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  • Mannon commented on How do you get your boyfriend to quit or cut back on smoking?
    Smoking is a damn hard thing to quit. Even after the nicotine is out of your system, it's a mental thing. You've got to have something to keep you from going back, because every time you see somebody else smoking, or see someone on TV light up, you want one. Months, even years later. For me, skateboarding keeps me from buying another pack. The difference between being able to skate for hours, or being out of breath within 10 minutes is what keeps me clean. I wouldn't have the willpower, otherwise. As somebody said above, he's got to want it...
  • prettylady commented on How do you get your boyfriend to quit or cut back on smoking?
    Its not shallow to consider smoking a deal-breaker its intelligent and healthy. I myself could never date someone with such LOW critical thinking skills as not smoke. But also, new research has come out about 3RD hand smoke- which is the resideue left on things that have been smoked near, like curtians, clothing, etc. I couldnt' date a smoker for the same reasons I couldn't date someone who enjoyed hitting their head with a brick... it's JUST SUCH AN INCREDIBLY STUPID THING TO DO....
  • Justy commented on How do you get your boyfriend to quit or cut back on smoking?
    My boyfriend just quit smoking after a 6 year habit. He was smoking one pack a day. I've always been disgusted with smokers but it wasn't a deal breaker when we started dating. He'd never really enjoyed the habit, and knew he wanted to quit but just couldn't. After promising me that he would quit January 1st and then not even taking the promise seriously I broke down in front of him and started crying. He has not touched a cigarette since because he said he had no idea it affected me so much. So yeah, if a guy loves...
  • Britannia commented on How do you get your boyfriend to quit or cut back on smoking?
    If he was smoking when you two started dating, you have NO right to try to "make" him quit smoking. Decide to exclusively date nonsmokers in the future if it's such a big issue for you. If he started smoking after you two started dating, he may be stressed -- and if he feels like he should quit, help him find help, but don't give him ultimatums like "It's the cigarettes or me!" ... that will just put undue pressure on him, and from my perspective it makes you look like a bitch....
  • Cary McNeal commented on At what point in a relationship would you seek outside help? My on-again-off-again boyfriend wants to be on again. I think we should see a counselor to sort out our obvious problems, but he doesn't. I just want the cycle to end. Am I being unreasonable?
    I'll tell him. What's his number?...

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