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• Commented on I'm almost 22 and I have never had a boyfriend. I'm a tomboy and I always find myself in the friend zone with guys. What can i do to change that?
• Commented on I just broke up with a man. In the beginning he was the most charming man in the world. He slowly became controlling, mean to my son, trying to make me jealous by threatening to sleep with his ex if I left him. He promises he can change. What do I do?

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• tmc commented on Why do guys tell a girl she's his girlfriend but tells others he's single and get with other girls behind her back? Why don't they just stay single then and play the field?
  Thanks Rach!! High five to you too! Nice response, well said!!! To "spirit" Sometimes love blinds us into thinking our bf/gf is the last person on earth and we have to do whatever it takes to hold on to them regardless of how they treat us... but in reality there are millions of people on this earth and plenty of good ones out there! I think he was playing you both from the beginning. I'm surprised you stayed with him until you got the wrong letter. You should have NEVER taken him back after the first time he ran back...
• surfer_chick5 commented on Is it possible for a friends with benefits to become more?
  wow thanks mystery man that really helped me too. =]...
• Jo commented on Is it possible for a friends with benefits to become more?
  I'm sorry to say but their is no such thing as being friends after being in a fwb relationship. I was with my fwb for 8 months and i adored him and wanted to be exclusive. But as time went on he started to withdraw from me. The last time I slept with him was 2wks ago and it wasnt the same for the both of us. It wasnt like before when we had so much sexual chemistry and attraction. I feel like we end up sleeping together because we are comfortable with each other. I waited 8 months for...
• anco commented on Is it possible for a friends with benefits to become more?
  I have been in a FWB relationship for almost two years. Maybe a relationship w/o the title?... It works great for both of us. We do not sleep with others, see one another each weekend and during the wk as time allots. I think most problems arise when one of the two says they are cool with the fwb but in reality they are hoping for "more". Neither of us needs a title, we are having a great time with one another, are wonderful friends, take fun trips together...who needs a title to validate what we have?...
• drizzt1750 commented on Is it possible for a friends with benefits to become more?
  an update here... if anyone is paying attention... LOL my "FWB" relationship is now a full blown relationship... we are no longer just "friends"... he's now my boyfriend... so it IS possible for FWB to turn into something more......