Mystery Man

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• Posted This Was Going To Be About Valentines Day to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Occasionally, in your answers, you mention little tricks that get your readers to pay better attention to what you're saying, such as a dialect switch or, most recently, calling someone an idiot. Could you show us some more of these tricks and/or how it ”
• Commented on I'm a relatively militant agnostic. I met a guy, and our chemistry is greater than anything I've ever had before. However, there is a sticking point in that he is a devout, practicing Catholic, which leads us to butt heads on a few issues. Is it possible
• Commented on V Day, Porn Pay and Butt Play. Must be best of the week!
• Answered the question “I'm a relatively militant agnostic. I met a guy, and our chemistry is greater than anything I've ever had before. However, there is a sticking point in that he is a devout, practicing Catholic, which leads us to butt heads on a few issues. Is it possible ”
• Commented on MM, please help! I've stopped being happy in my 3 yr relationship and think it's time to end things, but we moved to college together out of state and I only know him. I don't want to be all alone. I still love him, but I spend more time upset than happy.
• Posted V Day, Porn Pay and Butt Play. Must be best of the week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “MM, please help! I've stopped being happy in my 3 yr relationship and think it's time to end things, but we moved to college together out of state and I only know him. I don't want to be all alone. I still love him, but I spend more time upset than happy.”
• Answered the question “MM - I'm about to enter a profession in which networking is extremely important, but I'm terrified of situations where I have to interact with multiple people I don't know for extended periods of time. Any advice?”
• Commented on I'm 34 and I avoid dating/relationships at all costs because to me, relationships equate to daily judgement. I don't want to be rejected when he finds out I have a stretch mark. I don't want to be cast aside because of some new-found intellectual deficit.
• Commented on I'm 34 and I avoid dating/relationships at all costs because to me, relationships equate to daily judgement. I don't want to be rejected when he finds out I have a stretch mark. I don't want to be cast aside because of some new-found intellectual deficit.
• Commented on I'm 34 and I avoid dating/relationships at all costs because to me, relationships equate to daily judgement. I don't want to be rejected when he finds out I have a stretch mark. I don't want to be cast aside because of some new-found intellectual deficit.
• Commented on I'm 34 and I avoid dating/relationships at all costs because to me, relationships equate to daily judgement. I don't want to be rejected when he finds out I have a stretch mark. I don't want to be cast aside because of some new-found intellectual deficit.
• Commented on I'm 34 and I avoid dating/relationships at all costs because to me, relationships equate to daily judgement. I don't want to be rejected when he finds out I have a stretch mark. I don't want to be cast aside because of some new-found intellectual deficit.
• Commented on I'm 34 and I avoid dating/relationships at all costs because to me, relationships equate to daily judgement. I don't want to be rejected when he finds out I have a stretch mark. I don't want to be cast aside because of some new-found intellectual deficit.
• Commented on I'm 34 and I avoid dating/relationships at all costs because to me, relationships equate to daily judgement. I don't want to be rejected when he finds out I have a stretch mark. I don't want to be cast aside because of some new-found intellectual deficit.
• Answered the question “I'm 34 and I avoid dating/relationships at all costs because to me, relationships equate to daily judgement. I don't want to be rejected when he finds out I have a stretch mark. I don't want to be cast aside because of some new-found intellectual deficit.”
• Answered the question “Any Valentine's Day ideas for the high school seniors who aren't having sex yet? All of the articles and blogs I've read mention sex as the main event of the 14th, but we're not there yet. How can I make it special without taking my clothes off?”
• Answered the question “are men put off by tall women and find them hard to approach or comfronting? Im 6ft and i dont have many boys come and talk to me. i dont think its because im ugly or whatever. but is it because im tall?”
• Commented on Here's the deal MM,I want to be a doctor.However,my anatomy midterm came back 72%.I know I can do better than that.(Note:I'm 16)I think half of the problem is I'm taking care of a family of 5, and juggling housework and homework is difficult.(Messenger 1/
• Posted “Beer Coat” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Here's the deal MM,I want to be a doctor.However,my anatomy midterm came back 72%.I know I can do better than that.(Note:I'm 16)I think half of the problem is I'm taking care of a family of 5, and juggling housework and homework is difficult.(Messenger 1/”
• Posted 10 Signs You Are Drunk to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I am 44 and a widow, I have finally started to date again and find it rather difficult. Either the guys are too young too old or are my age and looking for someone younger. I am a pretty cool lady and not really into games, have any advice for me.”
• Commented on whats a good valentines gift for your boyfriend?
• Answered the question “whats a good valentines gift for your boyfriend?”
• Commented on MM There is no one I would rather ask this to. Hubby is an out of work, halo playing, fat slob. Goes bananas at the idea of me cheating but fails to keep me happy emotionally and sexually. Talked to him (over and over and f*cking over). Now he's in a tizz
• Answered the question “Do you like red lipstick at last? what about a burgundy one? or plum?”
• Commented on Nearly 16 year old human being, who loves to write, and find myself exceptionally good at it. I feel like I can do great things, but I am discouraged at the thought of waiting 4-6 more years of my life to be taken seriously as a profession. Any advice on
• Commented on Mystery Man, you wanted some silly questions so... how do guys feel about being undressed in front of girls? This jock heard me talking about him so he came up to me all smiley and half dressed. Was he even aware of his nakedness?
• Commented on MM There is no one I would rather ask this to. Hubby is an out of work, halo playing, fat slob. Goes bananas at the idea of me cheating but fails to keep me happy emotionally and sexually. Talked to him (over and over and f*cking over). Now he's in a tizz
• Answered the question “Nearly 16 year old human being, who loves to write, and find myself exceptionally good at it. I feel like I can do great things, but I am discouraged at the thought of waiting 4-6 more years of my life to be taken seriously as a profession. Any advice on ”
• Answered the question “I can't stop thinking about my ex. I keep hoping that there is chance of getting back together. I know that he doesn't like me as he used to, but he occasionally texts me. We hang out -make out- and then he gets distantI'm confused. What does he want?”
• Answered the question “MM There is no one I would rather ask this to. Hubby is an out of work, halo playing, fat slob. Goes bananas at the idea of me cheating but fails to keep me happy emotionally and sexually. Talked to him (over and over and f*cking over). Now he's in a tizz”
• Answered the question “Mystery Man, you wanted some silly questions so... how do guys feel about being undressed in front of girls? This jock heard me talking about him so he came up to me all smiley and half dressed. Was he even aware of his nakedness?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend had a dream that he had sex with my best friend since Pre-K. Does this mean anything?! Why would he dream that!? Should I be worried about the relationship between my boyfriend and my best friend?!”
• Answered the question “You asked for a silly one so here it comes! Does spending extended times in Walmart justify vehicular manslaughter via shopping cart? Yes or no, and why?~Nano”
• Commented on What You Can Learn From The Dead
• Commented on When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off
• Commented on When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off
• Commented on When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off
• Commented on It seems like this country isn't even "Free" anymore. With all the rules and regulations more and more each year, I feel like I am just being controlled. When did America lose it's way and forget what we are all about?
• Commented on When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off
• Answered the question “It seems like this country isn't even "Free" anymore. With all the rules and regulations more and more each year, I feel like I am just being controlled. When did America lose it's way and forget what we are all about?”
• Answered the question “When one bad thing happens, either in reality or just perceived by me, I can't recover from it. My mind twists everything around until I'm lying there, convinced that I'm stupid, worthless, ugly, deserve to die; convinced that everyone would be better off”
• Commented on this guy keeps sleeping with me though i am married, he is single lots of money and could easily have a girlfriend. Why does he choose to continue to see me. It's been this way for a year now.
• Answered the question “I'm 35 he is 26, are connection is amazing.He is very mature for his age. We have been seeing each other off and on for 6 mths. I chose to break it off two times because he wasn't ready for anything long term, but we keep coming back to each other. He sai”
• Posted Household Happiness to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Fool” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on this guy keeps sleeping with me though i am married, he is single lots of money and could easily have a girlfriend. Why does he choose to continue to see me. It's been this way for a year now.
• Answered the question “this guy keeps sleeping with me though i am married, he is single lots of money and could easily have a girlfriend. Why does he choose to continue to see me. It's been this way for a year now.”
• Answered the question “My husband is very jealous. Jealous so much he always accuses me of looking at other guys. Why is this?”
• Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
• Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
• Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
• Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
• Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
• Commented on On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i
• Answered the question “On New Years Eve, I planned to end my life. Something prevented that (poor timing), but in the hours before, I felt peaceful about it. Am I bad person to have been so willing to accept my ends? I know from a theological standpoint suicide is bad. But is i”
• Answered the question “while having sex he said to me this is my pussy and dont be giving it to nobody else”
• Answered the question “How can I stop being passive aggressive? One of my problems is I find it hard to put why I'm upset into words, so I find it hard to talk about with the other person (mainly concerned about some issues I've been having with my bf). I'm also just a non-conf”
• Commented on My guy is from a war-torn country and spent some time in the military, so violence doesn't faze him. It frightens me, though. Do you think it turns him off that I don't have the same life experiences he does?
• Answered the question “My guy is from a war-torn country and spent some time in the military, so violence doesn't faze him. It frightens me, though. Do you think it turns him off that I don't have the same life experiences he does?”
• Posted Beauty And The Beasts to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I'm dating an old man for money
• Answered the question “I'm dating an old man for money”
• Answered the question “Hey, MM! I have a very nice and sweet friend who's kind of ignorant (it comes from a lack of exposure to people of color, not hate). I always try to educate him and we talk about race relations. He appreciated the educations since moving to NYC from his s”
• Posted “Kissmet” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My bf is a trainer at a gym and is constantly working inconvenient & long hours. He always tells me he needs the hours but I just want some us time once in a while :| How can I get him to spend quality time with me without sounding like a nag?”
• Answered the question “I feel like men are scared of me. Not to brag, but I'm extremely intelligent, I have a wonderful job, and I'm a pretty girl. What do I need to do to boost their confidence when asking me out? Should I tone myself down? I feel like they are scared I'll tur”
• Answered the question “Dear MM...I'm pregnant and I got booted out on the street by my @$$ of a (now former) bf that was becoming abusive. During that time, I remembered your advice from many Q&A's here. You were an influential voice. Baby & I are safe with family and things ar”
• Answered the question “In med school, female. Fwb situation w/classmate, 3 mos. He lost interest out of blue. Hurts. Still in like, but don't wnt any1 that doesn't wnt me. Uncomfy @school daily. How should I act around him? Usually confident, but this broke me. Following guys”
• Answered the question “I need some help.I'm very confident in myself & my body(I'm a plus-size gal), the ONLY exception is when I'm on top during sex.I have a mental freak out about it & can't have an orgasm/stay wet enough to continue.This has been an issue w/ every guy I've b”
• Answered the question “my fiancee told me to shut the f up after he was rude to the waiter. he then told me he doesn't give 2 sts about me. The vacation was over, and so is the engagement . did i overreact?”
• Answered the question “im 18 in love with a 36 year old man is that bad and wrong but i love him to death n i give him money but he dont give me nothing should i leave him along”
• Posted “Boy” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted Replay: Some Things Can't Be Fixed to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What do I do if my boyfriend simply cannot be seduced? He says that he's a realist, so its not possible for him.”
• Answered the question “How do I get over an irrational hatred of women?”
• Answered the question “Hi MM - Please tell me what to do. I'm at a total loss !I'm currently seeing this guy who claimed to like me too but is not able to commit to any relationship. He showed signs of affection, we had sex but he didn't wanna commit due to his studies family”
• Answered the question “I was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder. My boyfriend loves my highs and always has; he says it's hot when I'm hyper, but when I'm like that I feel like I'm spinning out of control. Should I be worried that he finds my mental illness "hot" or is he”
• Answered the question “Okay, we've all agreed that porn is here to stay and men (and women) are gonna watch it and so on, right? But what about "interactive" porn? You know, the 'live sex shows' in which the viewer can type in a little chat box. To me, if something is actually ”
• Answered the question “You usually answer the odd/complicated questions, so here's my issue. My school's in Cali and am TERRIFIED of earthquakes. It interferes with my daily life and keeps me up at night freaking out. I'm okay when I leave, so I know that if I moved somewhere e”
• Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
• Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
• Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
• Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
• Commented on What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex
• Answered the question “What resources do you know of for those struggling with severe depression? I need this to stop. Something has gotta give here. I can't just roll over and let this destroy me. But I have no means of getting treatment, and even when I'm working, with the ex”
• Commented on New Years Revolutions
• Commented on New Years Revolutions
• Answered the question “My girl is starting to need to shave her chin. Should I stay or run?”
• Posted “Duckface” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted New Years Revolutions to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “So I have two girlfriends that don't know of each other. Don't ask why cause it just seemed to happen that way and is not the problem. The problem is that I don't really want to be with either of them and i also don't want my ride or other aspects of my l”
• Commented on At what age is it healthy for a dude to start watching porn? My fourteen year old brother stays at my dad's every other weekend, just the two guys by themselves. I know for a fact there is plenty available to him. Should I be worried? Or is this a case of
• Answered the question “Do you mind if you get with a girl who isn't as good in bed as others girls?”
• Answered the question “At what age is it healthy for a dude to start watching porn? My fourteen year old brother stays at my dad's every other weekend, just the two guys by themselves. I know for a fact there is plenty available to him. Should I be worried? Or is this a case of”
• Commented on Dear Funniest of Funny Guys, I was sexually abused when I was younger. My bf knows and insists I tell my family. The biggest problem: my bro was the one who did it. I rly dont want to tell n think it could tear my family apart. He says that I need their s
• Answered the question “Is New Years Eve a family holiday? My family never does much (my dad is a cop, he has to get up at 4am), usually we don't even stay up. But would it be appropriate to ask my college bf to visit or if I could visit him? He'd have trouble saying no, but I k”
• Commented on I'm a self-assured person, and am confident in myself, however, there's 3 total different selves who have their own thoughts and their own preferences. Be true to myself sometimes means different things, and there are some conflicts when I thought of the
• Answered the question “I'm a self-assured person, and am confident in myself, however, there's 3 total different selves who have their own thoughts and their own preferences. Be true to myself sometimes means different things, and there are some conflicts when I thought of the ”
• Answered the question “Cliche problem, but: Dated this guy exclusively, then he decided we should just hook up; we tried but I wasn't happy with it. He likes me but doesn't want to be exclusive. I still like him but I think I want something more exclusive. Can we solve this or ”
• Answered the question “I've had a recurring yeast infection for a couple of years now and I haven't seriously dated anyone since. I am currently working on getting rid of it for good. Now there is this guy I am interested in, but I feel like this is getting in the way of my lov”
• Answered the question “What is your opinion of dating a girl with a baby?”
• Posted Who You Are Is Who You Are to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Hi. I'm sorry but can you please explain to me why you guys only answer one question a day (and that's not even everyone, some of you take a few days). Does it really take a lot of time to answer one question. I'm not trying to be rude, I would just like
• Answered the question “Mm - gah! I am having real trouble figuring out how much time and energy I "owe" my bf. I am a single mother to 2 strong-willed teens, with no close relatives, I work f-time and finishing my BA. Honestly, I think I only have the physical/mental resources ”
• Commented on I cut my boyfriend off from all the little niceties. I refuse to buy him food when I buy for myself, and I no longer let him use my netflix (amongst other things). This came about because of the way he has acted the last month. Was it right for me to cut
• Commented on I cut my boyfriend off from all the little niceties. I refuse to buy him food when I buy for myself, and I no longer let him use my netflix (amongst other things). This came about because of the way he has acted the last month. Was it right for me to cut
• Answered the question “Hi. I'm sorry but can you please explain to me why you guys only answer one question a day (and that's not even everyone, some of you take a few days). Does it really take a lot of time to answer one question. I'm not trying to be rude, I would just like ”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend flirts with my mom And when she gets up to walk his eyes follow her! My mom is an attractive woman and likes to act like shes 21 which is my boyfriends age. My boyfriend is a good guy but I can't let this mom thing go! Help :(”
• Commented on I just found out I have HPV. I got vaccinated and have tried to have safe sex with the exception of when I was raped a few years ago. But I still have it so for Xmas I get to tell my totally awesome boyfriend he's probably positive too and then find out l
• Commented on I just found out I have HPV. I got vaccinated and have tried to have safe sex with the exception of when I was raped a few years ago. But I still have it so for Xmas I get to tell my totally awesome boyfriend he's probably positive too and then find out l
• Posted “roid rider” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on I just found out I have HPV. I got vaccinated and have tried to have safe sex with the exception of when I was raped a few years ago. But I still have it so for Xmas I get to tell my totally awesome boyfriend he's probably positive too and then find out l
• Answered the question “I just found out I have HPV. I got vaccinated and have tried to have safe sex with the exception of when I was raped a few years ago. But I still have it so for Xmas I get to tell my totally awesome boyfriend he's probably positive too and then find out l”
• Commented on The Cosmo Orgasm Quiz: They're Doing It Wrong
• Commented on What is up with this new "Timeline" Facebook thing? It is so confusing and makes stalking exes (in a normal, non-creepy way) that much harder!
• Answered the question “Pls hlp!!! I'm sobbing bc I'm so exhausted from being a kind, loving person and don't want to lose those traits & spark I've held on for so long but think maybe it's better to be hardened to avoid being taken advantage of by guys. I'm a good person so why”
• Commented on MM what's your take on polyamory? Or dating someone and instead of breaking up when hitting a rough patch, experimenting on the side to see if the relationship is worth it?
• Commented on help MM. I've been depressed to the point of thinking of suicide lately.. I'm scared and embarassed to tell anyone. I don't want to admit i can't handle things, and I'm scared they'll take my kids away from me if they think I can't handle it and I'm a ris
• Commented on I have the most perfect boyfriend but my anger is taking a toll on the relationship. My anger mostly stems from my past abusive relationship.I have a geat guy but I struggle so much. I'm scared. Help please.
• Commented on MM, you only answer when the gal is asking something about you or is buttering your ***, and those silly question about your marriage, I have written to you many weeks ago and reminded you too, funny you never reach to those questions who are not there to
• Commented on MM, you only answer when the gal is asking something about you or is buttering your ***, and those silly question about your marriage, I have written to you many weeks ago and reminded you too, funny you never reach to those questions who are not there to
• Answered the question “MM, you only answer when the gal is asking something about you or is buttering your ***, and those silly question about your marriage, I have written to you many weeks ago and reminded you too, funny you never reach to those questions who are not there to”
• Answered the question “I have the most perfect boyfriend but my anger is taking a toll on the relationship. My anger mostly stems from my past abusive relationship.I have a geat guy but I struggle so much. I'm scared. Help please.”
• Answered the question “MM what's your take on polyamory? Or dating someone and instead of breaking up when hitting a rough patch, experimenting on the side to see if the relationship is worth it?”
• Answered the question “Have a friend for 1.5 yrs who pumped and dumped me, insists there is no blame for anyone in the situation and insists on communication on his terms, Ie. waiting for me to stop being angry at him so he doesn't have to deal w the prob face 2 face. Should I ”
• Posted Favorite Questions Of The Year (And Why) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on My husband is checking out porn sites. I've caught him a few times and asked him to stop doing it because I find it disrespectful and wrong. I actually feel like my self-esteem is going down after opening a laptop and seeing he checked out porn sites. He
• Answered the question “My husband is checking out porn sites. I've caught him a few times and asked him to stop doing it because I find it disrespectful and wrong. I actually feel like my self-esteem is going down after opening a laptop and seeing he checked out porn sites. He ”
• Answered the question “how involved would you like to be with our wedding?”
• Answered the question “MM, I keeping meeting guys that are really nice, intelligent, and physically attractive, but I don't find myself sexually attracted to them. Some guys that I am sexually attracted to aren't as physically attractive as the guys whose personalities I like. ”
• Answered the question “I have a really big penis (11" and really thick), and it hurts when I try to have sex with people (men & women) will i be a virgin forever?P.S. It's hurts them not me”
• Answered the question “Since you apparently have a wife (lucky her!), idk if you remember the awkward, self esteem downer realization that you're the only one who's single at a party (esp. when your crush is there w. his gf, but that's another story). How do you handle this wit”
• Posted “Glitterate” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What is the best sex position”
• Commented on MM, I need your insight, if you wouldn't mind giving it. My best friends have always been like surrogate parents to me, so it burns to see them hurting because they can't have a child of their own blood. I'd do anything to ease that pain, I love them so v
• Answered the question “MM, I need your insight, if you wouldn't mind giving it. My best friends have always been like surrogate parents to me, so it burns to see them hurting because they can't have a child of their own blood. I'd do anything to ease that pain, I love them so v”
• Commented on I cut myself and my bf says i should stop he says he loves me to much to see that and it kills him when he sees the knife marks on my arm. Idk i have a difficult family idk what to do.
• Answered the question “Hey MM, you seem attune to this stuff I've been w girls in the past. I am bi but I hate limiting myself to such a label bc I feel sexuality is much more fluid than that. Do I tell my 'rents? Do I have an obligation to the gay community, my siblings and my”
• Posted Confidence. What The Heck Is That? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What is the best Christmas gift you've ever recieved from a girlfriend/wife or what would you like to get from them?”
• Answered the question “How do you prefer a girl's hair?”
• Commented on 15 Christmas Songs To Use Against Your Coworkers
• Commented on I was the girl who had to call her friends mom because her depression was keeping her dorm bound. Well I just spent all night with her in the hospital because she tried to commit suicide. I'm tired of being the bad guy to her depression, she was furious w
• Answered the question “I was the girl who had to call her friends mom because her depression was keeping her dorm bound. Well I just spent all night with her in the hospital because she tried to commit suicide. I'm tired of being the bad guy to her depression, she was furious w”
• Answered the question “i am not touchy feely. It is not that i dont want to be, because i do. i just dont really know how to be. I see other people and it looks so normal and easy, but for me it is and has always been awkward. Is there a way i can fix this about myself? Because”
• Commented on What Does It Mean, Part 937
• Commented on MM! My bf said he "already spent enough on me" and not to really expect anything for Christmas. I think that's rude. I don't care about gifts, just the fact that he puts a limit on our relationship. I already got him his presents without a second thought
• Answered the question “MM! My bf said he "already spent enough on me" and not to really expect anything for Christmas. I think that's rude. I don't care about gifts, just the fact that he puts a limit on our relationship. I already got him his presents without a second thought ”
• Answered the question “Hi MM:My question concerns a new/unwelcome identity: TW. I'm 29, college educated, financially independent and have a heart of gold - I'm a social worker. I've had 3 serious relationships and 2 interests who have gone on to marry the woman post-me. Not ”
• Answered the question “I cut myself and my bf says i should stop he says he loves me to much to see that and it kills him when he sees the knife marks on my arm. Idk i have a difficult family idk what to do.”
• Commented on So much good music was nominated for Grammies this year! Wilco, Bon Iver, Fleet Foxes, The Decemberists, Mumford and Sons... but I had a frivolous question. Do you think Bon Iver or Mumford and Sons can take on the powerhouse that is Adele and win?
• Commented on If a guy looks nervous or uncomfortable when your next to him, what does that mean?
• Answered the question “If a guy looks nervous or uncomfortable when your next to him, what does that mean?”
• Answered the question “So im gay and i have this friend and weve become really cloes. Hes always joking around with me and touching me. He always calls me a fag (but doesnt know im gay). He doesnt associate with girls at all and when ever people are talking about them he gets a”
• Posted What Does It Mean, Part 937 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I read a phrase that said the flip side of moral clarity is arrogance. I feel good about my integrity and how I treat others. But I can't help feeling like my moral clarity is setting up everyone around me to fail. How do I know where to draw the line? Th
• Posted “Wispa” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “In light of Herman Cain's numerous scandals and your history of answering politically-centric questions, I thought I'd ask: Do you think a candidate's infidelities bear any consequence on his/her qualifications as a leader? You always have insightful answ”
• Commented on Ten Things I Hate About The Christmas Season
• Answered the question “What should you look for in a partner? Is it best to share core beliefs/values? Some interests/hobbies? Although opposites attract, they don't usually make lasting relationships. But too much in common leads to boredom, and never challenging each other. S”
• Commented on i found condoms in my boyfriends car, we dont use them, he has had a vasectomy
• Commented on 10 Thoughts On <i>Twilight: Breaking Dawn</i>, aka The Worst Movie of All Time
• Answered the question “MM! You answered my ques not long ago about whether I should try get with my friend's best mate who's very hot and probs out of my league. You said go for it/swallow ur pride/why not. WELL interesting new development: turns out my friend likes me. Too har”
• Commented on I read a phrase that said the flip side of moral clarity is arrogance. I feel good about my integrity and how I treat others. But I can't help feeling like my moral clarity is setting up everyone around me to fail. How do I know where to draw the line? Th
• Commented on Mm-help! I nearly committed suicide on Saturday bc I had convinced myself no on would miss me. I knew after that I needed help. I talked to our church bishop. He advised me to talk to a counsellor. my parents refuse to help me get to a counsellor. How ca
• Answered the question “I read a phrase that said the flip side of moral clarity is arrogance. I feel good about my integrity and how I treat others. But I can't help feeling like my moral clarity is setting up everyone around me to fail. How do I know where to draw the line? Th”
• Commented on Mm-help! I nearly committed suicide on Saturday bc I had convinced myself no on would miss me. I knew after that I needed help. I talked to our church bishop. He advised me to talk to a counsellor. my parents refuse to help me get to a counsellor. How ca
• Commented on Mm-help! I nearly committed suicide on Saturday bc I had convinced myself no on would miss me. I knew after that I needed help. I talked to our church bishop. He advised me to talk to a counsellor. my parents refuse to help me get to a counsellor. How ca
• Answered the question “What is the first thing that you notice about a woman? What are the top 5 things about her that would turn you off?”
• Commented on Mm-help! I nearly committed suicide on Saturday bc I had convinced myself no on would miss me. I knew after that I needed help. I talked to our church bishop. He advised me to talk to a counsellor. my parents refuse to help me get to a counsellor. How ca
• Answered the question “Mm-help! I nearly committed suicide on Saturday bc I had convinced myself no on would miss me. I knew after that I needed help. I talked to our church bishop. He advised me to talk to a counsellor. my parents refuse to help me get to a counsellor. How ca”
• Commented on Sex And Kindness
• Answered the question “Do you think it's best for a man to live on his own (or w/ friends) at least once before moving in w/ his GF so as not to go straight from mom to GF? That is what my long-term BF and I always planned on, but now it's shaping up to be that he might go righ”
• Commented on Hi MM. My dad always traveled a lot, I'm used to not seeing him for 4 months etc. I'm 18 now,he decided he's had enough and retired; it's driving me crazy.Used to my own routine,being alone;he is in the way all day.Avoid going home after school cause he's
• Answered the question “Hi MM. My dad always traveled a lot, I'm used to not seeing him for 4 months etc. I'm 18 now,he decided he's had enough and retired; it's driving me crazy.Used to my own routine,being alone;he is in the way all day.Avoid going home after school cause he's”
• Commented on What is an inexpensive gift I can get for the guy I'm dating that says I'm sorry with out being sappy?
• Commented on MM you give super advice!Thanksgiving may have burned bridges between my mother-in-law and I. She got a little lit up with the wine and nearly called me a harlot for not converting to Judaism for her son. I mean I'm cool being Rom. Cath., and I'm not push
• Answered the question “MM you give super advice!Thanksgiving may have burned bridges between my mother-in-law and I. She got a little lit up with the wine and nearly called me a harlot for not converting to Judaism for her son. I mean I'm cool being Rom. Cath., and I'm not push”
• Posted Sex And Kindness to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “He's in Vegas right now with his best friend for the weekend; their other best friend is living out there for work. I wasn't worried until my guy friends started saying I should be worried since he didn't invite me to go along. Is Vegas' reputation really”
• Answered the question “My BF and I are held from moving forward (moving in together, marriage, etc) b/c he has a crap job that doesn't pay well and still lives w/ parents. Last month I got pissed that he is so lazy he's not even looking for a better job and he promised he would”
• Commented on Dear Mystery Man,I was just wondering if the answer you gave to the young lady of the muslim faith who wanted to marry her boyfriend of the Druze faith was based on your actual personal experience of interracial/interfaith relationships, or your just ow
• Commented on Dear Mystery Man,I was just wondering if the answer you gave to the young lady of the muslim faith who wanted to marry her boyfriend of the Druze faith was based on your actual personal experience of interracial/interfaith relationships, or your just ow
• Answered the question “Hi MM. I dated a kind caring guy. He got a job in another state and in the months previous to him moving things were very cold between us. I feel he wanted to break up with me ever since he got the job. Things got better, but we broke up before he moved a”
• Commented on Dear Mystery Man,I was just wondering if the answer you gave to the young lady of the muslim faith who wanted to marry her boyfriend of the Druze faith was based on your actual personal experience of interracial/interfaith relationships, or your just ow
• Commented on help MM. I've been depressed to the point of thinking of suicide lately.. I'm scared and embarassed to tell anyone. I don't want to admit i can't handle things, and I'm scared they'll take my kids away from me if they think I can't handle it and I'm a ris
• Commented on I'm not sexually attracted to anyone. I've wondered if I could be a lesbian but I'm not really into girls either. I hate kissing guys. I'm not comfortable with sex. I want to be able to have a relationship but even dates make me uncomfortable. Am I just d
• Answered the question “Dear Mystery Man,I was just wondering if the answer you gave to the young lady of the muslim faith who wanted to marry her boyfriend of the Druze faith was based on your actual personal experience of interracial/interfaith relationships, or your just ow”
• Answered the question “I'm not sexually attracted to anyone. I've wondered if I could be a lesbian but I'm not really into girls either. I hate kissing guys. I'm not comfortable with sex. I want to be able to have a relationship but even dates make me uncomfortable. Am I just d”
• Posted “Corndog” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on The Three Weirdest Questions I Haven't Answered
• Answered the question “MM-FollowUp Q from 10/15: Should I stay or GO-OH: We had 3 dates in Oct to keep connected. I asked for 1wk N/C this wk. After a few days he called wanting to end break, b/c he loves me and is ready. I asked if slept w/anyone since we broke in Sept: yes,1.”
• Commented on help MM. I've been depressed to the point of thinking of suicide lately.. I'm scared and embarassed to tell anyone. I don't want to admit i can't handle things, and I'm scared they'll take my kids away from me if they think I can't handle it and I'm a ris
• Commented on Unanswered Questions Of The Month (October)
• Commented on Unanswered Questions Of The Month (October)
• Answered the question “MY BOYFREIND IS SWEET AND NICE.BUT I CANT TRUST HIM.I ALWAYS SEE HIM LOOK AT OTHER GIRLS PICTURES AND HE STILL TEXT HIS EX.HE ALSO HAVE PICTURES OF GIRL INSIDE HIS PHONE. HE SAYS I CAN TRUST HIM BUT I DONT KNOW WHY I CANT.HE WENT OUTSIDE FOR A PHONE CAL”
• Answered the question “Two years ago my husband died. I have been out of the dating for awhile. I have recently been in contact with an old high school friend. he wants to pick up where we left off. I know I probably don't feel the same way as he does, or not as strong. But m”
• Commented on w/out actions there R no results. therefore w/out results, everything is a lie & talk is cheap. a man is only as good as his word- so- don't let a man sell u dreams unless u want castles of sand built in the sky. am i just beautiful (hehe) and bitter!?!?
• Answered the question “w/out actions there R no results. therefore w/out results, everything is a lie & talk is cheap. a man is only as good as his word- so- don't let a man sell u dreams unless u want castles of sand built in the sky. am i just beautiful (hehe) and bitter!?!?”
• Answered the question “help MM. I've been depressed to the point of thinking of suicide lately.. I'm scared and embarassed to tell anyone. I don't want to admit i can't handle things, and I'm scared they'll take my kids away from me if they think I can't handle it and I'm a ris”
• Answered the question “Do you believe that everyone has a shot at love?”
• Posted The Lies We Tell to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm a 20yo girl and a student living at home while I go to university. Every time I go out and come home kind of drunk (not wasted) my mother gets real upset. My dad is pretty chill, but in general they don't want me to drink at all - or at least not get ”
• Posted “Crush mouth” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Just saw pictures of my boyfriend as a small child, and I swear they could have been a pictures of my brother. Is it messed up that that was a huge turn off? It's not like they weren't cute kids, and they look completely different now. But I have a terrib”
• Answered the question “What makes a man a man?..”
• Commented on i was raped a few years ago and am largely over it. my last boyfriend knew because it was still fresh, but now that im seeing other people, and have put it in the past, should i tell them. i dont want to hide anything, but its not something i feel like ta
• Answered the question “i was raped a few years ago and am largely over it. my last boyfriend knew because it was still fresh, but now that im seeing other people, and have put it in the past, should i tell them. i dont want to hide anything, but its not something i feel like ta”
• Commented on MM I know u'l b brutally honest. I like my mate's best mate. Haven't talked much, it's more a crush. Thing is, he's very attractive, type of looks that can get super hot chicks. I'm confident in my attractiveness lol am pretty, slim/petite but not at all
• Answered the question “MM I know u'l b brutally honest. I like my mate's best mate. Haven't talked much, it's more a crush. Thing is, he's very attractive, type of looks that can get super hot chicks. I'm confident in my attractiveness lol am pretty, slim/petite but not at all ”
• Commented on I pledge Allegiance to this Cokehead
• Commented on What do you find attractive in a woman?
• Answered the question “What do you find attractive in a woman?”
• Answered the question “I was on my period and this guy i was casually hooking up with didnt seem to care. Do guys care about doing it while girls are on their period?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend calls other girls hot right in front of me. After he says that, he looks toward me, as if he wants to see my reaction because if I don't comment, he sometimes nudges me for my attention. What do I do ? It really bothers me that he does this. ”
• Commented on Thanksgiving Alone: A Cause For Thanks
• Answered the question “HAPPY VETERANS DAY!”
• Posted Thanksgiving Alone: A Cause For Thanks to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “i really like this guy and i'm sure he likes me too. but we are both shy, and neither of us will make the first move. what sould i do?”
• Commented on MM, what's your insight about parents spanking their kids as punishment for misbehaving? Do you think that can be considered as child abuse?
• Answered the question “MM, what's your insight about parents spanking their kids as punishment for misbehaving? Do you think that can be considered as child abuse?”
• Commented on Hi MM, My questions aren't being answered. I'm dating a guy, going on 3 months. After a month he says he wants things btwn us 2 stay where it is and he wasn't falling 4 me. I want 2 know if he is feeling differently now, but should I ask? We spend so much
• Answered the question “Hi MM, My questions aren't being answered. I'm dating a guy, going on 3 months. After a month he says he wants things btwn us 2 stay where it is and he wasn't falling 4 me. I want 2 know if he is feeling differently now, but should I ask? We spend so much”
• Commented on I love my boyfriend. He is a gentle soul and a far better person than I am and the thought of ever hurting him makes me physically ill. I have a sick attachment to another man, I avoid him at all costs, but he goes out of his way to make sure I can't forg
• Answered the question “I love my boyfriend. He is a gentle soul and a far better person than I am and the thought of ever hurting him makes me physically ill. I have a sick attachment to another man, I avoid him at all costs, but he goes out of his way to make sure I can't forg”
• Commented on do you guys realy answer these questions??????????
• Posted Bonus Blog: Twenty Kids And Counting to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Vampires of Havana” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Ok, MM. This is about a problem w/ a man, but the man in question is my father. Had to move back w/ him &my step mom. He says my step mom is "afraid of me" and hates my attitude, but everytime I ask her what's wrong she doesn't say anything. I can't be re”
• Answered the question “What's your definition of love?”
• Commented on Do Women Objectify Male Bodies? GuySpeak Group Question
• Commented on Finding The Ignition: 6 Ways To Turn A Guy On
• Commented on My boyfriend refuses to talk about his past relationships with me and when I asked him about who he had dated before, he 'forgot' about at least two girls. I found out about these through other people, and he will admit it to me now. I feel its importan
• Answered the question “My boyfriend refuses to talk about his past relationships with me and when I asked him about who he had dated before, he 'forgot' about at least two girls. I found out about these through other people, and he will admit it to me now. I feel its importan”
• Answered the question “Mystery Man, how do you feel about Christians and pre-marital sex? I love my boyfriend and we both want to have sex, except problem 1.) I don't want to marry him early just for sex but then problem 2.) if I have to wait until I've graduated college to bon”
• Commented on I got pain after my bf sucks my breast
• Posted Finding The Ignition: 6 Ways To Turn A Guy On to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Soppy” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “So..this guy who says he he doesn't want me...doesn't want me to BE with anyone either. Now he keeps telling me about "hot girls" he sees. When I act like no big deal or say, "you should ask her out then"..he backs down and then asks me how I'm doing ins”
• Commented on do you guys realy answer these questions??????????
• Commented on I train and ride horses and work very hard at what I do. It is something that I love, and I majored in Equine Science while in college. I find it extremely insulting when men are interested in me, and then once they find out I work with animals they laugh
• Answered the question “what does it mean if a guy keeps telling you to let him know when you're in town”
• Answered the question “I train and ride horses and work very hard at what I do. It is something that I love, and I majored in Equine Science while in college. I find it extremely insulting when men are interested in me, and then once they find out I work with animals they laugh”
• Answered the question “do you guys realy answer these questions??????????”
• Commented on I was born into a poor family and money has always been an issue. Now that I'm older (23), is it immoral or shallow to only want to date successful/wealthier men? I am not a gold digger, but I want to live a comfortable life as an adult, unlike my childho
• Commented on nice website, im just sending you guys a question to see if you really put out the time and effort to respond to your readers. Now to my question.. Whats your favorite movie ?
• Commented on nice website, im just sending you guys a question to see if you really put out the time and effort to respond to your readers. Now to my question.. Whats your favorite movie ?
• Answered the question “My boyfriend broke-up with me because I "don't know God", but then I found out that he was messaging 4 other girls while we were still together--major flirting. Does this sound backwards to you??”
• Answered the question “I just started dating someone after moving across the country. I've never felt this happy or secure in a relationship - it's amazing - and he feels the same way (thank goodness). My only problem? I don't know how to balance the real world (school/work/new”
• Commented on I am a server in a sub minimum wage state (I make 4.00 an hour) and it is a very 'off' season were I work. However, I am still being scheduled about 50 hours a week. I want to ask for atleast minimum wage if I am to continue to work so many hours with few
• Commented on Beauty, money, and a "fairy-tale" wedding do not promise a successful marriage. Kim Kardashian filed for divorce today from Kris Humphries after 72 days. I find it kind of sad. I don't follow those people or their reality show, but just the fact that the
• Answered the question “Beauty, money, and a "fairy-tale" wedding do not promise a successful marriage. Kim Kardashian filed for divorce today from Kris Humphries after 72 days. I find it kind of sad. I don't follow those people or their reality show, but just the fact that the”
• Commented on I am a server in a sub minimum wage state (I make 4.00 an hour) and it is a very 'off' season were I work. However, I am still being scheduled about 50 hours a week. I want to ask for atleast minimum wage if I am to continue to work so many hours with few
• Answered the question “I am a server in a sub minimum wage state (I make 4.00 an hour) and it is a very 'off' season were I work. However, I am still being scheduled about 50 hours a week. I want to ask for atleast minimum wage if I am to continue to work so many hours with few”
• Commented on People say things like "if you were close enough with him to sleep with him, you should be able to have a baby with him." But I don't buy it. If I want to sleep with a random guy I just met, that's my prerogative, and I'm adult enough to be responsible fo
• Answered the question “I believe in unconditional love. I have it for my family and friends and I have it for my long term BF. But I'm wondering if that's smart - to unconditionally love somebody who CAN just up and leave you if he wants. I mean, we're not married. Should uncon”
• Commented on People say things like "if you were close enough with him to sleep with him, you should be able to have a baby with him." But I don't buy it. If I want to sleep with a random guy I just met, that's my prerogative, and I'm adult enough to be responsible fo
• Answered the question “People say things like "if you were close enough with him to sleep with him, you should be able to have a baby with him." But I don't buy it. If I want to sleep with a random guy I just met, that's my prerogative, and I'm adult enough to be responsible fo”
• Commented on I am a good girl with an awful past, that I can't seem to get away from. My first boyfriend was honestly the worst you could get...I've never had a serious or healthy relationship. I'm ready to quit the silly dating game and settle down but I have no idea
• Posted So You Want To: Be A Bitch to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I am a good girl with an awful past, that I can't seem to get away from. My first boyfriend was honestly the worst you could get...I've never had a serious or healthy relationship. I'm ready to quit the silly dating game and settle down but I have no idea”
• Commented on I want to know if i did the right thing. The other day i had sex with a guy just for fun. The issues is that he didn't not satisfied in bed. I told him. The reason i told him is because he was bragging the the whole time. That's why i decided to tell
• Commented on I am a girl, and I love guns. I want to learn more. I don't really know how to go about it though. The ex was the one who originally turned me onto shooting, and I want to take it up again. Only problem, money. VERY expensive sport. Can you suggest how I
• Commented on I am a girl, and I love guns. I want to learn more. I don't really know how to go about it though. The ex was the one who originally turned me onto shooting, and I want to take it up again. Only problem, money. VERY expensive sport. Can you suggest how I
• Answered the question “I am a girl, and I love guns. I want to learn more. I don't really know how to go about it though. The ex was the one who originally turned me onto shooting, and I want to take it up again. Only problem, money. VERY expensive sport. Can you suggest how I ”
• Answered the question “me and my bf have kids with exs. he doesn't want more, pretty soon I'll be having a hysterectomy, so I won't be able to. I've been having some strong baby fever lately. I know I can't have anymore kids right now though, and I can't put sugery off. should”
• Commented on i want tooo knowwwwwwww how can i know if i got a chance with this guy whoooo i like and hes talking to someone else but doesnt know if its going to work out do i at least got a chance
• Posted “Thunderchop” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “i want tooo knowwwwwwww how can i know if i got a chance with this guy whoooo i like and hes talking to someone else but doesnt know if its going to work out do i at least got a chance”
• Answered the question “I was your average wall flower in high school. Now in a professional career, I recently dated a guy who ran with the popular crowd in his own high school. I was miserable with him and ended it. If they're so popular, why do they still treat people poorly ”
• Commented on I support the Occupy Movement: making government officials answer to the PEOPLE and not special interests($). But sometimes I feel so hopeless b/c the only way reps will answer to the people is if we all stand together and force them to or else vote them
• Answered the question “I support the Occupy Movement: making government officials answer to the PEOPLE and not special interests($). But sometimes I feel so hopeless b/c the only way reps will answer to the people is if we all stand together and force them to or else vote them ”
• Commented on whats your take a on ivy league educated tech guy dating a standard university psychology/communications major girl? hope for romance?
• Commented on All my bf wants to do is have sex how can I get him to stop
• Commented on whats your take a on ivy league educated tech guy dating a standard university psychology/communications major girl? hope for romance?
• Answered the question “All my bf wants to do is have sex how can I get him to stop”
• Answered the question “whats your take a on ivy league educated tech guy dating a standard university psychology/communications major girl? hope for romance?”
• Posted Building The Perfect Breast to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I want to know if i did the right thing. The other day i had sex with a guy just for fun. The issues is that he didn't not satisfied in bed. I told him. The reason i told him is because he was bragging the the whole time. That's why i decided to tell ”
• Commented on How do you apply for My Fair Wedding?
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• Commented on im beautiful and nice...however b/c im pretty, everyone hates me and i cant make friends or get a boyfriend..my life is difficult isolation and not by choice and there seems to be no route that changes this...
• Answered the question “MM Help!! I'm 17 years old, 3 months ago my bf was killed in a work accident, ever since then my life has spirals out of control I've started partying & drinking every weekend, experimenting with drugs and been hooking up with guys trying to make myself h”
• Answered the question “my fiance is a 6'4", 280lb couch potato. i want him to lose 50lbs of belly fat & stop drinking 1.5 ltrs of red wine per nite. he's always stressed, angry, yelling & depressed. my libido isn't impressed with the sweating, farts & belching. he looks like a ”
• Commented on I need a good yelling at.This guy and I were talking for a while, things got serious (to the point where he was talking about marriage) he said all these things about not wanting to hurt me, made all these promises.A tiff between our parents made him disa
• Answered the question “I need a good yelling at.This guy and I were talking for a while, things got serious (to the point where he was talking about marriage) he said all these things about not wanting to hurt me, made all these promises.A tiff between our parents made him disa”
• Posted “Monkeywretch” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “i found out that he was married and has a special needs child (cerebral palsy). his phone has been off for days, so i just left a message saying fuck you scumbag, i'm done. do you have any tips on how to heal and get over it?”
• Commented on would you poke a girl that poked you on facebook back ?
• Answered the question “would you poke a girl that poked you on facebook back ?”
• Posted Downsized: An Interview With Laura Bruce to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have been single for a while now and I'm looking to get talking with the ladies again. It just seems when I'm focused on love, I'm depressed, and when I'm not thinking about it I'm generally happy. I just need some advice to get back out there. I figure”
• Commented on So...what is the funniest joke you can think of at the moment?
• Answered the question “ok there is this guy that works a a local departmet store that im really feeling i only go in the store when he is there he recently asked me to come to thebackroom and he huuged me the only problem is he is married but he always telling how bad his relat”
• Commented on Abuse And Getting Out Of Dodge
• Answered the question “I had a dream where my ex and current boyfriend came into my work and started hardcore fighting. My current boyfriend told me very nastily to "Stay out of it!" when I tried stopping them. I was crying in the dream and embarrassed and then both started gan”
• Posted Abuse And Getting Out Of Dodge to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Dis'dress” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on MM -Should I stay or should I GO-OH? 5 month BF said he loves me/ I'm his best friend but hasnt dated since divorce. Needs to "go meet other ppl". It's been a month apart and he calls every day...we talk like nothings changed (honey this, baby that) but h
• Answered the question “MM -Should I stay or should I GO-OH? 5 month BF said he loves me/ I'm his best friend but hasnt dated since divorce. Needs to "go meet other ppl". It's been a month apart and he calls every day...we talk like nothings changed (honey this, baby that) but h”
• Answered the question “Im really sad. I never had a boyfriend before or a 1st kiss.... nd im 17. I feel so alone. But when a guy wants to get close to me... I start pushing away because i get scared. What is happening to me? :(”
• Answered the question “(SORRY FOR explicitness) Im a lady in my early twenties and very sexual...but Im a virgin.Masturbate 5+ a day!But thats the thing, Im tired of pleasing myself, cant I find a man to do it. Well...I can, but Thing is, it just cant be anyone. Im very sexuall”
• Posted Bonus Blog: We're Back In Kansas, Dorothy to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “You write -- help me! He corresponds with me almost every day, he offers to shop with me (albeit somewhat sadly), he does stuff for me... and refuses my hugs (says he expresses himself through art... which is true. Art no one else sees, which is a pity). ”
• Commented on I was seeing,(sleeping w/ and exchanging whitty texts) w/ a guy who lives on the other side of the country from me. HE invited me to come see him for 6 days, go to an amazing hotel, only to tell me halfway thru the trip that "he doesnt want to hurt me, bu
• Answered the question “I was seeing,(sleeping w/ and exchanging whitty texts) w/ a guy who lives on the other side of the country from me. HE invited me to come see him for 6 days, go to an amazing hotel, only to tell me halfway thru the trip that "he doesnt want to hurt me, bu”
• Answered the question “Hes conservative, very catholic, and family oriented. And a good guy. Im liberal, atheist,+dont want kids. Can two people who have different political views make it work? Or will we grow to hate each other? We just started dating and I can tell were very ”
• Commented on So You Want To: Cheat
• Commented on So You Want To: Cheat
• Answered the question “what does it mean when a man wants you to spend a week with him at his house?”
• Posted So You Want To: Cheat to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Sugababe” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Have you ever read the comments section on a Yahoo News story? It's the number one thing that consistently bums me out. Those people are DISGUSTING! Full of hate and ignorance! They make me so sad and make me feel helpless about making any improvements in”
• Commented on when a guy sleeps with you on the first day what does that mean?
• Commented on when a guy sleeps with you on the first day what does that mean?
• Commented on do you guys have other jobs? can we know what y'all do? just curious. thanks :) you can keep yours vague if you'd like MM
• Commented on Fighting Foul And Fighting To Win
• Answered the question “when a guy sleeps with you on the first day what does that mean?”
• Answered the question “do you guys have other jobs? can we know what y'all do? just curious. thanks :) you can keep yours vague if you'd like MM”
• Answered the question “I'd like your opinion. When I break up w/someone (who has behaved decently but it just isn't for me) do I owe him an explanation? Does an explanation help? The thing is, there isn't much of a reason; I just... don't want him anymore. Sounds heartless. But”
• Answered the question “Why why why is it that the only guys that get attracted to me are the ones I'm definitely not attracted to in return? It's so freaking unfair and annoying. It feels like the whole concept of perfect matches and chemistry etc. is all bull. Urgh!”
• Commented on Why do you guys ask for naked pictures? The chances of them actually getting them are slim but they still ask. Whenever a guy ask it's such a turn off that I'm not sure if I want to keep pursuing the relationship.
• Answered the question “Why do you guys ask for naked pictures? The chances of them actually getting them are slim but they still ask. Whenever a guy ask it's such a turn off that I'm not sure if I want to keep pursuing the relationship.”
• Answered the question “What do you think of this guy's comments? Seems to be blaming women for men's wandering eyes, and how DARE he say God put MEN in control of t”
• Commented on Fighting Foul And Fighting To Win
• Answered the question “my boyfriend's family is really religious--def. no sex before marriage...except we've already done it. i think he rationalized it because he knows he wants to marry me, but i'm having second thoughts. i feel like I've taken something from him. how do I f”
• Posted Fighting Foul And Fighting To Win to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “At what point does being attracted to someone else indicate a deficit in your feelings for your significant other?”
• Answered the question “why do men keep his girl in the dark about a female who is talking to behind her back”
• Commented on I am an atheist. Ive met some amazing guys who have everything I want, EXCEPT I quickly learn they are religious. I cant make any exceptions on that, I cant date a guy who believes in angels, demons, life after death, and other imaginary things. Am I bein
• Commented on Why do men leave you in suspense?
• Answered the question “I am an atheist. Ive met some amazing guys who have everything I want, EXCEPT I quickly learn they are religious. I cant make any exceptions on that, I cant date a guy who believes in angels, demons, life after death, and other imaginary things. Am I bein”
• Commented on MM, help! - I think I'm a compulsive liar. I lie about dumb things, like "I've eaten" when I haven't, or make up stories about what happened. I quit my job 2 months ago & didn't tell anyone, pretended to keep going to work & I just got found out. I don't
• Answered the question “MM, help! - I think I'm a compulsive liar. I lie about dumb things, like "I've eaten" when I haven't, or make up stories about what happened. I quit my job 2 months ago & didn't tell anyone, pretended to keep going to work & I just got found out. I don't ”
• Posted “Queen Regine” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Good evening MM, I'm the girl who lost her father during final yr of uni, who was contemplating of hurtin herself. Anyways everything got better, I even graduate with good marks:) just sending u this to say thx. Wish u all the best life can offer. Bye”
• Commented on I am living with man, no real connection. Have a great companionship. Stay bcuz I have a son n don't want another man walk out on him. Am I doing an injustice to all of us by staying? I dont want to hurt my child. I am 44, with no chance of in love feelin
• Commented on plz help this 1 time i really dont know eles what to do. I keep getting sexually harassed & ppl think its funny but it makes me so angry that im not strong enough. I try to stop them and i say no but they dont listen. I was never raped but they push me ag
• Answered the question “so what does it mean when a guy who is really nice to you suddenly, becomes mean to you after he saw you flirting with another guy??”
• Commented on Have you ever met Gal Pal and the other Guys in person or are you a mystery even to them?
• Answered the question “Have you ever met Gal Pal and the other Guys in person or are you a mystery even to them?”
• Commented on A Different Type Of Wedding
• Answered the question “What's the difference between "in love" and "true love"?”
• Commented on A Different Type Of Wedding
• Posted A Different Type Of Wedding to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I am living with man, no real connection. Have a great companionship. Stay bcuz I have a son n don't want another man walk out on him. Am I doing an injustice to all of us by staying? I dont want to hurt my child. I am 44, with no chance of in love feelin”
• Commented on Hi my name is Stephanie. How do I talk to a white guy on the metro train going home?
• Answered the question “What's a girl to do when she and her mother both like the same guy?? Older guy, mine first... and I totally see the sparks flying with her, now. She's my mom!! Part of me wants her to be happy, but I had him first! What do I do??”
• Answered the question “Hi my name is Stephanie. How do I talk to a white guy on the metro train going home?”
• Posted “Trouble sponge” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on What and why it makes a woman feel the need to use men as toys and never in a real relationship?
• Answered the question “I don't like one of my BF's friends bc he's a cocky jerk who thinks he's way smarter than he is. Part of it is jealousy, definitely; he's doing what I want to do: establishing his own promotional business. He thinks he's so awesome for doing it, but he's ”
• Commented on I am sorry but I really have a hard time believing your actually a "reformed player" you are reaaally not good looking AT ALL. Your picture looks like those overweight dorks that always hit on women & creep them out. figuring this website needed guy write
• Answered the question “What and why it makes a woman feel the need to use men as toys and never in a real relationship?”
• Answered the question “Hey MM, as a fellow advice giver do you ever feel at a loss for an answer? How do you approach these situations if so? Many people come to me for advice and answers to their problems. Among my friends I am considered the "wise one" but sometimes I feel a”
• Answered the question “can you love someone and cheat on them?”
• Posted Over-Protecting: The Sins Of The Fathers Are Sometimes Hard To Take to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My bf will not get his license.He has access to a car but "hates driving" and says if he needs something he'll just "take a bus or something," but I end up bringing him groceries and taking him to hang with his friends.He's almost 20. It seems immature an”
• Answered the question “well i cant look my boyfriend in the eyes when we have sex. been together 18 months. perfect(ish) relationship but i just cant do it. im scared ill pull a face and hell laugh at me. lost my v unconsentually. could this be connected?”
• Commented on my boyfriend has started acting weird lately, he deletes his calls & txts, works late & weekends (but hes a sparky), is suddenly worried about his looks, doesnt seem interested in me anymore, goes from loving me to hating me. what the hell is going on sho
• Answered the question “my boyfriend has started acting weird lately, he deletes his calls & txts, works late & weekends (but hes a sparky), is suddenly worried about his looks, doesnt seem interested in me anymore, goes from loving me to hating me. what the hell is going on sho”
• Answered the question “Just got my first tattoo. It's so low on my hip that even a bathing suit covers it. I purposely wanted it to be hidden because it has a very personal meaning. I know I shouldn't care, but now I'm kinda worried about how any guys I date in the future will ”
• Answered the question “Im not one of the boys. However, I love hanging out with guys and having guy friends. Ive looked up many articles about how to do this but they all talk about changing yourself and all that bullshit. Am i too naive to think that it is possible to just be ”
• Commented on What type of relationship (lasted 4 days) do you think this was-He ignored me face to face- yet messaged everydaySlept over but never cuddled or kissed (or had sex)Messaged other girls while with me, yet got defensive and came into my work to still
• Commented on Have you ever faked an orgasm? If a guy was having a hard time finishing, would he do that just to put an end to sex?
• Answered the question “Am I lying to my best guy friend if I don't tell him about my sexual assault experiences in my past? He makes a lot of jokes about how I'm not sexually driven, which I'm fine with... I just don't want him to feel bad if he learns why I'm the way I am. But”
• Commented on i am a narcissist. However, i am in love with hating myself rather than obsessing over all the wonderful things. To love someone else, you have to love yourself in the good way. Do you believe that you start to love what you hate completely? Because i don
• Answered the question “Have you ever faked an orgasm? If a guy was having a hard time finishing, would he do that just to put an end to sex?”
• Commented on What type of relationship (lasted 4 days) do you think this was-He ignored me face to face- yet messaged everydaySlept over but never cuddled or kissed (or had sex)Messaged other girls while with me, yet got defensive and came into my work to still
• Commented on You usually answer these types of questions thoughtfully. Did you watch the GOP debate last night? Did you hear the thunderous applause over Perry's 234 executions while in office? What do you think about that?
• Answered the question “What type of relationship (lasted 4 days) do you think this was-He ignored me face to face- yet messaged everydaySlept over but never cuddled or kissed (or had sex)Messaged other girls while with me, yet got defensive and came into my work to still ”
• Posted This Shall Not Pass to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Have you ever, not just loved, but fell in love with one of your BFF girl friends?
• Answered the question “You usually answer these types of questions thoughtfully. Did you watch the GOP debate last night? Did you hear the thunderous applause over Perry's 234 executions while in office? What do you think about that?”
• Posted “sexuall” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “i am a narcissist. However, i am in love with hating myself rather than obsessing over all the wonderful things. To love someone else, you have to love yourself in the good way. Do you believe that you start to love what you hate completely? Because i don”
• Answered the question “Not to impugn Cher's authority, but can a kiss really explain how a man feels about you?”
• Answered the question “MM please help! I feel like my guy just isn't attracted to me at all. He can watch porn and cum in minutes but anytime we mess around/have sex it takes him ages- going on 45 mins+. Am I over exaggerating or is he just not into me?”
• Commented on Can u find me picture of a sexy gal
• Commented on MM, you probably think this is a weird, unanswerable question... but is it possible for me to be JUST friends with an ex who wants to be FWB? I like him, but I'm not comfortable hooking up with him w/o a commitment. We ended mutually, but it was mostly hi
• Answered the question “I want to know what is the protocol for dating a man who is damaged goods. Things were great...then he found out he was cheated on the entire 2.5 year relationship with multiple men. How do I proceed?”
• Answered the question “Can u find me picture of a sexy gal”
• Answered the question “MM, you probably think this is a weird, unanswerable question... but is it possible for me to be JUST friends with an ex who wants to be FWB? I like him, but I'm not comfortable hooking up with him w/o a commitment. We ended mutually, but it was mostly hi”
• Commented on How do you get over the pain of a traumatic experience? I have gone to therapy, worked on myself, let time happen, yet at the end of the day, I still sit and can't help but think of this past experience. I am trying to live in the 'now' but finding it ext
• Answered the question “How do you get over the pain of a traumatic experience? I have gone to therapy, worked on myself, let time happen, yet at the end of the day, I still sit and can't help but think of this past experience. I am trying to live in the 'now' but finding it ext”
• Answered the question “You always give good advice, MM. I started dating this guy very recently, and he's basically doing everything right -- he's such a gentleman. I think he wants to take things slow, too. However I still feel like he's keeping his distances emotionally. How ”
• Posted Things That Make You Go 'What?!' to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Dictate-her” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I have big boobs but no cleavage”
• Commented on What Song Reminds You Of Your First Crush?
• Answered the question “If I like depressing things, I.E movies, studying different personality disorders, into dark poets and musicians, then does that make me a depressed person?”
• Answered the question “Hey MM! I'm 17 and starting university in September, never had a boyfriend. I do everything I can to put myself out there, especially to places where I might meet someone who has similar interests as me. I do put effort into how I look and I'd say I'm som”
• Answered the question “I'm content with my life right now, i like you and I care about you but there are issues on both ends... what does that mean?”
• Commented on The August Interview: It's A Fair Cop
• Commented on MM! I'm an ineffably jaded 19yr old. EVERY friend but 1 rejected me 12/09 after a car accident I was in, now that 1 friend is leaving me too. I used to have a great social life. Soph in college 2nd college I don't even want to make new friends. RADICAL
• Answered the question “What do you think about women who are always going back to the same loser guy? My BFF's ex-BF (now an ex after 10 years together) turned into a dead-beat drunken loser in the past two years and they've broken up because of it. She USED to go back to him -”
• Commented on The August Interview: It's A Fair Cop
• Answered the question “I used to be extremely intimidating. No one messed with me and i wasn't afraid of anybody. But then a couple years ago i got hurt in my karate class and then all of a sudden my fire was gone. I feel like every ounce of confidence is gone esp with guys. I ”
• Posted The August Interview: It's A Fair Cop to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Keep The Baby?: Choices We Make And The Decisions We Don't
• Answered the question “I have been seeing someone for about 9 months, he is 50 I am 49. We get along extremely well but for some reason he is always telling me about past girlfriends and their experiences or how many women come on to him on a daily basis. I am not a jealous per”
• Answered the question “None of the guys have ever tried to get anything more or even get together outside of work. They should know that I am a conservative Christian who would never sleep with them. Am I naive to think they are just being friendly, or is it what it seems?”
• Posted “chillzilla” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How do you tell if a guy is genuinely and truly a good and nice guy? It's so hard to tell if they're faking it until they gain my trust.”
• Commented on No Sex Please, We're Tired
• Answered the question “A friend who was upset about not being a bridesmaid decided to skip my wedding (via a phonecall just hours before it). She hasn't spoken to me since, but has told others that she regrets it. I don't like to hold grudges, but am really hurt by her bailing ”
• Answered the question “Im very single and want a boyfriend. But Ive been told I am very negative and bossy. People always say "be yourself", in the case of having a boyfriend, can I be myself or do I have to change? Should I become all happy, positive, and full of pretentious s”
• Commented on I know you definitely wont answer this, but I'm really curious to find out what your views on political correctness are... Ah well, at least i asked.
• Commented on I know you definitely wont answer this, but I'm really curious to find out what your views on political correctness are... Ah well, at least i asked.
• Answered the question “I know you definitely wont answer this, but I'm really curious to find out what your views on political correctness are... Ah well, at least i asked.”
• Commented on No Sex Please, We're Tired
• Answered the question “MM! I'm an ineffably jaded 19yr old. EVERY friend but 1 rejected me 12/09 after a car accident I was in, now that 1 friend is leaving me too. I used to have a great social life. Soph in college 2nd college I don't even want to make new friends. RADICAL ”
• Answered the question “What do you think about a first day of school outfit for girls? Overrated or cute?”
• Posted No Sex Please, We're Tired to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on is it bad that if my ex asked me out again i would say yes?
• Answered the question “My husband has been with over 50 women who would be considered prefect 10's.When he met me, I already had a LOT of extra saggy skin and stretch marks.He says he loves my body and has never been more attracted to anyone more in his life.Is he just sparing ”
• Commented on I'm pregnant and we're keeping it.The plan is for us to get married so I can see an OB. Nothing has changed in months, so I told him I'm moving out for a while. He reacted as though I'd just told him I never want to see him again!.He says it makes no sens
• Answered the question “is it bad that if my ex asked me out again i would say yes?”
• Answered the question “I'm pregnant and we're keeping it.The plan is for us to get married so I can see an OB. Nothing has changed in months, so I told him I'm moving out for a while. He reacted as though I'd just told him I never want to see him again!.He says it makes no sens”
• Commented on (I am A girl) What does it mean when you ask the guy if he likes you and he takes forever to answer and says no?Is he lying, like saying no but he does or is he just slow?? please answer asap
• Answered the question “(I am A girl) What does it mean when you ask the guy if he likes you and he takes forever to answer and says no?Is he lying, like saying no but he does or is he just slow?? please answer asap”
• Answered the question “MM, please help.. I'm 19 y/o, and seem unable to stay into a guy for long, especially once I see that the guy really likes me. Part of me blames having high standards, but then I also think there's something wrong with me (commitment phobia?), bc I'm stup”
• Posted “Rage Quit” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Dear MM, I've become extremely bitter about romantic love, to the point where seeing people together hurts and makes me tense and angry. I never meant to end up this way but no man has ever wanted and accepted me so I am jealous, hurt and resentful. It's ”
• Answered the question “After many previous degrading relationships with guys I've finally found someone who is just as much fun as he is respectful. And I feel really lucky to be with someone awesome and who makes me feel amazing about myself too. This is new for me.”
• Answered the question “I'm in my 20s and am a virgin (never had vaginal sex), because penises really freak me out. I like everything else about being with a man. I'm sexually attracted to women but don't enjoy emotional relationships with them. How can I have a real, emotionall”
• Answered the question “I want to propose a "no cell phones at dinner" rule (gosh I hate that word!) with my BF but I have two hesitations. 1) I don't want to be that girl that makes rules with her man. 2) Sometimes at dinner we plan our night, and so some texts w/ friends are a”
• Posted A Field Guide To Idiots, Part Two: Bars to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on is it safe for my bf to c*m in me during anal?
• Answered the question “Do you think that "chick-flicks" have skewed women's perspective of love? I've read some articles that say that they have, but what do you think? Do you think that women expect more now because of the movies and books that they read?”
• Answered the question “is it safe for my bf to c*m in me during anal?”
• Answered the question “Mystery Man, I'm very lost. I made the mistake of agreeing to be "just friends" with a guy I have feelings for. Now he is really trying to be my friend. I don't know what to do because I really want more. Please help me?”
• Commented on Recently my boyfriend randomly told me that if I don't go down on him, he won't go down on me. He knows that I think that my mouth is a little too precious for that, and we've never had this problem in the past. Not only do I think that this is unfair, bu
• Posted “Lassie” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “16yo girl w/huge aspirations in life,dad who has aspergers syndrome and an affair,depressed mom,3 younger bros,holds her family together here.I'm also a cutter(no one but my very supportive bf knows that)if my parents get divorced,and if im stuck with dad”
• Answered the question “Is 18 too young to know who you want to spend the rest of your life with? He and I are both convinced, and engaged actually, buteveryone says we're crazy.”
• Answered the question “Been married 14 years with 2 kids. Nice guy but we are both introverted & haven't worked on our relationship in years. I'm at the point where I hate the way he eats, moves, etc). I'm also 40 & in my first year of sobriety (6 mo sober). I think I need a br”
• Commented on London's Burning
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• Posted London's Burning to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hi, MM.Thank you in advance for your time.- Can a relationship reach long-term status when there's a difference in socio economic class? My guy shows interest now, but I'm not sure how much longer I can hide my insecurities when conversing about his life ”
• Commented on You're very culturally sensitive so I ask you: In my culture, premarital sex is a BIG no (for me not a religious thing) But I grew up here so I'm all jumbled. I feel SO guilty about sex I'm afraid of intimacy, making dating impossible. Even guys from my
• Answered the question “I need your advice. I'm a 20 yr old college student. Why is it that every time I get to know a guy (that I've had a crush on etc) I always end up doubting myself and my attraction to them? Oh he likes to listen to polka...that won't work and I move on and”
• Answered the question “I'm in a difficult place. My new partner is the victim of child molestation from when she was 3 years old to 11. I'm scared to death to be intimate with her because I don't want to make her uncomfortable or rehash something that would ultimately end in di”
• Commented on The July Interview: My Body Is Mine.
• Posted Happily Ever After to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Fail Whale” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “You're very culturally sensitive so I ask you: In my culture, premarital sex is a BIG no (for me not a religious thing) But I grew up here so I'm all jumbled. I feel SO guilty about sex I'm afraid of intimacy, making dating impossible. Even guys from my”
• Answered the question “I recently lost my virginity to a really great guy, who also happens to be far more experienced. We have had sex for three consecutive days since to first time, but I have yet to tell him that he is my first. I don't think it's a huge deal, it's just sex!”
• Answered the question “Do I have to tell my longtime boyfriend that I was "engaged" (it was with my ex and I only wore the ring for 3 days before I said I couldn't do it)? My current guy and I see engagement down the line and I was wondering if he needed to know this informatio”
• Answered the question “how should a girl get a guy number or like ask him out... i want him to know im into him but not like desperate.”
• Answered the question “he hasn't asked for a comittment yet, but has suggested we're "on the way". when i asked him where he saw himself in 5 yrs, he said, "marriage and hopefully more kids,if you can't have any i am open to adoption." i'm fine with things going slow, my ? is, ”
• Answered the question “Dear MM,On Friday night I had the most romantic kiss of my life. It was nothing short of cinematic. Problem is, the guy has a girlfriend (she was actually at the party), which makes him a not so nice person (I barely saw her at all). I didn't leave him ”
• Answered the question “MM, I'm 21 & I have excessive shyness and fear when it comes to women so i've never had a girlfriend but I would like that to change. The only woman i talk to is my grandma. The people closest to me are of no help. I refuse to believe it's selective mutis”
• Commented on The July Interview: My Body Is Mine.
• Answered the question “Will he always love me since I was his first pretty much everything? Will he always appreciate how I have helped him grow over the past 4 years? Will I ever forgive him? Will I ever really truly move on? Do you still think about your first love ?”
• Posted The July Interview: My Body Is Mine. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have a crush on youuu &lt;3”
• Answered the question “MM I think all men are, well,evil. When I was teenager, one man assualted me, one man tried to rape me, and then a different one tried to kill me. Their is this guy I really like, but I did everything in my power to push him away. It's like he wouldnt bud”
• Answered the question “MM, you're the most brutally honest. I need that. My best guy friend cheated on his girlfriend with me. I told him we couldn't be friends and haven't spoken to him since. Fast forward a few months later, we're about to be back at school together. I feel l”
• Answered the question “I am constantly amazed at the wisdom this Guyspeak panel gives to its participants. As a curious one, I have googled the others to get more background on who they are. But you being the MM, I can't do that, so would you share a bit of who you are....like ”
• Commented on Choices
• Answered the question “Hey MM,How do you forgive? I stuck by my addict bf through everything; he was 120 days into sobriety and then he relapsed while I was out of town. His reaction was to pack up, move out and dump me. Now he's ignoring me. How can I forgive him and just mo”
• Answered the question “I was raped when I was a kid and since then no guys have ever been truly into me- they think I'm hot and take as much as they can before they run away- just like my rapist. Is it possible do you think that some people will never be more than physical obje”
• Answered the question “I have this great opportunity to study abroad, but my bf of 5 yrs is having a hard time swallowing the idea of not being able to talk to/see me for 5 months. If I go, I'm sure he'll be sour every time I do get to talk to him, but I don't want to pass this”
• Answered the question “MM I need some sensible advice! 1st time dating a single parent. Kid is rude and says hurtful things. How to tell the bf that I feel hurt and to acknowledge how I feel without him shutting down and ignoring me and saying "oh well, damage is already done" ”
• Commented on Choices
• Answered the question “I'm the youngest of 6(4bros+1sis)in my late 20s. Growing up with my sis was tough bcuz she had learning difficulties. I feel like when my family get together they exclude me-the guys go off and do things and leave me to take care of my sister. I love my s”
• Posted Choices to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “how do boys want girls pubes?”
• Answered the question “Mystery Man, I need help. I have been battling an addiction since I was in fifth grade (I recently graduated) and it's only getting worse. I have told one person, but it didn't help much, because he couldn't really understand. How do I break this cycle? I”
• Answered the question “Hey Mystery Man! I need your honest answer! The guy I've been seeing/sleeping with for 2 months goes down on me right before we have sex - every time - would a guy go down on a girl if he wasn't attracted to her? Maybe I'm being insecure, but I'm trying t”
• Commented on What does it mean?
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• Commented on What does it mean?
• Commented on What does it mean?
• Answered the question “What does it mean?”
• Answered the question “blondes or brunettes? lip piercings? rib tattoos? sexy?”
• Answered the question “Can you ever really get over the father of your children abandoning your kids? I can trust other men, but I still hate him so much..”
• Commented on Mom And Dad Are Human Too
• Commented on Generally speaking ,is it not easy or take sometimes for man to orgasm during the oral sex? I gave BJ for my man two times and he came twice,i don't have any former experience so i don't know he was fake it or not, but he did ejaculated.
• Answered the question “is it wrong to want more out of marriage then just security...i want passion, desire, fun, sex without having to ask for it...i am married a long time and want to leave because i'm so sad...”
• Posted “Letch” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “did u say my choice?”
• Posted Mom And Dad Are Human Too to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Generally speaking ,is it not easy or take sometimes for man to orgasm during the oral sex? I gave BJ for my man two times and he came twice,i don't have any former experience so i don't know he was fake it or not, but he did ejaculated.”
• Answered the question “How do you know If your fuck buddy has feelings for you ?”
• Answered the question “How do you know the love is still burning after three years relationship?”
• Commented on Why do I keep trying to be wanted by people who show little or no interest in me like my dad or a few other people?
• Answered the question “Why do I keep trying to be wanted by people who show little or no interest in me like my dad or a few other people?”
• Answered the question “my college boyfriend never pays for our dates.”
• Answered the question “Mystery Hottie, when you were single and desperate, you gave off a wretched stank that fended off potential lovers, right? And when you were nonchalant and indifferent, no one could resist you, right? Well...why can't we just get what we want when we want”
• Answered the question “MM I could really use your help. Recent grad, job that barely pays my bills, living at home w four younger siblings and to top it off the on/off 3 yr relationship I had with a guy fell apart b/c he turned into a jerk. I'm trying to be happy and change thi”
• Answered the question “"Today's forward thinking is tomorrow's common sense." That's a quote from I don't know who... but it's true! Do you think the main types of discrimination we see today (against races, homosexuals, women, stoners, etc..) will be for the most part gone in ”
• Answered the question “Writer to writer, I need some advice. I'm graduating college soon w/ a writing degree & want to get into MFA program, but I also majored in tv production as a "day job" & fell in love w/ entertainment law, now considering law school. I want time for kids/”
• Answered the question “can straight man be inlove to bisexual”
• Commented on The End Is Always Bitter
• Posted The End Is Always Bitter to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Need a reality check, or some solid advice, both of which you have a knack for. Dated for 6mos, but he was dealing with some issues, and we ended, no hard feelings. Back in touch about 8mos later. He has "a girl." We both want to be friends. Not trying to”
• Commented on Hey, Mystery Man! I am pretending to be a girl from California to talk to this guy I like via text message. He knows me, but doesn't like me in that way. Should I tell him and have him think I am liar because I betrayed his trust or weep in sorrow alone a
• Answered the question “Hey, Mystery Man! I am pretending to be a girl from California to talk to this guy I like via text message. He knows me, but doesn't like me in that way. Should I tell him and have him think I am liar because I betrayed his trust or weep in sorrow alone a”
• Commented on what usa guys sexiest turn on?
• Answered the question “what usa guys sexiest turn on?”
• Answered the question “Everybody's been watching the Casey Anthony trial. You just answered a question about defense attorneys and you've also mentioned you have a child. What're your mysterious two cents about the verdict?”
• Answered the question “I recently lost my "final ten" and am in the best shape of my life. Since then my BF of 5yrs has been complimenting me constantly, but only about my looks. It's gotten to where I'm starting to feel shallow, like that's all he cares about. Truly I know he ”
• Posted “Lipstick Lez” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on I love a married man who treats me bad. so I by force stepped away.There is other nice loving man asked for my hand, I am marrying him soon but my heart is with the jerk still....... is love, respect and affection enough to marry someone?... I have ki
• Answered the question “Please, MM, I'm looking for the answer to an age-old question--which do I follow, my head or my heart? Also, how do I let go of the worry that I will regret whichever choice I do make? If I'm not 100% positive about being with either guy does that mean ne”
• Answered the question “Fate has played a very cruel joke on me. I was raped and have been depressed ever since. I finally met a guy who makes me feel happy, safe and loved. But hes a defense attorney and it bothers me that he helps the same type of men who hurt me.”
• Posted Earning Trust Is Easy. Keeping It Is Hard. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I love a married man who treats me bad. so I by force stepped away.There is other nice loving man asked for my hand, I am marrying him soon but my heart is with the jerk still....... is love, respect and affection enough to marry someone?... I have ki
• Answered the question “I love a married man who treats me bad. so I by force stepped away.There is other nice loving man asked for my hand, I am marrying him soon but my heart is with the jerk still....... is love, respect and affection enough to marry someone?... I have ki”
• Commented on My ex is getting married. I still love him. Should I tell him before he ties the knot?
• Answered the question “Dear mystery man, I know I am a very lucky person. I have all the things a person can ask for. Still, there's this feeling of sadness so overwhelming that never goes away. Its there something wrong with me? Or, could a person be sad without a reason?”
• Answered the question “I know you'll tell the truth and yell at me if you think I should stop, but what do you think of a girl who casually dates guys knowing that she likes someone else? I need a way to get over him...”
• Answered the question “My ex is getting married. I still love him. Should I tell him before he ties the knot?”
• Answered the question “Hey MM! So great first date last night! He had already asked me out again by the end of the date for next weekend which I accepted. 30 min after parting ways, he called me but I couldn't reach the phone in time and he didn't leave voicemail. Pretty sure”
• Answered the question “How can I get my dad, who is obese and had back surgery so is out of work and home allllllll day, to get up and moving around? He gets pissed when I try to take him out to teach me tennis or hiking. I want him to give a damn about his health. :(”
• Posted “Butt Dial” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I just went through ending a really long relationship a few weeks ago. Now whenever I masturbate I can't orgasm. Is my body still physically trying to cope with the trauma? Thank you in advance MM, I always love your insights.”
• Commented on My boyfriend admits that he hates strip clubs- says the whole situation makes him uncomfortable. Since this flies in the face of a strong male stereotype, I thought I would ask if there are many men who feel the same? Do lots of guys merely go along with
• Posted The June Interview: Taming The (Radio) Waves to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend admits that he hates strip clubs- says the whole situation makes him uncomfortable. Since this flies in the face of a strong male stereotype, I thought I would ask if there are many men who feel the same? Do lots of guys merely go along with ”
• Commented on Hugh Hefner's has a new 25-year-old GF -- what's the biggest age difference you've dated? GuySpeak Group Question!
• Answered the question “i'm almost 30 and never had a boyfriend. i decided to join a dating website and am not getting the response i'd like. i don't get it - i've been told by many that i'm pretty. i'm outgoing, smart, accomplished, and funny. i think i have a lot going for me ”
• Commented on Wa- I'm a single mom and I've been seeing a really great guy for about two months. Problem is, my son and he have never met. I feel it's too soon for that. He however is insisting on meeting him now. How can I explain to him that I think it's too soon for
• Posted “Duckface” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How do you know if you're right for someone? My boyfriend and I absolutely love each other (we're even taking about getting engaged) but sometimes I'm not sure if I am right for him based on things he says. I'm worried it'll put too much pressure on me t”
• Commented on I hate working. I've had 14 jobs in 7yrs; hated them all! I hate waking up early and being stuck in an office all day! My BF has a better work ethic than me; he actually LIKES working and thinks I'm crazy for hating it so much. But I think there MUST be a
• Answered the question “I hate working. I've had 14 jobs in 7yrs; hated them all! I hate waking up early and being stuck in an office all day! My BF has a better work ethic than me; he actually LIKES working and thinks I'm crazy for hating it so much. But I think there MUST be a”
• Commented on I've been what I can't really name more than being just a booty call for the last 20yrs to the same guy..it's time to break away right? It's so hard as we get on so well.
• Answered the question “I've been what I can't really name more than being just a booty call for the last 20yrs to the same guy..it's time to break away right? It's so hard as we get on so well.”
• Commented on What's the difference between a man in love and a woman in love? I heard guys, when they do fall in love, fall harder than women. Is that true?
• Answered the question “Follow Up Answer. My body and its imperfections continue to be deal breakers with men. They say I look far more attractive than I actually am & they feel mislead/disappointed. The constant rejection is dif”
• Commented on Why do guys distance themselves when they are going through something (ie. Family issues, work stress) why do they disappear then re-surface once everything is good?
• Answered the question “What's the difference between a man in love and a woman in love? I heard guys, when they do fall in love, fall harder than women. Is that true?”
• Answered the question “♥♥♥ I am not sure which among you are dads (MM, GBff, WA and FG?), but HaPpY FaThErS' DaY! Just wanted to greet you all and say we truly appreciate you men. ♥♥♥”
• Commented on Why do guys distance themselves when they are going through something (ie. Family issues, work stress) why do they disappear then re-surface once everything is good?
• Commented on Why do guys distance themselves when they are going through something (ie. Family issues, work stress) why do they disappear then re-surface once everything is good?
• Commented on You Buy It, You Own It. Don't You?
• Commented on Dear MM, I want to keep my bf. Should I trick him by getting pregnant with his baby? P.S. he is moving over 10,000 miles away and we are very happy together
• Commented on Why do guys distance themselves when they are going through something (ie. Family issues, work stress) why do they disappear then re-surface once everything is good?
• Commented on Kim Kardashian Is Getting Married On Sunday. Would You Want a Lavish or Simple Wedding?
• Commented on Is it okay to pursue a relationship with a married man, if he doesn't have kids and realized that his wife isn't the person he thought she was? I DON'T approve of cheating, and I wouldn't sleep with him until he was free, but I still wonder if it's okay
• Answered the question “Why do guys distance themselves when they are going through something (ie. Family issues, work stress) why do they disappear then re-surface once everything is good?”
• Posted You Buy It, You Own It. Don't You? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Bonus Blog: Inferiority Is Just A Word
• Commented on How much of our problems can we unload to a guy?
• Commented on The Perfect Woman
• Answered the question “Is it okay to pursue a relationship with a married man, if he doesn't have kids and realized that his wife isn't the person he thought she was? I DON'T approve of cheating, and I wouldn't sleep with him until he was free, but I still wonder if it's okay ”
• Commented on My boyfriend calls me whore,slut,bitch,dyke an then says hes joking. Ive told him this hurts my feelings, and he'll stop for a few days and then he does it again. I dont know if I should stick around to see if he changes, or kick his ass to the curb. Advi
• Answered the question “Do you think when the right person happens into our life..., we drop our walls a bit to let them in? I sure hope so because I can't find a way out on my own.”
• Commented on Dear MM, I want to keep my bf. Should I trick him by getting pregnant with his baby? P.S. he is moving over 10,000 miles away and we are very happy together
• Answered the question “Dear MM, I want to keep my bf. Should I trick him by getting pregnant with his baby? P.S. he is moving over 10,000 miles away and we are very happy together”
• Posted “Sexpert” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I'm 22 years old and my first love passed away earlier this year. He was the first guy I've ever genuinely and unconditionally cared for. I know he will always be in my heart because he meant a lot to me but sometimes I worry if I will ever love anyone in”
• Commented on My boyfriend calls me whore,slut,bitch,dyke an then says hes joking. Ive told him this hurts my feelings, and he'll stop for a few days and then he does it again. I dont know if I should stick around to see if he changes, or kick his ass to the curb. Advi
• Commented on The Perfect Woman
• Answered the question “My boyfriend calls me whore,slut,bitch,dyke an then says hes joking. Ive told him this hurts my feelings, and he'll stop for a few days and then he does it again. I dont know if I should stick around to see if he changes, or kick his ass to the curb. Advi”
• Answered the question “Mr scary smiling hat.My guy is seriously turning me off with his enthusiasm. He calls too much, compliments me too much, everything too much. I'm terrified I'll lose interest, because I really like him. Tell him, but how? Only known him for a month, t”
• Commented on The Perfect Woman
• Commented on The Perfect Woman
• Answered the question “whats your opinion on ex's. do you keep them around as friends, or never see eachother again? can you talk occasionally? would the answer be different if he broke your heart/you broke his? my ex is friends with all of his ex's. but im not speaking to him,”
• Posted The Perfect Woman to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on How can I get my boyfriend to buy me a piece of diamond jewelry without outright asking him?? We've been together 4 years, and we're not looking into marriage anytime soon so I'm not talking about an engagement ring here; I just think that after 4 years,
• Commented on A Token System for Sex? Guy Group Question!
• Posted “Billy (or Billy Wizz)” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Hi MM! My guy complains about his mothers' behaviour, but he does exactly the same things she does without knowing it! If the answer to his "issue" is smacking me in the face, can I tell him, or is that too shrinky?”
• Answered the question “Hi Mystery Man!. What do you think makes a woman great in bed?”
• Posted Bonus Blog: Inferiority Is Just A Word to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm 24 and just recently moved in with my bf. And ever since I moved my bff has gone batshit crazy jealous. Help! She goes out 4 times a week and whenever I don't go she says I put my bf b4 her. I work 50 hrs per week and go to grad school pt, I'm not goi”
• Commented on I'm Catholic and my boyfriend is Jewish. His family wants me to convert so that the children are Jewish. I'm not serious about my Catholicism as it is and my boyfriend isn't serious about his religion either, he just doesn't want his parents mad at him.
• Answered the question “Readers Respond: Is it possible to move past cheating in a relationship? ”
• Answered the question “I'm Catholic and my boyfriend is Jewish. His family wants me to convert so that the children are Jewish. I'm not serious about my Catholicism as it is and my boyfriend isn't serious about his religion either, he just doesn't want his parents mad at him.”
• Answered the question “im a 22 year old woman.why do i hardly ever want sex? and my boyfriend would have it 3 times a day if he could? whats wrong with me?”
• Answered the question “MM, my alcoholic ex says I'm the only person he doesn't have to drink near but my gut tells me he doesn't want to get back together. Thing is, I'm taking him to rehab next week (his request, hoping he doesn't change his mind) but I'm wondering what sort o”
• Commented on Strong Walls Make For Poor Lovers
• Commented on I feel strong emotions for a guy that I'm dating. I freaked out about it one night and said that I just couldn't see him anymore. The night morning, I realized my foolishness and apologized. Although he said that he also regrets that night, he's been dist
• Answered the question “I feel strong emotions for a guy that I'm dating. I freaked out about it one night and said that I just couldn't see him anymore. The night morning, I realized my foolishness and apologized. Although he said that he also regrets that night, he's been dist”
• Commented on MM, I am a strong Christian and I want to know how you and other non-Christians feel about us talking about and sharing our faith... do you see it as pushy or arrogant? and what about a situation where a friend is asking big life questions and I feel like
• Commented on I have Crohn's disease, which is not what we can call a glamourous condition, and I'm not ashamed of it but obviously it has to come up at some point with guys (I'm gonna get sick and can't just disappear for a week), how, and at which point during the re
• Commented on Can Something You Own Get You Laid? GuySpeak Group Question!
• Posted Strong Walls Make For Poor Lovers to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Vidiot trance” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My boyfriend frequently calls me "mom" and sometimes "sis"when we are having sex....your thoughts?”
• Answered the question “how are you so werid”
• Commented on MM, I am a strong Christian and I want to know how you and other non-Christians feel about us talking about and sharing our faith... do you see it as pushy or arrogant? and what about a situation where a friend is asking big life questions and I feel like
• Commented on MM, I am a strong Christian and I want to know how you and other non-Christians feel about us talking about and sharing our faith... do you see it as pushy or arrogant? and what about a situation where a friend is asking big life questions and I feel like
• Answered the question “Hi, MM.How disturbed I should be about being hit on by 2 of my 14 year old male students (I'm 30).I'd expect this more from 17 or 18 year olds.I know that society(through media/fashion) has over-sexualized girls.Do you think my students' behavior is a sym”
• Answered the question “MM, I am a strong Christian and I want to know how you and other non-Christians feel about us talking about and sharing our faith... do you see it as pushy or arrogant? and what about a situation where a friend is asking big life questions and I feel like”
• Commented on Help me, I am freaking out! My bfs mother is coming to stay in our tiny apartment for a month. She does not speak English or any other language I speak. My bf is away 3-4 nights during the wk due to work- so there will be times when its just us - alone! I
• Answered the question “Help me, I am freaking out! My bfs mother is coming to stay in our tiny apartment for a month. She does not speak English or any other language I speak. My bf is away 3-4 nights during the wk due to work- so there will be times when its just us - alone! I”
• Commented on Why are guys so obsessed with their dicks?
• Answered the question “Why are guys so obsessed with their dicks?”
• Answered the question “Long story short, MM, I cheated with a single guy, then confessed to the guy I wronged and broke up with him. Now I've been with the guy I cheated with for a year and a half and I still worry constantly about whether or not he trusts me. He says he does, ”
• Commented on MM, I'm nearing my late 20s, have things that I am passionate about and pursuing, and am happy with my life, but my lack of relationship experience is starting to kill my confidence. I've never had a boyfriend, though I was in love once. Why does this sca
• Commented on Similarity Is Over-rated
• Commented on MM, I'm nearing my late 20s, have things that I am passionate about and pursuing, and am happy with my life, but my lack of relationship experience is starting to kill my confidence. I've never had a boyfriend, though I was in love once. Why does this sca
• Answered the question “MM, I'm nearing my late 20s, have things that I am passionate about and pursuing, and am happy with my life, but my lack of relationship experience is starting to kill my confidence. I've never had a boyfriend, though I was in love once. Why does this sca”
• Answered the question “Why do I fall for men so easily? I start talking to a guy & if I like him just a little bit, all I think about is him, I dream about him everynight & I get really anxious if I don't hear from them for a period of time. I also put my male friendships on a ”
• Posted Similarity Is Over-rated to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on MM, my impression of you thru your answers & your shared personal stories is that you're used to the idea of a clean slate. I've screwed up w/men, friends, academics. I'm scared these mistakes are irrevocable. I want a clean slate, but I know it can only
• Answered the question “You know that time after a big fight when the two people are sulking, and even though both of them want to snap out of it, they just can't? Because the atmosphere is ruined. Do you have any tips to get out of that zone fast? It can last hours.”
• Posted “Johnny” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Share Your GuySpeak Success Stories With Us
• Answered the question “O MM, Is it unreasonable for me to ask my BF not to be "friends" with his ex's? He argues that they're his "friends" who mean a lot to him even though there's no more physical attraction. He keeps in touch with them on Facebook and on the phone, etc. I”
• Answered the question “What do you say to your friend who is 19 and just converted from being Italian and Catholic to Muslim and wears a sari now? She got engaged too and everything is happening all at once and I don't know how to react. I'm 19 too”
• Commented on Share Your GuySpeak Success Stories With Us
• Commented on Share Your GuySpeak Success Stories With Us
• Commented on Share Your GuySpeak Success Stories With Us
• Answered the question “MM, I'm taking a summer class and really need it for graduation next year. My bf signed up for the same exact class and got in. It's our first ever class together and I'm hating it. He tries to rub my back in class, hold hands, etc. and gets mad when I te”
• Commented on My fiance is the love of my life. We work so well together. He helped me work through my body insecurities and trust issues, HE made me feel like a queen. Recently He admitted to the fact that he looks at porn AND Facebook pictures of my friends. This was
• Answered the question “Hi MM, Remeber me the student who was in educational Distress? Well actually to manage to pull my nerves 2gether and now just before the main exam, my dad dies in another country aswell. Life for some reason isn't favouring me at the moment. I'm dont like”
• Answered the question “My fiance is the love of my life. We work so well together. He helped me work through my body insecurities and trust issues, HE made me feel like a queen. Recently He admitted to the fact that he looks at porn AND Facebook pictures of my friends. This was”
• Commented on I have somewhat of a mini celebrity for a fiance. I'm an average looking girl who is constantly trying to improve herself. However he has to continuously work with models and gorgeous actresses, and it's definitely taking a toll on my self-esteem. Any adv
• Commented on Hey guys...so heres the situation..I met a girl a couple months ago . She says all the right things and that she likes me , but she also doesnt seem to have much time...She does have a very demanding job and two kids. She also says shes being cautious bec
• Answered the question “Im a muslim, dating someone out of my religion (Druze). I've lied to my parents about his religion so they wouldnt end it. And my boyfriend and I could have a future through civil marriage, but probably being shut out from our families and the society. Re”
• Answered the question “Hey guys...so heres the situation..I met a girl a couple months ago . She says all the right things and that she likes me , but she also doesnt seem to have much time...She does have a very demanding job and two kids. She also says shes being cautious bec”
• Answered the question “I have somewhat of a mini celebrity for a fiance. I'm an average looking girl who is constantly trying to improve herself. However he has to continuously work with models and gorgeous actresses, and it's definitely taking a toll on my self-esteem. Any adv”
• Posted Sometimes Life Just Works Out to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “MM, I asked this question before but I'm going to ask again. I just graduated from a really good college, but my grades were pretty low because of family/personal problems. Is it unrealistic for me to plan to go to grad school with such a low gpa? I've he”
• Commented on what does it mean if your boyfriend texts you that yall cant text because his wife is home, but the he doesnt text you while hes at work like he usually does
• Answered the question “MM, my impression of you thru your answers & your shared personal stories is that you're used to the idea of a clean slate. I've screwed up w/men, friends, academics. I'm scared these mistakes are irrevocable. I want a clean slate, but I know it can only ”
• Commented on I believe my wife has an unrealistic view of the male sex drive. She is convinced that "normal" men chase their women around the house with their tongues hanging out 24/7. What are some resources I could use to show her that 2-4 times a week is really no
• Answered the question “what does comando mean?”
• Answered the question “I believe my wife has an unrealistic view of the male sex drive. She is convinced that "normal" men chase their women around the house with their tongues hanging out 24/7. What are some resources I could use to show her that 2-4 times a week is really no”
• Answered the question “Help. I've tried talking to a therapist about my anxiety but she didn't seem to undestand the extent of what is going on and just told me to stop stressing so much. Truth is I'm almost to a point where I'm afraid of myself. I've changed alot lately and ha”
• Posted “Flailure” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on MM, I am FREAKING out. My (abusive) ex dropped off a letter for me! Like, actually CAME and put it in the mailbox. Though the letter isn't malicious or anything, it scares me that my ABUSER came to my HOUSE. What should I do?? I'm worried he won't let thi
• Answered the question “I watch a lot of CSI, SVU etc. and in one of the recent episodes they mentioned how it was impossible to roofie/date rape a guy because they wouldn't get it up. is this true? because if it is I've accidentally caught my BFF's BF lying He said he lost his ”
• Commented on what does it mean if your boyfriend texts you that yall cant text because his wife is home, but the he doesnt text you while hes at work like he usually does
• Posted The May Interview: Deadlier Than The Male to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “MM, I am FREAKING out. My (abusive) ex dropped off a letter for me! Like, actually CAME and put it in the mailbox. Though the letter isn't malicious or anything, it scares me that my ABUSER came to my HOUSE. What should I do?? I'm worried he won't let thi”
• Commented on i know that life is about more than guys and i want to pursue writing, but there's always this voice in my head that says I should be focused on finding someone (I'm 30). Any advice?
• Answered the question “what does it mean if your boyfriend texts you that yall cant text because his wife is home, but the he doesnt text you while hes at work like he usually does”
• Answered the question “i know that life is about more than guys and i want to pursue writing, but there's always this voice in my head that says I should be focused on finding someone (I'm 30). Any advice?”
• Commented on My father drinks 1-3 bottles of wine every single night of the week. He can barely speak or keep his eyes open as the evenings progress.My family ignore this.I have told him he drinks far too much many times and he dismisses me. He isn't young and I am wo
• Commented on how do you tell if a guy is gay and hes just acting straight for what ever reason.
• Answered the question “My grandma is very close to passing away, and my dad has made it clear that he will not attend her funeral without his girlfriend/former mistress. This woman has been abusive towards me, my siblings, my mother, and our extended family; we do not want her ”
• Posted “BloJoe” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “how do you tell if a guy is gay and hes just acting straight for what ever reason.”
• Commented on From a guys opinion, do you think women expect too much from guys?
• Commented on From a guys opinion, do you think women expect too much from guys?
• Answered the question “From a guys opinion, do you think women expect too much from guys?”
• Commented on My father drinks 1-3 bottles of wine every single night of the week. He can barely speak or keep his eyes open as the evenings progress.My family ignore this.I have told him he drinks far too much many times and he dismisses me. He isn't young and I am wo
• Commented on The Social Network: 2011 Version
• Commented on My father drinks 1-3 bottles of wine every single night of the week. He can barely speak or keep his eyes open as the evenings progress.My family ignore this.I have told him he drinks far too much many times and he dismisses me. He isn't young and I am wo
• Answered the question “My father drinks 1-3 bottles of wine every single night of the week. He can barely speak or keep his eyes open as the evenings progress.My family ignore this.I have told him he drinks far too much many times and he dismisses me. He isn't young and I am wo”
• Commented on loyalty is dead/true love is a fairy tale/what good are virtues if they make you stuck up/superficiality is the new good/if it seems too good to be true it probably is/people love you for what they can get out of you--not for you/strength is found when em
• Answered the question “I grew up with an emotionally abusive father, and I think I have "daddy issues." I'm finally seeing all the damage it's done to past relationships, and it makes me feel resentful and weak. Is this fixable? And how? I'm not really sure what to do...”
• Commented on Readers Respond: I met this Spanish guy in a fair and we kissed,touched and i gave him bj,but we hadn't have sex.He said in the fair he stopped for me not for the products and i have a feeling for him.But he gone back to Spain the next day
• Posted The Social Network: 2011 Version to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Readers Respond: I met this Spanish guy in a fair and we kissed,touched and i gave him bj,but we hadn't have sex.He said in the fair he stopped for me not for the products and i have a feeling for him.But he gone back to Spain the next day”
• Answered the question “Hi MM, quick question: is it EVER an okay idea to try to be friends again with an ex-partner that abused you in the past?”
• Posted A Short FB Chat With MM. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Four first dates in a row, when the check arrives, the man has asked me how I feel about traditional gender roles in relationships. It took me until number three to realize they wanted me to pay half the bill. Others, when I've offered to contribute, ref
• Commented on loyalty is dead/true love is a fairy tale/what good are virtues if they make you stuck up/superficiality is the new good/if it seems too good to be true it probably is/people love you for what they can get out of you--not for you/strength is found when em
• Answered the question “Hi MM, I need urgent help (in tear that I don't knw wht to do). I'm in stress/panic due to my bachelor degree to such an extend tht I sometimes think if I ended up in a hospital I wouldn't be exposed to this no longer. It's causing me great misery. Yet I”
• Answered the question “Four first dates in a row, when the check arrives, the man has asked me how I feel about traditional gender roles in relationships. It took me until number three to realize they wanted me to pay half the bill. Others, when I've offered to contribute, ref”
• Answered the question “loyalty is dead/true love is a fairy tale/what good are virtues if they make you stuck up/superficiality is the new good/if it seems too good to be true it probably is/people love you for what they can get out of you--not for you/strength is found when em”
• Commented on I have been cheating on my boyfriend of 10 months.It's sexual,thats it. He doesn't "do it" for me sexually. We've tried to have sex,but it just doesn't work out. Do I tell him I cheated? I don't wanna lose him! Idk what to do!
• Posted “Butterfly” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on I have a male co-worker. We're the same age, level and pay grade. He's extremely disrespectful to me, tells me my ideas are silly and makes fun of me in front of the junior staff. I found out I'm getting promoted at my next review - how can I handle th
• Answered the question “How forthcoming are college guys with STDs about having them?”
• Commented on I have been cheating on my boyfriend of 10 months.It's sexual,thats it. He doesn't "do it" for me sexually. We've tried to have sex,but it just doesn't work out. Do I tell him I cheated? I don't wanna lose him! Idk what to do!
• Answered the question “I have been cheating on my boyfriend of 10 months.It's sexual,thats it. He doesn't "do it" for me sexually. We've tried to have sex,but it just doesn't work out. Do I tell him I cheated? I don't wanna lose him! Idk what to do!”
• Posted The Wedding Aftermath: A Report From The Front to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on As a Christian it is expected to wait til marrage. I have been dateing this guy for over a year. He is in the military and will be back soon after being away for months. It would be unrealistic if I thought we Couldn't get carried away. We plan on getting
• Answered the question “I have a male co-worker. We're the same age, level and pay grade. He's extremely disrespectful to me, tells me my ideas are silly and makes fun of me in front of the junior staff. I found out I'm getting promoted at my next review - how can I handle th”
• Commented on Bonus Blog: When Is A Person Not A Person?
• Commented on Bonus Blog: When Is A Person Not A Person?
• Commented on As a Christian it is expected to wait til marrage. I have been dateing this guy for over a year. He is in the military and will be back soon after being away for months. It would be unrealistic if I thought we Couldn't get carried away. We plan on getting
• Answered the question “As a Christian it is expected to wait til marrage. I have been dateing this guy for over a year. He is in the military and will be back soon after being away for months. It would be unrealistic if I thought we Couldn't get carried away. We plan on getting”
• Posted Bonus Blog: When Is A Person Not A Person? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Oh wise Mystery Man, please help, I feel so bummed out and confused. Why won't my crush for over a year ask me out? I am positive he likes me back, and has for quite some time. We talk all the time, walk to classes together, etc. He even told my friend th”
• Commented on How serious of a "Crime" does a person commit in order to get a restraining order against them? I burned the bridge with a friend and now she's trying to go through all my friends to talk to me and she harassed my family before and would randomly call at
• Answered the question “How serious of a "Crime" does a person commit in order to get a restraining order against them? I burned the bridge with a friend and now she's trying to go through all my friends to talk to me and she harassed my family before and would randomly call at ”
• Commented on is it true that men respond to distance? 4 yrs post divorce dating still makes me feel sometimes like mom thats sending jello cups when all the others know fun cheez is the shit. just got flowers so pretty sure the new guy i'm dating is nuts about me, but
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy asks for your opinion”
• Commented on is it true that men respond to distance? 4 yrs post divorce dating still makes me feel sometimes like mom thats sending jello cups when all the others know fun cheez is the shit. just got flowers so pretty sure the new guy i'm dating is nuts about me, but
• Commented on Creepshow: Media Edition
• Posted “Cellfish” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Bonjour MM! Timing. How important is timing for guys in the process of falling in love? You meet a girl. You like her, she's great, but you're just not ready (no steady job, not sure what the future holds). Would you say that timing is a good excuse for b
• Commented on is it true that men respond to distance? 4 yrs post divorce dating still makes me feel sometimes like mom thats sending jello cups when all the others know fun cheez is the shit. just got flowers so pretty sure the new guy i'm dating is nuts about me, but
• Answered the question “Why is it that when men cheat, the other woman gets all the blame? What about the guy, he is just as much an active participant? Obviously something is missing from his current relationship allowing him to think its OK to cheat.”
• Commented on Is Your Bedroom Turning Guys Off? GuySpeak Group Question!
• Commented on I have a boyfriend who hits me. But I really truly love him and he is convincing me that he will change.
• Answered the question “is it true that men respond to distance? 4 yrs post divorce dating still makes me feel sometimes like mom thats sending jello cups when all the others know fun cheez is the shit. just got flowers so pretty sure the new guy i'm dating is nuts about me, but”
• Posted Creepshow: Media Edition to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Male Teasing? A friend or not a friend? (In other words... is he teasing like a brother or someone who is a bit more interested) AKA "ohhhhh here's ___________ my amazing chemistry class friend"...”
• Commented on How do you go about letting the past go? I had so many bad experiences last year that I have let it affect my current sense of self worth. I just don't have the same level of confidence that I used to. Please help.
• Posted “Suroor” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on I can't stop throwing up.There are some days I just want to shake my friends and ask them to save me but then I just feel so miserable and out of control that I slip. I want help and at the same time I want to keep going because it feels so wrong but rig
• Answered the question “what does it mean when a guy lets you drive his car?”
• Commented on My boyfriend is great, he's very nice, we never fight, and everything works out well with us and has for two years. However, I frequently get strong urges to leave him. I'm not sure why this is. Is it a good enough reason to go through with it?
• Answered the question “Bonjour MM! Timing. How important is timing for guys in the process of falling in love? You meet a girl. You like her, she's great, but you're just not ready (no steady job, not sure what the future holds). Would you say that timing is a good excuse for b”
• Answered the question “Is it bad if im only 18 and messing around with a 25 year old, and that has a girlfriend????”
• Answered the question “How do you go about letting the past go? I had so many bad experiences last year that I have let it affect my current sense of self worth. I just don't have the same level of confidence that I used to. Please help.”
• Commented on I'm an arab girl. For 5 years I had a relationship with an man and, now im not virgin he turned his back on me.
• Answered the question “I am 25 years old and almost a virgin. My lack of sexual experience has a lot to do with the depression I have struggled with for the past few years. I am finally confident enough to start dating again but how do I explain to the guy about my inexperience”
• Posted The Evolution Of An Answer - Bonus Blog to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How do you get over being jaded?”
• Commented on I'm an arab girl. For 5 years I had a relationship with an man and, now im not virgin he turned his back on me.
• Commented on In The Name Of The Father
• Commented on I'm an arab girl. For 5 years I had a relationship with an man and, now im not virgin he turned his back on me.
• Answered the question “I'm an arab girl. For 5 years I had a relationship with an man and, now im not virgin he turned his back on me.”
• Commented on I'm asking you Mystery Man, because I NEED the truth. Hubby and I havent had sex in a few weeks because I'm not satisfied anymore. Long story short, I'm a freak and I need it kinky. His idea of kinky is a quick spank on my ass. O.o Um no. My idea of ki
• Commented on My boyfriend is great, he's very nice, we never fight, and everything works out well with us and has for two years. However, I frequently get strong urges to leave him. I'm not sure why this is. Is it a good enough reason to go through with it?
• Answered the question “I'm asking you Mystery Man, because I NEED the truth. Hubby and I havent had sex in a few weeks because I'm not satisfied anymore. Long story short, I'm a freak and I need it kinky. His idea of kinky is a quick spank on my ass. O.o Um no. My idea of ki”
• Commented on In The Name Of The Father
• Commented on I was raped by my boyfriend's friend. The friend is also a married man. I would like to tell my boyfriend, but I feel afraid & I'm unsure if I should. I also don't know how to find the right words every time I try. Should I say something or take this t
• Posted In The Name Of The Father to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is great, he's very nice, we never fight, and everything works out well with us and has for two years. However, I frequently get strong urges to leave him. I'm not sure why this is. Is it a good enough reason to go through with it?”
• Commented on Is it better to be with someone who makes you happy but never on a consistent basis (I'd say 25% of the time), or to be alone?
• Answered the question “I am the main breadwinner, while he contributes some (as I have a much better paying future). He still wants me to do most of the "female" things around the house, go to grad school AND work, while he is not working (just got laid off) and is in school. H”
• Commented on Is it better to be with someone who makes you happy but never on a consistent basis (I'd say 25% of the time), or to be alone?
• Answered the question “Is it better to be with someone who makes you happy but never on a consistent basis (I'd say 25% of the time), or to be alone?”
• Commented on What do you think of France's decision to ban the burqa?
• Posted “Sinnuendo” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Help! My fiance was physically abused by his parents growing up(hitting, kicking, etc.), but he doesn't see anything wrong with being raised this way. How do I tell him it will NOT be okay to do this with our children without sounding insulting to his par
• Answered the question “What do you think of France's decision to ban the burqa?”
• Commented on I was raped by my boyfriend's friend. The friend is also a married man. I would like to tell my boyfriend, but I feel afraid & I'm unsure if I should. I also don't know how to find the right words every time I try. Should I say something or take this t
• Commented on How To Improve The Chances That Your Question Will Be Answered
• Answered the question “With the latest blog by GBFF (emotional Tampon)I don't know what to do! Mystery Man, tell me this: Is it ever ok to tell a guy the not so pretty side of my life?I come from a pretty heavy background and I want to be able to tell guys about it at some po”
• Answered the question “I was raped by my boyfriend's friend. The friend is also a married man. I would like to tell my boyfriend, but I feel afraid & I'm unsure if I should. I also don't know how to find the right words every time I try. Should I say something or take this t”
• Answered the question “So how exactly do you go about picking questions to answer?”
• Commented on I have a intimate (not physical) friendship with an emotionally disturbed man. It took a LONG time to trust me, and he needs the stability of the friendship, as well as someone in his life (no family) that understands, and treats him like a human. We have
• Answered the question “I have a intimate (not physical) friendship with an emotionally disturbed man. It took a LONG time to trust me, and he needs the stability of the friendship, as well as someone in his life (no family) that understands, and treats him like a human. We have”
• Posted The April Interview: Macho Guys and the Art Of Humor to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hey mystery man! So there is this guy that totally led me on and totally played me. I feel like an idiot. Its been like 3 months and im still really mad. Is it stupid to go tell him off and speak my mind or should I just let it go, letting him feel like h”
• Commented on love to know what you think about this: is it truly better to be alone in life or in a relationship with someone you don't love? or is that just something i tell myself to make myself feel better?
• Commented on My brother seems to lack "life skills." He doesn't know how to sleep, eat, study etc. He got kicked out of two high schools and is flunking college. My parents are desperate. I think volunteer work abroad might help. What can we do to make him realize he
• Commented on I find myself getting increasingly frustrated and disheartened by my own increasing awareness of sexual assault and misogyny in our culture. What are things I, a college student, can do to change this? It's heartbreaking.
• Answered the question “is it ok to kiss on the first date?”
• Commented on Some Things Can't Be Fixed
• Answered the question “I find myself getting increasingly frustrated and disheartened by my own increasing awareness of sexual assault and misogyny in our culture. What are things I, a college student, can do to change this? It's heartbreaking.”
• Posted “Prissypuss” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on My brother seems to lack "life skills." He doesn't know how to sleep, eat, study etc. He got kicked out of two high schools and is flunking college. My parents are desperate. I think volunteer work abroad might help. What can we do to make him realize he
• Commented on Please help; I am in love with a married man. We worked together for 6 years and became great friends. I moved away from him thinking 'out of sight out of mind'. It has been 2 years and I still love him and think of him daily. I will not be with him while
• Commented on I am a girl interested in learning more about cars (the mechanic side of fixing, etc) and I don't really know where to go to get that info. I have a full time job, but I would like to do this on the side. Any suggestions? I don't know any guy friends that
• Answered the question “I am a girl interested in learning more about cars (the mechanic side of fixing, etc) and I don't really know where to go to get that info. I have a full time job, but I would like to do this on the side. Any suggestions? I don't know any guy friends that”
• Answered the question “Please help; I am in love with a married man. We worked together for 6 years and became great friends. I moved away from him thinking 'out of sight out of mind'. It has been 2 years and I still love him and think of him daily. I will not be with him while”
• Answered the question “My brother seems to lack "life skills." He doesn't know how to sleep, eat, study etc. He got kicked out of two high schools and is flunking college. My parents are desperate. I think volunteer work abroad might help. What can we do to make him realize he ”
• Commented on love to know what you think about this: is it truly better to be alone in life or in a relationship with someone you don't love? or is that just something i tell myself to make myself feel better?
• Answered the question “what does it mean when your bf no longer wants to live with you?”
• Commented on have you ever used a girl as your psychiatrist? as in, you weren't really in love with her but she was always there to listen about your issues?
• Answered the question “My husband and I are going through infertility treatments after 7 years of trying for a baby. Now I only want to have sex when there might be a slim chance of conceiving. The rest of the month? Not so much. What can I do to rev up the whole month?”
• Answered the question “love to know what you think about this: is it truly better to be alone in life or in a relationship with someone you don't love? or is that just something i tell myself to make myself feel better?”
• Answered the question “Whenever Im on dating sites,TONS of men seem open to a three way relationship,open relationships, etc. What gives?Even the nerdiest guy possible states they are open to it. I know about the nature of men(more ladies, more babies to pass on their genes, e”
• Posted Adventures In DIY: The Single Gal's Guide to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Just found out I'm pregnant despite always using contraception. I want to just get an abortion without telling my boyfriend of a few months (who I know would really want to keep it) because I really can't deal with a baby in my life right now. Would this
• Answered the question “have you ever used a girl as your psychiatrist? as in, you weren't really in love with her but she was always there to listen about your issues?”
• Posted “Sadvantage” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on For the first time in my life, I just don't know whether to stay or get out. It's driving me mad! PLEASE - do u have some quantifiable method of figuring out whether it's worth it? What if u still love being with someone and it FEELS amazing, but they wer
• Commented on After catching someone trying to sneakily take a picture of my cleavage with his cellphone (hello, yes I caught you asshole) I'm wondering just how common is this? Personally I think it's a damn creeper thing to do but how do you feel about it? Is this fo
• Answered the question “For the first time in my life, I just don't know whether to stay or get out. It's driving me mad! PLEASE - do u have some quantifiable method of figuring out whether it's worth it? What if u still love being with someone and it FEELS amazing, but they wer”
• Commented on Just found out I'm pregnant despite always using contraception. I want to just get an abortion without telling my boyfriend of a few months (who I know would really want to keep it) because I really can't deal with a baby in my life right now. Would this
• Commented on Just found out I'm pregnant despite always using contraception. I want to just get an abortion without telling my boyfriend of a few months (who I know would really want to keep it) because I really can't deal with a baby in my life right now. Would this
• Commented on Just found out I'm pregnant despite always using contraception. I want to just get an abortion without telling my boyfriend of a few months (who I know would really want to keep it) because I really can't deal with a baby in my life right now. Would this
• Answered the question “Just found out I'm pregnant despite always using contraception. I want to just get an abortion without telling my boyfriend of a few months (who I know would really want to keep it) because I really can't deal with a baby in my life right now. Would this”
• Answered the question “I am single. I am told I am hot and am an interesting person. Work takes a lot of my life so I don't go out much. I dated online and met a lot of so-so/not-so guys who seemed really excited by me. I just want an amazing guy in my life. You know, the kind ”
• Answered the question “Hi MM: I'm in a terrible situation- one of my best friends is in an emotionally abusive relationship, and he's making her depressed and brainwashed. What can I say to her to make her see what's happening? Also, she's the type who always does the opposite ”
• Commented on I've got a tough one for you, MM. Do you believe that there's a point in a relationship when you consciously make the decision of staying "in love"; or do you think that those feelings either stay or go away, and there's nothing you can do about it?
• Answered the question “Be honest with me, MM. Does sex lose its emotional value the more people you've done it with?”
• Commented on Some Things Can't Be Fixed
• Commented on It's possible I need a reality check, but I'd like to hear it from you, if so. If a guy isn't looking for a commitment, is there any way this can change? We're talking a 21 year-old here. We had conflicting desires in the beginning, so we decided to stay
• Commented on How to get your ex back, give your BF good hand and get rid of a creep: GuySpeak's Best of the Week!
• Answered the question “It's possible I need a reality check, but I'd like to hear it from you, if so. If a guy isn't looking for a commitment, is there any way this can change? We're talking a 21 year-old here. We had conflicting desires in the beginning, so we decided to stay ”
• Posted Some Things Can't Be Fixed to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I've got a tough one for you, MM. Do you believe that there's a point in a relationship when you consciously make the decision of staying "in love"; or do you think that those feelings either stay or go away, and there's nothing you can do about it?
• Posted “Eye slide” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “After catching someone trying to sneakily take a picture of my cleavage with his cellphone (hello, yes I caught you asshole) I'm wondering just how common is this? Personally I think it's a damn creeper thing to do but how do you feel about it? Is this fo”
• Answered the question “I've got a tough one for you, MM. Do you believe that there's a point in a relationship when you consciously make the decision of staying "in love"; or do you think that those feelings either stay or go away, and there's nothing you can do about it?”
• Commented on I've always heard it said that guys like a girl with some curves, not stick-thin. However, there's a new girl at work who has a decent face but is literally skin and bones, yet all the guys are falling over themselves to ask her out. Do guys really dig th
• Commented on What do you do when you're never good enough? I try but I fail at everything. And I can no longer afford for my mistakes/ inabilities to affect others. This probably my fourth unanswered question btw. Guess I should stop asking questions.
• Answered the question “I've always heard it said that guys like a girl with some curves, not stick-thin. However, there's a new girl at work who has a decent face but is literally skin and bones, yet all the guys are falling over themselves to ask her out. Do guys really dig th”
• Answered the question “MM, you seem to know most about psych. My parents were married for 21 years and had crazy horrible fights for the last 6, and got a divorce last summer. Now whenever I see couples fight (aunt/uncle, roommate/boyfriend, cousin/spouse) I freak out and start”
• Commented on I can't stop throwing up.There are some days I just want to shake my friends and ask them to save me but then I just feel so miserable and out of control that I slip. I want help and at the same time I want to keep going because it feels so wrong but rig
• Commented on Hello MM no guys on this site have addressed the "CREEPY" factor that some guys seem to exhibit. Why do so many men come off creepy when they hit on the ladies? And are they aware of this? I know most of them are harmless and (lets hope) have good intenti
• Commented on Hello MM no guys on this site have addressed the "CREEPY" factor that some guys seem to exhibit. Why do so many men come off creepy when they hit on the ladies? And are they aware of this? I know most of them are harmless and (lets hope) have good intenti
• Commented on Hello MM no guys on this site have addressed the "CREEPY" factor that some guys seem to exhibit. Why do so many men come off creepy when they hit on the ladies? And are they aware of this? I know most of them are harmless and (lets hope) have good intenti
• Commented on mystery man, i found out recently that my boyfriend of 2 years once went to a strip club after we had a fight. it obviously bothers me but he says he wasnt thinking then and that he didnt even like it. is it even possible for a guy to not enjoy strip club
• Commented on Is it okay to have doubts about a long-term serious relationship?
• Answered the question “Hello MM no guys on this site have addressed the "CREEPY" factor that some guys seem to exhibit. Why do so many men come off creepy when they hit on the ladies? And are they aware of this? I know most of them are harmless and (lets hope) have good intenti”
• Answered the question “mystery man, i found out recently that my boyfriend of 2 years once went to a strip club after we had a fight. it obviously bothers me but he says he wasnt thinking then and that he didnt even like it. is it even possible for a guy to not enjoy strip club”
• Commented on I can't stop throwing up.There are some days I just want to shake my friends and ask them to save me but then I just feel so miserable and out of control that I slip. I want help and at the same time I want to keep going because it feels so wrong but rig
• Commented on Im not very experienced sexually. Im 21 and my bf's 25. While having intercourse, he came quickly. I really didnt know what happened so I asked concernedly "Whats wrong?, Are you okay?" I didnt know! Wasnt thinking! I feel bad about it, he seemed really e
• Commented on I can't stop throwing up.There are some days I just want to shake my friends and ask them to save me but then I just feel so miserable and out of control that I slip. I want help and at the same time I want to keep going because it feels so wrong but rig
• Posted Mistakes: The 6 Biggest Ones You Will Ever Make to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I can't stop throwing up.There are some days I just want to shake my friends and ask them to save me but then I just feel so miserable and out of control that I slip. I want help and at the same time I want to keep going because it feels so wrong but rig”
• Answered the question “Im not very experienced sexually. Im 21 and my bf's 25. While having intercourse, he came quickly. I really didnt know what happened so I asked concernedly "Whats wrong?, Are you okay?" I didnt know! Wasnt thinking! I feel bad about it, he seemed really e”
• Answered the question “Hi Mystery man, may you please explain what goes through the male mind when he finds out his woman is pregnant? My guy and I have been in a relationship for almost two years and I just found out I am 5 weeks pregnant. He has gotten distant since the news ”
• Answered the question “I gotta ask your opinion cause you always give the truest answers: boyfriend in the marines, send him the naked picture or not?”
• Answered the question “What do you do when you're never good enough? I try but I fail at everything. And I can no longer afford for my mistakes/ inabilities to affect others. This probably my fourth unanswered question btw. Guess I should stop asking questions.”
• Commented on I am the voice of reason and calmness for my Navy son who is stationed in Japan during this horrific time. He calls me daily for support. It's hard to get my arms around what my child is witnessing over there.
• Answered the question “My whole life I have had no reason to believe I'm anything other than straight until recently. I feel a lot of shame over this which makes no sense because I've always been the BIGGEST advocate for gay rights. Why is it that I can't seem to accept myself ”
• Commented on I am the voice of reason and calmness for my Navy son who is stationed in Japan during this horrific time. He calls me daily for support. It's hard to get my arms around what my child is witnessing over there.
• Commented on SXSW as an analogy
• Commented on why is it so hard to leave an abusive man? why do we love these kinds of men? and if we do leave them were broken and torn apart.. i never thought id be one of these "weak women" .. but i thought i found "true love" and now its so hard to just going back
• Commented on My bf is in wk 5 of outpatient rehab, recovering from a weed dependency. I've stuck by his side and tried to be supportive w/out enabling. It seems like every day there is a new fire to put out. I'm the only one he has who can help. What's the best way t
• Posted “Luser” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on How can i as a girl go about asking a guy i have class with for coffee next time we have class together without being too forward? We just started talking so i don't want to be too forward.
• Answered the question “I am the voice of reason and calmness for my Navy son who is stationed in Japan during this horrific time. He calls me daily for support. It's hard to get my arms around what my child is witnessing over there.”
• Answered the question “How can i as a girl go about asking a guy i have class with for coffee next time we have class together without being too forward? We just started talking so i don't want to be too forward.”
• Commented on MM j'adore how you handle this topic.i recently skirted my emotional abuse history on a date by joking about no ex talk on a first date. but date #2 is looming and i know he will ask more ?'s.i've done the couch time and am more confident than i've ever b
• Answered the question “My bf is in wk 5 of outpatient rehab, recovering from a weed dependency. I've stuck by his side and tried to be supportive w/out enabling. It seems like every day there is a new fire to put out. I'm the only one he has who can help. What's the best way t”
• Posted SXSW as an analogy to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on MM j'adore how you handle this topic.i recently skirted my emotional abuse history on a date by joking about no ex talk on a first date. but date #2 is looming and i know he will ask more ?'s.i've done the couch time and am more confident than i've ever b
• Commented on Is there any way to get a guy after making him too jealous? I crossed the line when I kissed someone else, even though we're only dating, not in a relationship. At any rate he now treats me as an acquaintance. Any way out of this?
• Answered the question “Is he an asshole, or a smart asshole? I get pissed off at him, he stops all contact , then talks to me again around the time when I get over the issue. I know I need to just quit seeing him (naturally he's not a bf), but I am just wondering if he knows wh”
• Answered the question “hey there M.M. so theres this guy I know thats giving off a vibe that he got the hots for me. today i got the balls to walk with him and start a conversation but i was a little nervous and slurred my words! ah, what do you think he thinks of this? im some”
• Commented on I know that most men want to have sex when they havent had it in a while. But for some reason he says he has a hard time initiating things and being romantic,flirty,etc.What can I do to make my husband want to be intimate w/out making him feel uncomfortab
• Answered the question “I know that most men want to have sex when they havent had it in a while. But for some reason he says he has a hard time initiating things and being romantic,flirty,etc.What can I do to make my husband want to be intimate w/out making him feel uncomfortab”
• Answered the question “Is there any way to get a guy after making him too jealous? I crossed the line when I kissed someone else, even though we're only dating, not in a relationship. At any rate he now treats me as an acquaintance. Any way out of this?”
• Commented on MM j'adore how you handle this topic.i recently skirted my emotional abuse history on a date by joking about no ex talk on a first date. but date #2 is looming and i know he will ask more ?'s.i've done the couch time and am more confident than i've ever b
• Answered the question “MM j'adore how you handle this topic.i recently skirted my emotional abuse history on a date by joking about no ex talk on a first date. but date #2 is looming and i know he will ask more ?'s.i've done the couch time and am more confident than i've ever b”
• Posted “Dooty Call” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on I recently entered into a relationship with a very sweet man who was honorably discharged from the army; we get along great but I feel as if I might be walking on eggshells with him. Would you have any advice to give on this subject?
• Answered the question “I recently entered into a relationship with a very sweet man who was honorably discharged from the army; we get along great but I feel as if I might be walking on eggshells with him. Would you have any advice to give on this subject?”
• Commented on why is it so hard to leave an abusive man? why do we love these kinds of men? and if we do leave them were broken and torn apart.. i never thought id be one of these "weak women" .. but i thought i found "true love" and now its so hard to just going back
• Commented on why is it so hard to leave an abusive man? why do we love these kinds of men? and if we do leave them were broken and torn apart.. i never thought id be one of these "weak women" .. but i thought i found "true love" and now its so hard to just going back
• Posted The March Interview - Not so 9-5: One Woman on Sex Work to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “why is it so hard to leave an abusive man? why do we love these kinds of men? and if we do leave them were broken and torn apart.. i never thought id be one of these "weak women" .. but i thought i found "true love" and now its so hard to just going back ”
• Answered the question “How much "Training" of a SO is acceptable before you have to say "I can't make you something you're not. So maybe you aren't the person for me."”
• Commented on Sex and the Law.
• Answered the question “So my boyfriend talks to a lot of girls on Facebook about sex stuff like 'Imma be gettin that' or 'I wanna put my DNA all over your face' and flirts with girls all the time where I can see it and he doesn't seem to care. When I confront him about it he sa”
• Commented on Is it okay to have doubts about a long-term serious relationship?
• Commented on Are there certain times/situations when it's okay to take back a cheating boyfriend?
• Answered the question “why do men keep old love letters from ex girlfriends and think its ok?”
• Commented on Sex and the Law.
• Commented on Sex and the Law.
• Commented on Please help! I'm very confused. How do I get a Nice Man to ask me out? I'm a former model, so I get plenty of looks, but no offers. What's the deal? Would it be horribly forward and slutty for me to approach a man I find attractive? How would I do it? Wha
• Commented on Please help! I'm very confused. How do I get a Nice Man to ask me out? I'm a former model, so I get plenty of looks, but no offers. What's the deal? Would it be horribly forward and slutty for me to approach a man I find attractive? How would I do it? Wha
• Answered the question “Are there certain times/situations when it's okay to take back a cheating boyfriend?”
• Commented on Sex and the Law.
• Commented on Sex and the Law.
• Posted “Gobsmacked” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on My husband won't stay off of dating sites. this makes me feel unwanted and betrayed. No trust=no sex. but even a three month no entry warning has no effect. What do I do? Divorce is not an option. Going on almost six months with no sex, he is still o
• Commented on If a man comes out of a 17 year marriage, dates a woman at work for a few months (unsuccessfully), then jumps into a 2.5 year relationship with a much younger woman, who is the rebound relationship? The 2.5er?
• Posted Sex and the Law. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “why won't my boyfriend introduce me to his kids yet?”
• Answered the question “Please help! I'm very confused. How do I get a Nice Man to ask me out? I'm a former model, so I get plenty of looks, but no offers. What's the deal? Would it be horribly forward and slutty for me to approach a man I find attractive? How would I do it? Wha”
• Commented on So my boyfriend had sex with my mom, one day after he proposed to me. We were on a vacation and i walked into our room, and saw them having sex. He has no clue that i walked in. I have no clue what to do.
• Commented on If a man comes out of a 17 year marriage, dates a woman at work for a few months (unsuccessfully), then jumps into a 2.5 year relationship with a much younger woman, who is the rebound relationship? The 2.5er?
• Commented on So my boyfriend had sex with my mom, one day after he proposed to me. We were on a vacation and i walked into our room, and saw them having sex. He has no clue that i walked in. I have no clue what to do.
• Answered the question “If a man comes out of a 17 year marriage, dates a woman at work for a few months (unsuccessfully), then jumps into a 2.5 year relationship with a much younger woman, who is the rebound relationship? The 2.5er?”
• Answered the question “Is it okay to have doubts about a long-term serious relationship?”
• Commented on MM, my bf lied to me and now I don't know if I can trust him completely, especially since past bfs have lied/cheated. I know my bf loves me and wants to make it work.Should I move on or is there a way to take it slow so I can rebuild my trust? What do I
• Commented on Replay GuySpeak.com's Oscar Blog
• Answered the question “So my boyfriend had sex with my mom, one day after he proposed to me. We were on a vacation and i walked into our room, and saw them having sex. He has no clue that i walked in. I have no clue what to do.”
• Commented on The Proposal Planner?!
• Commented on The Proposal Planner?!
• Answered the question “You seem to have established yourself as the guy to answer questions regarding abuse, insecurity, and other psychological issues... why do you think this is? You seem to have a lot of information and experience with these topics.”
• Answered the question “MM, my bf lied to me and now I don't know if I can trust him completely, especially since past bfs have lied/cheated. I know my bf loves me and wants to make it work.Should I move on or is there a way to take it slow so I can rebuild my trust? What do I ”
• Posted The Proposal Planner?! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on mystery man, i like your answers, which is why i'm asking you this. i'm a virgin. the guy i'm seeing has just told me he may have contracted hpv from a previous partner. should i let that be a factor in deciding to stay with him? i don't want to catch it,
• Commented on The guy I'm seeing has PTSD. He recently told me about shooting a 5-year-old who had a gun pointed at him & tells me he still gets the nightmares. I know he sees a shrink. But what else can I do to help him? He has been scared about really trusting me, so
• Commented on Can you love two men at the same time - one you're married to and the other one thrown at you by destiny?
• Commented on Waking a guy up with a blowjob - yes or no?
• Posted “Litergul” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “mystery man, i like your answers, which is why i'm asking you this. i'm a virgin. the guy i'm seeing has just told me he may have contracted hpv from a previous partner. should i let that be a factor in deciding to stay with him? i don't want to catch it,”
• Answered the question “Whats your opinion on feminists and feminism? Many people I know, men and women alike, think of them as overly radical lesbians who hate anything girly. So I wanted to know your guy's opinions on the subject?”
• Commented on Life will find a way
• Commented on a guy i was seeing just told me he loves spending time with and likes me a lot but doesn't want a serious relationship. is that possible? can this be true? i looked and i couldnt find this on your site, please answer. i'm totally heartbroken
• Commented on Life will find a way
• Answered the question “The guy I'm seeing has PTSD. He recently told me about shooting a 5-year-old who had a gun pointed at him & tells me he still gets the nightmares. I know he sees a shrink. But what else can I do to help him? He has been scared about really trusting me, so”
• Commented on Unanswered Questions Of The Month
• Commented on What do you think is the homemade food weakness for men?
• Posted Life will find a way to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What do you think is the homemade food weakness for men?”
• Commented on Lately I've found myself dealing with some sort of depression. How do I not let it kill my relationship of (at this point) 5 months? My guy is very sweet and usually our communication's just fine, so how do I hold onto that even when I'm feeling so awful?
• Answered the question “Lately I've found myself dealing with some sort of depression. How do I not let it kill my relationship of (at this point) 5 months? My guy is very sweet and usually our communication's just fine, so how do I hold onto that even when I'm feeling so awful?”
• Commented on Lately I've found myself dealing with some sort of depression. How do I not let it kill my relationship of (at this point) 5 months? My guy is very sweet and usually our communication's just fine, so how do I hold onto that even when I'm feeling so awful?
• Commented on Do real men cry?
• Commented on How did you become so wise and all-knowing, mystery man?
• Commented on I am dreadful on top during sex, something to do with co-ordinating the rhythm of my hips with their thrusting, so i prefer to be submissive. Is this a problem for most guys? I worry that they think i'm lazy as opposed to cripplingly embarrassed of f- ups
• Commented on Can you love two men at the same time - one you're married to and the other one thrown at you by destiny?
• Commented on I'm a single parent and am trying online dating for the first time. My daughter has special needs and I'm unsure if I should include that information in my online profile or wait until later to disclose it. I strongly believe in being open and honest but
• Answered the question “a guy i was seeing just told me he loves spending time with and likes me a lot but doesn't want a serious relationship. is that possible? can this be true? i looked and i couldnt find this on your site, please answer. i'm totally heartbroken”
• Posted “Jail jockey” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Do real men cry?
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• Commented on Can you love two men at the same time - one you're married to and the other one thrown at you by destiny?
• Commented on Can you love two men at the same time - one you're married to and the other one thrown at you by destiny?
• Answered the question “I'm a single parent and am trying online dating for the first time. My daughter has special needs and I'm unsure if I should include that information in my online profile or wait until later to disclose it. I strongly believe in being open and honest but ”
• Answered the question “Can you love two men at the same time - one you're married to and the other one thrown at you by destiny?”
• Commented on Do real men cry?
• Commented on MM, how do you approach the friend zone? I'm conflicted between valuing the friendship and wanting to make out with her. Not sure if I want a friend or a lover, but the part that wants her as a lover is slowly increasing. What's your take?
• Posted A good partner is hard to find. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “MM- we hear all the time that girls love bad boys.....but I have found that a large number of guys love really mean and generally crazy girls too. Can you explain, or debunk this odd phenomenon please? Why do nice guys love being tortured by horribly inna”
• Answered the question “Do real men cry?”
• Commented on MM, how do you approach the friend zone? I'm conflicted between valuing the friendship and wanting to make out with her. Not sure if I want a friend or a lover, but the part that wants her as a lover is slowly increasing. What's your take?
• Commented on How do i break up with my "almost dream guy"?
• Answered the question “What are all the men my jeet kune do (mma/boxing) class thinking about a hot girl in their class? Are they staring at my boobs when I do the jumping jacks?”
• Commented on I am legally blind. and my new boyfriend is amazing. he's the only one that can open my braile locker, the only person who knows when i will need guidance. but i feel like it's a load on him,
• Commented on MM, how do you approach the friend zone? I'm conflicted between valuing the friendship and wanting to make out with her. Not sure if I want a friend or a lover, but the part that wants her as a lover is slowly increasing. What's your take?
• Commented on I am legally blind. and my new boyfriend is amazing. he's the only one that can open my braile locker, the only person who knows when i will need guidance. but i feel like it's a load on him,
• Answered the question “How do i break up with my "almost dream guy"?”
• Commented on I am dreadful on top during sex, something to do with co-ordinating the rhythm of my hips with their thrusting, so i prefer to be submissive. Is this a problem for most guys? I worry that they think i'm lazy as opposed to cripplingly embarrassed of f- ups
• Answered the question “MM, how do you approach the friend zone? I'm conflicted between valuing the friendship and wanting to make out with her. Not sure if I want a friend or a lover, but the part that wants her as a lover is slowly increasing. What's your take?”
• Commented on Why do you think monogamy is important?
• Commented on The girl I am in love with has only had sex with one guy in her life. He cheated on her, and contracted herpes. Which she now has. I'm happy she told me, but how should I feel?
• Answered the question “I am legally blind. and my new boyfriend is amazing. he's the only one that can open my braile locker, the only person who knows when i will need guidance. but i feel like it's a load on him,”
• Commented on A Brief Guide to Flirting
• Commented on Do you know of any good books for women who have been emotionally abused?
• Answered the question “I started cutting myself when I was 12, and I'm in college now and much better, but my legs are covered in scars. I'm worried about them being a huge turn off for future boyfriends. Do you think guys will be able to look past the fact that my legs look li”
• Commented on Do you know of any good books for women who have been emotionally abused?
• Commented on A Brief Guide to Flirting
• Answered the question “Why do you think monogamy is important?”
• Commented on I am dreadful on top during sex, something to do with co-ordinating the rhythm of my hips with their thrusting, so i prefer to be submissive. Is this a problem for most guys? I worry that they think i'm lazy as opposed to cripplingly embarrassed of f- ups
• Posted “Tyrannosaurus Sex” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted A Brief Guide to Flirting to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I am dreadful on top during sex, something to do with co-ordinating the rhythm of my hips with their thrusting, so i prefer to be submissive. Is this a problem for most guys? I worry that they think i'm lazy as opposed to cripplingly embarrassed of f- ups”
• Commented on is needed space and selftime the same thing
• Posted Valentines and the Single Gal to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “is needed space and selftime the same thing”
• Commented on O Great Wise-Ass I have a Q 4 U. Guy & I've been dating 5yrs. Won't put me anywhere on Fbook (wants to keep that part of his life "private.") Never lets me see his phone & his txt inbox/outbox are always empty. He has no good answer for the txt thing. He
• Commented on Tell me why I find myself craving attention from older guys? Not just a few years older, I'm talking like, 30-40. And I'm 19..
• Answered the question “i'm a little youg 2 b on this website but i was just wondering............do guys really care if u'r only a B cup in bras????”
• Commented on Please save me from self-destruction, I struggle with being open about my feelings and showing affection. I wasn't raised in a hugging type family and I just don't know how to do that. I just started dating an amazing guy that I really want to get there
• Commented on If a girl is really short, would that matter to a guy??
• Commented on O Great Wise-Ass I have a Q 4 U. Guy & I've been dating 5yrs. Won't put me anywhere on Fbook (wants to keep that part of his life "private.") Never lets me see his phone & his txt inbox/outbox are always empty. He has no good answer for the txt thing. He
• Answered the question “Tell me why I find myself craving attention from older guys? Not just a few years older, I'm talking like, 30-40. And I'm 19..”
• Commented on Please save me from self-destruction, I struggle with being open about my feelings and showing affection. I wasn't raised in a hugging type family and I just don't know how to do that. I just started dating an amazing guy that I really want to get there
• Answered the question “The girl I am in love with has only had sex with one guy in her life. He cheated on her, and contracted herpes. Which she now has. I'm happy she told me, but how should I feel?”
• Answered the question “Please save me from self-destruction, I struggle with being open about my feelings and showing affection. I wasn't raised in a hugging type family and I just don't know how to do that. I just started dating an amazing guy that I really want to get there”
• Commented on Even when I'm madly in love with someone, I still have moments or even entire days when I just don't really like him that much/am sick of him/feel like breaking up for some silly reason (none of these because I'm actually genuinely upset). I have talked t
• Commented on Joy and Pain - a day in the life.
• Posted “Wedding Pranger” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted Joy and Pain - a day in the life. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on How do guys feel about a girl going commando even under jeans? Do they prefer sexy panties, g-strings, thongs, etc or no panties at all? I just start going commando and I like it but I want to know if it will turn a guy off.
• Commented on You seem a lot nicer recently. Has something changed?
• Commented on Don't Miss the Live Chat - Wednesday, February 2 at 1p|12c
• Commented on Don't Miss the Live Chat - Wednesday, February 2 at 1p|12c
• Answered the question “Even when I'm madly in love with someone, I still have moments or even entire days when I just don't really like him that much/am sick of him/feel like breaking up for some silly reason (none of these because I'm actually genuinely upset). I have talked t”
• Answered the question “Is there a special lady in your life?”
• Commented on You're not even attractive at all.....How were you ever a player?
• Answered the question “I am a single gal and with Valentine's Day coming up I was wondering if you have any suggestions for not erupting into a murderous rage on this dreaded holiday?”
• Answered the question “My doctor told me I should quite my job or risk my health, i havent told my husband this. My husband makes more then enough for me to quite but he has always loved the fact that I was a successful career woman, even at such a young age. should i tell him?”
• Answered the question “Help a close guy friend who dumped me really nastily sexted me whilst stoned and drunk insisting that I was not fun cos I wouldn't go along with idea of being his sex slave with his mates, what do I do? help, We have been close friends and he has come out”
• Answered the question “I don't get it. Why is it that when I walk into a room with this particular guy from work which I have a crush on he doesn't look at me let alone acknowledge my presence?Not only does he ignore me, he doesn't speak to me unless I speak first. I'm not the ”
• Answered the question “Hey Mystery Man, I have a short query. My current relationship is amazing when we are together. When we are apart (I try to visit on weekends) he more or less neglects me. Should I just distance myself and give him space, or is there another option? Or am”
• Commented on Im currently "hanging out" with a married man. I know its wrong, his wife has caught him cheating three separate times and has never left, in fact she married the guy. I know he likes me but what do married men really think of the girl he's cheating with?
• Commented on You seem a lot nicer recently. Has something changed?
• Commented on How do you judge which questions to answer? And frequently do you answer them?
• Commented on Im currently "hanging out" with a married man. I know its wrong, his wife has caught him cheating three separate times and has never left, in fact she married the guy. I know he likes me but what do married men really think of the girl he's cheating with?
• Posted “Fem Den” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Why Friends with Benefits is Never "No Strings Attached"
• Commented on Don't Miss the Live Chat - Wednesday, February 2 at 1p|12c
• Answered the question “How do you judge which questions to answer? And frequently do you answer them?”
• Commented on hey....i was wondering, what hairstyles do men like on women the most?
• Answered the question “You seem a lot nicer recently. Has something changed?”
• Commented on if ur broken on the inside from yrs of emotional and physical abuse from ur x husband,add alot of sexual abuse in early childhood.currently single two years and wonder if i am to broken 2 go in2another relationship?
• Posted What is the Opposite of a Man Cave? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “hey....i was wondering, what hairstyles do men like on women the most?”
• Commented on Even after much convincing, my boyfriend of 3 years still doesn't like any sci-fi (apart from Doctor Who, my greatest conquest), including but not limited to Star Wars, Star Trek, Stargate, and even Hitch-hiker's Guide to the Galaxy. Should I give up and
• Answered the question “Hi MM..STICKY SITCH: Met a guy online just out of a 24 yr marriage, sep for 2 mo. His wife left him 4 her bro-in-law (eww). Guy is super sweet, but w/ 3 teenagers, I know there will be divorce drama. He says he is ready 2 move on and is "DONE". I said I d”
• Commented on if ur broken on the inside from yrs of emotional and physical abuse from ur x husband,add alot of sexual abuse in early childhood.currently single two years and wonder if i am to broken 2 go in2another relationship?
• Commented on Im currently "hanging out" with a married man. I know its wrong, his wife has caught him cheating three separate times and has never left, in fact she married the guy. I know he likes me but what do married men really think of the girl he's cheating with?
• Answered the question “So I'm going to ask my Q 1 last time. I have a few little moles, and a few tiny psoriasis spots. Can it be a turnoff for guys? Cause of this, I'm afraid to go to the next base with a guy. Guys find me attractive, but I'm scared that they would considerate”
• Answered the question “if ur broken on the inside from yrs of emotional and physical abuse from ur x husband,add alot of sexual abuse in early childhood.currently single two years and wonder if i am to broken 2 go in2another relationship?”
• Commented on Im currently "hanging out" with a married man. I know its wrong, his wife has caught him cheating three separate times and has never left, in fact she married the guy. I know he likes me but what do married men really think of the girl he's cheating with?
• Commented on I got my guy looking shemale porn and also have found pictures of penises on his phone...does this mean he is gay?
• Commented on What is going through a guy's head when he touches your ass or boobs?
• Commented on The "L" word came outta of my new guy's mouth. I wasn't sure I heard him right, so I said, "What did you say?". "I gotta go." he replied literarily ran to his car. When he called, he stammered around, said it was a slip, he's use to calling his daughte
• Answered the question “What is going through a guy's head when he touches your ass or boobs?”
• Answered the question “Im currently "hanging out" with a married man. I know its wrong, his wife has caught him cheating three separate times and has never left, in fact she married the guy. I know he likes me but what do married men really think of the girl he's cheating with?”
• Posted “sexsational” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on I started dating a new guy about a month ago. We have tons of fun together, a lot in common, and a crazy amount of chemistry. However, every time we have sex he 'crosses the finish line' really early. What can I do to help?
• Answered the question “I got my guy looking shemale porn and also have found pictures of penises on his phone...does this mean he is gay?”
• Commented on The "L" word came outta of my new guy's mouth. I wasn't sure I heard him right, so I said, "What did you say?". "I gotta go." he replied literarily ran to his car. When he called, he stammered around, said it was a slip, he's use to calling his daughte
• Answered the question “I started dating a new guy about a month ago. We have tons of fun together, a lot in common, and a crazy amount of chemistry. However, every time we have sex he 'crosses the finish line' really early. What can I do to help?”
• Commented on The "L" word came outta of my new guy's mouth. I wasn't sure I heard him right, so I said, "What did you say?". "I gotta go." he replied literarily ran to his car. When he called, he stammered around, said it was a slip, he's use to calling his daughte
• Commented on My bf is perfect. But a slight problem: he has never taken me out to eat (anywhere), has never offered to pay for anything (ever), and never gives me things. I always give him gifts and would LOVE if he would just once just OFFER to pay (not actually pay,
• Answered the question “The "L" word came outta of my new guy's mouth. I wasn't sure I heard him right, so I said, "What did you say?". "I gotta go." he replied literarily ran to his car. When he called, he stammered around, said it was a slip, he's use to calling his daughte”
• Commented on so my bf left for basic last week and he's having a really rough time. we miss each other a lot, which we expected, but he's really taking it hard. what can I do to make it easier for him? I'm already going to write, but he doesn't get an address till nex
• Commented on so my bf left for basic last week and he's having a really rough time. we miss each other a lot, which we expected, but he's really taking it hard. what can I do to make it easier for him? I'm already going to write, but he doesn't get an address till nex
• Commented on What would you prefer? Waking up with female genitals or no genitals at all? Like a ken doll?
• Commented on Announcing the Winner of the GuySpeak Golden Globes Poll!
• Answered the question “Mystery Man, I like the cut of your jib. So, how about this: I adore my boyfriend of 5 months and he says he's in love with me. But, in all his major previous relationships he has talked about marriage early on, like in the first 2-3 months. With me, noth”
• Commented on so my bf left for basic last week and he's having a really rough time. we miss each other a lot, which we expected, but he's really taking it hard. what can I do to make it easier for him? I'm already going to write, but he doesn't get an address till nex
• Commented on so my bf left for basic last week and he's having a really rough time. we miss each other a lot, which we expected, but he's really taking it hard. what can I do to make it easier for him? I'm already going to write, but he doesn't get an address till nex
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• Answered the question “so my bf left for basic last week and he's having a really rough time. we miss each other a lot, which we expected, but he's really taking it hard. what can I do to make it easier for him? I'm already going to write, but he doesn't get an address till nex”
• Commented on Can a guy be out of your league? Should your BF sleepover with coworkers? Does 'Black Swan' have the hottest girl-on-girl kiss ever?
• Commented on Are my tears a turn-off? GuySpeak Group Question!
• Posted Frasier TV to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What would you prefer? Waking up with female genitals or no genitals at all? Like a ken doll?”
• Commented on Did chivalry die? Or are we way too caught up in modern times?
• Answered the question “How do guys feel about jealous girls? Like say you have a girlfriend and she gets pretty jealous when you hang out with your X's a lot; but she doesn't go insane and say you can't see them again, she just gets jealous. Does that bother guys?”
• Commented on Did chivalry die? Or are we way too caught up in modern times?
• Commented on Hello, fellow KC fan (you get major cool points for that)! I've always been the counselor my guy friends turn to. Not a bad thing, but not sexy, either. I'm flattered that they seek my opinion, but feel that my nurturing nature is superseding other date-w
• Commented on Did chivalry die? Or are we way too caught up in modern times?
• Answered the question “Did chivalry die? Or are we way too caught up in modern times?”
• Commented on If a woman 47 and dating a guy 28 years old.Do you think we both have chanceto get married? Thank you very much
• Commented on Hello, fellow KC fan (you get major cool points for that)! I've always been the counselor my guy friends turn to. Not a bad thing, but not sexy, either. I'm flattered that they seek my opinion, but feel that my nurturing nature is superseding other date-w
• Answered the question “Hello, fellow KC fan (you get major cool points for that)! I've always been the counselor my guy friends turn to. Not a bad thing, but not sexy, either. I'm flattered that they seek my opinion, but feel that my nurturing nature is superseding other date-w”
• Commented on I asked a question about how to talk to my bf about him not being able to stay hard for penetration, and instead of picking mine, other people's questions got double answered! This issue is breaking my heart, help!
• Commented on Hello, fellow KC fan (you get major cool points for that)! I've always been the counselor my guy friends turn to. Not a bad thing, but not sexy, either. I'm flattered that they seek my opinion, but feel that my nurturing nature is superseding other date-w
• Commented on What's your opinion of adult nursing relationships?
• Commented on If a woman 47 and dating a guy 28 years old.Do you think we both have chanceto get married? Thank you very much
• Commented on Zodiac Sign Dates Shift, 'What's Your Sign?' Now Officially Meaningless
• Answered the question “If a woman 47 and dating a guy 28 years old.Do you think we both have chanceto get married? Thank you very much”
• Commented on My bf is perfect. But a slight problem: he has never taken me out to eat (anywhere), has never offered to pay for anything (ever), and never gives me things. I always give him gifts and would LOVE if he would just once just OFFER to pay (not actually pay,
• Answered the question “I asked a question about how to talk to my bf about him not being able to stay hard for penetration, and instead of picking mine, other people's questions got double answered! This issue is breaking my heart, help!”
• Posted “Forwarding Friend” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My bf is perfect. But a slight problem: he has never taken me out to eat (anywhere), has never offered to pay for anything (ever), and never gives me things. I always give him gifts and would LOVE if he would just once just OFFER to pay (not actually pay,”
• Commented on How much sexdrive in a woman is too much for you? I have a very high sexdrive, and in my past two long-termed relationships it went from avalible to once a week if I was lucky. When I have an orgasm my body craves more no matter how many I have. Could I h
• Commented on My bf is perfect. But a slight problem: he has never taken me out to eat (anywhere), has never offered to pay for anything (ever), and never gives me things. I always give him gifts and would LOVE if he would just once just OFFER to pay (not actually pay,
• Commented on I couldn't get pregnant after a year of trying. I assumed that something was wrong with me and apologized to my husband many times. Today he told me he is sterile and has known for years. How do I forgive him for letting me worry and feel guilty so long?
• Commented on Booze, Broads and Brawls
• Commented on My bf is perfect. But a slight problem: he has never taken me out to eat (anywhere), has never offered to pay for anything (ever), and never gives me things. I always give him gifts and would LOVE if he would just once just OFFER to pay (not actually pay,
• Answered the question “Why do humans make such strong connections that we allow ourselves to be hurt at the end of a relationship? You hear people say all the time that we're not monogamous creatures naturally so why fight it? I'm about to be thirty but is it too early to cha”
• Commented on Booze, Broads and Brawls
• Answered the question “is it possibly to faint from orgasm? i've never experienced the big O, but was masturbating in the jacuzzi the other night and as things were getting super good i swear i blacked out for just a few seconds, when i came to, my fingers and toes were tinglin”
• Commented on I'm a straight woman, but on a few occassions, through some close friends who happen to be LBGT, I have met some very attractive transmen. I know that they're bilogically female, but they look like men, act like men, smell like men, and consider themselve
• Commented on I'm a straight woman, but on a few occassions, through some close friends who happen to be LBGT, I have met some very attractive transmen. I know that they're bilogically female, but they look like men, act like men, smell like men, and consider themselve
• Commented on I'm a straight woman, but on a few occassions, through some close friends who happen to be LBGT, I have met some very attractive transmen. I know that they're bilogically female, but they look like men, act like men, smell like men, and consider themselve
• Answered the question “I'm a straight woman, but on a few occassions, through some close friends who happen to be LBGT, I have met some very attractive transmen. I know that they're bilogically female, but they look like men, act like men, smell like men, and consider themselve”
• Answered the question “are drunk girls a turn off?”
• Commented on I get called sexy alot and i hate it. It makes me feel good sometimes but as well it makes me feel like a slut. I want to be that sweet girl people think is cute but it just doesnt happen. Then again when i was called cute, i wanted to be sexy. What is be
• Commented on I've asked multiple questions of every guy on this site over the past several months. None of them have been answered by any of the guys. Instead, they're answering questions from twelve year olds about things like, "how do I talk to a boy who I really li
• Commented on Celebrity Totem: How Many Of Us Have Them?
• Commented on After a lifetime of obesity, I recently became fit & started dating. How/when do I prepare a guy for the fact that my body is way less than perfect (clothes on, I look "normal,")? How/when do I tell a guy about said decade/explain my comparative lack of e
• Commented on Booze, Broads and Brawls
• Commented on I get called sexy alot and i hate it. It makes me feel good sometimes but as well it makes me feel like a slut. I want to be that sweet girl people think is cute but it just doesnt happen. Then again when i was called cute, i wanted to be sexy. What is be
• Answered the question “So my boyfriend of one year is a drama queen. What do I do?”
• Posted Booze, Broads and Brawls to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I get called sexy alot and i hate it. It makes me feel good sometimes but as well it makes me feel like a slut. I want to be that sweet girl people think is cute but it just doesnt happen. Then again when i was called cute, i wanted to be sexy. What is be”
• Answered the question “Hello Mr. Mystery Man; I understand if you're far too busy to answer this- but I am a very shy girl, and I was just wondering that in all of your experience, if you knew of any tips that possibly a 'shy girl' has done to get your attention...? Thank you..”
• Commented on How much sexdrive in a woman is too much for you? I have a very high sexdrive, and in my past two long-termed relationships it went from avalible to once a week if I was lucky. When I have an orgasm my body craves more no matter how many I have. Could I h
• Answered the question “I've asked multiple questions of every guy on this site over the past several months. None of them have been answered by any of the guys. Instead, they're answering questions from twelve year olds about things like, "how do I talk to a boy who I really li”
• Commented on I've been with this guy for two years now, and we have sex and everything, except something happened and I just can't give him a BJ. I really can't. He says he's fine with it, and that that kind of stuff doesn't bother him. Can guys actually be happy in r
• Posted “D.Q (Douche Quadbike)” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on How much sexdrive in a woman is too much for you? I have a very high sexdrive, and in my past two long-termed relationships it went from avalible to once a week if I was lucky. When I have an orgasm my body craves more no matter how many I have. Could I h
• Answered the question “How much sexdrive in a woman is too much for you? I have a very high sexdrive, and in my past two long-termed relationships it went from avalible to once a week if I was lucky. When I have an orgasm my body craves more no matter how many I have. Could I h”
• Answered the question “How do guys really feel about thoughtful gifts? Do they like them or would you rather something store bought?”
• Answered the question “What kind of dirty talk do you like during sex?”
• Commented on How do I deal with an extremely overprotective husband during pregnancy? I cant even get out of bed or up from the couch without him standing behind me trying to steady me & im only 3 months. He hired a maid & won't let me do any chores & freaks out if I
• Answered the question “After a lifetime of obesity, I recently became fit & started dating. How/when do I prepare a guy for the fact that my body is way less than perfect (clothes on, I look "normal,")? How/when do I tell a guy about said decade/explain my comparative lack of e”
• Answered the question “i was wondering if i asked a guy i was seeing about a month over for a movie and dinner, would he be expecting sex too? not sure i'm ready for sleeping with him yet.”
• Commented on How do I deal with an extremely overprotective husband during pregnancy? I cant even get out of bed or up from the couch without him standing behind me trying to steady me & im only 3 months. He hired a maid & won't let me do any chores & freaks out if I
• Answered the question “Is a little bit of jealousy a good thing? My new guy doesn't get jealous AT ALL.”
• Posted Age rage. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How do I deal with an extremely overprotective husband during pregnancy? I cant even get out of bed or up from the couch without him standing behind me trying to steady me & im only 3 months. He hired a maid & won't let me do any chores & freaks out if I ”
• Commented on People say my fiance is cruel and cold hearted. But with me he's loving and very caring. they say that hes just putting on a show for me and that soon he'll show the real him. Is he just pretending or can he realy be a completly different person with me.
• Answered the question “i've been with my boyfriend seven months. we're still in our early years of high school yet we have talked about a future together in a very committed manner. Is it silly to be this attached at our age, even though i really do think i am completely in lov”
• Answered the question “People say my fiance is cruel and cold hearted. But with me he's loving and very caring. they say that hes just putting on a show for me and that soon he'll show the real him. Is he just pretending or can he realy be a completly different person with me.”
• Commented on is it ok to feel weird and disgusting and unloved after you have been molested ?? And is it weird to feel like You know that feeling were you don't think your there and no one can see u and no matter what you do you feel like your words are scilenced by t
• Commented on is it ok to feel weird and disgusting and unloved after you have been molested ?? And is it weird to feel like You know that feeling were you don't think your there and no one can see u and no matter what you do you feel like your words are scilenced by t
• Answered the question “i have submitted questions before, but did't get ansered. so will try 1 more time. there is a guy at my wk i like. i asked him out a few months ago. he said he was in a relationship. i still see him from time to time. i wish he'd ask me. how do i get ”
• Posted “Gaymer” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What is your strategy if you are heading into a couples party solo?”
• Commented on I was with a guy for 2 years 7 months and I initiated the break up due to stupid reasons. I have realized my mistake, apologised to him and asked for another chance. He keeps rejecting saying its too late, he doesn't believe in patch back and etc. What ca
• Commented on what do you look for in a girl?
• Commented on is it ok to feel weird and disgusting and unloved after you have been molested ?? And is it weird to feel like You know that feeling were you don't think your there and no one can see u and no matter what you do you feel like your words are scilenced by t
• Commented on what do you look for in a girl?
• Answered the question “what do you look for in a girl?”
• Commented on How did you become so wise and all-knowing, mystery man?
• Commented on is it ok to feel weird and disgusting and unloved after you have been molested ?? And is it weird to feel like You know that feeling were you don't think your there and no one can see u and no matter what you do you feel like your words are scilenced by t
• Answered the question “is it ok to feel weird and disgusting and unloved after you have been molested ?? And is it weird to feel like You know that feeling were you don't think your there and no one can see u and no matter what you do you feel like your words are scilenced by t”
• Commented on How did you become so wise and all-knowing, mystery man?
• Answered the question “my bf is leaving for basic in two weeks. The closer it gets the more stupid little fights we have. im upset one day then yelling with him the next, i love him but i feel horrible. my family is unsupportive my friends arent that helpful. when he leaves i”
• Posted You're a Hard Habit to Break to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I've been with this guy for two years now, and we have sex and everything, except something happened and I just can't give him a BJ. I really can't. He says he's fine with it, and that that kind of stuff doesn't bother him. Can guys actually be happy in r
• Answered the question “How did you become so wise and all-knowing, mystery man?”
• Commented on I was with a guy for 2 years 7 months and I initiated the break up due to stupid reasons. I have realized my mistake, apologised to him and asked for another chance. He keeps rejecting saying its too late, he doesn't believe in patch back and etc. What ca
• Commented on my spouse is awful. he's drained me physically & emotionally, lost our house, and have to live w/MY 79yr. old parents. he won't work, he's mean, and vows revenge. he's been taking from all of us. he blames me for everything. he's taken all my respect, dig
• Commented on Tonight I'm Gonna Party Like It's All About ME
• Answered the question “i haven't been in a relationship in years, and I find myself becoming very bitter about the whole dating and love thing. I use to be the girl who believed in the fairy tale love story , but now I wonder will that princess madly in love ever be me. How do”
• Commented on hey asshole, who do you think you are?
• Answered the question “I was with a guy for 2 years 7 months and I initiated the break up due to stupid reasons. I have realized my mistake, apologised to him and asked for another chance. He keeps rejecting saying its too late, he doesn't believe in patch back and etc. What ca”
• Commented on I'm not particularly private or anything but a guy I've been seeing tells his roommates almost everything that happens between us. Is this a bad thing?
• Answered the question “I'm not particularly private or anything but a guy I've been seeing tells his roommates almost everything that happens between us. Is this a bad thing?”
• Commented on i am not the skinny type of girl, i cant afford a specialist, so i cant lose weight under supervision, that means im stuck with my looks, and i cant find a boyfriend. what should i do? everybody likes skinny girls.
• Commented on He's stringing me along like a yoyo, but I can't help but give in. I love the bastard. He's my kryptonite. I've tried ending it, but I keep returning. What's my answer?
• Answered the question “hey asshole, who do you think you are?”
• Commented on You've got Male
• Answered the question “What should i want out of life?”
• Answered the question “i am not the skinny type of girl, i cant afford a specialist, so i cant lose weight under supervision, that means im stuck with my looks, and i cant find a boyfriend. what should i do? everybody likes skinny girls.”
• Answered the question “I've been with this guy for two years now, and we have sex and everything, except something happened and I just can't give him a BJ. I really can't. He says he's fine with it, and that that kind of stuff doesn't bother him. Can guys actually be happy in r”
• Answered the question “I really want to include my husband in my s&m fantasies and would like for him to be the one to perform these things but when we were looking at these BDSM sites he said I was "sick" and there was something wrong with me. What do I do?”
• Answered the question “He's stringing me along like a yoyo, but I can't help but give in. I love the bastard. He's my kryptonite. I've tried ending it, but I keep returning. What's my answer?”
• Commented on I have been friends with a guy for about two years and recently we decided to become FWB (friends with benefits).I have never been in a FWB situation, and I was wondering, what are the rules/etiquette of FWB?
• Posted “Mole” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I have been friends with a guy for about two years and recently we decided to become FWB (friends with benefits).I have never been in a FWB situation, and I was wondering, what are the rules/etiquette of FWB?”
• Commented on The guy im seeing put his sex life on a pedestal, bragged how good he was, said he was huge. We have sex, he sucks and he is def not huge. He took my virginity so technically i dont "know" anything about sex, but Im highly sexual and know hes not gonna cu
• Commented on How do you avoid getting in to the "Old Man" routine of doing the same things over and over? What if the girl you're seeing just thinks you are to mature/boring?
• Posted It's Christmas. Oh Joy. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on MM you give brutal but candid, honest answers which I appreciate. I really like this guy I work with and want to tell him how I feel but am not sure how to do it without coming across as crazy, desparate, and awkward (Don't worry- I've already been warne
• Commented on You've got Male
• Answered the question “The guy im seeing put his sex life on a pedestal, bragged how good he was, said he was huge. We have sex, he sucks and he is def not huge. He took my virginity so technically i dont "know" anything about sex, but Im highly sexual and know hes not gonna cu”
• Commented on MM you give brutal but candid, honest answers which I appreciate. I really like this guy I work with and want to tell him how I feel but am not sure how to do it without coming across as crazy, desparate, and awkward (Don't worry- I've already been warne
• Commented on I have a roman nose/aquiline nose, which makes me very self-conscious(I love my face when u look straight at it but I hate the profile). People tell me that I am beautiful but I can't believe it because of my nose, it just feels like their bieng nice. Can
• Answered the question “I was just recently prescribed antidepressants for my suicidal thoughts. I have an older guy friend who is 27 (I am only 20) said other ways to cope. he knows I like him, he told me he loves me when I went on med. I feel like I am using him though, I don'”
• Answered the question “How do you avoid getting in to the "Old Man" routine of doing the same things over and over? What if the girl you're seeing just thinks you are to mature/boring?”
• Answered the question “MM you give brutal but candid, honest answers which I appreciate. I really like this guy I work with and want to tell him how I feel but am not sure how to do it without coming across as crazy, desparate, and awkward (Don't worry- I've already been warne”
• Commented on How do you get the "funny guy" to get just a little more serious? His humor is one of the many things that attract me to him, but I can't tell what his intentions are. He opens up when we're together then disappears for a few days.
• Commented on Why are guys threatened by lesbians?
• Commented on Help! Are guys turned off by virgins? I'm dating this guy and I'm embarrassed to tell him I've never had sex nor have I ever given oral sex.
• Answered the question “I CALL THIS GUY BUT ALL HE WANTS TO TALK ABOUT IS MY FREND HOW SHOULD I TELL HIM GENTLY THAT I DO NOT CARE IF HE WANTS ME TO TALK TO HER AND TELL HER TO CALL HIM”
• Commented on the guy i have feelings for has been majorly depressed lately, and he just wants me there, but he doesn't want to talk yet. how do i let him know that he can trust me, and that i'm not going to leave him
• Answered the question “the guy i have feelings for has been majorly depressed lately, and he just wants me there, but he doesn't want to talk yet. how do i let him know that he can trust me, and that i'm not going to leave him”
• Commented on Dear Mystery Man- how do you not assume that every single girl in the world is an absolute psycho? (or do you|?) You have to admit, this site gets some pretty awesomely psychotic female questions......
• Answered the question “Dear Mystery Man- how do you not assume that every single girl in the world is an absolute psycho? (or do you|?) You have to admit, this site gets some pretty awesomely psychotic female questions......”
• Posted You've got Male to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on why do men think its ok to leave there girlfriend and go on a hunting trip he does not understand i dont like being alone how do i get him to see this
• Commented on Why am I 35 and single
• Commented on My very lack-luster relationship ended a month ago & I want to get out &have some fun! I met this cute trainer at the gym that screams "womanizer" but I don't really care, because I'm just wanting to get out and feel sexy and have some fun trainer sex.
• Commented on So, I let go of a two year relationship a few months ago, which unfortunately for him, was the best thing I have ever done for myself. And now, I feel better, even sexy and confident. Can guys pick up on my new attitude? Like can they sense it just by the
• Commented on why do men think its ok to leave there girlfriend and go on a hunting trip he does not understand i dont like being alone how do i get him to see this
• Answered the question “why do men think its ok to leave there girlfriend and go on a hunting trip he does not understand i dont like being alone how do i get him to see this”
• Commented on Why am I 35 and single
• Posted “Jumper” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Help! Are guys turned off by virgins? I'm dating this guy and I'm embarrassed to tell him I've never had sex nor have I ever given oral sex.
• Commented on Why am I 35 and single
• Answered the question “Just met a very intriguing guy. However, he doesn't like to talk about himself that much because of some things in the past. How do I get this mystery man to open up?”
• Answered the question “Why am I 35 and single”
• Commented on my spouse is awful. he's drained me physically & emotionally, lost our house, and have to live w/MY 79yr. old parents. he won't work, he's mean, and vows revenge. he's been taking from all of us. he blames me for everything. he's taken all my respect, dig
• Answered the question “Mystery man, I would really like your thought on this: In life i.e. love is it better to trust your heart, mind or "gut instinct"-lets say if you have a crush on someone and think that they have one on you too, but you both are too shy/ or affraid of reje”
• Commented on my spouse is awful. he's drained me physically & emotionally, lost our house, and have to live w/MY 79yr. old parents. he won't work, he's mean, and vows revenge. he's been taking from all of us. he blames me for everything. he's taken all my respect, dig
• Answered the question “Help! Are guys turned off by virgins? I'm dating this guy and I'm embarrassed to tell him I've never had sex nor have I ever given oral sex.”
• Commented on I'm dating a guy I went to high school with. I have a history of getting hurt by guys who seem genuine but then they decide they don't want a relationship anymore or aren't interested. he's sincere, and he's always been a gentleman, but I'm scared it'll e
• Commented on So, I let go of a two year relationship a few months ago, which unfortunately for him, was the best thing I have ever done for myself. And now, I feel better, even sexy and confident. Can guys pick up on my new attitude? Like can they sense it just by the
• Commented on Open question - How do you tell a man you have herpes?
• Answered the question “Open question - How do you tell a man you have herpes?”
• Answered the question “So, I let go of a two year relationship a few months ago, which unfortunately for him, was the best thing I have ever done for myself. And now, I feel better, even sexy and confident. Can guys pick up on my new attitude? Like can they sense it just by the”
• Answered the question “my spouse is awful. he's drained me physically & emotionally, lost our house, and have to live w/MY 79yr. old parents. he won't work, he's mean, and vows revenge. he's been taking from all of us. he blames me for everything. he's taken all my respect, dig”
• Commented on Do you have any pets? What breeds? I like animals and am just curious
• Commented on im a 24yod guy and im not ready for sex. my current boyfriend is really kind but it's obvious he's missing the physical connection. i don't know if i should let him hook up/have sex with oth
• Commented on why arent my questions being ANSWERED?
• Answered the question “im a 24yod guy and im not ready for sex. my current boyfriend is really kind but it's obvious he's missing the physical connection. i don't know if i should let him hook up/have sex with oth”
• Commented on I'm dating a guy I went to high school with. I have a history of getting hurt by guys who seem genuine but then they decide they don't want a relationship anymore or aren't interested. he's sincere, and he's always been a gentleman, but I'm scared it'll e
• Commented on Do you have any pets? What breeds? I like animals and am just curious
• Answered the question “Do you have any pets? What breeds? I like animals and am just curious”
• Posted “Lassie” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Lassie” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on How important is it to have a "man cave"?
• Commented on Are all of the guys on Guyspeak in relationships?
• Commented on Are all of the guys on Guyspeak in relationships?
• Answered the question “I'm dating a guy I went to high school with. I have a history of getting hurt by guys who seem genuine but then they decide they don't want a relationship anymore or aren't interested. he's sincere, and he's always been a gentleman, but I'm scared it'll e”
• Commented on I recently got into (and then out of) a long-distance relationship. It simply wasn't working, although neither of us harbors any hard feelings. We're going to be in the same city for the holidays, and I want to see him. Mostly for the sex. Is that so wron
• Answered the question “Are guys really intrigued by 'mystery women'? I'm a talker, I can't seem to play the 'mysterious' part... any tips?”
• Posted It's Complicated to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I have a very serious problem. I had some complications during childbirth and almost died. Now my husband resents our week old son for "almost killing me". What can I do? I love them both more then anything and cant stand the thought of my baby growing up
• Answered the question “I have a very serious problem. I had some complications during childbirth and almost died. Now my husband resents our week old son for "almost killing me". What can I do? I love them both more then anything and cant stand the thought of my baby growing up”
• Answered the question “I recently got into (and then out of) a long-distance relationship. It simply wasn't working, although neither of us harbors any hard feelings. We're going to be in the same city for the holidays, and I want to see him. Mostly for the sex. Is that so wron”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend wants me to start standing up for myself even with him. This scares me cause i'm afraid of making him mad an then him stop talking to me. Any advice on how to start?”
• Answered the question “3 question 1 y do man txt other woman when their n a relationship,an feel that the woman they wit shouldn't get mad or ask them to stop.2 if sex is a big part y do some man just act like its no big deal case an point my man now sleeps wit his sweats on no”
• Answered the question “What really makes a christmas present special for you? Or dose it not matter at all? I have no idea what to buy my boyfriend of 6months. HELP PLEASEE”
• Commented on Hi MM, I'm a big fan of your writing. Would you be able to venture to guess why we, as women, are attracted to mysterious guys?
• Posted “Tinsellitis” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How can I tell if someone likes me if I barely know them? If he points out that I want him (he's right) does that mean hes into me? PLEASE ANSWER”
• Posted Lets talk about drink, baby, it messes up you and me. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hi Mystery man, I just met this guy. He's overly shy and at times can be low on self esteem. He has been hurt before, but I also learned that his past was anything but "clean". He hit his ex once, had temper issues... but claims it's all in the past & h”
• Commented on dear mystery man, how can i forget someone?
• Answered the question “Can a man hit a woman that he loves?”
• Answered the question “Hi MM, I'm a big fan of your writing. Would you be able to venture to guess why we, as women, are attracted to mysterious guys?”
• Commented on Ok Wise Ass, I need your help. In ANY universe, if you date your really good friend of many years for several months, is it EVER casual? He dumped me out of the blue claiming it was casual. I disagree, but maybe I'm blind.
• Answered the question “dear mystery man, how can i forget someone?”
• Answered the question “Met a guy hes 23 got 6 years age difference...is that bad? Feel like I'm robbing the cradle!?”
• Answered the question “When a guys says a girl is "not bad" what do you think he really means?”
• Commented on What's the craziest thing you've done to get a date? GuySpeak Group Question!
• Commented on I am forever getting called cute. I know it's a compliment, and I should just accept it. But seriously?? Dogs are cute. Little kids with spaghetti sauce on their faces are cute. So what does it mean when the only thing guys ever call me is cute???
• Answered the question “I am forever getting called cute. I know it's a compliment, and I should just accept it. But seriously?? Dogs are cute. Little kids with spaghetti sauce on their faces are cute. So what does it mean when the only thing guys ever call me is cute???”
• Answered the question “me and my husband are having some problems. I the sex is very good but because of the problem i feel a little disconnected. I was told that if he is still having sex like he loves you and not just to get one off you are okay.”
• Posted “Conversoma” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on A guy I am casually sleeping with casually discusses marriage and babies (in general, not with me) with me. Is there anything to conclude here?
• Commented on hello mystery man. i need help. what do you do in manipulative relationships? like the guy threatens to kill himself if you don't get back together with him, etc? thanks!
• Answered the question “HEY HEY HEY! Big question, and seriously now... what its the etiquette of one night stands? (what I mean, I don't want to offend the guy, I just want non-awkward-if-we-ever-see-each-other-again sex). A guy I slept with told me that he was "surprised" ”
• Posted Want to save your relationship this Thanksgiving? Use a pumpkin. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “A guy I am casually sleeping with casually discusses marriage and babies (in general, not with me) with me. Is there anything to conclude here?”
• Answered the question “hello mystery man. i need help. what do you do in manipulative relationships? like the guy threatens to kill himself if you don't get back together with him, etc? thanks!”
• Commented on How do I get my husband to stop checking chicks out in my presence?
• Answered the question “How do I get my husband to stop checking chicks out in my presence?”
• Answered the question “I think you give great advice, so here it goes. I think the guy I am with keeps almost telling me that he loves me, and then he doesn't. I'm not sure what to do if that moment comes because I although I know that I have love for him, I'm not sure if I am ”
• Answered the question “I go to church with this guy who's 30 and I'm 20. We get along great, and I really like him. I almost just want to stop liking him, what should I do about these feelings?”
• Commented on I Want To Thank You...Oh Thee Who Receives Minimal Thanks
• Answered the question “i want to get back together with my ex boyfriend of 2years ive heard hes interested in me again yet when me and him talk its like hes not trying i need advice.”
• Answered the question “Guys keep trying to "decode" what i i say. I know what i want, and i know what i don't want and i have no problem verbalizing my feelings about things.Is there some magic phrase i can use to get guys to stop expending so much energy trying to "understand"”
• Commented on To be proud or not proud, that is the question.
• Posted To be proud or not proud, that is the question. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Why do you guys answer questions from people who are obviously trolling, stupid, and/or drunk? I've submitted a couple of decent, sincere questions and haven't seen anything similar answered for months back in the archives; meanwhile, answer space is dedi
• Answered the question “I met this pretty good looking guy online, went on a date and slowly but surely began losing contact with him. I am a cute, pretty girl, but I think he was looking for "hot". Point being, how can a get I guy that is full of himself to go out with me? (Sha”
• Answered the question “i love my boyfriend and i want him to be happy and healthy how do u go around talkin about the topic of his need to loose weight?”
• Commented on Why do you guys answer questions from people who are obviously trolling, stupid, and/or drunk? I've submitted a couple of decent, sincere questions and haven't seen anything similar answered for months back in the archives; meanwhile, answer space is dedi
• Commented on The advice I get on finding a relationship seems contradictory. First, they tell me that I need to put myself out there. So I joined match and went on dates, but nothing came of them. Now the SAME friends tell me that I'm trying too hard and it will come
• Commented on Yet more competition for the Ladies
• Commented on The advice I get on finding a relationship seems contradictory. First, they tell me that I need to put myself out there. So I joined match and went on dates, but nothing came of them. Now the SAME friends tell me that I'm trying too hard and it will come
• Commented on Why do you guys answer questions from people who are obviously trolling, stupid, and/or drunk? I've submitted a couple of decent, sincere questions and haven't seen anything similar answered for months back in the archives; meanwhile, answer space is dedi
• Commented on He says I'm "needy", when really I've just been suffering from severe depression, and yeah maybe I need a little more love that other girls. Why is this an issue if he loves me, or is this a sign that he doesn't? Either way, a girl's got needs and I need
• Commented on How do I make every guy wish they had me?
• Commented on how should i tell my friend that I've known for a year and a half that i'm in love with him? but keep in mind that he is the shy type and tries to avoid things like that , but really wants to have someone to love too.
• Answered the question “Why do you guys answer questions from people who are obviously trolling, stupid, and/or drunk? I've submitted a couple of decent, sincere questions and haven't seen anything similar answered for months back in the archives; meanwhile, answer space is dedi”
• Posted “Prawn” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “The advice I get on finding a relationship seems contradictory. First, they tell me that I need to put myself out there. So I joined match and went on dates, but nothing came of them. Now the SAME friends tell me that I'm trying too hard and it will come ”
• Answered the question “does my boyfriend really mean it if he says that he wants me to have his children?”
• Commented on how should i tell my friend that I've known for a year and a half that i'm in love with him? but keep in mind that he is the shy type and tries to avoid things like that , but really wants to have someone to love too.
• Commented on He says I'm "needy", when really I've just been suffering from severe depression, and yeah maybe I need a little more love that other girls. Why is this an issue if he loves me, or is this a sign that he doesn't? Either way, a girl's got needs and I need
• Answered the question “Why sometimes his standing/close next to me and say nothing at all!!!!'what should I do? Do I break the silent between us? He is stubborn guy we both stubborn... I miss the way we used to be..”
• Answered the question “how should i tell my friend that I've known for a year and a half that i'm in love with him? but keep in mind that he is the shy type and tries to avoid things like that , but really wants to have someone to love too.”
• Commented on My bf has cheated several times. I take him back. He tells me he loves me, but I know if he did he would not have cheated. He buys me nothing, not even a card, says he has no time or money, but has all the time and money to cheat. I want out.
• Answered the question “How do I make every guy wish they had me?”
• Answered the question “It's difficult to ask this without sounding shallow, but is it alright to pass up a potentially wonderful relationship with a guy with a near perfect personality if he is fugly?”
• Answered the question “Why do guys always fart in my mouth?”
• Answered the question “He says I'm "needy", when really I've just been suffering from severe depression, and yeah maybe I need a little more love that other girls. Why is this an issue if he loves me, or is this a sign that he doesn't? Either way, a girl's got needs and I need ”
• Commented on Due to professional reasons, the relationship must be discreet. How would one go about accomplishing this? And does discreet mean it will also not be exclusive?
• Commented on Can a man and a women be platonic friends? My boyfriend just met this girl and hangs out with her a few times a week one-on-one (we live in different cities). I completely trust that he would never cheat on me and thinks innocently, but my friends think t
• Posted “Stoating” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “When I'm not doing something sexual that he wants me to do, is that really bad in his eyes?”
• Answered the question “Can a man and a women be platonic friends? My boyfriend just met this girl and hangs out with her a few times a week one-on-one (we live in different cities). I completely trust that he would never cheat on me and thinks innocently, but my friends think t”
• Answered the question “When you first see a girl/woman, what do you look at first? What do you notice first? How can women make good, lasting first impressions on men she likes?”
• Answered the question “Due to professional reasons, the relationship must be discreet. How would one go about accomplishing this? And does discreet mean it will also not be exclusive?”
• Answered the question “How long should you date before you pop the question? We are both crazy about each other, have kids, and recently divorced out of years of unhappy marriages. We are both in our mid 40's. Both of us want to marry each other someday.”
• Answered the question “Mystery Man, Do guys only like super thin girls? I'm a size 10/12 and I'm never asked out. I've never had a boyfriend. I have a really pretty face & large breasts. Is my average size the reason why I'm not being asked out? I lead a healthy lifestyle. I ”
• Commented on A guy recently, drunkenly, explained the "one week rule" to me. He said, "I can't believe I'm telling you this because it's a cardinal secret of manhood. But we always wait 1 week to call. It's just a guy rule." Is this true?
• Posted Little Things that make a Difference to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Can a relationship between a 38 year old women and a 25 year old man work in the long term, note, they've been seeing each other for 4 years already?”
• Commented on I need a blunt answer. Is having arm hair a turnoff? I know a few girls who shave their arms... but it just kind of seems weird to me. I shave my legs and underarms and everywhere I'm supposed to, of course, just not my arms. Is it a big deal, or turnoff?
• Answered the question “Is it slutty for a girl to send nude pics to guys she isn't dating?”
• Answered the question “I need a blunt answer. Is having arm hair a turnoff? I know a few girls who shave their arms... but it just kind of seems weird to me. I shave my legs and underarms and everywhere I'm supposed to, of course, just not my arms. Is it a big deal, or turnoff?”
• Answered the question “So a lot of guys in my past haven't worked out. One of those guys has a friend who recently told me that it had been because the guy thought I wasn't interested at all. Which was SO far from true! Apparently this has been the same reason for most of them.”
• Commented on Could my bf of 5 months still have feelings for his highschool sweetheart? They were together for 5 yrs and they have a 2 yr old together, they broke up a yr ago and they use 2live together. Somehow I feel as if I cant compare to the mother of his child.
• Posted “Cupboard Love” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “why do guys abandon their moms and hang out with their wife's family?”
• Answered the question “so i have an off the wall question.. Why Do Some Men lie About their age?”
• Answered the question “So, I am with a VERY emotional and SENSITIVE guy, I love him as a person but I feel more "in place" for him when I'm taking care of him, not kissing him... What should i do? I wanna stay close to him, but have my freedom.”
• Answered the question “Could my bf of 5 months still have feelings for his highschool sweetheart? They were together for 5 yrs and they have a 2 yr old together, they broke up a yr ago and they use 2live together. Somehow I feel as if I cant compare to the mother of his child. ”
• Commented on So he's real quite, never married no kids. He's had two serious realtionships. I'm a widow with two grown kids. Been dating seriously 6 months. Things are really GREAT in all areas except he says he does not love me, that he cares for me very much. Will
• Commented on Can a freshman date a senior in high school?
• Commented on I like a guy who lives far away. When I visit, we are a couple. I want to know if emailing him when I'm away is a good idea or if I should keep silent between visits. do guys get annoyed? I emailed once and he wrote back right away. do I continue this?
• Answered the question “I like a guy who lives far away. When I visit, we are a couple. I want to know if emailing him when I'm away is a good idea or if I should keep silent between visits. do guys get annoyed? I emailed once and he wrote back right away. do I continue this?”
• Answered the question “How do I know what he's thinking?”
• Answered the question “So he's real quite, never married no kids. He's had two serious realtionships. I'm a widow with two grown kids. Been dating seriously 6 months. Things are really GREAT in all areas except he says he does not love me, that he cares for me very much. Will”
• Posted Yet more competition for the Ladies to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Can a freshman date a senior in high school?”
• Answered the question “My dream guy dumped me after he touched my chest.And then hooked up with a girl I thought he was cheating on me with.He still protects me from other guys and gets jealous from all my new attention, but everytime I mention getting back together, he gets ma”
• Answered the question “I found out that my husband has been poking holes in our condoms and now i am pregnant. I told him that i never wanted kids when we started dating and he never had a problem with it. im devastated. Why would he do this to me? what should i do [abortion is”
• Answered the question “who are you?”
• Answered the question “My bf has cheated several times. I take him back. He tells me he loves me, but I know if he did he would not have cheated. He buys me nothing, not even a card, says he has no time or money, but has all the time and money to cheat. I want out.”
• Answered the question “Is it ok two be dating two guys at once and not tell them?”
• Answered the question “How often does a married man expect sex?”
• Answered the question “How do you know if your husband is really faithful? In every aspect, looking at other woman and flirting. If a husband is cheating, what is the best strategy to catch them?”
• Answered the question “what does it mean if my boyfriend have the same birthday as my dad”
• Answered the question “A guy I have sex with from time to time recently started talking to me about other girls, how hot they are blabla. Is he trying to make a "friend" out of me ?”
• Answered the question “OK MM...got a TOUGH one! :( I "over-called" this guy I've been seeing for 4wks. Several calls, text, email 2 days after our last date on Sunday. We had tentatively planned dinner for Tues, but he never confirmed. Yes, he said HE would call. Bad judgemen”
• Answered the question “how do guys really feel about shy a woman ? is extream shyness a turn off ? or a challenge. thanks”
• Answered the question “If a girl you got pregnant said she didn't want you involved and moved away to a different state so you couldn't contact her or your child. What would you do?”
• Answered the question “I was a chubby girl in high school. I started a health kick and am proud to say I am fit and very healthy. Will guys still want to be with me even if I was chubby then?”
• Answered the question “I've been dating a guy I met online for a few months, and things are going really well. I never deactivated my profile, but after we started dating I stopped answering emails/talking to anyone else. I recently noticed that was still on the site as well,”
• Answered the question “After 10 yrs, my hubby still keeps pushing to have a threesome. Now I'm pretty open-minded and do alot for him, but I have made it clear that is one thing that will never happen. How do I make him stop bugging me about it?”
• Answered the question “This guy that I like recently had started texting me and started calling me "baby." After a while he told me that he liked me and I told him that I liked him, but like 30 minutes after that he implied that he was texting the wrong person. How am I suppose”
• Answered the question “I recently bumped into an ex and I would like to send him an email letting him know that I would like to see him again...what can I say?”
• Answered the question “if you were in a serious relationship with a girl and she told you that, eventually, she wanted to have kids AS WELL AS ADOPT, would that scare you away?”
• Answered the question “The guy I'm into is great! He's funny and always lets me know what he thinks about me. Problem? He has no drivers license and no job. He's 20 years old! Should this be a deal breaker? I'm thinking it is.”
• Answered the question “I just discovered that my boyfriend has been mutually masturbating with people or just having them encourage him on chatroulette, do you consider this cheating?”
• Answered the question “I am the (casual) other woman and I don't have any guilt. I enjoy having a FWB even though he's in a relationship. Do I really need to stop?”
• Answered the question “I am very athletic and box and also, sadly, a bit accident prone so I have a lot of scratches and scars. How do men feel about a woman with a scars?”
• Answered the question “So, I've never been kissed. No Worries, I'm not like 34 and a cat-lady, but I would like some pointers for when it happens! Suggestions?”
• Answered the question “my boyfriend keeps bringing up the fact that he wants us to get married. i've dated lots, but he hasnt. i'm the 2nd girl hes ever slept with. is he ready to get married?”
• Answered the question “I'm 25 and have never been in a relationship longer than 3 months...I just lost 30 pounds and can't seem to shake the fat girl image I have in my mind. It's hard for me to approach guys or even make simple eye contact with a smile. Tips for an awkward dat”
• Answered the question “Is it ever OK to sleep with a guy on the first date? We have been building a flirty friendship for a couple of weeks and are finally going out. I am really hot for this guy. We are both in our late 30s, so its not like we're young and inexperienced, but”
• Answered the question “I really like one of my roommates but I didn't want to risk things getting weird in the apartment so I never said anything.In a month i'm leaving the country for a year and have started to think I will regret not telling him how I really feel. Should I ke”
• Answered the question “i see sex as a very intimate activity. my bf and i were broken up at the time and he had sex with another girl and he told me it was just sex. no more than that. is that possible? guys dont get attached? how can i understand what hes talking about?”
• Answered the question “my husband wants "alone" time should i be worried or not”
• Answered the question “Are guys disgusted with arm/leg/under arm hair?”
• Answered the question “I'll be in the army for the next 6 years. My boyfriend says he will wait for me. Do you think he will?”
• Answered the question “I am a guy, but after reading 10 or so of your answers you seem like a very . . . insightful man. So, can you tell answer this for me? Is it true that the nice guy never gets the girl. If so, why? And how can I change to not have this happen, but also not”
• Answered the question “I can't stand how people dislike your advice. I think you're honest and to the point! So would you say that if a black girl, with a little more to love but had a great personality, asked you out you might say yes?”
• Answered the question “I just moved to a brand new city across the country where I don't know ANYONE. Will a guy think I'm weird since I don't have any friends? I'm freaking about how I'm going to meet anyone, let alone find someone cute to explore the city with. Help!”
• Answered the question “Should I be offended if a guy can't get it up? He said he had been drinking, but I'm taking his softness a little hard.”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend expects lots of blow jobs...whats the average amount a guy should get a week?”
• Answered the question “I'm an asian girl and lately guys I meet say they have "yellow fever." Should I be creeped out by guys that have "yellow fever" or have some weird asian fetish? I get everyone has their types but still! something's wrong with them if they identify with "y”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend's sweet most of the time, but he has a habit of calling out all of my flaws (didn't shave my legs, hair's a mess). Why does he keep doing this? It really bothers me.”
• Answered the question “How do I ask my boyfriend if he prefers pubic hair or no pubic hair on me?”
• Answered the question “Does it bother guys when a girl is extremely perverse and crude?? For some reason I am like this and I sometimes tend to talk crudely like a guy would and I was wondering if it could be a turn off??”
• Answered the question “Pierced nipples. What do guys think of them on a girl? Are they hot or slutty? Also, if we're gonna go for it is having only one done weird or kinky?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend has no interest in oral sex, giving and recieving. I personally love both, how do I get him or help him to change his mind?”
• Answered the question “is it true that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach?”
• Answered the question “He's just staring at my boobs from across the room isn't he? How do I make it so he stares at my face?”
• Answered the question “I resently told a guy i was dating i was a virgin and HE DUMPED ME! Are guys normally put off by virgins?”
• Commented on my boyfriend told me he had sex with a gay friend of his in the past, that it happened a few times but he was always drunk, didnt like it, afterwards felt disgusted & would run to shower (he was always the "top" in case you're wondering) i appreciate his
• Answered the question “my boyfriend told me he had sex with a gay friend of his in the past, that it happened a few times but he was always drunk, didnt like it, afterwards felt disgusted & would run to shower (he was always the "top" in case you're wondering) i appreciate his ”
• Answered the question “i think eating boogers is kinky... is that something guys would be willing to try, or not? almost everyone i've been with thinks it's over the line.”
• Answered the question “why do guys just text to ask a girl out instead of calling? is this a "game" thing? i understand that we are in the getting to know you stage, but it may just be better to call a person to be able to talk and get to know each other better, instead of text”
• Answered the question “Been in a friends with benefits for two years.Problem, I developed feelings and told him. He says he's ok with it but not ready for a relationship now. He says we are "single" but when I opened a facebook page and started talking to other guys, he's acti”
• Answered the question “I recently got completely f***ed in the a** by my ex. I'll set it up for you- naturally in a relationship you reveal your insecurities. He was VERY insecure, and I was CONSTANTLY reassuring him that it was all in his head. He then used that self-confidenc”
• Answered the question “why partners have sex during the woman's period?”
• Answered the question “i am attracted to my boss. kept the company ethics while i was there by not dating a felow staff and boss, i am no more working in this company and still can't get over him. what should i do? should i let him know i love him?”
• Answered the question “I recently had a drunken one night stand with a guy. I regret it greatly now, especially since I started to think that I contracted and STD. I asked the guy afterwards whether he had one, he told me "no, definitely not." Can I trust him on this?”
• Answered the question “why would a guy claim he's not into you or a relationship but then do things like invite you over for dinner, and hang out with you on a regular basis, especially when he knows that you would like to have a relationship with him?”
• Answered the question “Will a guy feel a sort of connection with his girlfriend if she gets pregnant with his kid?”
• Answered the question “is there a chance working it out with a guy who constantly lies, or should i give up?”
• Answered the question “Whats your position on telling potential hook ups that you have a strain of high risk HPV?”
• Answered the question “Am I a slut if i flirted with a different guy when I have a boyfriend?”
• Answered the question “My ex would always bother me about having sex, but I told him I wouldn't even think about it until after marriage. After about 5 months he says he's just lost interest and we broke up. I'm just curious as to if he really cared or if he got tired of trying”
• Answered the question “In the past few months I've gone out with two guys both attractive, seemingly stable guys. We are having a nice time at dinner, then he says "I've just met my future wife." WE JUST MET! LOL Then when I tell them I'm not interested in casual sex.....th”
• Answered the question “there is this guy that i like and i mean really really like..he is married..but i still like him alot. he doesn't know that i like him but he has told some of my friends that if he could he would have me. usually i would be against this kind of stuff but ”
• Answered the question “my boyfriend keeps bugging me about having a 3 some. i find it weird and to me its kind of a form of cheating. should i be worried about this? specally because he says he wants to do that with his ex and me.”
• Answered the question “Do guys really care what girls look like "down there?" I don't mean in regards to waxing or shaving, but things that can't be changed without vagina surgery.”
• Answered the question “When a guy says "I love you", what does it mean?”
• Answered the question “A guy I recently started dating is in law school and is studying for an oral presentation this week. Would it be appropriate to bring him lunch/dinner to his house one day this week or would that be too much since we recently started dating?”
• Answered the question “Im 21, I'm sexy as hell, with a great personality, I have no emotional baggage what so ever! so my question is why wont anybody at work ask me out why do they choose the ugly needy girls at work instead of me? It's so backwards........”
• Answered the question “how do i get my best friend to stay in love with me? i'm a girl and she's a girl but our religion is against homosexual relations so now she's starting to feel guilty. so how do i get her back?”
• Answered the question “I messed around with a SUPER drunk guy. He got it up but couldn't get off no matter what! Was it because of me or the drinks?”
• Answered the question “My 21 yr old husband (im 20) said out of anger (he claims) that he looks at porn because I'm unattractive and have gained weight. It is constantly on my mind and even though he apologized and said he didn't mean it I feel like he does. What do I do?”
• Answered the question “what is the real reason why men hit woman and why they always say im sorry or its ur fault. will they ever stop hitting?”
• Answered the question “me and my ex have been fighting for a while it is because i started to fall for another guy that i used to like a couple years ago i still liked him since to this day. i broke up with him cause i fell in love with the other guy and not him. my question is”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy tells you he likes you then ignores you the very next day??”
• Answered the question “The guy I'm dating recently told me he's had sexual fantasies about his sister. Is this normal or am I dating a total psychopath?”
• Answered the question “On a date, do guys prefer jeans or a dress? hair up or hair down?”
• Answered the question “My husband says he doesn't ever think about another women naked ....Is that true???”
• Answered the question “My ex was IN LOVE with me and i felt a little too clustered so i dumped him and for a while he would come back and then he just stopped, now i miss him like crazy & hes hangin with other girls and he seems just fine like he doesnt even care , what do i do”
• Answered the question “Do guys really find Bisexual girls hot? I mean, I'm bisexual but don't see what the big deal is when guys start panting like dogs when they learn that I have a girlfriend.”
• Answered the question “Met a friend of a friend, hung out and he called me almost every night. After a little more than a month we finally kissed. The calls and hanging out stopped after that night. I am confused. Why is he avoiding me?”
• Answered the question “If you see a girl who is a flat-out 10(on a scaled of hottness), but she's with a girl who's a 6 or maybe 7, would you still talk to her/hit on her? And if you did, would there be any chance you would go out of your way to talk to the 6 or just ignore her”
• Answered the question “if my boyfriend has had sex with his ex since we've been together and says its nothing it will never happen again but they still text and say they love each other does it mean he's still sleeping with her.?”
• Answered the question “Me & my husband just got married, but he is a virgin & I'm not (I have a 3 yr old... which he loves like his own). I want to have sex, but, he told me he is scared that he will suck (we are 23) and he thinks something is wrong with him. How do i get him t”
• Answered the question “What is the male opinion on lip piercings? I am thinking about getting the side of my lip pierced and want to know if guys will think i'm easy or if it would deter a man?”
• Commented on Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?
• Answered the question “my husband has cheated on me twice in 2 years, he has also stayed in contact with his x g/f , i just recently found this all out he would stay gone all hrs of the night sometimes never coming home, he told me he wants to change i said we'll take it day by”
• Commented on Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?
• Answered the question “If I'm fat (not morbidly obese, but chunky) is there any way that a guy will be able to see past that..ever?”
• Answered the question “Ok so here is a good ol' "insecure woman" kind of a question, will a guy make out with a girl if he doesn't want to? Like if he felt sorry for her or she initiated it?”
• Answered the question “heyy there mystery guy so I'am getting merry next week and I told my boy friend that I was virgen but I really ain't what should I do???????????????”
• Answered the question “Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?”
• Answered the question “How do you get your boyfriend to quit or cut back on smoking?”
• Answered the question “does it matter to guys if girls have a little bit of a tummy?? t”
• Answered the question “My husband's high school reunion is coming up and he doesn't want me to go because he says that he won't be able to pay any attention to me. His reunion is not like a lot of reunions, it's at a hotel and casino. Ther are also having a pool party, should”
• Answered the question “What do you think of body piercings, like a nipple ring or a clit piercing?”
• Answered the question “how can i get over the vengefull feelings i have for my ex?”
• Answered the question “Cheating is horrible, but do you think cheating by giving oral or having sex is worse? My boyfriend seems to think oral is more personal and hurtful. I think it's minor and sex means more.”
• Answered the question “I'm ridiculously horny right now. Besides sex, what's a good cure?”
• Answered the question “My ex and I still hook up and act couple-y. He tells me that he wants me to get over him but he still sticks around. Why?”
• Answered the question “If youre a virgin but the guy doesnt know will he be able to tell that you are the first time you have sex with him? Or is it possible he wont even notice?”
• Answered the question “A guy who tells me everyday he loves me adores me wants to take care of me and wants to marry me do you think he is committed to me”
• Answered the question “When your husband tells you he doesn't want to have a baby with you should u take it personally?”
• Answered the question “Where is a good place to meet guys? I am over the gross guys I have met out at bars or clubs, you just don't find worthwhile guys, just guys that want ass. Do you have any suggestions of how to meet good relationship type guys?”
• Answered the question “why do men prefer high maintenance, gorgeous women over easy going, attractive women?”
• Answered the question “I was with a guy for two years. Towards the end of the relationship, I cheated on him because I felt like he wasn't there for me, at all. When he found out, we broke up, and he wanted absolutely nothing to do with me, even when I apologized and begged for”
• Answered the question “I am a black belt is tae kwon do and every time i tell a guy that, they get this freaked out look on their face. Is it really that intimidating?”
• Answered the question “Is it true that when a man walks into a room, scoping out the place for the hottest woman is done in a matter of seconds, or at least "rating" them? If that is true, is it everytime a man walks into a room?”
• Answered the question “Recently I've became atheist but I haven't told my mother and my family in general.Everyone expect me to go to church with them but I hate to!What should I do?”
• Answered the question “I absolutely hate anal. It's not even a discussion I'll have. But at the same time, I *love* going down on guys. I actually like giving oral better than getting it. Do you think most men will see this as a fair trade-off?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is upset with me, but he keeps saying he's "not mad." He obviously is, because he's being short with me. He will call me just to not talk to me! How do I get him to stop pouting and communicate with me like an adult?”
• Answered the question “I'm in a new relationship and was wondering about the first time we sleep together. I don't know his past in that area, but I wanted to know how I can be exciting in bed without appearing slutty?”
• Answered the question “How can a girl be sexually active, not necessarily in relationships, and avoid being considered a slut? I know you'll be blunt, but I love sex and being with guys...finding boyfriend material is kinda difficult. I don't want to be considered easy or a slu”
• Answered the question “We only have had one heavy make out sesion so far. Is it horibly mean to give a guy an erection but not help him out?”
• Answered the question “i'm 18 and my mom recently got remarried to a 25 year old HOTTIE....i've been sleeping with him for the past 3 months.i really want to keep "bangin" but it's so wrong. what do i do?”
• Answered the question “How do I tell the guy I've been dating (a little over 2 months) that I want us to have sex more often? Right now, we see each other about 1-2 times a week, and we don't have sex EVERY time we see each other. I would just like that number to increase, but ”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend got mad at me because I go tanning,he thinks I'm killing myself, and is now furious with me and is holding a grudge. What can I do to make it up to him? Or at least get him to talk to me?”
• Answered the question “I'm having trouble being faithful. I'm with a deflowered by me virgin right now, and he's great, but I want more. He's not the most well endowed either. I have feelings for him, and don't want to hurt him. My mind is a wandering though. How do I keep mys”
• Answered the question “If your a virgin and your boyfriend have had sex do you think he'll cheat on you ?”
• Answered the question “I recently moved in with my boyfriend. I like to sleep in the nude, and he seems to enjoy this as well. But, it's starting to get a little out of hand. I'll wake up to find him staring at my chest, sucking on my nipples, or rubbing my breasts. Don't get m”
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• Answered the question “I slept with this guy cause I really like him. He knows that I like him and he tells me he isn't ready for a relationship yet. How do I get him ready for one??”
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• Answered the question “What is the first thing guys look for in women?”
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• Answered the question “I absolutely hate rubbing lotion on my boyfriend's back and he always gets upset that I refuse to do it. But just yesterday his roommate rubbed lotion on my bf's back right in front of me. It totally looked gay and I felt uncomfortable. Is this normal?”
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• Answered the question “Dude, if a guy has sex with a lot of women... should i go out with him?”
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• Answered the question “Ok I've been talking to this guy for about 2 weeks. We've been texting and every night he says "goodnight," sometimes he'll add loser or some joke made in a previous text, but last night he said "good night lady friend." Should i take this as a good sign?”
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• Answered the question “Where are all the good men hiding? I live in NYC and they're definitely not here. They're either married, gay or both and have too many options available to them in this city.”
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• chrissie1101 commented on I'm 34 and I avoid dating/relationships at all costs because to me, relationships equate to daily judgement. I don't want to be rejected when he finds out I have a stretch mark. I don't want to be cast aside because of some new-found intellectual deficit.
  beautiful....
• chrissie1101 commented on MM, please help! I've stopped being happy in my 3 yr relationship and think it's time to end things, but we moved to college together out of state and I only know him. I don't want to be all alone. I still love him, but I spend more time upset than happy.
  yeah seriously, actually i guess my two cents for the night just got upped to five, i was just in the car for a bit and...out of the freakin blue your comment came back to me. i don't know why it did but it did. you know, i was attacked as well for calling something someone that someone ELSE didn't like this week, so i was really trying not to rock the boat. but your comment came back to me as i was driving back home from literally talking someone off the ledge. she's bipolar, a friend of the family,...
• formerlyknownasalexis commented on MM, please help! I've stopped being happy in my 3 yr relationship and think it's time to end things, but we moved to college together out of state and I only know him. I don't want to be all alone. I still love him, but I spend more time upset than happy.
  Chrissie, that was more like like a couple of dollars! lol...
• formerlyknownasalexis commented on MM, please help! I've stopped being happy in my 3 yr relationship and think it's time to end things, but we moved to college together out of state and I only know him. I don't want to be all alone. I still love him, but I spend more time upset than happy.
  This reminds me of a Jane Austen quote. "All the privilege I claim for my own sex (it is not a very enviable one, you need not covet it) is that of loving longest, when existence or when hope is gone." Women have this cursed ability to love an undeserving man LOOOONG after the relationship is over, or should have been over. If you can understand rationally that the relationship is not good for you, then it is essentially over and you just have to admit it to yourself. You can't hang on hoping that he will change or mature...
• chrissie1101 commented on MM, please help! I've stopped being happy in my 3 yr relationship and think it's time to end things, but we moved to college together out of state and I only know him. I don't want to be all alone. I still love him, but I spend more time upset than happy.
  lolol yeah, i guess it kinda was....