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• Posted Friends, Lovers, and Blockbusters: Guyspeak's Best of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have got inverted nipples... My boyfriend says it doesn't bother him and he loves my body the way it is but I still feel kind of insecure about them.. I tell him this and he just says the same thing about loving the way I am and such...”
• Answered the question “After sex you ask the guy if you enjoyed it and he says he felt nothing and we should not meet again but is continued to flirt with you?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is cheating and thinks I don't know. How can I make him get jelous of what he's going to loose once I tell him I know. Without involving other guys in the mix.”
• Answered the question “I am totally broken down until today, i still don't believe it happened so fast that I still can't accept it cos he has plant so much hope for me... told me that he will not leave me and that he will leave his wife! I am totally a lonely broken angel ;'(”
• Answered the question “I am having a physical relationship with a guy but we are not I guess "exclusive". How do I tell him that I would prefer if he continues to have unprotected sex with me that he doesnt with anyone else.”
• Answered the question “Can a woman be "just really good friends" with a married man, especially if he says that he'd like to take it further?”
• Posted And Mama Used To Say: A Mother's Day Post to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Why do men bother asking women a question when the guy has his mind made up on what the answer should be!?”
• Answered the question “My bf is in trouble & might go to jail. I love him, but if that happens I'm not sure I would want to be tied to someone in jail for potentially many years. After he got out he would have a harder time finding a job & might not be able to support a family ”
• Answered the question “Why would a man nick name a woman honey badger?”
• Answered the question “Best condom brand to use?”
• Answered the question “The other day, my boyfriend of four months said, "I think you're amazing, I just don't like to tell you all the time because I don't want to gas you up." What the hell does that even mean?”
• Answered the question “I have a really huge dick but have trouble landing hot girls. I am thirty and I prefer younger girls but how do I let them know about my huge um problem without straight up saying it. Can I tell them or is it illegal?”
• Posted Dating Is a *CENSORED* And A Half to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “WHat does it mean when you have a dream about you ex and you current boyfriend fighting?”
• Answered the question “Ok, Girls' BFF. Serious question here. I just found out the guy I'm digging is a recovering alcoholic. I'm really into him and don't want to anticipate that he could fall apart again, but I know how hard that is. Any advice?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend wants to watch porn together before being intimate. I'm not very comfortable with doing that. He always calls me a goody good and I am not sure how to approach this without being too "good". Any thoughts?”
• Answered the question “Months ago, my BF forced anal sex during consensual vaginal sex. I didn't say no, blamed myself. He said it wouldn't happen again, I forgave him. Having sex the other day, he kept repeating he wanted to "f*ck me in the ass." I've shut down again. He blame”
• Answered the question “Help! my bf is currently frustrated that we don't have sex often but I just don't find it enjoyable. So i put it off. I was a virgin when I met him and we've only done it five or six times in the past six months is this normal? Will he finish me of I don'”
• Posted 5 Ways To Know If Your Man Ain't Gonna Do Better to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend (2years dating,7months living together) has been out of work this whole time. I told him he needed to find work before moving in, he still hasn't found anything and doesn't seem to be trying very hard. It's making me lose respect for him. I f”
• Answered the question “Do all guys share naked or sexy pictures of their girlfriends? I am wanting to give a gift of boudoir photos to my man this summer, but a friend said that I should be careful because they might get passed around.”
• Answered the question “Hey Girl's BFF! I was in a FWB situation, got mad when I realized he didn't want anything more and said we should move on, but without any bad feelings. Now he keeps contacting me to see how I'm doing. I've been ignoring him and not answering.Is he just d”
• Answered the question “My husband is hot and rich and isn't interested in sex with me. He told me when we were dating that he's always had an easy time getting women in bed and loses interest quickly. Is it naive to believe that he's not masturbating as he claims? Should I assu”
• Answered the question “My (guy) friend just asked me at the bar to "put my boobs away" or he couldn't talk to me anymore. I was wearing a low cut shirt, nothing trashy, but geez. He's my friend shouldn't he be able to ignore it? Or is my cleavage ugly?? What did he mean by this”
• Answered the question “I'm still a virgin and I will be attending a known "Party School" in MA for College this Fall and I'm worried that because of the things I will be witnessing ( partying, drinking, pill popping,smoking, casual sex, etc) I will no longer remain adamant abou”
• Posted “P90 Ex” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted First World Problems: "You're Too Sexy For This Country" to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm interested in this guy (he's a physical trainer),very attractive. but his personality isn't stellar. He comes off very full of himself and when i asked him what kind of women he's dated he said "really extremely hot basic bitches" what vibes do you ge”
• Answered the question “Hello Girls' BFF, what is a good way to bring up/talk about the spark/excitement in our relationship without being accusatory, demanding or needy?”
• Answered the question “Help. My boyfriend was at my house last night. I only have one bathroom. While I was occupying the bathroom he needed to urinate. He took a used coffee mug out of the dishwasher and peed into it then poured it down the kitchen sink. This is freaking ”
• Answered the question “I have been seeing my boyfriend for 9 months now. He recently said we need to sit down and talk about him moving in. I want to but im concerned with 2 things. First the week of easter he tried to break it off twice and second his child still hasn't taken ”
• Answered the question “A guy that I've been seeing for a little while got upset when he found out that I've been sleeping with other guys. No "talk", but I said that he should meet other girls. He's said he doesn't want to. I care about him, but don't want to be exclusive. When”
• Answered the question “Hey! So I've got a boyfriend and we've been together for 7 months, almost 8. We love each other but there are some issues I need to discuss with him next week. But how can I ease my mind? I feel angry and I start anticipating to the events and it's drivin”
• Commented on 4 Ways To End Up With An Accidental Admirer
• Posted 4 Ways To End Up With An Accidental Admirer to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “The Guy I'm seeing has a 6 yr old daughter. We have only been seeing eachother for a few weeks now. He has his daughter with him this week and that's his reason for not seeing me..does he just not want to see me?.. does he not want me around his kid? I'm ”
• Answered the question “It seems like you guys only answer questions from crazies and barely legal girls. Why is that?”
• Answered the question “My bf doesn't seem to ever want sex. It's been a month. we do it once every 2 weeks if I'm lucky. I haven't brought it up cuz it's awkward to talk about. He's very shy so I doubt he's cheating. He's very flirty & playful constantly touches me but hardly ”
• Answered the question “Guy I am dating works 100 hrs a week and doesn't communicate. Have know each other 7yrs before dating. I am fed up. I am thinking about telling him let's put this on ice, and you can reach back out when you have enough time to at min communicate. Thoughts”
• Answered the question “Currently giving my boyfriend the silent treatment because he did not invite me to come with him to his friend party. He did not call while there and thinks that i am overreacting. Is this normal guy behavior?”
• Answered the question “Ive been seeing this Guy for a few weeks now and I know he likes me, but I have no idea where we stand relationship wise. When we're together it feels like a relationship to me but I'm not sure he feels the same. He is several years older and I feel like ”
• Answered the question “When a guy loves you does he still treat you like a dirty porn star? What's with him? He wants to cum in my mouth and on my face now? I'm good with blow jobs...but what? On my stomach okay....anal..okay, but on my face? And I don't want ALL his cum in my ”
• Answered the question “Hey, BFF. My boyfriend is going to be away all summer, home for just a scattered week here or there. He's a submariner, so contact will even be scattered emails. How can we keep our relationship going strong?”
• Posted 3 Ways To Love When Love Isn't Enough to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Thrones, Death, and the Dating Scene: It's Guyspeak's Best of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I been with my man for five long years. at first it was perfect,it was a connection. As time went on he started doing things that he said he wasn't going to do. He started talking to other girls, having sex with other girls, going out with them. he say he”
• Answered the question “I need a guys perspective on this - Should I be disturbed that my boyfriend PAYS GOOD MONEY to subscribe to sites of girls in bikinis and naked women? I mean, there is free porn everywhere, why would one need to pay for it?!”
• Answered the question “My ex still has hundreds of photos from his vacations with his ex. No pic of her but most photos are when they traveled together and took pics of scenery. they took a lot of vacations and im not comfortable with his past photos he took with her. Am I over”
• Answered the question “what do you do when working retail is destroying your soul?”
• Answered the question “I am currently living with my boyfriend and a housemate who is my boyfriend's friend. The housemate cooks and follows us out all the time even to trips. I know my boyfriend is fine with it but I am always feeling left out and jealous even though the house”
• Posted Will All of The Attention On Rape Culture Make A Difference? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I found a message from my boyfriend to a pornstar, simply asking if her profile was legit, I confronted him about it and he made up an excuse. Then I asked him about another girl he messaged, so I basically caught him in a lie as well and he couldn't get ”
• Answered the question “I was in a confusing situation a few months ago. I liked this guy, we hooked up and then shortly after he let me know he wanted to be with someone else. I've been trying really hard to move on and somedays I think I have, but then I start missing him and ”
• Answered the question “Why would a close guy friend that I have known for about 20 years since college not tell me he brought back a Japanese woman from Japan and married her (about 2 years ago)? He supposedly bought a house, filed for a marriage appllication & got a license w”
• Answered the question “Hey oh wise and glorious girl's BFF! Guy told me he likes me and spending time with me doing couple-y things. He also can't keep his hands off me in the bedroom. But he just considers us FWB?? Seems to me liking someone as a friend + liking sex with them=”
• Answered the question “We've been seeing each other for 7 months and he won't sleep with me. What gives? He won't tell me why eaither.”
• Answered the question “What are your thoughts on the concept of soulmates?I thought I found him, but we couldn't be together. The timing was wrong and at the time he was representing the company's management. But there was so much chemistry and feeling of "rightness". Accor”
• Posted The Moment When Love and Friendships Collide... to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hi, I like a guy at work and I need a man's opinion on him. Since christmas we text each other everyday at night (50/50 texting first) We went out for a drink a few weeks ago and kissed. Couple of weeks later he stayed over with me in my bed but he said h”
• Answered the question “My bf is a famous singer. His songs are about love, sex, alcohol, or women. He is a sex symbol! He has done detailed interviews about his active sex life w/ groupies. He keeps his dating & family life private, & wants to go public. I'm insecure about what”
• Answered the question “I send most of my questions to DEAR ABBY, but this I need a MAN'S perspective on: If husband cheated when dating, will he cheat when married? He only has sex w/me when I initiate & doesn't look at me during - just ejaculates inside me quickly then over. R”
• Answered the question “BFF, if you had a sister how would you want her to approach finding a husband?”
• Answered the question “Im being harassed/stalked by someone I dont know. I told my boyfriend and he has nothing to say but "just report it youll be Fine", Why doesnt he care about something as serious and scary as this?”
• Answered the question “What does it say about a man who prefers cunnilingus over coitus?”
• Answered the question “I don't think my guy is freaky enough for me. I don't know what to say to him. I try different things but he always reverts back to same old. boring. whats up with that? :/”
• Posted I'm Pretty Sure Justin Timberlake Can Save Love to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I just got a plan for my son & I to make it in the world alone, and I realized today that I could seriously fall for the man I am seeing. If I do, my lifeplan will have to change dramatically due to his job. I'm really scared to proceed. Do I run or stay?”
• Answered the question “Am I wrong for not wanting my Boyfriend to get on social network? I honestly think That's a gateway for ppl to flirt,cheat etc...”
• Answered the question “What are the signs of a guy who can't commit?”
• Posted What In The Entire Hell? National Proposal Day? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is going out on Saturday with his mates and his mates that have girlfriends or bits on the side they have been invited to I have been with him for 10 months and I'm not invited and I don't know why when we first got together i was invited eve”
• Answered the question “Does it annoy guys when a girl cannot accept compliments? I do this a lot, however I'm not looking for "attention" or I am "fishing for compliments." I just..cannot accept them.”
• Answered the question “I have a friend..and to be honest she smells horrible! Bad breath, body odor, too much perfume... but besides that she's a great person...but not one of her friends say anything..should I? I don't usually confront people and i don't want her to be offende”
• Answered the question “I am recently divorced which is something that i've struggled with. he blocked me on fb but recently he told me he was seeing someone and then unblocked me (it doesn't say in a relationship). i want to ask who she is & what went wrong in our relationshi”
• Answered the question “Why is it okay/expected for men to be superficial, but completely unacceptable for women? I hope I don't sound like a jerk, but I'm pretty superficial when dating. A guy has to be personable and physically attractive to me if I'm going to give him a chanc”
• Posted How To Tell If Your Best Friend Is Interested In You to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Why You Can't Break Up With A Drunk Person
• Answered the question “HEY - What are the rules of online dating for women? Is it okay for me to make the first move with guys, or will they find that to be "desperate"? I'm just curious to know what guys are expecting from women when they join an online dating site.”
• Answered the question “BFF, I've put myself in a difficult situation. I was working on a film set recently and the lead actor kissed me. We saw each other again two days ago (and made out) but he has a gf whom he doesn't want to leave, and he asked me "what i wanted from him". ”
• Answered the question “Recently found a link on fb to the tumblr of a guy im interested in and looked at it out of curiosity. 99% of it was pics of naked chicks and a bunch of dick shots. Normally not super concerning, but linked to his fb on a public website? Is this a red fla”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy tells you that you are a "gorgeous mess"?”
• Answered the question “my boyfriend's ex cheated on him. At the time he found out she was pregnant. She claims it is his child. He is pretty sensitive and is excited about being a dad. The problem is, everyone has advised him to take a paternity test which he still has not done”
• Commented on The Male Point of View on The Paradox of Woman
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• Commented on The Male Point of View on The Paradox of Woman
• Commented on The Male Point of View on The Paradox of Woman
• Commented on The Male Point of View on The Paradox of Woman
• Commented on The Male Point of View on The Paradox of Woman
• Posted The Male Point of View on The Paradox of Woman to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Baldies, Response Times, and The Most Common Question of All Time: Guyspeak's Best of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “would a male friend have sex with his female friend who he's been friends with for ages/knows she has feelings if he didn't care at all? Would he really "use" a friend? Been on/off like this for a while now”
• Answered the question “if a female had sex with 2 different men at different times and got pregnant. If the baby looks like the one guy. but the other may think its a possibility it could be his. He had pregnant symptoms when he thought I was pregnant and thought to. but it wa”
• Answered the question “Really need advice please! I found out the guy I've been dating for almost 2 years is on an online dating site (same 1 we met on). I thought we were exclusive but not committed. We talked about it a while ago. Every time I'm with him I chicken out and can”
• Answered the question “My ex bf who I still have feelings for won't let me end our friendship (we were bffs before we dated). He got really upset when I tried to end the friendship. Being his friend is the best thing ever, but at the same time it causes me soo so much pain an”
• Answered the question “My bf is a selfish lover. It's driving me nuts. I'm not one to mince words and dont want to come off aggy.I enjoy sex with him but its always the positions HE likes, the mood music HE likes ( Nas does not make sexy songs except oochie Wally lol ). I love ”
• Posted The Day After Valentine's Day Sigh Of Relief to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Are children better off in loveless marriages or broken homes? I know economically better in marriage but emotional toll?Husband doesn't love me,willing to keep me for cook/clean/childcare if I "leave him alone to do as he wants." He's rich & protected by”
• Answered the question “I am pregnant by my ex, am 99% sure If i had the baby we would not be romantically involved. I am trying to collect any information before making a decision. If I was raising a child as a single woman what reactions could I expect when trying to date and ”
• Answered the question “My cock smells of my girlfriends p*ssy and I think my wife isbp going to find out as she loves giving me blow jobs...”
• Answered the question “why would a husband look at craigslist personal adds like men seeking men and casual encounters ect...”
• Answered the question “About a yr ago my ex left SF & moved to LA. It was very hard at first, but now I am fine. I haven't seen him since. Our sex life was FANTASTIC and I miss it. I called him drunk bc I was horny & he suggested I go visit him one weekend. It's only an hour fl”
• Answered the question “Is it bad that whenever I'm worried or upset sex/masturbation makes me feel good and forget about my issues?”
• Posted Sex, Lies, Advice and Sometimes All Three: Guyspeak's Best Of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Please, please, please, help me. Do 46-year-old men really NEVER ejaculate? My husband doesn't have sex with me & says he doesn't masturbate or ejaculate ever. Is he telling the truth? He is a rich, former ladies' man who still gets called "hot" & it's ha”
• Answered the question “I am in a secret relationship. He tells me his daily schedules, emails at least 40 x a day but I don't see any picture of me on his phone. Yet certain women he said just friends who he knows longer are there.He said friends are friends but his heart only ”
• Answered the question “I think I'm becoming clingy, something I've never wanted to be. I've had a rough year, felt isolated, and have become afraid of being alone. I get genuinely upset when he chooses to spend time with his friends over me, especially because it's rare that we”
• Answered the question “Is it weird that sometimes I want a bf and other times I don't? I really like my guy, but sometimes I want to be alone or even single again. Does this mean I am with the wrong person?”
• Answered the question “My extroverted fuck buddy texts me randomly to say hi and chat. I enjoy it a lot, but should I just assume he's bored and has no ulterior motives? He's friendly to everyone, so I feel I shouldn't see him initiating contact as anything special.”
• Posted Hey Fellas, You Should Pre-Game Valentine's Day to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is it wrong to date all of your exs best friends?”
• Answered the question “my fiance's FB relationship changed from engaged to being blank. when i asked him abt it, he says there was a glitch and it was removed but mine wasn't changed. when i confronted him abt it, he changed it back to saying engaged. is it possible he is cheat”
• Answered the question “I take my birth control religiously and have been tested for all STDs and Im clean. I have been dating my bf for over a year and he refuses to have sex with me without a condom. Why?”
• Answered the question “I've just started dating again, after about a year. And the guy is nice, and cute... but we have next to nothing in common. I'm not sure if I'm waiting for chemistry to happen, or if I'm just lonely. Is there a right and wrong here?”
• Answered the question “Girls' BFF I need some translation please! Been dating a guy for over a yr and a half. 2 wks ago I told him to txt me to hang out on weekend. Never heard from him. So when I asked how it was he said he "played cards and slept." This past weekend I had to”
• Posted It Turns Out Safe Sex Is Just as Enjoyable as Unsafe Sex! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “why doesnt my husband want to alk to me after love making”
• Answered the question “What do guys think of a woman who has been single for almost 5 years, 27 year old, no kids, but still lives at home I'm just trying to get myself in order like find a career and be more independent but even with a BA in education the economy isn't the gre”
• Answered the question “How much effect does a BFF have on a relationship? My guy's BFF hates me, even though she's never met me. She constantly talks badly of me to him. He says he takes it with a grain of salt, but I can't help but be concerned he'll start believing her one da”
• Answered the question “Panama, I recently reconnected w/ a childhood friend. I had lost touch w/ him for years. He's starting to call me a lot to hang out, but I don't know if he's into me: he's not being super flirtacious in person, just super nice and smiley.How can I know ”
• Answered the question “My ex was never abusive to me, but he was controlling and punched a hole in the wall I talked to him recently and he told me he hit and choked his ex girlfriends I'm just curious why he didn't act that way towards me any insight???”
• Posted Gone Catfishing: The Saga of Manti Te'o to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “gbff pls help decode b4 I (potentially) make the biggest mistake of my life! been w/ bf 3 yrs & says he isn't ready to commit b/c he hasn't had the moment of 'epiphany' (um, wut?). he wants me to move to another state w/ him b/c he wants to 'figure it out”
• Answered the question “How can I get over an on/off sex buddy who I know doesn't value me as a person&keep letting back in my life? The sex is great but the way he treats me makes me feel horrid. I am the one that has to travel to him on his schedule to have sex. I do have othe”
• Answered the question “Ex says he loves me and that he knows our problems could be fixed, but that he doesn't want to try because some "intangible force" would make the relationship easy if I were The One. He now wants to be good friends. I care about him, but I'm also angry at”
• Answered the question “So me and my boyfriend went to a friends house and there was plenty of drinking. I then ended up getting to second base with our friends wife. I'm embarrassed and no one minded it happened except now my boyfriend says that we can never see them again beca”
• Answered the question “Hey BFF. My sister in-laws husband continuously gets erection around me when we are alone. I pretend to not notice it. And I also told my husband, my husband wants to beat him up. But that would cause issues with him and his sister. This guy is always hig”
• Answered the question “Is it inappropriate to ask why a person is single?”
• Answered the question “Bf. Aspiring rapper. He's awful. Cn't rspnd honestly when he plays wrk for me, so I fnd smthng vgly pos to say abt the track. Dn't like blwing smoke, bt he's sensitive. Dn't wnt to hurt him. He's starting to put hmslf out thr. I wnt to spprt him in his dr”
• Posted Just Because You're Talking Doesn't Mean You're Communicating. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hey BFF... A good guy friend from college visited me for a week and we ended up sleeping together. He told me he didn't want a relationship (and i don't want a long-distance one) but this clearly changed the way I see him and I think of him often now. Do ”
• Answered the question “Admit it, you're an archetype. Platonic friendship between opposite sexes is impossible unless one or both are attracted to the same sex. I've just become single after five years and already my best guy friends, dudes I've hung with since I was 17 (I'm 27”
• Answered the question “BFF, help me out! My guy is so vanilla, and I need a little bit of a twist, excitement, variety! He's not into getting bitten/scratched/licked/nibbled and isn't into returning any of those favors either. Is there anyway to persuade him?? D:”
• Posted Does The Past Have To Be The Future? No, But It's Likely To Be. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Why is he always telling me about his 6 figure salary?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy says he "sees you differently now" after you cheated? A "you've really disappointed me and will have to work hard and wait for a long time to earn my trust and love"B "You've shown me you're a despicable untrustworthy”
• Answered the question “Maybe I should ask a Women this but I'm not sexually intimite with a women so here it goes........ I am 20 years old and I have a lil problem with dating guys or atleast having sex with them because my skin is darker in my private areas and im so embarr”
• Answered the question “I'm soooo jealous when my boyfriend hangs out with his friends. I get upset when he doesn't text me every hour at least. I know it's insane but I can't stop thinking he stopped liking me. We've been together over a year and I know it's crazy. How can I ca”
• Answered the question “We talk all the time, go on dates, have film nights, have amazing sex... Yet I don't know what he feels about me because when we initially met he said he didn't feel a relationship with me. That was four months ago. I am confused...help!”
• Posted Cliche Resolutions That Really Are Great Ideals To Live By to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is ADAMENT about condoms (smart but sometimes a pain) We are monogamous, and I'm on the pill. I thought he might be freaked about germs, but recently learned be didnt w his ex. We've been at it for a year now so I'm pretty sure he knows I do”
• Answered the question “How do you get a girl to like you if your are in the friend zone?”
• Answered the question “Hi GBFF! I have this childhood friend of over 10 years now. He never fails to wish me happy bday every year or even gives me bday present, vice versa. But this year, he did not even message to wish me "happy bday" and acts like nothing happened the day af”
• Answered the question “The 30 year old guy I've been dating for 3 months has some serious bedroom issues. He either can't get it up or keep it up. He cums when I give him blow jobs but when I mention sex he goes soft and it doesn't happen. We've never talked about it. Is there”
• Answered the question “What is an appropriate response when asked about your looks. People always ask me if I think I'm beautiful & when I honestly answer that I do, they act like Im conceited. But if I ever say that I think I'm average I get lectured on my low self-esteem & my”
• Posted Going Into The New Year With Renewed Newness to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I am totally straight guy but i like to get my ass played with, is that normal ???”
• Answered the question “Is it normal for me to have jealous feelings about my boyfriend and his baby's mamas relationship? He wants to remain friendly and co parent with her, but it's seeming to take me a long time to be comfortable with the situation . I guess I feel that her h”
• Answered the question “Say you're a gay dude who found a "straight" friend/acquaintance's profile on Manhunt - one who's married to a woman you don't know well at all. What's the most delicate way to handle the situation? Is an anonymous email to the lucky lady throwing too muc”
• Answered the question “broke my bf's penis while I was on top. I feel super bad cause I was there with him when he got it fixed and situated. He's bruising a bit as expected but i feel bad, i don't know what to do. I obviously didn't mean it but yikes, that hurts i'm sure. I me”
• Answered the question “I have a crush on one of my bestfriends... but he has a girlfriend. He always talks to me about how she's turning "ghetto/ratchet" and he doesn't like it or stuff that she does that annoys him. And then he says I'm awesome, I'm his bestfriend and he can t”
• Posted “Askhole” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted Can't Think Of What To Get Me For Christmas? Gift Card Me. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I happened to mention in a conversation to my male colleague that I was going shopping at the weekend. He asked "For anything nice?" I was honest and said "Lingerie!" Then he replied "I will want to see it then!" What does that mean? Thanks BFF. x”
• Answered the question “I kept taking my ex back and now he broke up with me again. Am I going to be "that girl" forever?”
• Answered the question “I'm not pretty. How do I get a guy? I mean.. Ugly people can find love too, right?”
• Answered the question “I want to give to my bf of 3 months a ferrari test drive on a race track. He is into cars. What do you think of such present?”
• Answered the question “So let's say two guy's have a strong bond.. then one of the guys break the bond by dating his friends long time girlfriend behind his back. The friend is upset because he finally finds out..now the friend feels like the boundaries were crossed and he want”
• Answered the question “I am trying something new and dating a really good nice guy for a change. Problem is, he is a mommas boy. She comes over every weekend(annoying) and he can't say no to her. UGH! It is a turn off. I have talked to him, but it's not like we are married. Am ”
• Posted How To Have a Soulful Christmas Party to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I've been FWB with this guy for around 2 1/2 months now. Recently, I told him that I felt like we needed to end the "benefits" aspect. Honestly, I don't even know why I said that because that was the dumbest thing I've ever done. I really want to take it ”
• Answered the question “Hi GBFF, this guy and I both like each other, but currently the timing is not great. At the moment he's really stressed and overwhelmed- is it too much for me to send him a brief text once in a while to show support? I know girls should never text first, ”
• Answered the question “Online University Friend: The problem: I think he's gay. We haven't met in person yet, so I have no way to tell from his voice or walk if he is at all effeminate. He seems flirty but he could just be really friendly. He invited me to a local music event w”
• Answered the question “First sexytime with a new guy and he went soft, twice. He said he was exhausted, and I want to believe him, but then he has something come up (his sister's dog went into labor) and he dips. Should I try to take him at his word or should I prepare myself t”
• Answered the question “How do I get my man to stop stealing the covers at night?”
• Answered the question “Love ya, BFF! Here's the thing: I'm having a real problem with snooping on my boyfriends IG, I seriously have this psychotic need to check up on what he "likes" and so on. Any tips on how to stop? I know he probably gets really annoyed when I ask him abou”
• Posted Carols, Cocktails, and Confidence: Guyspeak's Best of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hey so my boyfriend and i were together for a yr and he broke up with me out of the blue * a week after our one yr anni.* b/c he said he didn't love me so he cant see himself marrying me and i dont fulfill him. But i saw NO problems before this conversat”
• Answered the question “Hey GBFF, question. My dude best friend just got a girlfriend and this is the first girlfriend that he has had since we've been friends. I am not sure how my involvement in his life will be effected. I don't want to over step any boundaries and end up mes”
• Answered the question “Hi Gbff! Things are wonderful with my boyfriend; actually I have for the first time ever reached the "comfortable" stage where I don't feel obsessed and insecure- any advice for this stage to keep things great? This is my first really serious boyfriend!”
• Answered the question “Bff and i loves each other within borders of bff-ship and romantic love (we already kissed..as in "kissed").Lately, he started getting close to a "new girl" in our office. I dont feel as jealous as this compared to when he spends time with his girlfrien”
• Answered the question “When a man asks you how youd like your engagement ring to be picked out is that always a serious conversation? Could it just be innocent small talk?”
• Posted “Cuffin Season” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted 'Tis The Season Of Love to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is it ok that my bf is totally grossed out by my period? During sex, I didn't realize that I had started my period, and he saw a little blood. He refused to continue and was uncomfortable about it for the rest of the day. I feel like that was immature, es”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend's ex said they had sex when she was here a few weeks ago. He denies it. He said she told me that because she doesn't like me. How can I tell who is lying? She is coming for Christmas.”
• Answered the question “Hey GBFF, I can't tell if I'm intimidating to guys or if they think I'm stuck up or what. I'm fairly shy when I like a guy, so I usually clam up. Sometimes this can come off as me being snooty. I'm also good at a lot of different things, and I even moved ”
• Answered the question “My ex-boyfriend was emotionally abusive. Thing is, I was a bitch. It's five years later. Is it too late to apologize?”
• Answered the question “BFF, I feel like KFC that I'm just finger lickin' good. So um how do I tell my boyfriend I would like to lick his fingers after he makes me cum manually? Also is this request a little weird? :)”
• Answered the question “BFF, help. I told my bf of 2 months I wanted a break. He accepted and said 'If I should want to continue, look him up.' Anyways, right now is time for me. Im trying to get healthy/get my life back on track but would like to see him down the line again. Ho”
• Posted Hey General! Put That Flag Away! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend had pictures of other girls in their bras and panties, as well as their naked privates. I had accidentally deleted them all when he told me to delete an old picture of him and he flipped out on me. He says he didn't look and them but he doesn”
• Answered the question “I just friendzoned this guy. (he asked me if I liked him, I said no, we're just friends) and now I see him flirting with other girls, and I kinda like him. How do I let him know he's out of the friend zone?”
• Answered the question “Dearest BFF, I need a bit of help. I've been hanging out with this guy. He's fun, gets my humor and likes me a lot, but he really isn't my type physically. He's also kind of needy, which is a HELL NO for me, but I'd like to keep him as a friend. How do I”
• Answered the question “Oh Great GBFF I really hope you can answer this for me! I bow in your presence. Why does my ex (very short and superficial relationship) act so hot/cold to me? Its not like we just broke up (that happened a year ago). I deleted him on Facebook recently an”
• Posted When Is The Right Time To Ask "The Question" to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hi Pananama, my BF loves me, but I feel like he doesn't appreciate me. When he thinks he might lose me he clings tightly and gets all romantic, but when he gets comfortable.. well he's comfortable. How can I express that i'm feeling neglected without caus”
• Answered the question “I am sleeping with an older man that has a girlfriend. He asked me the other day that when he leaves her, if i would be with him? I definetly have feelings for him and he spends alot of time with me and does nice things for me. Do you think he really does”
• Answered the question “Would it be weird to ask my boyfriend (of 7 months) what his ex girlfriend's (of 2 years - broke up about four months before we met) name is so I can FB stalk her and see who she is? Totally just out of curiosity but want to know whether that's a weird th”
• Answered the question “My best girlfriend complains that she wants a boyfriend badly but doesn't take care of herself... personal hygiene is a BIG issue and she has gained alot of weight. How do I approach bathing, dressing better, taking care of herself in a nice way? ANY ADV”
• Answered the question “GBFF,is there such a thing as timing?There's so many couples that meet and like each other, but don't get together for a few months. A friend told me when he met his wife he knew she was the one, but he wasn't ready for anything yet and only pursued her l”
• Answered the question “He tells me that he loves me but he is afraid to mess it up because he is divorced. That he is not ready for a real relationship...any thoughts?”
• Answered the question “Dearest BFF, I've been a bartender for the past 5 years. I am in my early mid-twenties and have realized that I just don't want to bartend anymore. I'm planning on going back to school for web design, but I'm afraid that I'll get complacent again and sta”
• Posted Celebrities Do The Darndest Things! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Alright. Girls' BFF, I neeeed help! I met a guy, we've been talkin for months.We live 200 miles apart, and, cuz of mismatched colleges, it'll be 5 years before we can be anything. I think he's "the one," & he feels the same, but doesn't want a relationshi”
• Answered the question “So I have a BFF, whose been my friend for ages. But he's a guy... I just got a bf, and I've been spending a lot if time with both him! Yet, I feel like I'm "cheating" on my BFF with my bf...”
• Answered the question “Im currently 26 weeks pregnant with my boyfriend of 2 years, we recently had a break from each other because of arguments and we got back together about a week ago but when we got back together i found out he has slept with 2 other women and 1 of them is ”
• Answered the question “BFF, I've made a huge mistake: kissed a guy friend, realised I'd developed feelings for him, panicked at the intensity of those feelings & cut him out of my life. Moving 9 timezones away in 2 months. Want to make amends, but don't want to feed feelings or”
• Answered the question “I met a man through an online dating site. He's based in London while I'm in Malaysia. We've been texting & emailing for nearly 5 months. He's decided to fly to Malaysia to meet me in 1 month time. What does that mean, when a man flies across half the glo”
• Answered the question “I've told him before that I don't want anything more than friendship, but he keeps trying. It's makes me feel uncomfortable, how do I get him to "move on"?”
• Answered the question “I Want to give my ex a small gift to see if he will keep it years from now. What is a good small gife to gave him that he will keep to remeber me?”
• Posted Why You Can't Break Up With A Drunk Person to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is it horrible that I don't automatically mention "boyfriend" when I talk to people about my bf but instead I say "friend"? I am not much of a public/announcing everything person/more private, but would it seem wrong if I don't mention the bf?”
• Answered the question “GBFF, I'm 26 and have been single for the last 2.5 years and not met many men that really spark my interest.I have a good career, decent looking, have interests outside of work, good social life... I'm starting to feel like I'm the kind of woman men see a”
• Answered the question “I'm a guy whose wife posts photos of leading men on facebook and posts that she can't decide which one to "lick 1st". Am i in trouble ?”
• Posted Halloweenies, Hurt Feelings, and Honey Boo Boo: Guyspeak's Best of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted How Men and Women Deal With Tragic Breakups to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend said that having sex with me doesn't change his feelings for me. How is that possible???”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is constantly calling me dumb in front of our friends. At first it was just a blonde joke, but now my reputation is being changed that I'm just a dumb blonde. What should i do?”
• Answered the question “Guy I'm recently seeing becomes becomes AMAZINGLY affectionate when we're in bed. Tells me I drive him crazy and clearly he loves my body.. When we're not in bed he is completely stoic, friendly but unaffectionate. Is this normal? It leaves me feeling lik”
• Answered the question “I like being on top and jus letting loose, I love staring at my husband in the eyes and seeing his facial expressoins while he is deep inside of me. I feel as if i get lost in desire. Does this make our love life stronger or jus our sex life??”
• Posted As Presidential Debates Go, That Debate Went: A Guyspeakers Observation on The VP Debate to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What does a guy mean when he says 'Would you let me in(;?' ? It's sexual, but i dont really know what it means... I assume it means eating me out but I don't know. Okay thanks xoxo”
• Answered the question “I'm in love with my best friend who's stuck in a loveless marriage. He's a good man who never so much as flirts, but after a few years our feelings have risen to the surface. He wants to be with me and wants a divorce but doesn't want to lose his kids so ”
• Answered the question “Should I be emmbarresed to have sex doggy-style?”
• Answered the question “What is the different between non-exclusive dating and having an open relationship?”
• Answered the question “Panama, help me understand the mixed signals. All actions indicate he is trying to get closer. Says he really likes me, consistantly and reliably makes time for me, texts me, cares for me. Undeniably attracted but withholds sex because he needs to "go sl”
• Posted Driving Miss Crazy to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Ive just learn't my boyfriend is sexual seeing other men, im devestated, but can't approach him with what i've learnt because i read his emails. If i confront him he'll know i've been looking into his email. I also found an ad on a gay website he put on. ”
• Answered the question “Is it inappropriate to get your ex a birthday present? Even if you are still friends? I recently moved cities but will be back in town the weekend of his birthday. My current boyfriend thinks it incredibly inappropriate, but I found him something cheap I ”
• Answered the question “PJ please help! says he wants a future w/ me & talked about proposing this summer but then said he wasn't ready yet. now he's moving w/ work to another country & wants me to go w/ him. he expects me to make such a huge commitment to him w/out giving one b”
• Answered the question “Hey GBFF, a bit of a philosophical question for you. Do you believe you can meet the right person at the wrong time? I've met someone amazing, but this isn't a great time for either one of us. How do I keep things open with him so that when things are bet”
• Answered the question “My wife now is 13 years younger than me, with a history of having casual sex with younger men after her divorce. She claims it is all out of her system now. Should I worry about fidelity.”
• Posted It Only Takes A Minute Girl, To Fall in Love? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hey Panama,My bf just broke up with me by text message and we were together for 2 1/2 years. Is there any advice you can give on why this happened?”
• Answered the question “Are men turned off by a woman who seems high maintenance (i.e. always has to look perfect, never seen in just a t-shirt and jeans), or do they like that she's feminine?”
• Answered the question “GBFF, lets say you have a really drunken night and make a fool of yourself by repeatedly asking your recent (undrunk) fuck buddy to have sex with you and he turns you down. How easy is it to bounce back from this?”
• Answered the question “Hey BFF, I'm going to ask a question on behalf of all girlfriends in the world. I don't know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday.I know it depends on a lot of things, but generally, what is a good gift idea for a guy?Men are so difficult to shop”
• Answered the question “Thank you for giving me advice about my abadonment issues from my dad affecting my relationship with my fiance. I went to therapy and since then I've been better at handling arguments and not obsessing about him possibly leaving. I trust him and I'm looki”
• Posted Dance Your Way Into Her Heart, Gangnam Style to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Just broke up with the love of my life because he won't divorce his wife, since legally, she gets 1/2 his business if they divorce. He's been separated for 2 yrs & they lived apart for months at a time for 6 yrs before that. I say if he loved me, he'd get”
• Answered the question “Am I a bad girlfriend for sometimes feeling twinge of jealousy over my boyfriend's female friends? I just take a breath and tell myself it's irrational, but would a better girlfriend not feel this at all? I don't think he'll cheat, but sometimes I feel a”
• Answered the question “Dear Panama, he asked to make our relationship official while we were naked in the bedroom. I was worried he only asked in the heat of the moment, so I asked him to ask me again some other time. Did I overreact??”
• Answered the question “Awhile back I wrote you about moving 3000 miles away and still google stalking my ex. You said stop, I stopped. I've met the most magnificent man. We knew each other (kinda) as kids and now we're adults. We have a lot in common. I haven't felt this way in”
• Answered the question “It took my boyfriend a while to get used to my high sex drive, but now he interprets EVERYTHING as a proposition that we do the deed. Includin things like "hey, didn't get much sleep last night, if I'm going to make it through this dinner party I'm going ”
• Posted How To Reach The End and Continue Down The Road to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I read my boyfriend's messages in which his friends were basically telling him that he was stupid for dating a black girl. It sucks because I thought I got along with them really well. I know his friends mean alot to him...what should i do? I'm uncomfort”
• Answered the question “I don't want sex until I'm married. Why do guys always ask "you still do other stuff, right"? Upon telling them no, this makes them really uneasy, and they never talk to me again. Will I ever find a guy who doesn't want to do ANYTHING until I'm married, y”
• Answered the question “what do men get from sucking ladies breast”
• Answered the question “This guy Im dating has never made breakfast for me in the mornings. I think he just expects me to leave when I wake up. Is that a bad sign or is morning breakfast just a cliché?”
• Answered the question “I have been in a long distance on again off on relationship for over 4 years. He doesn't want to be friends on facebook. What does that mean? Is he hiding his "other" life from me?”
• Answered the question “Im 19 and i just recently had my first bf. He unfortunately brokeup with me thru a text saying:eyy im getting back with my girl of 2 and a half years so stop calling me. The next day i found out from his buddy that he had been cheating on me the whole tim”
• Posted Politics, Old Chicks, and Horse Vagina: Guyspeak's Best Of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My guy has been really stressed out at work (a job he loves and is great at.) Last night was the first time he's ever gone soft during sex- is it me, is there anything I can do? I listen to all of his work issues and we're both very supportive of each oth”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend said I dont turn him on anymore. Should I move on?”
• Answered the question “Is having sex on the first date a bad thing? Could it ever lead to a long LTR or is it a relationship killer?”
• Answered the question “I have been in a loveless relationship with a man for 8 years(well 2 years was good) now that we have 3 kids im starting not to like hem what should I do ??????”
• Answered the question “HELP! i dated a guy for 2 yrs on/off and really liked him but things ended abt 7 mo. ago. he drunk txtd me the other nite that i'm one of the few people who understands him. then he emailed me sober that he missed seeing me but hasn't asked me to see me. ”
• Posted Labor Day Do's and Don'ts from Your Friendly Neighborhood Girls BFF to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “He tells me he doesn't feel anything for me, but He comes over EVERY day, we eat together every night, we talk about getting a second dog and living together, I give him massages+ at least once a week and we went on a 'friend' trip to the islands last mon”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when he says he wants to be exclusive and not see other people?”
• Answered the question “Dearest BFF, I was dating this cool guy who was really into me, but I did a bunch of really a-hole-ish things due to my fear of emotional intimacy. I've realized the error of my ways and asked him out to dinner. He said yes. What's a good way to ask to st”
• Answered the question “What does it mean if a guy gets back with his abusive ex after only less than a week of us breaking up? And they got engaged within that week?”
• Answered the question “What's the BEST way to convince a guy to give a female oral sex ?”
• Posted Hey Ladies, Here's Another List of Things You're Doing Wrong! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm an African American girl and i have always been more attracted to white guys than black. I have never dated someone, but if they happen to be white is it a big deal? Do white guys go for black girls?”
• Answered the question “Him: married guy, 32, 2 young kids. Me: 20 and single. One on one and have intense and deep talks. We get along extremely well and have a great connection. He rarely mentions his family and is very gentlemanly and compliments me a lot. Wants to hang out m”
• Answered the question “My best friend is sleeping with a guy. She is hoping for a relationship. I told her to take sex out of the equation and see if he sticks around. She refuses to downgrade to no sex. What can I do to help her?”
• Answered the question “GBFF, help! I suck at reading men. Guy I met SEEMED interested, called me right after he got my number, found ways to talk to me constantly. He seems normal/interested when we text (or run into each other on campus) but he tends to not acknowledge me whe”
• Answered the question “You always give the best advice, please help! New relationship (6 weeks), he is out of town for 10 days and has been going on his dating profile a lot while away. Was not spying, friend informed me. I'm freaking out since everything seems to be going grea”
• Posted Hey America, Ryan Lochte Is An Idiot to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “when a man says he is "emotionally numb" is he just not interested?”
• Posted “Olympic Goggles” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Hi GBFF, PLEASE HELP. Guy from class comes and talks to me, a few days later we exchange numbers and literally 5 mins later he calls me just to talk. I figure he's interested. We text back and forth for a few days and it was nice but now he's being terse.”
• Answered the question “Girls' BFF, please help your girl. Please please please. How do I let him go? I invested so much of my time, thoughts, feelings, ideas, fantasies into this one guy and its not working out. I have a feeling he will end it. I play cool and do nothing....but”
• Answered the question “Question. I'm pissed off. Who books a date with you ("hey let's get dinner on tuesday") and then doesn't call you the day of? and then it doesn't happen?Please enlighten me.”
• Answered the question “HI GBFF! A few months ago i reunited with a close guy friend of mine. I've introduced him to my best gfs and now the four of us hang out all the time, but he seems to pay much more attention to my gfs than me. I love that they get along but i thought he w”
• Posted “"I've lost the spark...."” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted USA! USA! Women's Soccer Totally Rocks! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “O wisest PJ,Couple of months ago, a guy friend confessed his feelings for me, and I nicely said I just wanted to stay friends. Well, since then it seems like any time we talk on the phone he always slips in how much he cares about me, thinks about me, ”
• Answered the question “I have NEVER before thought about baby names. But my bf's family sort of has a theme for names, and it occurred to me what the greatest addition to that theme would be. Would it be weird to say "hey this is what you should name a kid someday"?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend has not texted me all summer and he wont answer when i text him. Does he still like me or is he ditching me?”
• Answered the question “how do i get him to last longer than 30 seconds? oh by the way he's uncut.”
• Answered the question “After a year, my bf said he's lost spark and I initially reacted badly. We are/were into a LDR. I took a break, did self-introspection, improved and worked on my defects and apologized for the silence. I feel I won't win him back till he works on himself.”
• Posted So Am I Or Am I Not A Feminist? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My bf of 2 yrs called it off b/c I was overly emotional.. Is being friends with my ex a good idea when I want something more ?”
• Answered the question “Would a guy get back with you if you were with another guy while you guys had broken up?”
• Answered the question “My Boyfriend doesn't want to kiss me! We've been dating for 8 months (took a month break in between), and he says he wants our relationship to be more than making out and sex. But I know him pretty well and we havent done more than a peck on the lips! It'”
• Answered the question “Why do men accuse you of cheating when your not?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is Really Really atracted to one pornstar,and he said he just likes her arse.The problem is,he has like 7 folders with just naked pics of her on his computer,She looks nothing like me!,should i be concerned that hes only got pics of one girl ”
• Posted Sexed To Death, Celebrity Cheating, Music and More in Guyspeak's Best of the Week - The Blog Edition to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Uroko'd” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “my girlfriend has never had an orgasm, is this normal?”
• Posted Being Sexed To Death Is Not All It's Cracked Up To Be to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Im 20 years old and my friends are like two years older or a year older than I. The things is, the three of us are virgins. Personally, I feel intimidated by that when I meet a guy. Im worried, if that will be a turn off when I tell them that I'm a virgin”
• Answered the question “Why do men not like to take showers with their woman?”
• Answered the question “I've been dating this guy for a while, but I recently discovered gay porn on his computer (unintentionally, I promise!). When I confronted him about this, he told me that he was questioning his sexuality at a point, but now has confirmed that he is straig”
• Answered the question “Hi BFF, will u tell me to what extent does emotional compatibility and compatibility of qualities should matter in a relationship ending in marriage? Isn't there truly a way that differences can be managed if a couple truly wants to be with each other?”
• Answered the question “My male roommate is a dick. He's very pretentious and I'm having trouble getting utility payments from him. All accnts are in my name. Left a note on the counter about putting the $ underneath my door when I was out all day. Nothing and when I came back h”
• Answered the question “I want to surprise my boyfriend with first row tickets to a Red Sox game. But the tickets I'm looking at are for the very last game of the season. Would it be fun to go to the last game or should I try and find tickets to a different game?”
• Posted “Loudcap” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “It wasn't until after I had sex with a guy that I really like that I did more research on my STI - condoms do not fully protect against spreading. Any tips on telling him without it being the end of us? I'm worried he will feel like I tricked him or purpo”
• Answered the question “I'm in a long-term relationship that I believed was going to result in marriage. "Believed" being the operative word. I love him and I don't want to hurt him, but I'm not positive that he's the one anymore. What do I do??”
• Answered the question “What does it mean if your boy friend never invites you over his house”
• Answered the question “Does losing your v-card hurt?”
• Answered the question “So I gave my first handjob yesterday....and he didn't love it. Left me feeling bad. How do I fix this?? I need help!”
• Posted How To Appreciate Your Man Like A G to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is being picky a bad thing? I'm 21 and never had a serious boyfriend, mainly because I don't want to settle for someone I'm not totally into. My friends all seem to casually date guys or get into relationships just for the sake of not being alone. I don't”
• Answered the question “PJ, My girlfriends think I've missed out on several men I've met in recent years because I don't show enough interest.I think I have.I never just came out and told them I liked them because they never really showed interest and I was always told if a man ”
• Answered the question “Why can't I bring myself to initiate sex with my bf? No matter how much I want it and know he'd like me to initiate once in a while I can't do it. Something comes over me and I just can't. Help!”
• Answered the question “Plz HELP After spending so many years together and feeling the way we've come over the years, I'm certain that he loves me. Oh!! but now the problem is he's not expressing it by words but all I see is love in his actions.Now what can I do, should I convin”
• Answered the question “I'm 46. The man I live with (49), says he's totally uninterested in sex. No desire, need, or thoughts. He does lots of things for me...remodel my house, pay my vehicle insurance, has me as beneficiary on his ins policies and access to his bank acct! But h”
• Answered the question “My ex had a son with his gf before me & not long after he broke up w/ me she moved back into town & they ended up living together again. Now he says he's moving out & wants to marry me & that he only broke up w/me because she was coming & that he's serio”
• Posted “"I'm not saying, but I'm saying..."” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted The Notebook and 5 Other Movies That Might End Your Marriage to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My bf went to a strip club for a bach party. I am ok with going, I am not with lap dances & I said that. After, he told me he went on stage & did a toonie dive, with boobs. Is he lying about the girl picking it up with her boobs? Am I being crazy for feel”
• Answered the question “I've heard So much bullsht from men about how they like me when they don't that I don't know how to tell when it's true? When will I know a guy really likes me and won't just disappear?”
• Answered the question “Hey GBFF I'm worried I'm emotionally suffocating my bf. I over-think a lot, & worry because he means everything to me. We've broken up more than once, he ended it. I try to be open and honest about my feelings with him, but I'm worried by sharing them, I'”
• Posted Hey, Let Me Go Ask My Significant Other If We Can Be Friends, Mmkay? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I lost my virginity to my bf at 22 we've been having sex for almost a year now and I still don't know what I'm doing. I know what he likes and we do enjoy ourselves but it just doesn't come naturally to me.. basically if he didn't lead the way id be total”
• Answered the question “I can't stop stalking my ex. I read his tweets, I'm always on his Facebook and it's not like I get sad while viewing it.I get angry. I literally read "just got done working out" and thought "I hope you fall off a cliff" I'm super nice, so this scared me.A”
• Answered the question “Ive joined my bf and his female coworker that got him his job going out a few times but me and her havent hit it off. Went dancing but I was ignored and she txted my bf that she wanted to fuck him and suck him off and she was only asking once Is it ok fo”
• Answered the question “Please help me with this because it's really killing me: Why does my husband sneak around using porn when he has a very willing partner (ie. me)? Is masturbating to porn so much better than being with a real person? I don't get it and it's making me fe”
• Answered the question “Bf & I & mutual friend were out dinner. Topic was on gfs & this friend mentioned how large our other mutual friends gfs boobs were! Respectfully saying how its unporportioned since usually that you don't see huge ones on a petite girl (i am close friends ”
• Answered the question “A stranger asked my boyfriend (of 5 months) if we were married, and he replied 'not yet.' A little surprising as relationship has been progressing naturally and we haven't had those kind of talks yet. Is there truth in joking? Thanks GBFF!”
• Answered the question “Is it expected that you actually do the things in real life that you say you're going to do to him while sexting?”
• Answered the question “When a guy says all women want to be raped, how should I take that comment? If a guy says hey, how's it going? He's just saying hello right? So I can hi back and leave it at that?”
• Answered the question “Two months ago, my boyfriend and I had a bad pregnancy scare, so we booked it to get a Plan B. Since then, however, we haven't done it at all; he seems to be afraid of sex altogether. I understand that he was rattled by the experience, but I don't want hi”
• Answered the question “I have a serious problem ever believing my s/o whenever he tells me he really cares about me or likes me. I know it bothers him because i always tell him i don't believe him. I'm scared ill lose him if i don't stop it but i just hate feeling vulnerable...”
• Answered the question “i have a huge crush on my step cousin but i dont know if i should tell him. im worried that if i tell him and he doesnt feel the same way about me, that it will effect not only our relationship but family relationships too.....i have been single for 3 and”
• Posted Failed Education, Movie Theater Etiquette, Oddball Questions and More In Guyspeak's Best of the Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Oh The Joys of Being a Father! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Dear GBB, do u thinkk 13 years difference is too much??”
• Answered the question “Why are some men so stupid? By stupid, I mean...why cant they fight for love? Love shouldnt get lost, it should be fought for and won. It should be diligently pursued and created, and men these days give up too easily.”
• Answered the question “GBFF, I dun goofed! I was out with friends at a club for a bday. Everyone went outside except for the guy I'm interested in and myself. It felt like something should have happened, but I was too chicken to make a move. He didn't seem put off, put his jack”
• Answered the question “Dear BFF, Why do I seem to fall for every guy I can't get, but then when I have them, I no longer want them? I understand many others experience the whole, "always want what you can't have", but it's crazy to me how fast I lose interest once they become i”
• Posted Holding Back The Years to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend says the n word occasionally when he quotes music. I've asked him to stop and he tells me that it's not that big of a deal because he's not racist and the fact that we're dating proves it...what's your opinion on white people using the word. ”
• Answered the question “Would a bobblehead of myself be a good gift idea for boyfriend of one year? Would you like a bobblehead of your significant other?”
• Answered the question “Girls' BFF, my fellow DCer!! Is it alright to tell a guy that you're not into men that play it cool? I get the feeling that a guy I've recently begun seeing may be doing this, and it is super annoying. I know that he likes me, but he's trying waayy too ha”
• Answered the question “Took me 2 years to get over love of my life. In those two years, he got married to another. Of course I heard all the details surrounding them and they seem so happy. How can someone move on so fast? I love and I love deeply. He seemed to be over it and o”
• Answered the question “Do you think its normal to expect any guy to express the way he feels about you to you? Or is it something the couple needs to work on? Or do I move on if they aren't that way?”
• Answered the question “Why r men so insecure? A 100 guys can chase after his girl, she can completely ignore them all, but he still wants2 stress over them. Shouldn't he just feel lucky that outa all these men she chose HIM? Every guy I know is like that, so am I making him fee”
• Posted Are All The Chicks Doing It? (And It's Not The "It" You Think It Is.) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hey Girl's BFF. I imagine you have a decent amount of platonic gf's. Here's my problem: I don't want to date. Not one bit. I want to make new friends, but every time I make a new guy friend, they always wind up being romantically interested, regardless of”
• Answered the question “I'm dating this guy and I met his parents and siblings last weekend. He's not a super talkatvie guy and I need that in a relationship. He will tell me every other day that he misses me but I usually have to contact him more then he texts me. Do you think ”
• Answered the question “Hi BFF! My Husband says that I should be thinking about going to the gym because I can't handdle long periods of sex on top of him. That's putting my self-esteem really down... Do men tend to be better lovers when their ageing? Should I consider alternati”
• Answered the question “Opinions on Skype sex and phone sex please. I haven't done either and I was just wondering if either was something desired by men. Also what are the rules and normal happenings of each..?”
• Answered the question “GBFF, you're my favorite, can you help me? I just met this guy on a bus and he asked for my number; I gave it to him. He's been texting me A LOT stressing that Im BEAUTIFUL. Usually that turns me off, but I have terrible taste in men. Should I give this”
• Answered the question “Am I unreasonable for hating on my boyfriend for gaming 4 hours everyday with teenage boys and girls (as well as posting links on the teenage girl's facebook wall)?He thinks Im over-reacting, I think hes a 27 year old who needs to grow up! I love him, but”
• Posted If You're Faking It, Should You Ever Tell? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do blk men actually settle down w/ white girls or r we just something to entertain them, until they find a blk woman they settle with? or according to ask a "black man" web series do they ever settle down period? Seen a lot of blk men cheat w/ white girls”
• Answered the question “he cheated constantly. I dumped him. Does he care?”
• Answered the question “My husband goes to the strip club and on a private dance with the most top stripper he slaps her as and she dances naked scrubing on him. Isn't that touching?”
• Answered the question “hi bff! think your advice is always spot-on, and so my question is: if a guy has a lot going on in his life (demanding job, family illness), would that be a legit reason for him to not get in touch with a girl he says he's interested in? if said girl emai”
• Posted Can You Pleasure Yourself If You're In A Relationship? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Whats the difference between being turned on amd having an errction? (a girl is asking)”
• Answered the question “GBFF. Q:my dad left my mom when she was pregnant with me. I'm 23 now and the issues are getting into my own relationship (I'm engaged): I'm terrified of being left over anything and cry uncontrollably when we argue. How do I keep my mom's fate from affect”
• Answered the question “My husband and i had our first child a month ago. i was thinking to get him a personalized phone case with a picture of our daughter on it for a fathers day gift. Yay or nay?”
• Answered the question “If a guy isn't calling, he isn't interested?”
• Answered the question “GBFF, I know this is typical but I have this male friend who loves me. He really cares about me but I have a BF who captured my heart, so I rejected him. He's frustrated on how he "tries so hard but I still choose my BF over him." I feel really bad but I'”
• Answered the question “Hey Panama, Is it really true that everything a man does in his life revolves around sex? I've heard this multiple times before and it's hard for me to believe.”
• Answered the question “Met this girl a year ago, we get lunch almost every day now, she constantly talks about me to her family but quickly corrects them when they think we're an item, She flirts with me touching my face/arm/hand and seeks me out 1 on 1 when the rest of our mut”
• Posted GuySpeak Q&A with Stars of the WE tv Series, Mary Mary to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm afraid I'm leading a guy on. He likes me and I said I liked him too, but I realized I don't anymore. I told him we'll date eventually but I don't want a relationship right now. He doesn't understand why, and makes me feel bad but I honestly don't like”
• Answered the question “So I fell in love with my boyfriend of six weeks. I have been hurt before, and it is scary for me... he is amazing, we have so much in common, we always have fun together, but I feel like by now we should be saying 'I love you' and it hasnt been said yet.”
• Answered the question “So I've been obsessing over a celebrity and it's not healthy. Celebrity crushes may seem silly but when you see someone that funny, good looking and brilliant, it's difficult to get them off of your mind. & I've tried thinking about his worst moments on-s”
• Answered the question “If you saw a girl sitting alone at a bar, what is your REAL thoughts?I always think guys sitting alone (unless ravingshingly attractive) are serial killers, or weirdos for drinking alone...just being honest!”
• Posted Sometimes When You Win, You Really Lose to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on Hey PJ, Who should pay on the first date? As a woman, I don't have a problem paying on the 1st date (especially if I asked him out) or anytime for that matter. If I go out with a guy, it's because I'm interested in him and not what he can do for me. What
• Answered the question “Am I gay if I sometimes watch gay porn or if I just wanna try a gay bathhouse?”
• Answered the question “Hey Panama, I need to know, am I wasting my time? Am I crazy? Been with bf for over 3 years. Planned to move in together next year. Now says he wants to go his way while I go mine, but still stay together! Not the fist time he's backed out on plans for fu”
• Answered the question “Hey PJ, Who should pay on the first date? As a woman, I don't have a problem paying on the 1st date (especially if I asked him out) or anytime for that matter. If I go out with a guy, it's because I'm interested in him and not what he can do for me. What ”
• Answered the question “How do I show more affection to my fiance when we are 3000 miles apart? I'm really bad at expressing my feelings in words and don't know how else I can be affectionate over the phone.”
• Answered the question “Hey Panama,Have you seen the documentary "Dark Girls"? What are your thoughts on issues dark-skinned women face with society's standard of beauty? Have things changed?”
• Answered the question “Do you have any thoughts on guys who make sounds (little moans) while hugging? I think there is a time and a place for audible hugging but maybe it is more common than I know.”
• Answered the question “Since late Jan, my bf has his child from a previous relationship every weekend. Weekdays we both have school. I don't mind going over to his place to chill,but not being able to have date nights/outings alone is starting to get to me although I've tried t”
• Posted Beyonce, Genital Discriminiation, and Having Your Tables Turned: Guyspeak's Best of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “KimYe” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted KimYe Are Poised To Become THAT Couple to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “PJ, I respect your wisdom. Can you share your thoughts on this, please? I used to be religious and now I'm not. I still have to fight through what I was taught versus what I believe to be true now. A friend forwarded me Corinthians 7:8. I'm single, bu”
• Commented on DO HANDSOME HOT GUYS LIKE FAT GIRLS
• Answered the question “A while back I slept with someone with a girlfriend. I understand that it was a huge mistake, but he made me promise never to tell. Now she is getting ready to marry this guy, completely in the dark about this. I feel she deserves to know. Does the "other”
• Answered the question “Dating an older Virgo man. Things seemed so great. Now he's always busy, and can only see me for an hr every couple of days. Booty call??”
• Answered the question “Please help GBFF! My my guy BFF tried making a move on me, few months ago. It kinda freaked me out. Took me by surprise. Both ended up agreeing not to have it mess up our friendship. But I want to maybe give it a go and be FWB. How the hell do I go about ”
• Answered the question “DO HANDSOME HOT GUYS LIKE FAT GIRLS”
• Posted The Right Questions. Ask Them. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm in the early twenties and a lot of my male aquatiances genuinely believe that the size, shape and colour of a woman's labia is an indication of how many sexual partners she has had. I'm really worried about the sexual ignorance these 'adults' have. Wh”
• Answered the question “w/BF 2 mnth. He 31 me 37. Him 0 kids Me 2 kids. he no cum w/sex. Lot in common, go out. age b4 was sm issue. met parents but not friends. me- love 2 spend more time 2gether, him-"in due time". 1x refered 2 me as "thats just a friend" 2 some1 he didnt kno”
• Answered the question “Hey Panama, i tend to be attracted to guys who are out of league. I think i'm a 4, maybe, and if u asked women, they'd say these guys r like 8's or 9's. I want to approach them but i feel like since they don't approach me they don't find me attractive so ”
• Answered the question “He isn't romantic, I plan all the romantic events, he's 15 yrs older, what gives?”
• Answered the question “there are a lot of fish in the sea...so why do guys sometimes choose to sleep with their ex- and how can it mean nothing?”
• Answered the question “I was looking at some pictures on my BF's computer and came across naked pictures and videos of his ex. He has not dated her in 2 years. We have dated for over a year and are serious. I do not mind regular pictures, but naked?! He does not know that I hav”
• Commented on What's Worse: The Porn Star or The Ex?
• Answered the question “When you start dating someone, is it better to assume the relationship is 'open until proven exclusive', or vice versa? For context: I've been casually dating a guy for about a month. I'm not currently seeing anyone else, but wonder if it would be wrong t”
• Posted What's Worse: The Porn Star or The Ex? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm 32, he's 44. We're activity partners and have sex. He now says he's too old for me, worries I'm being held back by being around him. Wants me to date others but if someone else shows interest, he gets apoplectic. During sex, he sometimes says he wants”
• Answered the question “Hey Panama! I've been dating a guy for a month and I really want to sleep with him, and I know he's dying to sleep with me - problem is, my sexual experience ends at oral. I'm not a youngin' (I'm 25) so I don't know how or when to tell him that I'm ready,”
• Answered the question “You said b4 Panama, if a guy is interested in u- he will go out of his way to spend as much time as possible. Define possible. We were in another city (me w/ friends, his hometown), I asked for time one eve, he explained via text he couldn't as it was out”
• Answered the question “Hi Panama! Once I'm friend zoned, am I doomed forever? My guy friend is sending mixed signals and I'm thinking of taking a leap. What do you suggest?”
• Answered the question “GBFF: My bf has lived with this one guy since I met him. I usually dont have problems with him, but I do have some major problems with his gf (shes the bff of my current bf's ex). Now both of them are egging this girl who used to be friends with them on a”
• Answered the question “Hey BFF, kinda weird question: My wonderful boyfriend pees sitting down when he can, provided it isn't a public urinal/middle of the woods situation. He said if he doesn't, it's kind of messy and gross. I'm all for keeping clean, but in general, isn't tha”
• Posted Is A Man More Attractive If He's Wearing A Wedding Ring? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Ok..been dating this guy for going on 3 months. We've spent every weekend together except 2. We grew up together. He's asked me to move in with him and then did a 180 - not that I was going to but it kinda seemed strange. Can you tell me if I'm overre”
• Answered the question “Hey GBFF! I'm really good friends with one of my exes (there was no catastrophic end, just didn't work out) and recently he told me that I was (still) his first choice to be the mother of his children. Not wife or girlfriend (again) but baby mama. Serio”
• Answered the question “BFF, help! I've been really lucky, cause all my close male relatives (dad, grandpa, bro, uncles) are amazing guys and role models. I'm having trouble finding guys to date who measure up. Are my standards too high?”
• Answered the question “Could you fall in love with a married woman, if you just having sex?”
• Answered the question “I told this guy I wanted to just be friends instead of pursuing a relationship- part test, part serious. Now, I'm ready to travel down that relationship road again. But how?”
• Answered the question “My BF has been away for 2 months and will be gone for another 3 for work. During his absence I've gotten super close with a guy friend from work, who knows the situation and respects it. I know he has a crush on me but I still want to spend time together ”
• Posted If You Use It As An Excuse, How Come I Can't Use It As A Reason? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I love my boyfriend but I honestly see no future with him. How do I go about breaking up with him? Is there even a method to it? =(”
• Answered the question “Why is your name Panama? Why do you have a girl in your pic?”
• Answered the question “GBFF, this is kind of random, but a guy friend (who I really like) is always trying to share food with me, like 'let's share this sandwich'...a few bites him, a few bites me & he doesn't do this with any other friends. Maybe I'm reading too much into it,”
• Answered the question “GBFF your insight por favor- it went from me wanting to call it off because I was getting smothered to suddenly he's not interested- the tables turned in one day. I guess I'm kind of relieved because now I don't have to be smothered- but also confused WTF”
• Posted Man Law Violations That Women Want Us To Engage In to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Me and a girl share a lot of interests. We're good friends and she gives me hints that she WOULD circumstancially date me. We met in college. Same age. Issue? She's engaged. But she does and doesn't like him. Hes clingy douche and other things. ”
• Answered the question “Why is it that everyone else has a problem with me not wanting to date except for me? I'm not dead set against it, but just want to be free and be me, and am happy with that for now. I don't feel like I'm missing anything, and will date when I want to dat”
• Answered the question “why does my boyfriend act like his penis will save the world and always want me to look at it when its hard like its gonna impress me or something?”
• Answered the question “Am I really being sexist for being a traditional type of girl (e.g. waiting for the guy to make the first move, propose, etc)? I don't think I am being sexist but in other men's eyes, I am.”
• Posted When Is It The Right Time To Ask To Bring *That* Into The Boudoir? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “my boyfriend is an atheist and I'm christian were too young to be married but we've been dating for a year and a 3 months. how essential is sharing a religion in a relationship? should I end it now before I come to an age where I'm ready to marry?”
• Answered the question “I've been dating my BF for 3 months now. He's met my family and he wants me to meet his dad and stepmom (most of his fam is far away). Last time he talked with his dad though, his dad said something about "is it really time for me to meet her?" and about ”
• Answered the question “What does it mean if the new guy I'm dating's Twitter is filled with pornstars on his "Following" list that he made? Is this a red flag?”
• Answered the question “Every so often I check my boyfriend's internet browser history for times when I am not home. I've noticed that he looks at his ex's facebooks fairly regularly, and at one's bikini and low cut top pictures VERY regularly (I think he masturbates to them, th”
• Answered the question “He's an amazing intelligent sexy feminist, there is a 10 year age difference (I'm 22, he's 33), he was divorced about 1 1/2 years ago we started having sex last week, we're both too busy to make a go at a serious relationship (I'm graduating college, movi”
• Posted Sperm Does Calculus. What Do Your Eggs Bring To The Table? Hmm? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Male Divas, Bum Slaps, and How To Be Nice to Your Boo Thang In Guyspeak's Best of the Week to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I Like this white guy. He makes me smile .He jokes about with me saying ' Oh, we couldnt do anything together your black' Then he laughs and wraps his arms around me tight and buries his head in my neck then whispers in my ear. WE EVEN HAVE A PACT. pleas”
• Answered the question “If you have been in a relationship for 10 years and the guy still has not committed to marriage, should I move on?”
• Answered the question “GBFF- All's fair in love and war? True or false? Is there any fair play when it comes to being with the one you want?”
• Answered the question “what can i tell a girl to convince her to give me oral sex ?”
• Answered the question “BFF I have a guy friend that I really enjoy hanging out with and he's engaged. We are platonic and I think we're just friends but people are mentioning that they think we're dating and he just mentioned that he is considering postponing the wedding and I”
• Posted Exciting On The Outside, Boring On The Inside to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Im attractive but suffer from CBF (Chronic BitchFace) and as you may guess, my love life sucks. I dont get ask out because Ive been told I come across as cold/aloof/unfriendly and unapproachable. I dont think its possible to cure my face, but my love life”
• Answered the question “Do you like big butts and you cannot lie? No other brother can deny when a girl walks in with itty an-bitty waist and a round thing in you face you get sprung.”
• Answered the question “Hi, PJ!! This year, instead of giving my bf a tangible present for his birthday, I want to take him somewhere special. Do guys like destinations as gifts and do you have any suggestions on where to take him?”
• Answered the question “I'm in love with my boyfriend of 7 months (we were friends for 2 years prior), and we've talked about getting married once we both finish school. However, I'm only 22, and have had very little life experiences, and I'm feeling trapped by the thought of su”
• Answered the question “Totally not being racist here! On tosh.o he made a joke about black guys being grossed out and not going down on woman. Is that a common stereotype? I had never heard of it but my bf had. How true can that be?”
• Answered the question “In the 4 yrs my man & I have been together, my mom has bought be flowers more than he has. (He bought me flowers ONCE.) It's not that he doesn't know I like flowers - I've told him. I've told him that even though we say no gifts I still like flowers on an”
• Answered the question “My mom has always advised me that even though I can beat a guy at something, I should always let him win to feed his ego. It seems silly to me and I have a hard time changing my behaviour to let myself loose every time. I think we healthy amount of compet”
• Answered the question “How can I make my boyfriend jealous without him knowing or making him angry?”
• Posted I Suck At The Oscars to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend of two years promised himself to never apologize no matter what. We've argued too many times about it and we've decided I should just accept his reservations. Trouble is I find it very painful and difficult to do. Any tips on how I can cope?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I have been dating for eight months and I'm now five months pregnant with his baby. We live twenty minutes away from eachother and I see him once every week if I'm lucky. He never invites me over or asks me to go do anything, am I stupid ”
• Answered the question “Last week, my boyfriend of almost two years told me "You're a great girlfriend, but I can't see myself marrying you... You're too dark for me". I'm still numb by his shocking and hurtful words. By the way, we're in our late twenties and his skin tone is a”
• Answered the question “This lass who is forever bro-zoned needs your help, Girl's BFF. How do I find a guy who wants a girl who loves sports, guy friendly flicks, and music as much as baking, crafts, and the color pink? All the guys I meet friend zone me, and make me their la”
• Posted Is Snooping Really A Necessary Evil? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “my mother had had affair with my boyfriend”
• Answered the question “True or false: Any man that comes home on Valentine's Day with nothing but a lame excuse about why he didn't get her anything (not even a freaking flower plucked from the front yard or something) is basically asking for his GF to break up with him?”
• Answered the question “Hey guys! Thanks a lot for your male perspective, I get all the amusing answers in my inbox! This ones for PJ. How do I break up with him (dated on&off for 2yr), caught him cyber cheating on me. He has no idea because I snooped :/ I have def decided to du”
• Answered the question “I was out with my boyfriend n he would always run into females that he know without introducing me. What does that say about him”
• Answered the question “What is with this guy? Wouldnt every guy like a no strings attached sex buddy who they can smoke with, watch bball, and screw? Sorry for the several messages i wanted u to have the whole story!”
• Answered the question “I have a good friend who has been dating a guy for about 4 years. Since the beginning, they have argued endlessly over the most ridiculous stuff. They break up almost every week and then who has who to hear about? Me. Is there a nice way to say, "Look if ”
• Posted So, Whose Last Name Are We Taking, Boo? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Should I tell my best friend that her husband has an active profile on a dating website? It says he's been online within the last 24 hours. I'm pretty sure she doesn't know bc I'd be getting an earful if she knew. Should I tell her or just mind my own bus”
• Answered the question “I saw a similar question once before, but it didn't totally apply to me. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and he hasn't given me an orgasm. I get extremely close but no matter what, no matter how long my bf continues on for, it still wo”
• Answered the question “Girl's BFF please help. I'm 23, live at home and my f-buddy lives in NY. I want to start staying over his place more, but I have no lie/excuse. Quite frankly, I feel like I shouldn't lie about my whereabouts at this point. Can I just say I'm not coming ho”
• Answered the question “ok i got my guy friend upset at me and he told me to give him space and time. should i give it to him and how long does this " i need space and to be alone" thing last for?”
• Answered the question “GBFF I would love your insight! it was his idea to "keep in touch" when he moved a few hours away but I haven't heard a thing. Does keeping in touch merely mean "when it works for me" or did he suddenly lose interest??”
• Posted Braxton Family Values: The Relationship Edition to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half, but he's never given me an orgasm. Not once. We do oral a lot and I get very close, but never close enough. He wants me to orgasm too and he feels guilty over being inexperienced, but he's not ver”
• Answered the question “My BF has a female bestfriend. He really is a sweetheart, good to me and 100% trustworthy and faithful. He decided to share something about his female friends boobs to me.I did tell him it hurt my feelings, however he thinks it's fine,doesn't understand w”
• Answered the question “How do I comfort a girl who is crying? She's not my girlfriend. Just a good friend, and she has panic attacks about going to sleep and they make her really emotional sometimes”
• Answered the question “Reading your description of Girls' BFF, totally describes who I am. I'm always stuck in a situation where I am a threat to the girls bf. Those girls come, go, then come back to say sorry you were right. I love who I am, but going through friends like that”
• Posted The Values In Braxton Family Values to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “ok so my bf went to Vegas to a porn convention and took a pic with a porn star...and he put his hands on her butt!!! Kind of upset me, but he was very honest about it! Should I be upset, is this cheating??”
• Answered the question “BFF, would most men decide not to date a woman if he sensed she earned a better living than he did? Guy pals have told me that while I'm friendly & approachable, men are likely intimidated because they can tell I'm financially independent and can take car”
• Posted Sock Contraptions, Permission to Cheat, and America, Land of The Free? and More: Guyspeak's Best of The Week! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I'm pretty spectacularly anti-girly. But I actually kind of want to be more feminine. However, people react strangely to me when I do anything more feminine, like wear form fitting clothes or actually do my make-up. Is there anyway I can up the femininity”
• Answered the question “Hi Panama! I'm trying to be more confident these days, and I want to be ballsy and ask out my crush. But my brother says even a shy guy will work up the nerve to ask a girl out if he likes her enough/thinks she's interested, and asking him out will make m”
• Answered the question “Have you ever been peed on by a woman during sex and were you grossed out by it?”
• Answered the question “I'm a 21-year-old college student with two majors. What worries me is that my education seems to be my passion, not people. I've never dated, never kissed, never anything; it's true I'm not at all pretty, and nobody's interested, but I've just not been in”
• Posted The Braxton's Need Therapy and Hugs...Big Time to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My whiteboyfriend says to me "Keep your hood ass on your hood block where you belong. He is also an out of work brick layer, semi emotinally abusive and has NO friends.We havent spoke since last Friday...Is it over? Why do I care so much and constantly ”
• Answered the question “I'm just writing this to let you know I appreciate you, a lot. Your frankness is something I treasure, and sometimes hate, but mostly treasure, in my friends. As a result, I treasure it in you. Please continue to answer questions with the honesty and gr”
• Answered the question “why does my ex boyfriend post pics of himself with his new girlfriend on facebook?”
• Answered the question “I am a 27yr old woman, in a town full of middle class and wealthy families with every advantage& good educations. I can count 7 women I am friends or acquaintances with that are accidentally pregnant right now 6 of which are not married& in bad relationsh”
• Answered the question “Is too much sex a bad thing? My husband and I have literally known each other our entire lives..began dating at 15 married at 24..now we're 35. We have amazing sex on an average of 16 times a week..sometimes we don't leave the bedroom all day! Is this hea”
• Posted Evelyn Should Slap The Piss Out of Everybody on Braxton Family Values to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “BF scoffed at me for wearing Coach shoes. I work extremely hard each week, know how to save/budget my money, and wanted to treat myself for once. I told him he was rude and I was very hurt. He made me feel like a snob for wearing shoes I really like. He s”
• Answered the question “Panama I need your help. I have a friend who's really nice and sweet but is kinda ignorant (it comes from lack of exposure to people of color, not hate). So we usually end up talking about race and I try to educate him. We have rational conversations and ”
• Answered the question “BFF, please help me. My guy of 4yrs broke up with me 4months ago and took it back the next day. It was 100% out of the blue - we were happy. His answer to why he did it? "I don't know." Things are okay between us now except for the lingering memory of tha”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when your girlfriend don't want to have sex with you no more?”
• Answered the question “Hey handsome...quick question: what's the best way to approach a guy when you need to talk? If you want to minimize freakout on his side that is. Text before? Tell him you should talk soon? Or just get to it directly?”
• Posted Tamar Braxton Might Be The Most "Extra" Person On The Planet to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “BFF, I'm nine months pregnant and have been seeing a guy who knows all about my situation and one minute he is the guy i fell in love with and the next he barely says two words, he's 25 and has a stressful job. He told me that this is his future daughter.”
• Answered the question “I find underwear in the nightstand, later 2 condoms gone, naked texts from several women, bff w/ex (ex is married). He says he didn't know panties were there, masturbates in condoms sometimes, and haven't asked about nudes. He says I am the only one, beau”
• Answered the question “Dear BFF, I'm 22, a virgin (it's not public knowledge though), intelligent, an 8.5 (i asked a gay male friend) and I can see through guys' games and call them out on their BS. So most guys quit after 5 min. I've also been told that I'm wife material. So m”
• Posted 50 Things I'd Rather Do Than Remove My Mother's NuvaRing to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Even though my ex and I never worked out and were on &off for 4 years he was always insanely attracted to me and said I was the best he'd ever had, my body was perfect for him, and I could always get him going asap Now that its over will that ever go away”
• Commented on My boyfriend thinks it's okay to cuddle (sometimes in bed) with his bff who is female. I don't think he's going to cheat but I still think it crosses the line a little bit. How do I bring this up to him without seeming controlling or like I don't want her
• Commented on I am a 44 year old woman. Am I completely out of the loop to expect exclusivity before having sex with someone? I've dated 3 men (long term) over the past 3 years and EVERY one has "cheated". They claim that we weren't "exclusive". I am now very wary
• Commented on I am a 44 year old woman. Am I completely out of the loop to expect exclusivity before having sex with someone? I've dated 3 men (long term) over the past 3 years and EVERY one has "cheated". They claim that we weren't "exclusive". I am now very wary
• Answered the question “BFF, I need your advice! At a party with my new guy, one of his friends accidentally revealed something serious (as in bad serious) about him to me, that he hasn't told me about (yet). I'm not in a position to confront my guy about it as I'm not supposed ”
• Answered the question “I am a 44 year old woman. Am I completely out of the loop to expect exclusivity before having sex with someone? I've dated 3 men (long term) over the past 3 years and EVERY one has "cheated". They claim that we weren't "exclusive". I am now very wary ”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend thinks it's okay to cuddle (sometimes in bed) with his bff who is female. I don't think he's going to cheat but I still think it crosses the line a little bit. How do I bring this up to him without seeming controlling or like I don't want her”
• Commented on Mixed Signals. In person he talks a lot,but on IM he practically ignores me. When we are together, he says he wants to spend lots of time with me. But when I say I'm free, he says he's busy. Doesn't even ask me what time I'm free. He got me a thoughtful X
• Commented on Hi GBFF! Do you think what we see as beautiful can change? ex I get looked at/hit on by 30+ yos quite often but then guys my own age (I'm 23) rarely look at me. Older guys call me beautiful freely while 20 somethings rarely even give me cute. Do you think
• Commented on Hi GBFF! Do you think what we see as beautiful can change? ex I get looked at/hit on by 30+ yos quite often but then guys my own age (I'm 23) rarely look at me. Older guys call me beautiful freely while 20 somethings rarely even give me cute. Do you think
• Commented on Hi GBFF! Do you think what we see as beautiful can change? ex I get looked at/hit on by 30+ yos quite often but then guys my own age (I'm 23) rarely look at me. Older guys call me beautiful freely while 20 somethings rarely even give me cute. Do you think
• Commented on Hi GBFF! Do you think what we see as beautiful can change? ex I get looked at/hit on by 30+ yos quite often but then guys my own age (I'm 23) rarely look at me. Older guys call me beautiful freely while 20 somethings rarely even give me cute. Do you think
• Posted “Touchologist” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted The Girls' BFF Celebrity Resolutions for 2012 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hi GBFF! Do you think what we see as beautiful can change? ex I get looked at/hit on by 30+ yos quite often but then guys my own age (I'm 23) rarely look at me. Older guys call me beautiful freely while 20 somethings rarely even give me cute. Do you think”
• Answered the question “Mixed Signals. In person he talks a lot,but on IM he practically ignores me. When we are together, he says he wants to spend lots of time with me. But when I say I'm free, he says he's busy. Doesn't even ask me what time I'm free. He got me a thoughtful X”
• Answered the question “Hi Girl's BFF,I had an old flame contact me a couple days ago with the strangest request. He wants me to become his girl confidant and talk about sex, relationships, life etc. I was completely blindsided by this because I haven't heard from him si”
• Answered the question “Is it emotional abuse if you're brunette and fair skinned when your boyfriend always talks about how he thinks tan blondes are the hottest? It makes me feel inadequate.”
• Answered the question “Help, GBFF! Is it ok on a first date to ask a guy what he's looking for romantically? I don't want to scare him off, but I've been burned in the past and don't want to waste my time on a guy who doesn't want a relationship. Thanks!”
• Answered the question “Girl's BFF help! I'm dating a guy whose best friend is an ex-gf. They r so close it's uncomfortable. I don't want 2 b insecure about it, but it's hard. He swears they r only friends now, but the way they look at each other sometimes seems "intimate". Can ”
• Answered the question “BFF, I was heartbroken a month ago when my bf of a year told me he loved me like a friend. He's a workaholic and his relationships always end because the girl feels like they're dating a friend, and that's what I started to tell him in the end. How stup”
• Answered the question “Dear Girls BFF,Give it to me straight. I've been dating a wonderful guy for 7 months now; I'm happy, except---I still sometimes get the feeling he's not over a highschool flame. This has come to a head recently where I don't feel like I can stick it out”
• Posted This Really Happened: The Everybody Should Be Fired Edition to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “GBFF, ur the most sympathetic. My ex who i haven't spoken to, seen, or heard from in 6 months (cheated on me) just finished his co-op. He'll be back in town next semester so he's tried to add me on facebook again. I denied the request but now i'm dreading”
• Answered the question “BFF, I lead a guy on...only to realize I love him only as a friend and cherish our friendship too much to jeopardize it. But hes become very infatuated with me. I feel terrible. How do I tell him 'i screwed up, lets just be friends because I need that mor”
• Answered the question “How do men deal with loss?”
• Answered the question “I NEED to know!! What do you say to a man in a situation where youve just started having sex and he is having troubles staying hard? What ACTUALLY helps to hear in that patricular moment? Because im sure we say a lot of dumb sh*t that doesn't help...”
• Answered the question “Dear G-BFF,I have been dating a great guy for a little over a year now. We've already met the parents but its become clear to both of us that his mother wants nothing to do with me. As a couple we've decided to stay together for the long haul. Is ther”
• Posted Braxton Family Values 2:3 - Toni's New Doo Wop Chick to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Gabe Solis of Braxton Family Values Talks About His Relationship And Life In The Family to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “gbff, you're logical and so is my guy. it's been 6 months of a healthy, happy relationship and we have every intent to make it last. he brought it up once and said he doesn't know how to know what love is. so he's obviously thinking about it, but why ha”
• Answered the question “Panama, be real w/ me... there is this guy I have hung out w/ a few times. I told him we shouldnt hang out anymore cause we are obviously both too busy, right... So after 3 weeks dude comes back claiming he has "feelings" for me. I'm like ok??? You don't ”
• Answered the question “How do I answer the question, "I am small?"I to a 6'4" 40ish year old man with the tiniest penis I have ever seen? I think I'm falling in love with him, so I don't care, but clearly it's an issue for him. He was married for 25 years, now may be realizing”
• Answered the question “He broke up w/ me cause I wouldn't accept a ring. After 8 months of "I want to marry you" he broke up with me. He met someone on eharmony. Still calls 2-5x week. Tells me his feelings, personal life, medical stuff, talk all the time.No longer intimate sin”
• Answered the question “Girls BFF, does a death mean death of a relationship? I recently started dating an incredible guy 2 months ago his mom had cancer & passed away last week. He's been texting every other day but we havent spoken yet, the funeral was 2 days ago, i'm scared h”
• Posted Braxton Family Values Season 2:3 - A Snooping Dog to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted The Ring and The Trap: Two Myths (?) About Women to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How important are labels? Some people say, "if you're not his girlfriend now you'll never be" and then others say "labels ruin things." So on one hand, I am incredibly happy. But on the other, don't want people assuming we're FWB just because we don't hav”
• Answered the question “Dearest beautiful BFF, I'm worried and would love your input. I'm quite liberal and my bf is conservative and I'm concerned about how this may influence things and if it's possible for a couple to be political opposites (yet we first bonded on core values”
• Answered the question “Brand new man, hes funny, v keen, v open about feelings, but alarm bells are going nuts already. All he does is talk about himself, truly said 'girls get infatuated with me' and never throws anything back my way in sex, just lies there. Whats a tactful wa”
• Answered the question “hey bff! my bday is coming up and i'll finally be legal! i dont mind making out but i'm a bit worried that i might get too drunk and end up losing my virginity. i'm not too sure how i feel about this and don't really know what to do about it. any suggesti”
• Answered the question “Since you're the Girls' BFF and my boyfriend is all girls' BFF, I thought you'd be the wisest and most experienced to answer. My boyfriend is a wonderful guy and he was raised as a genuinly nice gentlemen, but how do I know whether him being nice is just ”
• Answered the question “My dad has only met my bf of 3 years once, when we started dating. Dad said, "He has the whole good boyfriend act down, but I would be insulted if he thought I bought it." At some point I'd like them to meet properly, but I'm really nervous that it'll go ”
• Posted The Girls' BFF Would Like To Thank You For Letting Him Be Himself to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “We were engaged. Had to go long distance. (Germany/US)He broke up with me after 6 months (of being engaged); one week later, he's dating someone. Am I crazy for wanting to rip him to pieces?”
• Answered the question “What's up Panama?! I asked a guy I'm friends with out on a date. He said "not at the moment", but wins nicest/best rejection ever. We're still freinds, but he's increased the physical contact (hugs, etc). Is this just over compensating for the friendship?”
• Answered the question “Help a girl out! My bf and I were having sex, and (no nice way to say it!) he couldn't stay hard. He said he didn't know what was wrong. Since then, its happened several times, and I may have made a bit of a deal saying I thought it was my fault he wasn't”
• Answered the question “I just went out on a date with a E. European guy who kept making disparaging comments about black people all night. I tried engaging him in a convo about it + reminding him that I am part black, but nothing seemed to work. Obvi I'm not going out w him aga”
• Answered the question “My man loves to have sex first thing in the AM. Are all guys like this?”
• Answered the question “if ur boyfriend is getting naked pics of his ex wife is he cheating?”
• Answered the question “Girls' BFF! What is your opinion on dating multiple people at the same time but not actually committing to one (officially)?”
• Answered the question “Ok, seriously BFF. I need your help. My first love/first guy I slept with and I broke up 3 years ago. It was REALLY messy and I moved 3,000+ miles to get away from him, but I can't stop googling/internet stalking him and his wife/my ex friend. What the ”
• Answered the question “What would a guy do if they met the perfect girl at a time when they really didn't have the time or money for a girlfriend and were extremely focused on their career in their early 20s. Would they let the girl go or find someway to make it work?”
• Posted Braxton Family Values Season 2:1 Recap - R.E.S.P.E.C.T. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Recently I have started seeing a manager I work with. It is company policy to speak up regarding inter-company relationships. I mentioned word was getting around we were seeing each other. Was I being too pushy by telling him he needed to decide what was”
• Posted Hard Part About Being An Adult to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I know online dating is the logical next step, but it feels desperate + sleezy. I don't mean to be paranoid but I've never met anyone who has had success meeting folks on the web. How do I get over my worries?”
• Answered the question “Sup GORGEOUS BFF! Quick question, when giving a guy head in a car (not a BF), is it more expected to spit outside of swallow?”
• Answered the question “i think i may be attracted to girls, does that make me a lesbian?”
• Answered the question “A man tried really hard and long to win me over. He finally did, then he bailed? What is up with that? Thrill of the chase?”
• Posted Hey...You're My Friend, Stop It! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Long story short; I'm 25, he's 40 and I'm in love with him. I have a hard time NOT flirting & showing that I care for him. It's been 4 years of mixed signals. One day he's "too comfortable to cross the line" and the next he's all grabby and has my legs ar”
• Answered the question “Girls Bff, I need your help! So here's the deal my boyfriend used to be bff with a girl who's boyfriend won't let her talk to him anymore. He recently told me they had strong feelings for each other but those feelings are no longer. But he wants to fight ”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a man tells you "I am a man after all" several times in a conversation when you are talking about things?”
• Answered the question “Who came up with No Shave November? Was this a collective male attempt to piss off girlfriends everywhere?”
• Answered the question “Hey Panama, I could really use your advice! I want to ask the guy I've been seeing for a while if we're exclusive, but how do I ask without it being accusatory/wanting something more? I'm happy with how things are going, I just want to know we're only see”
• Posted 10 Reasons Why Halloween Is The Perfect Relationship Holiday to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Dear GBFF,I cannot keep female friends to save my life. I can't deal with the pass-agg games. However, I LOVE my guy friends and just feel more at home with straight men. I've tried desperately to cultivate true friendships with women, but it never wor”
• Answered the question “I'm a female and I think about my ex a lot. Just wondering if males think about their ex a lot too. So do they?”
• Answered the question “Are ALL women jaded? It seems like anytime I go to my girl friends or family for advice about a guy, I just get the "he's an asshole, you deserve better" line. Call me an optimist, but I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. Men are people, too!”
• Answered the question “I'm a 20 yrl old demisexual and I've only ever dated other girls. I'd really like to try dating a guy, however. I'm just not sure how to go about it, since I need to be emotionally invested in someone before I can be attracted to them. I know that kind of”
• Answered the question “Ok, the bf says that he wouldn't mind if I got pregnant and seemed genuinely disappointment that I wasn't. That kinda surprises me. Should I be concerned? Isn't that attitidue rather unusual? I love him, but we're not even engaged yet. Your insight ”
• Commented on im beautiful and nice...however b/c im pretty, everyone hates me and i cant make friends or get a boyfriend..my life is difficult isolation and not by choice and there seems to be no route that changes this...
• Answered the question “yes?”
• Posted “Man-tickler” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on im beautiful and nice...however b/c im pretty, everyone hates me and i cant make friends or get a boyfriend..my life is difficult isolation and not by choice and there seems to be no route that changes this...
• Answered the question “Whenever I'm mad at someone, I give them the silent treatment. I know it's bad, and immature, but I can't help myself. It's like I can't bring anything up -- I just go mute. I sulk in silence. Is there anything that could help me open up?”
• Posted Do Women Really Like Independent Boyfriends and Husbands? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “im beautiful and nice...however b/c im pretty, everyone hates me and i cant make friends or get a boyfriend..my life is difficult isolation and not by choice and there seems to be no route that changes this...”
• Answered the question “I need help, Panama! I'm supposed to meet my dad's gf of 5 months this weekend, when my mom died 6 months ago. I can't put it off any longer, but I really don't know what to do. I've already talked to him about it and he refuses to see my side; while I se”
• Answered the question “Hi! I'm naturally a high-maintenance woman. I was not conscious of it until someone told me that I was. Are males not attracted to high-maintenance girls? And should I change to become a woman who is less high-maintenance?”
• Answered the question “He used to say "I love you" to me all the time, (My boyfriend). But now he doesn't, at all! I tell him I love him but I don't get it back. Why has he stopped? I mean what are reasons why a guy would stop saying the "L" word?”
• Posted Mind-Blowing Sex: Myth, Legend, or Happens In DC? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I dont have a job right now and my fiance' is starting to disrespect me and make sure that I know everything is hers. Is she ready to be married to me???”
• Answered the question “Will I always take back seat to his ex wife and mother of his children? His kids are 17 and 18, and he is constantly doing things with the ex and kids.”
• Answered the question “Panama, when it comes to guys, I try to remember that it's never worked out and not to get my hopes up or read into things, but they always go up. I hope it's going to be good, and being rejected/disappointed every single time is getting very hard to hand”
• Answered the question “What is the best polite way for a woman to suggest girth surgery to her man?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend of a month is still "single" on facebook. It bugs the hell out of me. But I know for a fact that he's give me a hard time for bringing it up, because apparently talking about facebook is considered immature.What can I do?”
• Posted Are We Who You Think We Are? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Have you ever been recognised as one of the 'guy speak' guys? I would totally recognise you lol well, except for MM obviously.”
• Posted “Swacket” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “GBFF, do you think there is a huge social pressure on people, especially chicks, to be in a relationship? People think it's weird I want to be single for right now (even the guy I've been dating thinks it's odd I don't want to jump into a relationship wit”
• Answered the question “Hey there Girls' BFF! My ex and I have been broken up for about a year now. Recently, he told me he wanted me back but has done nothing in the past year to show he even cares or still has feelings. Is he just talking or does he really mean it? If he means”
• Answered the question “I'm in love with my best friend but there's one problem. We're married to different people. Is it worth persuing? He's hit on me MANY times and I guess I just wanna know if he's really into me too.”
• Answered the question “GB: I txtd a guy for a week around the beginning of the month. It was fun and flirty and going somewhere, but then it just stopped.I txtd him once since and he didnt reply.I dont want to be persistent, but I want him to want me, and Im done being single.H”
• Answered the question “We just got married last year. A month ago he walked out irratically saying he isn't happy and wants to end our marriage. He has a girlfriend he introduced to his mom as a "friend" when he took her over there for dinner. What the hell? We have a child we ”
• Answered the question “I slept with a former prof. We were not on the same page. After, he treated it like a hookup & I thought it wasn't. He's either in the closet or bi at the least, and didn't want to hurt my feelings & lead me on. We've already had a convo. about staying fr”
• Answered the question “A family member told me "no one can stand you, good luck getting a man." Which has really become ingrained in my mind, Ive come to accept this...In part because I know I am a bitch, little drama but extremely critical and labeled "paranoid." Yet I always ”
• Answered the question “Ive always noted that most men like very loud, flirtatious women. I know it makes men feel good, but Im not those kind of women. Its just not who I am. Let me know why this is the case. Why do men only seem to be drawn to very positive, loud flirtatious w”
• Posted A Simple Solution To Predicting A Man's Wang Size to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Loophole Smang” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted One Night Only? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Can you tell if a man will 'trade up' in the future. Meaning can you tell if they will marry a girl and then divorce for a newer better model in like 20 years? Are there signs for this type of behavior?”
• Answered the question “BFF, shoot straight with me. The guy I've been dating for about a month is never being "romantic" with me, he always goofs around and I feel like he doesn't take me seriously. I want him to open up to me at some point. Should I say something or will I pas”
• Answered the question “Girl's BFF, please help me get a better view. It's great my fiance values family above anything else but it's starting to make me feel like I'm nothing compared to it and he can just easily replace me with someone new, whereas family stays forever. If I m”
• Answered the question “So, my bf of (almost) six months says he wants to be with me forever. I love him, and he is by far the GREATEST guy I've ever dated. The thing is, I'm not sure if that's a "normal" thing to say in a five month relationship (I don't have much experience, t”
• Posted Since You Love Me, That's Your Job Now Fella! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Have you ever dated a girl, let her go thinking she wasn't the one for you then a while later ran into her and realized your mistake? Or is that just something every girl wishes would happen? real? or myth? lol”
• Posted “Wang Watcher” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Gnome” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Long story short: an acquaintance set me up with his best friend, we dated for a year and just broke up. Hung out with acquaintance for first time since split, he got gropey, even though he has a woman at home. Feeling sleazy, but tempted...is temptation ”
• Commented on I was at McD's, and this black guy came up and asked me a lot of questions, like my age, name, relationship status, etc. I thought he was too intrusive, so I was already uncomfortable, and he somewhat belligerently asked if I'd date a black guy. How was I
• Answered the question “I was at McD's, and this black guy came up and asked me a lot of questions, like my age, name, relationship status, etc. I thought he was too intrusive, so I was already uncomfortable, and he somewhat belligerently asked if I'd date a black guy. How was I”
• Answered the question “Dear Girls' BFF: There's a guy that I like, who of course doesn't really know I'm alive. Meanwhile, tons of guys I would never date are all over me. Have you ever noticed you always get hit on by the ones you don't like, while the one you do like could ”
• Answered the question “So my relationship with my baby's daddy is poor. I think I still might have feelings for my ex. My ex moved 3,000 miles away. Is it crazy to want to go to find him?”
• Answered the question “Have you ever, not just loved, but fell in love with one of your BFF girl friends?”
• Answered the question “Okay BFF, what kind of shoes do guys like to see their girls in?? Are my go-to sky high sexy heels really a boner-maker? Thanks :)”
• Posted Before We Date, Are You My Sister? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “my boyfriend's best female friend is coming to visit him. she's also an ex-girlfriend. he plans on us all hanging out which i'm okay with. but is it fair for me to be uncomfortable with her staying at his place? how can i bring this up without sounding co”
• Answered the question “Okay, so I like a guy but he has problems with my gay friends. How do I deal with the balance beam of following my attraction to him, but not relinquishing my awesome buddies who also like other guys?”
• Answered the question “What is the protocol for eye contact during sex? Is it hot or awkward?”
• Posted Yes, I Will Marry You But Kissing Is Out Of The Picture to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How do I support my friend who thinks she is bisexual without influencing her decisions about her sexual orientation?”
• Answered the question “If I like depressing things, I.E movies, studying different personality disorders, into dark poets and musicians, then does that make me a depressed person?”
• Answered the question “Girls BFF, need your insight. Dating for a month, says he wants to give us a fair shot. Other night, a female friend spent night. He swears no sex, not even kissing, but admitted they spent all night cuddling and talking till 4 am. WTF?!?”
• Answered the question “It's been three years and I want something back from my ex. Is it kosher to ask for it back?”
• Answered the question “Hey Mr. DCer! I had asked you a question about the guy I REALLY liked who was sending mixed signals so I sadly ended it. Well he came back, said he cared for me and asked to be my "friend." Can you confirm that this sorta means- "Can I please keep tabs on”
• Posted Keep The Baby?: Choices We Make And The Decisions We Don't to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Girls' BFF - please share your advice!! I've been dating a guy for almost 3 months now. Everything's great! The past couple weeks he's been texting less and this week I didn't see him at all. Are we at the end? I heard guys don't have the balls to break i”
• Answered the question “Dearest Panama, I need your insight! I hooked up with a good friend and he hasn't contacted me since that night. He told me that he had been into me for months and that he wanted to continue a casual thing (which is totally fine with me) until I leave for”
• Answered the question “PJ- IS HE FULL OF IT? Met online and been dating this guy for 3.5 months- he is attentive, loving, sincere. He just divorced and isn't ready for full on relationship but love is blooming. He just put up new profile photos on dating site and I flipped out.”
• Answered the question “is talking annoying during sex ?”
• Answered the question “Why do guys always seem to go for the same girls? Is there some sort of competition that feeds into this or something?”
• Posted “Angler” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What kind of breakup excuses from guys are legit and which are not? For example, my ex says he wants to be alone no relationship with anyone, never wants to marry or have kids. We've been broken up for a year and no new girl in his life. Is his excuse tru”
• Answered the question “Hi, why won't my boyfriend poo in front of me?”
• Posted “Twitter-Pated” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Twitter-Pated” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Twitter-Pated” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted Can You Be In A Romantic Relationship With No Sex...Ever? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “PJ - what do you think of the possibility of never falling out of love with someone? I fear two things: 1) i'll never get over an unrequited love; 2) even if i do, the guy i end up with will have some woman in his past who he loved the most and is settlin”
• Answered the question “do most black guys with no job date white girls to take care of them?”
• Answered the question “My husband says he's never liked blow jobs -- they feel like a message to him -- pleasant enough, but not sexually arousing. Have you ever heard of this before?”
• Answered the question “My BF is engaged to a girl who gets psychotically jealous if we so much as text. So, he's now my former BF. What the HELL?”
• Posted Quickies Are Good For Morale to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Honeybadger Love” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Honeybadger Love” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Hey Panama, Have you ever gone through a situation where you fell in love with two people at the same time? In such a scenario, how can we actually recognize, whom we really love?”
• Answered the question “Dear BFF, you just answered a question and said "When dating anybody you have to put your trust in them." And you're right - dating does require trust. But on the other hand, you can't control another person's actions and you can never really be 100% cert”
• Answered the question “My bf got a txt where the first half of the txt pops when its received. I was taking him his phone&read, "can we meet after my kids have gone to bed?..."-female. He says that she's going through a divorce&she asked him to help move stuff out of her house”
• Answered the question “Dearest BFF,You know the phrase 'Nice guys finish last?' Do u think the same holds true 4 'nice girls'? I fit into the girl-next-door, nice girl personality. Guys tell me I'm beautiful,but they proceed 2 have sex with girls at clubs cuz they're easier. ”
• Answered the question “Dear BFF, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now & I'm pretty sure I'm falling for him. Problem is I've never met any friends/relatives, we only see each other once a week because he's always busy with work, and we've never done anything else beside”
• Posted The Only Surefire Way To Get Noticed If You're Generally Unnoticeable to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I've been dating this guy for 10 months (o_0) and he has yet to share any real details about his past relationships, but he has hinted that they were pretty bad situations... Would it be wrong for me to email his last ex in an attempt to get this info? Ot”
• Answered the question “My husband's friend is very cruel to me when my husband isn't there. He says my husband doesn't find me attractive, sex with me is a chore, he doesn't understand why anyone would want me ect (Its only gotten worse since i became pregnant). I know he's lyi”
• Answered the question “I am a long time reader of guyspeak & have always been impressed w/your insight. My bf & I are going camping with my parents. He has only met them once. I am regretting inviting him. My bf & I get along well as do my parents & I; I'm worried disaster will”
• Answered the question “Dear Panama, I'm completely, totally heartbroken. I fell in love with a friend who doesn't feel the same way. It's been a while and I've tried to move on but I just can't. He's not perfect but he's wonderful and the sweet memories haunt me. What do I do t”
• Answered the question “Hey BFF what is your unbiased opinion for a girl who has been in a long term serious relationship but is slowly falling out of love with her bf? I don't want to hurt him but I really don't think he's the one for me. I've been with him since high school so”
• Posted How Twitter Makes Dating Difficult to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I hear that a) you should take things that guys say at face value and b) guys will say a lot (almost anything!) to get in your pants. Conflicting!! Is it a matter of context? What's your take on this?”
• Answered the question “Okay Panama. What is the deal! This guy and I have been steadily texting everyday for over a month, shamelessly flirting mind you, and we have talked on the phone for hours and hours on end. Then, via a random FB update, I find out he is "In a relationshi”
• Answered the question “My summer fling went back to his country and took one of my favorite books (which he read) with him. Is it a trophy or could he just want to have something to remember me by?”
• Answered the question “Why does he keep looking at my lips and checking out my ass if he has a girlfriend?”
• Answered the question “Panama I know you will know how to answer this question!How do you have class while flirting and not look too 'easy' but still show you are definetly interested???Thanks!”
• Answered the question “what does it mean if a man keeps telling you if you want out just say it? it feels like he is trying to get me to end things because he doesnt have the balls.”
• Posted “The Big O” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Deficit Spending” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted Ladies, Is Your Ex ALWAYS On Your Mind? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Apparently it's normal for a guy to ask for pictures of your boobs. So what if a guy sends you a picture of his boner after just 2 dates? Still normal? Or is he a perv? He apologized when I told him it upset me...”
• Answered the question “I'm black and I am attracted to both black men and white men. While white men look at me a lot, they never say anything.. In this situation should I go ahead and begin the flirting, or should I guess that they are holding back because while I may be nice ”
• Answered the question “Panama Can u help me If you are the one always texting a guy and calling and initiating everything does this mean the guy doesn't care about me? I really like this guy!!”
• Answered the question “Q : WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A GUY ASKS A WOMAN FOR NUDE PICS OF HER BREASTS AFTER TALKING FOR TWO YEARS .....”
• Answered the question “if a guy smiles at passing kids and talks about how cute they are, and what baby names he likes (not in the context of "our" future kids), does that mean he's not freaked out by the idea of kids with you?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when there's nothing obviously wrong between you and your man but something still seems off?”
• Posted Ladies, Stop Cutting Off Our Dang Wangs! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend didn't come to my birthday party. He didn't call or text that he wasn't coming =he wasn't dying,etc. Been together for over a year. We have a family cruise planned in one month. I'm breaking it off with him. Should I allow him to go since he ”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years and I just caught him talking shit about me to a girl he worked with. What does this mean??”
• Answered the question “would you say that there is "attraction" between a man and a woman who have never seen each other, but talk for hours on the phone most days and tell each other most things?”
• Answered the question “Dearest Panama, please help! I've totally lost my confidence. I used to be happier but a string of rejections (lasting many years, with no success in between) has got me feeling awful. I've literally never had any romantic success and it feels HORRIBLE. I”
• Answered the question “Dear BFF, one of my best guy friends is kind of a belligerent drunk. It usually isn't a problem for me, but over the past couple months he's started hitting on me while drunk and I have a hard time getting him to take no for an answer. Help?”
• Posted The Casey Anthony Verdict: A Reaction to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “If a guy wants sex ALL the time is he using it to cover up pain?”
• Answered the question “Hi Girls' BFF - my friend just met a guy who's perfect for her. Only problem - he has a gf of 2 months. Neither has done anything inappropriate, but she now keeps talking about waiting to see what happens. Should I encourage her to wait? Or to move on? I ”
• Posted “Boxtease” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted She's Out Of My League? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Whats the deal with men and cuddling? my ex of 5 months and i have slept in the same bed many times with no contact Suddenly this weekend i slept over and he cuddled me all night without trying to hook up though he was hard all night and had a hand on my ”
• Answered the question “What does "kinda seeing someone" mean in response to an inquiry about his relationship availability?”
• Answered the question “Alright, lay it out for me BFF. I've always made a conscious effort to be the "cool" girl who doesn't show jealousy or talk about feelings and/or couple status. I always thought that guys liked the slightly detached girl who lets him do his own thing, but”
• Answered the question “Hey Mr. DC! From one DCer to another, help! I ended things with I guy I really liked and dated for 3 months because he wasn't ready for a relationship. But he comes back to me and says he could see himself marrying me one day.Two months later he is dating”
• Answered the question “Is there such a thing as being too loud during sex? Not dirty talk, but moans, groans, etc. I was told something along the line of "like havin sex with a porn star" cause I was vocal. Not sure if its a good thing or a bad thing. I just prefer to express m”
• Posted “Pillowtop” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Pulled A Lebron” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Pulled A Lebron” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “We've been together for 11 years. He keeps coming up with "reasons" he wont commit. I'm calling BS on all of them at this point. I'm 48, divorced w/ adult kids, he is 51 never married. Both employed, live separately. He has many wondrful qualities. Just ”
• Answered the question “I live in Kuwait and the man is i'm in love with has gotten an ethopian woman pregenat. He says he has married her because of the health insurance and this country is strict about having babies out of wedlock. asks if i can be patient with this situation.”
• Posted Women Plain Don't Trust Their Own Instincts to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “hi bff! i may sound cheery but i'm actually not. sometimes i think i'm bipolar. i'm pretty sure it's because of men. one day i'm very happy and don't care about having a man in my life, the next couple of days i really want someone to love me in a relatio”
• Answered the question “Dear BFF, I have been dating this guy for three months and everything has been great. A few days ago he told me I have great "long term potential". I thought "ok" , but then after he said that to me he has been missing in action (not calling or emailing)”
• Answered the question “I confess this was a bad prank, felt bad as soon as i pulled it. But I pranked my bf(who doesnt want kids)leaving a very believable message saying id been calling and that I was pregnant.I thought he'd freak out but he was calm and when I told him it was ”
• Answered the question “Kissing at red lights or in traffic, acceptable or no? I'm talking at just about every light.”
• Posted Men Want Exceptional, Women Want Accessible to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “*Best of two evils: a man who does sh*tty things and realizes it, and admits it without wanting to change anything, or a man who isn't aware that he's being shitty? Pray tell.”
• Answered the question “Hi! I'm wondering if it's true that guys look for hot chicks to have sex, but for potential girlfriend, they'll rather get a pretty than hot girl, a much decent one in comparison.However, I do heard of contradictions about guys being "not that into you ”
• Answered the question “hi girls' bff!! i get made fun of for not being able to sleep with a guy at least until after 3 months of dating (sometimes maybe until after 6 even?). when would you think is the right time? or after what types of actions that he takes?”
• Answered the question “Bff- My boyfriend broke up with me because he's unhappy with his life, wants to get a different job, go to grad school, and move out of his family's house. He said (and looks like) he's miserable with out me, still likes me and is miserable, but won't get”
• Posted “Lazy Bones” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Hi BFF, I'm meeting a guy for dinner, and on paper everything is good, except we aren't of the same religion. He's Muslim, and I, if anything am just spiritual. Will this conflict things if we want to date each other? Or, make it more serious?”
• Posted Weiner Dog to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What does it mean if a guy gives you a fist bump?”
• Answered the question “I asked my fiance if he was into threesomes. He said no. I don't really believe him. Are all guys into having a threesome? Is it even possible that my man is not into that?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend cheated on me via email with an ex-gf: telling her he thought about her when he had sex with me, that he wanted to f* her, etc. He's begging for another chance, listing all these reasons for why he did it & how he'll make it up. Once a cheat”
• Answered the question “I'm mexican and I'm dating the most awesome guy ever, and he's black. his family loves me and my immediate family loves him, but my grandparents are not happy about it. I don't want to disrespect them, but we've been friends for years and our budding new ”
• Answered the question “Any advice for a girl who is going to see her ex?”
• Answered the question “my boyfriend isnt thoughtful...he won't pick up my favourite muffin randomly, make a surprise trip to come see me (we live a little far), or ask how a big event went. He's forgetful as well! Is this a deal breaker?”
• Posted “Thinking Off” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “If a man cheats on his wife with the same woman for 4 years, hangs out with her occasionally, calls her, texts her, etc. (and tries to hide it), does that mean he has feelings for her? If so, why does he stay married?”
• Answered the question “Do guys change their mind? My boyfriend says he doesn't want to get married until he's 30 (he's 25 now). I told him I want it sooner. Should I be patient and hope that he changes?”
• Answered the question “are guys ok with girls dating multiple guys at 1 time? is it something she should tell the guys she is dating?”
• Answered the question “Hello you sexy boothang! See what I did there? Anyway, the ex bf just got back from a 2 week vacation. Why do I know this? He called and called and texted, just to let me know. He always does the random calls/texts to just say hi or see how I'm doing ”
• Posted Subtle Signs That Somebody Gives A Flying *CENSORED* About You to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend confuses me. We've been dating 6 months, and we have not seriously discussed marriage. If I tell him one of my friends is getting married he says "blech. why?", but then other times he'll talk to me and say "when we get married...".”
• Answered the question “BFF, please tell me if I am being a crazy gf. My bf and I always end text convos with "night babe xox" or something similar, but the other night I said "hope I dream about you, night xxxxxxo" and all he responded was "night". I got a little mad and he tho”
• Answered the question “PJ...I'm SKERRED. We r both 46. Met on match. He: divorced w/ 2 kids. Dating 2 wks, but clicked intensely both emotionally/physically. Met his kids/best friend. XW knows about me too. He is in full relationship mode (bought me toothbrush/gave me a drawer)”
• Answered the question “Why would a man not mention he has a child? Or talk about his child?”
• Answered the question “I get along really well with my new boyfriend's friends since I met them but it seems that now all of our plans seem to include them. How do I get more alone time with the bf?”
• Posted “Lovebox” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I'm black, my ex is white mediterranean. Ex called me a 'silly n-word'. We broke up and now he's on facebook flirting with every black girl in his friend's list. What is wrong with him?”
• Posted Actions, Words, and A Woman's Choice to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “A have a bit of a hard question here..my bf went to chicago for a week on business, and his ex (whom he dated for 5 years and is still friends with) lives there. He didn't mention whether they saw each other or not, but I saw a tagged pic of them together”
• Answered the question “What constitutes as a "good hug"? Some of my guy friends have told me that I give good hugs and I was wondering what makes mine better than other people's. Thanks.”
• Answered the question “Hey Girls' Bff. I read your blog VSB, and I'm obsessing about the whole attraction scale thing. I don't look like any of those women on the list. It freaks me out to know that people rank me by number and I feel like if I know what my number is, I won't”
• Answered the question “Hey BFF. I've been in a non-dating slump for a loooong time now and I know some of it is my fault because I rarely left the house but now I'm ready to go! The only problem is I have no idea where to start. Any advice on where a nice regular girl should go”
• Posted “Boothang” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted 5 Reasons You Should Just Call To Say That You Love Him or Her to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What does it mean if your boyfriend never invites you over to his house?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy keeps pushing to sing a romantic karaoke song with you at a bar?”
• Answered the question “Dear GORGEOUS BFF (See how I suck up to get u to answer my question?) ;)My crush is on a 'banging spree' due to a breakup. However, he said he won't make a move on me b/c he likes/respects me but isn't in the right place to date me. Can players actually”
• Answered the question “Im a short lady with some meat on my bones. Plus, really big boobs, but Im attractive I would say. My question, why are some guys so skinny ? I feel like my huge chest will knock them out or something. I feel attracted to some, get ask out, but stay hesit”
• Answered the question “Hi BFF! Please settle a Friend Zone argument: Will a guy ever really put a girl (one he spends a significant amount of time with) in the friend zone? My male coworkers say no bc the thought of hooking up is always there. Are they right or can a guy and gi”
• Posted The Opposite of Winning to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Confession: I get jealous. It affects my friendships. I usually try to hide it, pretend it doesn't bother me...but that ends with me saying something I regret. What are ways to combat this? Not feel so jealous? UGH, I hate this trait!”
• Answered the question “How do you tell someone that the reason that you broke up with them was b/c their sex was horrible? I was dating this guy for about a month & everything was great Some thing were a little iffy, but nothing that was TOO bad. But when we finally had sex, it”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend wants me to be more "vocal" in bed. He wants me to tell him what to do to me and said I could "dirty it up". I often have no idea what to tell a guy to do. It turns me on too, but I'm a little shy. How do I get comfortable talking dirty?”
• Answered the question “My BF always wants to wear a condom, even when I tell him not to. I am not on birth control, so maybe he is freaked of a pregnancy, but still, I think most guys would totally jump at the chance of not having to wear one. Plus, I was a virgin so no STD cha”
• Posted Why This Royal Wedding Might Be More Boss Than I Thought to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Bone Collector” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy says "don't fall in love with me"?”
• Answered the question “do guys like getting cute texts like "I miss waking up next to you" or "I like you the best" etc? Or do they find it clingy and cheesy?”
• Answered the question “Oh dearest Girl's BFF, please help! Met a new guy yesterday. Started skyping. First date is Saturday. He already wants to give me a nickname. Really nice guy, but I think he's already too enthusiastic about this. Help? Please?”
• Answered the question “I really need your insight, BFF. Been with my boyfriend for about a year now and here are the things that bother me: 1.) He never says I love you first, only replies when I say it 2.) He never initiates sex (he always says it should come from me) 3.) He h”
• Commented on I'm sick of hearing guys say that all women love jerks, and that if you act like a dick to her instead of a "Nice Guy" they'll get the girl, simple as that. So stupid! GBFF, please tell me most guys know this is BS. Can you enlighten me on this whole scho
• Commented on I'm sick of hearing guys say that all women love jerks, and that if you act like a dick to her instead of a "Nice Guy" they'll get the girl, simple as that. So stupid! GBFF, please tell me most guys know this is BS. Can you enlighten me on this whole scho
• Answered the question “I'm sick of hearing guys say that all women love jerks, and that if you act like a dick to her instead of a "Nice Guy" they'll get the girl, simple as that. So stupid! GBFF, please tell me most guys know this is BS. Can you enlighten me on this whole scho”
• Posted Drop That Thing: Odd But Sound Reasons To Drop That Zero to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My best friend is a guy, we are close and we cuddle a lot. He was there for me through a hard break up. Now he's just started dating a new girl and I think I am realizing a care more for him than I thought. Is it love? Is he my "emotional tampon"? Am I ju”
• Answered the question “How can I tell the difference between a guy who is laid back about making plans and a guy who's just not interested?”
• Answered the question “My guy and I have been together for almost five months. I am in love with him and I have been waiting for him to say it first. He just got out of a marriage about 5 months before we started dating so I think this is why it is taking so long. Should I ju”
• Answered the question “I want to send my boy a naughty picture for the first time.. When would be a good time? When he's at work? Sleeping so he'll get it in the morning? A few hours before I see him? Yes I know it might not be the best idea but I'm a big girl and this is my de”
• Answered the question “This new guy I'm friends with was really into hanging at first, and then suddenly he's been kind of off the map and hasn't really responded to texts from me trying to hang out. Coincidently, this started around the time he and his ex got back together. Wa”
• Posted “Don't Block The Box” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “When should I tell a guy that I have a child?”
• Answered the question “Sometimes he likes me to be big spoon... weird?”
• Answered the question “Facebook has become a revolutionary tool when it comes to relationships and hook ups, but do guys "facebook stalk" girls they are into like girls tend to do with their crushes?”
• Posted Sweetness and Cornballism, Man's Downfall to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is a virgin (He didn't tell me he was until after we'd slept together). He gets mad at me because I wasn't one when we met, and he feels entitled to a threesome because of it. I think that threesomes can be fatal to a relationship. What shoul”
• Answered the question “So, what do you honestly think about online dating? Are they all perverts, social retards or just guys who don't seem to find the right person?”
• Answered the question “Panama, I'm lost. I broke up w/bf of 1.5yrs 2 weeks ago...I did it cause I felt I HAD to..things weren't going well for a while. I still love him so much and I can't stand being without him. I'm pretty positive he's not exactly pining for me...I want him ”
• Answered the question “I found a text in my bf's phone saying that he liked me a lot but not like he did his female bff, with whom he'd tried to have a relationship before we met. Now I don't know what to do. I'm afraid to bring it up in case he thinks I was snooping (which I w”
• Answered the question “My new boyfriend is not affectionate. I know it's wrong to change a person, but is it possible this is a behavior that can be learned? Should I move on to find someone who can give me what I need? I'm talking holding hands or hugging. The only affection t”
• Answered the question “Why is my boyfriend so apathetic about becoming an uncle?”
• Posted “Burn Notice” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Do you think that beautiful women have it easier in life? I'm beautiful but my looks only made my life miserable. The men at work never take me seriously, the women treat me like crap, and everyone always assumes I'm a stuck up bitch even if they never ev”
• Posted Do You Have An Emotional Tampon, Ladies? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do guys notice pedicures? I keep my feet clean and moisturized and my nails trimmed and dirt-free. My roommate wants me to get one, but I hate the smell of nail polish and people touching my feet. Is this even a big deal?”
• Answered the question “I'm the maid of honor at my best friend's wedding and I'm expected to say something at the reception but I despise her fiancé, and he and everyone else knows it. I've kept mum since the engagement and I've been as supportive as possible, but I'm not sure”
• Answered the question “Riddle me this, GBFF. What is the difference between when a guy calls you "beautiful" or "pretty" instead of "sexy" or "hot"? Girls seem to think that beautiful is a love thing, whereas sexy just comes from a guy in lust.”
• Answered the question “any ideas for sexting a long-distance bf? I want to suggest it but am worried that he might find it too much of a tease since we can't actually see each other for a while!”
• Posted “Aw Sookie Sookie Now” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Sex has gotten pretty boring for me. I love my boyfriend, and we've been trying new things, but nothing seems to do it for me like it used to. I don't want to say anything to him because he seems quite thrilled with said new things, but gosh. Should I res”
• Answered the question “We are in the silent treatment and I want to break it. What should I start out by saying? Our fight was over him hanging out with two girls I don't know and I got mad and he knew it”
• Posted Someone Please Call 911...And Then My Ex! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How can you possibly get over someone you still love, and think about every day? And please don't give me that "focus on yourself" bullsh*t.”
• Answered the question “Do you ever just sit back and think to yourself like DAMN such-and-such person is so effing gorgeous that it should literally be illegal? Like, so breathtaking that the only proper response is to take a moment to pause thank God for making such a creation”
• Commented on On a scale of premium to 42, how much do guys like The Princess Bride?
• Answered the question “I had a FWB for a couple of month. But it's been more than a month that we "didn't see each other". He's going in 2 weeks into another country. He said he wanted to see me before he leaves. He is very handsome, kind of manwhore. Am i just being used or sh”
• Posted “Face Artist” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Commented on My boyfriend occasionally gets txts and calls from a female coworker late at night. He doesn't answer them right away because I'm there but I know he does the next day, at work. He hid her email address in an iphone Note instead of in his contacts. Is it
• Answered the question “Buying underwear for my guy... too serious? We've been dating for about 4 months... too soon? His boxers are terrible and holey and old and he works a TON. He says he just doesn't have time/buying boxers is the last thing on his to-do list...”
• Posted 6 Great Things About Spring And Dating to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend occasionally gets txts and calls from a female coworker late at night. He doesn't answer them right away because I'm there but I know he does the next day, at work. He hid her email address in an iphone Note instead of in his contacts. Is it ”
• Answered the question “This is gonna sound silly, but are there any sure-fire ways to make an ex come back (preferably crawl back)?”
• Answered the question “My confidence is extremely low. I know I'm attractive but every time I've attempted any date or relationship it's ended in disaster... I'm on the verge of doing stupid things, how the can I stop myself and/or get an egoboost?”
• Posted “Bad Vajay” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Hummer” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Hey Panama, I am newly preggers and it seems like my guy is withdrawing from me like he is mad at me. He says everything is fine. I am so emo and I am crying alot. I guess my question is is this a normal reaction for guys? I just do not feel the close”
• Answered the question “What is up with guys poking girls constantly on Facebook???”
• Answered the question “Would you prefer a woman with a perfect body-supermodel status-who has low self confidence or a woman with an average body but with a lot of self confidence. In a nutshell-how much does confidence really matter? Is it sexy on an unattractive woman?”
• Commented on The Three (Aggravating) Guys In Romantic Comedies
• Posted I Wanna Get To Know Ya to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I unfriended my ex on facebook (we're freshly broken up) 2 weeks ago because I was so pissed at him. Now it doesn't feel right anymore, but if I refriend him I'm afraid he'll think everything is "forgiven".... How long should I wait until I refriend him?”
• Answered the question “when a guy says "no" when you ask to look at his phone what does that mean?”
• Commented on Why do men send mixed signals?I have been dating a guy, exclusively, for 5 months. We see each other 2-4 times a week, have celebrated birthdays,and holidays together We even each bought a puppy at the same time recently...when together there is no
• Commented on I'm 22 and a "thicker" girl - not quite chubby chaser material, but not skinny enough that guys go out of their way to talk to me. I've never been asked on a legit date before, meanwhile all my friends are entering long-term relationships. I'm told I'm a
• Answered the question “I'm 22 and a "thicker" girl - not quite chubby chaser material, but not skinny enough that guys go out of their way to talk to me. I've never been asked on a legit date before, meanwhile all my friends are entering long-term relationships. I'm told I'm a ”
• Answered the question “Why do men send mixed signals?I have been dating a guy, exclusively, for 5 months. We see each other 2-4 times a week, have celebrated birthdays,and holidays together We even each bought a puppy at the same time recently...when together there is no ”
• Posted Wangs and Wedding Bells to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Hey BFF, why are black men (sometimes spanish men also)more upfront about what they want than other men, say white men and asian? Its pretty obvious what they want, but is it because logically it may be that white men has too big an ego for the pain of re”
• Answered the question “Is it ok for a guy to talk about Beyonce (his fantasy) all the time? Yes, she is beautiful. I get it. But it is getting old. I know this may sound weird, but I have to admit I feel sad about it.”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend has a habit of not introducing me to people we run into out in public that he knows. It makes me feel awkward and it kind of hurts my feelings. Am I over reacting? He says he doesn't introduce me to people that aren't important to him but it ”
• Posted “Bi-winning” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “This guy in one of my college classes glances at me a lot and passes the bench in the hallway I like to sit on like 4 times in an hour. Sometimes I catch him walking by, and that seems to limit how many times he walks by. So I was wondering, if he's inter”
• Answered the question “Why does it bother me for my husband to look at other women?”
• Answered the question “What's so great about lingerie if you're only going to take it off?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend DOES NOT GO DOWN ON ME. I give him head before we have sex EVERY TIME. Told him if I don't get any he doesn't either. He jokingly said "well then I guess we're not gonna have sex!" He says he doesn't like to go down--I don't love to do it eit”
• Answered the question “I feel unnatural calling my boyfriend "baby" or "babe" in person. I love it when he calls me that. I can say "hun", but nothing else really. How can I become more comfortable saying that to him?”
• Posted “Homo Pantus” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Every time a guy has said i love you (everyone form my dad to best guy friends) somthing happens and then they are gone. My boy friend started saying i love you. And now i am going crazy paranoid thinking that means any day we are gonna be over.. I have t”
• Answered the question “Why do guys I'm pretty sure are interested in me always mention, usually more than once, how pretty or hot their ex was? (btw, huge vsb fan, bought the book!)”
• Answered the question “My guy walks ahead of me a lot, especially when we get out of the car... rude? or just absentminded?”
• Posted How To Talk To A Man To Make Sure He Understands You to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “If a guy introduces me as his girl does that mean he considers me his girlfriend?”
• Answered the question “"I'm just afraid of losing you altogether by failing you now." What does this mean please?”
• Answered the question “Help! I've been agonising over whether this guy is into me or realizes I'm into him. Right now, we're friends (& coworkers). We went out a few times,but he didn't make a move. He called the other day 'to catch up', then mentioned he was meeting a girl & w”
• Answered the question “So I've had a best guy friend for about a year and a half. We used to eat dinner together, chill together, I'd always be over at his house. Now he has a girlfriend and I haven't really spoken him in over a month... Was I just a potential lay or a faux-gir”
• Answered the question “I've been talking to this guy since the second week of first semester, and it was complicated b/c i had a bf. we broke up over break, but now this guy I've been talking to is afraid to commit to me despite admitting he's falling for me. why is that?”
• Posted Some Women Are Just Meant To Be Married to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Belieber” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “This guy got my number at the bar. I left the bar at 12:30am and he text me with a joke at 2am. I didn't return his text, b/c I didn't want him to think it's acceptable to text that late. Am I right or wrong?”
• Answered the question “When you like someone, it's normal to want their attention. But, it's not normal to blurt out your opinions and say outrageous, obscene comments. I know i shouldnt but i get nervous & lose control. Help! I want them to like me not freak out!”
• Answered the question “My husband and i talked about having kids while we were dating & agreed that we want them, but we never discussed how many we want. my husband just informed me that he wants to have atleast 6. he cant be serious, can he? how do i tell him that there is no”
• Answered the question “I'm a normal weight, 5'6/138 lbs. My mom, however, is overweight, though not grotesquely so... Probably a size 14 (she's 5'4). I'm 20, and worried about introducing my boyfriends to my funny, intelligent, caring mother because I'm worried they'll think I'”
• Answered the question “just broke it off with a guy ive been seeing for 5 months via text message. messed up? or common these days?”
• Posted Why Being Single On Valentine's Day Can Be A Win! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I've been dating a guy for 6 months and we have yet to be intimate. He has already told me he loves me and wants me to move in with him. While I'm head over heels for him too and am thrilled with the idea I kinda wanna know what kind of lover he is before”
• Answered the question “How should chicks go about dating guys she isn't sexually attracted to? It's generally recommended that women ignore attraction and focus sorely on a guy being a "nice guy."”
• Posted “Love.Hater.” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Is it weird to fall in love with someone you've never met? I've seen someone on TV several times & have read articles about him. He's not even my type. Yet when I see him on TV I get a weird feeling - like love. Am I completely insane?”
• Answered the question “so if a guy has been arrested ( but not convicted) does this count him out of the dating game with a very nice "good girl"?”
• Posted What's Good For the Goose Isn't Good For the Gander to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Me and my boyfriend split for 7 months, I dated one guy the whole time, but me n my ex just got back togetgher I just found out im 9 weks prego. HOw do i tell my boyfriend?”
• Answered the question “The past 3 guys I dated all have done this: suggested I date their best friend. They each mentioned that their best friend likes me and may be a good fit for me. Am I picking the wrong dude in the crew or are they tryna play pass the chick??”
• Answered the question “I was very drunk. He was sober. We've been friends for years. We had sex. Did it mean anything to him?”
• Posted “Boolovin'” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “i've been dating a guy for a little over 3 months now..he live in NJ and i live on Long Island and i've only been to his place 1 time and when i ask him to take me where is says No...should i be concerned? i started to fill like he is hiding something fro”
• Answered the question “what do you guys mean when you say were cupcaking it?”
• Posted The 5 A's of Relationship Success to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Can't Get a Chick? Get Some Passion to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I recently broke up with my bf. I didn't break up with him because I disliked him; I was just under a lot of stress at work & I became overwhelmed (I told him I just wanted a break). We were best friends before we dated & now he won't talk to me/look at m”
• Answered the question “Is it okay to ask a guy to prom as a friend if he's in a relationship?”
• Answered the question “Can best friends be sex friends without any feelings?”
• Answered the question “Is he thinking with his penis? A guy dumps me after dating for 2 months, despite the fact we have tons in common and great chemistry, so he can commit himself to another girl he just met and has a strong sexual attraction to but absolutely nothing in comm”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend of two years told another girl she was beautiful. But he did it on Facebook and I found out just by snooping around on his page. I confronted him about it and now he's mad at me because I'm making a big deal over something on Facebook. Should”
• Posted Things Guys Should Just Do...Because We're Guys to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Why would a guy ask me if I like his best friend?”
• Answered the question “Hey Girl's BFF, so whenever I ask my guy friend about any kind of event or get together, if he's coming, I invite him, he always says "Maybe." So do guys really mean maybe, or do they just mean no? I'm getting tired of his maybe's, I have other friends I ”
• Answered the question “If a guy asked me to do something fun, whatever I wanted to do, my choice and I told him I would let him know about it...should I be the one to bring it up since he asked me or should I wait for him to bring it back up?”
• Answered the question “So this is pretty pathetic but i like this guy but he has a girlfriend yet he always sexts me and what not so im just like a rebound/ bootycall and i just dont know what to do..”
• Posted “Dougie” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I met a great guy right before he moved to NYC and we had a few dates (no sex!). We kept in touch for 2 years, though we both had bfs/gfs in between. Now he lives about 6 hours away, and we've talked about meeting up. Is it worth it? Does he just want som”
• Answered the question “hw do sex feel to you?”
• Answered the question “I remember seeing a domestic discipline question on here so I feel a little more comfortable asking. Unlike the other question, I'm the one who wants to have a dd relationship. How do I bring this up with my bf without freaking him out? How would you feel”
• Answered the question “i'm an actress. my bf wants to break up with me because i have to kiss another guy in a play. the thing is, he's an actor too and has to do some pretty racy stuff with a girl in an upcoming play! if i can trust him, why can't he trust me??”
• Posted Why I Hate Uggs to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “WHAT IF I THINK MY HUSBAND IS ON THE DOWN LOW? WHAT CAN I DO TO FIND OUT?”
• Answered the question “Aight, so check this out: There is a guy that I met a year ago and we go to the same college. I am SO sure that he is destined to be in my life in some shape or form. We are somewhat friends now but I feel we should be closer. The thing is he has a girl (”
• Posted That Sex Toy Is The Bomb to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How do you tell a man you have been dating he smells?”
• Answered the question “Bow chicka wow wow.”
• Answered the question “i feel quite foolish...ive had this guy friend for 3 years and we recently got together...ive just found out hes actually had sex with all of his female frnds, i like him alot but now feel like ive been had... have i been had? please answer”
• Answered the question “I'm in a long distance relationship for 3 mo. Is it weird that he only likes to gchat and not talk on phone? Also he's only ever available during his work hours. I'm thinking maybe I'm a distraction for him rather than a relationship? Which would be terri”
• Posted “New Year's Jollies” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “We both said we weren't looking for a relationship and started having casual sex but after three months I feel like things are slowly starting to get more serious... how do I find out where we stand? Or do I just patiently wait and see where things go?”
• Answered the question “how to get your attintion”
• Answered the question “What's a good way to subtly ask a guy if he has a girlfriend? Please don't say 'just ask him'!”
• Answered the question “The guy I am currently interested in went through a bad break up about 7 months ago. I don't know what happened, but I can tell he is still not completely over it. Should I try and find out what happened or stay ignorant?”
• Answered the question “What are a guy's thoughts during a typical 1st date? I just got out of a long-term relationship and feel like I've forgotten how to do the whole 1st date thing! Please give me some insight!”
• Answered the question “Hi Panama..RIDDLE ME THIS...if a guy I've been seeing off/on 6 mo (no sex) seems 'emotionally unavailable' [commitment phobe, mommys boy,avoids intimacy,etc] but says he wants to change and start off new year with goals, etc...do I tell him I think he's E”
• Posted New Year's Eve Do(')s And Don'ts to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “If a man threatens to leave because you're too nice or curteous does that mean I have to stop being too nice or does he need to get over it and enjoy being pampered?”
• Answered the question “Did you ever wish that a girl's personality could be in another girl's body? There's this great guy at work who is hilarious and very sweet. I've been in relationships before where I got bored bc I wasn't attracted to them but also in ones where sex was t”
• Answered the question “I hate my life. Everything is awesome except I never got the chance to get with an incredible guy that I really thought I could have... He flirted hard core, and I didn't realize it at the time. Now I'll probably never see him again except for a status up”
• Posted 'Twas Some Days Before Christmas: Guyspeak Edition to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I was dating a guy for 5 months, and it was going well. Then he suddenly breaks up with me, saying he just didn't have a "strong desire" to have long conversations with me or share his life with me. He says he only came to this conclusion a day before bre”
• Answered the question “I've been talking to the same guy for 2 years every night on the phone, but I can't get him to see me regularly or even make any kind of commitment. Is he really interested in me? I really like him. What should I do?”
• Answered the question “Any advice for a good girl stuck in an unhealthy cycle of bad boy love games?”
• Answered the question “What type of bodily hair grosses guys out the most? Do they hate private part hair stubble, leg hair stubble, underarm stubble, arm hair, etc.?”
• Answered the question “I've been dating this guy for a while and it's starting to get a little sexual. I've never given oral sex before & I don't want to tell him that. Can you give me any advice on how to give good oral sex? Advice is very much needed and appreciated!!!”
• Answered the question “On my b-day I complained about some small things that bothered me to my guy. We talked through it and everything seemed fine. He wanted to have sex so we did. He called when he got home and we talked the next day. Then he stopped calling so I called him. ”
• Answered the question “Is it a bad sign if a male friend you like buys you PJs for Christmas? (Weren't sexy incase you were wondering)”
• Answered the question “I started a relationship with my best friend. We were both very flirty and he told me he loved me 2 weeks into it. However, after that he stopped seeing me, calling me, texting me, facebooking me, so I ended it. But now I regret ending it. Was that the ri”
• Posted Panama's Odd Christmas Gift Wish List to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “We've been hanging out for a few months now and we're both commitment-phobes. I'm not trying to put a title on it, but I definitely think I have more feelings than he does but I just can't seem to walk away from him... any tips for moving on to someone b”
• Answered the question “My man is very secretive, he does a lot for me but he still gets females phone numbers, is on his phone all the time and doesn't seem interested in me very much. What is that all about?”
• Commented on Why do people think that men and women are so different from one another? Both men and women do the same things, it's really more of a personality issue, not gender-related. Why are there so many websites like this, as if you guys just speak for all men o
• Answered the question “Is it okay to hang out with a boyfriend's friend alone? We have become good buddies over the course that I have been with my dude. What should I/shouldn't do here?”
• Posted “Cockblocker” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Why do people think that men and women are so different from one another? Both men and women do the same things, it's really more of a personality issue, not gender-related. Why are there so many websites like this, as if you guys just speak for all men o”
• Answered the question “Why are socks such bad gifts?”
• Posted Christmas Gifts You Shouldn't Get Somebody If You Want Them To Think That You Care to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “From a guy's point-of-view, after breaking up, which is worse?? Still being able to see your ex's facebook and seeing that she is moving on OR being completely blocked from everything and having no idea what she is up to? I want to know which one would dr”
• Answered the question “Help, BFF! I'm in a tight spot... I told him I didn't want a relationship but now I'm not so sure. I'm afraid to say anything but he's either not picking up on my subtle hints or is ignoring them. Any advice would be very much appreciated.”
• Answered the question “what happens when the pros and the cons of a person are exactly the same?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when a guy can remember what you wore when you first met him 2 years ago?”
• Answered the question “do most men want sons or daughters and why?”
• Posted “Devereaux” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “do man really stop wanting sex after moving in with their girl.”
• Answered the question “My bf of 1 month is REALLY clingy. He's constantly touching me (even when I'm trying to read a book or watching TV), texts me constantly and is always putting his hand down my underwear. He even dislikes it when I want to spend time with my boy pals. I to”
• Posted How To Send A Personal Text Message to 100 People During The Holidays to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “what does the saying blame it on the rain mean?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is the guy that taught Negative Ned all he knows. He is so negative, and the smallest thing going wrong will ruin the next week of his life, no matter my efforts to improve his day. It really takes a toll on our relationship- I am at the rece”
• Answered the question “What does "I care for you" mean?”
• Answered the question “what does it hug with two hands? Always touching you guy hugs you?”
• Posted Merry Thanksgiving and Happy Black Friday! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Should I let my guy do things for me that I can do myself? Case in point, I got in trouble for changing my own oil...”
• Answered the question “Do guys make mix CDs for girls they have no interest in?”
• Answered the question “Why do guys in serious long-term relationships (2 yrs+) cheat on their girlfriends? Why not just break up first?”
• Posted “Magic Hour” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What are some signs that my boyfriend wants to marry me in the future”
• Answered the question “Hi, I'm a guy living with my girl friend and she's always baby sitting her grand kids, that's a turn off for me. Should i feel that way?”
• Posted I Want To Thank You...Oh Thee Who Receives Minimal Thanks to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Just curious: When a couple splits up, who do you think is more likely to want to get back together and make the first move to: the dumper or the dumpee?”
• Answered the question “Do guys like big boobs?”
• Answered the question “Is it wrong to write a guy friend during basic training w/o telling my boyfriend? I don't think he'd understand.”
• Answered the question “how do i know when a guy is going to ask me out?”
• Answered the question “Why would my husband lie to me about seeing his ex girlfriend in a store?”
• Posted Kanye West Is Mad At Somebody Else...Again, Once More to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What is the best way to keep a man from wanting to have sex outside of the relationship...”
• Posted “Smang” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What is your opinion on taking a month long break in a relationship?”
• Posted Pay Attention And He'll Let You Know to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Butterface” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Dear Bff =) With a Smile! Why do woman want attention from a man 24/7? Because I Know I do, Then when he wants to play his video games, over kissing and cuddling with me, I get very angry. Whats my problem?...geesh.”
• Answered the question “why does my bf always talk to me about marriage and kids?”
• Answered the question “why do men answer a question with well see and not give a yes or no answer?”
• Answered the question “Is it ok to send a guy flowers?”
• Answered the question “I'm black and recently, a lot of people have been telling me "I can see you marrying a white guy." What does that mean...am I giving off some kinda aurora? I'm open to love, which means I'm open to whatever shade it may come in, but I've heard this commen”
• Answered the question “Long distance relationships”
• Posted “Debo” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Do guys stills view fishnet tights as something only prostitutes wear?”
• Answered the question “WHY THE HELL AM I STILL SINGLE??? Have i just not met the right guy? Am I too picky? Now that I've declined the guys I'm not interested in, have I ran out of options? There's no one left!!!”
• Answered the question “If you're in a serious relationship you should have contact every day. Your thoughts?”
• Commented on I have been seeing this guy for little over a month now and about 3 weeks into the "relationship" he sent me a text telling me he wants me to love him...just then he told me he loves me...is this possible?
• Commented on You Ma'am Have Entitlement Issues
• Posted You Ma'am Have Entitlement Issues to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I have been seeing this guy for little over a month now and about 3 weeks into the "relationship" he sent me a text telling me he wants me to love him...just then he told me he loves me...is this possible?”
• Answered the question “Do guys like it when girls make a lot of noise in bed?”
• Posted “Buttdial” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “My bf & I are in our mid 20s, have been dating just shy of a year, and overall things are great. Lately, he's talked about living together, getting married, having kids... and it's freaking me out. Aren't guys supposed to be afraid of those subjects? And ”
• Answered the question “I was looking through the internet history and found out that my boyfriend had watched a video of his ex-girlfriend masturbating. He has the video saved. How to I bring it up to him? Is this normal?”
• Posted “Woogirl” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What are your rules on ultimatums given towards the end of a relationship? He hasn't been putting any effort to making things work so I gave him an ultimatum, instead he walked away...now I want him back!”
• Posted Man Tactics 101: The Closer to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do men speak the TRUTH when they are drunk or stoned or both ie they really have feelings for you? What to do?”
• Answered the question “What happens after forgiving? He cheated, and I took him back. But I still get overwhelming thoughts of what he did, and how hurt I am. I want to make this work--how do I go about healing?”
• Answered the question “Gonna ask a guy for his number, I've never cared enough to do that, so yeah I really just want u to wish me luck, and give me any pointers?”
• Answered the question “Ok, my ex broke up with me a few months back, however, he's acting like I broke up with him and that he's the one with all the hurt feelings. Can you shed some light on this for me?”
• Answered the question “I'm a Christian and my boyfriend's an atheist. That doesn't bother me at all, obviously. I was just daydreaming the other day about us getting married, raising a family, etc., but then it hit me. I would want my kids to be raised Christian, but he might h”
• Posted The Girls' BFF Occasional Relationship Maxim Post, Volume 1 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Whats your opinion on domestic discipline? My husband wants our marriage to be a dd marriage. m not sure about this, what do you think about this ?”
• Answered the question “I just found out that my boyfriend went to a gay bar and made out with some dude. This isn't the first time my gay friends have told me they've seen him at the bar. I didn't know he is bisexual. How do I discuss this with him???”
• Posted “Waka Flocka Flame” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Posted “Toot It and Boot It” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “He said "I can't see myself marrying anyone right now." Does that really mean he just can't see himself getting married in the next few years, or was he nicely saying "I can't see myself marrying you. Ever." It's still early in the relationship, but I wan”
• Answered the question “How can I get a new handsome lovely guy who love me crazily and I love him crazily too and we like physics appraisences each other ?”
• Answered the question “OK im a Book hoarder... is that bad?”
• Posted How Hollywood Is Trying To Keep You Single to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I love each and love living together. It's not that I doubt his commitment, but why is it that he says he can't even think about marriage until after Grad school. I love him just the way He is regardless of salary, career, etc.”
• Answered the question “Hey Girls' BFF, one of my guy friends told me that he holds me in the "highest esteem". Was he being just nice or is guyspeak for deeper feelings for me? Please help me figure this out!”
• Answered the question “I screwed up big time and kissed my best friend ex, which was my friend at the moment supposely they were doing to work this out according to her, but according to him, he just doesn't like her. She hates me now and I hate myself.:(”
• Answered the question “Why does my boyfriend of six-months constantly brings up that he has a six figure salary? i get it, he makes a lot but why does he constantly have to mention it to me. he doesnt do this with other people, and didnt ever do it with his ex's.”
• Posted 5 Items That Justify Why The Self-Checkout Is The Greatest Invention Ever to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I recently discovered that my boyfriend is always texting his ex-fiancee. They cyber, send nude photos to each other, and every conversation ends with an 'I love you'. Is this cheating?”
• Answered the question “Should you ever post your location of FB statuses in the hope that your crush will bump into you? Or is that too transparent a thing to do? The guy I like is barely ever on FB anyway, but I haven't seen him in weeks, so I'm grasping at straws.”
• Answered the question “how do i tell a guy i recently dated and mostly slept with that i have herpes. He finds me intolerable and wont answer my calls.”
• Answered the question “Hey Girls BFF, you are the hottest guyspeaker! I've been with bf for almost six years now. Things are generally good between us but recently I found numerous affectionate and flirty texts, including pictures in her underwear on his cellphone from an "old ”
• Posted “Daddy stroke” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What if a guy tells you that you're fat? Does he mean it?”
• Answered the question “What does it mean if a guy says, "I cant believe I haven't *CENSORED* yet!" and it's 6am. Is this a good thing or not?”
• Answered the question “Why do girls always think they're the exception?”
• Answered the question “I've had terrible luck with relationships. I'm only 21, but I've been hurt and used so many times I'm just tired of the games. What's your opinion of online dating websites? Do they actually work? Is it worth it?”
• Answered the question “What does a guy mean when he writes, "I was glad to read your email"?”
• Posted Space, The Final Frontier to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I just started dating a new guy, but I'm still in touch with my ex. The ex and I are still very attracted to eachother, but have committed to a platonic relationship, which...is hard. I'm scared to tell this new guy, but I'll have to eventually. Advice?”
• Answered the question “Why do Y'all Take So Long To Tx Back”
• Answered the question “What does it mean when your boyfriend says you have a beautiful face?”
• Posted “Smashed The Homie” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “What does "half a step above friends with benefits" mean? Would long distance have anything to do with it?”
• Answered the question “Is "I really appreciate you" guyspeak for deeper emotions that a guy is uneasy relating to his gal? What do guys usually mean by that phrase? (I just always assume the obvious; 'he appreciates you, dummy'). Though, sometimes I feel that it's code for the ”
• Posted The Girls' BFF's Random Thoughts About The MTV VMAs to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Can i ask my ex what went wrong in our realtionship?”
• Answered the question “Is it normal to get hung up on the first person to reject you? I'm not pining for him, or anything, but my heart does still kind of jump when I see him.”
• Answered the question “What can I do to make him kiss me more?”
• Answered the question “I'm dating this guy who I feel is slightly out of my league. I've seen pictures of his last girlfriend and can't help comparing myself to her. I know there is some attraction or else he wouldn't date me. But he never compliments how I look. Any advice on ”
• Answered the question “Girls' BFF, you always have the best advice. Tell me, should I get married to a guy who unconditionally loves and adores me, has always been there for me for the last 10 years through thick and thin, and who will be a wonderful husband and father IF ”
• Answered the question “Will a guy not ask a girl coworker out because of fear of getting in trouble in the work place (for sexual harrassment) or is it more of fear of rejection?”
• Answered the question “I live in Finland and the guys are nice-looking but they seem to be a bit shy. I mean even if I smile to them they seem to be a bit terrified. Should I just go and speak to them?”
• Answered the question “Is there a way that a girl can tell if a guy is in a relationship? because sometimes asking can be very nerve wrecking and awkward when getting to know a guy.”
• Answered the question “People always tell me to take a chance on love, life and relationships. I try. But I my efforts almost ALWAYS backfire and I end up being burned. As a beautiful, young, African American college girl, are my options slim to none right now, or will my burn ”
• Answered the question “My freinds at work are trying to set me up on a blind date,the only problems are he lives in a different town and neither of us drive. Is it worth pursuing, or should I tell my friends "thanks, but no thanks"??”
• Answered the question “Dear BFF,How in Pete's name can I get my friends to stop trying to set me up?! I got out of a serious relationship 9 months ago, and have been VERY happily single since, but they keep ignoring me and trying to "alleviate" my current state, like it's a f”
• Answered the question “Hey Panama, so...I direct theater and last night I got asked out by one of my actors - so I know him pretty well. He's a great guy, my age, same interests, relatively attractive...but I don't sense any chemistry. Is it worth giving it a try when I'm not f”
• Answered the question “How much of an age difference is too much, I am 19 and he is 26 and he has a four year old daughter. Is he just looking to get laid, or is he for real.”
• Posted The Man's Guide To Knowing If A Woman Is Interested In You to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What would make a man never give oral even when my hygeine is immaculate? I mean never, even after MANY years of being together and married. It's obviously not a deal-breaker, and everything else is great.”
• Answered the question “Can a women keep a relationship going if she gives her man all her money to support his habit cause she loves him?”
• Posted 5 Really Awkward Relationship Conversations to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I would love to have this answered by all of our guyspeak men, but what, in your opinion, are the top three things that tend to annoy men about women the most?”
• Answered the question “Two and a half years ago, at the age of 21, I won three episodes of Jeopardy. Whenever a guy finds out, his attitude towards me changes. Am I right to think that they're intimidated and/or scared of me? I don't tell guys up front, but they always seem to ”
• Answered the question “Girls' BFF can you be my BFF for one minute since my guy friends are too busy w other girls?! Okay-I only like to meet guys through mutual friends. I don't like talking or meeting guys in bars, the beach, stores, dating websites etc. bc I have a hard time”
• Answered the question “My S.O. wants to "take care of me". What does he mean?”
• Answered the question “How can I know a guy is a player by looking at him?”
• Answered the question “Do guys read meaning into song lyrics? Can a guy like a love song just because or is it usually because it reminds him of a girl he likes? Is telling a girl to listen to said love song a passive form of communication?”
• Answered the question “If my boyfriend is willing to pay half of my gym membership because I can't afford it by myself, does that mean that he wants me to work out so bad he's willing to pay the money?”
• Answered the question “Dear King Jackson...Just wondering, do guys generally prefer the "talkative interesting girl" or a "quieter smart girl"? To talk or not to talk...that is the question! That said of course you should "be who you are" but...to get noticed, you have ”
• Answered the question “If a guy invites you to see a movie with him and some friends after you guys have already hung out twice alone, does that mean he just isnt that into you?”
• Answered the question “Me n this chick were in an unofficial relationship however, we seemed super official. (meeting friends, being around family etc.) So official in fact, EVERYONE thought we were an item. (said she "didnt wna b in a relationship.") Shortly after she gets a b”
• Answered the question “why do people always ask the same questions on this site?”
• Answered the question “What do you do when you still have feelings for your ex? Not good ones either, murderous ones actually.”
• Posted Guyspeak Vs. Lemondrop: Does a breakup mean you lose your ex's friends too? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted Guyspeak Vs. Lemondrop: Does a breakup mean you lose your ex's friends too? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “why do men look at other women when they are with you?”
• Posted Engagement Seems Like Some Scary Beautiful S&*% to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Do guys call you back after they stonewall you for months?”
• Answered the question “Is it OK to send a courteous text/email to a guy to apologize? I had an awkward date with someone that ended uncomfortably. I just saw the guy in a bar with some mutual friends but I got stagefright and ignored him, rather than saying hi. Can I say sorry?”
• Answered the question “I would like to know what men REALLY think about a tatoo on a woman. Classy? Trashy? Social norms have changed, so what is the general opinion now?”
• Answered the question “How do u know if a man enjoyed sex with u, but doesn't say anything?”
• Answered the question “Is it weird to ask a guy about his past relationships ?”
• Answered the question “How do I save my best guy friend from being whipped?”
• Answered the question “This guy I've been dating wants space to date others to compare me to but when I told him I want to break it off he ignored it and thinks we are taking a break to figure things out? WTF??”
• Answered the question “I'm 29 and never been in a relationship. Is that normal?”
• Posted Life's Embarassing Little Moments Revisited to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I didn't contact a guy for almost a month after our first date, I went to Europe and had some other things come up, and when I finally emailed him last week, he just blew me off, I think I may have hurt his feelings...what should I do?”
• Answered the question “When a guy says you're expensive, is it a good thing?”
• Answered the question “I've read that book why men love bitches,, and I am by nature very nurturing. I cook, clean, do the laundry, etc in our house and I fear I will be looked at as the doormat. Is there such a thing as too nice? Do men really love the bitches?”
• Answered the question “How can I figure out whether my best guy friend that i've known for 7 years wants to date me???”
• Answered the question “I recently found out that while my ex boyfriend and I were dating, my gay best friend and my ex boyfriend were also sleeping together behind my back. Should I bring this up with my gay best friend, I mean if this were a girl doing this I would have her a*”
• Answered the question “What do guys think about the first time their girl farts in front of them?”
• Answered the question “My online guy asked me if I floss my teeth, said he can't stand bad breath and began to rant about a hot doctor who had it. Then I explained that some do have medical conditions that cause it. He said he didn't know about it. Is he too shallow?”
• Answered the question “What does a married guy mean when he says he wants to spend the night with you?”
• Answered the question “What's the ultimate guy flick? My SO's in rehab following an accident and until he's allowed to be fully mobile again we've decided to have date nights in. He's a keeper, and I want to impress him with my taste in movies! Please don't say 'Braveheart'.”
• Answered the question “Would a guy friend modificate his behaviour around you if he discovered that you're into him ?”
• Answered the question “What should I think about a guy who has asked me out, calls me frequently, gives me gifts and things like that..does he like me?”
• Answered the question “He has gf. We are close friends. Not super intimate. Just like brothers. I wanna steal him from his gf! Can I?”
• Answered the question “Are little dogs good choices for pets?”
• Answered the question “I drunk texted a guy that I like and said that I wanted to F*** him ( I don't even remember sending the text). The next day I said that I was sorry, but know he does not want to be my friend anymore. Is this normal or is the guy being a idiot?”
• Posted GuySpeak Vs. Lemondrop: Is It Okay to Facebook Stalk Your Crush? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “In what way exactly should I hug a guy in order to turn him on?”
• Answered the question “Why do guys put the good girls in the "friend zone?" Why do they sleep with the hot to trot girls, yet want to do everything else with the good girl? Will the good girl ever win? I'm the good girl that he talks to hours every day, we eat together, he c”
• Posted Signs That He's Not Calling After...You Know to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “A 56 year old guy in a relationship seeks treatment for back pain (including massage therapy from a young female in a chiropractic office). Should his woman be concerned about this body massage, nearly naked?”
• Answered the question “What do men notice in a girl first (physically), and what makes them hooked for good?”
• Answered the question “My boyfriend's best friend keeps making sex jokes about me and jokingly suggests that I become a porn star. Does this mean anything and how do I stop his guy friend from cracking sex jokes about me?”
• Answered the question “my boyfriend's white, and i'm...not. haha he wants me to meet his parents, but i'm really scared they won't like me (he comes from a very different type of area) what do i do?”
• Answered the question “Is it okay to say I love you first?”
• Answered the question “I think honesty and trust is the #1 important thing in a relationship but how honest ? If a guy asks me out and I clearly have no intentions of going, do I need to let my boyfriend know that?”
• Posted Things You Should Just Keep To Yourself to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How do i get through to a thug?”
• Answered the question “Just moved in with my Boyfriend, I love doing the domestic stuff like cooking and doing his laundry. I don't want him to feel like I'm "mothering" him by any means.. what do you think?”
• Answered the question “Why do guys always want girls to send them pictures on their phones? They say it's nonsexual too (which I don't believe). So, what gives?”
• Answered the question “How come if I bring up the word marriage just in casual convo, my boyfriend freaks out a bit and gives me a look. But he will bring it up and say things like When we get married..... ?”
• Answered the question “Hey man, ok how do I get my girl who I have been dating for a while to be more comfortable to show affection in public? She does it alot when were alone but seems to get shy or nervous when were around other people.”
• Answered the question “I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and he has not wanted to have sex for over a year. we talk about it, and he says he just doesn't want it and assures me everything else is fine - we are affectionate, and have a great time otherwise. how can ”
• Answered the question “Why is it that when white guys try to swag on me and I take them to task, they get all scared and go back to the circlejerk or just move on to some other chick? Do they just not like being kept on their toes/ prefer passive women?”
• Answered the question “I've been dating this guy for a year. It's a long distance relationship. He just found out his boss is sleeping with his ex. He's been upset for the last 3 days. He says he doesn't love her, he's just mad at his "bro"????????? What's the deal?”
• Answered the question “He was with me for 10 months and decides to leave me for another girl. He says he loves me but he never felt a "spark" between us and I want him back more than anything. How do I make him want me back?”
• Posted Cheater: Man Vs. Woman to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Norb” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “I recently went through a bad break-up and want to spend time with friends. However, they are all single and every time we go out to the bars - I end up not having fun and just wanting to go home. What am I supposed to do with myself?”
• Answered the question “Why doesn't my boyfriend tell me what he likes or what he liked about our sex? Even right after getting intimate, I can't help but tell him what I loved and what I want more of because it excites me.”
• Answered the question “Am I too quiet in bed??? My boyfriend always says youre so quiet when were in together. What should I do?”
• Answered the question “Why would a 40 year old man call a 38 year old female 48 times in one day, when they only met five days ago?”
• Posted She Didn't Even Hit One Golf Ball, Unless You Count Tiger's! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Once you have been labeled a tease is there any possibility of redeeming yourself in the guy's eyes? How would I go about doing that?”
• Answered the question “I make about $20,000 more than my boyfriend but he constantly wants to pay for everything. Is this an ego thing, should I just let him do it if he insists ?”
• Answered the question “I just moved in with my guy and how often does he expect me to "groom" and shave ? I can't reasonably do that everyday ???”
• Answered the question “Plain and simple: do guys find "bacne" unattractive?”
• Answered the question “Why does my BF always comments about his "size"..saying its too small or not big enough. Is he reallly fishing for a compliment or validation from me ?”
• Answered the question “Do men view women with child/children different to women without chil/children?”
• Posted Sharing Is Caring to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My boyfriend is a great guy .. we get along great ... ive been on cloud 9 since met him ... my friends and fam. love him as well . In 3 weeks he will be going to jail for almost 5 years. Im so confused ;/”
• Answered the question “I go to work 2 hours before my Boyfriend so I'm exhausted by 10pm and he wants to talk and accuses me of sleeping all the time. Advice ?”
• Answered the question “Women always flock to bathrooms together and we have our little routine, but what are some major Dos and Don'ts in the men's bathroom?”
• Answered the question “I know it may seem trivial, but what's with the toilet seat? Is it some need to prove dominance and not give in, or is there some block to the brain?”
• Answered the question “is it possible that my boyfriend could be cheating on me with someone that can be his moms age?”
• Posted Boys Gone Wild?!??! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “In winter, I sleep in pjs and my bf is a great snuggler/spooner. But now that it is getting warmer, I sleep nude and he won't even venture near me. What gives? I thought most guys would love to be next to a naked woman in their bed.”
• Answered the question “Why does my boyfriend of 4 years not want to bring me around his friends? I think im exceptionaly good looking? His friends and I never even met. Why?”
• Answered the question “How can i tell my Long Distance Boyfriend we have no future together unless he moves back?”
• Answered the question “how do i tell the guy im newly dating that i am leaving to the military in 1 month? I do still want a relationship with him”
• Answered the question “Is self - injury a deal breaker for guys?”
• Posted I'm Stuck In The Friend Zone and I Want Out. Help Me! to the Guyspeak Blog
• Posted “Manbaggery” to the Guyspeak Dictionary
• Answered the question “Do you mind if a girl bites her fingernails?”
• Answered the question “How does a 40-something woman go about getting a f*buddy? If you're just interested in sex, not a relationship, how do you find someone willing?”
• Answered the question “If I get off to girl on girl porn, does that make me a lesbian?”
• Answered the question “Would non-religious guys in their late 20's ever date a girl, who's saving herself for marriage? And how do guys feel about being in a relationship and committing before having sex?”
• Answered the question “Hey dude. I'm a guy and i'm in college. I have this female friend who i hang out with a lot and am very close with. She is undeniably promiscuous and isn't very selective about who she'll hook up with. My question is, why won't she hook up with me?”
• Answered the question “CREEPER?! Do men creep/stalk their exes?? It doesn't have to be anything big or threatening, but you know trying to figure out what's going on in their lives over the internet, through common friends, etc. I mean we all know women creep on their exes, but”
• Answered the question “what did you think of erykah badu's window seat video, PJ?”
• Answered the question “How do you guys like your sex?”
• Answered the question “Should I tell my closest guy friend that i like him a lot? Even when I KNOW he doesn't feel the same way.”
• Answered the question “Im dating a guy in San Francisco. I live in LA and I think he might be gay. We have had sex but he acts really feminine. Any sure way to tell instead of resorting to have my gay friends hit on him?”
• Posted Are All The Chicks Doing It? to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on My boyfriend has no interest in oral sex, giving and recieving. I personally love both, how do I get him or help him to change his mind?
• Answered the question “My boyfriend has no interest in oral sex, giving and recieving. I personally love both, how do I get him or help him to change his mind?”
• Commented on I recently took an interest in public nudity. I've gone to a nude beach, went on a topless hike, and tanned in my backyard naked. If I let my boyfriend know that I like doing these things, what are the chance that he'll just get freaked and dump me?
• Commented on I recently took an interest in public nudity. I've gone to a nude beach, went on a topless hike, and tanned in my backyard naked. If I let my boyfriend know that I like doing these things, what are the chance that he'll just get freaked and dump me?
• Commented on I recently took an interest in public nudity. I've gone to a nude beach, went on a topless hike, and tanned in my backyard naked. If I let my boyfriend know that I like doing these things, what are the chance that he'll just get freaked and dump me?
• Commented on I recently took an interest in public nudity. I've gone to a nude beach, went on a topless hike, and tanned in my backyard naked. If I let my boyfriend know that I like doing these things, what are the chance that he'll just get freaked and dump me?
• Commented on I recently took an interest in public nudity. I've gone to a nude beach, went on a topless hike, and tanned in my backyard naked. If I let my boyfriend know that I like doing these things, what are the chance that he'll just get freaked and dump me?
• Answered the question “I recently took an interest in public nudity. I've gone to a nude beach, went on a topless hike, and tanned in my backyard naked. If I let my boyfriend know that I like doing these things, what are the chance that he'll just get freaked and dump me?”
• Answered the question “What's your opinion of a 28 year old man who wants his parents to decide as to who he should be with?”
• Commented on HELLO GIRL'S BFF, TELL ME WHAT GOES ON ON A STRIP CLUB ON A SATURDAY NIGHT?? ESPECIALLY TO A MARRIED MAN??
• Answered the question “HELLO GIRL'S BFF, TELL ME WHAT GOES ON ON A STRIP CLUB ON A SATURDAY NIGHT?? ESPECIALLY TO A MARRIED MAN??”
• Commented on Things Women Concern Themselves With That Men Don't Care About
• Commented on Things Women Concern Themselves With That Men Don't Care About
• Commented on Things Women Concern Themselves With That Men Don't Care About
• Commented on Things Women Concern Themselves With That Men Don't Care About
• Commented on I always ask my boyfriend if I look good after getting ready. Does this annoy ya'll? cuz he always just gives me a generic answer "you always look beautiful"
• Commented on I always ask my boyfriend if I look good after getting ready. Does this annoy ya'll? cuz he always just gives me a generic answer "you always look beautiful"
• Commented on I always ask my boyfriend if I look good after getting ready. Does this annoy ya'll? cuz he always just gives me a generic answer "you always look beautiful"
• Commented on I have extremely large nipples, and feel like they make my DD breasts look weird. I am only 20, and very self conscious about my chest appearing saggy. Do guys care about nipple size?
• Commented on I have extremely large nipples, and feel like they make my DD breasts look weird. I am only 20, and very self conscious about my chest appearing saggy. Do guys care about nipple size?
• Answered the question “I have extremely large nipples, and feel like they make my DD breasts look weird. I am only 20, and very self conscious about my chest appearing saggy. Do guys care about nipple size?”
• Answered the question “I always ask my boyfriend if I look good after getting ready. Does this annoy ya'll? cuz he always just gives me a generic answer "you always look beautiful"”
• Posted Things Women Concern Themselves With That Men Don't Care About to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “My dad has been married twice (not including my mom) and I have a hard time trusting men because of what he has done to my mother and the other women. Am I being ridiculous or just normal?”
• Answered the question “Why do men shut down when women get angry with them or fight with them?”
• Commented on He doesn't want to engage in foreplay. Why not?
• Answered the question “He doesn't want to engage in foreplay. Why not?”
• Answered the question “My current boyfriend just said i love you and it has barely been a week and a half. What does that mean?”
• Posted Why Dating Old People Is Good For The Soul to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “As a woman, I've used my boobs to get a lot of things and to get guys to do me favors. [They can play, I can get my way] Is this wrong or is it okay if we both win?”
• Answered the question “One morning I went to work without a bra and my nipples got hard through my white shirt. My boss stared and now he keeps coming onto me. Cool to date the boss or not?”
• Answered the question “What do I do if I've been with my girl a year or more and she still doesn't trust me?”
• Answered the question “I'm 99% sure that I'm somehow incapable of having an orgasm during sex, but its starting to make me resent my boyfriend, even though I know its not his fault and I love him so much anyway. I cant tell him without killing his ego, but its been 2 years and ”
• Answered the question “Hi Panama Congrats on your two yrs on VSB I love that site!!!!! I have a question my boyfriend doesnt like to talk dirty to me, but I talk dirty to him in the bedroom and he loves it, so why isnt he doing the same for me?? Am I asking for too much thanks”
• Posted Relationship Frogger to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How do you get a guy to become better at eating out their girlfriend without hurting their ego?”
• Answered the question “I need your help, Panama. My boyfriend of 2 years still shuts me out when he has a bad day. He's dealt with depression before, and he's told me that sometimes he just needs to be alone with his thoughts. I'm trying to be understanding, but I stil feel hur”
• Answered the question “I'm getting ready to move in with my boyfriend, do I really need to ask his opinon on every household decision from now on ? Like how to decorate our bathroom ? Would this be rude if I just went ahead and purchased and did it ?”
• Commented on why dont guys listen to me? they always look at my breasts or my ass and its really REALLY annoying!
• Commented on why dont guys listen to me? they always look at my breasts or my ass and its really REALLY annoying!
• Commented on why dont guys listen to me? they always look at my breasts or my ass and its really REALLY annoying!
• Commented on why dont guys listen to me? they always look at my breasts or my ass and its really REALLY annoying!
• Answered the question “how can i get my guy to lick my butt?”
• Answered the question “why dont guys listen to me? they always look at my breasts or my ass and its really REALLY annoying!”
• Answered the question “How do I try and get my guy to try new moves in the bedroom with me?”
• Posted How To Lose Your Sexxy In 500 Words Or Less. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “If a guy confines a girl to the friend zone, does that always mean he finds her unattractive?”
• Answered the question “Is it really a rule that my boyfriend has to meet all of my guys friends in order for me to hang out with them? Is it jealousy or really a rule?”
• Posted My Favorite Things: The Spring Edition to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “I made out with a guy I met at a club two weeks ago for fun and we stupidly exchanged numbers. I'm not interested in him at all but I've agreed to meet him for coffee. Am I leading him on?”
• Answered the question “how do you tell your boyfriend that you have an std?”
• Commented on is flirting with other guys while in a relationship good?
• Commented on Is it okay for me to have a serious relationship with my brother, if we're not sure we're siblings?
• Commented on Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
• Commented on Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
• Commented on Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
• Answered the question “Is it okay for me to have a serious relationship with my brother, if we're not sure we're siblings?”
• Answered the question “is flirting with other guys while in a relationship good?”
• Answered the question “How do I get my boyfriend to get rid of the hair on his back?”
• Answered the question “If a guy who used to avoid a girl suddenly starts being nice and talking to the girl, does that mean that he likes her?”
• Answered the question “So... 6 dates.... no smooch.... lots of texting and calls between dates, but no smooch.... WTH?”
• Answered the question “Is it ok for a girl to wait for her man while he is in prison?”
• Posted The Girls' BFF Guide To a Successful Breakup to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “Is skin of all types attractive to men?”
• Answered the question “What part of the woman's body attracts men the most?”
• Commented on Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
• Commented on What does it mean when a guy says "My life is complicated"?
• Commented on Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
• Commented on Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
• Commented on Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
• Commented on Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
• Commented on Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?
• Commented on Things Your Man Might Say That You Should Never Believe (Under Any Circumstance)
• Commented on Things Your Man Might Say That You Should Never Believe (Under Any Circumstance)
• Commented on Things Your Man Might Say That You Should Never Believe (Under Any Circumstance)
• Answered the question “Why are black guys so infatuated with a women who has lighter skin? And also why are black men so into girls with big booties?”
• Posted Things Your Man Might Say That You Should Never Believe (Under Any Circumstance) to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “How do you interpret "Love ya" in a fairly new relationship. Is that hard to say "Love you", or is he just not feeling it?”
• Answered the question “Mr. Jackson, How do I get my boyfriend to show up on time? He is always late! He never calls when he is going to be late. I feel very disrespected and have told him SEVERAL times to knock it off, buy a watch, etc! ”
• Answered the question “What does a guy really mean or want when he says "text me later?"”
• Answered the question “Ok so I was seeing this guy for a week. We were official...i think. Anywho, i havent heard from him in a week. Should i call him to break it off officially or just not contact him at all?”
• Answered the question “My fiance said that now he just wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend and that he wants my "engagement ring" to be a "promise ring" . We been engaged for 2 years and he now decides to just stay boyfriend and girlfriend. Im confused. what should i do?”
• Answered the question “I'm 24 and I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years. I really love him, but recently I am beginning to feel like we don't have a future together. Do I end something that is good now if I feel like it won't work later?”
• Answered the question “how do you tell your guy (who prides himself on his body and the amount of time he spends at the gym) that his belly is HUGE and looks really unhealthy?”
• Posted Online Dating 101 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Answered the question “What does it mean when you first start seeing someone and the first night they stay over, they leave somethings behind, ie. boxers and socks?”
• Answered the question “How do you know if you're in a guy's friend zone?”
• Answered the question “If you told someone you loved them can you take it back? Also, if you are having doubts that you love someone should you tell them?”
• Answered the question “Why do black men prefer woman of the opposite race?”
• Answered the question “How do you feel about prenups? Yea or nay?”
• Posted Confusing Fashion Faux Pas According to Panama Jackson to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on How do I know a guy wants more than just sex?
• Commented on How do I know a guy wants more than just sex?
• Commented on How do I know a guy wants more than just sex?
• Answered the question “Hi Mr. Jackson, I love your honesty so I chose you to ask. I have been dating my ex for over a year exclusively. We are having a blast and this is the best time we ever had together! Actions speak louder than words so, when will I know I am his girlfriend”
• Answered the question “How do I know a guy wants more than just sex?”
• Answered the question “I'm 25 years old and I don't drink. It seems like most people my age do. Do you think that a guy would think I'm boring and don't know how to have fun if he finds out I don't drink?”
• Answered the question “What does a guy mean when he says I'm really into you but its hard to tell if we could make a relationship work?”
• Answered the question “My best friend of 9 years decided to stop being my friend because I dont get along with his "fiance", the catch is, he has not even known her for a year. I am still upset about the fact that he is letting some chick get in the way of our 9 year friendship”
• Answered the question “I've been dating a guy 2 months & have never been to his house... he says he single & lives with 2 dogs, but why haven't I been invited over yet???”
• Posted Why Men Should Thank The Heavens For Valentine's Day. to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on While wearing a low-cut shirt should a guy still be expected to look at our eyes...at least every now and then?
• Commented on What does he mean we need to end this?
• Commented on What does he mean we need to end this?
• Commented on What does he mean we need to end this?
• Commented on While wearing a low-cut shirt should a guy still be expected to look at our eyes...at least every now and then?
• Answered the question “While wearing a low-cut shirt should a guy still be expected to look at our eyes...at least every now and then?”
• Answered the question “What does he mean we need to end this?”
• Commented on Do guys compare current girlfriends with their exes ? Physically, in bed, or emotionally ?
• Commented on What do you do about a guy you are completely in love with, but he is convinced you deserve better than him?
• Answered the question “If your girlfriend were to make you dinner at your apartment.. should she ask you what you want first ? Or is it ok to surprise you ?”
• Posted I Can't Go For That, No No No: Dealbreakers, Vol. 1 to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on He moaned and said "ohhhh Susan" recently when I was giving him oral. That's great and all, but my name isn't Susan. He caught himself, and called me "honey" the rest of the time. We were together for 12 hours before that so why the slip?
• Commented on Quick Answers To Your Quick Questions, Vol. 2
• Commented on Do guys compare current girlfriends with their exes ? Physically, in bed, or emotionally ?
• Answered the question “What do you do about a guy you are completely in love with, but he is convinced you deserve better than him?”
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• Answered the question “My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and suddently he is having erection problems. The problem has been sporadic for month, but we've had NO success on multiple attempts for a week straight! Normally he is INSATIABLE. What is a girl to think?!”
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• Answered the question “My dad says men aren't interested in me because I'm overweight. I meet men, but they just want sex, not to date me. Is my dad right - that to 90% of men looks are more important than personality and the other 10% who like fatties are hard to find? ”
• Answered the question “I'm a webcam model and a lot of my surroundings kind of know what I do. Now all guys i know just look at me as a girl they want to have sex with. How do I change that and find someone that actually wants to get to know me?”
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• Answered the question “He says he's gay, but he likes to rub my thighs from time to time. So is he really gay or using being gay as a front to feel me up?”
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• Answered the question “I broke up with my boyfriend because I was scared he was cheating, I guess he wasn't. I apologized PROFUSELY. But he was so cold and doesn't want me back. How can someone who says "i love you" and "i want to marry you" be so cold? How do I get him back?”
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• Commented on 10 Resolutions for The Woman With Everything Except A Relationship
• Commented on If my husband spent thousands of dollars at a strip club, did he get "something"? He claims that nothing happenned. I beg to differ cause I would have got somthing for that much money!
• Commented on MM best friend who is a male tells me that I need to stop searching for a man because he will come to me. Now, is he telling me this because he wants me?
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• Commented on To reach for the bill, or not to reach for the bill? At the end of the date, does the guy want us to offer to split the bill? I did the courteous offer once on a first date, and the guy accepted.
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• Answered the question “Girls BFF -- i have large boobs but when the ole bra comes off they arent very perky becuase they are so...er, large. Is that gross to guys?”
• Answered the question “MM best friend who is a male tells me that I need to stop searching for a man because he will come to me. Now, is he telling me this because he wants me?”
• Posted 10 Resolutions for The Woman With Everything Except A Relationship to the Guyspeak Blog
• Commented on My husband of 43 years says he only has to be accountable to God. What is your take on this?
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• Answered the question “To reach for the bill, or not to reach for the bill? At the end of the date, does the guy want us to offer to split the bill? I did the courteous offer once on a first date, and the guy accepted.”
• Answered the question “Is it bad when I get horny from looking at other men besides my boyfriend? I don't act on them. Does that mean that I am not happy within my relationship? Also, how do I know if my bf (boyfriend) really cares about me??”
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• Commented on Me and my fiance have never had sex, we are waiting until we are married next october. I found porn on his computer, is it okay to get mad at him?
• Commented on Me and my fiance have never had sex, we are waiting until we are married next october. I found porn on his computer, is it okay to get mad at him?
• Commented on Me and my fiance have never had sex, we are waiting until we are married next october. I found porn on his computer, is it okay to get mad at him?
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• Commented on Why do guys tell a girl she's his girlfriend but tells others he's single and get with other girls behind her back? Why don't they just stay single then and play the field?
• Posted Six Women Who's Star Shone Bright in 2009 (Mostly They're Just Hot Though) to the Guyspeak Blog
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• Answered the question “Can men be faithful or is cheating something that will happen eventually in a relationship?”
• Answered the question “Me and my fiance have never had sex, we are waiting until we are married next october. I found porn on his computer, is it okay to get mad at him?”
• Answered the question “relationship that I had with someone long distance...after sending him some awful dirty pics of me? Also, we weren't really together so that is the tricky part.How can I recuperate a ”
• Answered the question “If a guy I only had as a boyfriend for a night but still talk to him as a friend stares at me constantly even while dancing or vise versa, what does that mean??”
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• Answered the question “I'm in a five year relationship with my sons father and I have some trust issues. Most of his friends are unfaithful to their girls and every time my man goes out with them he tells me what they do, but he swears he's not involved what should I believe?”
• Answered the question “How soon after the first date can one begin planning the wedding without being creepy or suggestive? And what about the names and occupations of future children?”
• Answered the question “Okay so me and this guy have been talking. He calls or text me everday with no initiation on my part. He told me he would like us to be friends. Yet he has sang on my answering machine and also written poetry with my name. What gives?”
• Answered the question “Should a girl hold out or move on when her guy tells her "let's be friends, but maybe we can be together later on?"”
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• Commented on Why would a guy be jealous of another guy sleeping with a woman he is just sleeping with if they are not in a relationship?
• Answered the question “Hi, I'm a single mother to a 3 month old boy and I'd like to know if guys would be really put off by this?”
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• Commented on I went out with a guy recently and it ended with us hooking up. We really hit it off and I texted him so we could hang out again. He said he would really like that, but I still haven't heard from him. What does this mean??
• Commented on I have been seeing a man for about 6 weeks. We have been spending a lot of time together. And we are starting a business together. The other night he said that we are like ships that pass in the night. What does that mean?
• Answered the question “I have been seeing a man for about 6 weeks. We have been spending a lot of time together. And we are starting a business together. The other night he said that we are like ships that pass in the night. What does that mean?”
• Answered the question “I went out with a guy recently and it ended with us hooking up. We really hit it off and I texted him so we could hang out again. He said he would really like that, but I still haven't heard from him. What does this mean??”
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• Answered the question “Why do guys always put there phone on silent or on vibrate when they are with their girl?”
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• Commented on What does it mean when he says he wants to marry me one day and live with me someday?
• Commented on What goes through a mans mind when he looks at another women while in a passionate and committed relationship with the love of his life, supposedly?
• Commented on What goes through a mans mind when he looks at another women while in a passionate and committed relationship with the love of his life, supposedly?
• Commented on What does it mean when he says he wants to marry me one day and live with me someday?
• Commented on What does it mean when he says he wants to marry me one day and live with me someday?
• Commented on What does it mean when he says he wants to marry me one day and live with me someday?
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• Answered the question “What does it mean when he says he wants to marry me one day and live with me someday?”
• Answered the question “What goes through a mans mind when he looks at another women while in a passionate and committed relationship with the love of his life, supposedly?”
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• Answered the question “Do men really like women to approach them? And if so, how? Direct or indirect? Subtly compliment him to get his attention or just tell him straight up how foine he is?”
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• Answered the question “Why do men want sex all the time?”
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• Answered the question “My bf and I have been dating for 2 months and it is going well. He recently went on vacation and has not called/contacted me since he has been gone. He is only on vaca in FL and I know for a fact that he has nationwide long distance. What's the deal?”
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• Mystery Man commented on im beautiful and nice...however b/c im pretty, everyone hates me and i cant make friends or get a boyfriend..my life is difficult isolation and not by choice and there seems to be no route that changes this...
  Panama answered exactly as I would have. A bit kinder, perhaps, but the same....
• rxy commented on Hi GBFF! Do you think what we see as beautiful can change? ex I get looked at/hit on by 30+ yos quite often but then guys my own age (I'm 23) rarely look at me. Older guys call me beautiful freely while 20 somethings rarely even give me cute. Do you think
  I dunno. I think of it more as a vibe thing. I am also 23, same situation. But I have come to realise that guys probably get a "Don't want to waste my time" vibe from a few chicks, whereas some give out a more "I'm up for anything/take the first thing coming" vibe... which means they attract more guys, because guys don't want anything complicated when their younger... at least that what I'm telling myself!...
• kamakula commented on I am a 44 year old woman. Am I completely out of the loop to expect exclusivity before having sex with someone? I've dated 3 men (long term) over the past 3 years and EVERY one has "cheated". They claim that we weren't "exclusive". I am now very wary
  My point still applies. Being f-buddies is a relationship too. One with no strings attached. The immature thing is not having a discussion about your relationship expectations. The first time around, you get a pass. Still haven't learned by your third go round, something is wrong....
• soda commented on why dont guys listen to me? they always look at my breasts or my ass and its really REALLY annoying!
  Maybe your cleavage is stealing all the attention? =) try to see if the same guys would still look at your breasts if you button up or something? I mean, I don't think you can be THAT uninteresting. ^_^...
• Shnon commented on What's Worse: The Porn Star or The Ex?
  Ex is worse. Someone he's been with, she is attainable, and if he still is fapping to pics of her he probably hasn't let go of her and might want to give her another ride, porn stars are way more distant and don't have any personal ties...