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Answered the question “When guy says he wants mental day off from a job, what does thay mean?”

Answered the question “Has anyone ever put spyware on someone's cell phone? Why? And what is the best cellphone spyware?”

Answered the question “OMG. Christina Aguilera. WTF? Gross!”

Posted Planned Parenthood, Birth Control Recall, 'Watchmen' Prequels -- Is the World Going Crazy Already? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Help, I am deathly jealous. I can't do anything with my boyfriend. We can't go out, we can't watch television, we can't play video games. I hate that everyday my boyfriend drives to work and sees billboards with slutty women on them. I feel like I'm ruini”

Answered the question “I caught my wife sexting with another man. When I asked her about it she lied at first. Then used the Tiger Woods excuse "you shouldn't look at my Blackberry". I don't have a problem with it and it really makes her horny. She calls it her porn. Just”

Answered the question “What happens in a private booth of a strip club?”

Answered the question “What are some ideas for a guy for Valentine's Day? I'm broke, so I usually do some creative baking, but I wanted to add something extra special.My bf is kind of geeky and loves video games, but I hate them, so I need some help. What's a dude version of fl”

Posted 5 Mistakes the Oscar Nominations Made to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “"I Took an Arrow to the Knee"” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My bf of 6 mos has a bday coming up. As part of his gift I want to register for a breast cancer run in memory of his mom who died of breast cancer 10 yrs ago...but since it's still a new relationship (and since I never met her) I can't tell if I would com”

Answered the question “I had an affair(I'm married) with my ex, I want to see him again for some nsa sex, how long should I wait to contact him so I don't look desperate?”

Answered the question “My boyfriend of 1 year and I spend 90% of the time together. I truely believe he hasn't cheated on me, he's always with me, but I've seen flirty texts on one specific girl, (they've been friends for 9 years, kissed once, she's interested in him), and his”

Answered the question “What does a guy mean when he says "I want to have babies with that woman...erection!" in a joking way.”

Answered the question “Dear guyspeak masterminds, how do I keep a relationship friendly with a neighbor who wants to hang out romantically? He's alluded to wanting to try a romantic relationship, but that's not what I want. From what I can tell, there doesn't seem to be anythi”

Posted “.38 Special” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Stuff Douchebags Say to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “SOPA was shot down by the House, but the equally scary Protect IP Act is still up for consideration. What are your thoughts, CG? I hope people protest PIPA as hard as they did with SOPA!”

Answered the question “Dear GC, I'm upset at my BF. I wanted to watch "The adventures of Tin Tin"and he said "Why pay for it when you can download it?" I told him I wanted to watch it in 3D for the cool effects and he said my reason to watch it at the theater was stupid!! I fou”

Answered the question “My bf and i have been togather for 5 years now we have 1 child togather and have been living togather for 5 years. I am currently 20 weeks pregnant and he doesnt even acknowldge im pregnant. He said if i was it wasnt his cause he pulled out. Ive not broug”

Posted Skinny Vs. Heavy Girls, 'Facebook Official,' Break-Up Take Backs, and More In GuySpeak's Best of the Week to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Would you mind being with a girl who doesn't drink?”

Answered the question “If you are breaking up a relationship after living together and adopting a beloved pet together at the exact same time and are both equally attached to the pet, as well as equally splitting the expenses, who gets to keep the animal? Say it was something b”

Posted “Racktacular” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Breastfeeding In Public -- Big Bird's Cool With It, So Why Aren't You? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My boyfriend didn't acknowledge me as his girlfriend online. On Facebook, he is listed as single. Being extremely handsome, talented, intelligent, and charismatic, he has both men and women flirting constantly, but he didn't mention me. When I told him i”

Answered the question “A guy I have been seeing and I broke a condom during sex. Now, I am six weeks late. Should I tell him?”

Answered the question “Slept with my BFF's brother on NYE. Never got a phone call or anything. It's really out of character for him. I've known him for 15 years & he's not a player. Would it be out of line to get feedback from my friend? Normally, we commiserate over my awful t”

Answered the question “I'm kind of tall and have bigger feet. But I love heels, and I always figured that I should wear higher heels because of the proportion of heel to my height/leg. I look odd in pictures with my shorter friends, either crouch or look like the skyscraper in ”

Posted Talking 2012 Horoscopes, Love and 'Moonology' With WE tv's Resident Astrologist Yasmin Boland to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Okay, this is all sick but i need advice, my fiance recently tried to get nude pictures from my mother. well obviously i left him but i still care for him (i dont know why). He's been calling/texting since i left and will just sob and cry about how he m”

Answered the question “Looking for some cool thoughts/quotes/life lessons/goals to live by this year/line my diary with lol. Non cheesy/cliche ones. Got any goodies? Commenters suggestions would also be awesome! Thanks and Happy New Year!!xx”

Posted “More Elves in 2012” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Would it be cheating if I flirt and cuddle with another guy?”

Answered the question “Lovers turned friends. Do you still greet each other during the holidays?”

Answered the question “How do you figure out the line between not being creepy with your advances but not seeming unconfident?”

Answered the question “What does it mean if a man asks his daughter if it's okay to give his number to a lady?”

Answered the question “A woman said some horribly racist remarks directly to me at a baseball game (i'm mid eastern), and my boyfriend just sat there(he's white) didn't even bother standing up for me even though I was very upset, hurt and crying. He hates conflict, but would it”

Posted My 10 Favorite Questions of 2011 to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My dad has loads of porn in his computer. He's 60 something. My mom and he have been married for over 25 years. She's not into computers so I'm guessing she has no idea. I know this is supposed to be "normal" but I still think it's weird.”

Answered the question “I cut my boyfriend off from all the little niceties. I refuse to buy him food when I buy for myself, and I no longer let him use my netflix (amongst other things). This came about because of the way he has acted the last month. Was it right for me to cut ”

Answered the question “I don't see myself as likeable/attractive/dateable, so I can't image that any man would. I'm 27, but feel that men think of me like an eccentric old neighbour - female but not in sexual/romantic way. I feel like an "untouchable" - a girl in a lonely, igno”

Answered the question “My personal philosophy: One does not simply walk into Mordor. How fucking excited are you for The Hobbit? I cannot contain myself!!”

Posted 5 Last Minute Holiday Gift Ideas For Your Guy to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What is up with this new "Timeline" Facebook thing? It is so confusing and makes stalking exes (in a normal, non-creepy way) that much harder!”

Answered the question “What do you think about a girl proposing to a guy? My bf of 2+ years is sweet and shy and it takes him forever to make a decision about anything. We are facing a situation where we will be living in other countries. I feel like it's now or never! Is it f”

Answered the question “What do you do if your fat but dont wanna do workout videos?”

Answered the question “Why is my 7 month old baby so ridiculously cute and happy all the time?”

Answered the question “how often should i shave down there? I have sensitive skin and don't want to get irritation, as that is just gross, but i am wondering how often someone without sensitive skin would shave and how often is the generally accepted time period. thank you!”

Posted “Wassail” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 10 Geeky Gifts to Get Your Guy This Holiday Season to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I really just need to know if underwear (like designer boxer briefs) are a good christmas gift for my boyfriend...(as like the small gift along with the bigger gift that he really wants)”

Answered the question “I read an article from yahoo that revealed the results from a mens health magazine poll about the hottest women of all time and Jennifer Aniston was number one. Seriously? of all time? I wouldn't even put her on my top ten. So then I got to wondering what”

Answered the question “Who is your best friend?”

Posted 'I Do Over' Wedding Guru Diann Valentine Talks 'Do Over' Weddings, Celebrity Clients and More to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My husband and I have only been married a little over a month. But I found that he is looking and signing up for casual sex on dating site. My feelings are so hurt. Any advice. Please don not advise divorce.”

Answered the question “What do you think of the TLC show on virgins at 30? I'm 25 and a virgin, it just hasn't happened, not a big deal to me, it will when I fall in love. But TLC is making me feel like if I don't loose it soon then I'll be a freak. I'll be someone to be made ”

Answered the question “So much good music was nominated for Grammies this year! Wilco, Bon Iver, Fleet Foxes, The Decemberists, Mumford and Sons... but I had a frivolous question. Do you think Bon Iver or Mumford and Sons can take on the powerhouse that is Adele and win?”

Answered the question “What do men think about a woman with short hair? I wear my hair in a very short style. It's convenient for me, and I think I look good in it. I'm very feminine: I wear make-up, do my fingernails, wear dresses a lot, etc. But I keep reading that most m”

Posted 10 Thoughts On Twilight: Breaking Dawn, aka The Worst Movie of All Time to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Spent Thanksgiving w/ bf's family. I look young and his bro said I look like a little girl and should sit at the kids table. He was joking but it still hurt. Bf didn't do a thing. Days later, he said he talked to his bro. I'm so upset and hurt that he did”

Answered the question “Does it make me a snob to only want to wear nice clothes? I went to target recently and was blown away by how expensive things were. I can go to Macys or Nemons and if I shop smart I pay the same for classier stuff. When friends go on about how cute/cheap”

Answered the question “I de-friend guys I stop dating because its easier for me to move on. One of them wrote me to ask if I de-friended him and told me it was "harsh." We hadn't spoken in months. Why would he care?”

Answered the question “I know that Snoopy is shady and stupid. But I knew something was up. I looked through my boyfriends phone and saw emails he's sent to other women and seen that he searches the craigslist personal ads. It srems as though he hasnt cheated yet but is trying ”

Answered the question “GC, I've loved your advice in the past, but I need your help. My guy got gastric bypass surgery a year ago. He's dropping weight and looks great, but he only eats meat and carbs now bc he's convinced that that's the healthiest. Looked online, eating veggi”

Posted “Dranksgiving” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted What Are You Thankful For This Thanksgiving? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What would you think if a girl you were interested in didn't have a Facebook? Red flag?”

Answered the question “Is admitting to getting a blow job different than admitting having sex with another woman? How much different? If someone admits to getting a blow job from amother woman, does it mean that he will admit to having sex? If not. Why?”

Answered the question “My bf of 9 months is visiting his family in another state for Thanksgiving & Christmas. He didn't mention this to me until my mom asked what his holiday plans were while we were at dinner. I assumed that I'd be meeting his family and invited to come. How ”

Answered the question “Zooey Deschanel or whatever her name is ANNOYS ME TO NO END on that show "New Girl" but everyone thinks it is the greatest show ever. I do not see how! The jokes and storyline SUCK and her acting is poor. What are your thoughts on the show?? Great or wors”

Posted Bradley Cooper Named People's Sexiest Man Alive, Ryan Gosling Fans Freak -- What Do You Think? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “One of my sorority sisters is my enemy. She said some really messed up stuff behind my back and to me 5 months ago and I cut her out of my life. My some other sisters are planning a thanksgiving weekend dinner and want me to go. I'm not even close to the ”

Answered the question “Have you ever read The Hunger Games? What are your thoughts on the new trailer?”

Posted “The Lounging Dead” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My boyfriend calls other girls hot right in front of me. After he says that, he looks toward me, as if he wants to see my reaction because if I don't comment, he sometimes nudges me for my attention. What do I do ? It really bothers me that he does this. ”

Answered the question “How do I tell my boyfriend I smoke? I don't know if he would be okay with it. But I'm scared to tell him.”

Answered the question “Have you seen the trailer for Snow White and the Huntsman? Could Kristen Stewart really ever be fairer than Charlize Theron? I think they might have cast the Queen too well and then fell a bit short of the mark with Snow”

Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy pulls your hair?”

Posted 10 Signs You're Too Picky In a Relationship to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I get really depressed when I look at Facebook. I feel like everyone is doing great and their life is so wonderful and I am just barely surviving. Does anyone else feel this way!? I can't be the only one. I don't go on anymore, but seriously, I hate how e”

Answered the question “Is it possible to get pregnant by dry humping if your fluids touched but there was no penetration??”

Answered the question “I just slept w/ my ex. He has a girlfriend, but says he "melts" and "folds" when he see's me...”

Answered the question “Pulling back or in the midst of getting dumped with "the fade-out" apporoach?...How can a girl spot the difference? ...or is the pull-back just when a man/woman changes his/her mind?”

Posted “No-Shave November” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Justin Bieber's Baby Daddy Drama Will Only Get Worse to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My boyfriend liked his female friend's picture on Facebook that is a picture of her halloween costume. Should I be worried?”

Answered the question “Who came up with No-Shave November? Was this a collective male attempt to piss off girlfriends everywhere?”

Answered the question “Dear Chic Geek, I understand you're busy and there are more important questions, but how important are formal weddings to men? I tried to convince my Fiancé to elope, have just our immediate family, but he said we should do a proper wedding. we're at t”

Answered the question “I sent a drunk email of me in my underwear to an acquaintance that has been texting me.he said "if that's you ,wow, send more". the next day I sent an "oops", & he said "no worries:)". Can I ask him out for something casual?”

Answered the question “I just rewatched the movie "Closer" and it really shook me emotionally (more than on the first viewing). Have you seen it, and if so, do you think it holds some truth about romantic relationships?(also, do you have a theory on why Natalie Portman's char”

Posted Five Awesome Couples Halloween Costume Ideas for 2011 to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Graduated in May. Smart, plenty of internships. Wanting to go into writing. Interning again, but still unemployed. Highly disheartened and trying SO hard to get a job. Help? Tips? =(”

Answered the question “I'm 95 and my girlfriend is 18.”

Answered the question “Wonderful chic geek, please help! I was invited to go on a weekend vacation + concert with my bf + his fam. When I told my bf I would pay him back the cost of the ticket, he said he wouldn't let me. I tried to suggest that I pay for dinner or something to”

Answered the question “How do you apply for My Fair Wedding? ”

Answered the question “If you were married would you close a FB message to a high school friend "love, your name" if you hadn't seen or heard from her in 13 or more years? and never spoke her name or anything in your whole relationship with your wife?”

Posted My Fair Wedding's David Tutera Talks Hot Gowns, Getting Married on a Budget, Wedding Trends He Hates and More to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “DVR-Itis” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I've been seeing a guy for a month now and we finally had sex a couple days ago... and he didn't finish. He didn't cum the next time, or the time after that. What's wrong??”

Answered the question “A guy I just began dating called me "foxy." Can't say I get that one very often. What is your favorite adjective for women you find attractive?”

Answered the question “Is a haunted house a good get-to-know-you date? (Not the very first date).”

Posted Woman Calls Boyfriend 1,000 Times, Ashton Kutcher's Affair, Celebrity Hacker Caught and More in the 'Week in Douche' to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I have two children with my boyfriend. I got pregnant last year and had an abortion but now I am pregnant again but it's not my boyfriend. I can't justify what I did but it happened and the other guy wants nothing to do with the baby because of what his f”

Answered the question “I'm in a long term relationship and my guy wants to take sexy video via gchat - is this secure? Or will other people see it? He also downloaded a screen shot progam?”

Answered the question “I watched "UP" with my boyfriend and he didn't cry. Should I break up with him?”

Posted “Mansplaining” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Chic Geek, I love you. And I'm not just sucking up. I think you're great. So. In your opinion, do men in general tend to lie about small things, so as to avoid arguments? Is that to be expected, and if a man lies about one thing, does it necessary mean he”

Answered the question “Is Masturbation A Sin?”

Posted R.I.P. Steve Jobs, the CEO Who Proved Tech Geeks Could Be Visionary Rebels to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Ever been to or heard of a dayglow paint party? My boyfriend wants to go with his friend and it looks like a bunch of girls wearing nothing will be there. Please tell me it's more than that.”

Answered the question “There is a saying "Bros before hoes" but how come my fiancee's friends don't really have his back? They think it's ok to get blazed all day, drink and drive. So is that saying only true if a girl comes between friends, and not when that bro will ruining h”

Answered the question “Who never wears a shirt?”

Answered the question “I study computer science. I'm the only girl in my lab. I feel uncomfortable when I wear a skirt or a tank top because I'm afraid they might judge me on my physical appearance instead of my work. My boyfriend says I should'nt worry. What do you think?”

Answered the question “if a guy friend tells you, its to dangerous for you to be his friend.. what does this mean?”

Answered the question “GC, Need your help. How do I dump a sensitive writer geek who has been my BFF for years? We tried the dating thing, he's smitten and I'm miserable. Thanks in adv!”

Posted 10 Female Empowerment Songs That Make Single Life Awesome to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “"Now we know...and knowing is half the battle"” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Igniting the Flame After 24 Years, Men Who Cheat, and More 'Bridezilla' Viewer Questions Answered to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Do you think that all rich men cheat? My fiance is very well off and all of my friends and family are telling me that adultry is going to be guaranteed and that i should except it. I love him and i know he loves me and i don't think that he would ever che”

Answered the question “What's the deal with Emma Stone? Why do so many guys have a crush on her? I just don't get it.”

Answered the question “So I am going reality TV here, but you know Taylor Armstrong whose husband JUST committed suicide off of Real Housewives? All week long I have been seeing her giving all these interviews. WTF? She seems to totally be playing the victim and who the hell”

Answered the question “The girl who bullied me in grade school, causing me to drop out, just friended me on facebook! (We're 23 now.) Should I accept? If I do, should I bring up the bullying? I don't want to hold a grudge for something that happened 15 years ago.”

Posted Chic Geek's Guide to Wonder Woman, Batman, and Other New DC Comics You Should Read to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Gamer Thumb” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Does having a drunk makeout session with a crush hurt my chances of something happening with him in the future?”

Answered the question “So did you have the chance to see "Drive"? Wasn't that one of the best thing ever? And the soudtrack...Jeeeeez. That would have been a perfect date movie for me, too bad I went by myself.”

Posted Join The GuySpeak Gang For an Emmys Live Chat This Sunday at 8pm|7C to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Hi CG! Hook me up. I have an amazing boyfriend, but he had gastric bypass surgery and burps a lot. He also has a lot of excess skin. I get mad at him because I wished his great personality matched his outsides. I've been having crazy dreams with dating r”

Answered the question “Why didn't he call me after our date?”

Answered the question “Is it bad to do oral sex on a girl with their period?”

Posted 10 Thoughts That Went Through My Head After Seeing The Scarlett Johansson Nude Photos to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “The Cure vs The Smiths?”

Answered the question “Why do nice, genuine girls finish last?”

Answered the question “I read through some older comments & someone wrote: "once a breakup is done, the exes don't have any obligation morally to support or help." Is this always true? I felt depressed last year & told an ex. He wasn't very supportive. I don't know if I have th”

Answered the question “When do you think it's time for a guy to take down his online dating profile?”

Answered the question “Do you guys like lip and eyebrow piercings?”

Answered the question “So today, I had coffee with this guy I've been interested in. Before I left, he said he wanted to "hang out" again, and we made plans to go to a show on campus together. How do I tell if this is a legit date, or if he's just being really friendly?”

Posted 20 More Songs About Moving On (Some Suggested By You!) to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “George Lucas-ing a relationship” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My BF made the comment "stop losing weight, I don't want a twiggy GF." (lost 2 lbs doing yoga) I thought guys like skinny girls. Isn't that why all Playboy models, strippers, and most porn stars are skinny? Plus guys love VS models, they're all skinny. If”

Answered the question “If I like depressing things, I.E. movies, studying different personality disorders, into dark poets and musicians, then does that make me a depressed person?”

Answered the question “I'm doing some nude modeling. How can I make my guy comfortable with it? The photographer is gay, I'm not recognizable in the photos, the pics are all for galleries (erotic art not porn), and the pay is great (and I need the money). What can I say to rea”

Answered the question “Hey Chic Geek. I've been hearing about a trend going around groups of guys(usually teenagers) where the guys troll through one member's Facebook friends and find 10 girls that the challenged has to get nudes from. It's usually a bet for large sums of mone”

Posted What Song Reminds You Of Your First Crush? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I have a good online friend whom I used to have phone sex with a lot. One day he sorta acted like he didnt wanna do it anymore and I never asked why. We are still great friends and talk for hours a day. I suppose I am just wondering why he would want to s”

Posted “Snausage Factory” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I broke almost 60 days of No Contact to cuss out my ex when I found out he had a new girlfriend.I told him I hated him and never wanted to talk to him again and that he was the worst thing to ever happen to me.I had taken the high road and feel like I com”

Answered the question “My husband is amazing, very caring and loving.He has ADHD and it's hard to have a serious conversation /discussion with him because he starts thinking about something else or he talks about random topics. It's frustrating at times. How can I best deal wit”

Posted Lady Gaga In Drag, Beyonce is Pregnant, Justin Bieber's Nerd Glasses, and More In the MTV Video Music Awards Live Tweet to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I am kinda embarrassed to be asking this but Is there any danger to swallowing sperm?”

Posted Watching the MTV Video Music Awards on Sunday? Watch with Chic Geek and Girls' Bff on Twitter! to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted Men Who Marry 'Bridezillas,' How Much Makeup is Too Much and More Questions Answered to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What do you think of that 'Maggie Goes on a Diet' children's book?”

Posted 10 TV Shows That Could Improve Your Dating Life to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “The Foreman King” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Hi, I need an honest opinion. I am 35, soon to be 36. What is the 'oldest' man that I should date (within reason)? Another question, being older, is it to late to get my 'top portion' done? Thank you for your answer.”

Posted Link Rodeo: Post-Earthquake Dates, Men Who Are Afraid of Periods, Zombie Wedding, and More to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I have a friend who is nearing his mid-life. He's just beginning to realize that he is gay and won't come out to me yet. Is there a way I can accelerate him coming out to me so he won't feel so lonely? He knows that I'm really accepting; we also have some”

Answered the question “How much is too much when it comes to texting your man sexy pics?”

Answered the question “Thoughts on sugar daddy relationships?For me it seems perfect-nostrings simple, monetary benefits. I have a lot going for me though. how bad of is it of an idea in terms of ppl judging me/my future?do you feel like todays culture has become more open-min”

Answered the question “My guy doesn't like horror movies! I LOVE them! Even the bad ones. He says they're boring. Have any truly amazing horror movie suggestions to maybe sway his opinion?”

Answered the question “Hi Chic Geek, my boyfriend has been ignoring me for the past week. When I went to his apartment, everything was gone. His roommates haven't seen him either. Now, i don't know what to do. I know life is tough sometimes, but why would he up and leave withou”

Posted 20 Songs Named After Men To Add To Your Guy's Mix to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Eye of Thundera” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My boyfriend doesn't like the movie The Big Lebowski. How can he not????”

Posted The GuySpeak Guys On Men Who Marry 'Bridezillas,' Controlling Boyfriends, Dudes with Female Friends, and More to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What does "it's complicated" actually mean? Like what do people think when they see it on Facebook?”

Answered the question “What the hell does "I'm sprung" mean?”

Answered the question “I found a txt on my boyfriend's cell phone "thanks for a great time champ" it leads me to think he's cheating, but he won't admit anything. he won't even tell me if i'm wrong and there's nothing to worry about but he won't come clean at all. If I'm wrong”

Posted “Ferguson” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 'Bridezilla' Porsha Holt-Martin Talks Bachelor Parties, Planning the Perfect Wedding, 'Hairy Beasts,' and More to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Carefully designed Youtube playlists as the long distance, modern equivalent of mix tapes/CDs. Yay or nay? What's your take on this sort of gesture?”

Posted The GuySpeak Guys Answer Questions From 'Bridezillas' Fans to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Why do men pee in the shower?”

Answered the question “My BF and I just broke up, and now he is asking for the PS3 back. I don't have a lot of money but I paid for half of it + games and it has always stayed at my apartment. He is saying it was a gift to him so he'll get legal with me if he has to. Can he ”

Answered the question “My husband's friend is very cruel to me when my husband isn't there. He says my husband doesn't find me attractive, sex with me is a chore, he doesn't understand why anyone would want me ect (Its only gotten worse since i became pregnant). I know he's lyi”

Answered the question “Do guys ever appreacite girls' lingeries? My bf and exs always can't wait to tear down my lingeries when we get down to the business. They just never pay attention to it, they said they just want to see my body,is it normal or they just don't like my ling”

Answered the question “I went on a great date with this great hipster guy...until the conversation steered towards music. He was such a snob about the bands he liked and basically rolled his eyes anytime I said I liked music that could be considered "mainstream." Is this someth”

Posted Five Things I Liked (and Didn't Like) About 'Friends With Benefits' to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Dating reboot” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Ever been to Six Flags Great Adventure and Hurricane Harbor in New Jersey? It is real fun, I went this week. A great place to bring a date, because there are fun roller coasters and waterslides for literally all ages. Just a suggestion for any people in t”

Answered the question “I'm a 22 year old widow. I want to start dating again, but my in-laws get so hurt at the mention of it (they informed me I won't be ready for another 5-10 years). They also want a chunk of my life insurance money. I love them, but they stress me the hell ”

Answered the question “The morning after a drunken hookup that included cuddling and lots of sweet words, I proceeded to throw up on the way to breakfast. It wasn't on him or in his car... still, how high are the chances I am now viewed as "that girl who threw up"? How embarras”

Answered the question “Okay, serious question. I have been dating this guy for 2 months now. I am starting an egg donation. So for about a month I will be a bit cranky, tired, and not able to drink due to the medicine. I don't live with him & we only see each other on weekends ”

Answered the question “My boyfriend hates condoms and is terrified of child support. I was a few days late in starting the pill and he refused to have sex for a month and a half. His willpower was better than mine. now he is in the habit of staying up till 6am playing games and”

Posted Survey Of Douchebags Reveals Half of Men Would Dump Their Girlfriends For Getting Fat to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Brohemoth” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Why do some men want to cuddle after sex? Can't we just get on with our day?”

Posted Link Rodeo: Hobbies That Make You Sexier, When Women Cheat, First Gay Wedding at the Four Seasons, and More to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “One of my best friends is a guy. Hes a major player and breaks girls hearts all the time. but when hes with me he doesnt act like that, and i think i love him, but i dont want to date him because hes a player, but i dont want to not date him because i lov”

Posted R.I.P. Amy Winehouse. Here are Five of Her Best Songs to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Okay okay, so men don't care or talk about women's boobs being different sizes, BUT what if a woman's nipples (well technically areolas) are HUUUUGE!!!! I'm talking so big that they even surprise (negatively) my own self sometimes!”

Answered the question “Do most men realize that women's breasts are not identical? I mean, are they out telling their friends about a women they were with that had one breast larger than the other?”

Answered the question “Hi Chic Geek! I'm new to the dating scene, but the guy I have been seeing casually mentions his exes in 1-2 sentences, not comparisons but more informative...Is this normal? I don't feel like asking follow questions because I'm afraid I'd start comparin”

Posted “Nerd Prom” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Five Ways To Meet A Cute Geek At Comic-Con to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Are the woman in comic books just as bad as the girls in porn? I know they are cartoons but they have completely unrealistic bodies too and he read comics all the time.”

Answered the question “I tried to initiate sex while my man was playing Call Of Duty. I don't care at ALL when he plays video games but I was in the mood for a little spontaneous fun... I was completely shut down. He says he just wasn't in the mood, I felt like he didn't want m”

Answered the question “What do you think about J-Lo and Marc Anthony splitting up??”

Answered the question “You guys are all amazingly articulate at relating the 'guy's' take on life. I realize this is why you got this gig... but my question is... do you think are representative of guys between 15 - 50? Or are you an elite bunch of emotionally intelligent wri”

Answered the question “I went though my boyfriend's old computer files and came across old pictures of his exes and him with his exes. I'm upset because when he was transferring files a few months ago I thought he would have deleted those pictures. I was devistated when I ”

Answered the question “My twin brother and I are blonde, blue-eyed and muscular and "well-endowed." We're in college and the offer we just received is kind of hard to pass up--$25,000 to "perform" sexually for a porn film producer. Should we do it?”

Posted From 'Hooking Up' To 'It's Complicated': Defining The New Dating Terms to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Ex with Sex” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I have been dating a girl for 1 year and 4 months. In that time I used her mom so I could be with Cassidy (my gf more) more. I had sex with her 50 year old mom so she would like me more so I could be with her daughter more. My whole mind set was its for C”

Posted Link Rodeo: Tips For Sex With Someone New, Signs He Wants To Be Friends, Dumb Relationship Studies, and More to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I just recently got a Google+ account. Do you have one? What are your opinions on it? Especially in regards to other social media sites (ie Facebook, Twitter).”

Answered the question “How do you feel about the new movie Friends With Benefits, coming out right after and being just like No Strings Attached? Ridiculous, no?”

Answered the question “A guy a work started coming on STRONG (letters, poems, 24/7 calls) after he found out I broke up with my bf. I gently told him I got back together with my bf & that he was great friend but nothing more.Now he won't talk to me, deleted me from fb & work su”

Answered the question “OK...I'm going to a grind fest but I'm not very experienced at grinding. So I want a guy's opinion on what is best to do while grinding”

Answered the question “What does it mean if you've found your boyfriend of six years has recently set up a profile on an "adult" dating site??? Curiosity? Intent?”

Posted Celebs React To Casey Anthony Verdict, Adele Fans Are Good At Online Dating, Jennifer Aniston Is Still Talking About Brad Pitt and More In 'We Heart The News' to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “The Fifth Food Group” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “i recently joined a dating website& didnt post pics b/c i didn't want anyone i know to see me on there. i sent a couple guys i've been emailing with pics privately, then they stop emailing.not to sound bad, but i'm told i'm pretty a lot& these guys arent ”

Posted 10 Signs Your Guy Is a 'Brozilla' to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Minigolf” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Hey CG! This guy I like is the funniest, nerdiest, sweetest, guy ever. Been through everything with him, but one problem: he's dating. When we're together, I swear he likes me, but then he looks like he's really into his gf. My friend says that I'm like t”

Answered the question “This may sound like an odd Q., but is there a such thing as "Pre-Dating?" I've begun hanging out with a guy I was only mildly acquainted with, at the gym. There is no obvious flirting from either of us, but we ask each other semi-serious questions such ”

Answered the question “If you slap your boyfriend, is it okay for him to slap back?”

Answered the question “I fell in love w a guy who's recently gotten gastric bypass surgery. Although he's starting to drop weight nd look good I am freaked out by the excess skin and rememants of love handles. I usually go for very thin guys. Am I being a jerk?”

Answered the question “Dearest CG - I'm jumping the gun on this question... Last year I got out of an abusive relationship and I'm doing fine - I'm very eager to start dating again. I'm a bit apprehensive about how to present this info to a guy if it gets to that point. I don't”

Answered the question “I considered him as my older brother, until we cuddled one night. He told me he is afraid i might missunderstand. Still we slept in each other's arms. Now when we go out he kisses me awkwardly on the cheek. Is it possible to tell him i just want to have ”

Answered the question “New York City + Raising a family = What I want. Suburbs + Raising a family = What my fiance wants. Living in the suburbs goes against much of what I stand for. How can we come to an agreement without ruining our relationship? Are we just not meant to be?”

Posted 51-Year-Old Actor Marries 16-Year-Old, Port-A-Potty Peeping Tom, 'Dilbert' Creator Is Still Sexist, and More in the 'Week in Douche' to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Sideways Dating” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Hey! I'd love some words of wisdom. I hang out with a strikingly gorgeous group of gal pals and I sometimes feel like I'm the gross-grape of the bunch. We all share the same level of high enthusiasm when meeting guys but I hardly ever get noticed when I'”

Answered the question “Clarence Clemons passed away. Being a huge fan of Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band for years, this is a major heartbreak for me. :(”

Posted Kim Kardashian Is Getting Married On Sunday. Would You Want a Lavish or Simple Wedding? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “For a LONG time, I have been hiding in the gay world avoiding the str8 world, but now I am ready to get back into dating. Does my actions from the past turn str8 men off?”

Answered the question “My first love died a little over two years ago, for a while I was depressed and certainly not ready to date, but now I feel I'm ready to move on. I find now, though, I'm not interested in very many guys, and they aren't interested in me. Is there a way to”

Answered the question “Whenever I start to get to know a guy, he always becomes detached and uses the phrase, "You're just too good for me." What gives?”

Posted Five Things Your Guy Should Never Do On Facebook to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Pink Taco” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I think my man has bondage fantasies. Every once in a while he'll bring it up casually, I think to test the waters. About a year ago he suggested a movie called The Secretary and I watched it. Do you think he's hinting at what he wants? The idea turns me ”

Answered the question “Why can't my girlfriend understand that I can 'Friend' beautiful women on Facebook?”

Answered the question “Hey, I'm VERY close to my three cousins. They're like my sisters and my best friends. I would kill and die for them, no one else even comes close to the amount of love I have for them. So my question is, how would a guy feel about this? Would he understan”

Answered the question “Does the no contact rule after a break up really work? If I want him to want me back will witholding all contact intrigue him or just make him give up hope that I'm still interested?”

Posted GuySpeak Poll: Do You Prefer Your Politicians (and Your Guy) Hairless or Furry? to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Pulling a Weiner” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “is it unreasonable to ask my boyfriend to wear a condom for oral, until we both get tested to make sure we're std free? I'm worried it would ruin the experience for him and he would think it a strange request as it seems most people don't bother with doin”

Answered the question “I have OCD, and I tend to want things really neat and in a particular place in my apartment. I'm starting to get serious with a guy, and when he comes over, I tend to nitpick about where he puts things. I don't know how not to drive him away or piss him o”

Answered the question “Do you think it's okay for a girl to exercise in just a sports bra in public?”

Answered the question “My sister and best friend both got engaged and now its like all eyes are on me to settle down too.I don't even have a boyfriend! I'm sick of the whispers, I'm not even thirty yet --- hardly an old spinster! Do men feel this same pressure to settle down wh”

Answered the question “My boyfriend is very controlling. But, only when it comes to me spending time with my girlfriends. We ALWAYS fight when I talk to him about going out. Then when I go, I recieve retaliation for it. Im a very faithful/honest person. What can I do to make hi”

Answered the question “My BF is an independent photographer and I'm the director of marketing for a large company. He could use help with his website and soliciting business in general, but he refuses my help. He's fine about me making more money, but apparently not fine with m”

Posted Five Signs You're His 'Back Pocket Girl' to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Luke Cagey” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Hi! I have a gift etiquette question for the experts - I've been seeing a single dad for the past three months and I'm not sure what the rule is on Father's Day gifts. I'm a little worried that if I get him a gift it will look creepy, but if not, I'd be”

Answered the question “If a man cheats on his wife with the same woman for 4 years, hangs out with her occasionally, calls her, texts her, etc. (and tries to hide it), does that mean he has feelings for her? If so, why does he stay married?”

Posted An Open Letter To The Audience In Oprah's Final Show to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “How do you get women to swallow?”

Answered the question “I've started doing online webcam modeling as a way to pay my bills. My job just wasn't cutting it. I've been talking to a very sweet dorky guy and I'm interested in him. He asked what I do for a living and I made a joke to change subjects. How do I tel”

Answered the question “I started seeing this amazing guy. Tonight he told me he is on medication for depression. Should I expect more hardships being in a relationship with him? I'm especially concerned about his potential reaction if we ever do break up. Advice?”

Answered the question “How do you stop being a serial cheater? I cant stop.”

Posted Share Your GuySpeak Success Stories With Us to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “GuySpeak Oath” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “This guy at work figured out who I liked and said some pretty perverted stuff about it. What do I do if he goes straight to the source and tells my crush?”

Answered the question “What's your take on The Rapture?”

Answered the question “What does it mean when your ex says he wants to bang you, but he's in a relationship, but says sleeping with you would be different? Could it be possible that he is just trying to sleep with me since we never did when we were actually dating? Is it all ph”

Posted “Corn Dog Season” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Ten New Catchphrases For Arnold Schwarzenegger to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Why would a guy have sex and spend time with someone in their apartment but not ask them out for coffee, dinner, movie, bowling or something?”

Answered the question “Do you think it's ok to break up with someone over political differences? I have in the past, but I always feel a little guilty, like I should be breaking up with them for some other reason. I shouldn't, though, since social issues (feminism, gay rights, ”

Answered the question “What does it mean if my crush drunkenly texts me and says I'm his waldo?(Yes the man in the striped sweater)”

Answered the question “My border masturbates soo loudly, I can hear his groans of pleasure in my upstairs bedroom. Last night he left his bedroom door open and I could hear the physical contact (slapping sounds). It is my home and he rents from me. What to do?”

Answered the question “I met this guy that I had noticed around campus. We became friends and I began to start crushing on him...until I found it he had a girlfriend! Since we met, all the signs point to "yes, he's into me" but I'm still wary. He's sending me so many mixed sign”

Answered the question “A while ago my bf and I exchanged virginities. Or so I thought. He told me that he'd started to have sex with his ex but they stopped because she felt bad. I know they didn't finish but that doesnt sound like a virgin to me. I'm really hurt he didn't tell”

Answered the question “I know this is a dumb question but I was wondering something. When a guy walks or runs or even sits with his legs close together, what keeps him from crushing his testicles together? Since I don't have them I don't understand why they don't crush togethe”

Posted 5 Summer 'Must Haves' For Your Guy to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Ahhhhh! I've had it! I feel like I'm going crazy here, Chic Geek! I need an answer so that I can stop feeling so insecure! Why would a female friend tag my boyfriend as a good bf in this stupid facebook app called: r u a good bf/gf? Should I not be upset ”

Posted “Odinsleep” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My bf used to online chat & met some ladies whom he was chatting for quite a while before we even dated. I learned that he actually lent some money ($600 to be exact) to a girl to supposedly "start her own business". I feel off on this, although its not”

Answered the question “Is it okay for two males to share a bed if it saves money on a room for a vacation to Amsterdam?”

Answered the question “My boyfriend of three years recently got a job on a cruise ship. He will be gone for 8 months with limited internet/phone access. I need advice on how to deal with his absence.”

Posted Is Facebook Really To Blame For the Divorce Rate? to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Navy Seals” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Is it my fault my boyfriend broke my iPhone? He says I acted too shady with my iPhone, so he had two choices: stop caring about me or get my attention by breaking my iPhone. I'm really hurt, but he is trying to fix my iPhone now. When we talk about hi”

Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy says he isn't seeing anyone else but isn't into labels? is he scared?”

Answered the question “I got hit on by a married man in an ice cream shop. He was obviously his wife and kid! And hitting on me, I pretended not to notice and I was blushing! because that was so rude to his wife, who was fuming with anger. My question, what idiot does this IN ”

Posted “Pippa'D” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My friend wants to set me up on a date with her friend's friend...I've never been on a blind date. I'm kind of freaking out. What if he's not my type? (Hate to sound shallow, but what if he's not...physically attractive?) HELP HELP HELP! I need your opini”

Answered the question “Would a straight man wake up at 4:00 in the morning to watch the royal wedding? My boyfriend did and he will never get up early to see me. I called when he was re-watching the wedding in the evening on CNN and he did not want to talk. Help me make sens”

Posted Royal Wedding Open Thread - Share Your Thoughts on William and Kate's Big Day! to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I have an older male prof who I consider a good friend. I am about to graduate. We even went out to lunch once, and he even helped me with a huge college project, which required us meeting alone on campus a lot. I have his # and want to talk to him/hang b”

Posted A Geek's Guide To the Royal Wedding to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My bf will be temporarily living with me (and my roomies) over the summer. People keep saying we'll get sick of each other since we'll have so much free time. I don't really believe it, but I'm getting a little worried. Will it change our relationship? Wh”

Answered the question “My boyfriend says he is not into me but more into my friend. What should I do?”

Answered the question “I have a boyfriend who hits me. But I really truly love him and he is convincing me that he will change.”

Answered the question “Is it crazy to pose as someone else on MySpace to talk to my highschool sweetheart? Not trying to find anything out I just miss our conversations we where together for 3yrs he was my best friend. The break up didn't go well that's why id pose as someone e”

Answered the question “Why do guys like catfighting?”

Answered the question “Dear Chic Geek, my boyfriend has 4 tattoos. I was neutral about the first 3, but he recently bought a new one that is tacky and I really dislike it. I still love him, but I do have to sleep with him and his ugly tat. Should I tell him I dislike it? Im w”

Posted Louisiana Abortion Ban, Creep Poses as a Mannequin in Ladies Room and More In 'The Week in Douche' to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Henri Douchecard” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I have a phobia where I am afraid to eat in front of other people if they are watching me. I can't sit across the table with someone - just the two of us- and eat. It makes dating difficult,and I usually order something small and eat at home. I'm now get”

Answered the question “If a girl was starting out on her first animated Batman adventure, where would you suggest she start?”

Answered the question “My best guy friend joke around and slap my butt, touch my boobs, and joke around about having sex with me, and I really don't mind as long as he dosen't take it too far...but now I'm wondering what it means since he does it so often...what should I do?”

Answered the question “He says he's committed, for good... so why does he still have dating site profiles? Albeit ones that he doesn't log into and that show his relationship status. Those can be disabled, so if he's really committed, why not disable them rather than just state”

Answered the question “boyfriend is scared that i may be missing out on other guys...wtf. Should I dump him now or dig a little deeper to see if its his own emotional issues?”

Answered the question “HELP!!!! I just found out that the guy am dating for 2 mos has herpes and he confessed to me when he has an outbreak, i feel betrayed bcos he shuld've told me first b4 we jumped into bed, he said he completely forgotten abt it, i really like him and devas”

Posted Dating Site HowAboutWe Offers 10 Ways To Improve Your Dating Life to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Nerd Out” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I'm pregnant from a one night stand. Definitely can't have this baby and going to have an abortion. Do I still tell the guy?”

Answered the question “Hey Nick! I'm curious to know what your opinion about the former UCLA student Alexandra Wallace is?”

Answered the question “Any hopes for a group chat soon??”

Posted Wonder Woman In Action, George Takei Is Spider-Man, Lady Doctor Who and More in 'Nerd News You Can Use' to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “It's been a month since I've responded, but he keeps texting me (from "I love you, I miss you, I want you" to "I hate you, I hope you get hit by a bus"). He's doing anything to get me to respond, I still have feelings for him but I refuse. I want to move ”

Posted “Pocket Booty Dial” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “This sucks: my husband cheated, then brought the other woman & her spouse into our circle of friends. Our friends are important to us & fun. We vacation together. I can't stand the humiliation of being in the same room w/the other woman though & shes ”

Answered the question “Bruce Springsteen or Bon Jovi?”

Answered the question “My brother seems to lack "life skills." He doesn't know how to sleep, eat, study etc. He got kicked out of two high schools and is flunking college. My parents are desperate. I think volunteer work abroad might help. What can we do to make him realize he ”

Answered the question “If a guy asks for advice on another girl, am I automatically in the friend zone?”

Answered the question “How do I convince my boyfriend to pay more attention to me? He smokes a lot of pot, that doesn't bug me, its when we go somewhere, and he is always high, I can't even take him to my work dinners because I will get fired. He sells pot also, and it has basi”

Posted The Creator of Dilbert is Sexist, Fake Facebook Girlfriends And More In the 'Week In Douche' to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Con Girlfriend” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My boyfriend breaks my stuff whenever he is mad at me. What should I do?”

Answered the question “On a scale of premium to 42, how much do guys like The Princess Bride?”

Answered the question “We were on a break....now we're not and he just found out he has a child with a woman he slept with during the previously mentioned break. What's a girl to do? We were planning our own baby, by the way.”

Answered the question “You seem like a sensible guy so I wanna ask: Do you have rules for buying clothes? I feel like I have a closet full of clothes but nothing to wear and was just wondering how guys decide what to buy.”

Posted “"There Can Be Only One"” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 10 Hilarious Joan Rivers Quotes On Love, Sex, and Relationships to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “so i'm a slut. i dont want the "that title degrades women" speech, because honestly it's gotten to the point where i blow guys before even kissing them. i don't think i have low self esteem, just something's obviously wrong and i can't understand it. plea”

Answered the question “Bf adds on FB a lot of women he doesn't know personally, whose profiles claim they're artists of some kind & have revealing pictures... I haven't said anything yet, but it makes me feel odd. I do remember him saying he adds a lot of fellow artists (networ”

Answered the question “Any good song recommendations from your ipod right now? I've been working a lot and while I drive I just resort to listening to the radio - but I miss good music!”

Posted Wonder Woman Is Ready For the Club In New TV Show Costume to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Is it embarrassing to go back to school at 27 and possibly be a 29/30 year old intern?”

Answered the question “umm...have you heard that Rebecca Black song? And can you believe it's actually doing well? Love your music choices so I thought I'd ask about this...”

Posted “Tom Waits” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 6 Geeky Ways To Pop The Question to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I was completely in love with this hipster-geek. We had the same taste in music, movies - everything. After a couple dinners and hang-outs, he told me he had a gf. He stopped talking to me for months after he told me about her and now is texting me again.”

Answered the question “I'm transgendered (biologically female, male-identified) and attracted to men. I have no plans to transition. Would (straight) men be comfortable with the idea of dating someone who doesn't see themselves as a "girl"? Would they even take me seriously? I”

Answered the question “Why do men complain about women with body issues, but don't understand the connection to their porn viewing? Men say it's "just a fantasy", but how do they expect women to not compare themselves to the women they look at and be fine with it, and not feel ”

Answered the question “how many men do you think would be turned off by a woman who underwent a bilateral mastectomy (breasts were taken off for cancerous purposes) and now sports scars all along the new implants?”

Answered the question “I'm a feminist, passionate about gender issues. Guys have told me that I lecture/"get preachy" when I try to start discussion. Don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm bashing hetero men, I believe these aren't just "women's issues" so I try to start honest ”

Answered the question “I hate movies that are gory and am willing to watch basically anything else my boyfriend picks out, but he won't even sit through ONE movie that I pick because he hates the actor (seriously, like EVERY actor..), thinks it has a horrible plot, or decides i”

Posted “Taymor'D” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Groundbreaking Study Proves Ogling Breasts Increases Heart Health, Likelihood Of Getting Slapped to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What kind of excuse is "it just doesn't feel right," anyways? Sounds like a cop out, if you ask me.”

Answered the question “ok bfs perfect..but i went to visit him &were play wrestling (i was opening a note i found in his room) he started hurting me (holding my wrists too tight not hitting) i told him &he kept apologizing while it was happening..we didnt talk for the 4 days i ”

Answered the question “If a guy hasnt text me in 9 days and I start missing him and I text him I miss you and then I ask honestly did you miss me he says kinda what's that mean?”

Answered the question “My husband is a liar and a cheat and he has me trapped so I can't leave with my kids.”

Answered the question “Why doesnt my boyfriend stick up for me? He never has. Like if a guy was to try and start a fight with me, he probably would have nothing to say. He loves me, but even last weekend his friend grabbed my boobs and all he could say w”

Posted “Sheening” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted It's Time To Play 'Real Or Fake Charlie Sheen Quote!' to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I'm an ex-slut who's trying to forget about her past and move on and better myself, but my bad reputation makes me really worried about the future of my love life. I really like this guy, but my history is still kind of haunting me and I don't want him to”

Posted Replay GuySpeak.com's Oscar Blog to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted Join the Oscar Live Chat Now! to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Boyfriend and I had sex twice, no condom, birth control, he ejaculated. Same night I slept with someone else, no condom, no ejaculation. I told him the next day and we worked through it, I am now pregnant and the date leads back to that day. I wish I coul”

Answered the question “I'm attracted to creepy intense sometimes insane men, not the Edward Cullen type, but like Peter Lorre in M. But in real life. The problem is, I never see it. My friends have to tell me and they actually worry a bit that I was born without a "creep-dar" a”

Posted Five Alternate Titles For Hall Pass to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Is it wrong to go through my guy's phone? I've never done it before, but I'm just so tempted! I know it's an invasion of privacy, but aren't I better off knowing if something is going on behind my back?”

Answered the question “Can guys pull off green Chinos?”

Posted “88 Miles Per Hour” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Get Ready For Sunday's Live Blog With Chic Geek's Oscar Picks to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I have terrible anxiety - especially when I have to speak in public. I have to give my first oral presentation at work, and it is in front of my crush/coworker (amongst other people). Seriously, is there anything I could do during the presentation that wo”

Answered the question “My boyfriend of 4 years slept with someone else about a year ago. Until that point we had been each other's only sexual partner. Our relationship has been fine (better even) since he confessed, but I'm still not over this. He hates to talk about it but I ”

Answered the question “Does the silent treatment work?”

Answered the question “He says he's a virgin....he's 25!! and a little too smooth at life to be a virgin in my eyes...he's still in college, getting his masters, plenty of sex everywere, and he means to tell me he's not getting any???! Is he telling the truth, or should I put u”

Answered the question “After watching The Social Network, I came to the idea that most people, post break-up, have to prove themselves. Some girls cut their hair off, or run a marathon...but I never realized that guys react similarly, too. Is this the guys way of trying to win ”

Posted “Brobocop” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “This valentine's day I spent forever planning something nice for my bf (of a year) and he didn't do ANYTHING. Not even a card or a backrub. I ended up crying b/c he didn't put any effort in at all. He said he loves me but this made me question it.What was”

Answered the question “What's wrong with me? The guy I've liked for over a year sent me flowers anonymously for Valentine's Day (I know this for a fact), so clearly he likes me, but ever since then, I haven't felt the same toward him. I'm not getting butterflies or anything! W”

Answered the question “Right, there's a girl who works in a pub I know (or a bar if you're a damn American) and she's hot. I have yet to say hi to her or anything. What do I do now?”

Answered the question “I'm a normal weight, 5'6/138 lbs. My mom, however, is overweight, though not grotesquely so... Probably a size 14 (she's 5'4). I'm 20, and worried about introducing my boyfriends to my funny, intelligent, caring mother because I'm worried they'll think I'”

Answered the question “What it means when a guy takes you out to eat and he only eats a salad?”

Answered the question “My daughter wants to start dating. She's a 13 1/2 year old responsible young woman. I think she has to wait until she's 16, but she keeps telling me that all of her friends are dating and I should let her. What do you think?”

Posted “Xbox Live and Taco Night” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Valentine's Day Gifts For The Geeky Guy In Your Life to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “we've been dating for six years. he has never given me anything. he pays when we go out. i offer too. but he hasn't even given me a card. i cant stand it.”

Answered the question “My new boyfriend teaches at an all-girls high school. I was looking at a website where students review teachers, and the comments revealed that he had a relationship with a senior last year. should I be worried? are 32 year old men even interested in 16,1”

Answered the question “If a girl is really short, would that matter to a guy??”

Answered the question “Is it weird that my boyfriend of 5 months still has pictures of his ex on Facebook (ie from their vacations), still sporadically talks to her, and refuses to tell her that hes dating me because he might "hurt her feelings"? Also he refuses to let me go on”

Answered the question “So are nerdy white guys truly afraid of black girls? Its an impression i've held for years..based on personal experience. haha what say you my bespeckled counselor?”

Posted “Friends With Blankets” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 5 Reasons Why Groundhog Day Is the Greatest Romantic Comedy of All Time to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What does it mean when a man who claims to be interested in you wont give you his home address or home phone number and only calls while he's at work?”

Answered the question “I've been in recovery for anorexia (therapy helped) I'm mostly good but I know my triggers The problem is, so does my dad. He likes to make "harmless" comments about my eating and exercise habits I've tried to explain to him that these comments aren't goo”

Answered the question “I have a gay buddy that I had invited to come visit over the Christmas holidays. Me, my boyfriend and my buddy were drinking that night. My boyfriend was in a blackout and went to bed with my gay buddy. He says he thought he was in bed with me. Do you thi”

Answered the question “GEEK QUESTION!!! Who's your favorite Robin? For that matter, who's your favorite Bat'?”

Answered the question “I'm falling hard for this guy at work, but every time I talk to him, the "funny" guy at work comes over and makes fun of me. And, if I'm talking to someone else, he'll say, "Stop cheating on ____! He'll be devastated!" I think he's just kidding around, bu”

Posted “The Dude” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Chat Live With Chic Geek and the GuySpeak Gang Wednesday, February 2nd at 1P|12C to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I like him. Im in my early 20s, hes 35 and living with this fiancée (shes 40). He is hitting on me, seems to be genuinely interested, and I like him, should I just go for it?”

Answered the question “Even after much convincing, my boyfriend of 3 years still doesn't like any sci-fi (apart from Doctor Who, my greatest conquest), including but not limited to Star Wars, Star Trek, Stargate, and even Hitch-hiker's Guide to the Galaxy. Should I give up and ”

Answered the question “iPhone or BlackBerry? I own a BlackBerry but am thinking of changing. What would you suggest?”

Answered the question “i just need a quick simple answer, i promise! :) what is the the hottest way for a girl to act at a big party, to allll males?! any tips will help, thank you thank you!”

Answered the question “When a random guy compliments my necklace and goes on to say--after I've thanked him, "It's very nice, I like it..." (It's just another necklace...nothing too special here), does this mean he is gay, checking out my boobs, or sincerely liked my necklace?”

Answered the question “Parents = divorced. Neither has ever made efforts towards an active family life. Now my dad's aunt is sick and dying (I barely know her) & he passive-aggressively hints that I should want to road trip with him to say goodbye. It feels crass to say I have ”

Posted “Wang Chung” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My live in boyfriend of a year and a half is amazing. Everything is great-- except his ex wife shows up every now and then where we hang out. Most recently she joined a Tuesday night pool league that he participates in and manages. This bothers me but ”

Posted Announcing the Winner of the GuySpeak Golden Globes Poll! to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My bf said I have a cute little butt. What does that mean? Isn't that a weird thing to say? Why do guys look at girls' butts? Also, I'm 21, not a 12 year old totally naive girl. I just still don't get the butt thing. Break it down for me Chic geek.”

Answered the question “What's your opinion of adult nursing relationships?”

Posted Zodiac Sign Dates Shift, 'What's Your Sign?' Now Officially Meaningless to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Kooka” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Who Will Win at the Golden Globes? Tell Me Your Picks and Win! to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “is it possibly to faint from orgasm? i've never experienced the big O, but was masturbating in the jacuzzi the other night and as things were getting super good i swear i blacked out for just a few seconds, when i came to, my fingers and toes were tinglin”

Answered the question “My Nana died in late Oct. and I suffered an emotional breakdown. I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months. A week and 1/2 later, I snapped out of it, but it was too late. He'd 'found what he was looking for.' I don't get it. Did he really move on that fas”

Answered the question “Did you see Black Swan? What did you think of it?”

Answered the question “If you're pregnant, can the man's penis hit the baby during sex?”

Answered the question “You're the expert. I'm a relatively normal-looking girl considering that I have a very hourglass figure (38DDs and a small waist), and I have curly blonde hair and blue eyes. I really like those skinny hipster guys who just don't look like my type. Do tho”

Answered the question “For some reason, you're asshole attitude makes you a total candidate for a one night stand (and that's it.) Wanna fuck?”

Answered the question “My boyfriend told me that he masturbates to porn and sometimes real girls that he has class with or sees in the street. Um, wtf? Is this normal for guys? Does this mean that, given the chance, he would hook up with these girls?”

Posted 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Be Friends With Your Ex On Facebook to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Sketchville” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 7 Guys You Should Resolve To Never Date In the New Year to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Why do guys say condoms are uncomfortable?”

Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy leaves the bathroom door open when he pees?”

Answered the question “My boyfriend and I have been dating for over six months and I was a bit suprised when I didn't get a holiday gift. I gave him a thoughtful, but not expensive gifts and I thought I would at least get a card in return. Is this a sign of bad things to come?”

Answered the question “How do you feel when you wake up beside a girl who has make up smudged all over her face. Do you think shes ugly?”

Answered the question “Every year, I stay in for New and pop champagne with my best friend. This year, we were invited to a party by our friends who tell us that the reason we're still single is bc we'd rather do what's comfortable than get out there. We love our typical NYE, b”

Posted “Brohawk” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 10 Songs To Start Your New Year Off Right to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “my girlfriend has cut me off from sex until marriage and I'm having a difficult time trying to stay faithful. Sex plays a huge part in a relationship for me. I'm a guy who can't go 2 days with out it. How can I find a way to calm these urges and stay fait”

Answered the question “I met a guy through online dating and I've asked him to be my date to a New Years party. The problem is I don't want to tell my friends how we met. Is it okay for me to ask him to lie to them and say we met at a bar or something if they ask?”

Answered the question “I was diagnosed with herpes a month ago.We've been faithful and I told him right away, I was mortified.I'm the only girl he's ever slept with; I on the other hand kind of got around before we started dating. I feel so guilty now- I feel like I brought thi”

Answered the question “So this guy in my class wanted me to sit in his lap. Why does he want me to do that?”

Answered the question “Why is my friend's boyfriend so weirdly interested in my sex life? And I don't just mean who I'm dating. I think it's inappropriate and creepy for him to ask me or her about it constantly, are all guys like this?”

Posted “Drinch” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 10 Last-Minute Gift Ideas For Your Geek to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What is the best way to ask a girl for nude pics?”

Answered the question “Does it mean anything special when a guy IMs you as "hey you" rather than just "hey" or "hi"?”

Answered the question “My guy hates when I put makeup on and when I have cleavage. What does that mean?”

Answered the question “Is grinding on another girl considered cheating?! I hate the thought of my boyfriend going out with his guy friends and griding up on someone! and should i worry when he goes out with them? They say they watch my back but i know he is their best friend no”

Answered the question “my boyfriend and his ex had a great love. they had it publicized all over facebook, kissing pics, mushy statuses, and comments back and forth to eachother. he does none of that with me, were not even listed as in a relationship.. i know he loves me more t”

Answered the question “Why are guys threatened by lesbians?”

Posted “MCP” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted GuySpeak Picks The 10 Most Fascinating People of the Year to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What the heck is going on in the media today? No matter the topic, or the product, the man always seems to lose out to the girl. It could be anything from aspirin to insurance. The girl always ends up with the right choice. Is there a reason the girl is n”

Answered the question “Hey can you guys do a blog post about how to enjoy the holidays, if your single. Not all of us are in relationships, thanks!”

Answered the question “Is it a bad idea to start dating someone new during the holiday season?”

Answered the question “I got felt up by a friend at work who is 10 years older than me at a party where we were both drunk. I don't know how to act when i go back to work, i feel really violated, but then again i let it happen.”

Posted 10 Holiday Video Game Picks For Every Type Of Guy to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “How important is it to have a "man cave"?”

Posted “Nerd Lair” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My boyfriend bought me a sweater as an early Christmas present, and I want to wear it, but it's not my style and doesn't look good on me at all! What should I do?!?!?!? Please answer!”

Answered the question “I am a total bibliophile and have been single for a year but I am ready to find myself a bibliophile to date. I'm 20 and at a good college but it seems impossible to find an intelligent guy. Where are all the bibliophiles hiding other than the book stor”

Answered the question “I have a crisis! My boyfriend loves classical music and always tries to 'convert' me away from my love of the Shins, and similar bands. I can appreciate classical music for what it is, but he makes fun of my tastes. Is this need to 'improve' me flattering”

Posted “Present Face” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Five More Romantic Christmas Songs For Wintry Nights (Chosen by You!) to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Broseph Gordon-Levitt” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Why is my husband more emotionally in tune with me and affectionate after he has a few drinks? He used to be more emotionally in tune with me and affectionate when we were dating but without the alcohol. Now, why am I not as appealing as I used to be unle”

Answered the question “Hi Chic Geek. Remember last month the question about drunk kissing the guy with the girlfriend, and him staying the night? Well you had good advice. She asked me tonight if anything happened and I told her the truth. Then douchbag denies it TO ME and call”

Posted GuySpeak and Glamour Bring You Holiday Gift Ideas For Your Guy to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I cheated on my boyfriend of a month. We're young. Thing is, I dont regret it. I'm a very conservative person and with my boyfriend, hes also very shy. When I cheated, it pushed me out of my shy shell and gave me tons of confidence that he NEVER did.”

Posted Top Five Romantic Christmas Songs (Besides That Mariah Carey One) to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “ASAP! Please! This is prob really ridiculous & crazy BUT this guy just called my office & sounded ADORABLE (he's British. Yes, it IS that easy.) & we can't offer him a job but I took his contact info anyway. Is it super SUPER weird if I call him after wor”

Answered the question “My roommate Laura wants to know if men actually like ATM.”

Answered the question “Will my c-section scar be a turn-off/unattractive to my husband?”

Answered the question “I just learned yesterday that my ex that I dated many years ago, had recently got engaged. I tried e-mailing him a few months back but he didn't respond. I'm just really confused about as to what she has and what I don't have.”

Answered the question “Would you think I'm a terrible person if I said I usually don't think blond guys are attractive? Would that put me in the same class as the guy who has the Asian fetish (from the question you answered today)?”

Answered the question “I love boobies. That's all.”

Answered the question “What do I do when my husband takes an unexpected job 1/2 way across the US, didn't communicate until the last day before leaving, and blames me because he's overly obsessive about my weight, while he's underweight and hangs me out to dry when it comes to ”

Posted “Dranksgiving” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 10 Ways To Geek Up Your Thanksgiving to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I'm white, and my boyfriend is white also, but he told me that he prefers to date Asian women. Am I wasting on time on someone who will never be truly happy with me because I'm not his preference? Would he feel like he is missing out on ”

Answered the question “My Ex broke up with me two months ago and since then I've been going through this emotional cycle, trying to be friends but we end up having sex and I get attached again. What should I do?”

Answered the question “HELP! i'm el desperado for an answer here, i'm going kinda crazy...so if you spend a night making out with a guy and there's chemistry, and he ends up getting your number (he asked) how many days until you write him off if he hasn't tried to contact you?”

Answered the question “Guys with girlfriends always approach me. Why do I have "slut" written across my forehead?”

Answered the question “Why do some men put up with the women who are ridiculously controlling? I'm talking, the women who forbid them to hang out with friends without her, the ones that give you a curfew, etc. I realize this is probably a result of lack of trust issues on the w”

Answered the question “If he asks me to send a picture for his phone's photo ID should it be slutty-ish or just normal cute? I like him.”

Answered the question “What's a good conversation starter for me to say to a hipster geek?”

Posted “Duckface” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My friend has a girlfriend. Friday night they had "problems." He came over. We cooked. We got drunk. We kissed. We confessed how attracted we are to each other, then he called himself an asshole and cried in my closet. Then we fell asleep together. Now he”

Answered the question “I have a HUGE crush on this hipster/geek. I want to invite him to do something fun with me, but I feel like whatever I suggest wont be interesting enough to him. Do you have any good ideas? Also, I already looked up good concerts in the next month, and I ”

Answered the question “my bf's father thinks poorly of me based on the decisions my dad made when he was in high school (they knew each other). And hes quite mean to me. I would like to confront him on this as it is causing problem in my relationship and its hurting my feeling”

Posted Would You Shack Up With Your Guy's Best Friend During A Zombie Apocalypse? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Do guys still like the idea of fishnet stocking and a garter belt? And what kind of panties would turn him on more?”

Answered the question “I met a guy from a dating website. We went on t dates and one thing led to another and we hooked up. He now blows up my facebook, texts me all the time and tells me how he turns down "sluts" because he found me. I'm flattered, but I don't feel nearly the ”

Posted “Shamble of Shame” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Meeting at a halloween party, he gives me his card and asks me to give him a call. Does he really want me to call? Jeanette”

Answered the question “I found out that my husband has been poking holes in our condoms and now i am pregnant. I told him that i never wanted kids when we started dating and he never had a problem with it. im devastated. Why would he do this to me? what should i do [abortion is”

Answered the question “He tickles, then hug. ”

Answered the question “My boyfriend cheated on me and got a girl pregnant. When I confronted him he turned the argument around to try and blame me. Should I dump him or try to work it out? Will he cheat again if I stay?”

Posted Geeky Halloween Costumes That Never Fail to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Ok multiple choice question! My med school crush told me to call him to hang out, but when i did he said he was busy studying for an exam. He is... a.) not interested b.) actually busy, try once more c.) interested but playing hard to get d.) none of the ”

Answered the question “I have a friend, and he invited me to his house for sex. I get there, and he proceeds to tell me that "he can't because he has a lady friend that he has been seeing for 3 weeks". This blew me away!!! He still calls me and makes little hints. What shou”

Posted The Dos and Don'ts of Halloween Costumes For Couples to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What does it mean if a guy started holding one of my hands while I was going down on him?”

Answered the question “Why do guys joke about infidelity?”

Answered the question “Why is a guy asking me out on another date when he is leaving the country for a year next week? Yes, he's really leaving, it's not a lie. I really like him and think we click. We've only been out once before. Help!”

Posted “Dr. House” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted “Charlotte Bro-ntë” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “We've been dating for 3 years. Why won't he make a move and make out with me?”

Answered the question “What's the nicest way to let a guy know you're not interested? This *really nice* guy has a crush on me and I hate to be a b!tch and just ignore him. Truth is I'm not interested in anyone right now, it's all on me, he's great. I just can't think of a way ”

Answered the question “My boyfriend is a physics major, i'm a fashion major. One of his good friends (a girl who is "in love" with him) is a physics major too. I can't help but worry that over the years he'll become attracted to her since they have that similar interest.”

Answered the question “You know when you're handing something to someone and you try really hard not to accidentally touch his/her hand because that's just freaky? Well..I try not to. Does it mean anything when a guy (a guy that I like who may or may not know I like him) does”

Answered the question “What name do you call a guy that sleeps with a lot of women?”

Answered the question “Red Dead Redemption or my boyfriend? Cause right now only one of them is looking more appealing. Can you guess which one? Hint: it doesn't breathe.”

Posted “Nerdlings” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 10 Crushing Celebrity Breakups to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What does it mean when a man loves you because you remind him of Justin Beiber?”

Answered the question “Do girls like "The Shocker"?”

Posted “The Kicker” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted The Hottest Geeks at New York Comic Con to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Chic Geek, I've been wondering this for a while now: why are women with cats always painted as lonely and desperate? I seriously don't get this, can you please enlighten me?”

Answered the question “Is this for real?”

Answered the question “I'm a 30-something 5'11" former model who still fits into clothes I once modeled.I run my own business, have 2 M.A.s, a killer wit, and agree with my friends that I'm "the package".So why do I have such a hard time finding GOOD dates? It's not a lack of c”

Answered the question “I was drugged in Vegas & ended up having sex w/ someone I really like (long time friend,) problem is, I can't remember any of it. He can, & is really embarrassed that he took advantage of me. I'm afraid that we are going back to "friend only" status. I'”

Answered the question “Do you like X-men comics? If so, how do you feel about Wolverine becoming a vampire?”

Posted 10 Songs That Make Guys Cry to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What do guys mean when they say "she isn't even that cute"? Doesn't that mean he finds her somewhat attractive?”

Answered the question “What are your views on drunk calls? Are things said in a drunk call honest and can be taken seriously?”

Posted “New Comics Day” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “i was doodling in my notebook the other day, it turned out to literally be the best drawing i've ever done. i want to show it off on facebook with all my comics. only i'm afraid this guy who always comments on all my art/videos will see it, it happens to ”

Answered the question “I really like a geeky guy that I meet every couple of months to do geeky stuff with. He's told me that he talks to me more than everyone else put together. I asked him out but he said he had "recently started seeing someone..we'll see how it pans out." D”

Answered the question “Should I not make a big deal about my boyfriend looking at another woman in front of me , for example we were at church and this woman in front of us stands up and my boyfriends eyes become glued to her butt; should I let this bother me?”

Answered the question “Nick..I've caused an EPIC FAIL. Dating a guy 5 wks. He's a man's man, w/ an ego. We went out Sunday and he said, let's have dinner on Tues. I didn't hear from him by Tues at noon, so I called. And texted. And Emailed. Several times. No reply. I'm”

Posted 10 Guy Lines That Will Send You Directly To The Friend Zone to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I'll admit I need work: I'm loud, overwhelming, and I talk too much about myself. See, my first sentence was all about me! There's a guy I met at the gym that I've been talking to a bit (a lot) lately though he's far less outspoken. How do I get him talki”

Answered the question “On Sunday, my boyfriend and I were heavy petting on the sofa while the football game was on. As I reached for the condom, he asked "How do you want it?" I replied with, "Reverse cowgirl so you can watch the game, silly!" No question here, just wanted so”

Answered the question “I am always complaining about how guys don't like me, and now when one finally does, I am not interested in him! Should just suck it up and date him anyway knowing that this kind of thing only happens to me once every 5 years or so? Or should I hold out f”

Answered the question “Do you think it's okay to "block" guys on a dating website that you went out with and then mutually didn't click? I don't bear them ill will but I feel self-conscious editing my profile and being online when they know me "in real life".”

Answered the question “My boss from just broke up with me because he is stressed with work. What should i do?”

Posted “Cider Season” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 10 Reasons Why Patrick Swayze Was the Ultimate Guy to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I am seeking your awesome music matching skills Nick! I am getting married to an awesome guy, but we are having trouble finding the right kind of music to play for the recessional part of the ceremony (after the kiss). I suggested "Wouldn't It Be Nice" bu”

Answered the question “Is going to a dominatrix ballet class cheating? It would just be about the discipline/structure/catharsis and learning more ballet, especially since I don't find women attractive. I'm planning on asking my bf if it's ok before, but I just won't do it at a”

Answered the question “Am I too thin? I train horses and work hard every day, so I get an automatic workout, but my boyfriend keeps trying to make me gain weight. I have a D chest, a tiny waist, stong arms, legs, and abs, and a curvy backside, so I'm happy with my body, and I'm”

Answered the question “I want to know the rules and regulations with regards to dating your ex-boyfriend's friend? Is anything kosher here or should this sort of romantic rendezvous be avoided (alongside songs like "jessie's girl" or "layla")?”

Answered the question “My boyfriend just got back from Florida and his female friend wrote on his facebook wall "I wish I could have gone with you!" He wrote back and said he was going back next semester and she should definitely come along....why is he doing this publicly?!”

Answered the question “How can you meet good guys at a bar?”

Answered the question “Do most people find their first love in college? If so I'm screwed. I havent found anyone.....not that im looking but as a junior in college with no first love found yet, I'm beginning to feel lonely and frankly worried”

Answered the question “Which is worse for a married man to have ... an emotional affair or a physical affair?”

Answered the question “I'm a lesbian. So... how much of the advice on this site do you think applies to women who are trying to understand other women in the context of lesbian dating relationships?”

Posted Mojowijo Turns Your Wii Remote Into a Sex Toy, Creeps Me Out to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I've been talking to this guy for the last 6 weeks, and about a week ago he tells me he wants to be with me. I replied by saying "Let's see what happens." In the last few days he has not been calling at night, even though we text & talk throughout the d”

Answered the question “Can an uncircumcised man orgasm during sex with a condom?”

Answered the question “Is it weird to have pet names in the form of Pokemon? I have an odd habit of doing this to almost every guy I want to get romantic with. First, it was Psyduck. Then it was Growlithe. Now I'm all over Mightyena. Would you g”

Answered the question “What are the signs you're just a rebound?”

Posted It's The Jersey Shore Bad Relationship Choices Drinking Game! to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “How much of Lyfe Jennings' Statistics do you agree?”

Posted “Ron Draper” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I'm very patient with my Scorpio man but he's so stubborn and mean. Should I leave or stay?”

Answered the question “I met my boyfriend online. I want to do a background check on him for peace of mind for me & my family. How do I ask him if thats ok? Its understandable, right?”

Answered the question “I sent an email via Facebook to a guy I knew 20 years ago. I just recently found him on FB and all he could say was, "OMG! How are you?" Why so few words considering how long it's been?”

Posted 5 Geeky Types of Wedding Invitations to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I met this guy a month ago and said I was a sports fan (using the term liberally and trying to impress him). He messaged me talking about sports stuff that I didn't really care about before transitioning into regular conversation. Does he like me or is he”

Answered the question “How do you know when a guy only wants you for sex? What are the signs?”

Answered the question “This sounds like an easy solution but I'm struggling- I like sex, and when I meet an attractive guy it usually is only 2 dates before I go for it. I always enjoy it right then and for a few days a”

Answered the question “Is it normal for my husband to only be friends with women and spend hours on the phone with them?”

Answered the question “My boyfriend tells me he refuses to get married until he's 35. This is 9 years away and i would be 38. Is it worth staying hoping that he may reconsider his timeframe or should I cut and run if that does not work for my time frame?”

Answered the question “My affair of one year was found out by my hubby of 20. My lover and I were going to get divorces and move in together. Now that we are caught he won't do it. I never thought of leaving before, and with my "out" gone, I've nowhere to go. Why do I still wan”

Answered the question “From a heterosexual female: if I get turned on by myself, am I vain?”

Posted Scott Pilgrim Vs. the World Is Really About Relationships to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Incept” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I just turned 36 and am not married. When I tell people I want kids they ask "are you going to adopt or do artificial insemination?'. Are they serious? I'm not too old for a guy to want to marry me and father my children, am I?”

Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy will only come to your apartment and won't take you out?”

Answered the question “My boyfriend has to travel a lot for his job. One of his newly added friends on Facebook is a girl from a city he stayed in last week. Should I be worried?”

Posted 5 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Propose On Twitter to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I am a very tall girl with brown hair, im also very curvy. Here's my problem. Not one guy will go out with me. they're always staring at my size 40D boobs and my hazel eyes, they act sweet around me, they seem interested in me, but the wont go out with me”

Answered the question “After 4 months of a great relationship, why would a guy just stop calling? Seriously, everthing "appeared" to be going great...but now he stopped calling, won't return my 1 call or 1 text. What's going on?”

Answered the question “Ok, this may sound stupid but here goes...I want to find a wealthy woman who can pay me for my time. Yes, you probably know where this is going. I cannot find a job and I am running out of ideas.”

Answered the question “I recently got a pixie cut that I love. I do have feminine features (big lips/eyes) and there's no way you could mistake me for a boy but I'm still worried guys will prefer women with long hair or wonder if I'm gay. Will the price of super cute hair be a”

Answered the question “I love Mad Men and as a girl who has always been unusually curvy, I love Joan and her style. Recently I've been Joan-ifying my wardrobe. But just out of interest, are only women loving the early 60's look on women, or do men like it too? (Also, do you onl”

Answered the question “If your geeky guy-crush-friend says he's "flattered and touched" (I quote) to hear you have a crush on him, but he's currently not looking for any relationship, is there any hope at all or am I equivalent to guy-buddy/sister material? :(”

Answered the question “Do guys really care if girls have stretch marks? Like BAD ones that are purple and gross and old ones that make your legs look like cellulite city.”

Answered the question “No questions about Twilight Saga: Eclipse, Nick? Or have you managed to avoid it?”

Answered the question “I do Ironman triathlons, own my house, have a great career but am single at 33. I realize there could be other reasons I am single but could it be that men intimidated by my success and athleticism?”

Answered the question “I asked out this guy at work and he said he couldn't hang out because it was his sister's birthday. Doesn't that sound like a lie?”

Answered the question “How do you keep men whipped?”

Answered the question “Today at work, I overheard my crush tell his friend he thinks it's strange that I always laugh at everything he says even when it's not intended to be funny. How do I fix this?”

Answered the question “My friend is married to a guy that slept with someone a few days prior to them getting married? What advice should I give her, they are married now, but she found out after they got married.”

Posted “Brotox” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I'm pregnant and I know the baby is not my boyfriend's. How do I tell my boyfriend? I don't want to hurt him, but I want to raise the baby with him. Should I even tell him its not his?”

Posted 10 Comic Books To Read With (Or Without) Your Guy to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My crush is really into rap music, but I'm definitely more into the indie rock/alternative scene. I wanna make him a mixed tape (he always makes fun of my music). Do you have any suggestions for something we could both listen to?”

Answered the question “I do everything for my boyfriend. I dont know what I am doing wrong! He always leaves me for his friends and lies a lot. He sometimes talks to other girls and flirts. I am beautiful. Help! What do I do to get his attention?”

Answered the question “I dont know why, but all my life Ive sucked my thumb. not all the time just when i have TROUBLE sleeping. its not something im partial to showing off, but im about to move in with my BF and he obviously doesnt know, waking up in the middle of the night to”

Posted Mel Gibson: What Women Do Not Want to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I absolutely HATE this necklace that my boyfriend always wears...but I think he thinks it makes him look good. How do I make him STOP wearing it for good...without bruising his ego?”

Answered the question “I broke up with a guy over a text. We only went on 2 dates so I didn't figure it was a big deal. All he said back was "k". Does this mean he really didn't care, or he's pissed at me?”

Answered the question “I'm planning my wedding, but my dad has been out of the picture my whole life. My first dance will be with my brother, and I was wondering if you had any suggestions for songs? Everything out there is about romantic love!”

Answered the question “Are guys afraid to date widows?”

Posted “Alcoholiday” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “If a man has been cheated on in all of his previous relationships will he ever learn to trust his (faithful) fiance fully or will he always have unwarrented suspicions?”

Posted Help! I Hate My Boyfriend's Pal With a Fiery Passion. What Should I Do? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My boyfriend adores Sheryl Crow to the point where he has kept all her pictures. He is 30 years old and it makes me doubt our relationship because I don't keep stuff like that around. Should I think I think it's nothing? Or am I just jealous?”

Answered the question “I am dating my coworker. We teach inner city kids together and are keeping it very under wraps so it doesn't cause drama with the kids,faculty, etc. Problem is: his way of doing this is to flirt with EVERY other female teacher so no one suspects.”

Answered the question “I work at a summer camp. During one of the camp cheers, I accidentally slapped my male coworkers ass while waving my hands around. He now makes lewd comments around me, and I feel really uncomfortable. How do I address this?”

Answered the question “Need help on dating a stripper.”

Posted Wonder Woman's New Costume: Fab or Fail? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My hubby wants to have fun with loads of women as one night stands. He says that he is being honest and I should be understanding about it.We have been married for 14 years,its understandable he wants change.pls tell me that its alright to be heart broken”

Answered the question “Guys, choose ONLY one to bring home: girl with good personality, good sense of humor, sexy body, beautiful face or amazing bedroom skills?”

Answered the question “I am Jewish and my fiancee wants me to become Mormon. I refused; however, he wants to have the wedding at a Mormon temple leaving non-Jews (i.e. my friends and family) out. What should I do?”

Posted Toy Story 3 And Other Movies That Turn Guys Into Big Weepie Babies to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I like one of my ex-boyfriend's friends. (Me and my ex have a lot of the same friends.) I like have never hung out alone with the friend, just in group settings. What should I do?”

Answered the question “A doctor gave me his cell and said to call over the weekend if I wanted. Is it inappropriate to ask the guy out or was he just being polite by giving me his cell?”

Posted “Mangarita” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “If my husband wants to go to his class reunion without me am I asking for trouble the girl who owns the bar where it is being held he keeps asking people about her marital status and says she was just the sweetest thing in high school. Am I just being to”

Answered the question “A married ex told me he took a job six hours away. He lives there four days out of the week.Only married 18 months after being laid of for over a year. Does this sound weird to you? I lied and said I'm getting married in a year. He said, "Congr”

Answered the question “Why is it that single dads get dates quicker than single moms? I'm really baffled by this. And please don't say because the kids dont live with the dads.”

Answered the question “During a hot make-out session, my boyfriend (who isn't very experienced) stuck his finger down the back of my pants and up my anus instead of my vagina. I got kinda grossed out and stopped him. Was this an accident? Or is he trying to tell me he wants ana”

Posted GuySpeak Vs. Lemondrop: Crushing On a Guy Friend. Should You Make a Move or Not? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Is it annoying to ask my geek friend to repair my computer multiple times?”

Posted 10 Summer Lovin' Songs For Hot Summer Nights to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Is it that hard for guys to give a sincere apology?”

Posted “Douche-atron” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “ive been out with this guy about 10 times and he has not offered to pay for our dates once! its always just a split down the middle.. im not picky about guys paying, i mean he doesnt have a job right now.. but come on.. not paying ONCE! what do i do?.”

Answered the question “How do I get a geeky boyfriend? I'm a biology major and future scientist, and I'm tired of dating normal guys that frankly are dumber than me. I'm not tech savvy nor do I buy comic books, I don't know where to meet nerdy guys. Plus what if they're too shy”

Answered the question “I found text msgs between my husband and his ex. he told her about me, but he also told her he loved her. When confronted he said that he hurt her badly and needed her forgiveness to move on, and she wouldn't talk to him if she knew we were married, but t”

Answered the question “My boyfriend complains about my weight all the time. What should I do?”

Posted 5 Summer Date Movies Your Guy Might Actually Watch to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “why do men always neglect to use a GPS or mapquest?”

Answered the question “my husband made a tagged.com profile..and theres just a bunch of girls on his friends list..shud i be worried?”

Answered the question “we were at the mall and my bf went to order food from arbys and didn't even offer me anything. then he just sat there and ate it in front of me”

Answered the question “I've been Divorced for over 5 yrs and we are still friends without benefits, It seems I just can't find a woman”

Answered the question “One thing that bothers me about my bf is he has had 30 partners before me and he just turned 20. im a virgin. he told me he is done living like that and im IT for him. i just cant fully believe that. he has held out over a month for me, its summer and idk”

Posted Spanx or No Spanx? Would You Wear Them? to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Mirdle” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted “Estrogen Bomb” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Do you have to be dumb to get a guy?”

Answered the question “Why would my boyfriend's soon-to-be ex-wife (they have been separated for ten years and living in different states) take an assumed name and befriend me on FaceBook? I have had absolutely no interaction with her (ever) and I am really puzzled by her beha”

Posted The Best Terrible Puns In Sex and the City 2 to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My best friend is OBSESSED with her boyfriend. They are sooo clingy, and frankly, it creeps me (and everyone else) out. I've tried telling her to tone it down before, which she does for about a week. Is there any way to tell her, nicely, to quit acting in”

Answered the question “Recently my boyfriend asked me not to shave (down there) and the thought of not shaving completely grosses me out. I wanted to do it at least once for him just to make him happy but it makes me feel repulsive. I hate the way it looks, feels, and just kno”

Answered the question “Do guys not like curly hair?”

Answered the question “I might sound like a psychotic, jealous gf but I don't like it when my bf has tickle wars with other girls he knows. It's not so much the tickling as WHERE he tickles. The mid to high thigh areas are a no-no for me but I know that he and I are from differ”

Answered the question “I see that you have done the top 5 romantic Christmas songs, the best sex songs, the top 10 break up songs. So can you create a list of the best seductive dance songs?”

Answered the question “Nick this isnt a question but a statement for you. Thank you for the good advice you gave me about my ex-boyfriend. You are right, he was a jerk for asking me to get a breast augmentation and pay for it. I told him no, and he said "no augmentation then no”

Answered the question “I really this guy, but I recently found out he doesn't like Asian girls. what should i do?”

Answered the question “Is there ever really such a thing as bad timing for a relationship if a guy is really into a girl?”

Answered the question “I've been seeing a nice guy for a month. Unlike the selfish men that I usually date, he's romantic and giving. Recently he's asked me to go on a trip overseas and he wants to pay for everything. I'd love to go but told him it makes me uncomfortable and I'”

Posted GuySpeak Vs. Lemondrop: My Co-Worker Gives Me Foot Massages During Lunch. So Why Won't He Ask Me Out? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Is it weird to be insecure/jealous about my boyfriend's beautiful sister? Does it change anything about how he views me? I'm worried because i look completely opposite. Thanks!”

Answered the question “I have acne and slight scarring from chicken pox. The guy I'm seeing didn't seem hesitant to kiss me when I didn't wear make-up for the first time on one of our dates. Is acne not as big a deal to guys? Should I go back to wearing less make-up since I d”

Answered the question “I am 45 and my boyfriend is 53. He's asked me to not only get a breast augmentation, but wants me to pay for it. I told him I wasn't comfortable with that and he reminded me that his last three exes got an augmentation. What do I say or do?”

Answered the question “Does a guy's perception of a girl change when he finds out she's a mom? I know all guys are different, but in general does she become more attractive, less attractive or does it matter? When should she tell him about her bundle of joy?”

Posted Break-Up Boycotts: Pop Culture We Can No Longer Consume to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I put some Bengay on before my boyfriend came over. We started kissing, and he told me I smelled really amazing that day. What?!”

Posted “Manhandles” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My boyfriend is mad that I don't text him throughout the day to let him know if I'm busy or free. My days are a bit chaotic and very stop-and-go, why can't he just assume that I'm busy when I don't answer him right away? I feel like I'm reporting to some ”

Answered the question “What do guys think about receiving flowers?”

Answered the question “Do you think Kristen Stewart is hot?”

Posted Back to the Future Proposal: Would You Say Yes? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Hey, Nick, do you guys get grossed by scars? I had a near-fatal car accident 1.5 year ago, and that left me with a huge scar across my back (from spinal surgeries). Next week I'm going on a second date with this s”

Answered the question “What are the top 10 break up (moving on) songs in your opinion?”

Answered the question “If in a commited relationship, do men consider it cheating if they get say "a happy ending" from a massage parlor?”

Answered the question “Hi, so I'm bisexual, and I have a fbuddy who's a girl. But, I met this guy, he's boyfriend material, he's hot, and he promises he has a big junk. I am in a dilemma because I want to keep my relationship with my fbuddy, but I'm thinking of actually settlin”

Posted How To Build a Heidi Montag to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Best sex songs?”

Answered the question “My boyfriend is planning on moving into a house with two of his mates and a Playboy Bunny wannabe. I really dont want him to. What shall i do?”

Answered the question “Should married couples take separate vacations?”

Answered the question “There are always tons of guys hitting on me. I'm also getting my PhD. For some reason, the guy I want to be with, who isn't in college and spends most of his time smoking pot, wants to hide his relationship with me. WHY?”

Answered the question “Hey Nick! Can you help? You seem *NICE*. ..so is the guy I'm seeing (shy, technology dude) and we've been dating 6 wks (talk daily, meet up 2x/wk). We're both young 40s. He doesn't want to have sex yet tho! Otherwise VERY affectionate. I sleep over-we cu”

Answered the question “What can I do to get my man back? He left me for someone younger. I am 38 and he was 20. He said he wanted more "experience in life" but would always love me. I was his first. Do I have a chance?”

Answered the question “Who would you rather marry, Alicia Keys or Beyonce. And why?”

Posted GuySpeak Vs Lemondrop: Why Women Love Bad Boys to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “How do I get my girlfriend to like anal sex?”

Answered the question “I'm sick of being 'cute'. What would it take to be viewed as hot?”

Posted “IKEA Test” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “How do I get a guy to respond to my messages on dating sites?”

Answered the question “I just watched He's Just Not That Into You and I have to know...what's a guys perspective on all that stuff??It seems like a girls version of a guys point of view.”

Answered the question “When the groom gets a lapdance at his bachelor party, what really goes on?”

Posted Adorable British Match.com Ad Is Adorable to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I'm a perfect hourglass. 32DD boobs, 23 inch waist, 33 inch hips. I love my body, but is it as good for others as it is for me?”

Answered the question “I'd been casually dating this guy for about 2 months when he disappeared citing "a series of unfortunate events" (Lemony Snicket anyone?). 4 months later he resurfaced, excuses in hand. I want to be his friend but find myself pissed off when we're togethe”

Posted “Drunch” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “When a guy says to his buddy he needs unfiltered female talk, its to womanize females and dis them, isnt it?”

Answered the question “I bar hop with 3 guys.Once the drinks starts flowing all they talk about are boobs. Meanwhile, I'm there with a good amount of cleavage showing, trying to pull up my neckline. I'm large in that area so anything I wear...How do I jokingly join in the convo”

Answered the question “Nick, you're pretty Bombtastic so naturally, I come to you for advice. I just started dating this awesome guy (over a month, still very new) and his birthday is coming up in May - he's mentioned it playfully. I love to bake, so I'm going to bake him somet”

Answered the question “Would a guy be turned off if a woman watched/read porn or hentai (pornographic Japanese comics), or is that something she should keep to herself?”

Posted GuySpeak Vs. Lemondrop: I'm a 23-Year-Old Virgin. Will Guys Freak Out? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “HELP! A friend that I'm crushing on just told me (after I confessed) that he's always seen me as family, because I remind him so much of a female relative. He's been hooking up with an ex friend but not dating her, so I'm wondering - do I still even have ”

Answered the question “I lost my virginity just over a year ago to a guy i met on the internet (I know, I know..) Afterwards I got scared and wouldn't have sex with him again, just oral. He got mad and said it's too late to go back. Am I wrong in thinking he's being a jerk?.”

Answered the question “I caught my boyfriend calling phone sex lines but we have an amazing sex life and even have phone sex whenever he wants. I confronted him about it and he said he doesn't know why he does it. Is this a gateway to cheating and other bad things? Should i be ”

Answered the question “I snoop on my boyfriend and it needs to stop. I realize that what I'm doing is horrible. I'm betraying his trust and its no way to treat the man that I love. I also understand that If I go looking for trouble, I'll find it. The problem is that I can't qui”

Posted How To Take The Perfect Online Dating Profile Photo to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “From one geek to another- I just got accepted into an amazing, out-of-state college. Problem is, I really love my bf of 1.5 yrs. and I'm afraid to leave him behind. What do I do?”

Answered the question “So, I hate, and I mean despise my boyfriend's best friend. We had this huge argument, and I threatened to call the cops so hed get arrested for the drugs in his house as payback. Which is a little rough, but I'm big on revenge. Anyways, now my boyfriend o”

Answered the question “I recently read in an article on a women's magazine website that there is no such thing as closure - that it is just clinging on to some false hope - should i move on even though my ex-boyfriend seemed to pull away with no real reason?”

Answered the question “Found out my bf's got a profile on match.com. He said he joined last year to just check things out for the 3 months free period but turns out match charged his card automatically for the year and that's why he's still got the profile. We've been dating fo”

Answered the question “i cheated on my BF who i really care about, it was a one time thing, i fessed up, and now he refuses to talk or even look at me, anything i can do to fix it. i honestly feel terrible”

Posted Is "Chexting" Cheating? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Why do guys like to cuddle after sex?”

Answered the question “I'm scared my boyfriend will find someone else once he starts community college. Should i tell him my fear or will that make him think im not confident in myself?”

Answered the question “Do guys like to hear poetry a woman has written for them or about them, or is that a little too creepy?”

Answered the question “Hot dude without a job. Keep 'em or dump 'em?”

Posted My Guilty Celebrity Crushes to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I live with my ex and he has a girlfriend, but he messes around with me. I got tired so I told him never to do anything again. He usually comes at night to kiss my forehead or to restle with me. I just dont get him.if he loves somebody else why does he bo”

Answered the question “Would most guys have sex with a girl who has their period?”

Answered the question “My guy has a temper. He's only yelled at me twice in the 1+ yrs we've been together, but he gets angry (and violent) over the smallest things, I hate it! I get scared sometimes and have to leave the room. Is this something I can help change? How?? I know ”

Answered the question “Why do so many men in their late thirties and forties refuse to give any woman out of their twenties a chance?”

Posted “Skank-Dar” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Why does almost every guy go for the skanks???”

Answered the question “My "ex" boyfriend will blow me off and act like he doesn't care for days on end. And i'm not the type to text or call him if he doesnt call me, but randomly he'll tell me he loves me, misses me, etc. When i reply and ask where it came from i never get an ”

Posted The Old Spice Guy Is All Sorts of Awesome to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Lurve” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “What is the definition of an "open" marriage?”

Answered the question “I like to go deep when giving a blowjob but my man always grabs my hair and likes when I stay there ( making it hard to breath ) ive tried telling him let me breath lol .. but he gets to excited how do i get him to relax and to enjoy it at the same time !”

Answered the question “What is a guy's opinion to when girls curse frequently? Is it a turn off?”

Answered the question “What is a guy's view on dirty texts, and what is appropriate and what is not? Thanks!”

Answered the question “Why is it guys you used to date want you back when your about to get married???”

Posted GuySpeak Vs. Lemondrop: Boyfriends Without Benefits to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What are your suggestions for learning to be alone? Or at least, how to make it more bearable. Please forego the "Plan a night with your girlfriends and paint each others' toenails!" route of advice. I'm not looking for distraction, I'm looking for peace ”

Answered the question “How do I get my boyfriend to buy me tampons?”

Answered the question “Can a really romantic movie persuade or even change a guy's mind about you when he sees it? Does it even affect guys?”

Answered the question “is it unattractive to be sweaty at the gym?”

Answered the question “What's horchata?”

Posted Is Chatroulette the Future of Online Dating? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Double dates. What are your thoughts?”

Answered the question “I am an attractive, educated, and intelligent female who after 15+ years of marriage is now divorced. I am shocked to learn that my ex has now decided to pursue a gay lifestyle. Although I have nothing to do with his decision,, I have to wonder what guy”

Answered the question “What are your thoughts on long distance relationships? Are they worth the work it would take?”

Answered the question “If a guy tells you he wants a "committed, yet casual and exclusive relationship" what does that mean?”

Answered the question “When (and how???) in a relationship do you reveal that you were once obese but have lost weight due to weight loss surgery? And would it be a turnoff to you?”

Answered the question “Is it normal for guys to have a white residue on "themselves" before they shower or when they wake up? And I'm not referring to any white residue from ejaculation. I mean otherwise.”

Posted 5 Ways To Improve Your Guy's Wardrobe to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “How can I ask a guy that I'm hooking up with for the night if i can spend the night?”

Answered the question “I'm scared if I tell him I want a relationship, I'll lose him as a friend. We have been friends with benefits for a year now, and I thought that was enough but it's not.”

Answered the question “I just started dating a guy I met online. Every time an attractive girl comes around, my date stares at the girl until there's eye contact. I'm actually surprised he hasn't broken his neck yet! I figure it's a bad sign if he's not trying to hide it out of”

Answered the question “I can't stop cyber-stalking my boyfriend's ex! He won't talk to me about his ex, so everything I know about her, I found out online. How can I stop obsessing over this?”

Posted Valentine's Day Gifts For the Geek (and Non-Geek) In Your Life to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Me and my best guy friend have this bet where we don't call eachother. If I win, he has to give me a musical performance and if he wins he gets to take artsy and possibly nude photos of me. It's been a couple of weeks, could you give me insight into his t”

Answered the question “i pretended to be someone else on facebook and talked to my boyfriend, and now he's totally in love with her should confront him or i shouldn't”

Answered the question “What do guys think about a girl who plays guitar and electric guitar, even when he can't play anything?”

Answered the question “Saw an email that stated: Nice pictures Mr. Boneder...what does this mean? Is this Mr. Boneder a saying among guys and does that mean hes sending sex pictures to his friends?”

Posted “Mr. Boneder” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Do guys REALLY believe in love at first sight? Or is it just a bunch of crap?”

Posted 7 Romantic Lost Moments to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My guy and I are poor college students. We've been fwb's since October, made it facebook official last month.Currently, he's broke. Is this a legit excuse for him to not give a V-day gift? Would it make him feel bad if I got/made him something? The best g”

Answered the question “My boyfriend is a fan of some porn model on facebook. I guess I'm being immature and insecure with myself but it kind of bugged me. Do I say anything? Or just let it go?”

Answered the question “what does it mean when my boyfriend does not invite me to go to a party with him and leaves me at home?”

Answered the question “Bachelor parties. Is it reasonable to expect my man not to go to a strip club? If im not allowed, then why should he be able to go to one?”

Answered the question “What does is mean when a guy writes your number down on piece of paper, but clearly has a phone?”

Posted 5 Things I've Learned From Women to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I like to smoke weed. My boyfriend hates that I do it. I love him and I'll stop if it's going to ruin our relationship. He's not over protective, he let's me do whatever I want, it's just the weed that's an issue. He says he's just looking out for me and ”

Posted “Brozilla” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “My best friend and i have been hooking up for 6 months. We live together and spend all our time together. Everyone thinks we're a couple, except we agreed it's just FWB. I have feelings for him now, is it likely that he has feelings for me as well or can ”

Answered the question “After a bad break up, I went on a no-guy sabbatical to reevaluate my past missteps and to form a new, healthier perspective on what I want in a prospective mate (i.e not an ass-hat.) Its been a year now and I'm ready to date again. I'm just not sure how t”

Answered the question “Why do guys wear skinny jeans?”

Posted Conan O'Brien's Abusive Relationship With NBC to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I'm 45 - he is 25. Why are younger men sometimes attracted to an older woman?”

Posted How To Score The Geeky Guy Of Your Dreams to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Do guys like girls who are bitchy and mean?”

Answered the question “if my husband of 10+ years looks up his ex-girlfriend address on google map because he was just curious and didnt tell me (i was clearing the recent history and found out from the history of the search engine that he googled her and her husband), shoudl i”

Answered the question “How do I know if I am a bad kisser?”

Answered the question “My best friend, who's a guy, is pretty cool but he has recently started making sexual jokes like "Great, we have ten minutes. Enough time for a quickie". I usually just laugh it off, but what's his deal? Is he into me or something?”

Posted 5 Reasons Why The Golden Globes Are Better Than the Oscars to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “How long is it appropriate for me to wait to be introduced to my new boyfriend's parents?”

Answered the question “Are you scared of gay men and if so why?”

Posted I Kind Of Have a Crush On the Sex Robot to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Skinemax” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “How do I get my husband to agree to a 3-some with another woman?”

Answered the question “he says he wants to save money to buy a ring and we will get married this spring but he has bought 2 vehicles since. will he buy me a ring”

Answered the question “If a girl is the one to ask out the guy then who pays on the first date? Should it be the guy still?”

Answered the question “I went to a drive through coffee shop where a very hot and pleasantly nerdy bro-ista struck up a conversation with me about the wonderful world of Marvel based on a bust of Wolverine I have affixed to my dash board. Here's the question; How the heck do I ”

Answered the question “When men get old, do their penises shrink quite a bit??”

Answered the question “why won't my boyfriend tell me how many women he has slept with?”

Answered the question “I'm in a bar. Guy buys me a drink without asking. I think he's being pushy and rude. My girl friends say he's just trying to be nice, but I think they're being naive. What is a guy's true intention for buying a lady a drink without asking? Does he really ”

Posted “Bilbo Scumbaggins” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “What do you think of a guy that make over $250k/yr, spends freely on himself but will not help a long term girlfriend out when she falls on hard times? P.S.--the girlfriend regularly prepares meals for him, does his laundry. Other than she is a doormat an”

Posted The Ten Sexiest Geeks Of 2009 to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “i found naked pictures of a woman in my boyfriend's special drawer. He cheated on me with her. Does this mean that I am being cheated on again?”

Answered the question “If my bf didn't get me anything for Christmas, what do I do? We have been going out for 8 months. More of a casual thing. I did get him a very nice gift already.”

Answered the question “What turns a 17 year old guy on?”

Answered the question “Does he want to be my boyfriend or is he happy being snuggly pals?”

Answered the question “I'm a writer, but I can never get my bf of 3 years to consistently read my material. I know he's busy (he's a bball player) but even when he does read it he just does it to oblige me. Why?”

Answered the question “Is it bad if a girl can get a higher score in video games then her boyfriend?”

Answered the question “I found gay porn under my boyfriend's bed. I'm really afraid of confronting him about it. What should I do??”

Answered the question “If a guy takes me to his company Christmas party can that mean anything significant?”

Posted “Cray-Cray” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “What does it mean if a guy constantly has to check up on you all the time? Checking cell phone, reading journal, calling to make sure I am where I said I was going to be... that sort of thing.”

Posted “SeXXXmas” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “When a guy slaps you on the arm what does that mean?”

Answered the question “Do you think it's hot when girls Lolspeak?”

Posted The Dos and Don'ts Of Office Holiday Parties to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Why hasn't my 29 year old boyfriend of 8 weeks who I have known for over one year tried to kiss me?”

Answered the question “Would you be mad if your girlfriend of 7 years kissed another guy, while drunk, one night?”

Answered the question “Dear fellows, I have a lot of limitations. How do I go about finding my special someone? Please give detailed step by step advice asap. ”

Answered the question “Is it odd of me to be concerned that my boyfriend's favorite book is Catcher in the Rye (and only references that one book...he hasn't read anything else by Salinger)? I don't believe he's going to shoot John Lennon or anything. ”

Posted The Chic Geek's Geektastic Must Have Holiday Gift Guide to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Would a guy be intimidated or not even date a girl taller than him?”

Posted “Douche Rocket” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I recently had a (mistake!) threesome with a guy who I don't even know if I like and my best friend's brother... I haven't told my friend about it, but it's killing me to keep a secret like that from her. How should I tell her?”

Posted GuySpeak Review: Men of a Certain Age Tries To Explain What Makes Guys Tick to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Mangyver” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Do guys appreciate CDs/playlists their girlfriends make for them? Would he actually listen to one, even if it was totally not his music taste?”

Answered the question “I love that my boyfriend is a huge geek, but the one thing that bugs me is his toy collection! He has not only 1, but 2 cabinet full of toys, including statues of scantily clad women with removable clothes. When I bring it up, he compares it to my shoes.”

Answered the question “My boyfriend watches porn and lies about it. I've told him hundreds of times that I don't care that he watches porn and yet he STILL lies about it. Why?”

Posted Man Marries Video Game Character, Action Figures Likely Next to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “Do men care about christmas decorations?”

Answered the question “I started talking to this guy I met online, and I liked him at first. We recently talked on the phone, and the chemistry was just not there. Now he's wanting to meet. Should I tell him that I'm just not into him, or just slowly stop talking?”

Answered the question “I'm a little bit overweight, vegetarian, percussion major and I love South Park and Colbert Report. I've got plenty of guy friends but I'm almost NEVER the object of affection. Be honest - if I don't lose the weight, do I have any chance of finding love?”

Answered the question “We girls invest so much time and money on cute bras and panties. Do men really notice?”

Answered the question “My Bf of 3 years is ADDICTED to video games, and sometimes it feels like he is choosing them over me. What should or can I do about this?”

Answered the question “What does it mean when my boyfriend, who is 19, no children or financial responsibilities, in fact no responsibilities except school says," i am stressed". He says this at least once a week...”

Answered the question “I asked my husband if he thinks about other hotter women when we have sex.....he said no....is he lying?”

Posted 5 Burning Questions About New Moon to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “My fiance likes to "talk" during sex. Not dirty talk necessarily. I'm more quiet I guess but would like to be more vocal. I'm just so focused on making him feel good & what he's doing to make me feel good to come up with "talk." What do I do?”

Posted “Sammich” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted “TMFI” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Ok, so I love letting the world know I love my boyfriend. So from time to time I post it on his Twitter or Facebook. But he like totally ignores it. What the hell is up? Please help me!”

Answered the question “How shallow are men? Seems like every time i go to a bar, all i see are good looking men hitting on skinny blond girls. there has to be men out there that like brunettes right?”

Answered the question “Which "Star Wars" movie is the best? Some guys at a party were debating (for three hours!!), and I only know that Jamaican alien is offensive, or annoying atbest. But I want to seem more in the know. I'll netflix one of them.”

Posted 5 Great Video Games For Couples to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “An old bf found me online, I was his first back in the day & he started sending me flirty emails about his current life. He keeps asking me out for coffee, even though he knows I am married. Should I be concerned that he will try to make some "move"?”

Answered the question “Why does my husband REFUSE to take me to the new twilight movie even though he knows it will make me happy?”

Answered the question “Are guys turned off when their girlfriend is more educated than them?”

Answered the question “I'm kind of geeky, but i have this crush on a popular guy in school. He talks to me a lot, but i don't know if he likes me. (I know, I know, not another teen movie!) How do know?”

Posted “Nut Up” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I finally met this guy my friend wanted to set me up with. But at her party, he joked around w/ everyone but me. Later he facebook friended me and now is always the first to comment on my posts. Could this mean he likes me? He's def a gamer/dorky.”

Posted Phone Apps Can Prevent Drunk Dialing. Should Facebook Be Next? to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “What are some new up and coming bands that the cool kids are listening to?”

Answered the question “My husband is always driving and texting. He will not stop... even when our kids are in the car. It scares me. How do I get my message across?”

Posted “Intertubes” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I met this guy on a dating website and we've been emailing for about 2 weeks with no talk of meeting up. I don't want to make the move because I don't want to set a precedent of making things too easy for him. The convos are fun but what gives?”

Answered the question “My boyfriend is a self-proclaimed geek. He's into comic books, sci-fi, and video games. I don't mind doing these things, but I love shopping, cooking and watching trashy tv. How can we come together and really enjoy each other's hobbies?”

Answered the question “This guy I like reads graphic novels, but they all look crowded and ugly to me. I don't see the appeal. Help!”

Posted What His Gadget Says About Him to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I want to get my boyfriend a really cool gadget for Christmas. We've only been dating for a little over 8 months, so honestly I don't want it to be toooooo expensive... any ideas? ”

Answered the question “What would be your ideal first date? I've got a date with a self-proclaimed geek this week and I really want to show him that deep down, I'm a geek too. ”

Answered the question “Would it be wrong to ask an employee at my local Apple store out? He's handsome (albeit it wee bit geeky), so nice, and I get so turned on when he shows me all the little MacBook features. Would it be wrong to ask him out while he's working? ”

Answered the question “Do you think a guy ever gets turned off by a girl that likes to just stay in, play some Wii Sports Resort and crack open some beers? Do you become "one of the guys" if you spend too much time like that? I'm talking about when you're first starting to hang”

Posted “Jake and the Fatman” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Do you think the threat of ending up on the internet is reason enough to NEVER engage in bedroom photography/cinematography with your man (even if you're in a trusting, monogamous relationship)? ”

Posted The Dos and Don'ts of Couples Halloween Costumes to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I've been trying out online dating and might finally meet up with someone. Should I expect this to be like a regular date? I pretty much always expect (though I always offer) the guy to pay for the 1st date. Is it fair for me to expect this?”

Answered the question “So Pepsico has this new free App that feeds men lines and helps them "score" with women. I think they just removed the app -- but still curious to get your take on this. Do men really need to consult their phone so you can get a quick pick up line?”

Answered the question “Whenever I go to the comic book store I am always the only woman inside. I feel like this would be a great place to meet other like-minded guys. But the only thing I get from those guys when I go in there is either fear or indifference. Any advice?”

Answered the question “To Twitter... or not to Twitter? That is the question!!! Is this a cool thing to do?”

Answered the question “I want to keep my office romance under wraps... for obvious reasons. Any advice?”

Answered the question “My husband is addicted to World of Warcraft - plays 3-4 times a week. Did I mention he's 40? As a WoW widow, how do I handle this?”

Posted “Latchkey Boyfriend” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “Why don't guys like leggings on girls?”

Answered the question “I'm a girl that loves to sit and play Wii on a Saturday night with my man and some friends. He always gets bored and ends up on the computer. Any suggestions for getting him more involved? He's got good geek potential, he's just not tapping into it.”

Answered the question “I need a backpack to carry my laptop in because the messenger bag I bought is killing my back. Is there a cool site I could check-out? Or a store that has a great "Geek Chic" selection?”

Answered the question “My husband spends hours researching speakers, TVs and "toys" online and then spends more time "tweaking" our home theater set up. I honestly just want to be able to watch TV with sound - I don't care if I can hear the water dripping in a scene.”

Posted “Brobel Prize” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I want to get into online dating (cause the bar scene is lame near me). Can you tell me which dating site is the best one out there?”

Posted Why Google Wave Is Bad News For Dating to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “A new guy recently friended me on Facebook (we have a mutual friend and he saw my posts on his wall). Apparently this guy thought I was cute. He lives far away and he's never initiated FB conversation. It's weird. I feel like I'm being watched.”

Answered the question “My mom just joined Facebook --- which is so lame. Now she's friending all of my friends. How do I make it stop?”

Posted 10 Places You Should Never Twitter From to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “TwitFit” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Answered the question “I've got tickets to a fantastic concert in two weeks...and had intended to go with this guy I've been dating. Things are cooling off with him: do I break up with him now or after the concert?”

Posted 5 Types Of Geeks To Avoid to the Guyspeak Blog

Answered the question “I've been dating a guy for a few weeks but find he'd rather text me than call. It's really annoying. I've told him I prefer he'd call so we can chat and get to know each other over the phone, but he seems more comfortable typing. What the hell?”

Answered the question “My boss is a huge geek and has every new tech item you can think of. So what do I get him for his birthday?”

Posted German Sex Robots Will Enslave Us All to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “"Pain don't hurt" ” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted “Lindsay Bro-han” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted 10 Awesomely Geeky Date Movies to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Man-A-Tee” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted “Ed Hardy” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted Does Social Networking Make Guys Lazy Daters? to the Guyspeak Blog

Posted “Bro Storm” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted “Rogen'd” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted “Textya” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

Posted “bro time” to the Guyspeak Dictionary

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