BobLaMerde

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• Commented on Hi Cary! At what point in a relationship should one reveal mental issues -- that are completely controlled by medication -- like bipolar disorder? I don't want someone to feel ambushed but I also don't want to be shut down before they get to know me.
• Commented on How do I tell the guy I've been dating (a little over 2 months) that I want us to have sex more often? Right now, we see each other about 1-2 times a week, and we don't have sex EVERY time we see each other. I would just like that number to increase, but
• Commented on How do you get a guy when your best friend is much more attractive than you?
• Commented on If your a virgin and your boyfriend have had sex do you think he'll cheat on you ?
• Commented on A lot of women tend to get haircuts after breakups, whether consciously or not. Do men have any techniques like that for coping with a breakup?

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• Frank commented on Hi Cary! At what point in a relationship should one reveal mental issues -- that are completely controlled by medication -- like bipolar disorder? I don't want someone to feel ambushed but I also don't want to be shut down before they get to know me.
  That wasn't me, that was Nicky! ;-) Seriously, though, I had a woman I was dating tell me that she was bulimic. As long as she was doing something about it, I was ok with it....
• Rosebud commented on How do you get a guy when your best friend is much more attractive than you?
  That was me, actually. What I meant was that it would be unwise to actively seek out a less attractive friend for the sole purpose of being the "hot" one when going out. It's not a problem to go out with people of varying physical attractiveness -- that no one would deny. But keeping someone around just to look good? Not worth it....
• babygirl west commented on How do you get a guy when your best friend is much more attractive than you?
  oooh child.. ask yourself what makes her hotter than you? come up with a list. write it down. then change the things you can and accept..no.. EMBRACE what you cannot.. example: A:she has better hair B:she's tall in senario A... you could change your hair in a million ways to see what makes you feel hot. in senario B... you have to accept your limitations and LOVE THEM.. make a list of reason you're the perfect height.. ya know things like that. you know who's hot?? SETH ROGAN is hot. if i saw him on the street would he turn...
• OlySky commented on How do you get a guy when your best friend is much more attractive than you?
  Thank you Rosebud for clarifying... and to you Mr.BobLaMerde, it is in fact a pseudonym. I feel no need to clarify and if you find it to be a bit off, then so be it. And please refer back to "Please never assume...well you know why." (as you so "eloquently" dodged saying you were doing in reference to my screen name)...
• malorla commented on Hi Cary! At what point in a relationship should one reveal mental issues -- that are completely controlled by medication -- like bipolar disorder? I don't want someone to feel ambushed but I also don't want to be shut down before they get to know me.
  Top right hand corner, blue box. Type in your question and hit ask a question :)...