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• Commented on My boyfriend is a truly great guy whom I care about a lot, but I am not in love with him anymore. Does a not-so-painful way to break up with him exist? I think it's utterly wrong to go on like this, yet at the same time I hate the thought of hurting him.
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• Cary McNeal commented on My boyfriend is a truly great guy whom I care about a lot, but I am not in love with him anymore. Does a not-so-painful way to break up with him exist? I think it's utterly wrong to go on like this, yet at the same time I hate the thought of hurting him.
  Great point about Facebook and Twitter, Carly. Thanks for mentioning it....
• Cary McNeal commented on How do you politely tell your boyfriend to please not text me as much? I am a full time college student plus carrying two jobs and often don't have time to sit and text nonstop. He can't understand this and gets all mopey and shit, and it's really frustra
  Thank you, boop....
• Cary McNeal commented on How do you politely tell your boyfriend to please not text me as much? I am a full time college student plus carrying two jobs and often don't have time to sit and text nonstop. He can't understand this and gets all mopey and shit, and it's really frustra
  Thanks, Daisy....
• chrissie1101 commented on How do you politely tell your boyfriend to please not text me as much? I am a full time college student plus carrying two jobs and often don't have time to sit and text nonstop. He can't understand this and gets all mopey and shit, and it's really frustra
  yeah, awesome answer. it's all in communication and presentation. if my bf says or does something that irks me even a bit, i just say sweetie, i always think that your advice/help/texts, (whatever it is) are awesome, but what you just said made me sad/upset/grumpy. almost 100% he gets a deer in the headlights look and says "well how do we fix THAT" and away we go. and he follows suit if it's my thing that needs to be addressed. Cary's right, you can only create your own experience, his is up to him....
• Mai commented on How do you politely tell your boyfriend to please not text me as much? I am a full time college student plus carrying two jobs and often don't have time to sit and text nonstop. He can't understand this and gets all mopey and shit, and it's really frustra
  Yes i love the logic you guys have. us girls' problem is we use all emotion. if u take out the ("oh how we he feel...?!) OR (" i'll feel so bad if i....") you'll realize how simple it really is..... so if u stop for a minute and stop thinking about everyones feelings and use reason and logic, u can literally solve any problem that culd come up. Im a very kindhearted and caring person so this doesnt mean u dont care about peoples feelings at all! But if its something thats reasonable and either you or your man...