A woman who meets and accumulates men with little to no desire to sleep with them but more to keep around as friends for various uses. This woman isn't a bad person, she's just not ready to let a potentially good guy get away so she keeps them around in case she ever does decide she wants more.
What happened with that chick you met last week? Did you two hit it off?
Man, I think she's a bone collector. She just wanted to talk to me about XBOX and wrestling.
I'm confused. If she has no desire to sleep with them, wouldn't they be 'friends', like any two normal human beings?
Or is this when she has heaps of 'guy friends' who want to sleep with her, it's only that they are not quite keen enough to ask her out?
Or do you mean they have asked her out, but she keeps stringing them along? - Like when a single guy has many 'irons on the fire', but only just hot enough to allow backpedalling into friendship?
I don't understand this definition because it eludes that men don't have any control within this situation.
It's really hard to explain this one if you don't already know what type of girl is being discussed. This is the type of girl who attracts a lot of attention from guys because she's probably hot, fun to be around, and interested in similar things. Bonus points if she's smart. So, they all want to hang out with her whether or not they actually get anything more than friendship from her, and they're usually too scared to ask for more, so she uses this to her advantage. She's just really bad at commitment, so she keeps all of them around without exception in case she ever gets bored. She never actually has a boyfriend for this very reason... she's never sure of any men.