Megan
- Who is your celebrity look alike?I've been linked to Rachel Weiz and Drew Barrymore
- Who is your celebrity crush?Ronan Dax
- If you were stranded on a desert island and could only have two things with you (objects, not people or food) what would they be?A survivalist guide a radio
- Name one food you hate:Fish
- How often do you talk to your mother a week/month?Everyday since I live with here like an ass
- Who is one person you would love to have dinner with?Anyone who's willing to foot the bill
- Boxers, briefs, or freeball?Boy shorts?
- Dog, cat, neither?Both, though I have two dogs right now
- Name one magazine in your house right now:Rolling Stone
- What’s your favorite quote?Everything Mark Twain ever uttered
- What is your favorite song?Storybook love from the Princess Bride
- What’s your favorite movie of all time?Braveheart
- Do you text, email, or call?All of that and more. I am known to send smoke signals
- If you could donate $1 million to a charity – which one would you choose?Women to women international
- How many days in a row do you wear the same socks?Never more than a day
- If you had a daughter, and she asked you real nice, would you let her paint your toenails?I would, seeing as how I do like having my toes painted in the summer
- Do you have any sisters, and if so, are they older or younger than you? If not, do you have any siblings at all, and where do you fall in the mix?I have two sisters, older and younger
- More about you?I'm a female who thinks like a male
- Your Astrological Sign:Libra
- What's your favorite sport?Swimming
- What's your favorite professional sports team?I'm forced into loving the cubs, otherwise my dad will disown me
- Do you have kids? If not, do you want rugrats one day?I have one boy
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- Commented on Hey dude. I'm a guy and i'm in college. I have this female friend who i hang out with a lot and am very close with. She is undeniably promiscuous and isn't very selective about who she'll hook up with. My question is, why won't she hook up with me?
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- Commented on i'm middle aged going out with a man for 2 years who has a girlfriend for 15 years. I'm the other woman but he won't have intercourse with me. Everything else but not that. What does that mean?
- Commented on I'm scared if I tell him I want a relationship, I'll lose him as a friend. We have been friends with benefits for a year now, and I thought that was enough but it's not.
- Commented on My boyfriend constantly talks about other girls he finds attractive and he describes the things he wants to do with them. Will he cheat on me?
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- Commented on Why do so many men think Tiger Woods is "the man"? Don't they get that what he did was grimy and wrong?
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- Commented on We've all heard that guys don't see a girl's flaws, but how can you not? I cringe when my guy rubs his hands over my flabby stomach and back fat! What goes through his mind? He can't be thinking, "mm, yeah." I'm not stupid. I just want the truth!
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- Commented on I have been dating an older man. Sometimes he will get upset at me and say very mean things, like how he's having sex with other women and they are prettier than me, etc. Then two days later he will say I am the love of his life. What gives?
- Commented on Do guys really care what girls look like "down there?" I don't mean in regards to waxing or shaving, but things that can't be changed without vagina surgery.
- Commented on I made out with a guy I met at a club two weeks ago for fun and we stupidly exchanged numbers. I'm not interested in him at all but I've agreed to meet him for coffee. Am I leading him on?
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- Commented on My bf said he likes rougher sex, so we tried it and I've never seen him so turned on. Problem: It was scary. I was bruised and queasy afterward. He apologized but I feel uncomfortable with him now. Should I let it go or is this a sign of something else?
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- Commented on I like to go deep when giving a blowjob but my man always grabs my hair and likes when I stay there ( making it hard to breath ) ive tried telling him let me breath lol .. but he gets to excited how do i get him to relax and to enjoy it at the same time !
- Commented on What is the definition of an "open" marriage?
- Commented on Hey Cary, I'm a single mom. My son is 6 years old and I really want to date but find that I'm blocked. I don't want to parade a bunch of men in and out of my sons life. How do I go about the dating scene with a young child in tow?
- Commented on What does it mean when a guy says "My life is complicated"?
- Commented on The guy I'm dating recently told me he's had sexual fantasies about his sister. Is this normal or am I dating a total psychopath?
- Commented on My husband says he doesn't ever think about another women naked ....Is that true???
- Commented on My husband says he doesn't ever think about another women naked ....Is that true???
- Commented on My boyfriend and I had sex for the first time, and he asked me how it was...being put on the spot like that, I told him it was great. It wasnt. How can I give him pointers without hurting his feelings?
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- Commented on Hey Cary, I'm a single mom. My son is 6 years old and I really want to date but find that I'm blocked. I don't want to parade a bunch of men in and out of my sons life. How do I go about the dating scene with a young child in tow?
- Commented on What kind of clothes really catch a man's eye?
- Commented on Maybe I've been watching too much "He's just not that into you," but I refuse to text a guy first. If he is interested he will text me. Not only the first time, but like as we date he should always text me first. How do guys feel about this?
- Commented on One date. OK, a GREAT one date, but still one date. He sent me a Facebook friend request. I don't want him to be moving too fast. Is he? That's kinda a 5 or more dates thing, don't you think? What do I do?
- Commented on My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?
- Commented on If a guy tells you he wants a "committed, yet casual and exclusive relationship" what does that mean?
- Commented on One date. OK, a GREAT one date, but still one date. He sent me a Facebook friend request. I don't want him to be moving too fast. Is he? That's kinda a 5 or more dates thing, don't you think? What do I do?
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- Commented on If I'm fat (not morbidly obese, but chunky) is there any way that a guy will be able to see past that..ever?
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- Commented on Is it possible to train your boyfriend? Teach him what girls like and don't like (bring her flowers, taking her out, no burping etc.)? Most girls seem to try but does it actually work?
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- Commented on My husband is not my children's father and he treats them like they are the worst kids on the planet. He fusses at them constantly and it's getting old. We broke up once because of it and he promised to do better. I love him very much, any advice?
- Commented on I just found out the guy I am seeing has a long distance girlfriend (they have apparently been on and off, but are now "on"). I sent a politely worded 'we need to talk' email. Tonight I have to tell him I know. How do I go about this?
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- Commented on What do you say to a woman who hasn't dated in five years because she's afraid to get hurt again?
- Commented on What do guys think about a girl who plays guitar and electric guitar, even when he can't play anything?
- Commented on Do guys REALLY believe in love at first sight? Or is it just a bunch of crap?
- Commented on I'm normally a confident person, but when it comes to attracting the attention of a guy, my confidence just leaves me altogether. What should I do to help boost my confidence around guys?
- Commented on After the first date, is it bad if a gal calls up to three times to ask him out on another? Each call would be spaced out about every two or three days and would have a voice message,
- Commented on What does he mean we need to end this?
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- Commented on If your girlfriend were to make you dinner at your apartment.. should she ask you what you want first ? Or is it ok to surprise you ?
- Commented on why do men prefer high maintenance, gorgeous women over easy going, attractive women?
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- Commented on Where is a good place to meet guys? I am over the gross guys I have met out at bars or clubs, you just don't find worthwhile guys, just guys that want ass. Do you have any suggestions of how to meet good relationship type guys?
- Commented on Do the guys who are nicer to girls have a smaller penis then the guys who are ass holes? My friend has dated a lot of guys and told me the nicer they are, the smaller their penis is. Is this true?
- Commented on why do men prefer high maintenance, gorgeous women over easy going, attractive women?
- Commented on Why can't guys understand that just because you're a single gal doesn't mean you want to date, and why do they always follow it up with "so you must me a lesbian then?"
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- Commented on Would you rather see a girl in skinny jeans and heels or flared/bootcut jeans ?
- Commented on why do men prefer high maintenance, gorgeous women over easy going, attractive women?
- Commented on My boyfriend is a fan of some porn model on facebook. I guess I'm being immature and insecure with myself but it kind of bugged me. Do I say anything? Or just let it go?
- Commented on I'm dating a man who's absolutely perfect for me: hilarious, honest, hard-working, and treats me wonderfully. I'm very happy with him. One problem: he lives with his parents (age 28 and pays rent). He talks about moving out but hasn't. What's the deal?
- Commented on What do you do about a guy you are completely in love with, but he is convinced you deserve better than him?
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- Commented on How soon after the first date can one begin planning the wedding without being creepy or suggestive? And what about the names and occupations of future children?
- Commented on Is it true that guys can really "turn off their brains" and think about nothing?
- Commented on My friend died a year ago this month, and now his once girlfriend has started to date his best friend. Is this wrong of them?
- Commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
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- Commented on i'm 18 and my mom recently got remarried to a 25 year old HOTTIE....i've been sleeping with him for the past 3 months.i really want to keep "bangin" but it's so wrong. what do i do?
- Commented on Hey Cary! I would love to hear your view on this. I used to be really heavy and recently lost forty pounds. But I still have a bit of a tummy and my boyfriend constantly teases me about it. He says he is only joking but I'm not so sure. What do you think?
- Commented on I've been told by several people that the best way to get over someone is to hook up with someone else. What do you think?
- Commented on i'm 18 and my mom recently got remarried to a 25 year old HOTTIE....i've been sleeping with him for the past 3 months.i really want to keep "bangin" but it's so wrong. what do i do?
- Commented on Why do guys wear skinny jeans?
- Commented on Can guys feel a girl's boobs when they hug? Is that why guys are always giving me hugs? Also, what's the deal with a side hug. Those are awful.
- Commented on How do you get a guy when your best friend is much more attractive than you?
- Commented on How do I get my guy to manscape without offending him? I would love to give him oral, but I feel like I'm flossing!
- Commented on Do guys like girls who are bitchy and mean?
- Commented on My boyfriend got mad at me because I go tanning,he thinks I'm killing myself, and is now furious with me and is holding a grudge. What can I do to make it up to him? Or at least get him to talk to me?
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- Commented on I've recently met a guy who's PERFECT for me! He's easy to talk to, funny and treats me well. The catch? I'm not physically attracted to him. There's no "spark" for me. Should I hang in there and hope it changes? Or would it have already happened by now?
- Commented on I contacted an ex after I heard he had cancer. He started talking to me in tears and shock that id have anything to do with him. I lost my v card to him 5 yrs ago. He cheated and left me. He's in remission and single. Should I give him a 2nd chance?
- Commented on What is the best way to seduce my best friend into bed? (i'm a woman and he's a guy) N.B. I don't care if I should or shouldn't do this: I want to, regardless.
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- Commented on I am 23 and very attractive. Why are older men way better at sex?
- Commented on What are your views on a woman with stretch marks?
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- Commented on When having sex, and a girl tells you exactly what they want, whats your reaction?
- Commented on Pretty blunt, what makes a good blow job? What to do and what not to do?
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- Commented on Me and my fiance have never had sex, we are waiting until we are married next october. I found porn on his computer, is it okay to get mad at him?
- Commented on I just broke up with a man. In the beginning he was the most charming man in the world. He slowly became controlling, mean to my son, trying to make me jealous by threatening to sleep with his ex if I left him. He promises he can change. What do I do?
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- Commented on Why do guys tell a girl she's his girlfriend but tells others he's single and get with other girls behind her back? Why don't they just stay single then and play the field?
- Commented on Is it bad if a girl can get a higher score in video games then her boyfriend?
- Commented on He is to pick me up at the airport. Last heard from him Dec.13th. To fly in to his town Dec.28th. I am worried he will not be there. I have left messages. No reply.
- Commented on I'm a writer, but I can never get my bf of 3 years to consistently read my material. I know he's busy (he's a bball player) but even when he does read it he just does it to oblige me. Why?
- Commented on What do guys think if you tell them you're a virgin (and it's the truth) after dating a bit. Will they run away because you're a "prude," or are they willing to stick it out?
- Commented on What do guys think if you tell them you're a virgin (and it's the truth) after dating a bit. Will they run away because you're a "prude," or are they willing to stick it out?
- Commented on This guy uses me as a booty call, but i really like him, so whenever he calls I go meet him. Should I play hard to get and stop answering his calls? He always avoids my questions about a relationship.
- Commented on What does it mean if a guy constantly has to check up on you all the time? Checking cell phone, reading journal, calling to make sure I am where I said I was going to be... that sort of thing.
- Commented on Do men like fake (big) boobs more than natural boobs?
- Commented on On our final date the boy I was seeing (we were not exclusive) shows up with a hickey the size of Texas. I, disgusted leave the date midway through. He says I am over reacting. I think it is disrespectful and don't plan on seeing him again. Thoughts?
- Commented on How do you know whether your significant other is "the one?" Is not being 100% sure a sign that they aren't?
- Commented on Why hasn't my 29 year old boyfriend of 8 weeks who I have known for over one year tried to kiss me?
- Commented on Should a girl hold out or move on when her guy tells her "let's be friends, but maybe we can be together later on?"
- Commented on Should a girl hold out or move on when her guy tells her "let's be friends, but maybe we can be together later on?"
- Commented on I hooked up with a traveling guy in September, good connection blah blah. We decided to cut things off "as friends". He's planning to come back to my town in February. Will he be coming back with the expectation of having sex with me on this second visit?
- Commented on Okay so me and this guy have been talking. He calls or text me everday with no initiation on my part. He told me he would like us to be friends. Yet he has sang on my answering machine and also written poetry with my name. What gives?
- Commented on How do i get in a guys pants?
- Commented on How do i get in a guys pants?
- Commented on I ask this, Funny Guy, because you just bought a new bed and it seems topical. Cuddling positions in bed. IS there a way to do it without SOMEBODY'S arm going to sleep?
- Commented on How do i get in a guys pants?
- Commented on What do you do when you're out with your girlfriend at the restaurant an the server starts flirting with you in front of her, and you notice that your girlfriend doesn't like it. What should you do as a man to make your date comfortable?
- Commented on Should a girl hold out or move on when her guy tells her "let's be friends, but maybe we can be together later on?"
- Commented on When a guy asks if you want to hang out, how are you supposed to know if he means as friends or if it's a date?
- Commented on When a guy asks if you want to hang out, how are you supposed to know if he means as friends or if it's a date?
- Commented on My friend's say my boyfriend is a player. He has never done anything that makes me think he is, but i could be wrong. Ive heard about how he was before we started dating, but he says he changed. "It's different this time." How can i tell if this is true?
- Commented on I'm a little bit overweight, vegetarian, percussion major and I love South Park and Colbert Report. I've got plenty of guy friends but I'm almost NEVER the object of affection. Be honest - if I don't lose the weight, do I have any chance of finding love?
- Commented on What are you really thinking when she's on top?
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- Commented on Can you please enlighten me and tell me why do guys stop calling with no reason whatsoever? Is it so hard to say 'This isn't going anywhere' or 'it's over'? Are guys afraid we'll act psycho and/or melodramatic by saying so? What's the deal with this?
- Commented on I slept with this guy cause I really like him. He knows that I like him and he tells me he isn't ready for a relationship yet. How do I get him ready for one??
- Commented on How do I help a guy fall out of love with me, aside from not hanging out anymore, but still maintaining a friendship?
- Commented on I'm married w/ 2 kids, I love my husband, but I talk to guys online, and send and receive dirty pics. Is this really cheating to a guy?
- Commented on What are you really thinking when she's on top?
- Commented on There is this guy and he keeps giving me mixed signals, he stares at me a lot but acts like a total asshole, how do i know if he likes me?
- Commented on How do you ask a boy out even though he has a girlfriend?
- Commented on When you take a girl out to dinner, what do you find most attractive for her to order? Salad, nice and light? Steak, rich and meaty? Or something in the middle, like chicken, or whatever?
- Commented on Is it a turn-off while making love if the woman sweats a lot?
- Commented on I have been seeing this guy for 12 yrs and we have a 2 year old kid together and now he got married 1 year ago but he was cheating with me before and after they got married. What does that mean?
- Commented on I love whiskey, tell dick jokes, and sometimes pay for dates. Often I'm smarter, wittier, and more honest than the (usually great) men I find, which leads them to feel insecure. How can I make men feel like men without giving up who I am?
- Commented on I slept with this guy cause I really like him. He knows that I like him and he tells me he isn't ready for a relationship yet. How do I get him ready for one??
- Commented on Dear fellows, I have a lot of limitations. How do I go about finding my special someone? Please give detailed step by step advice asap.
- Commented on My boyfriend and I just started dating but when we talk on the phone there is a lot of silence. What should I do?
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- Commented on I have been seeing this guy for 12 yrs and we have a 2 year old kid together and now he got married 1 year ago but he was cheating with me before and after they got married. What does that mean?
- Commented on From a guy's perspective, what style of jeans look best on most girls? ie boot cut, skinny jeans, etc
- Commented on Hi, I'm a single mother to a 3 month old boy and I'd like to know if guys would be really put off by this?
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- Commented on I have been seeing this guy for 12 yrs and we have a 2 year old kid together and now he got married 1 year ago but he was cheating with me before and after they got married. What does that mean?
- Commented on How do I know if a guy likes me? What are the signals?
- Commented on True or false: Guys like waiting to get the goodies? I've been seeing a dude for maybe three weeks (pretty much every day) and haven't slept with him yet. I want him to REALLY want it. Is this a good path to take?
- Commented on From a guy's perspective, what style of jeans look best on most girls? ie boot cut, skinny jeans, etc
- Commented on From a guy's perspective, what style of jeans look best on most girls? ie boot cut, skinny jeans, etc
- Commented on True or false: Guys like waiting to get the goodies? I've been seeing a dude for maybe three weeks (pretty much every day) and haven't slept with him yet. I want him to REALLY want it. Is this a good path to take?
- Commented on True or false: Guys like waiting to get the goodies? I've been seeing a dude for maybe three weeks (pretty much every day) and haven't slept with him yet. I want him to REALLY want it. Is this a good path to take?
- Commented on How do I know if a guy likes me? What are the signals?
- Commented on From a guy's perspective, what style of jeans look best on most girls? ie boot cut, skinny jeans, etc
- Commented on I'm in love with my best friend but he is marrying another girl soon. I know he loves her, but she is a total b**ch. She's cheated on him twice that I know of and I think she is just using him for something. What should I do?
- Commented on How do I know if a guy likes me? What are the signals?
- Commented on Would it bother most guys if a woman had one breast a cup size smaller than the other?
- Commented on I'm 18. Can I be with a guy who's 64?
- Commented on Yo, this guy I've been hanging out with a lot has been booty-calling a friend of mine. Is it a good call to steer clear of a potential relationship with him?
- Commented on Why would a guy be jealous of another guy sleeping with a woman he is just sleeping with if they are not in a relationship?
- Commented on Oh, most highly exalted, breathtakingly charming Wise-Ass, do you believe a woman's hair can be too long? If so, at what point?
- Commented on Would you say it's EVER a good idea to begin a new relationship with someone who has just ended a very long, complicated previous relationship? This is assuming you haven't been friends for very long to begin with.
- Commented on Does casual sex ever really exist between two people?
- Commented on I recently had a (mistake!) threesome with a guy who I don't even know if I like and my best friend's brother... I haven't told my friend about it, but it's killing me to keep a secret like that from her. How should I tell her?
- Commented on If you met a guy online and he says he loves you before you've met in person, what does that mean?
- Commented on Why does is seem like all men have a former girlfriend in the their lives as a "best friend"? I find this ridiculous. How can a guy have such a close friendship with someone he's been in a relationship with and not have romantic feelings for her?
- Commented on What is a nice way to say no to a guy when he asks you out?
- Commented on My fiance likes to "talk" during sex. Not dirty talk necessarily. I'm more quiet I guess but would like to be more vocal. I'm just so focused on making him feel good & what he's doing to make me feel good to come up with "talk." What do I do?
- Commented on Ok, so I saw this movie "He's not that into you" and it really opened my eyes about a lot of stuff, but now I want to know how do you guys act if you are really into a girl? How can we know?
- Commented on Do guys ever think about the girls they've wronged? For instance: I was dating a guy for a couple of months, everything was great. It's been 3 weeks and bam, no communication, plans, texts, calls, zip. Do guys ever think of THAT?
- Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?
- Commented on I went out with a guy recently and it ended with us hooking up. We really hit it off and I texted him so we could hang out again. He said he would really like that, but I still haven't heard from him. What does this mean??
- Commented on I'm a size 6/8 but I have a little tummy and I'm self-conscious. I'm thinking about not making out with a guy until I lose it, which could be a while. How preoccupied are men with washboard abs?
- Commented on GuySpeak Review: <i>Men of a Certain Age</i> Tries To Explain What Makes Guys Tick
- Commented on How often do guy's think about sex, when they are 15?
- Commented on He blocked my number. Is there a chance to get back together?
- Commented on Do guys get embarrassed if their girlfriends call them by "pet names" in front of their buddies?
- Commented on Why Are We Surprised When Celebrities Cheat?
- Commented on Recently, my sex drive has been super low. I hardly ever feel like having sex, but I do anyway because when I say I don't want to my boyfriend seems really hurt. I love him to death...how can we get past this?
- Commented on I keep pointing out the flaws in my body, but my boyfriend keeps telling me he's hot for me anyway. I really want to believe him. Is it true?
- Commented on My boyfriend told me he had a dream he was having sex with a classmate of his. I asked him about it, even though I really didn't want to know. Then he told me! Why would he do that? Should I be worried about this girl?
- Commented on How do I know that my husband of 11 years (together 15 years) still thinks that I'm hot and beautiful? I feel like he's just going through the motions and only says nice things because he feels obligated.
- Commented on How often do guy's think about sex, when they are 15?
- Commented on How often do guy's think about sex, when they are 15?
- Commented on I was seeing this guy and told him that I felt like he wasn't calling or texting me enough, considering we live two hours away from each other. Did I push him away?
- Commented on What is the first thing guys look for in women?
- Commented on He blocked my number. Is there a chance to get back together?
- Commented on How often do guy's think about sex, when they are 15?
- Commented on I'm a size 6/8 but I have a little tummy and I'm self-conscious. I'm thinking about not making out with a guy until I lose it, which could be a while. How preoccupied are men with washboard abs?
- Commented on What is the first thing guys look for in women?
- Commented on What does it mean when a guy tells you he'll be your hero?
- Commented on 11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack
- Commented on My bf & I have been together 5 yrs, lived together 4. I have a promise ring as a promise to marry someday. We are both 37. But his best friend told me when they went out the other nite, my bf was partying & dancing with college girls. What do I do?
- Commented on I'm a size 6/8 but I have a little tummy and I'm self-conscious. I'm thinking about not making out with a guy until I lose it, which could be a while. How preoccupied are men with washboard abs?
- Commented on Dear John, I am getting married soon and I am virgin and never been more than... half naked with a guy. How can I be sexy for husband on our wedding night?
- Commented on Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him.
- Commented on Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him.
- Commented on Went out Tue with a great guy, went well, ended with sex. He said to text or call him and we would hang out again. I sent a text that night and said thank you for a good time and let me know when you want to hang out again. Haven't heard from him.
- Commented on Do guys actually get paranoid about being a virgin's "first"?
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- Commented on What does it mean when he says he wants to marry me one day and live with me someday?
- Commented on Do men care about christmas decorations?
- Commented on If a guy friend tells you about another girl is he just trying to make you jealous?
- Commented on Is sex all men really want? That's what a couple of guys told me...
- Commented on Man Marries Video Game Character, Action Figures Likely Next
- Commented on Man Marries Video Game Character, Action Figures Likely Next
- Commented on I've been dating this guy for about 2 weeks now and he calls me babe, hun, sweetie... Don't get me wrong, I love that! But does using pet names mean he's really into me, or just likes using them?
- Commented on How do you deal with a boner in public?
- Commented on After a "booty call" are you supposed to kiss them?
- Commented on I gained 40 lbs from having my 2nd son. I want to do kickboxing classes but my husband says i shouldn't. What is he really saying? Keep in mind i used to weigh 130 lbs.
- Commented on What's your favorite funny movie to watch with a girl, or better yet, introduce a girl to?
- Commented on My boyfriend has a dog but I am seriously allergic. He's going to have to choose one of us if we are going to take this to the next level.... how do I convince him to choose me?
- Commented on I'm a pretty smart girl. Should I dumb it down for guys? I've also got big boobs. I realize that's not a question, just a statement of fact.
- Commented on Dear MichaeI Swaim, I will keep this short and sweet. I am 17 and have no social grace whatsoever. I would like to know how to tell if a girl likes you or not. I feel like I am offten fooled by their feminine wiles. Love, Walter Melon
- Commented on So, there's a girl I have a thing for. And being that it's a crush, I lose my ability to be interesting, funny, or intelligent in anyway possible. Is there a way to be awkward and funny without being like Michael Cera? 'Cause seriously, I hate that guy.
- Commented on I keep pointing out the flaws in my body, but my boyfriend keeps telling me he's hot for me anyway. I really want to believe him. Is it true?
- Commented on My boyfriend has this huge dog and he lets him sleep on the bed with us. He gets between us and snuffles my face. I pretend I like it, but I don't. Should I say something or do I have to sleep with a dog the rest of my life?
- Commented on <strike>Will men always think</strike> farting is funny<strike>?</strike>!
- Commented on My very funny boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. He hasn't dropped the L-bomb yet, which he also hasn't done in any relationship. I feel confident in saying that I love him, but he doesn't return the sentiment. How can we move past this?
- Commented on I want to apologize to an ex I left during at her lowest. Problem is, it's been 8 years, and we haven't talked since. Should I just leave this in the past, or try and "clear the air" so to speak?
- Commented on Swaim, I'm currently between boyfriends and trying to get a career off the ground. This makes dating hard. Should I just forget the whole "relationships" thing and become an ambition machine, or can I do both?
- Commented on Can a woman ever be forgiven for cheating, or is the relationship doomed from then on?
- Commented on What's with the sudden mainstream obsession with (Hetero) anal? Seemed like a kinky fetish before, and is now touted as a common couple indulgence. Half the girls I know have 'gone there' (even while hating it) to please their men. What gives?
- Commented on A guy I really want to go out with makes fun of me, calls me fat and says my hair looks funny. Everyone says he likes me; why is he so mean to me?
- Commented on Do men like clingy girls?
- Commented on Do guys get turned off when a girl cracks dirty jokes?
- Commented on Do all men masturbate?
- Commented on Do all men masturbate?
- Commented on I asked my boyfriend of 2 months why he doesnt like hanging out over at my house (I live with my parents), and he said he's "in his element" at his house and doesn't like being out of it! What?! Help!
- Commented on Is sex all men really want? That's what a couple of guys told me...
- Commented on Is Sharing Caring?
- Commented on I gained 40 lbs from having my 2nd son. I want to do kickboxing classes but my husband says i shouldn't. What is he really saying? Keep in mind i used to weigh 130 lbs.
- Commented on Believe What You See From Your Guy
- Commented on Do men really like women to approach them? And if so, how? Direct or indirect? Subtly compliment him to get his attention or just tell him straight up how foine he is?
- Commented on If a guy say's that he is not looking to be in a relationship and then start's dating another girl.....what does that mean?
- Commented on I have been "going out" with this guy for just over a year and yet we are still not a labeled realtionship, we are still friends. What is the deal with that?
- Commented on Which "Star Wars" movie is the best? Some guys at a party were debating (for three hours!!), and I only know that Jamaican alien is offensive, or annoying atbest. But I want to seem more in the know. I'll netflix one of them.
- Commented on I hate, hate, hate receiving oral. It doesn't do a thing for me, but it seems men love to give it. I love to give oral, however. Should I just pretend I'm enjoying it and deal, or tell him his mouth is not allowed near my southern region?
- Commented on Is it possible for a friends with benefits to become more?
- Commented on My boyfriend of one year and I are graduating college in May. I want us to move in together...how do I bring this topic up without freaking him out?
- Commented on I started talking to this guy I met online, and I liked him at first. We recently talked on the phone, and the chemistry was just not there. Now he's wanting to meet. Should I tell him that I'm just not into him, or just slowly stop talking?
- Commented on My Cell Phone Is Free Of Nakedness
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- Commented on Men Don't Have Style, And We Like It That Way
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- Commented on My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but I absolutely HATE it. We've tried it before and he knows I don't like it, but he still tries anyway and gets mad when I refuse. Is this weird? How do I make him stop trying?
- Commented on Is it right for the girl to make the moves? I kissed him first, and even though I wanted to wait, I didn't. Now I'm thinking that one kiss (that lead to others) ruined things.
- Commented on My boyfriend and I are in college; I found out recently that his parents pay for ALL of his expenses. I pay for my own expenses. I enjoy spending time with him, but I don't like the idea that his parents pay for our dates. What should I do?
- Commented on I'm kind of geeky, but i have this crush on a popular guy in school. He talks to me a lot, but i don't know if he likes me. (I know, I know, not another teen movie!) How do know?
- Commented on Are guys turned off when their girlfriend is more educated than them?
- Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?
- Commented on Which "Star Wars" movie is the best? Some guys at a party were debating (for three hours!!), and I only know that Jamaican alien is offensive, or annoying atbest. But I want to seem more in the know. I'll netflix one of them.
- Commented on Do men really like women to approach them? And if so, how? Direct or indirect? Subtly compliment him to get his attention or just tell him straight up how foine he is?
- Commented on Is it possible for a friends with benefits to become more?
- Commented on My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but I absolutely HATE it. We've tried it before and he knows I don't like it, but he still tries anyway and gets mad when I refuse. Is this weird? How do I make him stop trying?
- Commented on My boyfriend keeps commenting on my weight. I know I've put on about 7 pounds I really want to lose, but his comments aren't motivating--they just upset me. How do I get this across to him?
- Commented on How important are big boobs? Is it true that all you need is a handful? Would you rather have a hot girl with small real ones or big fake ones?
- Commented on So this girl [friend of a friend] emailed me and wants to "get some coffee and catch up." Thing is, I don't really know her. She's seen my rock band once years ago, and I've helped her with college grants [my job], but that's it. Feels awkward.
- Commented on I hate, hate, hate receiving oral. It doesn't do a thing for me, but it seems men love to give it. I love to give oral, however. Should I just pretend I'm enjoying it and deal, or tell him his mouth is not allowed near my southern region?
- Commented on What if a guy stares at you, looks away, and then looks back and smiles?
- Commented on A guy at a bar asked for my number and gave me his. It's been a week and he hasn't called yet... do you think he is waiting for me to call him?
- Commented on Is it possible for a friends with benefits to become more?
- Commented on I've noticed that I'm often only hit on by men of color (i.e. Black/Latino men). I'm Asian, on the chubby side, big rack, flat ass though (sadly :-(). Why do you think that is? White or Asian guys rarely do the same.
- Commented on Is a girl who is cute but likes comic books, football, and Will Ferrell always destined to be stuck in the friend zone?
- Commented on Is a girl who is cute but likes comic books, football, and Will Ferrell always destined to be stuck in the friend zone?
- Commented on Is a girl who is cute but likes comic books, football, and Will Ferrell always destined to be stuck in the friend zone?
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- Commented on Do Men Prefer Boobs or Booty?
- Commented on I'm almost 22 and I have never had a boyfriend. I'm a tomboy and I always find myself in the friend zone with guys. What can i do to change that?
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- Commented on My stepsister, a college freshman, met a guy and they studied together once, but she's not interested. Now he won't leave her alone -- calls, shows up at her house, sends angry texts. She asked him to back off, but he hasn't. What should she do?
- Commented on Do guys really prefer it all shaven off down there? What is too much/too little?
- Commented on You blogged about "11 Things That Will Turn A Guy Off In The Sack." How about the flip side? What are some surefire turn-ons?
- Commented on I absolutely HATE giving blowjobs. I feel like they are so humiliating and I am completely self-conscious when I try to do it. Is this a total deal breaker for a guy?
- Commented on How come when a guy sleeps around he's a stud, but when a girl sleeps around she's a slut? I don't see a anything wrong with a woman sleeping around. What do you think?
- Commented on What's the worst pick-up line you've used on a girl... and did it work?
- Commented on DO I HAVE TO GO DOWN ON HER IF SHE GOES DOWN ON ME?
- Commented on Can an average looking girl be successful in the dating world?
- Commented on So many men do not like to have sex while a woman has her period. This is a mistake for many reasons in my opinion. I can multi orgasm very easily by grinding on my guys leg and it works well during "that" time of the month. Is this a strange alternative
- Commented on do you like girls with tattoos?
- Commented on My best friend occasionally lets her male friends share her bed after a night out w/ their friends (just bc it's late, people are drunk, etc) & insists things are innocent. I disagree. She's hot and I think guys secretly enjoy it.
- Commented on How can I tell my boyfriend (nicely) that sometimes, I just wish he would be more of the MAN in our relationship and take the lead. I'm in charge a lot at work and I'd like to follow his lead once in a while, if he would just do some leading...
- Commented on Who should be responsible for supplying the condoms? The guy or the girl?
- Commented on Do you think guys really notice the difference between girls with or without their makeup? We ladies can always tell but does it really matter to guys?
- Commented on over the weekend I accidentally found out my guy is using testim gel (he left the empty tube in my bathroom) now he hasn't said anything to me, should I ask him about it or wait for him to tell me?
- Commented on If a guy talks to you all the time and then just stops does that mean he doesn't like you no more?
- Commented on I came home last night to find my boyfriend in bed with another hot dude. I did get angry and storm out to stay with a close friend. What should I do today and say to my boyfriend? I love him so but want to make him happy.
- Commented on Can I get my guy to stop looking at other women?
- Commented on Why does he not help around the house? He comes in from work and lays around. And always tired.
- Commented on We girls invest so much time and money on cute bras and panties. Do men really notice?
- Commented on My boyfriend told me just this past week that sex just isn't that important anymore. Is it because I'm boring or is it because he doesn't love me anymore?
- Commented on My boyfriend says he wants to let me decide when we kiss, what does this mean?
- Commented on Dude, if a guy has sex with a lot of women... should i go out with him?
- Commented on How can I pick up women?
- Commented on I asked my husband if he thinks about other hotter women when we have sex.....he said no....is he lying?
- Commented on What does it mean when my boyfriend, who is 19, no children or financial responsibilities, in fact no responsibilities except school says," i am stressed". He says this at least once a week...
- Commented on I want a baby badly with my boyfriend but he insists we should get married first. I cannot wait. Should I wait longer or find someone else who can give me what I want?
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ohmic12 commented on
My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
Wow slow it down there Laje Kahr i will be the first one to admit that some mainstream porn that sets a unrealistic example of what sex should be like (ie very well hung guys and women fake moaning) but theres a difference between fantasy and reality and if a person cant make out these differences then they shouldnt be looking at porn at the first place And for the record I dont find anything wrong with true amature porn ie (real couples) having sex as it is realistic as it gets and being 28 thats the most type of...
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Laje Kahr commented on
My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
Yes, there is some porn out there that is realistic. I will grant you that, but that is NOT the majority of porn out there. The vast majority is totally unrealistic. The porn stars themselves even admit this. Shoot, there are whole news articles dedicated to how the porn producers photoshop every image to "perfection". The videos have whole teams just to polish the production. When was the last time you met a girl that engaged in lesbian sex for the pleasure of a man? When was the last time someone you know had a threesome? Or any of these...
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Laje Kahr commented on
My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
Counseling and a lawyer. NOW, please. There is something definitely going wrong there. He sounds a bit like he might have already checked out of the relationship, but this doesn't mean it can't be salvaged. I wish I could give more, but from what you've given here it's hard to make a judgement call one way or the other, so please, please seek help. And, men don't really majorly change when they get married. At most, he realizes that he's committed to the relationship and maybe struggles with what that means, but a major change indicates he is or was...
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drizzt1750 commented on
Is it possible for a friends with benefits to become more?
an update here... if anyone is paying attention... LOL my "FWB" relationship is now a full blown relationship... we are no longer just "friends"... he's now my boyfriend... so it IS possible for FWB to turn into something more......
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Suzette commented on
A guy at a bar asked for my number and gave me his. It's been a week and he hasn't called yet... do you think he is waiting for me to call him?
This is so annoying because this very thing is after happening to me! I knew he'd never call. He asked for my number but I told him no and said he'd never call me. That in the morning he won't remember what I look like or my name and he said he would call, he wore me down so I caved and gave him my number and took his!! We were even texting later on and arranged a date but I haven't heard from him since! Drunk guys are dicey at the best of times.......
