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• Laje Kahr commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
  Yes, there is some porn out there that is realistic. I will grant you that, but that is NOT the majority of porn out there. The vast majority is totally unrealistic. The porn stars themselves even admit this. Shoot, there are whole news articles dedicated to how the porn producers photoshop every image to "perfection". The videos have whole teams just to polish the production. When was the last time you met a girl that engaged in lesbian sex for the pleasure of a man? When was the last time someone you know had a threesome? Or any of these...
• Laje Kahr commented on My husband likes to look at porn on his computer and even though he tries to hide it, I know he does. I also found out he's been renting the playboy channel on TV and watching it while I am away. Is that normal or is he thinking about straying?
  Counseling and a lawyer. NOW, please. There is something definitely going wrong there. He sounds a bit like he might have already checked out of the relationship, but this doesn't mean it can't be salvaged. I wish I could give more, but from what you've given here it's hard to make a judgement call one way or the other, so please, please seek help. And, men don't really majorly change when they get married. At most, he realizes that he's committed to the relationship and maybe struggles with what that means, but a major change indicates he is or was...