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• Answered the question “My 21 yr old husband (im 20) said out of anger (he claims) that he looks at porn because I'm unattractive and have gained weight. It is constantly on my mind and even though he apologized and said he didn't mean it I feel like he does. What do I do?”
• Answered the question “what is the real reason why men hit woman and why they always say im sorry or its ur fault. will they ever stop hitting?”
• Answered the question “me and my ex have been fighting for a while it is because i started to fall for another guy that i used to like a couple years ago i still liked him since to this day. i broke up with him cause i fell in love with the other guy and not him. my question is”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy tells you he likes you then ignores you the very next day??”
• Answered the question “The guy I'm dating recently told me he's had sexual fantasies about his sister. Is this normal or am I dating a total psychopath?”
• Answered the question “On a date, do guys prefer jeans or a dress? hair up or hair down?”
• Answered the question “My husband says he doesn't ever think about another women naked ....Is that true???”
• Answered the question “My ex was IN LOVE with me and i felt a little too clustered so i dumped him and for a while he would come back and then he just stopped, now i miss him like crazy & hes hangin with other girls and he seems just fine like he doesnt even care , what do i do”
• Answered the question “Do guys really find Bisexual girls hot? I mean, I'm bisexual but don't see what the big deal is when guys start panting like dogs when they learn that I have a girlfriend.”
• Answered the question “Met a friend of a friend, hung out and he called me almost every night. After a little more than a month we finally kissed. The calls and hanging out stopped after that night. I am confused. Why is he avoiding me?”
• Answered the question “If you see a girl who is a flat-out 10(on a scaled of hottness), but she's with a girl who's a 6 or maybe 7, would you still talk to her/hit on her? And if you did, would there be any chance you would go out of your way to talk to the 6 or just ignore her”
• Answered the question “if my boyfriend has had sex with his ex since we've been together and says its nothing it will never happen again but they still text and say they love each other does it mean he's still sleeping with her.?”
• Answered the question “Me & my husband just got married, but he is a virgin & I'm not (I have a 3 yr old... which he loves like his own). I want to have sex, but, he told me he is scared that he will suck (we are 23) and he thinks something is wrong with him. How do i get him t”
• Answered the question “What is the male opinion on lip piercings? I am thinking about getting the side of my lip pierced and want to know if guys will think i'm easy or if it would deter a man?”
• Commented on Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?
• Answered the question “my husband has cheated on me twice in 2 years, he has also stayed in contact with his x g/f , i just recently found this all out he would stay gone all hrs of the night sometimes never coming home, he told me he wants to change i said we'll take it day by”
• Commented on Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?
• Answered the question “If I'm fat (not morbidly obese, but chunky) is there any way that a guy will be able to see past that..ever?”
• Answered the question “Ok so here is a good ol' "insecure woman" kind of a question, will a guy make out with a girl if he doesn't want to? Like if he felt sorry for her or she initiated it?”
• Answered the question “heyy there mystery guy so I'am getting merry next week and I told my boy friend that I was virgen but I really ain't what should I do???????????????”
• Answered the question “Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?”
• Answered the question “How do you get your boyfriend to quit or cut back on smoking?”
• Answered the question “does it matter to guys if girls have a little bit of a tummy?? t”
• Answered the question “My husband's high school reunion is coming up and he doesn't want me to go because he says that he won't be able to pay any attention to me. His reunion is not like a lot of reunions, it's at a hotel and casino. Ther are also having a pool party, should”
• Answered the question “What do you think of body piercings, like a nipple ring or a clit piercing?”
• Answered the question “how can i get over the vengefull feelings i have for my ex?”
• Answered the question “Cheating is horrible, but do you think cheating by giving oral or having sex is worse? My boyfriend seems to think oral is more personal and hurtful. I think it's minor and sex means more.”
• Answered the question “I'm ridiculously horny right now. Besides sex, what's a good cure?”
• Answered the question “My ex and I still hook up and act couple-y. He tells me that he wants me to get over him but he still sticks around. Why?”
• Answered the question “If youre a virgin but the guy doesnt know will he be able to tell that you are the first time you have sex with him? Or is it possible he wont even notice?”
• Answered the question “A guy who tells me everyday he loves me adores me wants to take care of me and wants to marry me do you think he is committed to me”
• Answered the question “When your husband tells you he doesn't want to have a baby with you should u take it personally?”
• Answered the question “Where is a good place to meet guys? I am over the gross guys I have met out at bars or clubs, you just don't find worthwhile guys, just guys that want ass. Do you have any suggestions of how to meet good relationship type guys?”
• Answered the question “why do men prefer high maintenance, gorgeous women over easy going, attractive women?”
• Answered the question “I was with a guy for two years. Towards the end of the relationship, I cheated on him because I felt like he wasn't there for me, at all. When he found out, we broke up, and he wanted absolutely nothing to do with me, even when I apologized and begged for”
• Answered the question “I am a black belt is tae kwon do and every time i tell a guy that, they get this freaked out look on their face. Is it really that intimidating?”
• Answered the question “Is it true that when a man walks into a room, scoping out the place for the hottest woman is done in a matter of seconds, or at least "rating" them? If that is true, is it everytime a man walks into a room?”
• Answered the question “Recently I've became atheist but I haven't told my mother and my family in general.Everyone expect me to go to church with them but I hate to!What should I do?”
• Answered the question “I absolutely hate anal. It's not even a discussion I'll have. But at the same time, I *love* going down on guys. I actually like giving oral better than getting it. Do you think most men will see this as a fair trade-off?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is upset with me, but he keeps saying he's "not mad." He obviously is, because he's being short with me. He will call me just to not talk to me! How do I get him to stop pouting and communicate with me like an adult?”
• Answered the question “I'm in a new relationship and was wondering about the first time we sleep together. I don't know his past in that area, but I wanted to know how I can be exciting in bed without appearing slutty?”
• Answered the question “How can a girl be sexually active, not necessarily in relationships, and avoid being considered a slut? I know you'll be blunt, but I love sex and being with guys...finding boyfriend material is kinda difficult. I don't want to be considered easy or a slu”
• Answered the question “We only have had one heavy make out sesion so far. Is it horibly mean to give a guy an erection but not help him out?”
• Answered the question “i'm 18 and my mom recently got remarried to a 25 year old HOTTIE....i've been sleeping with him for the past 3 months.i really want to keep "bangin" but it's so wrong. what do i do?”
• Answered the question “How do I tell the guy I've been dating (a little over 2 months) that I want us to have sex more often? Right now, we see each other about 1-2 times a week, and we don't have sex EVERY time we see each other. I would just like that number to increase, but ”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend got mad at me because I go tanning,he thinks I'm killing myself, and is now furious with me and is holding a grudge. What can I do to make it up to him? Or at least get him to talk to me?”
• Answered the question “I'm having trouble being faithful. I'm with a deflowered by me virgin right now, and he's great, but I want more. He's not the most well endowed either. I have feelings for him, and don't want to hurt him. My mind is a wandering though. How do I keep mys”
• Answered the question “If your a virgin and your boyfriend have had sex do you think he'll cheat on you ?”
• Answered the question “I recently moved in with my boyfriend. I like to sleep in the nude, and he seems to enjoy this as well. But, it's starting to get a little out of hand. I'll wake up to find him staring at my chest, sucking on my nipples, or rubbing my breasts. Don't get m”
• Answered the question “What is the best way to seduce my best friend into bed? (i'm a woman and he's a guy) N.B. I don't care if I should or shouldn't do this: I want to, regardless.”
• Answered the question “The other day i walked in on my bf letting our dog lick his penis. My question is how do i confront him about without shaming him? Does this mean he's into animals? Should I dress up like puppy next time we're intimate?”
• Answered the question “Can guys feel a girl's boobs when they hug? Is that why guys are always giving me hugs? Also, what's the deal with a side hug. Those are awful.”
• Answered the question “From your mysterious male opinion, what reasons seem justified for getting a divorce? Specificly, I am wondering if a serial liar counts, someone you don't trust.”
• Answered the question “Are guys intimidated by a pretty woman (pretty decent bod too) with a 3.7 GPA, an array of artistic interests/social circles, a job, well as landing a very competitive internship. Not to mention the internship involved a lot of studies on being great in b”
• Answered the question “Ok, so if an ex boyfriend doesnt kiss you when you try because you're drunk does that mean he's not interested at all anymore?”
• Answered the question “I am over 100 pounds more than my husband who is in the military. He always insists that I'm perfect and he loves me and he says I'm hot. But I don't believe him. I've always been self conscious. Why does he think fat is attractive?”
• Answered the question “How do i get my boyfriend to stop asking for anal?”
• Answered the question “Do men even notice things on women like nice arms or a nice back? I spend a lot of time working out those areas.”
• Answered the question “I'm married w/ 2 kids, I love my husband, but I talk to guys online, and send and receive dirty pics. Is this really cheating to a guy?”
• Commented on How do I help a guy fall out of love with me, aside from not hanging out anymore, but still maintaining a friendship?
• Answered the question “How do I help a guy fall out of love with me, aside from not hanging out anymore, but still maintaining a friendship?”
• Answered the question “There is this guy and he keeps giving me mixed signals, he stares at me a lot but acts like a total asshole, how do i know if he likes me?”
• Answered the question “I have been seeing this guy for 12 yrs and we have a 2 year old kid together and now he got married 1 year ago but he was cheating with me before and after they got married. What does that mean?”
• Answered the question “I slept with this guy cause I really like him. He knows that I like him and he tells me he isn't ready for a relationship yet. How do I get him ready for one??”
• Answered the question “True or false: Guys like waiting to get the goodies? I've been seeing a dude for maybe three weeks (pretty much every day) and haven't slept with him yet. I want him to REALLY want it. Is this a good path to take?”
• Answered the question “How do I know if a guy likes me? What are the signals?”
• Answered the question “Would it bother most guys if a woman had one breast a cup size smaller than the other?”
• Answered the question “Do guys ever think about the girls they've wronged? For instance: I was dating a guy for a couple of months, everything was great. It's been 3 weeks and bam, no communication, plans, texts, calls, zip. Do guys ever think of THAT?”
• Answered the question “What do guys honestly think about girls who are virgins in their early 20s? Is it a total turn-off? Do they think they're prude? I can't help but feel insecure about it, even if I haven't found the right person to share that experience with.”
• Commented on What is the first thing guys look for in women?
• Answered the question “How often do guy's think about sex, when they are 15?”
• Answered the question “What is the first thing guys look for in women?”
• Commented on Do guys actually get paranoid about being a virgin's "first"?
• Answered the question “Do guys actually get paranoid about being a virgin's "first"?”
• Posted Tiger Woods Has A Smoking Hot Wife: Why Would He Cheat? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I absolutely hate rubbing lotion on my boyfriend's back and he always gets upset that I refuse to do it. But just yesterday his roommate rubbed lotion on my bf's back right in front of me. It totally looked gay and I felt uncomfortable. Is this normal?”
• Answered the question “After a "booty call" are you supposed to kiss them?”
• Answered the question “I gained 40 lbs from having my 2nd son. I want to do kickboxing classes but my husband says i shouldn't. What is he really saying? Keep in mind i used to weigh 130 lbs.”
• Answered the question “When you ask your boyfriend if he cheated on you with a certain person or cheated at all, and he starts snapping saying why would he ever do that and how mad he is at me for asking him, and that I should know better, Does that mean he has cheated?”
• Answered the question “Is it possible for a friends with benefits to become more?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend talks about how other girls are hot. I play it off, but it really bothers me. What do I do?”
• Commented on What do guys think of push-up bras?
• Answered the question “What do guys think of push-up bras?”
• Answered the question “If a guy say's that he is not looking to be in a relationship and then start's dating another girl.....what does that mean?”
• Answered the question “Dude, if a guy has sex with a lot of women... should i go out with him?”
• Answered the question “I hooked up with a traveling guy in September, good connection blah blah. We decided to cut things off "as friends". He's planning to come back to my town in February. Will he be coming back with the expectation of having sex with me on this second visit?”
• Answered the question “How can I tell when a guy is horny?”
• Answered the question “Got any recommendations for a gay woman considering men?”
• Answered the question “I hate, hate, hate receiving oral. It doesn't do a thing for me, but it seems men love to give it. I love to give oral, however. Should I just pretend I'm enjoying it and deal, or tell him his mouth is not allowed near my southern region?”
• Answered the question “When do girls go from possible gf material to being in the friend zone?”
• Answered the question “If a guy says, "Let's go out again. When are you free?" but you haven't heard from him when you tell him when you're free, is it worth checking in to see what's up?”
• Answered the question “This guy I've been talking to (we've been hot then cold for over 2 years) deleted me off Facebook after I found out he has a girlfriend, and I called him out for cheating on her. Should I call him and figure out why he always shuts me out of his life?”
• Posted Twilight Saga: Girl Love? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Ok I've been talking to this guy for about 2 weeks. We've been texting and every night he says "goodnight," sometimes he'll add loser or some joke made in a previous text, but last night he said "good night lady friend." Should i take this as a good sign?”
• Answered the question “Ok, so I saw this movie "He's not that into you" and it really opened my eyes about a lot of stuff, but now I want to know how do you guys act if you are really into a girl? How can we know?”
• Answered the question “How big does my mouth have to be before guys will be attracted to me?”
• Posted Your Personal Commute From Hell? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend of three years keeps promising he'll stop lying to me and sneaking around behind my back. He hasn't. I keep giving him chance after chance but I get nothing. Will he ever stop disregarding my feelings and hurting me?”
• Answered the question “Okay I'm dating a married man...he talks so bad about his wife, I've met her she seems horrible. They've been married for 7 yrs and have 4 kids. Am i wasting my time with him?”
• Answered the question “Do Guys Like Skinny Jeans on Women?”
• Commented on What are some new up and coming bands that the cool kids are listening to?
• Answered the question “I am dating a great guy the problem is I am worried to tell him that I have burn scars all over my body. How do I tell him? Will I lose him if I tell him? Do men not like women with scars?”
• Answered the question “How do you get a guy to like you?”
• Commented on How can i tell if a guy is gay?
• Answered the question “If you're dating a girl you really like, and she tells you she wants to wait until after she's married to have sex, is that an automatic deal breaker for you?”
• Commented on I think I hate my husband. We have a kid and I want to be divorced so badly. But I worry about my kid. It has gotten to the point where I can barely fake liking him anymore. I am just sick about what to do and how it will effect our child someday.
• Answered the question “I think I hate my husband. We have a kid and I want to be divorced so badly. But I worry about my kid. It has gotten to the point where I can barely fake liking him anymore. I am just sick about what to do and how it will effect our child someday.”
• Answered the question “If a guy keeps staring at you and then when you look looks away, does that mean that he likes you?”
• Posted Is CNN The New Jerry Springer? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Whats it mean if a guy refers to a girl he's going out with as this girl I'm talking to. Shouldn't he say this girl I'm dating?”
• Commented on Where are all the good men hiding? I live in NYC and they're definitely not here. They're either married, gay or both and have too many options available to them in this city.
• Answered the question “Where are all the good men hiding? I live in NYC and they're definitely not here. They're either married, gay or both and have too many options available to them in this city.”
• Posted “Dude's Paradise” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on That Guy Who "Doesn't Watch TV"
• Posted That Guy Who "Doesn't Watch TV" to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Surfing The Net Above The Clouds (I'm Looking At You NWA)
• Answered the question “If your girlfriend asked you nicely, would you go to a Halloween party dressed as ketchup and mustard? You could choose which of the two you wanted to be...”
• Posted 5 Truly Scary Halloween Costumes to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “She Pimp” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on do you like girls with tattoos?
• Answered the question “I hada threesome with my boyfriend and another guy. The other guy was much bigger than my boyfriend, and I got a little carried away.My boyfriend is small, but I had gotten over it. He wasn't happy with my admiration for the other guy's member...”
• Posted “Vaginasaurus Rex” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “So this girl [friend of a friend] emailed me and wants to "get some coffee and catch up." Thing is, I don't really know her. She's seen my rock band once years ago, and I've helped her with college grants [my job], but that's it. Feels awkward.”
• Posted “Strings McGee” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “How important are big boobs? Is it true that all you need is a handful? Would you rather have a hot girl with small real ones or big fake ones?”
• Posted Worst Office Attitude: The Total D-Bag to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Hat Trick” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Do you think there is "too" young an age to be engaged?”
• Answered the question “Hi, I'm a black woman who's open to dating all races. But I find it extra hard to figure out if non-black guys are interested. Are there any special "tactics" to use with guys of a different race to let them know they've got the green light.”
• Posted Girls Next Door: How Do They Do It? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Broversity” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Mangina” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I've been married for 5 years. My husband lived on his own before we got married and supposedly took care of himself. So, why am I now turning into the "parent?" I do all the bill paying, cooking, responsible stuff.”
• Answered the question “Why does my boyfriend chew with his mouth open?”
• Posted Lady Gaga and Madonna: Sharing the Same Disco Stick? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Nappy Dugout” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Dude-O-Crat” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted Ten Things I'd Rather Do Than Have Sex With Whoopi Goldberg to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend keeps commenting on my weight. I know I've put on about 7 pounds I really want to lose, but his comments aren't motivating--they just upset me. How do I get this across to him?”
• Answered the question “This guy I am dating just told me he has experimented with men but prefers women... so am I dating a gay guy?”

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• Rach commented on Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?
  sexuality doesn't have anything to do with being a good person, ie having morals. Take an ethics class, people!...
• chrocs commented on Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?
  If my reading comprehension abilities are not mistaken, the question is not about Cosmo vs the Bible but women who read Cosmo as if it was the Bible and follow every single silly advice as if it was an absolute truth. The advice in some of these magazines is absolutely unrealistic and some women risk making asses of themselves for following it to the letter instead of just living and learning for themselves what works and what doesn't. Am I right, Mr. Mystery Man?...
• Molly commented on Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?
  I didn't realize Rach's system of ethics is the ultimate truth and no other ways of thinking apply. Open your mind....
• Rach commented on Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?
  its not MY version of ethics, its the scholarly agreed upon position- if you approach ethics (whats right and wrong) from a RATIONAL, logical standpointe they really have nothing to do with each other. True ethics is about rationality, not making arbitrary rules as to what one can and cannot do....
• Alexa commented on Do men like it when a woman reads magazines such as Cosmo? Or do men just wish women wouldn't follow magazines as if it were their "bible"?
  Am I the only religious woman (Jewish, although don't think that would make much of a difference), who LOVES her monthly Cosmo, if for no other reason than 1) its entertainment value and 2) the occasional inspiration for... uhm... a very Biblical commandment to enjoy physical intimacy?.. I certainly hope not......