A: No, a guy won't ask a coworker out because he's smart. Forget fear of rejection of fear of a sexual harrassment charge (...
Girls' BFF
The Girls’ BFF is your BS filter. He’s like a sweet and sour gummy bear. He’ll tell you if “he’s just not that into you” whether you want to hear it or not. But he’ll also give you a hug and tell you that you don’t need that guy anyway. The Girls’ BFF is the guy who will listen to what you have to say, tell you when you’re wrong, tell you when you’re right, and then suggest everybody have a drink because, what the hell, who doesn’t love a drink? Sometimes he’s a part of the problem, but he’s still always there to help you undo all of the (usually wrong) over-analysis you and your girlfriends can’t stop yourselves from doing. Basically, the Girl’s BFF is the guy who helps you figure out what’s really going on. But the next move? That’s all on you.
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Recent questions answered by the Girls' BFF:
A: Wow, I didn't realize all the guys in Finland were shy. How tragic. Perhaps you should head on over to Sweden or Norway....
A: While it might be nervewracking, there really is no better way to determine if a guy is in a relationship than by asking...
A: The law of averages alone tells you that it will pay off at some point. Here's the thing about taking chances - there's ...
A: Worth pursuing and pursuable are two different monsters. Sure it's probably worth pursuing. The chance to meet a new per...
A: Perhaps you should stop taking their calls OR go out on the dates and TANK them. When people refuse to believe what you ...
A: There are two schools of thought to this question, kind of like Economics with Classical and Keynesian theory. Except no...
A: I think the better question is are you for real? Do you really want to take on the job of dating a man with a 4-year old...
A: You answered your own question: it's not a deal-breaker. He doesn't like doing it for whatever reason and you never made...
A: Oh...why not. I'm going to assume his habit isn't his headdress and gear and he's really a nun. In which case, no, you c...
A: Heya Caitlin, thanks for asking. I'll take a stab at this one. While there are definitely more than three things that an...
A: I'm confused as to why you think that men are intimidated because you won three episodes of Jeopardy. I'm confused as to...
A: Sure, I'll be your BFF for one minute! As if! Well what you do is ask your homegirls to introduce you to guys that they ...
Q: My S.O. wants to "take care of me". What does he mean?
A: Hmmm...good question. This could mean any number of things, as the term "take care of me (you)" is as old as history its...
Q: How can I know a guy is a player by looking at him?
A: Have you looked at the picture of John DeVore? Of course you have. Well he's a reformed player. So I suppose that means ...
A: Some guys do. I've heard songs that have reminded me of women in my life or times in my life full of romance, etc. Thoug...
A: I'm not a rocket surgeon or anything, but I'm guessing he's willling to pay for it because you can't afford it and he ca...
A: I can honestly say that I've never been called King before. Even playing Checkers, nobody would respect my crown. Those ...
A: Quite the opposite actually. If a guy wasn't into you, he definitely wouldn't want to hang out a third time - unless you...
A: You did miss something, homey. It's not that she didn't want to be in a relationship, it's that she didn't want to be in...
Q: why do people always ask the same questions on this site?
A: You ask a good question. I'm guessing the reason most folks are asking the same questions over and over is that, well, e...
A: Avoid him at all costs? Or her? Hell, it doesn't matter if its him or her...just avoid them. Perhaps pick up a hobby as ...
Q: why do men look at other women when they are with you?
A: Because other women exist and will continue to do so. Our eyes wander because the world is filled with a lot of things t...
Q: do guys call you back after they stonewall you for months?
A: While the answer to this seems obvious, I can't tell you how many variations of this question I've seen here at Guyspeak...
A: Yeah, it's perfectly fine to do so. There's no way to apologize wrong. Well that's not true. If ALL you do is just apolo...
A: I think it all depends on the tattoo. You're right, its almost odd to find a woman (or a man for that matter) without a ...
Q: How do u know if a man enjoyed sex with u, but doesn't say anything?
A: I think that 9 out of 10 dentists would tell you that if man has sex, he enjoys sex. Now, its not to say that all sex is...
Q: is it weird to ask a guy about his past relationships ?
A: I don't think so. In fact, it's only natural to ask him about his past relationships. In further fact, it's weird to not...
Q: How do I save my best guy friend from being whipped?
A: I don't think you can. Have you seen what a whipped man looks like? That is a man who is fully engulfed in anti-manlaw b...
A: WTF indeed. So he effectively broke up with you, but you argued with him that you all should make a more definitive spli...
Q: I'm 29 and never been in a relationship. Is that normal?
A: No. While I don't think you need to have been in twelve or fifteen serious relationships, having a few serious relations...
A: Well I think all you can do is keep apologizing and hope that perhaps he'll decide to give you another chance. I mean yo...
Q: When a guy says you're expensive, but it is a good thing?
A: Generally no. In fact not even generally no. It's not a good thing ever if a guy thinks you're expensive. Even a very, v...
A: The way that you describe yourself doesn't sound like you're too nice. It just sounds like you're a woman who can take c...
Q: How can I figure out whether my best guy friend that i've known for 7 years wants to date me???
A: I love Fridays. And do you know why I love Fridays? I love them because they're almost Saturday but not quite Thursday. ...
A: From where I'm sitting I think that you should absolutely bring it up. But not just with your gay best friend (gbf) but ...
Q: What do guys think about the first time their girl farts in front of them?
A: Probably, WOW, what did she eat? Look there are entire schools of thought dedicated to women farting and burping around ...
A: He's not being too shallow at all. Bad breath is not like an extra long toe nail. I'm pretty sure that countries have fa...
Q: What does a married guy mean when he says he wants to spend the night with you?
A: I have to be honest here, I suck at nuance. That could very well be because I'm a guy, but when folks are all cryptic an...
A: Good question. There are a lot of potential ultimate guy flicks. I've always been partial to The Terminator series (with...
Q: Would a guy friend modificate his behaviour around you if he discovered that you're into him ?
A: I can't lie, I went STRAIGHT to dictionary.com to find out of modificate was a word. And it turns out it is, in Spanish....
A: Every so often we get questions that make me realize that women have ABSOLUTELY no idea what in the world is going on wh...
A: I'm so lost. So you and your close friend are like brothers - which makes you a dude...right? But he has a girlfriend. A...
Q: Are little dogs good choices for pets?
A: Sure, why not? Though this largely depends on your lifestyle. I'm completely against having a tiny dog around. I have lo...
A: I find it curious that you're wondering who the idiot is here when you are the one who sent an unwanted drunk text to so...
Q: In what way exactly should I hug a guy in order to turn him on?
A: Great question. Nobody really cares about the intricacies of a proper sensual hug anymore. Nowadays it's all just hugs a...
A: Here's the thing. Good girls might now win while us men are younger and more interested in experiencing life. But in the...
A: Seeing as physical therapy is generally a requirement for back pain, I don't know that you should automatically be think...
Q: What do men notice in a girl first (physically), and what makes them hooked for good?
A: Men do exactly what you think we do. The first things we physically notice about women are the ladyparts. Boobs stand ou...
A: That fact that your boyfriend's best friend keeps cracking these jokes signifies to me that your boyfriend has some boun...
A: Well I think you suck it up and realize that your boyfriend is not his family. If he's a good dude, he'll make sure to d...
Q: is it okay to say i love you first?
A: It is. Somebody has to say it first, why not let it be you? While I understand the hesitation and the prevailing notion ...
A: I can't see any reason to let your boyfriend no. Short of wanting a reaction out of him, there's no need. I'm a firm bel...
Q: how do i get through toa thug
A: My first suggestion is by collect call to whatever correctional institution he might be staying in. Then perhaps a lette...
A: I think that your guy is lucky to have a woman like you who can actually cook AND do laundry. Let me tell you, I've been...
A: Is it not possible that we are just really fond of memories? Why do you hate love? By the way, I love a good disconnect....
A: Seems like your boyfriend has control issues. He doesn't mind having the conversation on his terms so long as he's comfo...
A: Good question. It is also an interesting one since I'd assume this would stereotypically be the other way around. For st...
A: I'm not sure how you get him to want to have sex again, since I'm pretty sure he's having sex somewhere. Not to be the b...
A: Every so often I read questions that remind me that I'm either completely behind the times when it comes to slang and us...
A: Well, there are two possible scenarios here. The first scenario is that he still has feelings for his ex and is possibly...
A: Sweetie, you do realize that he's not coming back right? At least not back for anything more than a late night booty cal...
A: I understand that you're not having fun with your single friends when you go out with them, but unless I missed somethin...
A: Maybe he doesn't tell you what he likes and loves about the experience that you all just had because he's a) still relis...
A: Maybe you can give him a rebel yell or something? I assume he means that you are to quiet when you are doing the do. If ...
A: I have no clue but I sure do hope you called him back. Anybody calling 48 times MUST have something important to say. He...
A: Well this depends on the context: are you a tease because you are an overzealous flirt who will tell a guy that you want...
A: It is most certainly a male pride thing. And if he insists, well, then yes, you should let him pay for whatever he wants...
A: I don't think any man would expect you to shave everyday, but why is "groom" in quotes? Like what does it mean to "groom...
Q: Plain and simple: do guys find "bacne" unattractive?
A: I think every Friday, I'm going just answer a question that doesn't need answering. Yes, I think that's what I'll do. Ki...
A: I'm guessing he's doing a bit of both because he's self-conscious about it - probably from watching too much pr0n or som...
Q: Do men view women with child/children different to women without chil/children?
A: This all depends on the man and where he is at in life. I'm guessing a 20-year old would view a woman with kids differen...
A: I'm confused as to what you're confused about. You are in swoon with a guy going to jail for five years. I'm glad that y...
A: My advice would be to have sex with him. That should shut him up. Plus, then you have the built in excuse of him putting...
A: Good question, glad you asked. Here are a list of dos and don'ts for the men's bathroom. Do use the bathroom. There is n...
A: I assume you are referring to the age old woman quandry of why men leave the toilet seat up. And yes Virginia, it is tri...
Q: is it possible that my boyfriend could be cheating on me with someone that can be his moms age?
A: Man, I always get the hard questions! Let me think long and hard on this one (no Bang Bros)... Yes. Whew. That took a lo...
A: Maybe your body is giving off extra coldness or something that is covered by your pjs in the winter time. So your naked ...
A: I assume that you are using the word "boyfriend" loosely. There is no way in Hades that you can be dating somebody serio...
Q: How can i tell my Long Distance Boyfriend we have no future together unless he moves back?
A: I think the best way would be to say "we have no future unless you move back." Yeah, I think that does it. Succint and t...
A: Why do you still want a relationship with a guy you just started dating considering that you are on the way out of town ...
Q: Is self - injury a deal breaker for guys?
A: If by self-injury you mean injuring yourself for pleasure (?) then, yes. For most guys I'm guessing that would be a majo...
Q: Do you mind if a girl bites her fingernails?
A: I couldn't care less if a girl bites her fingernails. If you bite schlongs, trees, or bats,THEN Portland, we have a prob...
A: Despite what most people think, it is harder to find just a f*buddy, for women specifically. The guys you'd think would ...
Q: If I get off to girl on girl porn, does that make me a lesbian?
A: Not at all. In fact, I addressed a similar idea in this post here. Some women are just able to appreciate the female for...
A: I won't say never, because you really never know. There could be some non-religious guy out there in his late 20s who wi...
A: Ah, the close friend who watches his homegirl slore her way through life but never gets the pudding. One word for you pa...
A: I'm not even sure men are better at hiding it. How many women have had an ex call you up after months JUST to say hello ...
Q: what did you think of erykah badu's window seat video, PJ?
A: I thought it was a pretty overblown from an artistic standpoint and frankly pretty boring. Well, all except the faces of...
Q: How do you guys like your sex
A: (It's Friday, might as well have fun.) I prefer mine stir-fried. But I cannot claim to know all the best ways to have yo...
A: Nope. If you know he's not interested, you're just putting him in an unnecessary awkward position to have to tell you th...
A: I'd be remiss if I didn't just ask this upfront: why are you dating a guy that you think is gay? Perhaps that's just you...
A: Hm, how exactly does one end up dating somebody - officially - with whom they're not sexually compatible. And make no mi...
A: I'm going to wager that they're pretty high. In a perfect world, you could frolick nude and bare as the day is long and ...
A: I'd think he's either from a place where arranged marriages happen OR he's REALLY got to grab his nuts and man up. Not t...
A: Certainly. It is my pleasure to let you know what happens at strip clubs on a Saturday night to married men. Ahem. First...
A: Interesting question. I'm going to go ahead and say that about 98 percent of guys don't care about nipple size, they're ...
A: Yes it annoys us for a few reasons: 1) You already know the answer. So why are you asking? Unless you decide to put on a...
A: You're not being ridiculous at all. A lot of the trust issues that most women have with men comes directly from the rela...
Q: Why do men shut down when women get angry with them or fight with them?
A: Because we don't want to be arguing or fighting with you. We shut down because we don't enjoy the annoying complaint ses...
Q: he doesn't want to engage in foreplay. why not?
A: Because he's selfish, plain and simple. You're dating the dude whose sole purpose is get his rocks off. Has he always be...
A: Well this truly depends on how old you are. If you are under-18, this means that he thinks he loves you because, what el...
A: Anytime both parites can win, its a good day to be alive. Or American. Or alive in America. Do you know what totally suc...
A: Unless you work in Hollywood, I'd wager that it's probably not best to date the boss. By the way, this question went abo...
Q: What do I do if I've been with my girl a year or more and she still doesn't trust me?
A: Well, hombre, my advice would to be get another girlfriend. Okay, that might be jumping the gun a little but let's delve...
A: So you've been faking it the whole 2 years? Wow. What a trooper. I don't understandt he resentment part, considering how...
A: Thanks on the congratulations. It was a long, hard trail. Kind of like a happy trail, except the exact opposite. Actuall...
Q: How do you get a guy to become better at eating out their girlfriend without hurting their ego?
A: While the male ego is a truly sacred national treasure, it can be overcome with nuance. Finesse is also a great way for ...
A: While I completely understand that want him to open up to you and express his feelings, that's not the guy that you have...
A: You know, you need to ask certain questions, but maybe not the ones you think. For instance, you mostly need to find out...
Q: how can i get my guy to lick my butt?
A: Ah, the old tossed salad. Good question as I imagine most men (and women, for that matter) would probably be less than i...
A: Well there are probably two problems here: 1) You aren't that interesting. If you were more interesting, guys wouldn't j...
Q: How do I try and get my guy to try new moves in the bedroom with me?
A: Broaching the topic of monkey chandelier sex can be a difficult one. You don't want to suggest too much too soon or your...
Q: If a guy confines a girl to the friend zone, does that always mean he finds her unattractive?
A: Not at all. You can be the most attractive woman on Earth and be relegated to the friend zone. You see, you might ALSO b...
A: Sounds like your dude's personal rule but I mean, it isn't mandated in the Constitution or the Bill of Rights or anythin...
A: While you're not leading him on - yet - you are definitely sending him a mixed signal. If you're not interested, why did...
Q: how do you tell your boyfriend that you have an std?
A: Probably via text, depending of course, on whether or not you contracted it from him. If you didn't have an STD before y...
A: Um, no? And what do you mean you're not sure. Can't you just, ya know, ASK somebody? Perhaps a parent or somebody who mi...
Q: is flirting with other guys while in a relationship good?
A: Generally it's frowned upon, much like sleeping with other people, flashing other people, wrestling with other people wh...
Q: How do I get my boyfriend to get rid of the hair on his back?
A: I'm guessing you're going to have to run up on him when he gets out of the shower with some scissors and some clippers a...
A: Perhaps. But what it really means is that the rumor about you or that rash you are alleged to have had has finally been ...
Q: So... 6 dates.... no smooch.... lots of texting and calls between dates, but no smooch.... WTH?
A: WTH and WTF indeed. Either you're dating the most conservative man in America or he's a really, really big fan of women ...
Q: is it ok for a girl to wait for her man while he is in prison.
A: Okay gets into a morality/judgement thing. And since I'm only human, flesh and blood, a man (ahem...), I'll just say tha...
Q: Is skin of all types attractive to men?
A: Absolutely not. Look, men are visual creatures. If you have skin that resembles those lizard people on "V", most men are...
Q: What part of the woman's body attracts men the most?
A: Oh that's simple: her heart. As a guy, I'm most attracted to the heart of a woman. While it's not a standard body part, ...
A: To truly understand why many Black guys are indeed infatuated with lighter-skinned Black women, we'd need to delve into ...
A: "Love ya" is one of those feeling out statements that people use when they're perhaps feeling a certain way but they're ...
A: The only way somebody truly changes behavior is if some drastic consequence occurs because of their behavior. Being upse...
Q: What does a guy really mean or want when he says "text me later?"
A: While the scholastic fortitude of say, Plato, often eludes me, I'd bet all of the money in my pocket and yours that what...
A: So let me get this right, you're not even sure you were officially together, and you're worried about breaking off this ...
A: Well, you should decide what you want to do. Oh yeah, and ask, why? It seems that for your boyfriend he's made some deci...
A: If you knew that your bank was giving earning you 10 percent interest on your saving but was going to go bankrupt in two...
A: I'm sorry, I'm a bit confused. Let me get this right, your boyfriend prides himself on his body and spends a lot of time...
A: What it means is that he will have to call you back because chances are, he's going to want those drawz and socks back. ...
Q: How do you know if you're in a guy's friend zone?
A: One surefire way to know is if he brings up other women to you casually and talks to you about issues or problems he's h...
A: Well generally that depends on if the recipient of your statement said, "no take backs" after you said it. If they did, ...
Q: Why do black men prefer woman of the opposite race?
A: Interestingly worded question. Your question is really, why do Black men prefer to date white women. And the answer here...
Q: How do you feel about prenups? Yea or nay?
A: You know, I used to be against prenups and what they allude to - the possibility of an end to a marriage both people are...
A: You will know when he tells you, flat out. In very clear and uncertain terms. Basically, until he uses the words *______...
Q: How do I know a guy wants more than just sex?
A: This is probably one of the most popular questions asked in any forum, so let me take my crack at helping to illuminate ...
A: Naw. I think he'll think you're boring if you are, well, boring. I have plenty of friends who don't really drink and the...
A: What he means is that he likes you, a lot, and perhaps even wants to love you long time, but the truth of the matter is,...
A: If by "fianceé", you mean women he is pledging to spend the rest of his life with then I totally feel you. The nerve of ...
A: Probably because he doesn't want you at his house. I'm not sure it could be any more simple than that. Unless... Unless ...
A: Expectations, fair lady, only lead to disappointment. However, it would be nice if the guy would at least make attempts ...
Q: What does he mean we need to end this?
A: Great question! I too often struggle with this ever-elusive notion of "this". Especially when somebody says to me, "we n...
A: It's completey okay to surprise me...AS LONG AS you have some idea of what I might like to eat or what I'm allergic to. ...
A: You take him at his word and thank him for saving you from heartache and pain. In a world where SO many women complain t...
Q: do guys compare current girlfriends with their exes ? Physically, in bed, or emotionally ?
A: Yes and no. Don't you love dichotomous answers? Don't you ALSO love that I used the word dichotomous ALREADY in this pos...
A: If I had a guess, I'd say that your boyfriend is an attention whore and really enjoys the attention he gets from other w...
A: Not very memorable are we? I can definitely see that being a problem of sorts. Let's fix that. You want to know how to s...
A: Let me be clear about this upfront: I think breaking up with somebody to prove a point is the absolute dumbest thing you...
A: Well if you're not happy in your current relationship, how could the grass be any less green in a new one? While I under...
A: Confidence is really a mental thing. So in order to be more confident you have to identify which areas are keeping you f...
A: I wouldn't be turned of at all. I'm one of those people that believes everybody probably needs to see a therapist about ...
Q: How do you get a guy when your best friend is much more attractive than you?
A: I don't quite see how these two things are even remotely connected. Perhaps you and your friend go everywhere together a...
Q: How do I turn an ex that I'm over into a friend with benefits?
A: This is probably much easier than you think, assuming you two ended under amicable circumstances. If you two hate eachot...
A: Wow. That is a good question. If I were you, I'd be concerned as well. I mean, even when me and my girl get into argumen...
A: I think padded bras are evil incarnate, actually. While I recognize that men can be lying in the "packing" department an...
A: Well, my initial reaction was that you need to get shorter. But then I realized that wasn't going to happen. THEN I thou...
A: Initially, yes, you're father is right. The majority of men approach women who they find physically attractive. And in t...
A: Interesting question. The simple solution? Either stop being a webcam model or if that doesn't suit you, stop letting pe...
A: Not sure why, but this question literally made me bust into laughter. I'm sure its seeing the words "feel me up" actuall...
A: You know, you have to remember one thing here: he chose to be with you. In any conversation that you have with him, you ...
A: I'm curious as to why you think he would be warm and welcome you back with open arms. You broke up with him because you ...
A: I think that you may underestimate how much men like seeing boobs. Even boobs we've seen before, we love to see them aga...
A: This is one of those slippery slope questions that I think more women should ask men. You see, you are attempting to com...
A: This may be one of the eternal questions when it comes to dating. For such a simple "yes or no" question, it sure has a ...
A: You asked two totally unrelated questions, that perhaps were some way connected in your mind. That is EXACTLY how I felt...
Q: How could I tell my best friend that I like her boyfriend? They just started dating.
A: No dis here, but you're not much of a "best friend" if you're actually considering telling your best friend that you lik...
Q: what do i do if my crush has a girlfriend?
A: This is a common and recurrent situation when it comes to l'amour. No matter who you are, at some point in your life you...
Q: Can men be faithful or is cheating is something that will happen eventually in a relationship.
A: The answer to whether all men cheat truly depends on who you talk to and on what day. I know plenty of men who have neve...
A: Um, no. For one, a grown man who isn't a virgin yet is waiting to have sex with the woman he loves is a saint in my book...
A: So you just up and sent some guy you were "talking to" some naughty pictures? And he was upset? Who were you dating? The...
A: Um, what in Sam Hill does it mean to have a guy as a boyfriend for a night? Is that some new trend I'm just not up on be...
A: I'll say is bad. Do you realize how short he was? And from what I hear (through some SERIOUS hear say - we're talking at...
A: I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but I'm prone to believe that birds of a feather flock together. Do you realize how...
A: Wow. Kind of impatient, aren't we? But since we're being impatient, what the hell, let's answer the question. So how soo...
A: Perhaps this particular chap has taken a shining to you but it goes no further than him thinking your just an awesome do...
A: While the answer to this question seems like common sense to me, I know plenty of women who seem to ask similar question...
A: Well I suppose this depends on if the server is a man or a woman. But I have some free time, let's look at both scenario...
A: I think this all depends on the guy you're dealing with. And age is a large part of it. Younger guys would probably be l...
Q: What is a guy's view on makeup?
A: Good question. It really is a different strokes for different folks kind of thing, though. For instance, I'm a big no ma...
A: Oh that's easy, guys (much like people in general) are territorial as hell. It might be strange logic but even if you're...
A: I had to consult three monks, two defrocked priests and Google to make sure that your guy wasn't making any sense whatso...
A: Well, that probably means that he got what he wanted and is on to the next one (no Jay-Z). See, this is the problem with...
Q: Why do guys always put there phone on silent or on vibrate when they are with their girl?
A: The reason for this is twofold: 1) When we're with you, you tend to prefer to not hear our phones ring constantly as to ...
Q: What does it mean when he says he wants to marry me one day and live with me someday?
A: While I'm neither clairvoyant nor a middled-aged Black woman of questionable Caribbean descent who constantly tells peop...
A: For the life of me, I don't understand why women tend to get upset that men are looking at other women, even in the mids...
A: You know, my default answer is HELL YEAH! Except, it's not totally true. Not for all men anyway. You'll often hear men s...
A: There are two kinds of sex issues in a relationship: 1) when the couple is having non-bedroom difficulties and sex becom...
Q: Why do men want sex all the time?
A: Why do animals hunt prey? Why do birds fly? Why did everybody and their grandmother go see New Moon on opening weekend? ...
A: The deal with that is that you're probably too afraid to make him label the relationship, so he doesn't and he treats yo...
Q: My boyfriend says he wants to let me decide when we kiss, what does this mean?
A: Quite honestly, that might be one of the strangest things I've ever heard. I'm guessing you do all the initiating when i...
A: You know, there's really no good answer for this one. Some guys just...mess up. Look, any person with even an iota of co...
A: Honestly, you should probably reconsider your relationship. Everybody knows that the very beginning of a relationship is...
A: Hey, boo, thanks for the question. Quite honestly, I have no clue. But I'm guessing you do. Pay attention to the way he ...
A: Just to make sure I'm getting this right, you're quest to lose your pooch is making you want to not let a man see you di...
Q: If a guy friend tells you about another girl is he just trying to make you jealous?
A: Well that depends on who you are to him. For instance, are you all dating, talking, hanging out, or are you just his coo...
A: Finding the answer to this question is much like locating the Loch Ness Monster, Big Foot, and whatever they were trying...
A: There are two possible reasons that come to mind as to why your boyfriend would say such a thing: 1) He actually feels R...
A: An "illusion of separation"? I think I've heard it all at this point. Look, guys spend a lot of time finding new and cre...
A: Well that totally depends. Just how frequently is he currently calling you and texting you? And by your actual question,...
Q: Why do guys go to strip clubs if they are happy with you and your relationship?
A: Probably for the exact same reason guys like pr0n - the fantasy of another woman that you can't touch so therefore it's ...
Q: How can i tell if a guy is gay?
A: This has long been the subject of much debate, inquiry, tastelessness, and all around shouldershruggism. There really is...
A: One of the difficult parts about being the Girls' BFF is that honesty is required. The problem with honesty is that some...
A: You're ability to get him back is directly correlated with why he broke up with you in the first place. Period. Lots of ...
A: Ah, the waiting game and the eventual, should I or shouldn't I mental quagmire. Relationships are fun, no? So you want t...
A: Absolutely yes, you should. I think this is one of those situations where you should cut your losses now before it gets ...
A: Often times in life, you're confronted with questions and situations that leave you both perplexed and verklempt, many a...
A: Hate to tell you but I don't think the "girlfriend" tag is coming. At least not formally. If after 6 months you're still...
A: I, for one, am all for cougar love. It even has a great name: Cougar Love. That sounds like the name of a Courtney Love ...
A: Interesting question. Based on your self-description I'm guessing part of it is that in the eyes of many in the Black an...
A: Good question. While I'm definitely no advocate of leading people on, and sometimes "innocent" hanging can be doing just...
A: I've always found this question of female intimidation to be a bit odd. For one, it's not 1950 and we're not all in an e...
A: I'm not even sure if this is a fair question or not. You're asking a man about boobs or bricks. But hey...you asked! I'm...
A: Ah, the infamous dilemma of guyspeak. I'd wager that comments like this are the VERY reason sites like this one exist in...
Q: Why is he waiting so long to make the first move?
A: I love questions like these. I really do. The waiting woman wishes the wholesome warrior would wact! (Sorry, couldn't co...
A: Ah, the age old conundrum - the Black girl without the stereotypical hind parts of love. Just to get it out of the way, ...
A: This is a good question as both men and women are on this constant quest to find out where the "good" partners are. I al...
A: You should definitely dump him. Quickly. And don't think twice about it. You're jolly ole fellow is probably already che...
Q: Why do guys feel like they have to control everything?
A: Interesting question. You can blame it on the rain. You can blame it on the al-al-al-alcohol. Blame it on Kanye West. Bu...
A: I think you are absolutely insane, actually. Let's get this right. You cheated on your boyfriend with a guy who pretty m...
A: No, he's trying to regain the freedom and space he had before you all moved in together. And that's a problem. Though I ...
A: I know some guys will tell a woman that they respect her desire to wait until marriage for sex. In fact, we respect the ...
A: Hmm...so let me get this right: you actually get solo special friend time with your best guy friend despite the fact tha...
A: Seems to me that your friends are probably very shallow if they can't get past the way ole boy looks. I'm guessing you w...
Q: My boyfriend doesn't like to hang out with my friends. Is this a bad sign for our relationship?
A: It's a terrible sign for your relationship. In fact, in the pantheon of signs that a relationship is heading towards now...
A: This is quite simple actually. You've got to somehow convince (or coerce, your pick) your boyfriend that it is in his be...
A: In a word, yes. For one, is this guy your best friend? If so, why not try to find a way to get your groom to let him be ...
A: I've had this same problem with my woman. And by same problem, I mean her buying me terrible gifts. No lie, I got a frea...
A: Despite the fact that both men and women abhor game playing, a bit of Milton Bradley-ism is necessary during the early s...
A: What makes you think he's keeping it quiet at the office? I for one let the good times roll to the tune of at least 7 ti...
Q: my boyfriend hates sandra bullock and won't see any of her movies. is this a dealbreaker?
A: This isn't a dealbreaker per se, but it should definitely give you pause. Let's start at the top with this one. Though I...
A: This is actually a really good question, especially considering the current economic climate. One thing you have t...
A: This is one of the age old relationship dilemmas: best friends of the opposite sex. I'm sorry to say that yo...
