depressed, and when I'm not thinking about it I'm generally happy. I just need some advice to get back out there. I figure
- Commented on Panama, when it comes to guys, I try to remember that it's never worked out and not to get my hopes up or read into things, but they always go up. I hope it's going to be good, and being rejected/disappointed every single time is getting very hard to hand
- Commented on Please be as wise-assy as you can if I need a reality check. I want my ex back. We ended on good terms, he wants friendship, we sometimes hook up, he still cares. We still like each other, but I want him back as a boyfriend for sure this time. Says he's n
- Commented on What is the best polite way for a woman to suggest girth surgery to her man?
- Commented on My friend is posting personal ads on Craigslist and I don't know if he's just THAT lonely, or if this is normal? He's a good-looking normal dude and I don't think this is particularly safe. He's only 22, shouldn't he be meeting people in person, not onlin
- Commented on I met a guy (in person) 6 months ago who lives 1500 miles away from me. We spent hours on the phone/Skype for 4 months prior to seeing each other again, and he just bought me a plane ticket to go visit him. Does he just want a bootycall? I know for a fa
- Commented on I met a guy (in person) 6 months ago who lives 1500 miles away from me. We spent hours on the phone/Skype for 4 months prior to seeing each other again, and he just bought me a plane ticket to go visit him. Does he just want a bootycall? I know for a fa
- Commented on I met a guy (in person) 6 months ago who lives 1500 miles away from me. We spent hours on the phone/Skype for 4 months prior to seeing each other again, and he just bought me a plane ticket to go visit him. Does he just want a bootycall? I know for a fa
- Commented on I was seeing,(sleeping w/ and exchanging whitty texts) w/ a guy who lives on the other side of the country from me. HE invited me to come see him for 6 days, go to an amazing hotel, only to tell me halfway thru the trip that "he doesnt want to hurt me, bu
- Commented on I was seeing,(sleeping w/ and exchanging whitty texts) w/ a guy who lives on the other side of the country from me. HE invited me to come see him for 6 days, go to an amazing hotel, only to tell me halfway thru the trip that "he doesnt want to hurt me, bu
- Commented on I watched "UP" with my boyfriend and he didn't cry. Should I break up with him?
- Commented on My boyfriend of a month is still "single" on facebook. It bugs the hell out of me. But I know for a fact that he's give me a hard time for bringing it up, because apparently talking about facebook is considered immature.What can I do?
- Commented on My boyfriend of a month is still "single" on facebook. It bugs the hell out of me. But I know for a fact that he's give me a hard time for bringing it up, because apparently talking about facebook is considered immature.What can I do?
- Commented on Hey there Girls' BFF! My ex and I have been broken up for about a year now. Recently, he told me he wanted me back but has done nothing in the past year to show he even cares or still has feelings. Is he just talking or does he really mean it? If he means
- Commented on Graduated from a top university last May, 5'11'', kind, pretty, outgoing.....Ummm, I'm not approached :/
- Commented on Why do you guys ask for naked pictures? The chances of them actually getting them are slim but they still ask. Whenever a guy ask it's such a turn off that I'm not sure if I want to keep pursuing the relationship.
- Commented on Why do you guys ask for naked pictures? The chances of them actually getting them are slim but they still ask. Whenever a guy ask it's such a turn off that I'm not sure if I want to keep pursuing the relationship.
- Commented on is it true that some guys would have sex with a "fat," girl but never date her/publically acknowledge their relationship? I literally saw a guy kiss a plus size girl goodbye, and then turn around tell his friend, "she's a scooter.. i only ride her at nigh
- Commented on Jason Biggs Got A Prostitute From His Wife For His B-Day. What'd You Get?
- Commented on Jason Biggs Got A Prostitute From His Wife For His B-Day. What'd You Get?
- Commented on why do men keep his girl in the dark about a female who is talking to behind her back
- Commented on I study computer science. I'm the only girl in my lab. I feel uncomfortable when I wear a skirt or a tank top because I'm afraid they might judge me on my physical appearance instead of my work. My boyfriend says I should'nt worry. What do you think?
- Commented on My bf and i have been dating for years, still haven't had sex-we both want to, but the time is never 'right' (he says). Last week we were in the middle of a hot makeout session, losing clothes, etc. And he stops, tells me that he's sorry but he needs a na
- Commented on Hi my name is Stephanie. How do I talk to a white guy on the metro train going home?
- Commented on Hi my name is Stephanie. How do I talk to a white guy on the metro train going home?
- Commented on What and why it makes a woman feel the need to use men as toys and never in a real relationship?
- Commented on What and why it makes a woman feel the need to use men as toys and never in a real relationship?
- Commented on Am I shallow if I don't like dating guys or having boyfriends that way less than me? I'm not fat it's just skinny guys like my curvy body and it makes me feel bigger cuz they're really skinny!
- Commented on Do men ever fake orgasms? Or fall in love with their BFFs? Or need to look at girls online before having s-e-x? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!
- Commented on Long story short: an acquaintance set me up with his best friend, we dated for a year and just broke up. Hung out with acquaintance for first time since split, he got gropey, even though he has a woman at home. Feeling sleazy, but tempted...is temptation
- Commented on My ex's friends have requested me on facebook, I haven't seem my ex in over a year but he has texted me a couple of times and I've ignored it. But I'm really confused of why his best friends are requesting me on Facebook. What should I think?
- Commented on Long story short: an acquaintance set me up with his best friend, we dated for a year and just broke up. Hung out with acquaintance for first time since split, he got gropey, even though he has a woman at home. Feeling sleazy, but tempted...is temptation
- Commented on Im not one of the boys. However, I love hanging out with guys and having guy friends. Ive looked up many articles about how to do this but they all talk about changing yourself and all that bullshit. Am i too naive to think that it is possible to just be
- Commented on My coworker makes jokes about cheating on his wife or being attracted to other women. I've heard plenty of married men make similar jokes as well: jokes at the expense of their wives or marriages. Are all married men like this? I find it very disrespectfu
- Commented on When do you think it's time for a guy to take down his online dating profile?
- Commented on My bf of two years dumped me but says he still loves me. I actually believe him. Stupid of me? If he does, why would he dump me? He's going through a sort of transitional period in his life (read: college). He says he doesn't want to date other girls but
- Commented on My BF made the comment "stop losing weight, I don't want a twiggy GF." (lost 2 lbs doing yoga) I thought guys like skinny girls. Isn't that why all Playboy models, strippers, and most porn stars are skinny? Plus guys love VS models, they're all skinny. If
- Commented on MM please help! I feel like my guy just isn't attracted to me at all. He can watch porn and cum in minutes but anytime we mess around/have sex it takes him ages- going on 45 mins+. Am I over exaggerating or is he just not into me?
- Commented on what does it mean when your dating a guy and he suddenly ignores you and wont talk to you?
- Commented on How do I support my friend who thinks she is bisexual without influencing her decisions about her sexual orientation?
- Commented on If I like depressing things, I.E movies, studying different personality disorders, into dark poets and musicians, then does that make me a depressed person?
- Commented on It's been three years and I want something back from my ex. Is it kosher to ask for it back?
- Commented on Do men keep old naked pictures of ex's forever? I am so embarrassed, and hate that he has these pics!!
- Commented on Foreskin and Seven Years Ago: The Battle, A Head.
- Commented on Foreskin and Seven Years Ago: The Battle, A Head.
- Commented on I broke up with my boyfriend for a guy whom I've known for a long time and am starting to fall for. Everything is going amazing, but long story short, he has a TINY penis. As in penetration not physically possible tiny. He feels bad so I try not to make i
- Commented on A friend who was upset about not being a bridesmaid decided to skip my wedding (via a phonecall just hours before it). She hasn't spoken to me since, but has told others that she regrets it. I don't like to hold grudges, but am really hurt by her bailing
- Commented on when very attractive men marry women who aren't necessarily considered that great looking, is there a higher chance that he'll lose interest and find himself eying more attractive women? do thoughts like those come across a mans head often?
- Commented on My husband has been with over 50 women who would be considered prefect 10's.When he met me, I already had a LOT of extra saggy skin and stretch marks.He says he loves my body and has never been more attracted to anyone more in his life.Is he just sparing
- Commented on I recently tried initiating sex with my husband only to be rejected. I feel humiliated and wonder if I should give up on that whole idea. I thought men liked women to initiate? Seriously, WTF??
- Commented on Dear BFF, you just answered a question and said "When dating anybody you have to put your trust in them." And you're right - dating does require trust. But on the other hand, you can't control another person's actions and you can never really be 100% cert
- Commented on Okay Panama. What is the deal! This guy and I have been steadily texting everyday for over a month, shamelessly flirting mind you, and we have talked on the phone for hours and hours on end. Then, via a random FB update, I find out he is "In a relationshi
- Commented on I ran into an old friend, and as we were catching up, I noticed that he was continually playing with his wedding ring. Your thoughts?
- Commented on Q : WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A GUY ASKS A WOMAN FOR NUDE PICS OF HER BREASTS AFTER TALKING FOR TWO YEARS .....
- Commented on Bff- My boyfriend broke up with me because he's unhappy with his life, wants to get a different job, go to grad school, and move out of his family's house. He said (and looks like) he's miserable with out me, still likes me and is miserable, but won't get
- Commented on Bff- My boyfriend broke up with me because he's unhappy with his life, wants to get a different job, go to grad school, and move out of his family's house. He said (and looks like) he's miserable with out me, still likes me and is miserable, but won't get
- Commented on I feel strong emotions for a guy that I'm dating. I freaked out about it one night and said that I just couldn't see him anymore. The night morning, I realized my foolishness and apologized. Although he said that he also regrets that night, he's been dist
- Commented on Not sure how I feel about my partner watching porn. I know alot of men watch porn but my problem is that even if I participate with him I feel as though he is more interested in the girls than me. What do you think about this?
- Commented on I have told this girl multiple times i do not like her. But she is persistant on trying to get me to like her. I just don't. She is an amazing friend but i really do not know how to get her to stop with out ruining a friendship. Help?
- Commented on I am a guys girl.I like to hang with the men and do manly things.I am extremely friendly and like to really get to know people genuinely. The only problem is that a lot of the guys I hang with take it as a sign that I am attracted to them or want them sex
- Commented on I'm black, my ex is white mediterranean. Ex called me a 'silly n-word'. We broke up and now he's on facebook flirting with every black girl in his friend's list. What is wrong with him?
- Commented on If a guy trys to hook up with you at a party, and after you reject him he is completely rude and horrible to you in other social situations, why is it that he will try to hook up with you again at the next party, then the one after that, and the one after
- Commented on What does it mean when a guy says he isn't seeing anyone else but isn't into labels? is he scared?
- Commented on What does it mean when a guy says he isn't seeing anyone else but isn't into labels? is he scared?
- Commented on Four first dates in a row, when the check arrives, the man has asked me how I feel about traditional gender roles in relationships. It took me until number three to realize they wanted me to pay half the bill. Others, when I've offered to contribute, ref
- Commented on Four first dates in a row, when the check arrives, the man has asked me how I feel about traditional gender roles in relationships. It took me until number three to realize they wanted me to pay half the bill. Others, when I've offered to contribute, ref
- Commented on Four first dates in a row, when the check arrives, the man has asked me how I feel about traditional gender roles in relationships. It took me until number three to realize they wanted me to pay half the bill. Others, when I've offered to contribute, ref
- Commented on HELP FUNNY GUY! I DON'T UNDERSTAND....My bf's ex looks nothing like me! She is tall, skinny, and covered in tattoos and piercings. Me I am short with some curves and preppy with zero tattoos and and conservative diamond studs in my ears. How can my guy h
- Commented on Hi BFF! Please settle a Friend Zone argument: Will a guy ever really put a girl (one he spends a significant amount of time with) in the friend zone? My male coworkers say no bc the thought of hooking up is always there. Are they right or can a guy and gi
- Commented on Hi BFF! Please settle a Friend Zone argument: Will a guy ever really put a girl (one he spends a significant amount of time with) in the friend zone? My male coworkers say no bc the thought of hooking up is always there. Are they right or can a guy and gi
- Commented on Hi BFF! Please settle a Friend Zone argument: Will a guy ever really put a girl (one he spends a significant amount of time with) in the friend zone? My male coworkers say no bc the thought of hooking up is always there. Are they right or can a guy and gi
- Commented on Why is it that when a man relentlessly pursues a girl its cute or romantic, but when a girl does the same its viewed as pathetic or even slutty? It seems nearly impossible to woo a man who is uninterested, yet a girl who is uninterested needs only to be w
- Commented on Bf adds on FB a lot of women he doesn't know personally, whose profiles claim they're artists of some kind & have revealing pictures... I haven't said anything yet, but it makes me feel odd. I do remember him saying he adds a lot of fellow artists (networ
- Commented on My husband won't stay off of dating sites. this makes me feel unwanted and betrayed. No trust=no sex. but even a three month no entry warning has no effect. What do I do? Divorce is not an option. Going on almost six months with no sex, he is still o
- Commented on One of my friends just admitted to creating fake online profiles to check up on her men (previous and current). Your take?
- Commented on If a girl is really short, would that matter to a guy??
- Commented on I started cutting myself when I was 12, and I'm in college now and much better, but my legs are covered in scars. I'm worried about them being a huge turn off for future boyfriends. Do you think guys will be able to look past the fact that my legs look li
- Commented on The guy I'm seeing wears clothes from old ex girlfriends, like t-shirts, maybe jeans. I think it's kind of weird...your thoughts on this?
- Commented on a guy i was seeing just told me he loves spending time with and likes me a lot but doesn't want a serious relationship. is that possible? can this be true? i looked and i couldnt find this on your site, please answer. i'm totally heartbroken
- Commented on Do men actually notice if a women has makeup on or not?
- Commented on so if a guy has been arrested ( but not convicted) does this count him out of the dating game with a very nice "good girl"?
- Commented on My boyfriend and I have been dating for over six months and I was a bit suprised when I didn't get a holiday gift. I gave him a thoughtful, but not expensive gifts and I thought I would at least get a card in return. Is this a sign of bad things to come?
- Commented on my girlfriend has cut me off from sex until marriage and I'm having a difficult time trying to stay faithful. Sex plays a huge part in a relationship for me. I'm a guy who can't go 2 days with out it. How can I find a way to calm these urges and stay fait
- Commented on How do you tell a man you have been dating he smells?
- Commented on I was looking through the internet history and found out that my boyfriend had watched a video of his ex-girlfriend masturbating. He has the video saved. How to I bring it up to him? Is this normal?
- Commented on What are the signs you're just a rebound?
- Commented on What does a married guy mean when he says he wants to spend the night with you?
- Commented on I really this guy, but I recently found out he doesn't like Asian girls. what should i do?
- Commented on I know it may seem trivial, but what's with the toilet seat? Is it some need to prove dominance and not give in, or is there some block to the brain?
- Commented on My best friend recently found out that her exboyfriend took naked pictures of her on his phone when she was sleeping. I think that's kind of a big deal but she just kind of brushed it off and said I was over reacting. I mean that is a big deal right?
- Commented on I just moved in with my guy and how often does he expect me to "groom" and shave ? I can't reasonably do that everyday ???
- Commented on my husband wants "alone" time should i be worried or not
- Commented on One date. OK, a GREAT one date, but still one date. He sent me a Facebook friend request. I don't want him to be moving too fast. Is he? That's kinda a 5 or more dates thing, don't you think? What do I do?
- Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?
- Commented on Is it okay to flirt with guys just for fun or is that considered being a tease?
- Commented on If in a commited relationship, do men consider it cheating if they get say "a happy ending" from a massage parlor?
- Commented on I love my bf so much. We've been through such highs & lows and are stronger than ever. We can both see a future together but I just want to be single for a while (we're 22). How can I explain this without breaking his heart & ruining hope of reconnecting?
- Commented on My boyfriend expects lots of blow jobs...whats the average amount a guy should get a week?
- Commented on Why does my boyfriend of 4 years not want to bring me around his friends? I think im exceptionaly good looking? His friends and I never even met. Why?
- Commented on I really just want to be his non-sexual friend. But we hooked up a few times and now he barely even talks to me. How can I explain to him that I JUST want to be friends without sounding like I still have "feelings" for him?
- Commented on What does it mean when guy asks a girl to meet up for drinks. Why not just ask her to dinner for their first date?
- Commented on I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?
- Commented on Why do men shut down when women get angry with them or fight with them?
- Commented on What does it mean when a guy walks out the house to talk on the phone?
- Commented on So I am in a relationship, but what do I do about a good guy friend who wants to be more than just friends with me and I don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him I am with someone already?
- Commented on I'm 99% sure that I'm somehow incapable of having an orgasm during sex, but its starting to make me resent my boyfriend, even though I know its not his fault and I love him so much anyway. I cant tell him without killing his ego, but its been 2 years and
- Commented on Bachelor parties. Is it reasonable to expect my man not to go to a strip club? If im not allowed, then why should he be able to go to one?
- Commented on Why do so many men think Tiger Woods is "the man"? Don't they get that what he did was grimy and wrong?
- Commented on I love my fiance, but I am such a dirty flirt. As a waitress, I can't help but to endlessly flirt with our sexy bartender who is all over me as well. I'm 100% committed to my man, so why can't I stop my 'player' ways?
- Commented on So my boyfriend does not like me to wear lingerie or sexy things. I've tried and he tells me he doesn't find them sexy. What's up with this? Am I somehow not attractive to him?
- Commented on My boyfriend occasionally goes to strip clubs, and I don't get it. Why would a guy choose to throw money at a naked girl when he has one in his bed every night for free? Can I tell him that I am uncomfortable without seeming controlling?
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gishrhino commented on
Hi MM. I = the voice of inexperience, so my apologies for this stupid question. Is there a way to kill your feelings for someone? He didn't want me. It's over. We're not in contact, but I still care for him deeply, and it still hurts like hell. Help
Put your science caps on for this one! In a nutshell... At the neurochemical level, when you really like someone, thinking of them produces tremendous amounts of activity in the reward centers of your brain. Lots and lots of dopamine - the same chemical released when drug addicts get a fix - goes coursing through your brain, giving you that cloud-9, woozy,happy, in-love feeling. Any thoughts of intimacy/closeness with that person also trigger the release of oxytocin, the "pair bonding" chemical that makes people in a relationship feel connected to each other. When relationships end suddenly, there is actually a...
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chrissie1101 commented on
I told a man I love him, and he said you dont know me well enough to say that. what should I say now?
if you really want to know what i hate about it, read my comment again, as i have already made this clear. this time, maybe do so without making so many assumptions about me....
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Cary McNeal commented on
I only get to see my bf once every few weeks, and our next meet up is over a week away. I've recently come to the end of my rope with this relationship. He's just not trying to fix any of the issues. Should i wait to break up face to face, or would the ph
If you're that far apart, why are you even dating in the first place?...
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Spectator Ion commented on
My girl is starting to need to shave her chin. Should I stay or run?
Lmao. Why are you all being so harsh on the guy? I can agree that women with EXCESS facial hair are not the epitome of attractiveness. However I have to say that that should not apply to your gf, especially if you love her. Love covers a multitude of sins...and keratin based growths as well. My gf is not perfect (including some facial hair) and neither for that matter am I, but we accept each other. We all have preferences....
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Crystal commented on
MM! My bf said he "already spent enough on me" and not to really expect anything for Christmas. I think that's rude. I don't care about gifts, just the fact that he puts a limit on our relationship. I already got him his presents without a second thought
I have to agree with Fran. I would love to hear what others think because this part did not seem to truly be addressed. His saying "I already spent enough on you" to me indicates to quote a movie I watched once "You have been weighed, you have been measured and you have been found wanting" I personally believe that is what he was saying. I have spent as much as you are worth to me. I, personally, wanna be with someone who feels there is absolutely no price on how much I am worth to him because I am...
