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- Who is your celebrity look alike?idk
- Who is your celebrity crush?Jeff Probst.., I love the dimples.
- If you were stranded on a desert island and could only have two things with you (objects, not people or food) what would they be?idk…, a boat & a satellite phone maybe?
- Name one food you hate:Liver & Onions (hurl, hurl)
- How often do you talk to your mother a week/month?Once or twice a week.
- Who is one person you would love to have dinner with?John Galt (Google it)
- Boxers, briefs, or freeball?Boxer/Briefs (I prefer boy-shorts for me)
- Dog, cat, neither?Dog (big one)
- Name one magazine in your house right now:Cosmo (go fig)
- What’s your favorite quote?Stay in the loop, but think outside the box (me!)
- What is your favorite song?If I Were A Boy (nuff said)
- What’s your favorite movie of all time?Up! (sad, but true life)
- Do you text, email, or call?Calling is more personal, but a quick text never hurts
- If you could donate $1 million to a charity – which one would you choose?Any four-legged one…, they depend on us.
- How many days in a row do you wear the same socks?Once..., is this a trick question?!?
- If you had a daughter, and she asked you real nice, would you let her paint your toenails?WTFreak? Next question...
- Do you have any sisters, and if so, are they older or younger than you? If not, do you have any siblings at all, and where do you fall in the mix?6 total, 2nd to the youngest (guys & gals)
- More about you?I'm my own evil twin...
- Your Astrological Sign:Gemini
- What's your favorite sport?Are you ready for some football?
- What's your favorite professional sports team?COLTS, baby!!
- Do you have kids? If not, do you want rugrats one day?3 grown @$$ ones...
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- Commented on can you please answer this one at least!!! I don't know how to get over someone who i hurt years ago. i tried everything. now i am just numb. i don't even know how to feel happiness or excitement anymore. i don't look forward to anything and its all becau
- Commented on Mystery Man, I've read about my husband going to strip clubs... but still have a question: He's not allowed to touch?! But on a private dance he can slap her booty and she gets totaly naked and scrubs herself on to his pants and face. Isn't it touch? the
- Commented on What is the etiquette for friending your boyfriend's family (dad, mom, brothers) on Facebook? Should I wait for them to friend me when they're comfortable or are they expecting me to be the one to reach out?
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- Commented on I dumped him last night, and he took it well. He said he will always love me, and that he'll miss me. He didn't cry. I was hoping for some tears, thrashing, and, "Nooooo!" Instead, I felt like I was the one being dumped! Was he just acting maturely, or wa
- Commented on Will any guy ever want me if I keep being an inconsistent person? I feel like I'm too complicated.
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- Commented on In the past two months, my boyfriend of 7 years has become a complete nightmare. He's criticizing me and putting me down in private and in public. He just got this huge promotion at work, and that's causing a whole lot of stress. However, I feel likehe
- Commented on Why would a man break up with a girl he clearly loves? I know that sometimes people are different...but why lose someone you love instead of making yourself better (if that's what it would come down to, to fix the issues)?
- Commented on Why do people hate vegetarians or vegans so much? I'm not preachy or pretentious yet friends, relatives and even strangers constantly try to sabotage my meals by sneaking in meat, or just plain mocking me. It's gotten to the point where I'm afraid of tell
- Commented on My friend with benefits slept with my roommate. I know the main rule is you can sleep with whom ever you want in F.W.B. situations but this just seems a bit to much. She didn't know we were hooking up just to be clear. I should end our benefits, right? O
- Commented on Why would a man break up with a girl he clearly loves? I know that sometimes people are different...but why lose someone you love instead of making yourself better (if that's what it would come down to, to fix the issues)?
- Commented on A friend of mine who is staying with me for a few days keeps bringing up the topic of how useless/stupid/unnecessary marriage is. I respect people's opinions but his bitterness and narrow-minded understanding of relationships is starting to annoy me. Shor
- Commented on Why would a girlfriend of mine who is kinda interested in me and who i went on a date with would come to me and inform me that a guy came to talk to her when she was out in a bar with her girlfriends? Also she shares a lot of personal stuff with me...lik
- Commented on Hey MM! You know the saying: "She'll chase you around for a while but there'll be a day when she's gonna stop running in circles." Well, I finally became that girl. I stopped chasing and I let him go. So here's my question: Do guys ever regret/realize the
- Commented on My husband asked a woman he knows to send him pictures of her boobs. Why would he do that?
- Commented on Hey Panama, Is it really true that everything a man does in his life revolves around sex? I've heard this multiple times before and it's hard for me to believe.
- Commented on Best way to let a guy know you're not interested after a date?... I usually send the "You're a really nice guy but I don't see this going any further"
- Commented on Dating an older Virgo man. Things seemed so great. Now he's always busy, and can only see me for an hr every couple of days. Booty call??
- Commented on A while back I slept with someone with a girlfriend. I understand that it was a huge mistake, but he made me promise never to tell. Now she is getting ready to marry this guy, completely in the dark about this. I feel she deserves to know. Does the "other
- Commented on ok i met this guy i was a virgo with no sexual experience but we talk it out n i wanted to have that experience with him...but when it came to actual act, it wasnt really what i expected he took me from behind at 1st and there was no foreplay even though
- Commented on ok i met this guy i was a virgo with no sexual experience but we talk it out n i wanted to have that experience with him...but when it came to actual act, it wasnt really what i expected he took me from behind at 1st and there was no foreplay even though
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- Commented on w/BF 2 mnth. He 31 me 37. Him 0 kids Me 2 kids. he no cum w/sex. Lot in common, go out. age b4 was sm issue. met parents but not friends. me- love 2 spend more time 2gether, him-"in due time". 1x refered 2 me as "thats just a friend" 2 some1 he didnt kno
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- Commented on My boyfriend is very protective. He worries for me all the time. He's not abusive or controlling, just nervous. The other night he txtd & called me 8 times, panicking because he couldn't get a hold of me. I love him but is there a polite way to get him to
- Commented on Please help RP your my only hope. I've been dating this navy guy for 5 mons & things are great. I'm catching feelings & want to take things further but he insist we take things slow b/c he going on deployment for a yr soon. When he's drunk he tells me he
- Commented on I'm an escort now dating one of my clients, whom I met on literally my very 1st day a year ago. Bad idea, I know. This will sound hypocritical but, will I ever be able to deal with his having experienced literally hundreds of the most beautiful/sexy women
- Commented on Please help RP your my only hope. I've been dating this navy guy for 5 mons & things are great. I'm catching feelings & want to take things further but he insist we take things slow b/c he going on deployment for a yr soon. When he's drunk he tells me he
- Commented on GBFF: My bf has lived with this one guy since I met him. I usually dont have problems with him, but I do have some major problems with his gf (shes the bff of my current bf's ex). Now both of them are egging this girl who used to be friends with them on a
- Commented on My name is Stephanie. When a guy says text you later what does that mean?
- Commented on I'm casually seeing a guy and he went on holidays with his kids. I haven't heard from him in ten days. Do I write him off?
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- Commented on He decided we should be just friends after dating for 9 mos; he is battling cancer for the 2nd time, wants to handle it alone, & thinks he is holding me back. I appreciate what he is trying to do & he doesn't need extra stress- but he's the one. Is it not
- Commented on What does it mean when I feel his penis twitching/pulsating inside of me? When he cums he pulls out and cums on me. But when I feel the pulsating, he never cums on me. He says he didn't have an orgasm. Then why was his penis pulsating?
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- Commented on I fell in love with my boyfriend (lived together for 2 years, no job, has a daughter with ex, doesn't pay child support or any bills)'s best buddy (great guy, share interests and values with me, responsible) that he had known for 8 years. I am so confuse
- Commented on Hey MM, I need some advice. How do I get over a crippling fear of losing loved ones? I'm terrified of the "true love" that most people dream of having, because I'm afraid that allowing myself to love my bf that much will completely devastate me when he di
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- Commented on How do you get over a situation where a guy you were dating marries the girl he cheated with.
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- Commented on A guy tried to hook up with me six times at a party. I rejected him every time because he was totally drunk and looked stoned and I thought he thought I was a different girl every time he tried. My friend told me today that he knew what he was doing, so I
- Commented on Hey Wise Ass, I need some advice. How long did it take you to say, "I love you" to your wife? I want to tell my boyfriend that I love him. I know he cares about me very much, but we've only been dating four months. Would you feel emasculated by your girl
- Commented on My bf hates my sense of fashion. He's likes vintage, stuff that makes me look like an obedient housewife rather than the 19yr old that i am. i dnt mind dressin up for him once in a while, but lately i cant even shop for what i want cuz im afraid he'll hat
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- Commented on Is intimidating a bad quality in a woman? I get that a lot, but I am told its because I am independent, strong (physically), and not easily embarrassed. Could this get in the way of me being in a relationship?
- Commented on My boyfriend threatens to break up with me whenever we argue or fight as a trump card to make me agree or stop fighting. How can I get him to stop this? It really hurts and makes me feel silenced.
- Commented on My boyfriend of two years promised himself to never apologize no matter what. We've argued too many times about it and we've decided I should just accept his reservations. Trouble is I find it very painful and difficult to do. Any tips on how I can cope?
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- Commented on I was talking to this guy and getting to know him and then I started to like him and went to a party together I find out he has a gf which he lied saying he didn't and said it's wrong and I can't date him until he's single... Hee wants me to be "patient"
- Commented on MM - I'm about to enter a profession in which networking is extremely important, but I'm terrified of situations where I have to interact with multiple people I don't know for extended periods of time. Any advice?
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- Commented on Dear guyspeak masterminds, how do I keep a relationship friendly with a neighbor who wants to hang out romantically? He's alluded to wanting to try a romantic relationship, but that's not what I want. From what I can tell, there doesn't seem to be anythi
- Commented on So I have two girlfriends that don't know of each other. Don't ask why cause it just seemed to happen that way and is not the problem. The problem is that I don't really want to be with either of them and i also don't want my ride or other aspects of my l
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- Commented on my husbands bff told me 1 ngt he loved me I just brushed it off but he was persistant we ended up hvg sex He was with someone 2. I ended it, he got married a week later. 6 yrs later hes divorced but engaged and contacts me on fb saying I am the one not he
- Commented on How big a p*ssy am I for opting out of a friend's wedding because I don't want to have to deal with my ex, who will be there. He has known them longer, and I just feel weird because our relationship ended on REALLY bad terms and I haven't seen him since.
- Commented on He keeps a photo of me by his bed, beams when he sees me, reaches for my hand any time I'm in reach, texts/calls any time he thinks of me, introduces me to parents, shares toe curling kisses with me, tells me I'm beautiful and sexy and cute, says he loves
- Commented on my husbands bff told me 1 ngt he loved me I just brushed it off but he was persistant we ended up hvg sex He was with someone 2. I ended it, he got married a week later. 6 yrs later hes divorced but engaged and contacts me on fb saying I am the one not he
- Commented on Cliche problem, but: Dated this guy exclusively, then he decided we should just hook up; we tried but I wasn't happy with it. He likes me but doesn't want to be exclusive. I still like him but I think I want something more exclusive. Can we solve this or
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- Commented on While xmas shopping, a vendor was condescending to me (my bf was purchasing from them). Later, when I mentioned this, my bf chuckled and found his behavior toward me to be amusing. This is a very small event, but I think it's a bit of a red flag. Your tho
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- Commented on I cut my boyfriend off from all the little niceties. I refuse to buy him food when I buy for myself, and I no longer let him use my netflix (amongst other things). This came about because of the way he has acted the last month. Was it right for me to cut
- Commented on A coworker constantly flirts with me and our personalities are really compatible. I really am starting to fall for him, but... he's married (and 12 years older than me). He also knows I'm a good girl and thats part of what he likes about me. Is there any
- Commented on The guy I'm with is 27 and has had 46 sex partners. Is this normal? And is it possible he's STD free? He says he is, but I'm not sure I believe him.
- Commented on my step daughter is a senior in college. Her boyfriend is also a senior in college. they are both from wealthy parents. She has been paying for some/all of his airfares for his vacation holidays. any suggestions on how to tell her to get rid of this freel
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- Commented on The guy I'm with is 27 and has had 46 sex partners. Is this normal? And is it possible he's STD free? He says he is, but I'm not sure I believe him.
- Commented on The guy I'm with is 27 and has had 46 sex partners. Is this normal? And is it possible he's STD free? He says he is, but I'm not sure I believe him.
- Commented on I'm in a ldr n each time i go to my bfs house something always comes up, hairties, hair in his bedroom n bathroom that isn't mine, condoms in his dresser, a earing, a girls shirt n even a sextoy toy that was out of a package n looks like it was used. But
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- Commented on MM what's your take on polyamory? Or dating someone and instead of breaking up when hitting a rough patch, experimenting on the side to see if the relationship is worth it?
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- Commented on Okay, this is kind of weird, but how do I get my bf to shower more frequently? He does it like every 3 or 4 days and the results of that infrequency are not so appealing. When he showers, he's out in about 3 minutes, even if I drag him in with me. Do guys
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- Commented on My husband is checking out porn sites. I've caught him a few times and asked him to stop doing it because I find it disrespectful and wrong. I actually feel like my self-esteem is going down after opening a laptop and seeing he checked out porn sites. He
- Commented on My husband is checking out porn sites. I've caught him a few times and asked him to stop doing it because I find it disrespectful and wrong. I actually feel like my self-esteem is going down after opening a laptop and seeing he checked out porn sites. He
- Commented on how often should i shave down there? I have sensitive skin and don't want to get irritation, as that is just gross, but i am wondering how often someone without sensitive skin would shave and how often is the generally accepted time period. thank you!
- Commented on I have a really big penis (11" and really thick), and it hurts when I try to have sex with people (men & women) will i be a virgin forever?P.S. It's hurts them not me
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- Commented on I NEED to know!! What do you say to a man in a situation where youve just started having sex and he is having troubles staying hard? What ACTUALLY helps to hear in that patricular moment? Because im sure we say a lot of dumb sh*t that doesn't help...
- Commented on I've been doing a lot of research, and I'm seriously considering becoming a vegetarian. I want to be good to my body. Problem is - my boyfriend doesn't support this. How can I get him to understand that I want to do this for my health?
- Commented on I really just need to know if underwear (like designer boxer briefs) are a good christmas gift for my boyfriend...(as like the small gift along with the bigger gift that he really wants)
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- Commented on Should I feel sad (as I do) that my boyfriend said it is best if he spends the holidays with his family after I invited him to my sister's for Christmas?
- Commented on My boyfriend is in jail and we can't touch each other at the moment so we've been masturbating for each other during our booth visits. He's told the boys in jail about me doing this for him. I feel cheap and used. Is he just showing off to the boys? I
- Commented on Should I feel sad (as I do) that my boyfriend said it is best if he spends the holidays with his family after I invited him to my sister's for Christmas?
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- Commented on I read an article from yahoo that revealed the results from a mens health magazine poll about the hottest women of all time and Jennifer Aniston was number one. Seriously? of all time? I wouldn't even put her on my top ten. So then I got to wondering what
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- Commented on Okay, my friend always bugs me about having a slightly hairy upper lip. I used to never be self conscious about it, until she kept pointing it out. Do you think guys notice? If so, do you think they care enough to let that be a reason not to date me?
- Commented on I've slept with 5 different girls, am i a whore?
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- Commented on I was the girl who had to call her friends mom because her depression was keeping her dorm bound. Well I just spent all night with her in the hospital because she tried to commit suicide. I'm tired of being the bad guy to her depression, she was furious w
- Commented on My bf seems to like my bj's more than having sex with me. We haven't had actual sex in over 2 weeks, and he swore he'd never eat a girl out, so I'm getting frustrated. I kind of understand because he almost always orgasms much stronger with a bj, but I ha
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- Commented on My husband and I have only been married a little over a month. But I found that he is looking and signing up for casual sex on dating site. My feelings are so hurt. Any advice. Please don not advise divorce.
- Commented on My husband and I have only been married a little over a month. But I found that he is looking and signing up for casual sex on dating site. My feelings are so hurt. Any advice. Please don not advise divorce.
- Commented on Hi MM:My question concerns a new/unwelcome identity: TW. I'm 29, college educated, financially independent and have a heart of gold - I'm a social worker. I've had 3 serious relationships and 2 interests who have gone on to marry the woman post-me. Not
- Commented on He broke up w/ me cause I wouldn't accept a ring. After 8 months of "I want to marry you" he broke up with me. He met someone on eharmony. Still calls 2-5x week. Tells me his feelings, personal life, medical stuff, talk all the time.No longer intimate sin
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- Commented on I used to be close with my cousin until he began dating my friend two yrs. ago. We were cool until I found out she cheated on him in the beginning of the relationship. He choose to forgive her and move on but I couldn't! My cousin says to let it go, but w
- Commented on If your in a long term relationship and your girl says she gonna get on the pill, why do you get upset? Isn't she being wise?
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- Commented on My dad's always been good for a dirty joke but ever since he retired he's been making EVERYTHING a sex joke or reference. It's like he turned into a "dirty old man" right before my eyes! Sometimes he's funny, sometimes he makes me (and everybody else visi
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- Commented on Spent Thanksgiving w/ bf's family. I look young and his bro said I look like a little girl and should sit at the kids table. He was joking but it still hurt. Bf didn't do a thing. Days later, he said he talked to his bro. I'm so upset and hurt that he did
- Commented on Can guys really tell if they would (or would not) sleep with a woman immediately? I overheard a conversation about the "yes/no," rule. If you see a girl, she's either a Yes (good looking enough to bang) or a No (not gonna happen)?
- Commented on Brand new man, hes funny, v keen, v open about feelings, but alarm bells are going nuts already. All he does is talk about himself, truly said 'girls get infatuated with me' and never throws anything back my way in sex, just lies there. Whats a tactful wa
- Commented on Spent Thanksgiving w/ bf's family. I look young and his bro said I look like a little girl and should sit at the kids table. He was joking but it still hurt. Bf didn't do a thing. Days later, he said he talked to his bro. I'm so upset and hurt that he did
- Commented on Oh wisest of all asses, I need your guidance in knowing what is right. I have been dating this guy for a little over six months, but it doesn't seem to be going anywhere. If I date other guys, do I have to tell him? Why or not?
- Commented on My BF and I are held from moving forward (moving in together, marriage, etc) b/c he has a crap job that doesn't pay well and still lives w/ parents. Last month I got pissed that he is so lazy he's not even looking for a better job and he promised he would
- Commented on My BF and I are held from moving forward (moving in together, marriage, etc) b/c he has a crap job that doesn't pay well and still lives w/ parents. Last month I got pissed that he is so lazy he's not even looking for a better job and he promised he would
- Commented on I know that Snoopy is shady and stupid. But I knew something was up. I looked through my boyfriends phone and saw emails he's sent to other women and seen that he searches the craigslist personal ads. It srems as though he hasnt cheated yet but is trying
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- Commented on MM-FollowUp Q from 10/15: Should I stay or GO-OH: We had 3 dates in Oct to keep connected. I asked for 1wk N/C this wk. After a few days he called wanting to end break, b/c he loves me and is ready. I asked if slept w/anyone since we broke in Sept: yes,1.
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- Commented on WA, one of your colleagues suggested recently that divorced women are undateable because we have "a ships hold of baggage." Do you agree?
- Commented on MM I know u'l b brutally honest. I like my mate's best mate. Haven't talked much, it's more a crush. Thing is, he's very attractive, type of looks that can get super hot chicks. I'm confident in my attractiveness lol am pretty, slim/petite but not at all
- Commented on My boyfriend calls other girls hot right in front of me. After he says that, he looks toward me, as if he wants to see my reaction because if I don't comment, he sometimes nudges me for my attention. What do I do ? It really bothers me that he does this.
- Commented on I was on my period and this guy i was casually hooking up with didnt seem to care. Do guys care about doing it while girls are on their period?
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- Commented on Hi MM, My questions aren't being answered. I'm dating a guy, going on 3 months. After a month he says he wants things btwn us 2 stay where it is and he wasn't falling 4 me. I want 2 know if he is feeling differently now, but should I ask? We spend so much
- Commented on My 42-year-old bf is digging up the graves of his mother's deceased pets in her yard and is transporting them to her new home for re-burial. Both have been gone for 6 years. I am mortified. Is this a reasonable practice?
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- Commented on Ok, MM. This is about a problem w/ a man, but the man in question is my father. Had to move back w/ him &my step mom. He says my step mom is "afraid of me" and hates my attitude, but everytime I ask her what's wrong she doesn't say anything. I can't be re
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- Commented on My boyfriend refuses to talk about his past relationships with me and when I asked him about who he had dated before, he 'forgot' about at least two girls. I found out about these through other people, and he will admit it to me now. I feel its importan
- Commented on Long story short; I'm 25, he's 40 and I'm in love with him. I have a hard time NOT flirting & showing that I care for him. It's been 4 years of mixed signals. One day he's "too comfortable to cross the line" and the next he's all grabby and has my legs ar
- Commented on Pulling back or in the midst of getting dumped with "the fade-out" apporoach?...How can a girl spot the difference? ...or is the pull-back just when a man/woman changes his/her mind?
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- Commented on I'm 21& losing hope.I've heard &followed the advice "Join some clubs or volunteer, u can meet guys there!" but every club at school are mostly girls &the places I've volunteered at are full of girls! Either a few or no guys at all. Do u know which volunte
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- Commented on I am a good girl with an awful past, that I can't seem to get away from. My first boyfriend was honestly the worst you could get...I've never had a serious or healthy relationship. I'm ready to quit the silly dating game and settle down but I have no idea
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- Commented on I often find myself annoyed with my bf when he drinks too much. His temper soars whenever I express anger & our fights sometimes end with me being pushed to the point of hitting him due to him calling me "bitch" and "stupid." I feel pushed to my limit whe
- Commented on Why does men never admits that they are cheating? even though you have all the evidence, the only reply you get is," that is nothing"?
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- Commented on Is a year of dating too soon to start asking questions about our future? I'm 25, my boyfriend is 30. I want to get married and have kids someday, just not right now. By all indications those do not seem to be priorities to him now or later on. How do I kn
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- Commented on whats your take a on ivy league educated tech guy dating a standard university psychology/communications major girl? hope for romance?
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- Commented on I'm 95 and my girlfriend is 18.
- Commented on All my bf wants to do is have sex how can I get him to stop
- Commented on You've Heard of the Mile High Club, how 'bout the Miles Away Club?
- Commented on I want to know if i did the right thing. The other day i had sex with a guy just for fun. The issues is that he didn't not satisfied in bed. I told him. The reason i told him is because he was bragging the the whole time. That's why i decided to tell
- Commented on he graduated form harvard then harvard business school.... me? from a regular college.... hes jewish im catholic...is love enough?
- Commented on whats your take a on ivy league educated tech guy dating a standard university psychology/communications major girl? hope for romance?
- Commented on MM Help!! I'm 17 years old, 3 months ago my bf was killed in a work accident, ever since then my life has spirals out of control I've started partying & drinking every weekend, experimenting with drugs and been hooking up with guys trying to make myself h
- Commented on I just recently started dating a guy who's girlfriend broke up with him a little over a month ago. He says he's over her but constantly talks about how he hates her and how she's such a bitch. Does he miss her or should it not be a cause for concern?
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- Commented on I have been single for a while now and I'm looking to get talking with the ladies again. It just seems when I'm focused on love, I'm depressed, and when I'm not thinking about it I'm generally happy. I just need some advice to get back out there. I figure
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- Commented on I have been single for a while now and I'm looking to get talking with the ladies again. It just seems when I'm focused on love, I'm depressed, and when I'm not thinking about it I'm generally happy. I just need some advice to get back out there. I figure
- Commented on So I've been called a butter face? How am I suppose to respond to that..confusing on both ends cause I didn't think my bod was hot (but I do have nice legs :) and I didn't think my face was gross. He teases people a lot, but every joke has a seed of truth
- Commented on ok there is this guy that works a a local departmet store that im really feeling i only go in the store when he is there he recently asked me to come to thebackroom and he huuged me the only problem is he is married but he always telling how bad his relat
- Commented on A guy I just began dating called me "foxy." Can't say I get that one very often. What is your favorite adjective for women you find attractive?
- Commented on Will I always take back seat to his ex wife and mother of his children? His kids are 17 and 18, and he is constantly doing things with the ex and kids.
- Commented on Will I always take back seat to his ex wife and mother of his children? His kids are 17 and 18, and he is constantly doing things with the ex and kids.
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- Commented on Will I always take back seat to his ex wife and mother of his children? His kids are 17 and 18, and he is constantly doing things with the ex and kids.
- Commented on Five Ways to Decode: Does He Like Me or What?
- Commented on I have two children with my boyfriend. I got pregnant last year and had an abortion but now I am pregnant again but it's not my boyfriend. I can't justify what I did but it happened and the other guy wants nothing to do with the baby because of what his f
- Commented on Hes conservative, very catholic, and family oriented. And a good guy. Im liberal, atheist,+dont want kids. Can two people who have different political views make it work? Or will we grow to hate each other? We just started dating and I can tell were very
- Commented on my boyfriend gets all hurt when he wants to stay over and i say no, but, he goes to bed at 9 and then takes up the whole bed, snores, and puts his arm under my pillow and my head and then tosses and turns all night....the more i try to explain this, the m
- Commented on I watched "UP" with my boyfriend and he didn't cry. Should I break up with him?
- Commented on Have you ever been recognised as one of the 'guy speak' guys? I would totally recognise you lol well, except for MM obviously.
- Commented on After a guy asks to dance with me, should i go back to my own seat, or next to him and start a conversation???
- Commented on I'm in love with my best friend but there's one problem. We're married to different people. Is it worth persuing? He's hit on me MANY times and I guess I just wanna know if he's really into me too.
- Commented on Hey there Girls' BFF! My ex and I have been broken up for about a year now. Recently, he told me he wanted me back but has done nothing in the past year to show he even cares or still has feelings. Is he just talking or does he really mean it? If he means
- Commented on Why do you guys ask for naked pictures? The chances of them actually getting them are slim but they still ask. Whenever a guy ask it's such a turn off that I'm not sure if I want to keep pursuing the relationship.
- Commented on is it true that some guys would have sex with a "fat," girl but never date her/publically acknowledge their relationship? I literally saw a guy kiss a plus size girl goodbye, and then turn around tell his friend, "she's a scooter.. i only ride her at nigh
- Commented on is it true that some guys would have sex with a "fat," girl but never date her/publically acknowledge their relationship? I literally saw a guy kiss a plus size girl goodbye, and then turn around tell his friend, "she's a scooter.. i only ride her at nigh
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- Commented on W.A. need advice...I've gone on a few dates w this guy...we've slept together...he said from the start he doesn't want a relationship but wants to see where this goes. I'm totally ok with that but I've been asked out by other guys. Should I tell him? Do I
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- Commented on We just got married last year. A month ago he walked out irratically saying he isn't happy and wants to end our marriage. He has a girlfriend he introduced to his mom as a "friend" when he took her over there for dinner. What the hell? We have a child we
- Commented on if a guy friend tells you, its to dangerous for you to be his friend.. what does this mean?
- Commented on Why do men leave you in suspense?
- Commented on My kidless guy friend seems to think he knows more about parenting then me. I have 2 toddlers, he keeps trying to give me parenting advice (like give 'em a smack). If I try and tell him I parent my way, he goes off and says I'm insulting him. How can I do
- Commented on My kidless guy friend seems to think he knows more about parenting then me. I have 2 toddlers, he keeps trying to give me parenting advice (like give 'em a smack). If I try and tell him I parent my way, he goes off and says I'm insulting him. How can I do
- Commented on MM, help! - I think I'm a compulsive liar. I lie about dumb things, like "I've eaten" when I haven't, or make up stories about what happened. I quit my job 2 months ago & didn't tell anyone, pretended to keep going to work & I just got found out. I don't
- Commented on Three Relationship 'Strategies' That Don't Work
- Commented on Good evening MM, I'm the girl who lost her father during final yr of uni, who was contemplating of hurtin herself. Anyways everything got better, I even graduate with good marks:) just sending u this to say thx. Wish u all the best life can offer. Bye
- Commented on plz help this 1 time i really dont know eles what to do. I keep getting sexually harassed & ppl think its funny but it makes me so angry that im not strong enough. I try to stop them and i say no but they dont listen. I was never raped but they push me ag
- Commented on I do good job of not "blowing up" a guy's phone but when i don't txt or call for a day or two and wait for him to contact me in his own time he manipulates my lack of contact "so you're not talking to me anymore?" How do i respond to that?
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- Commented on My boyfriend constantly brings up things that he doesn't like about me, and it's getting harder and harder for me to be normal and affectionate around him. I feel like I must not be the right one for him, but he won't end things! What gives? Is he trying
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- Commented on Can you tell if a man will 'trade up' in the future. Meaning can you tell if they will marry a girl and then divorce for a newer better model in like 20 years? Are there signs for this type of behavior?
- Commented on What's a girl to do when she and her mother both like the same guy?? Older guy, mine first... and I totally see the sparks flying with her, now. She's my mom!! Part of me wants her to be happy, but I had him first! What do I do??
- Commented on Hi my name is Stephanie. How do I talk to a white guy on the metro train going home?
- Commented on I am sorry but I really have a hard time believing your actually a "reformed player" you are reaaally not good looking AT ALL. Your picture looks like those overweight dorks that always hit on women & creep them out. figuring this website needed guy write
- Commented on I don't like one of my BF's friends bc he's a cocky jerk who thinks he's way smarter than he is. Part of it is jealousy, definitely; he's doing what I want to do: establishing his own promotional business. He thinks he's so awesome for doing it, but he's
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- Commented on Hey MM, as a fellow advice giver do you ever feel at a loss for an answer? How do you approach these situations if so? Many people come to me for advice and answers to their problems. Among my friends I am considered the "wise one" but sometimes I feel a
- Commented on So, my bf of (almost) six months says he wants to be with me forever. I love him, and he is by far the GREATEST guy I've ever dated. The thing is, I'm not sure if that's a "normal" thing to say in a five month relationship (I don't have much experience, t
- Commented on Over-Protecting: The Sins Of The Fathers Are Sometimes Hard To Take
- Commented on My bf will not get his license.He has access to a car but "hates driving" and says if he needs something he'll just "take a bus or something," but I end up bringing him groceries and taking him to hang with his friends.He's almost 20. It seems immature an
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- Commented on A man I was having sex with slapped me during. Dead square on the face, hard. He didn't ask me, he just did it. It shocked me and I don't know what to think. I am totally ok with a little roughness (ie; hair pulling, spanking) but dead on the face? Does t
- Commented on can you love someone and cheat on them?
- Commented on can you love someone and cheat on them?
- Commented on I had a baby by a guy I hooked up with 2 years ago. He is white and I'm black. He texts me sometimes and gives me diapers here and there, but never introduces our baby into his life. He tells me all the time he wants to be apart of her life but never foll
- Commented on my boyfriend has started acting weird lately, he deletes his calls & txts, works late & weekends (but hes a sparky), is suddenly worried about his looks, doesnt seem interested in me anymore, goes from loving me to hating me. what the hell is going on sho
- Commented on When should I tell a guy I'm seeing that I have a child?
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- Commented on What is your opinion on sexting outside of a relationship? Recently I've heard of many guys doing it and claiming its not cheating. What do you think?
- Commented on I'm an attractive, normal 30-year-old woman. I've been on plenty of dates but never had a serious relationship. I really worry this is an issue but it's honestly because I've never fallen in love (which i think is something I can't control). Is this somet
- Commented on Have you ever faked an orgasm? If a guy was having a hard time finishing, would he do that just to put an end to sex?
- Commented on Am I his hope for financial stability? My 50yo BF of four months is divorced but got taken by his ex, who abused his credit cards and caused him to lose his house. We are very compatible, but he has made comments about us someday combining income/sharing
- Commented on What type of relationship (lasted 4 days) do you think this was-He ignored me face to face- yet messaged everydaySlept over but never cuddled or kissed (or had sex)Messaged other girls while with me, yet got defensive and came into my work to still
- Commented on My boyfriend looks at other girls online before having sex with me. Is this common? It makes me feel really crappy about myself.
- Commented on So today, I had coffee with this guy I've been interested in. Before I left, he said he wanted to "hang out" again, and we made plans to go to a show on campus together. How do I tell if this is a legit date, or if he's just being really friendly?
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- Commented on 20 More Songs About Moving On (Some Suggested By You!)
- Commented on I was pregnant and unforunately had a miscarriage. Since I put on some weight and went from a size 6 to a 10. My boyfriend randomly/always seem to mention my weight and keeps comparing me to old pictures. What does this mean?
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- Commented on Do guys in general really like homemade presents? Or am I gonna look like a total dork if I give my bf a scrapbook or some handmade card? I'm on a budget but I wanna give him something he'll like! Thanks for your time.
- Commented on You always give good advice, MM. I started dating this guy very recently, and he's basically doing everything right -- he's such a gentleman. I think he wants to take things slow, too. However I still feel like he's keeping his distances emotionally. How
- Commented on Women Fall Under Three Distinct Categories: Hot. Kinda Cool. Threatening.
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- Commented on If I like depressing things, I.E movies, studying different personality disorders, into dark poets and musicians, then does that make me a depressed person?
- Commented on I've been dating a new guy for a couple weeks. Things were GREAT, but then one of his relatives became very ill. I've done my best to be supportive, such as texting him on occasion to see how he's holding up, but his replies are cold or rude. I think he's
- Commented on It's been three years and I want something back from my ex. Is it kosher to ask for it back?
- Commented on Hello...Is There Anybody In There?
- Commented on Hello...Is There Anybody In There?
- Commented on I'm content with my life right now, i like you and I care about you but there are issues on both ends... what does that mean?
- Commented on If a guy who was your boyfriend 12 years ago contacts you & you end up dating again but she has married,so the x who she's havin a affair with tells her he played her and stops talking to her, then in a email tells her iris by the googoo dolls. What would
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- Commented on I'm dying. My love of five years just broke up with me because he wants to concentrate on his career. We were perfectly happy--believe me when I say PERFECTLY happy. This is COMPLETELY out of the blue and I'm utterly heartbroken. I want him to realize he'
- Commented on I'm dying. My love of five years just broke up with me because he wants to concentrate on his career. We were perfectly happy--believe me when I say PERFECTLY happy. This is COMPLETELY out of the blue and I'm utterly heartbroken. I want him to realize he'
- Commented on Watching the MTV Video Music Awards on Sunday? Watch with Chic Geek and Girls' Bff on Twitter!
- Commented on I have been seeing someone for about 9 months, he is 50 I am 49. We get along extremely well but for some reason he is always telling me about past girlfriends and their experiences or how many women come on to him on a daily basis. I am not a jealous per
- Commented on Hey Wise-Ass, I REALLY need your advice on this one. I'm dating this guy, but I can tell he still has feelings for his ex. Should I wait for him or run as fast as I can? I really do care about him. We started dating one year ago and he's still not ready.
- Commented on Met a new guy. Talking about sexual likes and dislikes. He mentions he doesn't date women where their vaginal inner lips are larger than the external one... WTF? What am I supposed to think?
- Commented on How do you tell if a guy is genuinely and truly a good and nice guy? It's so hard to tell if they're faking it until they gain my trust.
- Commented on I have a friend who is nearing his mid-life. He's just beginning to realize that he is gay and won't come out to me yet. Is there a way I can accelerate him coming out to me so he won't feel so lonely? He knows that I'm really accepting; we also have some
- Commented on when very attractive men marry women who aren't necessarily considered that great looking, is there a higher chance that he'll lose interest and find himself eying more attractive women? do thoughts like those come across a mans head often?
- Commented on A friend who was upset about not being a bridesmaid decided to skip my wedding (via a phonecall just hours before it). She hasn't spoken to me since, but has told others that she regrets it. I don't like to hold grudges, but am really hurt by her bailing
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- Commented on I have a crush on a guy at work. Is it okay to date him in the event he reciprocates or is it just a recipe for disaster?
- Commented on Im very single and want a boyfriend. But Ive been told I am very negative and bossy. People always say "be yourself", in the case of having a boyfriend, can I be myself or do I have to change? Should I become all happy, positive, and full of pretentious s
- Commented on I know you definitely wont answer this, but I'm really curious to find out what your views on political correctness are... Ah well, at least i asked.
- Commented on I know you definitely wont answer this, but I'm really curious to find out what your views on political correctness are... Ah well, at least i asked.
- Commented on What do you think about a first day of school outfit for girls? Overrated or cute?
- Commented on MM! I'm an ineffably jaded 19yr old. EVERY friend but 1 rejected me 12/09 after a car accident I was in, now that 1 friend is leaving me too. I used to have a great social life. Soph in college 2nd college I don't even want to make new friends. RADICAL
- Commented on My husband has been with over 50 women who would be considered prefect 10's.When he met me, I already had a LOT of extra saggy skin and stretch marks.He says he loves my body and has never been more attracted to anyone more in his life.Is he just sparing
- Commented on After sex, my bf ALWAYS says "Thank you, that was nice" or some variation. I've said that this makes me feel like I'm giving him a "freebie". He has the vocab, but sticks with that. IYO, is he intentionally disregarding my wishes or do orgasms just make h
- Commented on I'm pregnant and we're keeping it.The plan is for us to get married so I can see an OB. Nothing has changed in months, so I told him I'm moving out for a while. He reacted as though I'd just told him I never want to see him again!.He says it makes no sens
- Commented on Can a man who you just met then basically spent the weekend with, was very affectionate & more concerned about your pleasure than his, tried talking you out of having sex but was amazing at it, gave you oral sex the first night, took you out for breakfast
- Commented on I recently tried initiating sex with my husband only to be rejected. I feel humiliated and wonder if I should give up on that whole idea. I thought men liked women to initiate? Seriously, WTF??
- Commented on (I am A girl) What does it mean when you ask the guy if he likes you and he takes forever to answer and says no?Is he lying, like saying no but he does or is he just slow?? please answer asap
- Commented on Can a man who you just met then basically spent the weekend with, was very affectionate & more concerned about your pleasure than his, tried talking you out of having sex but was amazing at it, gave you oral sex the first night, took you out for breakfast
- Commented on Hi, why won't my boyfriend poo in front of me?
- Commented on Dear MM, I've become extremely bitter about romantic love, to the point where seeing people together hurts and makes me tense and angry. I never meant to end up this way but no man has ever wanted and accepted me so I am jealous, hurt and resentful. It's
- Commented on After many previous degrading relationships with guys I've finally found someone who is just as much fun as he is respectful. And I feel really lucky to be with someone awesome and who makes me feel amazing about myself too. This is new for me.
- Commented on Is it possible for a woman to be too wet? I was with a guy who complained that I was too wet and he kept slipping out during sex. Never had anyone complain before-definitely suffering a bit of a bruised ego right now....
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- Commented on Do you think that "chick-flicks" have skewed women's perspective of love? I've read some articles that say that they have, but what do you think? Do you think that women expect more now because of the movies and books that they read?
- Commented on Are "blue balls" real? And even if they are, are they really that much of an issue for guys?
- Commented on Mystery Man, I'm very lost. I made the mistake of agreeing to be "just friends" with a guy I have feelings for. Now he is really trying to be my friend. I don't know what to do because I really want more. Please help me?
- Commented on 16yo girl w/huge aspirations in life,dad who has aspergers syndrome and an affair,depressed mom,3 younger bros,holds her family together here.I'm also a cutter(no one but my very supportive bf knows that)if my parents get divorced,and if im stuck with dad
- Commented on My bf got a txt where the first half of the txt pops when its received. I was taking him his phone&read, "can we meet after my kids have gone to bed?..."-female. He says that she's going through a divorce&she asked him to help move stuff out of her house
- Commented on If you plan a date with a guy and he is two hours late and he calls to apologize does it mean he is not committed in dating you??
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- Commented on Been married 14 years with 2 kids. Nice guy but we are both introverted & haven't worked on our relationship in years. I'm at the point where I hate the way he eats, moves, etc). I'm also 40 & in my first year of sobriety (6 mo sober). I think I need a br
- Commented on My Bestfriend of 16yrs is cool and friendly with my ex who was physically and verbally abusive to me and made my life miserable. I've told her how this bothers me and she treats me as if I'm overreacting and that it's not a big deal? It really pisses me o
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- Commented on I've been dating this guy for 10 months (o_0) and he has yet to share any real details about his past relationships, but he has hinted that they were pretty bad situations... Would it be wrong for me to email his last ex in an attempt to get this info? Ot
- Commented on After The Break Up, It's Time to Break Balls
- Commented on Dear MM,On Friday night I had the most romantic kiss of my life. It was nothing short of cinematic. Problem is, the guy has a girlfriend (she was actually at the party), which makes him a not so nice person (I barely saw her at all). I didn't leave him
- Commented on Okay, serious question. I have been dating this guy for 2 months now. I am starting an egg donation. So for about a month I will be a bit cranky, tired, and not able to drink due to the medicine. I don't live with him & we only see each other on weekends
- Commented on The morning after a drunken hookup that included cuddling and lots of sweet words, I proceeded to throw up on the way to breakfast. It wasn't on him or in his car... still, how high are the chances I am now viewed as "that girl who threw up"? How embarras
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- Commented on Okay, serious question. I have been dating this guy for 2 months now. I am starting an egg donation. So for about a month I will be a bit cranky, tired, and not able to drink due to the medicine. I don't live with him & we only see each other on weekends
- Commented on My boyfriend hates condoms and is terrified of child support. I was a few days late in starting the pill and he refused to have sex for a month and a half. His willpower was better than mine. now he is in the habit of staying up till 6am playing games and
- Commented on Okay, serious question. I have been dating this guy for 2 months now. I am starting an egg donation. So for about a month I will be a bit cranky, tired, and not able to drink due to the medicine. I don't live with him & we only see each other on weekends
- Commented on The morning after a drunken hookup that included cuddling and lots of sweet words, I proceeded to throw up on the way to breakfast. It wasn't on him or in his car... still, how high are the chances I am now viewed as "that girl who threw up"? How embarras
- Commented on I have a crush on youuu <3
- Commented on MM, you're the most brutally honest. I need that. My best guy friend cheated on his girlfriend with me. I told him we couldn't be friends and haven't spoken to him since. Fast forward a few months later, we're about to be back at school together. I feel l
- Commented on Sex Question: How many men do you think would be into a MFM 3-some? (percentage) Really want to ask my Husband but afraid he will freak out-But no Male to Male contact is expected. Don't Judge! I think the response would be diff if I asked about FMF 3 som
- Commented on My boyfriend hates condoms and is terrified of child support. I was a few days late in starting the pill and he refused to have sex for a month and a half. His willpower was better than mine. now he is in the habit of staying up till 6am playing games and
- Commented on How Twitter Makes Dating Difficult
- Commented on I hear that a) you should take things that guys say at face value and b) guys will say a lot (almost anything!) to get in your pants. Conflicting!! Is it a matter of context? What's your take on this?
- Commented on What is your take on a separation to see if a marriage is salvageable? I want one, but my husband doesn't.
- Commented on I am constantly amazed at the wisdom this Guyspeak panel gives to its participants. As a curious one, I have googled the others to get more background on who they are. But you being the MM, I can't do that, so would you share a bit of who you are....like
- Commented on Hey MM,How do you forgive? I stuck by my addict bf through everything; he was 120 days into sobriety and then he relapsed while I was out of town. His reaction was to pack up, move out and dump me. Now he's ignoring me. How can I forgive him and just mo
- Commented on When a guy says he's slept with more than 6 women, around what number is the exact number? More than 6 as in 8 or 9, or more than 6 as in 20+?
- Commented on My summer fling went back to his country and took one of my favorite books (which he read) with him. Is it a trophy or could he just want to have something to remember me by?
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- Commented on Hi Chic Geek! I'm new to the dating scene, but the guy I have been seeing casually mentions his exes in 1-2 sentences, not comparisons but more informative...Is this normal? I don't feel like asking follow questions because I'm afraid I'd start comparin
- Commented on Hey Mystery Man! I need your honest answer! The guy I've been seeing/sleeping with for 2 months goes down on me right before we have sex - every time - would a guy go down on a girl if he wasn't attracted to her? Maybe I'm being insecure, but I'm trying t
- Commented on Why is there always a wet spot after sex?
- Commented on Ladies, Is Your Ex ALWAYS On Your Mind?
- Commented on what does it mean if a man keeps telling you if you want out just say it? it feels like he is trying to get me to end things because he doesnt have the balls.
- Commented on hey! okay soo it bothers me that im not listed as my boyfriends girlfriend on facebook @ that there are no pictures of me on his page and his wall is private. There are however still pics of his ex from 4 exes ago and he freaks out if i grab his phone ..
- Commented on How do you feel about a girl giving you a rose?
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- Commented on blondes or brunettes? lip piercings? rib tattoos? sexy?
- Commented on my boyfriend is getting fatter, help!
- Commented on my boyfriend is getting fatter, help!
- Commented on Can you ever really get over the father of your children abandoning your kids? I can trust other men, but I still hate him so much..
- Commented on my boyfriend is getting fatter, help!
- Commented on is it wrong to want more out of marriage then just security...i want passion, desire, fun, sex without having to ask for it...i am married a long time and want to leave because i'm so sad...
- Commented on did u say my choice?
- Commented on My BF needs to reel in his drinking just a little bit. He's fine, but at our typical weekend gathering with all our friends over, he gets a bit too drunk and it's a turn off. I really don't want to be a nag. My mom constantly nags my dad about drinking to
- Commented on My BF needs to reel in his drinking just a little bit. He's fine, but at our typical weekend gathering with all our friends over, he gets a bit too drunk and it's a turn off. I really don't want to be a nag. My mom constantly nags my dad about drinking to
- Commented on You guys are all amazingly articulate at relating the 'guy's' take on life. I realize this is why you got this gig... but my question is... do you think are representative of guys between 15 - 50? Or are you an elite bunch of emotionally intelligent wri
- Commented on What do you think about J-Lo and Marc Anthony splitting up??
- Commented on I finally got the guts to go out with a guy I met online and it was terrible. He was awkward, kinda judgmental, and after an hour, neither of us we're feeling it. I know dates are allowed to go badly, but this date has killed my confidence. I brought my
- Commented on When do you know a relationship is over?
- Commented on If a man wants to find you, he will find you right? I deleted my email and changed my phone after a recent breakup. We still have mutual friends. If he wanted me back, it wouldn't really deter him if he had to search to contact me, would it?
- Commented on I went though my boyfriend's old computer files and came across old pictures of his exes and him with his exes. I'm upset because when he was transferring files a few months ago I thought he would have deleted those pictures. I was devistated when I
- Commented on Dude. My girlfriend is mad at me for something I said to her in her dream...HELP.
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- Commented on My twin brother and I are blonde, blue-eyed and muscular and "well-endowed." We're in college and the offer we just received is kind of hard to pass up--$25,000 to "perform" sexually for a porn film producer. Should we do it?
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- Commented on I have been dating a girl for 1 year and 4 months. In that time I used her mom so I could be with Cassidy (my gf more) more. I had sex with her 50 year old mom so she would like me more so I could be with her daughter more. My whole mind set was its for C
- Commented on How do you know the love is still burning after three years relationship?
- Commented on my college boyfriend never pays for our dates.
- Commented on I'm a lesbian and my Guy friend tries to sleep with me, why?
- Commented on my college boyfriend never pays for our dates.
- Commented on My boyfriend didn't come to my birthday party. He didn't call or text that he wasn't coming =he wasn't dying,etc. Been together for over a year. We have a family cruise planned in one month. I'm breaking it off with him. Should I allow him to go since he
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- Commented on he doesn't notice all of the things i do for him. What do i do?
- Commented on My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years and I just caught him talking shit about me to a girl he worked with. What does this mean??
- Commented on During a fight my boyfriend called me a spoiled bitch. Would ending the relationship be overreacting? It was a bit of a heated argument, but otherwise I do get the sense that he cares about me. I'm not sure how to react.
- Commented on My name is Stephanie. How do I talk to a white guy on the train doing to work in the DC metro area?
- Commented on Need a reality check, or some solid advice, both of which you have a knack for. Dated for 6mos, but he was dealing with some issues, and we ended, no hard feelings. Back in touch about 8mos later. He has "a girl." We both want to be friends. Not trying to
- Commented on Hey, Mystery Man! I am pretending to be a girl from California to talk to this guy I like via text message. He knows me, but doesn't like me in that way. Should I tell him and have him think I am liar because I betrayed his trust or weep in sorrow alone a
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- Commented on Hi Girls' BFF - my friend just met a guy who's perfect for her. Only problem - he has a gf of 2 months. Neither has done anything inappropriate, but she now keeps talking about waiting to see what happens. Should I encourage her to wait? Or to move on? I
- Commented on Hi Girls' BFF - my friend just met a guy who's perfect for her. Only problem - he has a gf of 2 months. Neither has done anything inappropriate, but she now keeps talking about waiting to see what happens. Should I encourage her to wait? Or to move on? I
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- Commented on Everybody's been watching the Casey Anthony trial. You just answered a question about defense attorneys and you've also mentioned you have a child. What're your mysterious two cents about the verdict?
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- Commented on Please, MM, I'm looking for the answer to an age-old question--which do I follow, my head or my heart? Also, how do I let go of the worry that I will regret whichever choice I do make? If I'm not 100% positive about being with either guy does that mean ne
- Commented on I recently lost my "final ten" and am in the best shape of my life. Since then my BF of 5yrs has been complimenting me constantly, but only about my looks. It's gotten to where I'm starting to feel shallow, like that's all he cares about. Truly I know he
- Commented on I recently lost my "final ten" and am in the best shape of my life. Since then my BF of 5yrs has been complimenting me constantly, but only about my looks. It's gotten to where I'm starting to feel shallow, like that's all he cares about. Truly I know he
- Commented on Please, MM, I'm looking for the answer to an age-old question--which do I follow, my head or my heart? Also, how do I let go of the worry that I will regret whichever choice I do make? If I'm not 100% positive about being with either guy does that mean ne
- Commented on I love a married man who treats me bad. so I by force stepped away.There is other nice loving man asked for my hand, I am marrying him soon but my heart is with the jerk still....... is love, respect and affection enough to marry someone?... I have ki
- Commented on Earning Trust Is Easy. Keeping It Is Hard.
- Commented on I love a married man who treats me bad. so I by force stepped away.There is other nice loving man asked for my hand, I am marrying him soon but my heart is with the jerk still....... is love, respect and affection enough to marry someone?... I have ki
- Commented on i recently joined a dating website& didnt post pics b/c i didn't want anyone i know to see me on there. i sent a couple guys i've been emailing with pics privately, then they stop emailing.not to sound bad, but i'm told i'm pretty a lot& these guys arent
- Commented on My boyfriend & I broke up. Now we are both online. He peaks at my profile but never sends me an email, calls or text me. I think if he was really interested in me he would call me, text me or email me. So why does he keep reviewing my profile? He know's I
- Commented on I have pretty nice boobs... a c cup very round and perky...but i'm worried they're too far apart...i get no cleavage unless i physically squish them together which looks rather awkward when trying to get attention...do guys care about boob separation?
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- Commented on I love a married man who treats me bad. so I by force stepped away.There is other nice loving man asked for my hand, I am marrying him soon but my heart is with the jerk still....... is love, respect and affection enough to marry someone?... I have ki
- Commented on i recently joined a dating website& didnt post pics b/c i didn't want anyone i know to see me on there. i sent a couple guys i've been emailing with pics privately, then they stop emailing.not to sound bad, but i'm told i'm pretty a lot& these guys arent
- Commented on My guy is constantly picking his nose (at home and in public) and it's driving me crazy! I'm not sure how to broach the subject without it being awkward or making him uncomfortable?
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- Commented on Dear mystery man, I know I am a very lucky person. I have all the things a person can ask for. Still, there's this feeling of sadness so overwhelming that never goes away. Its there something wrong with me? Or, could a person be sad without a reason?
- Commented on My guy is constantly picking his nose (at home and in public) and it's driving me crazy! I'm not sure how to broach the subject without it being awkward or making him uncomfortable?
- Commented on If a guy puts up a sort of douchey image and people that know of him think he is a douche or asshole, but he is really nice to me and he has some really good friends, what do I believe?
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- Commented on Boy meets Girl. Boy dumps Girl, but asks to be friends. Girl agrees. Boy starts dating New Girl. Girl is overcome with jealousy. Girl de-friends Boy because she realizes it's too much for her to handle. Boy is hurt and New Girl rips Girl a new one. Should
- Commented on I know you'll tell the truth and yell at me if you think I should stop, but what do you think of a girl who casually dates guys knowing that she likes someone else? I need a way to get over him...
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- Commented on I fell in love w a guy who's recently gotten gastric bypass surgery. Although he's starting to drop weight nd look good I am freaked out by the excess skin and rememants of love handles. I usually go for very thin guys. Am I being a jerk?
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- Commented on My ex is getting married. I still love him. Should I tell him before he ties the knot?
- Commented on How can I get my dad, who is obese and had back surgery so is out of work and home allllllll day, to get up and moving around? He gets pissed when I try to take him out to teach me tennis or hiking. I want him to give a damn about his health. :(
- Commented on If a girl is a little overweight does it stop men from hitting on her?
- Commented on Hey MM! So great first date last night! He had already asked me out again by the end of the date for next weekend which I accepted. 30 min after parting ways, he called me but I couldn't reach the phone in time and he didn't leave voicemail. Pretty sure
- Commented on I confess this was a bad prank, felt bad as soon as i pulled it. But I pranked my bf(who doesnt want kids)leaving a very believable message saying id been calling and that I was pregnant.I thought he'd freak out but he was calm and when I told him it was
- Commented on New York City + Raising a family = What I want. Suburbs + Raising a family = What my fiance wants. Living in the suburbs goes against much of what I stand for. How can we come to an agreement without ruining our relationship? Are we just not meant to be?
- Commented on My boyfriend admits that he hates strip clubs- says the whole situation makes him uncomfortable. Since this flies in the face of a strong male stereotype, I thought I would ask if there are many men who feel the same? Do lots of guys merely go along with
- Commented on I considered him as my older brother, until we cuddled one night. He told me he is afraid i might missunderstand. Still we slept in each other's arms. Now when we go out he kisses me awkwardly on the cheek. Is it possible to tell him i just want to have
- Commented on Dearest CG - I'm jumping the gun on this question... Last year I got out of an abusive relationship and I'm doing fine - I'm very eager to start dating again. I'm a bit apprehensive about how to present this info to a guy if it gets to that point. I don't
- Commented on okay, so im cheating on my "perfect match" with a guy who is probably the worst guy i could choose. he is so awesome, and he gets me, but idk what to do. help??
- Commented on okay, so im cheating on my "perfect match" with a guy who is probably the worst guy i could choose. he is so awesome, and he gets me, but idk what to do. help??
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- Commented on My roommate and I each have a cat, so our apartment ratio of cats to women is even at 2 for 2. We're thinking about getting another kitten, which would put us at 3 cats to 2 women... would that officially make us the cat ladies???
- Commented on We've been together for 11 years. He keeps coming up with "reasons" he wont commit. I'm calling BS on all of them at this point. I'm 48, divorced w/ adult kids, he is 51 never married. Both employed, live separately. He has many wondrful qualities. Just
- Commented on I met this guy online 4 years ago & we got engaged but after that he left for 6 months. He told me that he was in danger with a gang, was hiding out under a different name and didnt want to get me involved with his problems, after that he disappeared. Im
- Commented on New York City + Raising a family = What I want. Suburbs + Raising a family = What my fiance wants. Living in the suburbs goes against much of what I stand for. How can we come to an agreement without ruining our relationship? Are we just not meant to be?
- Commented on What is your opinion on a guy giving a girl a facial? My boyfriend seems into it and I want to satisfy him but I also feel they're kinda gross and degrading. Help?
- Commented on Dearest Wise-Ass, there's a guy at work that likes me and has asked me out. The opportunity is good but the timing is bad; I'm moving an hour away in 2 months. I want to be single because it's a college town and I want to flirt and party guilt-free. How d
- Commented on i'm almost 30 and never had a boyfriend. i decided to join a dating website and am not getting the response i'd like. i don't get it - i've been told by many that i'm pretty. i'm outgoing, smart, accomplished, and funny. i think i have a lot going for me
- Commented on Hey! I'd love some words of wisdom. I hang out with a strikingly gorgeous group of gal pals and I sometimes feel like I'm the gross-grape of the bunch. We all share the same level of high enthusiasm when meeting guys but I hardly ever get noticed when I'
- Commented on I have been with my "boyfriend" for 10 years, but I'm not that into our relationship and haven't been for 2 years. Sexualy not at all. I can't really jsut leave because we have kids together. I'm sleeping with a yonger man who can be great, but after sex
- Commented on This guy I dated and *loaned* money to has never paid me back. We broke up. I contacted him recently for repayment, to no avail. Should I take him to small claims court?
- Commented on How do you know if you're right for someone? My boyfriend and I absolutely love each other (we're even taking about getting engaged) but sometimes I'm not sure if I am right for him based on things he says. I'm worried it'll put too much pressure on me t
- Commented on 51-Year-Old Actor Marries 16-Year-Old, Port-A-Potty Peeping Tom, 'Dilbert' Creator Is Still Sexist, and More in the 'Week in Douche'
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- Commented on I've been what I can't really name more than being just a booty call for the last 20yrs to the same guy..it's time to break away right? It's so hard as we get on so well.
- Commented on Follow Up Answer. My body and its imperfections continue to be deal breakers with men. They say I look far more attractive than I actually am & they feel mislead/disappointed. The constant rejection is dif
- Commented on I have never broken up with anyone before, and I was wondering if you could give me some advice on how to do it kindly and cleanly. We were together for three years.
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- Commented on What's the difference between a man in love and a woman in love? I heard guys, when they do fall in love, fall harder than women. Is that true?
- Commented on I have never broken up with anyone before, and I was wondering if you could give me some advice on how to do it kindly and cleanly. We were together for three years.
- Commented on ♥♥♥ I am not sure which among you are dads (MM, GBff, WA and FG?), but HaPpY FaThErS' DaY! Just wanted to greet you all and say we truly appreciate you men. ♥♥♥
- Commented on My boyfriend keeps begging for anal. We've tried it and it was extremely painful for me and I did NOT enjoy it whatsoever. But he keeps asking me and threatening to just "stick it in my butt" anyway. It's a huge turn off and I'm getting annoyed but he kee
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- Commented on The Scenario: When you're on a first or second or third date with a girl, do you prefer she say up front she isn't going to sleep with you, or would you rather she set boundaries in the heat of the moment? (note: she WANTS you ... she just wants to wait,
- Commented on My first love died a little over two years ago, for a while I was depressed and certainly not ready to date, but now I feel I'm ready to move on. I find now, though, I'm not interested in very many guys, and they aren't interested in me. Is there a way to
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- Commented on Is it okay to pursue a relationship with a married man, if he doesn't have kids and realized that his wife isn't the person he thought she was? I DON'T approve of cheating, and I wouldn't sleep with him until he was free, but I still wonder if it's okay
- Commented on Whenever I start to get to know a guy, he always becomes detached and uses the phrase, "You're just too good for me." What gives?
- Commented on Do you think when the right person happens into our life..., we drop our walls a bit to let them in? I sure hope so because I can't find a way out on my own.
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- Commented on My boyfriend calls me whore,slut,bitch,dyke an then says hes joking. Ive told him this hurts my feelings, and he'll stop for a few days and then he does it again. I dont know if I should stick around to see if he changes, or kick his ass to the curb. Advi
- Commented on I love that you tell it how it is WA. I met a guy, we hit it off, he asked for my number, and I never heard back. What is that? Should I ask him out, or am I just wasting my time?
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- Commented on Do you believe in Karma? Like what goes around comes around? I dated this REALLY Bad guy and I feel like he deserves his. Do you think he will get it? (I won't be the one giving it to him btw!!! lol)
- Commented on I've been dating a guy for 6 months. We get along great and the sex is amazing. He's VERY committed to his family and it leaves very little time for us to see each other. He says I'm only his 3rd serious relationship (he's 33) and it's all starting to m
- Commented on Not actually a question this time. Just wanted to say thank you to all of Guyspeak. I have read the archives and laughed, cried and had so many squemish moments it's not even funny. But most of all, I've learned a lot about myself reading other's question
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- Commented on whats your opinion on ex's. do you keep them around as friends, or never see eachother again? can you talk occasionally? would the answer be different if he broke your heart/you broke his? my ex is friends with all of his ex's. but im not speaking to him,
- Commented on I know I can't make a man love me, but I'm so confused. I was dating this guy, and he told me that he loves spending time with me, it's the best sex he's ever had, that I'm hot as hell, that I am a great person, but there is something missing?I don't get
- Commented on I don't mind my man having accounts online, but why would he hide a myspace full of his ex's and his best friend, then denies it when i asked him about it?
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- Commented on I have a hard time meeting guys. I work in an industry that is all women and I don't really go out, work is my life. I am open to meeting someone, but it also takes me awhile to get comfortable. Meaning I can't just jump into a relationship sexually until
- Commented on I don't mind my man having accounts online, but why would he hide a myspace full of his ex's and his best friend, then denies it when i asked him about it?
- Commented on I need to know how to give a good BJ...can you help?
- Commented on My boyfriend cheated on me via email with an ex-gf: telling her he thought about her when he had sex with me, that he wanted to f* her, etc. He's begging for another chance, listing all these reasons for why he did it & how he'll make it up. Once a cheat
- Commented on Do you think it's okay for a girl to exercise in just a sports bra in public?
- Commented on im a 22 year old woman.why do i hardly ever want sex? and my boyfriend would have it 3 times a day if he could? whats wrong with me?
- Commented on If i am dating a guy and not happy should i stay, even though he claims i only care about my feelings?
- Commented on Strong Walls Make For Poor Lovers
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- Commented on Strong Walls Make For Poor Lovers
- Commented on Strong Walls Make For Poor Lovers
- Commented on Strong Walls Make For Poor Lovers
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- Commented on My boyfriend is very controlling. But, only when it comes to me spending time with my girlfriends. We ALWAYS fight when I talk to him about going out. Then when I go, I recieve retaliation for it. Im a very faithful/honest person. What can I do to make hi
- Commented on After my brother had a bunch of his bro friends over for some late-night Call of Duty party in our basement, I found several unopened and a few possibly-used condoms strewn across the floor. Needless to say, slightly confused and grossed out. Massive gay
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- Commented on My boyfriend frequently calls me "mom" and sometimes "sis"when we are having sex....your thoughts?
- Commented on So i havent seen my boyfriend in a few days and today i find a hairpin on his dresser that definitely isnt mine. Is there any scenario here where he didnt blatantly fuck around while i was away?
- Commented on After years of failed dieting and working out, I'm considering getting lipo b/c my body is effecting my confidence (which is also messing w/my dating life). My best friend told me that some guys will be turned off by the fact that I got plastic surgery.
- Commented on Not sure how I feel about my partner watching porn. I know alot of men watch porn but my problem is that even if I participate with him I feel as though he is more interested in the girls than me. What do you think about this?
- Commented on MM, I am a strong Christian and I want to know how you and other non-Christians feel about us talking about and sharing our faith... do you see it as pushy or arrogant? and what about a situation where a friend is asking big life questions and I feel like
- Commented on My boyfriend is for all intensive purposes a city boy and my best friend grew up in the country. They are always at odds! City thinks country guy is a redneck. Country thinks City can be too uptight. The thing is I like both of them for who they are & wha
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- Commented on THE FIRST MOVE: can a girl make it or is it a nono? I feel like I've heard contradicting thoughts on this topic for forever and would like to hear your opinion and your reasoning behind it. Thanks Wise-Ass!
- Commented on i hate people. is this something i need to fix?
- Commented on Long story short, MM, I cheated with a single guy, then confessed to the guy I wronged and broke up with him. Now I've been with the guy I cheated with for a year and a half and I still worry constantly about whether or not he trusts me. He says he does,
- Commented on MM, I'm nearing my late 20s, have things that I am passionate about and pursuing, and am happy with my life, but my lack of relationship experience is starting to kill my confidence. I've never had a boyfriend, though I was in love once. Why does this sca
- Commented on Why do I fall for men so easily? I start talking to a guy & if I like him just a little bit, all I think about is him, I dream about him everynight & I get really anxious if I don't hear from them for a period of time. I also put my male friendships on a
- Commented on MM, I'm nearing my late 20s, have things that I am passionate about and pursuing, and am happy with my life, but my lack of relationship experience is starting to kill my confidence. I've never had a boyfriend, though I was in love once. Why does this sca
- Commented on Why do I fall for men so easily? I start talking to a guy & if I like him just a little bit, all I think about is him, I dream about him everynight & I get really anxious if I don't hear from them for a period of time. I also put my male friendships on a
- Commented on Why do I fall for men so easily? I start talking to a guy & if I like him just a little bit, all I think about is him, I dream about him everynight & I get really anxious if I don't hear from them for a period of time. I also put my male friendships on a
- Commented on MM, I'm nearing my late 20s, have things that I am passionate about and pursuing, and am happy with my life, but my lack of relationship experience is starting to kill my confidence. I've never had a boyfriend, though I was in love once. Why does this sca
- Commented on Why do I fall for men so easily? I start talking to a guy & if I like him just a little bit, all I think about is him, I dream about him everynight & I get really anxious if I don't hear from them for a period of time. I also put my male friendships on a
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- Commented on I check my guys phone records and noticed that he blatantly lies to me about talking to certain girls and how often. What should I do?
- Commented on Hello you sexy boothang! See what I did there? Anyway, the ex bf just got back from a 2 week vacation. Why do I know this? He called and called and texted, just to let me know. He always does the random calls/texts to just say hi or see how I'm doing
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- Commented on I have told this girl multiple times i do not like her. But she is persistant on trying to get me to like her. I just don't. She is an amazing friend but i really do not know how to get her to stop with out ruining a friendship. Help?
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- Commented on You know that time after a big fight when the two people are sulking, and even though both of them want to snap out of it, they just can't? Because the atmosphere is ruined. Do you have any tips to get out of that zone fast? It can last hours.
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- Commented on I happen to be allergic to alcohol & whenever I tell a guy, he just laughs at me and says something like "Oh, you're one of those girls..." I then try to tell him that I really am allergic, but he just keeps laughing. How do I make guys really believe tha
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- Commented on I happen to be allergic to alcohol & whenever I tell a guy, he just laughs at me and says something like "Oh, you're one of those girls..." I then try to tell him that I really am allergic, but he just keeps laughing. How do I make guys really believe tha
- Commented on MM, I'm taking a summer class and really need it for graduation next year. My bf signed up for the same exact class and got in. It's our first ever class together and I'm hating it. He tries to rub my back in class, hold hands, etc. and gets mad when I te
- Commented on I've been with my boyfriend about 4 months now and he's amazing. We've known each other for YEARS, good friends, dated long ago, etc... Says he's very happy, calls all the time, go out a couple times a week, etc... except he won't kiss me. I don't get
- Commented on I am married and seeing a close friend who is also married but in an open marriage. Her husband and son follow me on Facebook and now it's getting to be a little weird for me. I have had the best of all times with her sexually but, feel this is one that c
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- Commented on Im a muslim, dating someone out of my religion (Druze). I've lied to my parents about his religion so they wouldnt end it. And my boyfriend and I could have a future through civil marriage, but probably being shut out from our families and the society. Re
- Commented on What's your take on The Rapture?
- Commented on My boyfriend told me on Monday that he didn't masturbate all weekend because he was "saving" himself for me.... Is this common and am I supposed to be flattered?!
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- Commented on MM, I asked this question before but I'm going to ask again. I just graduated from a really good college, but my grades were pretty low because of family/personal problems. Is it unrealistic for me to plan to go to grad school with such a low gpa? I've he
- Commented on What does it mean when your ex says he wants to bang you, but he's in a relationship, but says sleeping with you would be different? Could it be possible that he is just trying to sleep with me since we never did when we were actually dating? Is it all ph
- Commented on Is it possible to meet a person you like at the wrong time in their life? (ie: getting over a hard breakup) What are the chances something may become of it?
- Commented on WA, how can I make my friends stop making me feel bad about not leaving tips when eating out? Some have stopped eating with me because of this. I didn't grow up with American values and I don't really practice the culture despite living in the U.S. Beside
- Commented on WA, how can I make my friends stop making me feel bad about not leaving tips when eating out? Some have stopped eating with me because of this. I didn't grow up with American values and I don't really practice the culture despite living in the U.S. Beside
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- Commented on Why is it taking a man who's just graduated college, has a job lined up and has been in love with me for three years taking so long to put this into full gear? We've been dating on and off for forever, and Im ready to work towards marriage. Help!
- Commented on My border masturbates soo loudly, I can hear his groans of pleasure in my upstairs bedroom. Last night he left his bedroom door open and I could hear the physical contact (slapping sounds). It is my home and he rents from me. What to do?
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- Commented on My friend is completely hooked on a guy who uses her to pump his ego. I've told her he's just being a jerk, so have many others, and she seems to understand, yet he continues to have this power over her. Is there anything I can do? Maybe talk to the guy?
- Commented on My friend is completely hooked on a guy who uses her to pump his ego. I've told her he's just being a jerk, so have many others, and she seems to understand, yet he continues to have this power over her. Is there anything I can do? Maybe talk to the guy?
- Commented on MM, I am FREAKING out. My (abusive) ex dropped off a letter for me! Like, actually CAME and put it in the mailbox. Though the letter isn't malicious or anything, it scares me that my ABUSER came to my HOUSE. What should I do?? I'm worried he won't let thi
- Commented on Should I be concerned if my boyfriend repeatedly comments on his ex-girlfriend's photos and statuses on Facebook?
- Commented on MM, I am FREAKING out. My (abusive) ex dropped off a letter for me! Like, actually CAME and put it in the mailbox. Though the letter isn't malicious or anything, it scares me that my ABUSER came to my HOUSE. What should I do?? I'm worried he won't let thi
- Commented on Hey BFF. I've been in a non-dating slump for a loooong time now and I know some of it is my fault because I rarely left the house but now I'm ready to go! The only problem is I have no idea where to start. Any advice on where a nice regular girl should go
- Commented on MM, I am FREAKING out. My (abusive) ex dropped off a letter for me! Like, actually CAME and put it in the mailbox. Though the letter isn't malicious or anything, it scares me that my ABUSER came to my HOUSE. What should I do?? I'm worried he won't let thi
- Commented on I've been getting rumors that my husband has been flirting @ work w/ a co-worker. They text a lot but nothing incriminating. I found pix & jokes he had made for her on his phone that he hid from me. He denies there is anything going on & she does too. Is
- Commented on I watch a lot of CSI, SVU etc. and in one of the recent episodes they mentioned how it was impossible to roofie/date rape a guy because they wouldn't get it up. is this true? because if it is I've accidentally caught my BFF's BF lying He said he lost his
- Commented on what does it mean if your boyfriend texts you that yall cant text because his wife is home, but the he doesnt text you while hes at work like he usually does
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- Commented on I cheated on my boyfriend on a 3 week trip with someone and now: pregnant with an std - how do I tell them?
- Commented on I cheated on my boyfriend on a 3 week trip with someone and now: pregnant with an std - how do I tell them?
- Commented on I cheated on my boyfriend on a 3 week trip with someone and now: pregnant with an std - how do I tell them?
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- Commented on My father drinks 1-3 bottles of wine every single night of the week. He can barely speak or keep his eyes open as the evenings progress.My family ignore this.I have told him he drinks far too much many times and he dismisses me. He isn't young and I am wo
- Commented on I've been hooking up with this guy that I work with. We hang out, head to bed, have sex, and I usually leave while he's sleeping... Then at work the next morning, we act like nothing happened. We both don't want any attachment, so it should be good. But I
- Commented on I cheated on my boyfriend on a 3 week trip with someone and now: pregnant with an std - how do I tell them?
- Commented on My father drinks 1-3 bottles of wine every single night of the week. He can barely speak or keep his eyes open as the evenings progress.My family ignore this.I have told him he drinks far too much many times and he dismisses me. He isn't young and I am wo
- Commented on I've been hooking up with this guy that I work with. We hang out, head to bed, have sex, and I usually leave while he's sleeping... Then at work the next morning, we act like nothing happened. We both don't want any attachment, so it should be good. But I
- Commented on My boyfriend hasn't been to the dentist in years. His gums sometimes bleed and I'm worried they're infected. I've told him I'm worried about it, but he shrugs it off. I think he's embarrassed. How do I get him to go to
- Commented on From a guys opinion, do you think women expect too much from guys?
- Commented on My father drinks 1-3 bottles of wine every single night of the week. He can barely speak or keep his eyes open as the evenings progress.My family ignore this.I have told him he drinks far too much many times and he dismisses me. He isn't young and I am wo
- Commented on Readers Respond: I met this Spanish guy in a fair and we kissed,touched and i gave him bj,but we hadn't have sex.He said in the fair he stopped for me not for the products and i have a feeling for him.But he gone back to Spain the next day
- Commented on What are the chances of a serious relationship developing between a stoner and a straitlaced gal?
- Commented on Hi BFF! Please settle a Friend Zone argument: Will a guy ever really put a girl (one he spends a significant amount of time with) in the friend zone? My male coworkers say no bc the thought of hooking up is always there. Are they right or can a guy and gi
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- Commented on My boyfriend of three years recently got a job on a cruise ship. He will be gone for 8 months with limited internet/phone access. I need advice on how to deal with his absence.
- Commented on is there some thing wrong with me wanting to date a guy who is technicly stilll married and lives with his wife or ex even tho he claims there is no relationship between them they stay living together due to financial problems and because of there son , i
- Commented on My Husband is abusive. I want to leave but I feel so guilty. A few of years ago (before the abuse) I had a serious surgery and he was my donor. I feel as though I owe him my life (which I technically do) and that im some heartless b*tch who left the man t
- Commented on Hi MM, quick question: is it EVER an okay idea to try to be friends again with an ex-partner that abused you in the past?
- Commented on Is it my fault my boyfriend broke my iPhone? He says I acted too shady with my iPhone, so he had two choices: stop caring about me or get my attention by breaking my iPhone. I'm really hurt, but he is trying to fix my iPhone now. When we talk about hi
- Commented on loyalty is dead/true love is a fairy tale/what good are virtues if they make you stuck up/superficiality is the new good/if it seems too good to be true it probably is/people love you for what they can get out of you--not for you/strength is found when em
- Commented on My friend wants to set me up on a date with her friend's friend...I've never been on a blind date. I'm kind of freaking out. What if he's not my type? (Hate to sound shallow, but what if he's not...physically attractive?) HELP HELP HELP! I need your opini
- Commented on I have been cheating on my boyfriend of 10 months.It's sexual,thats it. He doesn't "do it" for me sexually. We've tried to have sex,but it just doesn't work out. Do I tell him I cheated? I don't wanna lose him! Idk what to do!
- Commented on He has a girlfriend yet he shows signs that he likes me. I like him too, what should I do?
- Commented on I have been cheating on my boyfriend of 10 months.It's sexual,thats it. He doesn't "do it" for me sexually. We've tried to have sex,but it just doesn't work out. Do I tell him I cheated? I don't wanna lose him! Idk what to do!
- Commented on I have been cheating on my boyfriend of 10 months.It's sexual,thats it. He doesn't "do it" for me sexually. We've tried to have sex,but it just doesn't work out. Do I tell him I cheated? I don't wanna lose him! Idk what to do!
- Commented on Not every single time (I'd say about 5/8 times) my guy cums too early. Should I be worried? Does he need to see a doctor? I don't want to ask him in case it's not really a big deal and I embarrass myself.. I probably will just thought your insane knowledg
- Commented on I have an older male prof who I consider a good friend. I am about to graduate. We even went out to lunch once, and he even helped me with a huge college project, which required us meeting alone on campus a lot. I have his # and want to talk to him/hang b
- Commented on My boyfriend is 38 and has only been in two relationships -- a brief one is high school and a one-year relationship with a single mom. I'm 25 and we've been together for over a year. Any reason to be wary about older men who have not had real relationship
- Commented on Male Teasing? A friend or not a friend? (In other words... is he teasing like a brother or someone who is a bit more interested) AKA "ohhhhh here's ___________ my amazing chemistry class friend"...
- Commented on Oh wise Mystery Man, please help, I feel so bummed out and confused. Why won't my crush for over a year ask me out? I am positive he likes me back, and has for quite some time. We talk all the time, walk to classes together, etc. He even told my friend th
- Commented on My boyfriend says he is not into me but more into my friend. What should I do?
- Commented on My bf will be temporarily living with me (and my roomies) over the summer. People keep saying we'll get sick of each other since we'll have so much free time. I don't really believe it, but I'm getting a little worried. Will it change our relationship? Wh
- Commented on What does it mean when a guy says "don't fall in love with me"?
- Commented on Male Teasing? A friend or not a friend? (In other words... is he teasing like a brother or someone who is a bit more interested) AKA "ohhhhh here's ___________ my amazing chemistry class friend"...
- Commented on is it true that men respond to distance? 4 yrs post divorce dating still makes me feel sometimes like mom thats sending jello cups when all the others know fun cheez is the shit. just got flowers so pretty sure the new guy i'm dating is nuts about me, but
- Commented on Is it crazy to pose as someone else on MySpace to talk to my highschool sweetheart? Not trying to find anything out I just miss our conversations we where together for 3yrs he was my best friend. The break up didn't go well that's why id pose as someone e
- Commented on I have a boyfriend who hits me. But I really truly love him and he is convincing me that he will change.
- Commented on I can't forget the boy who took my virginity. I feel like I will never forget him, and that no matter who comes next, it won't be as exciting as the first one because I've already done it. Not only that, but I'm used goods, right?
- Commented on HELP!!!! I just found out that the guy am dating for 2 mos has herpes and he confessed to me when he had an outbreak, i feel betrayed. He should've told me first b4 we jumped into bed -- he said he completely forgotten about it. what do i do now?
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- Commented on Bonjour MM! Timing. How important is timing for guys in the process of falling in love? You meet a girl. You like her, she's great, but you're just not ready (no steady job, not sure what the future holds). Would you say that timing is a good excuse for b
- Commented on HELP!!!! I just found out that the guy am dating for 2 mos has herpes and he confessed to me when he had an outbreak, i feel betrayed. He should've told me first b4 we jumped into bed -- he said he completely forgotten about it. what do i do now?
- Commented on Is it bad if im only 18 and messing around with a 25 year old, and that has a girlfriend????
- Commented on How do you go about letting the past go? I had so many bad experiences last year that I have let it affect my current sense of self worth. I just don't have the same level of confidence that I used to. Please help.
- Commented on I want to send my boy a naughty picture for the first time.. When would be a good time? When he's at work? Sleeping so he'll get it in the morning? A few hours before I see him? Yes I know it might not be the best idea but I'm a big girl and this is my de
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- Commented on My bf broke it off & wants to be friends. He said that he may want to get back together, but doesn't have time for a relationship now. I know he isn't seeing anyone. But, for the last month of our relationship til now, he'll completely ignore me for weeks
- Commented on I'm an arab girl. For 5 years I had a relationship with an man and, now im not virgin he turned his back on me.
- Commented on I just started dating this guy and we're very physically attracted to each other that we ended up having sex on our first date. Now he wants to step back to "take it slow", wait on the sex to see if we can develop our relationship into something more--see
- Commented on He says he's committed, for good... so why does he still have dating site profiles? Albeit ones that he doesn't log into and that show his relationship status. Those can be disabled, so if he's really committed, why not disable them rather than just state
- Commented on My sister and I are roommates and her scumbag BF who has knocked her up twice, is unemployed, leeches off of her, and won't even watch his OWN KIDS; has now moved in with us. She knows I hate him and this wasn't part of the deal when I moved in. I'm tempt
- Commented on I've never given a blowjob before, but I'm pretty eager to. Thing is, whenever I get the chance my boyfriend pushes on my head. Every time. and that actually really pisses me off! So I don't do it. Am I being irrational, or is this just a guy thing?
- Commented on I was raped when I was 12 and when I found the courage to tell my parents, my Dad told me I was lying and my mother kind of brushed it off. I told my boyfriend about my past and it triggered some sad memories for me this week. Now I'm depressed and I don'
- Commented on HELP!!!! I just found out that the guy am dating for 2 mos has herpes and he confessed to me when he has an outbreak, i feel betrayed bcos he shuld've told me first b4 we jumped into bed, he said he completely forgotten abt it, i really like him and devas
- Commented on I am the main breadwinner, while he contributes some (as I have a much better paying future). He still wants me to do most of the "female" things around the house, go to grad school AND work, while he is not working (just got laid off) and is in school. H
- Commented on My guy friend told me that men often say they love you without feeling that way or even being encouraged because they want women to be in love with them. He says men do it to gain the upper hand over women! Confirm or deny this please!
- Commented on I've never given a blowjob before, but I'm pretty eager to. Thing is, whenever I get the chance my boyfriend pushes on my head. Every time. and that actually really pisses me off! So I don't do it. Am I being irrational, or is this just a guy thing?
- Commented on HELP!!!! I just found out that the guy am dating for 2 mos has herpes and he confessed to me when he has an outbreak, i feel betrayed bcos he shuld've told me first b4 we jumped into bed, he said he completely forgotten abt it, i really like him and devas
- Commented on Dating Site HowAboutWe Offers 10 Ways To Improve Your Dating Life
- Commented on My boyfriend is a virgin (He didn't tell me he was until after we'd slept together). He gets mad at me because I wasn't one when we met, and he feels entitled to a threesome because of it. I think that threesomes can be fatal to a relationship. What shoul
- Commented on What are your thoughts on relocating to a new state for a significant other, if you're not married, but in a serious relationship? My bf is itching to return home to chicago (we're both done with college). I'm interested in making the leap w/him, (b/c
- Commented on I kissed my ex's best friend after we'd broken up. It never went anywhere, in fact I was rudely snuffed. Now I'm back in contact and trying at friendship with my ex after a personal tragedy of his. Am I obligated to tell my ex what happened?
- Commented on Five Signs That You're the Other Woman
- Commented on Is it better to be with someone who makes you happy but never on a consistent basis (I'd say 25% of the time), or to be alone?
- Commented on What do men think about big-pussies?
- Commented on Any hopes for a group chat soon??
- Commented on Hey Nick! I'm curious to know what your opinion about the former UCLA student Alexandra Wallace is?
- Commented on I'm pregnant from a one night stand. Definitely can't have this baby and going to have an abortion. Do I still tell the guy?
- Commented on How soon after a breakup can you start snuggling someone new? Guy Group Question!
- Commented on How soon after a breakup can you start snuggling someone new? Guy Group Question!
- Commented on Ok so I know you will give me a no bs answer, Wise-Ass. Here goes: I think my guy friend of several years has feelings for me. He has never admitted it, but I just have that intuition. I either need to hear that he doesn't if he hasn't made a move and all
- Commented on Hey mystery man! So there is this guy that totally led me on and totally played me. I feel like an idiot. Its been like 3 months and im still really mad. Is it stupid to go tell him off and speak my mind or should I just let it go, letting him feel like h
- Commented on Do you think an ex lover that left his girl to the girl's best friend and probably later broke up with the girl's best friend to be with his ex which was his first girl - can be trusted?
- Commented on my partner is 58 years old and he looks like his penis is getting smaller?
- Commented on It's been a month since I've responded, but he keeps texting me (from "I love you, I miss you, I want you" to "I hate you, I hope you get hit by a bus"). He's doing anything to get me to respond, I still have feelings for him but I refuse. I want to move
- Commented on This sucks: my husband cheated, then brought the other woman & her spouse into our circle of friends. Our friends are important to us & fun. We vacation together. I can't stand the humiliation of being in the same room w/the other woman though & shes
- Commented on I'm sleeping with a man who has a girlfriend. He has feelings for me, and I have a bit of a crush on him as well. I would never date him. Is it wrong to be sleeping with him? I'm sure if it wasn't me it would be someone else. I'm only in it for the sex. A
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- Commented on Please help; I am in love with a married man. We worked together for 6 years and became great friends. I moved away from him thinking 'out of sight out of mind'. It has been 2 years and I still love him and think of him daily. I will not be with him while
- Commented on have you ever used a girl as your psychiatrist? as in, you weren't really in love with her but she was always there to listen about your issues?
- Commented on My brother seems to lack "life skills." He doesn't know how to sleep, eat, study etc. He got kicked out of two high schools and is flunking college. My parents are desperate. I think volunteer work abroad might help. What can we do to make him realize he
- Commented on what does it mean when your bf no longer wants to live with you?
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- Commented on My husband and I are going through infertility treatments after 7 years of trying for a baby. Now I only want to have sex when there might be a slim chance of conceiving. The rest of the month? Not so much. What can I do to rev up the whole month?
- Commented on have you ever used a girl as your psychiatrist? as in, you weren't really in love with her but she was always there to listen about your issues?
- Commented on have you ever used a girl as your psychiatrist? as in, you weren't really in love with her but she was always there to listen about your issues?
- Commented on I want the hard truth. My perfect bf is friends with an ex, and when she visits from out of town 3-4 times a year, he drops everything (including me) to take her to dinner 2-3 times. I demanded he stop seeing her and it ended the relationship. We're both
- Commented on have you ever used a girl as your psychiatrist? as in, you weren't really in love with her but she was always there to listen about your issues?
- Commented on For the first time in my life, I just don't know whether to stay or get out. It's driving me mad! PLEASE - do u have some quantifiable method of figuring out whether it's worth it? What if u still love being with someone and it FEELS amazing, but they wer
- Commented on For the first time in my life, I just don't know whether to stay or get out. It's driving me mad! PLEASE - do u have some quantifiable method of figuring out whether it's worth it? What if u still love being with someone and it FEELS amazing, but they wer
- Commented on what should you do if you catch your best friend's partner cheating?
- Commented on How long can you date a woman who is too old to marry (and whom you have told to her face that you will not marry her) without ruining her life by taking her final attractive (mid- and late-30s) years?>
- Commented on My boyfriend breaks my stuff whenever he is mad at me. What should I do?
- Commented on Someone Please Call 911...And Then My Ex!
- Commented on We are in the silent treatment and I want to break it. What should I start out by saying? Our fight was over him hanging out with two girls I don't know and I got mad and he knew it
- Commented on How can you possibly get over someone you still love, and think about every day? And please don't give me that "focus on yourself" bullsh*t.
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- Commented on my ex(who has a gf) texted me the other night telling me basically that he wanted to do me. when I said no, it seemed like he was really okay with that. Is it possible he was just seeing if I still wanted him and had no real interest in seeing me? and do
- Commented on Sometimes The Best Date You Can Go On Is With No One
- Commented on Hi MM: I'm in a terrible situation- one of my best friends is in an emotionally abusive relationship, and he's making her depressed and brainwashed. What can I say to her to make her see what's happening? Also, she's the type who always does the opposite
- Commented on Be honest with me, MM. Does sex lose its emotional value the more people you've done it with?
- Commented on Be honest with me, MM. Does sex lose its emotional value the more people you've done it with?
- Commented on It's possible I need a reality check, but I'd like to hear it from you, if so. If a guy isn't looking for a commitment, is there any way this can change? We're talking a 21 year-old here. We had conflicting desires in the beginning, so we decided to stay
- Commented on Some Things Can't Be Fixed
- Commented on We were on a break....now we're not and he just found out he has a child with a woman he slept with during the previously mentioned break. What's a girl to do? We were planning our own baby, by the way.
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- Commented on Is it true that all guy's (semen) tastes different?
- Commented on Is it true that all guy's (semen) tastes different?
- Commented on My boyfriend occasionally gets txts and calls from a female coworker late at night. He doesn't answer them right away because I'm there but I know he does the next day, at work. He hid her email address in an iphone Note instead of in his contacts. Is it
- Commented on My boyfriend occasionally gets txts and calls from a female coworker late at night. He doesn't answer them right away because I'm there but I know he does the next day, at work. He hid her email address in an iphone Note instead of in his contacts. Is it
- Commented on Buying underwear for my guy... too serious? We've been dating for about 4 months... too soon? His boxers are terrible and holey and old and he works a TON. He says he just doesn't have time/buying boxers is the last thing on his to-do list...
- Commented on My friend tried to set me up with a guy she knew. When he got there, he glanced at me, laughed, turned to her and said "you bitch," and drove away. My friend said it was because I refused to wear the see-through blouse she had suggested. I think it's bec
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- Commented on My confidence is extremely low. I know I'm attractive but every time I've attempted any date or relationship it's ended in disaster... I'm on the verge of doing stupid things, how the can I stop myself and/or get an egoboost?
- Commented on This is gonna sound silly, but are there any sure-fire ways to make an ex come back (preferably crawl back)?
- Commented on How To Kill A Relationship In Three Easy Steps
- Commented on Hello MM no guys on this site have addressed the "CREEPY" factor that some guys seem to exhibit. Why do so many men come off creepy when they hit on the ladies? And are they aware of this? I know most of them are harmless and (lets hope) have good intenti
- Commented on Bf adds on FB a lot of women he doesn't know personally, whose profiles claim they're artists of some kind & have revealing pictures... I haven't said anything yet, but it makes me feel odd. I do remember him saying he adds a lot of fellow artists (networ
- Commented on Hello MM no guys on this site have addressed the "CREEPY" factor that some guys seem to exhibit. Why do so many men come off creepy when they hit on the ladies? And are they aware of this? I know most of them are harmless and (lets hope) have good intenti
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- Commented on What do you do when you're never good enough? I try but I fail at everything. And I can no longer afford for my mistakes/ inabilities to affect others. This probably my fourth unanswered question btw. Guess I should stop asking questions.
- Commented on I gotta ask your opinion cause you always give the truest answers: boyfriend in the marines, send him the naked picture or not?
- Commented on He said "I love you" on our 3rd date during our first romp in the hay. He said it more than once and while looking me in the eyes. I didn't reply. It's been a few days since this event and I've heard nothing from him. Is he freaking out? Should I do s
- Commented on umm...have you heard that Rebecca Black song? And can you believe it's actually doing well? Love your music choices so I thought I'd ask about this...
- Commented on I gotta ask your opinion cause you always give the truest answers: boyfriend in the marines, send him the naked picture or not?
- Commented on I am the voice of reason and calmness for my Navy son who is stationed in Japan during this horrific time. He calls me daily for support. It's hard to get my arms around what my child is witnessing over there.
- Commented on What do you do when you're never good enough? I try but I fail at everything. And I can no longer afford for my mistakes/ inabilities to affect others. This probably my fourth unanswered question btw. Guess I should stop asking questions.
- Commented on umm...have you heard that Rebecca Black song? And can you believe it's actually doing well? Love your music choices so I thought I'd ask about this...
- Commented on My bf is in wk 5 of outpatient rehab, recovering from a weed dependency. I've stuck by his side and tried to be supportive w/out enabling. It seems like every day there is a new fire to put out. I'm the only one he has who can help. What's the best way t
- Commented on I am the voice of reason and calmness for my Navy son who is stationed in Japan during this horrific time. He calls me daily for support. It's hard to get my arms around what my child is witnessing over there.
- Commented on I am the voice of reason and calmness for my Navy son who is stationed in Japan during this horrific time. He calls me daily for support. It's hard to get my arms around what my child is witnessing over there.
- Commented on My bf is in wk 5 of outpatient rehab, recovering from a weed dependency. I've stuck by his side and tried to be supportive w/out enabling. It seems like every day there is a new fire to put out. I'm the only one he has who can help. What's the best way t
- Commented on What does it mean when after GREAT sex with your long time guy says "you're all right with me"
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- Commented on I'm a feminist, passionate about gender issues. Guys have told me that I lecture/"get preachy" when I try to start discussion. Don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm bashing hetero men, I believe these aren't just "women's issues" so I try to start honest
- Commented on I recently entered into a relationship with a very sweet man who was honorably discharged from the army; we get along great but I feel as if I might be walking on eggshells with him. Would you have any advice to give on this subject?
- Commented on why is it so hard to leave an abusive man? why do we love these kinds of men? and if we do leave them were broken and torn apart.. i never thought id be one of these "weak women" .. but i thought i found "true love" and now its so hard to just going back
- Commented on If a guy hasnt text me in 9 days and I start missing him and I text him I miss you and then I ask honestly did you miss me he says kinda what's that mean?
- Commented on ok bfs perfect..but i went to visit him &were play wrestling (i was opening a note i found in his room) he started hurting me (holding my wrists too tight not hitting) i told him &he kept apologizing while it was happening..we didnt talk for the 4 days i
- Commented on why do men keep old love letters from ex girlfriends and think its ok?
- Commented on Please help! I'm very confused. How do I get a Nice Man to ask me out? I'm a former model, so I get plenty of looks, but no offers. What's the deal? Would it be horribly forward and slutty for me to approach a man I find attractive? How would I do it? Wha
- Commented on Please help! I'm very confused. How do I get a Nice Man to ask me out? I'm a former model, so I get plenty of looks, but no offers. What's the deal? Would it be horribly forward and slutty for me to approach a man I find attractive? How would I do it? Wha
- Commented on My husband won't stay off of dating sites. this makes me feel unwanted and betrayed. No trust=no sex. but even a three month no entry warning has no effect. What do I do? Divorce is not an option. Going on almost six months with no sex, he is still o
- Commented on Why is it that guys will not come up to me in public, but on a dating site, I cant get them to stop messaging me? I have been told im intimidating and i think thats a BS excuse for a man to not talk to a woman...thoughts?
- Commented on Sex and the Law.
- Commented on Are there certain times/situations when it's okay to take back a cheating boyfriend?
- Commented on Please help! I'm very confused. How do I get a Nice Man to ask me out? I'm a former model, so I get plenty of looks, but no offers. What's the deal? Would it be horribly forward and slutty for me to approach a man I find attractive? How would I do it? Wha
- Commented on My sweet, loving boyfriend is a pig when it comes to sex. There I said it. He told me he wishes I had bigger boobs & more ass. I'm very fit, but he suggested I try for a six pack abs to make my chest look bigger. He also suggested surgery and to wear tigh
- Commented on My husband won't stay off of dating sites. this makes me feel unwanted and betrayed. No trust=no sex. but even a three month no entry warning has no effect. What do I do? Divorce is not an option. Going on almost six months with no sex, he is still o
- Commented on So my boyfriend had sex with my mom, one day after he proposed to me. We were on a vacation and i walked into our room, and saw them having sex. He has no clue that i walked in. I have no clue what to do.
- Commented on Funny guy, a guy ditched me for someone else. I should hate his guts but am having a ridiculously hard time getting over it. I hate myself for it. What's the best way? Suggestions, jokes, sarcastic comments are encouraged...
- Commented on So my boyfriend had sex with my mom, one day after he proposed to me. We were on a vacation and i walked into our room, and saw them having sex. He has no clue that i walked in. I have no clue what to do.
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- Commented on One of my friends just admitted to creating fake online profiles to check up on her men (previous and current). Your take?
- Commented on How do you feel about being the 'other' person? I met this guy and we really hit it off. I'm not looking for a relationship and he already has one. I'm ready to jump in but my friends condemn me. He'd probably cheat with or without me. Are they right? Do
- Commented on Do you think physical attraction can grow/develop over time? I've met someone who is brilliant, hilarious, sweet and wonderful to talk to...the only thing missing is the overwhelming urge to rip his clothes off. Is it possible that the lust will spark aft
- Commented on Boyfriend and I had sex twice, no condom, birth control, he ejaculated. Same night I slept with someone else, no condom, no ejaculation. I told him the next day and we worked through it, I am now pregnant and the date leads back to that day. I wish I coul
- Commented on Replay GuySpeak.com's Oscar Blog
- Commented on One of my friends just admitted to creating fake online profiles to check up on her men (previous and current). Your take?
- Commented on One of my friends just admitted to creating fake online profiles to check up on her men (previous and current). Your take?
- Commented on I'm seeing a self-proclaimed party animal. Is it possible he want a good girl that is going to "tame" him? Sometimes it seems he implies that...
- Commented on What's the best way to tell a girl to back off without sounding jealous when she's flirting with my boyfriend right in front of me?
- Commented on My boyfriend can cook and I can't. This just feels wrong. I mean, I love eating, I just couldn't make a decent meal to save my life. Is this a horrible girlfriend quality? How do I make up for this?
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- Commented on 100% serious, please dont make fun :( I'm super good about hygiene, almost to the point of obsessive, bit i'm always afraid to let a guy go down on me cause i think my butt will smell bad and that's a closely related area. do girls ever smell not pleasant
- Commented on a guy i was seeing just told me he loves spending time with and likes me a lot but doesn't want a serious relationship. is that possible? can this be true? i looked and i couldnt find this on your site, please answer. i'm totally heartbroken
- Commented on Does the silent treatment work?
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- Commented on Can you love two men at the same time - one you're married to and the other one thrown at you by destiny?
- Commented on Can you love two men at the same time - one you're married to and the other one thrown at you by destiny?
- Commented on This valentine's day I spent forever planning something nice for my bf (of a year) and he didn't do ANYTHING. Not even a card or a backrub. I ended up crying b/c he didn't put any effort in at all. He said he loves me but this made me question it.What was
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- Commented on This valentine's day I spent forever planning something nice for my bf (of a year) and he didn't do ANYTHING. Not even a card or a backrub. I ended up crying b/c he didn't put any effort in at all. He said he loves me but this made me question it.What was
- Commented on This valentine's day I spent forever planning something nice for my bf (of a year) and he didn't do ANYTHING. Not even a card or a backrub. I ended up crying b/c he didn't put any effort in at all. He said he loves me but this made me question it.What was
- Commented on Five Things You Don't Want To Know About Your Boyfriend's History
- Commented on This guy got my number at the bar. I left the bar at 12:30am and he text me with a joke at 2am. I didn't return his text, b/c I didn't want him to think it's acceptable to text that late. Am I right or wrong?
- Commented on So after being with the same guy for 2 years and not getting a single gift for any holiday...I finally got one for vday this year! A WONDERFILE! Plus he was a half an hour late picking me up due 2 the fact he was hanging out with his friends. Should I be
- Commented on Ok, girl works at a bar. I want her. What now?
- Commented on How do i break up with my "almost dream guy"?
- Commented on just broke it off with a guy ive been seeing for 5 months via text message. messed up? or common these days?
- Commented on just broke it off with a guy ive been seeing for 5 months via text message. messed up? or common these days?
- Commented on Do men really care about visible panty lines on a woman?
- Commented on What it means when a guy takes you out to eat and he only eats a salad?
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- Commented on Mr. F. Guy - Sorry to be blunt but I just don't get this. Why do men like to eat pussy? Most of the guys I've dated went right there... once given the chance. Is there a real attraction to the thing or just a hope for like favors in return?
- Commented on Mr. F. Guy - Sorry to be blunt but I just don't get this. Why do men like to eat pussy? Most of the guys I've dated went right there... once given the chance. Is there a real attraction to the thing or just a hope for like favors in return?
- Commented on we've been dating for six years. he has never given me anything. he pays when we go out. i offer too. but he hasn't even given me a card. i cant stand it.
- Commented on My question never gets answered but i really need this one. I recently broke up with my ex-bf for cheating on me but he continues to text/call me even though he is with a new girl. When i post a status on FB about guys I like, he texts me and cusses me ou
- Commented on we've been dating for six years. he has never given me anything. he pays when we go out. i offer too. but he hasn't even given me a card. i cant stand it.
- Commented on Mr. F. Guy - Sorry to be blunt but I just don't get this. Why do men like to eat pussy? Most of the guys I've dated went right there... once given the chance. Is there a real attraction to the thing or just a hope for like favors in return?
- Commented on my boyfriend bought me a bouquet of half dead flowers from the grocery store and made me a box of potatoes for dinner. i'm serious, i'm eating them as i type. we are not rednecks. do i have a right to be pissed off for yet another underwhelming birthday w
- Commented on My question never gets answered but i really need this one. I recently broke up with my ex-bf for cheating on me but he continues to text/call me even though he is with a new girl. When i post a status on FB about guys I like, he texts me and cusses me ou
- Commented on My question never gets answered but i really need this one. I recently broke up with my ex-bf for cheating on me but he continues to text/call me even though he is with a new girl. When i post a status on FB about guys I like, he texts me and cusses me ou
- Commented on I've been dating a guy for 6 months and we have yet to be intimate. He has already told me he loves me and wants me to move in with him. While I'm head over heels for him too and am thrilled with the idea I kinda wanna know what kind of lover he is before
- Commented on My question never gets answered but i really need this one. I recently broke up with my ex-bf for cheating on me but he continues to text/call me even though he is with a new girl. When i post a status on FB about guys I like, he texts me and cusses me ou
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- Commented on My Boyfriend is starting to thin out on top. It appears to be a touchy subject for him. How does he approach Balding Gracefully?
- Commented on The girl I am in love with has only had sex with one guy in her life. He cheated on her, and contracted herpes. Which she now has. I'm happy she told me, but how should I feel?
- Commented on How do I know if a guy wants me for a playmate or potential partner? Guys are always thinking about sex, so what do I look for before I get intimate with a guy?
- Commented on If a girl is really short, would that matter to a guy??
- Commented on Is it weird for a girl and boy best friend set to send each other naked pictures to "help out"? No sex. Just pics.
- Commented on Even when I'm madly in love with someone, I still have moments or even entire days when I just don't really like him that much/am sick of him/feel like breaking up for some silly reason (none of these because I'm actually genuinely upset). I have talked t
- Commented on My boyfriend's penis smells really bad. I've tried hinting that he should clean it more often and even wash it for him when we shower together, but no luck. How do I get it to stop smelling?? It's a turn off.
- Commented on I met this guy through friends at my church. I could tell he was interested. I found him on facebook through my friends pages, should I add him? Or would he think that's creepy?
- Commented on I have a gay buddy that I had invited to come visit over the Christmas holidays. Me, my boyfriend and my buddy were drinking that night. My boyfriend was in a blackout and went to bed with my gay buddy. He says he thought he was in bed with me. Do you thi
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- Commented on i've been dating a guy for a little over 3 months now..he live in NJ and i live on Long Island and i've only been to his place 1 time and when i ask him to take me where is says No...should i be concerned? i started to fill like he is hiding something fro
- Commented on I have a gay buddy that I had invited to come visit over the Christmas holidays. Me, my boyfriend and my buddy were drinking that night. My boyfriend was in a blackout and went to bed with my gay buddy. He says he thought he was in bed with me. Do you thi
- Commented on Hey Mystery Man, I have a short query. My current relationship is amazing when we are together. When we are apart (I try to visit on weekends) he more or less neglects me. Should I just distance myself and give him space, or is there another option? Or am
- Commented on I like him. Im in my early 20s, hes 35 and living with this fiancée (shes 40). He is hitting on me, seems to be genuinely interested, and I like him, should I just go for it?
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- Commented on Hi MM..STICKY SITCH: Met a guy online just out of a 24 yr marriage, sep for 2 mo. His wife left him 4 her bro-in-law (eww). Guy is super sweet, but w/ 3 teenagers, I know there will be divorce drama. He says he is ready 2 move on and is "DONE". I said I d
- Commented on I recently broke up with my bf. I didn't break up with him because I disliked him; I was just under a lot of stress at work & I became overwhelmed (I told him I just wanted a break). We were best friends before we dated & now he won't talk to me/look at m
- Commented on hey....i was wondering, what hairstyles do men like on women the most?
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- Commented on Is it too desperate if I mail him? I asked him out, he said yes, I said I couldn't on this and that day but am free otherwise. No response. It's been 3 days and I'm going on holiday soon. Can I mail him to ask him what's going on?
- Commented on I started dating a new guy about a month ago. We have tons of fun together, a lot in common, and a crazy amount of chemistry. However, every time we have sex he 'crosses the finish line' really early. What can I do to help?
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- Commented on My fiancé asked me to sign a pre-nup. How do I tell him that I don't care about the money factor but am just really hurt that he is already thinking that that maybe our marriage will fail? Does the fact that he wants me to sign it mean that he doesn't lo
- Commented on My ex-boyfriend ask his old love letters back. Why would he do that?
- Commented on My parents are sexually-active, I still live w/ them, I clean their room when they go to work and I find used condoms and such in and on random places that I then have to seriously disinfect. how are they always so quiet? How should I ask them to plz get
- Commented on The "L" word came outta of my new guy's mouth. I wasn't sure I heard him right, so I said, "What did you say?". "I gotta go." he replied literarily ran to his car. When he called, he stammered around, said it was a slip, he's use to calling his daughte
- Commented on The "L" word came outta of my new guy's mouth. I wasn't sure I heard him right, so I said, "What did you say?". "I gotta go." he replied literarily ran to his car. When he called, he stammered around, said it was a slip, he's use to calling his daughte
- Commented on so my bf left for basic last week and he's having a really rough time. we miss each other a lot, which we expected, but he's really taking it hard. what can I do to make it easier for him? I'm already going to write, but he doesn't get an address till nex
- Commented on The "L" word came outta of my new guy's mouth. I wasn't sure I heard him right, so I said, "What did you say?". "I gotta go." he replied literarily ran to his car. When he called, he stammered around, said it was a slip, he's use to calling his daughte
- Commented on My live in boyfriend of a year and a half is amazing. Everything is great-- except his ex wife shows up every now and then where we hang out. Most recently she joined a Tuesday night pool league that he participates in and manages. This bothers me but
- Commented on so my bf left for basic last week and he's having a really rough time. we miss each other a lot, which we expected, but he's really taking it hard. what can I do to make it easier for him? I'm already going to write, but he doesn't get an address till nex
- Commented on How do guys feel about jealous girls? Like say you have a girlfriend and she gets pretty jealous when you hang out with your X's a lot; but she doesn't go insane and say you can't see them again, she just gets jealous. Does that bother guys?
- Commented on if you broke up with a girl and she didn't freak out, cry, or get emotional at all, what would you think?
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- Commented on My bf is perfect, except he has never taken me out to eat, has never offered to pay for anything, and never gives me things. I always give him gifts and would LOVE if he would just OFFER to pay or give me small gifts. Help me?
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lonewolfe commented on
Will any guy ever want me if I keep being an inconsistent person? I feel like I'm too complicated.
Cary, Thanks for the reply. I'm not good at making explanations, so here's my detailed situation: The 1st time we met, I was sweet. (He's not a date btw.) 2nd time, I acted the same way, and he finally showed interest. 3rd time, he showed even more interest, but got bored because I got less talkative and some of the things I said were stupid (all because I felt really nervous). 4th time, he still showed interest. I was not sweet nor awkward, but I was talkative. 5th time, he seemed to not care at all. He dressed poorly (he...
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Cary McNeal commented on
Will any guy ever want me if I keep being an inconsistent person? I feel like I'm too complicated.
The only problem I see is that you're overanalyzing everyone's behavior. So you weren't exactly the same every time you saw this dude; big deal. Neither was he. Like I said in my answer, we're all inconsistent. All I'm seeing in your explanation is that you had the normal moods everyone has. Sometimes we are more relaxed and talkative; other times we feel awkward and quiet. I think you need to stop worrying so much about how you're acting (or how he's acting) and just be yourself. If he likes you, he likes you. If not, that's life. I do...
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Lena commented on
What is the etiquette for friending your boyfriend's family (dad, mom, brothers) on Facebook? Should I wait for them to friend me when they're comfortable or are they expecting me to be the one to reach out?
Asker here. I was wondering about this because in my previous relationship, my now-ex's mom and sister both friended me, and I felt obligated to accept. This hasn't happened in my current relationship and I was wondering whether they were waiting, but I guess not. I wasn't really sure what it was like from the parents' perspective because my own parents aren't on Facebook. Thanks for the answer!...
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kamakula commented on
Mystery Man, I've read about my husband going to strip clubs... but still have a question: He's not allowed to touch?! But on a private dance he can slap her booty and she gets totaly naked and scrubs herself on to his pants and face. Isn't it touch? the
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Crystal commented on
I have a really big penis (11" and really thick), and it hurts when I try to have sex with people (men & women) will i be a virgin forever?P.S. It's hurts them not me
This question does not need to be considered spam or an episode of "Sex and The City". I am a mature woman who lost her virginity to a man who was 12 inches long and quite thick, I have been in multiple car accidents since then and suffered through a debilitating illness and can tell you right now that nothing has ever physically hurt me more than that did. I am also very petite, don't know if that made a difference or not. If this had been his first time, he may still have considered himself a virgin whereas I...