Nick Nadel

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• Commented on I messed around with a SUPER drunk guy. He got it up but couldn't get off no matter what! Was it because of me or the drinks?
• Answered the question “My "ex" boyfriend will blow me off and act like he doesn't care for days on end. And i'm not the type to text or call him if he doesnt call me, but randomly he'll tell me he loves me, misses me, etc. When i reply and ask where it came from i never get an ”
• Commented on What is the definition of an "open" marriage?
• Posted The Old Spice Guy Is All Sorts of Awesome to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Lurve” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What is the definition of an "open" marriage?”
• Answered the question “I like to go deep when giving a blowjob but my man always grabs my hair and likes when I stay there ( making it hard to breath ) ive tried telling him let me breath lol .. but he gets to excited how do i get him to relax and to enjoy it at the same time !”
• Commented on The Oscars: Decidedly Unfunny
• Answered the question “What is a guy's opinion to when girls curse frequently? Is it a turn off?”
• Answered the question “What is a guy's view on dirty texts, and what is appropriate and what is not? Thanks!”
• Answered the question “Why is it guys you used to date want you back when your about to get married???”
• Commented on What are your suggestions for learning to be alone? Or at least, how to make it more bearable. Please forego the "Plan a night with your girlfriends and paint each others' toenails!" route of advice. I'm not looking for distraction, I'm looking for peace
• Posted GuySpeak Vs. Lemondrop: Boyfriends Without Benefits to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What are your suggestions for learning to be alone? Or at least, how to make it more bearable. Please forego the "Plan a night with your girlfriends and paint each others' toenails!" route of advice. I'm not looking for distraction, I'm looking for peace ”
• Commented on How do I get my boyfriend to buy me tampons?
• Commented on How do I get my boyfriend to buy me tampons?
• Answered the question “How do I get my boyfriend to buy me tampons?”
• Answered the question “Can a really romantic movie persuade or even change a guy's mind about you when he sees it? Does it even affect guys?”
• Answered the question “is it unattractive to be sweaty at the gym?”
• Commented on What's horchata?
• Answered the question “What's horchata?”
• Posted Is Chatroulette the Future of Online Dating? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Double dates. What are your thoughts?
• Commented on I am an attractive, educated, and intelligent female who after 15+ years of marriage is now divorced. I am shocked to learn that my ex has now decided to pursue a gay lifestyle. Although I have nothing to do with his decision,, I have to wonder what guy
• Commented on Maybe I've been watching too much "He's just not that into you," but I refuse to text a guy first. If he is interested he will text me. Not only the first time, but like as we date he should always text me first. How do guys feel about this?
• Answered the question “Double dates. What are your thoughts?”
• Answered the question “I am an attractive, educated, and intelligent female who after 15+ years of marriage is now divorced. I am shocked to learn that my ex has now decided to pursue a gay lifestyle. Although I have nothing to do with his decision,, I have to wonder what guy”
• Commented on Is it normal for guys to have a white residue on "themselves" before they shower or when they wake up? And I'm not referring to any white residue from ejaculation. I mean otherwise.
• Commented on Is it normal for guys to have a white residue on "themselves" before they shower or when they wake up? And I'm not referring to any white residue from ejaculation. I mean otherwise.
• Commented on When (and how???) in a relationship do you reveal that you were once obese but have lost weight due to weight loss surgery? And would it be a turnoff to you?
• Commented on What are your thoughts on long distance relationships? Are they worth the work it would take?
• Answered the question “What are your thoughts on long distance relationships? Are they worth the work it would take?”
• Commented on 5 Ways To Improve Your Guy's Wardrobe
• Commented on Is it normal for guys to have a white residue on "themselves" before they shower or when they wake up? And I'm not referring to any white residue from ejaculation. I mean otherwise.
• Answered the question “If a guy tells you he wants a "committed, yet casual and exclusive relationship" what does that mean?”
• Answered the question “When (and how???) in a relationship do you reveal that you were once obese but have lost weight due to weight loss surgery? And would it be a turnoff to you?”
• Answered the question “Is it normal for guys to have a white residue on "themselves" before they shower or when they wake up? And I'm not referring to any white residue from ejaculation. I mean otherwise.”
• Commented on 5 Ways To Improve Your Guy's Wardrobe
• Posted 5 Ways To Improve Your Guy's Wardrobe to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on If I'm fat (not morbidly obese, but chunky) is there any way that a guy will be able to see past that..ever?
• Answered the question “How can I ask a guy that I'm hooking up with for the night if i can spend the night?”
• Commented on When TV Shows Stick Around Too Long
• Commented on When TV Shows Stick Around Too Long
• Answered the question “I'm scared if I tell him I want a relationship, I'll lose him as a friend. We have been friends with benefits for a year now, and I thought that was enough but it's not.”
• Answered the question “I just started dating a guy I met online. Every time an attractive girl comes around, my date stares at the girl until there's eye contact. I'm actually surprised he hasn't broken his neck yet! I figure it's a bad sign if he's not trying to hide it out of”
• Answered the question “I can't stop cyber-stalking my boyfriend's ex! He won't talk to me about his ex, so everything I know about her, I found out online. How can I stop obsessing over this?”
• Posted Valentine's Day Gifts For the Geek (and Non-Geek) In Your Life to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Me and my best guy friend have this bet where we don't call eachother. If I win, he has to give me a musical performance and if he wins he gets to take artsy and possibly nude photos of me. It's been a couple of weeks, could you give me insight into his t”
• Commented on i pretended to be someone else on facebook and talked to my boyfriend, and now he's totally in love with her should confront him or i shouldn't
• Commented on i pretended to be someone else on facebook and talked to my boyfriend, and now he's totally in love with her should confront him or i shouldn't
• Answered the question “i pretended to be someone else on facebook and talked to my boyfriend, and now he's totally in love with her should confront him or i shouldn't”
• Commented on So, since this is a site for women, how do we know you're not just telling us what we want to hear? Would you hold the same views, say, if this were Men.com?
• Commented on Saw an email that stated: Nice pictures Mr. Boneder...what does this mean? Is this Mr. Boneder a saying among guys and does that mean hes sending sex pictures to his friends?
• Commented on What do guys think about a girl who plays guitar and electric guitar, even when he can't play anything?
• Answered the question “What do guys think about a girl who plays guitar and electric guitar, even when he can't play anything?”
• Answered the question “Saw an email that stated: Nice pictures Mr. Boneder...what does this mean? Is this Mr. Boneder a saying among guys and does that mean hes sending sex pictures to his friends?”
• Commented on Saw an email that stated: Nice pictures Mr. Boneder...what does this mean? Is this Mr. Boneder a saying among guys and does that mean hes sending sex pictures to his friends?
• Posted “Mr. Boneder” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on 7 Romantic <i>Lost</i> Moments
• Answered the question “Do guys REALLY believe in love at first sight? Or is it just a bunch of crap?”
• Commented on My boyfriend is a fan of some porn model on facebook. I guess I'm being immature and insecure with myself but it kind of bugged me. Do I say anything? Or just let it go?
• Commented on My boyfriend is a fan of some porn model on facebook. I guess I'm being immature and insecure with myself but it kind of bugged me. Do I say anything? Or just let it go?
• Posted 7 Romantic Lost Moments to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on My boyfriend is a fan of some porn model on facebook. I guess I'm being immature and insecure with myself but it kind of bugged me. Do I say anything? Or just let it go?
• Commented on What does is mean when a guy writes your number down on piece of paper, but clearly has a phone?
• Answered the question “My guy and I are poor college students. We've been fwb's since October, made it facebook official last month.Currently, he's broke. Is this a legit excuse for him to not give a V-day gift? Would it make him feel bad if I got/made him something? The best g”
• Commented on My boyfriend is a fan of some porn model on facebook. I guess I'm being immature and insecure with myself but it kind of bugged me. Do I say anything? Or just let it go?
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is a fan of some porn model on facebook. I guess I'm being immature and insecure with myself but it kind of bugged me. Do I say anything? Or just let it go?”
• Answered the question “what does it mean when my boyfriend does not invite me to go to a party with him and leaves me at home?”
• Answered the question “Bachelor parties. Is it reasonable to expect my man not to go to a strip club? If im not allowed, then why should he be able to go to one?”
• Commented on 5 Things I've Learned From Women
• Commented on The Least Awful Thing About Stupid, Smelly Girls (A Letter From Michael's Eight-Year-Old Self)
• Answered the question “What does is mean when a guy writes your number down on piece of paper, but clearly has a phone?”
• Posted 5 Things I've Learned From Women to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I like to smoke weed. My boyfriend hates that I do it. I love him and I'll stop if it's going to ruin our relationship. He's not over protective, he let's me do whatever I want, it's just the weed that's an issue. He says he's just looking out for me and ”
• Commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
• Posted “Brozilla” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My best friend and i have been hooking up for 6 months. We live together and spend all our time together. Everyone thinks we're a couple, except we agreed it's just FWB. I have feelings for him now, is it likely that he has feelings for me as well or can ”
• Answered the question “After a bad break up, I went on a no-guy sabbatical to reevaluate my past missteps and to form a new, healthier perspective on what I want in a prospective mate (i.e not an ass-hat.) Its been a year now and I'm ready to date again. I'm just not sure how t”
• Commented on Conan O'Brien's Abusive Relationship With NBC
• Commented on How To Land A Funny Guy (OR Keep One)
• Commented on Batman
• Commented on How To Land A Funny Guy (OR Keep One)
• Answered the question “Why do guys wear skinny jeans?”
• Commented on How To Land A Funny Guy (OR Keep One)
• Posted Conan O'Brien's Abusive Relationship With NBC to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on How To Land A Funny Guy (OR Keep One)
• Answered the question “I'm 45 - he is 25. Why are younger men sometimes attracted to an older woman?”
• Commented on How To Score The Geeky Guy Of Your Dreams
• Commented on How To Score The Geeky Guy Of Your Dreams
• Posted How To Score The Geeky Guy Of Your Dreams to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Do guys like girls who are bitchy and mean?
• Commented on if my husband of 10+ years looks up his ex-girlfriend address on google map because he was just curious and didnt tell me (i was clearing the recent history and found out from the history of the search engine that he googled her and her husband), shoudl i
• Answered the question “Do guys like girls who are bitchy and mean?”
• Answered the question “if my husband of 10+ years looks up his ex-girlfriend address on google map because he was just curious and didnt tell me (i was clearing the recent history and found out from the history of the search engine that he googled her and her husband), shoudl i”
• Answered the question “How do I know if I am a bad kisser?”
• Answered the question “My best friend, who's a guy, is pretty cool but he has recently started making sexual jokes like "Great, we have ten minutes. Enough time for a quickie". I usually just laugh it off, but what's his deal? Is he into me or something?”
• Posted 5 Reasons Why The Golden Globes Are Better Than the Oscars to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I Kind Of Have a Crush On the Sex Robot
• Answered the question “How long is it appropriate for me to wait to be introduced to my new boyfriend's parents?”
• Answered the question “Are you scared of gay men and if so why?”
• Posted I Kind Of Have a Crush On the Sex Robot to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I contacted an ex after I heard he had cancer. He started talking to me in tears and shock that id have anything to do with him. I lost my v card to him 5 yrs ago. He cheated and left me. He's in remission and single. Should I give him a 2nd chance?
• Commented on I Kind Of Have a Crush On the Sex Robot
• Posted “Skinemax” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on My Deepest, Darkest Secret
• Answered the question “How do I get my husband to agree to a 3-some with another woman?”
• Commented on If a girl is the one to ask out the guy then who pays on the first date? Should it be the guy still?
• Commented on If a girl is the one to ask out the guy then who pays on the first date? Should it be the guy still?
• Commented on If a girl is the one to ask out the guy then who pays on the first date? Should it be the guy still?
• Commented on If a girl is the one to ask out the guy then who pays on the first date? Should it be the guy still?
• Commented on Girls BFF -- i have large boobs but when the ole bra comes off they arent very perky becuase they are so...er, large. Is that gross to guys?
• Commented on he says he wants to save money to buy a ring and we will get married this spring but he has bought 2 vehicles since. will he buy me a ring
• Commented on If a girl is the one to ask out the guy then who pays on the first date? Should it be the guy still?
• Answered the question “he says he wants to save money to buy a ring and we will get married this spring but he has bought 2 vehicles since. will he buy me a ring”
• Commented on New Years' Resolutions: What's Left
• Commented on Are guys intimidated by a pretty woman (pretty decent bod too) with a 3.7 GPA, an array of artistic interests/social circles, a job, well as landing a very competitive internship. Not to mention the internship involved a lot of studies on being great in b
• Answered the question “If a girl is the one to ask out the guy then who pays on the first date? Should it be the guy still?”
• Commented on New Years' Resolutions: What's Left
• Commented on 7 Guys You Should Resolve To Never Date In the New Year
• Posted 7 Guys You Should Resolve To Never Date In the New Year to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on When men get old, do their penises shrink quite a bit??
• Answered the question “I went to a drive through coffee shop where a very hot and pleasantly nerdy bro-ista struck up a conversation with me about the wonderful world of Marvel based on a bust of Wolverine I have affixed to my dash board. Here's the question; How the heck do I ”
• Answered the question “When men get old, do their penises shrink quite a bit??”
• Commented on What do you think of a guy that make over $250k/yr, spends freely on himself but will not help a long term girlfriend out when she falls on hard times? P.S.--the girlfriend regularly prepares meals for him, does his laundry. Other than she is a doormat an
• Answered the question “why won't my boyfriend tell me how many women he has slept with?”
• Commented on The Ten Sexiest Geeks Of 2009
• Commented on I'm in a bar. Guy buys me a drink without asking. I think he's being pushy and rude. My girl friends say he's just trying to be nice, but I think they're being naive. What is a guy's true intention for buying a lady a drink without asking? Does he really
• Commented on "Of Mila and Milla," Or, "A Love That Was Never Meant To Be"
• Commented on What do you think of a guy that make over $250k/yr, spends freely on himself but will not help a long term girlfriend out when she falls on hard times? P.S.--the girlfriend regularly prepares meals for him, does his laundry. Other than she is a doormat an
• Commented on I'm in a bar. Guy buys me a drink without asking. I think he's being pushy and rude. My girl friends say he's just trying to be nice, but I think they're being naive. What is a guy's true intention for buying a lady a drink without asking? Does he really
• Commented on Which "Star Wars" movie is the best? Some guys at a party were debating (for three hours!!), and I only know that Jamaican alien is offensive, or annoying atbest. But I want to seem more in the know. I'll netflix one of them.
• Commented on What do you think of a guy that make over $250k/yr, spends freely on himself but will not help a long term girlfriend out when she falls on hard times? P.S.--the girlfriend regularly prepares meals for him, does his laundry. Other than she is a doormat an
• Answered the question “I'm in a bar. Guy buys me a drink without asking. I think he's being pushy and rude. My girl friends say he's just trying to be nice, but I think they're being naive. What is a guy's true intention for buying a lady a drink without asking? Does he really ”
• Posted “Bilbo Scumbaggins” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on What do you think of a guy that make over $250k/yr, spends freely on himself but will not help a long term girlfriend out when she falls on hard times? P.S.--the girlfriend regularly prepares meals for him, does his laundry. Other than she is a doormat an
• Commented on The Ten Sexiest Geeks Of 2009
• Answered the question “What do you think of a guy that make over $250k/yr, spends freely on himself but will not help a long term girlfriend out when she falls on hard times? P.S.--the girlfriend regularly prepares meals for him, does his laundry. Other than she is a doormat an”
• Posted The Ten Sexiest Geeks Of 2009 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “i found naked pictures of a woman in my boyfriend's special drawer. He cheated on me with her. Does this mean that I am being cheated on again?”
• Answered the question “If my bf didn't get me anything for Christmas, what do I do? We have been going out for 8 months. More of a casual thing. I did get him a very nice gift already.”
• Commented on Is it bad if a girl can get a higher score in video games then her boyfriend?
• Commented on Is it bad if a girl can get a higher score in video games then her boyfriend?
• Answered the question “What turns a 17 year old guy on?”
• Commented on The Hottest Chick Of 2009
• Commented on Chicks I Dug In 2009
• Posted Top Five Romantic Christmas Songs (Besides That Mariah Carey One) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Does he want to be my boyfriend or is he happy being snuggly pals?”
• Answered the question “I'm a writer, but I can never get my bf of 3 years to consistently read my material. I know he's busy (he's a bball player) but even when he does read it he just does it to oblige me. Why?”
• Answered the question “Is it bad if a girl can get a higher score in video games then her boyfriend?”
• Commented on I found gay porn under my boyfriend's bed. I'm really afraid of confronting him about it. What should I do??
• Answered the question “I found gay porn under my boyfriend's bed. I'm really afraid of confronting him about it. What should I do??”
• Commented on When a guy slaps you on the arm what does that mean?
• Answered the question “If a guy takes me to his company Christmas party can that mean anything significant?”
• Posted “Cray-Cray” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What does it mean if a guy constantly has to check up on you all the time? Checking cell phone, reading journal, calling to make sure I am where I said I was going to be... that sort of thing.”
• Posted “SeXXXmas” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Horizontal Polka
• Answered the question “When a guy slaps you on the arm what does that mean?”
• Answered the question “Do you think it's hot when girls Lolspeak?”
• Commented on The Dos and Don'ts Of Office Holiday Parties
• Commented on Why hasn't my 29 year old boyfriend of 8 weeks who I have known for over one year tried to kiss me?
• Commented on Why hasn't my 29 year old boyfriend of 8 weeks who I have known for over one year tried to kiss me?
• Posted The Dos and Don'ts Of Office Holiday Parties to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Why hasn't my 29 year old boyfriend of 8 weeks who I have known for over one year tried to kiss me?”
• Answered the question “Would you be mad if your girlfriend of 7 years kissed another guy, while drunk, one night?”
• Commented on The Chic Geek's Geektastic Must Have Holiday Gift Guide
• Commented on Is it odd of me to be concerned that my boyfriend's favorite book is Catcher in the Rye (and only references that one book...he hasn't read anything else by Salinger)? I don't believe he's going to shoot John Lennon or anything.
• Commented on Is it odd of me to be concerned that my boyfriend's favorite book is Catcher in the Rye (and only references that one book...he hasn't read anything else by Salinger)? I don't believe he's going to shoot John Lennon or anything.
• Commented on Is it odd of me to be concerned that my boyfriend's favorite book is Catcher in the Rye (and only references that one book...he hasn't read anything else by Salinger)? I don't believe he's going to shoot John Lennon or anything.
• Answered the question “Dear fellows, I have a lot of limitations. How do I go about finding my special someone? Please give detailed step by step advice asap. ”
• Commented on The Chic Geek's Geektastic Must Have Holiday Gift Guide
• Commented on The Chic Geek's Geektastic Must Have Holiday Gift Guide
• Answered the question “Is it odd of me to be concerned that my boyfriend's favorite book is Catcher in the Rye (and only references that one book...he hasn't read anything else by Salinger)? I don't believe he's going to shoot John Lennon or anything. ”
• Commented on Would a guy be intimidated or not even date a girl taller than him?
• Posted The Chic Geek's Geektastic Must Have Holiday Gift Guide to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Would a guy be intimidated or not even date a girl taller than him?”
• Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?
• Commented on Do guys ever think about the girls they've wronged? For instance: I was dating a guy for a couple of months, everything was great. It's been 3 weeks and bam, no communication, plans, texts, calls, zip. Do guys ever think of THAT?
• Commented on Do guys ever think about the girls they've wronged? For instance: I was dating a guy for a couple of months, everything was great. It's been 3 weeks and bam, no communication, plans, texts, calls, zip. Do guys ever think of THAT?
• Posted “Douche Rocket” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I recently had a (mistake!) threesome with a guy who I don't even know if I like and my best friend's brother... I haven't told my friend about it, but it's killing me to keep a secret like that from her. How should I tell her?”
• Posted GuySpeak Review: Men of a Certain Age Tries To Explain What Makes Guys Tick to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Why Are We Surprised When Celebrities Cheat?
• Commented on My boyfriend watches porn and lies about it. I've told him hundreds of times that I don't care that he watches porn and yet he STILL lies about it. Why?
• Commented on Man Marries Video Game Character, Action Figures Likely Next
• Commented on My boyfriend watches porn and lies about it. I've told him hundreds of times that I don't care that he watches porn and yet he STILL lies about it. Why?
• Posted “Mangyver” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on Do guys appreciate CDs/playlists their girlfriends make for them? Would he actually listen to one, even if it was totally not his music taste?
• Commented on Do guys appreciate CDs/playlists their girlfriends make for them? Would he actually listen to one, even if it was totally not his music taste?
• Answered the question “Do guys appreciate CDs/playlists their girlfriends make for them? Would he actually listen to one, even if it was totally not his music taste?”
• Answered the question “I love that my boyfriend is a huge geek, but the one thing that bugs me is his toy collection! He has not only 1, but 2 cabinet full of toys, including statues of scantily clad women with removable clothes. When I bring it up, he compares it to my shoes.”
• Commented on How To Improve The Chances That Your Question Will Be Answered
• Commented on How To Improve The Chances That Your Question Will Be Answered
• Answered the question “My boyfriend watches porn and lies about it. I've told him hundreds of times that I don't care that he watches porn and yet he STILL lies about it. Why?”
• Commented on I absolutely hate rubbing lotion on my boyfriend's back and he always gets upset that I refuse to do it. But just yesterday his roommate rubbed lotion on my bf's back right in front of me. It totally looked gay and I felt uncomfortable. Is this normal?
• Commented on Man Marries Video Game Character, Action Figures Likely Next
• Posted Man Marries Video Game Character, Action Figures Likely Next to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on I'm a little bit overweight, vegetarian, percussion major and I love South Park and Colbert Report. I've got plenty of guy friends but I'm almost NEVER the object of affection. Be honest - if I don't lose the weight, do I have any chance of finding love?
• Commented on Do men care about christmas decorations?
• Answered the question “Do men care about christmas decorations?”
• Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?
• Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?
• Commented on How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?
• Commented on Nerdgasm
• Commented on Cats, My Number One Dealbreaker
• Answered the question “I started talking to this guy I met online, and I liked him at first. We recently talked on the phone, and the chemistry was just not there. Now he's wanting to meet. Should I tell him that I'm just not into him, or just slowly stop talking?”
• Commented on How To Improve The Chances That Your Question Will Be Answered
• Commented on We girls invest so much time and money on cute bras and panties. Do men really notice?
• Commented on We girls invest so much time and money on cute bras and panties. Do men really notice?
• Commented on I'm a little bit overweight, vegetarian, percussion major and I love South Park and Colbert Report. I've got plenty of guy friends but I'm almost NEVER the object of affection. Be honest - if I don't lose the weight, do I have any chance of finding love?
• Answered the question “I'm a little bit overweight, vegetarian, percussion major and I love South Park and Colbert Report. I've got plenty of guy friends but I'm almost NEVER the object of affection. Be honest - if I don't lose the weight, do I have any chance of finding love?”
• Answered the question “We girls invest so much time and money on cute bras and panties. Do men really notice?”
• Commented on What does it mean when my boyfriend, who is 19, no children or financial responsibilities, in fact no responsibilities except school says," i am stressed". He says this at least once a week...
• Answered the question “My Bf of 3 years is ADDICTED to video games, and sometimes it feels like he is choosing them over me. What should or can I do about this?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when my boyfriend, who is 19, no children or financial responsibilities, in fact no responsibilities except school says," i am stressed". He says this at least once a week...”
• Commented on Are guys turned off when their girlfriend is more educated than them?
• Commented on 5 Burning Questions About <i>New Moon</i>
• Commented on 5 Burning Questions About <i>New Moon</i>
• Commented on Are guys turned off when their girlfriend is more educated than them?
• Commented on 5 Burning Questions About <i>New Moon</i>
• Answered the question “I asked my husband if he thinks about other hotter women when we have sex.....he said no....is he lying?”
• Posted 5 Burning Questions About New Moon to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on My fiance likes to "talk" during sex. Not dirty talk necessarily. I'm more quiet I guess but would like to be more vocal. I'm just so focused on making him feel good & what he's doing to make me feel good to come up with "talk." What do I do?
• Answered the question “My fiance likes to "talk" during sex. Not dirty talk necessarily. I'm more quiet I guess but would like to be more vocal. I'm just so focused on making him feel good & what he's doing to make me feel good to come up with "talk." What do I do?”
• Commented on Ok, so I love letting the world know I love my boyfriend. So from time to time I post it on his Twitter or Facebook. But he like totally ignores it. What the hell is up? Please help me!
• Commented on Do guys get turned off when a girl cracks dirty jokes?
• Posted “Sammich” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “TMFI” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Ok, so I love letting the world know I love my boyfriend. So from time to time I post it on his Twitter or Facebook. But he like totally ignores it. What the hell is up? Please help me!”
• Commented on Which "Star Wars" movie is the best? Some guys at a party were debating (for three hours!!), and I only know that Jamaican alien is offensive, or annoying atbest. But I want to seem more in the know. I'll netflix one of them.
• Commented on Oh Internet Women, Why Do You Love Me So?
• Commented on Oh Internet Women, Why Do You Love Me So?
• Answered the question “How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?”
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