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- Who is your celebrity look alike?I've gotten comparisons to Jennifer Love Hewitt a few times. Also Judy Greer in her "Jawbreaker" days.
- Who is your celebrity crush?Jon Cryer. Who else can do Duckie like he did? Or look that good doing it? He's SOOO awesome!!!
- If you were stranded on a desert island and could only have two things with you (objects, not people or food) what would they be?My laptop and a trashy romance novel.
- Name one food you hate:Onions.
- How often do you talk to your mother a week/month?As little as I can get away with. I love her but it's better at a distance.
- Who is one person you would love to have dinner with?My best friend.
- Boxers, briefs, or freeball?Whatever the guy feels more comfortable with, but something's better than commando.
- Dog, cat, neither?I like dogs.
- Name one magazine in your house right now:The Alibi. Well, actually, that's my city's alt newspaper, as in, for people who actually think.
- What’s your favorite quote?"His name is Blane?! God! That's a major appliance! That's not a name!" --Duckie Dale
- What is your favorite song?Tie: Nocturne by Chopin, & Please Please Please Let Me Get What I Want by The Smiths.
- What’s your favorite movie of all time?3-way tie between The Breakfast Club, American Beauty, and Pretty in Pink.
- Do you text, email, or call?All three--except when I don't want to.
- If you could donate $1 million to a charity – which one would you choose?Autism Society of America, for my kiddo.
- How many days in a row do you wear the same socks?2 days, and only when I'm sick with the flu.
- If you had a daughter, and she asked you real nice, would you let her paint your toenails?Yep. Then I painted hers.
- Do you have any sisters, and if so, are they older or younger than you? If not, do you have any siblings at all, and where do you fall in the mix?Younger brother and younger sister, both in their 20's. Both are awesome.
- More about you?Live in the desert Southwest. Cowboys and their ilk are so annoying. So are people who assume I speak Spanish. I'm white, f**kers! I speak chopped American English, thank you. I'm a tightwad thrift-store junkie extraordinaire.
- What is your Twitter username?What the hell is Twitter?
- Your Astrological Sign:Leo
- What's your favorite sport?Don't have one currently. Does air hockey count?
- What's your favorite professional sports team?None of them.
- Do you have kids? If not, do you want rugrats one day?One kid. She's more than enough.
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- Commented on I was at a party and the guy that i like was hugging me and telling me how much he loves me and wants to make out with me. I didn't know if it was a joke or not so i said no, trying not to make a fool out of myself. He won't talk to me now.
- Commented on Have you and the other writers of Guyspeak ever met in person or is this strictly virtual?
- Commented on I recently discovered that my boyfriend is always texting his ex-fiancee. They cyber, send nude photos to each other, and every conversation ends with an 'I love you'. Is this cheating?
- Commented on i was doodling in my notebook the other day, it turned out to literally be the best drawing i've ever done. i want to show it off on facebook with all my comics. only i'm afraid this guy who always comments on all my art/videos will see it, it happens to
- Commented on OK im a Book hoarder... is that bad?
- Commented on I'm a 30-something 5'11" former model who still fits into clothes I once modeled.I run my own business, have 2 M.A.s, a killer wit, and agree with my friends that I'm "the package".So why do I have such a hard time finding GOOD dates? It's not a lack of c
- Commented on My wife is pregnant and wants me with her during the delivery, but I don't know if I can handle it. I don't pass out at the sight of blood, but I can't stand seeing her in so much pain. My heart aches when she has a simple cold. What should I do?
- Commented on Chic Geek, I've been wondering this for a while now: why are women with cats always painted as lonely and desperate? I seriously don't get this, can you please enlighten me?
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- Commented on Is no sex a deal-breaker? I'm religious and take sex really seriously, and I don't plan to sleep with anyone until marriage is in the picture. I haven't had much luck dating guys with similar beliefs. Is it even worth looking to other guys?
- Commented on My married boyfriend dumped me because my husband found out. Now I'm unhappy, they're both pissed off and what the hell do I do now?
- Commented on My affair of one year was found out by my hubby of 20. My lover and I were going to get divorces and move in together. Now that we are caught he won't do it. I never thought of leaving before, and with my "out" gone, I've nowhere to go. Why do I still wan
- Commented on What do you think when you see a modestly dressed Jewish woman who has a beautiful face? Do you think she is sexy or will you not even give her a second glance just because she is Jewish?
- Commented on I recently got a pixie cut that I love. I do have feminine features (big lips/eyes) and there's no way you could mistake me for a boy but I'm still worried guys will prefer women with long hair or wonder if I'm gay. Will the price of super cute hair be a
- Commented on What do you do when you still have feelings for your ex? Not good ones either, murderous ones actually.
- Commented on Do guys like a girl that plays hard to get? I hate the games but it seems you can't date a guy these days without playing them in the beginning.
- Commented on Funny Guy, I would love to get your take on the appeal of briefs. To me, they just kind of look like a man version of granny panties (which, lest I be called a hypocrite, I do not wear).
- Commented on My boyfriend HAS my engagement ring. I don't know what he is waiting for. What will make him want to give it to me faster?
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- Commented on Please help! I told my boyfriend of five months that I love him and he said he isn't ready to say it back. I feel so rejected. Why can't he say it back?
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- Commented on I'm pregnant and I know the baby is not my boyfriend's. How do I tell my boyfriend? I don't want to hurt him, but I want to raise the baby with him. Should I even tell him its not his?
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- Commented on why do men think its ok to love 2 different woman??
- Commented on My boyfriend loves boyshort undies and Id rather wear lacy numbers. What up w boyshorts, they seem so unsexy?
- Commented on Is it weird to ask a guy about his past relationships ?
- Commented on jdv, i've become so jaded after a long string of truly terrible experiences that i no longer have the heart to believe that men can fall in love, that they're interested in anything but sex and the continuing promise of sex. please say something to help?
- Commented on So, your answers...well, frankly, they suck. Why are you even on here???
- Commented on I recently went through a horrible break up (I had to file a domestic violence report), but not many people know about it, as I've gone through a lot to keep it under wraps for fear of looking weak. Now my ex is turning people against me. What do I do?
- Commented on Hey bro. I've been in a relationship with my girl for over two years now. We love each other, but she's told me that she doesn't want to marry me. If she doesn't want to marry me, why is she still with me?
- Commented on Hey bro. I've been in a relationship with my girl for over two years now. We love each other, but she's told me that she doesn't want to marry me. If she doesn't want to marry me, why is she still with me?
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- Commented on why are guys such assholes? I mean seriously ever one if them either start out as one or end up being an ass!!!
- Commented on I absolutely HATE this necklace that my boyfriend always wears...but I think he thinks it makes him look good. How do I make him STOP wearing it for good...without bruising his ego?
- Commented on What are some signs that you should not marry your boyfriend?
- Commented on What should I say to people (like aunts, uncles) who ask me why I don't have a boyfriend? I'm almost 21, never been in a relationship, and not terribly happy about that fact.
- Commented on Do you think it's rather rude of a guy to let his petite girlfriend walk home alone late at night after they've been hanging out? I know it's not very "feminist" of me, but it just seems ungentlemanly!
- Commented on What's the most annoying thing women do without realizing it? GuySpeak Group Question!
- Commented on Help! I Hate My Boyfriend's Pal With a Fiery Passion. What Should I Do?
- Commented on I'm asian and my boyfriend always comments that he is not into Asians, but that makes me feel rejected. Why does he do that?
- Commented on When a guy says you're expensive, is it a good thing?
- Commented on My boyfriend IM'd me, asking me to call him. I did, only to be ignored in favor of a game. Was I right to get mad at him for ignoring me when he asked me to call, or was that me just being a hard-ass bitch?
- Commented on Is it my right as a woman to train my boyfriend to treat me how I want to be treated? He is amazing in SO many ways, but he has a temper and likes to say "fuck you" and I want it to stop.
- Commented on how do you feel about girls that are nice but accidentally a little slutty sometimes?
- Commented on I'm planning my wedding, but my dad has been out of the picture my whole life. My first dance will be with my brother, and I was wondering if you had any suggestions for songs? Everything out there is about romantic love!
- Commented on I have a thing for muscular men. Like really muscular. But, it seems that all of the men that are my type are egotistical, self-obsessed, and overall d-bags. Are there any men that are my type who don't belong on the Jersey Shore?
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- Commented on I recently went through a horrible break up (I had to file a domestic violence report), but not many people know about it, as I've gone through a lot to keep it under wraps for fear of looking weak. Now my ex is turning people against me. What do I do?
- Commented on Are guys intimidated by women with a little muscle? I compete in fitness competitions so I'm on the muscular side, and I can't get a guy! Any advice?
- Commented on Guyspeak Vs. Lemondrop: Is it wrong not to tell him she's pregnant?
- Commented on What's the most annoying thing women do without realizing it? GuySpeak Group Question!
- Commented on What should I say to people (like aunts, uncles) who ask me why I don't have a boyfriend? I'm almost 21, never been in a relationship, and not terribly happy about that fact.
- Commented on why are guys such assholes? I mean seriously ever one if them either start out as one or end up being an ass!!!
- Commented on why are guys such assholes? I mean seriously ever one if them either start out as one or end up being an ass!!!
- Commented on How can I figure out whether my best guy friend that i've known for 7 years wants to date me???
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- Commented on What should I say to people (like aunts, uncles) who ask me why I don't have a boyfriend? I'm almost 21, never been in a relationship, and not terribly happy about that fact.
- Commented on If a man has been cheated on in all of his previous relationships will he ever learn to trust his (faithful) fiance fully or will he always have unwarrented suspicions?
- Commented on I have a rendevouz set up with an off-limits guy. But everything in me is screaming no. How do I say no, do the right thing without looking like a total fool?
- Commented on I recently found out that while my ex boyfriend and I were dating, my gay best friend and my ex boyfriend were also sleeping together behind my back. Should I bring this up with my gay best friend, I mean if this were a girl doing this I would have her a*
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- Commented on My ex and I texted for 2 months which culminated in us having sex last week (2am booty call style). He has a gf. I know it was wrong & I'm embarrassed. It was very anti-climactic. We haven't spoken since. I'm a mess and need some words of wisdom.
- Commented on A friend recently admitted feelings for me. I don't feel that way about him, and he said he understood, but ever since he's been following me around like a puppy. How do I get him to back off without being rude?
- Commented on What does long hair (mid-back or lower) say about a girl? What about shoulder-length hair? I want to know what message I'm sending before I decide whether to grow mine out!
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- Commented on I work at a summer camp. During one of the camp cheers, I accidentally slapped my male coworkers ass while waving my hands around. He now makes lewd comments around me, and I feel really uncomfortable. How do I address this?
- Commented on Whenever my boyfriend and I argue, he lets his temper get the best of him and curses me out, calls me a bitch, says f**k you, etc. This hurts me but he says that I'm just too sensitive and wants him to talk "like a girl." Am I wrong to be upset?
- Commented on My hubby wants to have fun with loads of women as one night stands. He says that he is being honest and I should be understanding about it.We have been married for 14 years,its understandable he wants change.pls tell me that its alright to be heart broken
- Commented on What about sex on the first date?
- Commented on How do I find a man who hasn't slept with a lot of women? The thought of my future husband being with other ladies skeezes me out.
- Commented on I am Jewish and my fiancee wants me to become Mormon. I refused; however, he wants to have the wedding at a Mormon temple leaving non-Jews (i.e. my friends and family) out. What should I do?
- Commented on I got a text saying please stop texting me i need space right now. What the hell does that mean? I'm not that clingy annoying girl!
- Commented on why do men always neglect to use a GPS or mapquest?
- Commented on What are some subtle non-verbal clues that a guy makes when he thinks you are attractive?
- Commented on Toy Story 3 And Other Movies That Turn Guys Into Big Weepie Babies
- Commented on my boyfriend keeps bringing up the fact that he wants us to get married. i've dated lots, but he hasnt. i'm the 2nd girl hes ever slept with. is he ready to get married?
- Commented on I like a 28yo who still lives w/his parents. Not sure what to think. I still live at home, too, and don't want to be a hypocrite. BUT I'm 26, saving money for a home & I pay rent. I don't know his story. Does this tell me something about his character?
- Commented on Why doesn't a guy want to take a girl out anymore and pay? I've heard guys say that women have equal rights now or they don't want to feel like they are buying her.
- Commented on I'm 25 and have never been in a relationship longer than 3 months...I just lost 30 pounds and can't seem to shake the fat girl image I have in my mind. It's hard for me to approach guys or even make simple eye contact with a smile. Tips for an awkward dat
- Commented on My husband is very secretive about his myspace accout. I want to give him the benefit of the doubt, but it's hard. His page is private, and I am not a friend so I cant see it. What do I do to bring this to his attention without sounding accusatory?
- Commented on What do guys think when a girl pokes them on facebook?
- Commented on Do guys really feel less manly when a girl kicks their butt at a video game or a sport? If so, why is this?
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- Commented on A doctor gave me his cell and said to call over the weekend if I wanted. Is it inappropriate to ask the guy out or was he just being polite by giving me his cell?
- Commented on I'm a pretty funny girl most of the time, but I have a hard time opening up and showing that side of me when I'm around men. How can I overcome shyness and show off my sense of humor?
- Commented on How do i get through to a thug?
- Commented on During a hot make-out session, my boyfriend (who isn't very experienced) stuck his finger down the back of my pants and up my anus instead of my vagina. I got kinda grossed out and stopped him. Was this an accident? Or is he trying to tell me he wants ana
- Commented on my boyfriend's white, and i'm...not. haha he wants me to meet his parents, but i'm really scared they won't like me (he comes from a very different type of area) what do i do?
- Commented on Why is it that single dads get dates quicker than single moms? I'm really baffled by this. And please don't say because the kids dont live with the dads.
- Commented on A married ex told me he took a job six hours away. He lives there four days out of the week.Only married 18 months after being laid of for over a year. Does this sound weird to you? I lied and said I'm getting married in a year. He said, "Congr
- Commented on My friend keeps making jokes around our guy friends about me being a slut. I do wear more cleavage-y clothes than her but I'm not a slut. I know she's just joking but I don't like it. How do I get her to stop?
- Commented on I've been with the same guy for 8 years!!! I want to get married!!!!
- Commented on If my husband wants to go to his class reunion without me am I asking for trouble the girl who owns the bar where it is being held he keeps asking people about her marital status and says she was just the sweetest thing in high school. Am I just being to
- Commented on What do men notice in a girl first (physically), and what makes them hooked for good?
- Commented on Things Your Man Might Say That You Should Never Believe (Under Any Circumstance)
- Commented on Is it normal to not have much to talk about after three months of dating? I'm getting a little tired of the awkward silences my boyfriend and I keep falling into...
- Commented on Please help! In a few weeks I'm meeting my boyfriend's ENTIRE family, parents, siblings, grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc, for the first time. I am terrified of making a bad impression and want everything to go perfectly. Can you please give me some tips?
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- Commented on Who'd you rather do, date or dump?
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- Commented on What are the rules for "Friend with Benefits" if the guy has a girlfriend? Oh, and he is my ex of two and a half years also.
- Commented on Anytime we go out my husband walks far ahead of me, not by my side. It feels very isolating. I have asked him a couple of times if we can walk together. He seems to be in a rush or anxious. Is there something else I can do or ask of him?
- Commented on Do you have to be dumb to get a guy?
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- Commented on How do I get a geeky boyfriend? I'm a biology major and future scientist, and I'm tired of dating normal guys that frankly are dumber than me. I'm not tech savvy nor do I buy comic books, I don't know where to meet nerdy guys. Plus what if they're too shy
- Commented on I found text msgs between my husband and his ex. he told her about me, but he also told her he loved her. When confronted he said that he hurt her badly and needed her forgiveness to move on, and she wouldn't talk to him if she knew we were married, but t
- Commented on My boyfriend complains about my weight all the time. What should I do?
- Commented on we were at the mall and my bf went to order food from arbys and didn't even offer me anything. then he just sat there and ate it in front of me
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- Commented on I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years and he has not wanted to have sex for over a year. we talk about it, and he says he just doesn't want it and assures me everything else is fine - we are affectionate, and have a great time otherwise. how can
- Commented on I've been Divorced for over 5 yrs and we are still friends without benefits, It seems I just can't find a woman
- Commented on One thing that bothers me about my bf is he has had 30 partners before me and he just turned 20. im a virgin. he told me he is done living like that and im IT for him. i just cant fully believe that. he has held out over a month for me, its summer and idk
- Commented on How fat is too fat to wear a bikini? I'm about 20 pounds overweight and have some small love handles. My bf says i look fine but i feel like people are staring. How big can we be until people think that it's gross?
- Commented on Do you have to be dumb to get a guy?
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- Commented on I have a secret that I'm not sure how to reveal. Years ago my uncle touched me and I'm still not sure it was abuse, but I don't want the rest of my family finding out since I'm not certain. Is it a good idea to share this information with my bf?
- Commented on Imagine the perfect woman's body. Big boobs, micro waist, whatever-hips-you-want. Be unrealistic. You with me? Ok. Now which is less skanky for her to wear: a low cut tank top or a miniskirt?
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Seagoatsarah commented on
My hubby wants to have fun with loads of women as one night stands. He says that he is being honest and I should be understanding about it.We have been married for 14 years,its understandable he wants change.pls tell me that its alright to be heart broken
If my husband pulled this BS on me, he'd be in traction. He'd be *lucky* to be in traction....
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BradyLady commented on
My boyfriend complains about my weight all the time. What should I do?
Jessica is right. I encountered, "I don't want to hear about you losing no 35 pounds. You're still overweight." What's more, it turns out I wasn't. I weighed exactly what I should have, but I had such a negative body image that I didn't know that. It was the boyfriend I needed to lose, not the weight. And Ed, you're a jerk....
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Bannef commented on
Do you think it's rather rude of a guy to let his petite girlfriend walk home alone late at night after they've been hanging out? I know it's not very "feminist" of me, but it just seems ungentlemanly!
I completely agree - a number of my problems with chivalry have nothing to do with it implying a lack of equality. It's because I don't want you touching me even if you have a good excuse like helping me out of my jacket, and I don't necessarily want to spend time with you, even if you insist it's for my own good. I think it's nice to offer, but if someone gives a firm no I think you should respect that too. Of course there are ladies who will say "no, I'll be fine" but still expect you to...
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Hannah commented on
Toy Story 3 And Other Movies That Turn Guys Into Big Weepie Babies
Lilo and Stitch. Gah, when the "monster" alien understands 'ohana at the end, I burst into tears. Every. Time....
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martha commented on
Do guys like a girl that plays hard to get? I hate the games but it seems you can't date a guy these days without playing them in the beginning.
I am hard to get, and I love it when a guy goes crazy that he cannot touch even my hair after, say, over a year. It's wonderful to make them go bonkers!!!!!...
