Q: he left me after 10 years how long ntil he comes back
A: First of all, I'm really sorry. That's terrible. That said, don't worry about when he's going to come back. He might, he...
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A: Yes, it's bad. Look, if this guy was going behind his girlfriend's back instead of talking to her about it when obviousl...
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Q: I hate V-day and don't want to celebrate with my BF. How do I go about this?
A: Just tell him the truth: you hate Valentine's Day, and he's off the hook. No overpriced chocolate, no jewelry, no flower...
A: I'm going to take a wild guess here and assume he's either a gentlemen or religious. Really, best thing to do? Ask him. ...
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A: Honestly, in your situation, I wouldn't. Not because he'd tell everybody, although he probably would tell his friends, b...
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A: If there's no reason, and he won't give you one, then yeah, let it go. As hard as it is to do so, sometimes you just don...
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A: Ah, yes, the toxic couple. These are the people who are addicted to drama, who just don't make good life decisions, or j...
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A: The only thing he deserves is a kick to the groin. Let's say he didn't do anything with them, which is not a safe assump...
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A: I don't believe monogamy or polygamy are biological, period. I think monogamy is preferable, for several reasons, but it...
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A: B.S. excuses tend to follow the characteristics of their namesake: they smell bad and they pile up fast. In this case, I...
Q: Is it true that men like crazy women? Not bats--t, but good/ amusing crazy.
A: Let's sort it out here: there's eccentric, and then there's crazy. Eccentric just means you have a personality. Maybe it...
Q: Are you the guy in the picture?
A: Yep, that's all me. Although the camera doesn't necessarily flatter us. For example, Amit is 350 pounds of rippling musc...
A: Somehow, some way, I suspect the commitment phobia here isn't entirely on your end. The whole "I was going to ask and th...
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Q: Why does the guy "never leave the wife"?
A: It's not really that hard to understand; even the biggest jerks tend to be emotionally attached to somebody they've been...
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A: First of all, your husband is gay, or at least bi and looking for dudes. He may not want to admit it, but you've got a t...
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A: He needs a belt? I've got to admit, this is a new one on me. And it's obviously baffling you. So, you know what? Ask him...
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A: First of all, be safe: keep a spare key where you can't lose it and make sure you both know where it is. Also, only do t...
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Q: Is it odd for a guy to just randomly leave and come back smelling strongly of cologne?
A: What are we talking here: he gets up from the table at a restaurant and is gone for five minutes, or he leaves the house...
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A: It could be any number of reasons: - You're not getting enough foreplay. This is pretty common, especially if you're you...
Q: Do guys like shaved or unshaved?
A: Here's a better question: do you like being shaved or unshaved? The preference depends on the guy, but in this particula...
Q: I'm working through some things and will call you when the dust settle
A: I'm glad to hear that, but I don't know that I can wait for you. >SNIFF Listen to this song and think of me, my darling....
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A: If you issue an ultimatum, you will get a reply. You just might not like what you hear. I don't think you're being unrea...
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A: Well, if you insist I spend a few moments staring at Pippa Middleton's ass, I shall do so now. Hold on a second. ... Thr...
A: It means he's OK with you dating other people. You pretty much told him you didn't want what he wanted, so you were look...
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A: Skinny girls are not necessarily more attractive than heavier ones. It really depends on the person interested in the gi...
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A: There are one of two ways: you ask him out and see how he reacts, or you ask him outright if he's gay. The former has a ...
A: Mostly because, realistically, a lot of people are out to sample the buffet in the first place. And quite a few of them ...
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Q: should your man forward your calls to his phone without your permission what type of man he is
A: He's a jerk, that's what he is. And maybe a little dangerous. As regular readers know, violating your privacy is a dumpa...
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A: Standards are a weird thing. Some guys just aren't threatened by the idea of their girlfriends sleeping with women becau...
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A: The key thing here is "hiding" it. That's what's tripping you up. Instead of hiding it, be up front about it. Maybe not ...
A: Well, it'll get you a decision, one way or the other. But some finesse might be called for. Here's the key thing to ask ...
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A: It's not a bad idea, but there are two things you'll need to be aware of: 1) You really need to let the guys you're dati...
A: Cut him loose for good. If he's not going to put the effort in, and nothing you do is good enough for him, well, then wh...
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A: Because he's immature, a little bit misogynist, and probably a little afraid of conflict. To stop this, you need to call...
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Q: Why is my newish guy ok with sex once or twice a week? And how can I tell him I need more?
A: He's a gentleman? Or possibly just busy? He could just not being trying to come off like a rabid hump machine: not unrea...
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A: It really doesn't matter if he swears not to send them. I'm not insulting the honesty of the gentleman in question, just...
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A: Just because the spirit is willing doesn't mean the flesh is up to it. Boner problems come in two flavors: emotional and...
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A: It doesn't matter. This guy only seems to think you're the one when he's about to get married to someone else. Red flags...
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A: It's really up to you. It sounds like he's interested, but he's also being honest about not being ready. So, do you want...
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A: It sounds like you're being reasonable to me. Your boyfriend doesn't always need to agree with you, but he does need to ...
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Q: How does the no contact rule work if hes also not contacting me?
A: If you're not contacting him, and he's not contacting you, then he isn't into you and assumes the feeling is mutual. Thi...
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A: ... No. If you're concerned about your ex's health, try going to the gym with him. Otherwise, find a ladder, brace it ca...
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A: It doesn't matter. He's married and he's your coworker. Do you really think the workplace gossip would be worth it? But ...
A: You don't. I don't blame you for being concerned, but I've got two points to make here: 1) Just because his parents have...
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A: Do I personally think so? Nah. It's just a lot of work and effort for bragging rights, in the end. Here's what actually ...
A: You mean aside from bragging rights? The unspoken question here is "will he be using this to sleep with other women?" an...
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A: Once, twice, three times a d-bag. He's cheating. Condoms and hair ties are one thing, women's clothing and sex toys are ...
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A: To be honest, this is a fractally bad idea: if you examine any part of it closely, you just see more reasons not to do i...
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A: Realistically, I think the strip clubs and oral belong in one category, and the porn belongs in another. Yeah, if he car...
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A: Yes, if you only hang around homosexuals, you will have trouble meeting straight men. The basic problem here is that you...
A: What you're going through right now is called the "wedding wave": pretty much everybody you know gets married. In about ...
A: Well, I can't really imagine that-wait, did you just ask me if you should be worried that your boyfriend is going to ban...
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A: Pretty much the only thing you can do is say "Is there something I can do for you?" in the sexiest way possible. There a...
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A: Don't take this the wrong way, but I think a way better question to be asking yourself is "Is this relationship worth it...
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Q: Why are some penises really ugly?
A: By what standard? Penises are hardly aesthetic marvels. Realistically, in terms of "things you want to have framed and m...
A: Did you have trouble getting dates before? If the answer is no, and it probably is, your friend's being, not to put too ...
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Q: I've slept with 5 different girls, am i a whore?
A: Nope! Are you a slut? Nope! Does it matter how many people you've slept with, as long as you were safe and respectful? N...
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A: Well, you can't very well keep it on your pager. It doesn't have the RAM capacity! In all seriousness, I wouldn't call i...
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A: Cut him off. Seriously. If he's not respecting your needs, why respect his? He's being a complete selfish jerk, and ther...
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A: It's very true because life is not like a romantic comedy, and playing with people's feelings is both a crappy thing to ...
A: Who cares what he thinks? He's a loser. Seriously, two kids, not with the mom, has a girlfriend, trying to get into your...
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A: Feeling weird because he asked out a good friend of yours a while back strikes me as pretty normal, but I wouldn't read ...
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A: Honestly, I've got two guesses on this. 1) He has some form of religious objection to contraceptives, which means either...
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Q: My boyfriend is sooo boring over text. Does that mean he doesn't want to talk to me?
A: Hardly. Just that he's not William Shakespeare. Texting is just like any other form of writing; some people have a talen...
Q: Can you get herpes from sucking d*ck?
A: Yep. In fact that's how a lot of people get it. Let's do a quick review about herpes: it's a virus, called herpes simple...
A: All men? No. D-bags? Yes. Everybody makes snap judgments, but realistically, the only guy you even want to have a one ni...
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A: Are you kidding? Not only should you dump this scumball, you should report his activity to the prison. What he's doing i...
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A: You miss him? Why? If he got angry at you because you were upset with him for screwing up, this isn't a person you need ...
Q: Is it appropriate for my boyfriend of over 2 years to be following a porn star on twitter?
A: Yes. It's not like she's going to reach through the computer and molest him or something. I can understand women having ...
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A: Pretty much this is how a guy knows a girl is easy: when she gets crazy drunk and drapes herself all over him. There's n...
A: Yes, it would be wrong for you to keep seeing him, if he has a girlfriend. But let's give him the benefit of the doubt, ...
A: This isn't an algebra problem! If your man got a blow job from another woman, he cheated on you, and it's up to you whet...
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A: I doubt they get more guys, but I'm not really sure that's the motivation in the first place. I think a lot of women act...
A: I'm glad he's not pressuring you and respects your feelings. That's a great thing to have, especially in your situation....
A: You don't. Well, you do, but you do it in the context of breaking up with him. Look, the Facebook conversation was one t...
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A: People don't seem to realize how powerful your lower ab and groin muscles can actually be, at least until they run into ...
A: No, absolutely not, and good for you on not playing mind games. It speaks well of you. As a guy, I've never gotten why g...
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A: Uh, yeah, you guys broke up. Just because it was "even" doesn't mean he's over it. People don't work like that. He could...
A: There's really not much you can do, at this point. You've told her how you feel, you've expressed your concern, and anyt...
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A: Any guy who dumps you over morning breath is a guy you probably would have dumped later on. Don't worry about it; most g...
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A: The only cure to something like this is time. Of course he's still angry at you; how would you feel if he was being a je...
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A: What do you want to do? Nobody (well, nobody rational) is going to fault you for deciding to just be friends. Dating a s...
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A: Nope, I'd say you had every reason to be upset, if for no other reason than he texted you about how pretty the strippers...
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Q: Whats the best way to make a guy jealous?
A: Stop caring about how he feels and live life the way you want to. Seriously, any sort of jealousy-inflicting strategy be...
A: Honestly, I think the door's open to more, but you've got to walk through it. If you're going out with friends some week...
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A: Realistically, what you're talking about here sounds a lot like he becomes emotionally abusive when he's stressed out. I...
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A: Unless he's got eyes on his penis, he probably won't even notice. And if he's got eyes down there, maybe you shouldn't b...
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Q: should he be taking his ring off for the gym?
A: For safety? Yeah, he does. Gyms vary on how fussy they are about it, but at the very least you can wreck your ring (or y...
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A: You want my honest view on this? Suck it up and tell your ex. Look, it's like this: eventually he's going to find out. T...
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Q: No contact after a break up. Yay or nay?
A: I vote yes, barring something important that needs to be discussed (i.e. health issues, financial issues, getting your s...
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A: Sorry to hear you're having trouble there. As far as what clubs will have guys, if the clubs aren't working out for you,...
A: What you do is nod politely and back away slowly, because red flags do not come brighter, bigger or more insistent than ...
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Q: What Are A Few Things That Guys Hate That Us, Females, Do?
A: I'm unwilling to generalize for an entire gender, because, realistically, anything women are stereotyped as doing, men d...
A: Nah, you're just surrounded by eighteen-year-olds, that's all. Look, a lot of guys around your age are, not to put too f...
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Q: Is it weird when women don't shave/trim on their privates? Do guys prefer it bare???
A: Nope, it's not weird at all. Like a lot of things, preference on how the hair down there looks differs from guy to guy. ...
A: First things first: only have sex if you want to have sex. Don't do it because it's "expected" or because it's the fifth...
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A: First, let's clear something up: he's the only one who has admitted to you that he watches porn. The rest did too, they ...
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A: I'm assuming you just found out about this yourself, so, yes, she needs to know. Her trust is being violated, and her bo...
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A: Sure. A mean girl is just another form of bully, and all bullies are basically the same; a bundle of insecurities hurtin...
A: Nope, but I can understand why you think that. Semen isn't stored in the testes: 95% of it comes from other glands, like...
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A: As a flamboyant gay man once told me when I asked him how his father didn't realize he was gay: "Denial. It's a powerful...
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Q: How can you tell if your ex still loves you and wants you?
A: It doesn't matter. Exes are exes for a reason. If you broke up, getting back together is not going to magically solve th...
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A: You throw his junk out on the street, change the locks, block his phone number, mark his email as spam, and if he shows ...
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A: No, he doesn't miss her, but he's not over it. Not by a long shot. Unless it wasn't that close of a relationship, a mont...
Q: Please explain this to me. Do men need sex? Do they need prostitutes? I'm so confused.
A: Everyone needs sex, to some degree. Sexual desire is a part of who we are. The need may lessen over time, and may be hig...
A: Wow, what a prince. As for advice: don't linger over it. You didn't do anything deliberately wrong; you got fooled. It h...
Continue reading: "How do I deal with a married boyfriend who lied?" »
A: If you wanted a relationship, and he didn't, honestly, he did the right thing. Two people being miserable is not the cal...
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A: You've got two options: ignore him or confront him. Either way, though, his opinion has no meaning. What you're describi...
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A: Ashamed of what? It's A-OK to have sexual feelings and, for that matter, to watch porn. Your porn viewing habits are not...
Q: How do you tell your guy's female BFF to step the eff off?
A: Politely. Look, like it or not, she's going to be around. Asking a guy to ditch his friends is a bad move (how'd you tak...
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A: Sure. In fact, there's a lot of reason to be hopeful: let's take it in reverse. The divorce rate in the US has held fair...
A: That is definitely your gut speaking. It's kind of horrible, but nonetheless true, that sexual attraction is part of any...
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A: If you met six months ago, he lives more than a thousand miles away from you, has spent hours on the phone with you, and...
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A: I guess it's nice he wants to be close to you...but it's really not nice that he's not listening to you. It's pretty bas...
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A: Yeah, I would say that if all you're missing is the sex, then you probably had an expiration date on your relationship, ...
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A: Nope! Just walk away with a valuable lesson learned and more importantly, a bullet dodged. If a guy shows interest in yo...
A: Then do the approaching. I'm not saying ask guys out, per se, but start conversations with guys you're interested in. Th...
A: Some people are, well, jerks. It is true that there are guys who do this, but they're the exception, and a lot of the ti...
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A: Boy, that's not a loaded question or anything. Porn is tricky because it sits smack in the center of a whole bunch of is...
A: I'm guessing on some level you already know this, but it means you're up the creek. Open relationships are fine for some...
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A: There are two answers to your question: the legal and the emotional. Legally speaking, file for child support and go aft...
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A: Wow. Your friends and family kind of suck. Sorry, but they do. They're probably getting their information from soap oper...
A: First things first: this is wrong, this is illegal, and you can make it stop. It's not really clear where this is happen...
A: Start by spinning it into a joke, "What, you'd rather I text you every hour?" and then see if he's really being serious ...
A: Abso-frickin'-lutely. Everybody's got what the hilarious show "Avenue Q" calls "The Bad Idea Bears". Sometimes, it's jus...
Continue reading: "Can somebody be a person's kryptonite?" »
A: First of all, these aren't NASCAR rankings. What's important is that you want to be with each other. So, keep that first...
Q: do guys like it when girls where padded bras? is it deceiving?
A: Put it to you this way: any guy who is attracted to you because your bra is padded will also be the guy who complains ab...
A: Questions like these are always interesting to me, not because they're insulting my looks (believe me, I've been called ...
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A: I don't know about crazy, but that's some major, major trust issues right there. I'm going to take a wild guess here and...
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A: No, not at all. Shallow, as a rule, means you're dismissing somebody as beneath you for reasons that are fairly petty. N...
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A: I wouldn't read too much into it. Facebook isn't like real life; it's kind of this nebulous area where you add everybody...
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A: The main rule is: don't force it. Hooking up once is not an indicator of anything beyond sexual attraction. But, try to ...
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A: You're right, your relationship is going to change somewhat. It's inevitable when people couple up. But that doesn't mea...
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A: I file it under two letters: B and S. It may not be physically intimate, but it's still a violation of trust: it's hard ...
A: What, that you backed off from taking the next step in a relationship and screwed him out of a place to live? Yeah, I ca...
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Q: what does it mean when your dating a guy and he suddenly ignores you and wont talk to you?
A: Honestly? It sounds like he's dumped you but hasn't bothered to tell you, and is trying the "silent treatment" tactic to...
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A: If he's going to college, it's over. He may be sincere, he may be insincere, but if it's different cities, he's in colle...
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Q: What is the protocol for eye contact during sex? Is it hot or awkward?
A: Like everything else involving sex, it depends on one's tastes. Realistically speaking, a lot of people can't make eye c...
A: I'm getting the sense you want commitment. If you want that, and he doesn't, he's right: this isn't going to end well. K...
Q: what kind of guy would say they love you and want to marry you and not mean it
A: A guy trying to get into your pants, that's who. Consider this jerk an abject lesson that some people stink, dump him, a...
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A: Wow. No offense, but your mom kinda sucks. Tell her from me that you are absolutely right to stick by your guns, and any...
Continue reading: "Will I only get a boyfriend if I sleep around?" »
A: I'm not going to lie...I'm very confused here. I'm assuming there's a confused identifier here and that the boyfriend yo...
A: Nope, not a bit. The wonder of texting is that it lets you pick up a conversation at your pace. Just open it with an apo...
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A: It's worth turning this question around and asking why women can't commit before the age of 30, either. The average age ...
A: They might be hating on you because you call people in their '30s "older". Just a thought. However, the reactions beyond...
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A: I hate to say it, but you need to own up as to whether or not this is a dealbreaker. I get why you don't want it to be, ...
A: Ah, yes, the eternal question of "leagues". There are always people who are going to be baffled by attractive people dat...
Q: why would a man like to have butt sex when he has a wife
A: That depends, is he desiring butt sex with somebody who isn't his wife, or desiring butt sex with his wife? Man, questio...
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A: Now, you probably break up with your boyfriend. Polyamory is really, really hard to pull off and keep a stable relations...
A: So, let me get this straight, you wanted a relationship that was purely about sex and nothing else...and you started ban...
Continue reading: "Is it possible to have no-strings-attached sex?" »
A: Honestly, yeah, he can. Just because a guy is being nice to you doesn't mean he's got feelings for you. Don't get me wro...
Continue reading: "Can a guy I spent a great weekend with not feel something for me?" »
A: It's like anything else: some people like it, some people don't. The real issue is how it made you feel. If you feel tha...
Continue reading: "Why'd my husband reject me when I initiated sex?" »
A: I think your boyfriend is a freeloading douchebag. If this were a case of two grown adults alternating who pays for dinn...
A: There's only one way it'll make a difference: you'll be more comfortable with sex and with your own body. It's not like ...
A: Because he's a complete and total @$$hole, that's why. It sounds like he spent four years treating you like emotional to...
Continue reading: "Why did my abusive relationship fall apart?" »
A: Well, I'm not going to lie, it raises some questions. To answer your actual question, you should only be in a relationsh...
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Q: why do men like to smell ladies panties? i've never understood this fascination...
A: I don't get it either. What you're talking about isn't a common behavior: it's a fetish. A fetish more common than most,...
A: How is this "unfair" in any way, shape, or form? The only thing unique about this is that the genders are flipped: usual...
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Q: are black men attracted to white girls and if so why? and what do they look for in a girl?
A: As a rule, straight men are attracted to women, period, because they're women, and each guy has his own tastes. It's not...
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A: While I can understand being upset about one day, he's being unreasonable: most people don't take three days off for the...
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A: Because he's a douchebag, and yes, you should tell your husband. Honestly, this genuinely sounds like either he's jealou...
A: Get a court-ordered paternity test if there's even a remote chance you're the father. Once you prove it's not your kid, ...
Continue reading: "How to deal with a cheating, pregnant ex?" »
A: Ah, bromance. What you're feeling is not uncommon, but it's more easily explained than you might think. Odds are pretty ...
Continue reading: "Does he like his best friend more than me?" »
Q: How do guys feel about mental disorders?
A: What kind is it and how up front are you about it? It's one thing if you have something fairly mild that allows you to f...
Continue reading: "How do guys feel about mental disorders?" »
A: Don't worry, no judgment here: fantasies are fantasies and it's natural to want them gratified. That said, threesomes ar...
Q: Do fake nails, hair, boobs, ect. turn guys off?
A: It really depends on the guy. First, it must be said that some guys literally will not notice something is fake. Of thos...
A: Look, I'm aware that in some places, a vague statement actually has meaning. When somebody from Los Angeles says it take...
A: He's got psychological or physiological problems he doesn't want to deal with, that simple. I'm sure somebody will weigh...
A: If you're the one with the better career and better education, yeah, actually it is kind of unfair. Just like it's unfai...
A: The Aperture Science Enrichment Center would like to let you know that you have asked this question of the wrong Guyspea...
Continue reading: "Should I ask a nerdy question of a player?" »
A: No, not really. Admittedly, people of either gender who enjoy having objects up the butt are relatively rare, but, to an...
Continue reading: "Should I be worried about my boyfriend's kink?" »
A: What's going on is that he's hiding you from somebody. It may not be another woman, but it's definitely somebody, and he...
Continue reading: "Why is my boyfriend being so secretive?" »
A: I'll tell you what I tell anybody who asks this, male or female: we don't have eyes in our groins for a reason. First of...
A: It's actually fairly easy. Ask yourself two questions: 1) Do your relationships always fall apart for pretty much the sa...
Q: my boyfriend is getting fatter, help!
A: I'm not sure if it's his health or his looks you're worried about, but let's go with health. Especially since either way...
A: In a movie, this is seen as romantic. In real life, if you cut off any possible method he had of contacting you, and he'...
A: First of all, if he ejaculated, he likely had an orgasm. The two are pretty much inseparable without either a very weird...
Q: I'm a lesbian and my Guy friend tries to sleep with me, why?
A: Uh, he's a jerk? In all seriousness, it could be any number of things. He could think you're not really a lesbian. He co...
A: Sure, there are plenty of people who do that, mostly for religious reasons. That said, I think you're being a wee bit ha...
Q: he doesn't notice all of the things i do for him. What do i do?
A: Talk to him about it, politely. He may not even realize all you do for him, so let him know, in a way that says "I'm fee...
Continue reading: "My guy doesn't notice what I do for him?" »
Q: how do you know when a guy is going to break up with you?
A: Ohhhh, tricky. As a general rule, a sign you're going to be broken up with is when he starts becoming more and more dist...
Continue reading: "What are the signs of a guy breaking up with you?" »
A: Nope, not a bit. Plenty of women where I live use online dating. Online dating is just a tool to meet people, nothing mo...
Q: how can you tell if a guy is turned on?
A: Dilated pupils, heavy breathing, flushed skin. Also he's groping you and something hard is poking you in the stomach whe...
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Q: Is my penis too large for her?
A: Medically speaking? Probably not. In terms of what she likes? It's possible. Let's deal with the biology first: vaginas ...
A: Yeah, you're reading way too much into what's probably just a subconscious tic. He might not even be aware he's doing it...
Continue reading: "What does a guy playing with his wedding ring mean?" »
A: Trust the people that know him. Guys are much nicer to women than they are to other guys. If you want a guide to how he ...
Continue reading: "Should I date a guy others think is a douche?" »
A: He's not. He may not be aware that you can see who's checking your profile, or he may not care, but he's not trying to p...
Continue reading: "Why does my ex keep looking at his profile?" »
A: "Avenue Q" said it best: "You can be as loud as the hell you want when you're makin' love." Everybody has little quirks ...
A: I get a lot of questions about virginity, and to be honest, it often seems a bigger deal to women than it does to men. T...
Q: If a girl is a little overweight does it stop men from hitting on her?
A: Nope! There's both clinical evidence (overweight women have more sex in studies) and anecdotal evidence (the comments on...
A: Don't take this the wrong way, but you probably need a therapist, not an advice column. First things first, you need to ...
A: It may, it may not. Whether or not vaginal orgams and the g-spot actually exist are up for debate; the reality is we don...
A: I know you're hoping I'll say what you're doing is OK, but it isn't. In fact it's pretty crappy. If you don't love your ...
Q: Virgins. How do guys feel about them?
A: It depends on the guy, honestly. Everybody was a virgin once, after all. You'll probably get a range of reactions. Some ...
Q: What color do men like women to wear the most?
A: What color do you look good in and like wearing? I've mentioned this before, but men are far less picky about fashion th...
Q: How much of our problems can we unload to a guy?
A: All of them. Really, if your boyfriend doesn't want to hear your problems, and actually says this to you, it's time to g...
Continue reading: "How much should I talk about my troubles with my BF?" »
A: Yes, a man can be bisexual. I'm friends with several male bisexuals. And it's not really a matter of "black or white" so...
Q: When i text a guy why does he always ask for pictures of me?
A: Blame the Internet for this one. I'm assuming these are guys you've met online, and taken to to the "phone" level. If th...
Continue reading: "Why do guys want pictures when I text?" »
A: Yeah, family or not, that's a dealbreaker. Not that I'm out of sympathy with your boyfriend here; it's more than just hi...
A: If he likes her, sure, why wouldn't he? Kids undeniably complicate romance; it's just the nature of children. You've got...
Q: Why do guys who've been cheated on in the past become cheaters themselves?
A: In a word: bitterness. No matter who you are, and the cheatee becoming the cheater isn't limited to guys,being cheated o...
A: I'm assuming that you at least get weekends off in your job. At least I hope so. If so, here's an idea. Choose an activi...
A: Well, there could be several reasons, not least being the shame of still being on MySpace (ba-dum-tish). It could be pur...
Q: I need to know how to give a good BJ...can you help?
A: Don't worry, this is one of the least difficult sexual acts you'll ever perform. Pretty much anything you do with your m...
A: If you're not happy, no, you shouldn't stay with him, and he's a jackass for trying to guilt trip you into staying with ...
Continue reading: "Should I stay in an unhappy relationship?" »
A: Yeah, dozens. It could be his sister's, his mom's, his cleaning lady's...a hairpin alone is not enough to convict him. N...
Continue reading: "Does finding a hairpin mean he's cheating?" »
A: Actually, statistically, all men watch porn. I'm not joking. They've actually tried to find guys who haven't seen porn f...
Continue reading: "How do I deal with my boyfriend's porn habits?" »
A: Well, at least he's polite. Everybody has their individual hang-ups about sex, and his obviously is about safe sex. The ...
A: Ah, the classic problem everybody wants to have. Put your fears to rest: yes, it will fit: babies come out of vaginas, s...
Continue reading: "How does a virgin handle a well-hung guy?" »
Q: can a guy truly love a woman even though he keeps cheating on her
A: He may think he does, but, really, he doesn't. Love isn't just liking somebody: it's caring them enough to put them firs...
Continue reading: "Can a cheating boyfriend still love me?" »
A: See, this is why I warn people against snooping. Now you've got a problem on your hands that has nothing to do with his ...
Continue reading: "How do I confront my boyfriend with the evidence I found while snooping?" »
A: Yes, you should say something: he's being a douche, although maybe unintentionally. Being a puppy owner myself, I unders...
Continue reading: "How do I get my boyfriend to stop joking about my dead puppy?" »
A: Yeah, I think your first clue that it was going to be complicated was the fact that you're both married, you dumbass. I'...
Continue reading: "How can I keep Facebook with my cheating partner from not being awkward?" »
A: Nothing. Your friend, on the other hand.... If it were different friends, I wouldn't be sure, but if it's the same frien...
Continue reading: "Why do my boyfriends go for my best friend?" »
A: Survey says: No, he probably won't! And you won't want him if he does! It's pretty simple: most cheaters I've known, in ...
Q: Is it appropriate to play 'Bounce' at your wedding in front of your family?
A: No, it is an absolutely terrible idea to subject any person, no matter how bad they are, to the Jonas Brothers. Joking a...
A: Because his ego is at stake, which, by the way, is yet another reason you were absolutely right to reject him. Keep it u...
Continue reading: "How do I get a jerk to leave me alone?" »
A: Because he might not be on the same page? I've got two contradictory pieces of information here: on the one hand, I've g...
Continue reading: "Why's he taking so long to go for marriage?" »
Q: what does it mean when a man keeps sleeping with you after your break up
A: It means it's past time for you to ditch this loser and move on. If you break up, you need to break up: that is, move on...
A: In the immortal words of Kuni from UHF: Nothing! Absolutely nothing! If the word "trauma" is involved, pushing him is ju...
Continue reading: "How do I speed up healing from emotional trauma?" »
A: Yeah, I can understand why you'd find that exhausting. Although your boyfriend comes off as kind of a douche here, it mu...
Q: Attention please! How can i turn on a man who is 36,divorced while i'm 23.
A: If you're asking for bedroom advice for a 36-year-old divorcee, then they're like any guy, just use the usual clown nose...
Continue reading: "How do I catch an older man's attention?" »
Q: why is it that some men dont know how to have a relationship?
A: The short answer? Nobody's taught them. Or women, either. One of the big problems we have as a society is the fact that ...
Continue reading: "Why don't men know how to have relationships?" »
A: In the immortal words of Lex Luthor: WRONG!!! Joking aside, snooping is always, always wrong, and it's one step below ch...
A: Traditionally, on a talk show, but I'm assuming time is of the essence here. What you're really asking me is "Is there a...
Continue reading: "How do I tell my boyfriend I'm pregnant by cheating?" »
A: Get out. You owe him nothing. It doesn't matter what he's done for you, he is putting your health and safety at risk by ...
A: I suppose there are worse problems to have; I usually get complaints about the reverse. The solution depends on what the...
A: This seems to be a matter of trust, or, rather, total lack thereof. Before you do anything, you need to talk to your boy...
Q: Alright, what's the deal with spanking?
A: In what sense? There are two kinds of spanking: the one where he slaps you occasionally on the butt during foreplay or s...
Q: How do you get a guy to be interested in you again?
A: You don't. Because, as much as you might feel you do, you really don't want to. We all understand pining after an ex, es...
A: My advice? Use condoms. Now, for the pubes. Pubic hair is, at root, just hair. There are a few basic things you need to ...
A: You have entered a dimension not of sex or of love but of companionship. That's the signpost up ahead, you've entered......
A: Yeah, I would say I'm in agreement with you here. Wow. I'd like to offer a more innocent explanation than "he's a scumba...
Continue reading: "What do you think of a guy with a stripper pole?" »
Q: Are guys more likely to think a girl is hot if she wears heels or flats?
A: Choice of shoes really doesn't have much to do with it, honestly. Women's belief in the talismanic power of shoes has be...
A: Absolutely. But it's also a two-way street that doesn't just apply to relationships. Really, what it is is our brains: w...
Continue reading: "Is it normal to long for some parts of being single?" »
A: I hate to disappoint, but I was never that kind of player. I was always up front with any woman I spent more than one ni...
A: I, uh...wow. Please tell me this isn't something somebody is trying to teach you. It's not a man's job to "hunt and conq...
Continue reading: "Does a woman have to put up with d-bags?" »
A: You can't. Put it to you this way: do you want to explain your sex life to your mom, or the nice police officer she call...
Continue reading: "How do I lie to my mom about my tastes in rough sex?" »
A: Actually, psychologists are way ahead of us; they've been testing what people find attractive for years, and it turns ou...
Continue reading: "Do guys like skinny women exclusively?" »
A: Well, that and it's the excuse every sleazy guy who doesn't want to use a rubber has deployed, as if his five minutes of...
Continue reading: "Sex without condoms: why does it bother people?" »
A: Think for a minute how'd you feel if one of them casually mentioned another woman he was seeing, and when you say "Why d...
Continue reading: "Do I have to tell guys about my other guys?" »
A: What's his holy tome of dating? "Paradise by the Dashboard Light?" I'm not going to say "Men never do this", but I will ...
A: Leave his parents out of the equation: he's a grown-up. He's the one who needs help here. The parents are going to have ...
A: No, probably not, but you can teach him a lesson. First up...if you've told him "No" in no uncertain terms (good for you...
A: Threesomes are like souffles: it seems awesome on paper, but are really, really hard to make work and are often awkward ...
A: Wow, this is like the dating version of an algebra problem. And hell no, he can't be trusted. Dumping somebody for their...
A: Nope, totally untrue. He could be dominant or passive. I'm assuming you mean it in the sense that he takes control in be...
Continue reading: "Are sensitive guys not dominant in bed?" »
A: Advice? No. Harsh truths? I've got plenty! So, let me get this straight: you like the guy enough to break his girlfriend...
A: I blame porn for a lot of things, and one of them is the expectation that an orgasm is a fountain of semen, spraying eve...
Continue reading: "Can there be orgasm without ejaculation?" »
A: First, let me just say that what happened to you was awful. It must have been incredibly difficult to just ask this ques...
Continue reading: "How do I talk about my sexual assault with my boyfriend?" »
A: Well, there are many reasons, but they all boil down to his being a lousy person, really. Yeah, maybe he cheated and fee...
Continue reading: "If a guy is paranoid about your cheating, did he cheat?" »
Q: what should you do if you catch your best friend's partner cheating?
A: Catching somebody else's partner cheating is almost more excruciating than catching your own cheating because you actual...
A: Too old to marry? What are you, living in the 1400s? One of those Mormon offshoots Utah is always so embarrassed about? ...
Continue reading: "How long can I date a woman I'm not going to marry?" »
A: Can you eat a popsicle? Then you'll be fine at oral. Just don't bite him, unless he asks you to, lay a few ground rules,...
Continue reading: "What does a guy think of inexperienced oral?" »
Q: Ex-Sex. Is it ever a good idea?
A: No. No, no, no, with a side of no sauce and a serving of no. There are few things more emotionally confusing than boning...
A: Well, speaking from personal experience, "Baby, let's screw!" is a terrible pick-up line and results in a pointy high he...
Continue reading: "Why are guys misleading about what they want?" »
A: It's a good rule of thumb: the more a guy insists he has a "type", the less likely it is he really does. Don't get me wr...
A: This is something I've been wondering about for literally years. You're right, it's a double standard, and it's a danger...
A: Yeah, nobody ever talks about the awkward part of sex, do they? You'd think that'd come up more often. The best way to a...
A: Understandable? Yes. Unreasonable? Also yes. First of all, if they're getting a divorce, he kind of has to talk to her. ...
Continue reading: "Is it wrong that my bf still talks to his ex?" »
A: I think the guy in question is a jackass and your friend isn't much better. Seriously, in this scenario, the problem is ...
Continue reading: "Is it my fault my date left immediately?" »
Q: how many girls does it take for a guy to sleep with to be considered a man whore?
A: Here we run into a charming double standard, which a great book summed up with its title: "He's a Stud, She's a Slut". B...
Q: What do you think of the pickup artist community? Do all those little tricks work?
A: I think they're a particularly sad species of douchebag. Mostly, the pickup artist thing is less about sex and more abou...
A: In the immortal words of George Michael: You gotta have faith. Or at least trust. I'm just going to take a wild shot in ...
A: I think we should probably talk about this whole "your boss is a cheating scumbag" thing before getting to player reform...
A: Well, I asked all my female friends on this and they agreed that men and women could never...hey, wait a minute! It's no...
A: Ah, racial politics, the most quiet and mild of all politics. Especially when crossed with sex! Yes, white men generally...
A: I too strongly believe in feminism and women's equality, but for the love of God, get a hobby. OK, that was a little blu...
Continue reading: "How do I get guys to talk about gender issues?" »
A: Wow, that's not incredibly cynical or kinda sexist on the part of those advice columnists or anything. Contrary to popul...
A: This is the kind of thing that depends almost entirely on personality. Yes, there are guys who demand that any woman the...
A: Some questions just answer themselves. Namely, in the last line of yours. The short answer is, you need to be more forwa...
A: You're not alone in this, and the reason is simple: on the Internet, there's way less at stake. Approaching somebody you...
Continue reading: "Why are guys shy in person but aggressive online?" »
A: It's well past time to escalate. No entry hasn't worked, so it's time to go all Agent Orange on his ass. Look, not to pu...
Continue reading: "How do I get my husband to stop flirting?" »
A: See, this is why I never go drinking with gynecologists, you learn more than you ever wanted to know. Assuming your guy ...
A: Well, I don't know how they handle this situation on whatever planet you come from, but here on Earth, it's generally ac...
A: He's implying it, or you're reading what you want to hear into what he's saying? I'm not saying your guy will always be ...
A: Me, I'd throw a drink in her face, but I suspect that lacks the finesse you're searching for. The first step is to talk ...
A: He just doesn't want to have sex in the shower, that's what gives. He doesn't have a mental problem, he isn't insecure, ...
Q: Worst way you broke up with a girl?
A: Ouch, right to the point. There are lots of crappy ways to break up with somebody, but the worst way I ever did it was t...
A: The answer to all of your questions is that you're 14. That and pornography is not a good guide to human sexuality. Real...
Continue reading: "Help, I'm 14 and worried about my penis." »
A: See, people, this is why proper sentence construction and clarity of communication is important: it's the difference bet...
A: You don't. You make him go to the doctor, not because you need sex that lasts longer than a commercial break, but becaus...
A: If talking to your ex was proof of cheating, relationships would end faster than Britney Spears' dignity. You said it yo...
Continue reading: "Should I worry if my boyfriend is talking to his ex?" »
A: What you did was be great in bed. I know they seem informed, but Three 6 Mafia was not speaking for all men when they in...
Continue reading: "What does it mean if he doesn't want BJs anymore?" »
Q: Ok, girl works at a bar. I want her. What now?
A: Now you probably take getting rejected with grace and humor. I chose this one to run on Valentine's Day specifically bec...
A: Sure, if they're jerks. I've generally found that guys who label girls sluts tend to grant themselves such charming labe...
A: The only head you need to worry about is yours, because somehow, you've lodged it deep within the confines of your ass. ...
Continue reading: "Can you be in love and still want to cheat?" »
A: Ready for the truth? You are absolutely normal and healthy in every respect. Let's take it from the top: a lot of girls ...
A: Man, I never thought going to high school in the '90s would seem puritanical and innocent. To answer your unspoken quest...
Continue reading: "Is my boyfriend trying to be a gentleman by not being dirty with me?" »
A: As hard as this is to believe, sometimes guys just can't cross the finish line. Maybe they're tired, maybe they're sore,...
Continue reading: "If he can't orgasm, does that mean he's bored?" »
A: Tell him you need to take the lead. It's really that simple. If you're the one who wants sex less, you need to be the on...
Continue reading: "How do I talk to my boyfriend about my low libido?" »
A: Arrested for what, specifically? You can get arrested for a lot of things. If a female friend of mine had a boyfriend ar...
Continue reading: "If a guy has been arrested, is he dateable?" »
A: To be fair, as we all know, the Garden State is subject to unusual magnetic fields that can affect the behavior of anima...
Continue reading: "Should I trust a guy with a history of "extra" phones?" »
A: I've always insisted there's something to be said for speed and accessibility. Really, why do we need underpants, except...
Q: You're not even attractive at all.....How were you ever a player?
A: Skill, charm, and wit. Also not taking every opportunity to make a joke about having an enormous penis, even when blatan...
Q: How many woman should I have slept with by age 25?
A: How many have you slept with? Because that's the number of women you should have slept with by 25. It's a sad fact of hu...
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A: I hate to step on the toes of the Wise-Ass, but...nope. He won't notice. Assume, when it comes to this stuff, that the m...
Continue reading: "Will a guy just notice you love him if you stick around?" »
A: Whether or not he's interested depends on how much he hates his job, because dating students? Awesome way to get fired. ...
A: Why yes, yes you should. Where are we going? Because I will be wearing a cape. A large, feathery Musketeer hat, a plaid ...
Q: DO I HAVE TO GO DOWN ON HER IF SHE GOES DOWN ON ME?
A: What are you, a doucheknuckle? Of course you go down on her if she goes down on you. You go down on her even if she does...
A: Sometimes this gig is just too easy. Yes, he likes you. Why do you think he hooked up with you in the first place? Somet...
A: I'm not going to speak for all men right now. I will only speak for myself, a man who has made his living writing, editi...
A: Candles are... inoffensive. They're nice. I don't have any. But if my girlfriend lights them up before we get down to bu...
Q: When it comes to dating, is it true that actions speak louder than words?
A: It's not that actions speak louder than words. I mean, this is a universal truth. Helping someone out of a burning build...
A: Errrr. Here's my advice. Go out, feel sexy, and have some fun trainer sex. Why not? A "womanizer" is only a jerk if the ...
A: It means this is a dude who has given his number to other women before, only to have them not call him back. So he's fig...
A: This is really a thought that you've had? That someone would find your ripe booty gross because it shakes. A big, beauti...
A: Yeah, I don't know many dudes who demand that women wear make-up. There are evolutionary theories as to why women wear m...
A: First of all, kudos for being honest with yourself about what you want. You want to get laid. I find that many women are...
A: This sounds like the kind of contest where everyone wins. If you want to blow his mind, then just keep doing what you're...
A: When it comes to dating, women really can be their own worst enemies. Not every dude is a shifty liar. Most people, I fi...
A: I love freckles. Any man who would find them a turn-off is seriously lacking in taste. I dated a woman once who's face w...
Q: why does my guy have a box of old photo albums of him and his high school girlfriend?
A: Because he had a life before he met you, so he's entitled to hold on to memories from those years when you didn't exist ...
A: Since you're asking, you already know that it's not totally cool to hookup with your friend's ex. It has nothing to do w...
A: It is a game. Life is one big game but not all the games are equal. This dude is still playing in the minors and you see...
A: In general, just assume that every man you meet wants to have sex with you. This will take the pressure off of you. You'...
A: First off, are you comfortable telling your boyfriend that you want to hang out with your soon-to-be good friend, that g...
A: Yeah, no. It might be his rule, but it's not standard operating procedure. Personally, I'm anti-dating rules for men and...
A: Everybody wants to feel needed. Even independent chicks like you. Who doesn't want to know that your special naked desti...
A: In another ten months he'll add "FRIEND"? Sometimes men and women obsess about titles, and not enough on actions. If he'...
A: You'll notice that I made a minor, but significant, edit at the end of your question. I will explain why I did this and ...
A: There is no secret to give up here. You know a guy is staring at your orbs of glory because he's, well, looking at them....
Q: would you agree with a notion, that a man is only as faithful as his options?
A: I would not agree with that statement as it is phrased. Because it assumes that women are somehow immune to temptation. ...
A: Never answer a booty call after midnight. This is a healthy rule. Any booty call made after twelve o'clock at night is b...
A: No. You shouldn't be surprised. You were in a chat room. Chat rooms are a good time, especially if you're in an iron lun...
A: I briefly thought this is one of the dozens of made-up questions I get. I've been asked many many outlandish questions....
A: Does it matter? He's a friend. A flirty friend. You're in love with your boyfriend. So there's no problem here. The only...
A: First of all, what exactly happened at that party? Kinky? Really? I'm speaking strictly as a professional here. I have n...
A: Does he know why you're with him? Seriously. Do you think he knows all the reasons why you're dating him? Clearly, it's ...
A: This guy is a psychopath, and that's my unprofessional diagnosis as an internet love troll. I'd start looking for anothe...
A: You shot him down. He was a beautiful eagle of love, and you unloaded an entire clip of bullets at him with your machine...
A: You're partially right. I don't think he's aware of how this makes you feel, and I don't think he's purposefully trying ...
Q: why is it the man who has to sleep on the couch after a fight?
A: Um. That's a good question. That seems to be a tad old-fashioned. I suppose it's kind of chivalrous? That the man would ...
A: Let's give a weak golf clap to your boyfriend for, at the very least, communicating his needs, rather than pent them up....
A: It's not the "kissed" part that bothers me. It's the "made up" part. When you "made up" with your ex, were the two of yo...
A: Bro question! Question from a bro! Do you have a problem with the quantity or the quality? If the sex is still hot, then...
A: There's a difference between having insecurities and being insecure. It's not just men who are turned off by insecure wo...
A: If it sounds like a cheeseface line, then it's probably a cheeseface line. But so what? The male code isn't really hard ...
A: Um. What the heck is dominatrix ballet class? More information please. Is it like Swan Lake in leather and gag balls? Ma...
A: I wouldn't consider it "stalkerish." I'd consider it full-on stalkerama. Are the two of you dating? Have you both sat do...
A: Because he's a lazy goober who never gets laid. If a guy you have zero interest in talking to offers to buy you a drink,...
A: I'm going to emphasize the quotes you put around the word "dating." Because the two of you aren't really dating. You're ...
A: I'm not a big believer in self-fulfilling prophecies. Don't mention your fear of commitment to any dude you're dating. W...
A: Okay, so... if this guy is paying a professional dominatrix to spank him, tie him up, and discipline him, then I'm going...
A: Jeepers, there's a lot going on here. Let me begin by saying that I have written about "open relationships" before, and ...
A: Thanks for the great question. It's one I have thought alot about. As a kid, my favorite dinosaur was, of course, the Ty...
A: Take the unicorn by the horn, woman. I get so many questions from women about why they don't get approached. Some know t...
A: You know what it means. It means he has a girlfriend. But here's the thing: if you hook up with this bro, then any fallo...
A: I don't believe in "the one." That would make the odds of falling in love ridiculously high. There are six billion peopl...
A: Of course I've pulled the disappearing act. But sometimes the disappearing act is also a tactical retreat. There are som...
A: There is a big difference between asshole and stupid, douche and clueless. An assbag (or douchehole) is someone who know...
A: What would I do? She's the woman of my DREAMS, right? The absolute perfect woman for me and me only? If she told me she ...
A: Thank you for the thoughtful question. Time travel is theoretically possible, but there are many people far smarter than...
A: I've written before about how much I can't stand people who meddle in other people's business. It's usually a sign that ...
A: Aw, poobear, I'm sowwy you're unhappy! I can't imagine why your married boyfriend and your husband are pissed, those mea...
Q: I told him I didn't love him. He's hurt. I'm hurt. But it's true. What now?
A: Let me applaud you for doing the right thing. You were honest. The problem with the right thing is that it's not particu...
A: To be fair, can a jealous, racist who lacks any compassion really be amazing? I happen to think that the distance might ...
A: That is a lot of story. Kudos for cramming it into our limited text box. Okay, so let's sort this out. First, I need you...
A: Sometimes, answering your questions takes a little detective work. I know that love and relationships are complicated, a...
A: Let's worry about you. Why do you bother? Are you in love with him? Are you sure you're in love with him? Take a moment ...
A: Let's not jump to conclusions. There are other reasons he might be reacting negatively to your question. It's human to e...
A: I'm not going to tell you that you're special. You've had enough of that. We all have. I was told I was special by teach...
A: You learned the answer to this question as a little kid anxiously waiting for Christmas morning to arrive. The more you ...
A: There's an old golf saying that says goes, "The more I practice, the luckier I get." I don't play golf, but I think this...
A: Dear Person Who Wrote This, You've sent me this question a dozen or so times. I'm guessing you need this answered. But t...
Q: So, your answers...well, frankly, they suck. Why are you even on here???
A: I ask myself that all the time....
A: Boy shorts are sexy as hell. They're casual, and show off both the legs and the poop cutter. I love them. Here's the thi...
Q: why do men think its ok to love 2 different woman??
A: It's not loving two different people that's the problem. The problem is trying to love them at the same time. I don't be...
A: Dawg. She's with you because, right now, she loves you. Okay, so, I think there are two things happening here. One, she'...
A: I understand you feel rejected. But I really don't think your boyfriend was rejecting you. More likely, in a clumsy way,...
Q: How do you feel about girls that are nice but accidentally a little slutty sometimes?
A: Just because you're a slut doesn't mean you're not nice. And vice versa. I know plenty of wonderfully nice, healthy, mat...
A: If you think you love him, maybe you do. Maybe at this very moment in time, you really do love him. That could change to...
A: Better to look like a fool than regret being one. But first things first: what is an "off-limits" guy? You mean you've p...
A: Every one of us is an a##hole? Really? Good lady, I question your scientific methods. Your question isn't really a quest...
Q: should i attend my girlfriends 10th year high school reunion
A: If she invites you, I would politely decline. Here's why: she wants to show you off. This is nice. Flattering. I'm sure ...
A: The answer to your last question: no, we don't realize. Our junk sheds. The little man sprigs just leap off our unmentio...
A: What do you mean you can't remember? Were you drunk? In a coma? Are you recovering from amnesia? It absolutely "counts,"...
A: You should go and meet a guy who is loud and proud. Loud and proud? Is that right? Someone who is gay and happy to be so...
A: How many is "a lot?" Sounds like one is too many for you. Most men who are obsessed with virgins are obsessed because th...
A: Are you sure you're not that clingy, annoying girl? Read your question out loud to yourself. How about now? Lil' bit? Yo...
A: Myspace? Really? I thought the only people still on Myspace where teenage girls and pedophiles.Oops. And your husband. I...
A: I'll defend your man's taste in emotional pornography. For the record, I didn't mind "The Notebook." I thought it was a ...
Q: What do guys think when a girl pokes them on facebook?
A: It seems that I can't write this enough. Whatever happens on Facebook stays on Facebook. It's not the real world. Relati...
A: Here's the basic outline of a booty call: 1. It's between the hours of midnight and 2AM. 2. You get a text that reads "H...
A: A story! I love stories! Especially Boy meets Girl stories! Yay. Oh, this isn't a romantic comedy. There is a big differ...
A: I don't know if sending messages via haircut is an efficient means of communication. Have you thought about sign languag...
A: If he's directly at fault for making your face leak, he's probably thinking, "Initiate apology protocols! Update meta-mo...
Q: what can i do to turn a guy on sexually in a public setting?
A: Less is more. Don't grab his junk or dress like a hooker on a mission. Sexy is a state of mind. Sexy can be a slinky bla...
A: I don't understand why he'd be opposed to getting a test. Granted, getting tested for garden variety crotch critters and...
A: The first rule of being a "friend with benefits" is: you should both be single. I have written plenty of times about how...
A: Let me flip your question and answer that: it is possible that a guy would travel halfway across the world to be with th...
A: That is a very adorable, very bad idea. You seem very generous and loving. Your ex is a lucky dude to have people in his...
A: You have two choices, depending on what you want. If you just want a fun, no strings attached romp, then go for it. Atta...
Q: What are some subtle non-verbal clues that a guy thinks you are attractive?
A: Drool. A head nod. A wink that looks like one half of his face just suffered a sudden muscle spasm. Pancakes of sweat un...
A: Lots of guys pride themselves on being blunt. No nonsense. They "tell it like it is." These kinds of dudes aren't afraid...
A: Keep him around as what? A spare tire? A life preserver? An emergency boyfriend you keep under glass? Or is keeping him ...
A: Skanky is a bad thing, right? You're asking if wearing a tank top or a mini-skirt is a bad thing. Because women are told...
A: Jeez, why would you bail? Maybe your hey nonny nonny is busted. You ever think of that? OMG PANICSIES! Look, condoms red...
A: That's not a weird question at all. Cohabitation is a big deal. It can bring out the best and worst in a relationship. T...
A: Who cares what your hoo-ha looks like. Guys care? What guys? Fifteen year old porn addicts who've never actually seen a ...
A: Now, now Celine Dion. Your heart will go on, because that is what it does. Have you ever seen one of those strongman com...
A: Absolutely, it's a big deal. It's creepy, dishonest, and a total violation of her privacy. Sex, intimacy and relationshi...
Q: what's the best way to flirt with a construction guy?
A: Shout "Nice poop cutter, toots!" Or "Lookin' tasy, sticky buns!" Try "Are you ALL muscle?" Whistle. Hiss. Snicker. Flick...
A: You have a glass of seltzer with lime, cranberry juice, or a diet coke. You make pleasant conversation. Ask him lots of ...
A: I won't lie, it's awesome to stroll arm and arm with a woman so hot she could fry bacon with a blown kiss. And one reaso...
A: Who are you in love with? Pick that guy. If you're not sold on any of them, stop dating all three and start looking for ...
A: Men just aren't as articulate as women. That doesn't mean we don't boil with emotion. But sometimes, verbally sparing wi...
A: I don't believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." Do believe the statement "Never a cheater, but check back tomor...
A: I think you mean "polyamorous" relationships. A "polygamous" relationship refers to multiple marriages. Don't confuse th...
A: Cats. I can't stand cats. But other than that... "dealbreakers" are usually trivial. Annoying little ticks and behaviors...
Q: Are hairy-backs a turn-off?
A: Like, how hairy? I mean, I think I can safely say that a grizzly back pelt on either a woman or a man can be a turn off....
A: I have been guilty of this. Maybe recently. I wanted to remember the six month anniversary. I planned on remembering it....
A: He asked for it. Flip it around on him. Why is he such a prude? This dude sounds like he could shuck an oyster with his ...
A: Kicks rocks, huh? That's pretty harsh, you bawdy wench. Check it out: your husband is complimenting you. In his own spec...
A: Something tells me, deep down, you either don't want to get married or just aren't ready for it. I have been a drinker. ...
A: I know it's 2010, and the country's first African-American President is in the White House. But bi-racial relationships ...
A: You know that saying "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved before?" Easier said than to live. I prefer...
A: Men look at the hot sisters of their girlfriends. This happens. It has always happened, and it will always happen. If yo...
Q: Are men turned off when a woman's [ladyflower makes a certain sound*?]
A: No. Or at least, they shouldn't be. I opined on this topic a few months ago here on Guyspeak. Here's the link to my essa...
A: You have a raging case of SDS, or Sensitive Donkeypuke Syndrome. He won't sleep with you? Because that would be going......
A: Sit him down. Smile. Kiss him on the forehead. Inhale. Exhale. And say this: "Honey. Snuggle Biscuit. Sex Jedi. Here's a...
A: Multiple answer time: No, you shouldn't tell your wife everything. I know alot of people who say that "total honesty" is...
A: You have my permission to be mean. It's not that these men don't understand what you're saying. They are ignoring it. I'...
A: If you want to be his "non-sexual" friend, then you shouldn't hook up with him. It sounds like you don't know what you w...
A: Hey now, Grumpyheart Sadpants. First off, whoever he is, I know for a fact that I didn't vote for him. He doesn't repres...
A: Pity sex doesn't exist. So, no, men don't have pity sex. But neither do women. The whole concept is just a rationalizati...
Q: What does it mean when a man says thank you after sex?
A: It means he hasn't had sex in a very, very long time. Probably because he does things like say "thank you" after sex. I ...
Q: What's so hot about lesbians?
A: I have a theory about this, because I don't really think the male fascination with lesbians has to do with hotness. I do...
A: Aw. I am almost positive you are doing just fine. So long as you don't drool, or cackle maniacally, or, I don't know, mo...
Q: What does it mean when a guy walks out the house to talk on the phone?
A: It means you really need to stop trying to listen in on his calls. You could stand to be a bit more subtle when eavesdro...
A: Yes, there are men who are intimidated by vibrators during sex, and I was one of them. On a certain level, some men look...
A: Go get tested for STDs right now. Don't worry, I'll still be here when you get back. The question isn't whether he can c...
A: Basically, you're saying you're too gorgeous to be loved? That men are not only blinded by your beauty, but they are ter...
A: How about a compromise? Be a good boyscout, and be prepared. Pack an emotional parachute and proceed with caution. Now, ...
A: No, it's not normal for other guys. That must mean you're special. Like a super hero. Your power is the ability to tell ...
A: There's nothing to figure out. So don't try. Next time he calls, don't pick up the phone. This guy is a wuss. Spineless....
Q: how do i get my boyfriend to stop smoking marijuana every day?
A: Start exploiting his paranoia? Start whispering "5-Oh" under your breath. Every once and awhile, shush him and say "Did ...
Q: From a male POV what does it feel like to orgasm???
A: It feels like thundercats, which is my new way of saying "awesome." You know that moment before you sneeze? Your body sh...
A: You need to reveal you have a son from the get go. That you have a ten month old son is too big a detail to keep from a ...
A: It is possible to rebuild trust after a devastating break-up, just not likely. Rebuilding trust takes time and patience....
A: It's not hard to get out of this situation. Stop responding to his booty calls. It doesn't sound like your dating, so it...
A: Heysoos O'Mighty, woman. Get a life. It's not your problem. Nobody likes a drama slut. You shouldn't tell these women fo...
A: I have no idea what he means. Unless your boyfriend is having an existential crisis, questioning the very nature of life...
A: He never wanted to date you. You thought that "friends with benefits" would lead to something, and it doesn't. I don't b...
Q: why do guys find belly rings so sexy?
A: I have two theories: one is that women who have perforated paunches are more liable to show off their midriffs. And men ...
Q: A woman with a six-pack: Turn on or turn off?
A: If it's a six-pack of beer, it's a turn on. It gets more complicated if we're talking six-pack abs. I don't know many me...
A: Since when is biting and spanking kinky? That's basic operating procedure. Nibbling, clawing, licking, pinching. Begging...
A: I don't normally do straight translations from dude to lady. But this one time I will. When he says "This is going too f...
A: He told you he doesn't find lingerie sexy. Why don't you take him at his word? It amazes me how a woman can be told "I d...
A: Everybody wants to feel special in a relationship. Your girlfriend isn't hurt at guys hitting on you. She's hurt because...
A: AWWWWWWW. You are so cute, I want to vomit marshmallows. You did the right thing. Yes. You wanted to kiss. So you kissed...
A: If you're 100% committed to your man, then there's nothing to worry about. You're 100% committed. That means there is no...
A: You are not allowed to freak out if a guy hasn't called you in a couple days. And this is for your own good. Close your ...
Q: What does it mean when a guy says "my life is complicated"?
A: It means he's an indecisive drama queen. But very sensitive, especially to his own pain. Probably a brooder. Truly, he i...
Q: How long do you "date" before you can ask that dreaded question, what the hell are we?
A: The dreaded question is "What the hell are we?" Well, what the hell are you? Serial Killers? Cyborgs? Sleeper cell agent...
A: That Beyoncé song has made an entire generation of women insufferable. That ditty just inflated expectations, allowing w...
A: Guys are obsessed with twins for the same reason we think adding bacon to everything makes it better. It's Neanderthal m...
A: Don't get married. Cancel the wedding. You can get the money back. Get some physical and emotional distance. Surround yo...
A: They're complimenting you. In a lame, roundabout way. They might not even know it, also. Perhaps they are giggling littl...
Q: What kind of clothes really catch a man's eye?
A: It's not really the clothes that catch our eye. It's the parts of you not covered by fabric. And then the suggestion of ...
A: No. You don't have the right to feel like he's hiding another girl from you. He, however, has a right to privacy. He has...
A: You are the games you play. I am a firm believer that like minded people run together: so people who play petty little m...
A: He messes around with you because his girlfriend hasn't caught him. Also, for the record, you two aren't "friends with b...
A: By the fifth date, there better be some serious exchanges of bodily fluids. Five dates means something is cooking. Fires...
A: That is a gross rule. You should be disqualified as girlfriend material for even quoting that lame, old-fashioned chestn...
A: Don't be in such a rush. I'm assuming you care about this dude, right? That he makes your toes wiggle, heart belch, and ...
A: That you have the hots for an inked booze slinger makes you freaky enough to catch his interest. So next time you see hi...
A: Drama begets drama. You need to just be straight up, and tell him that you know that he's been keeping a long-distance g...
A: I don't know if men would find this very natural bodily function "gross." We're the gender that names our bowel movement...
A: Lock... him... down? As in, what a corrections facility does to its inmates? Perhaps you shouldn't use prison terminolog...
A: Okay, so our friends over at Kiss&Dish have thrown me a question one of their readers sent them. I'm like a second opini...
A: A question from a dude. Awesome. You have two choices: break up with your fiancée, or accept that sometimes a man has to...
A: It's not okay. Why would you ask that? It's not like porn. You know that. Right now, your boyfriend is thinking, "I can'...
A: I wouldn't worry: if you have an open enough mind to accept his sexual past, then you are already well-equipped to handl...
A: Who is he talking to on Myspace? Losers? Because those are the only people I'm aware of who are still on Myspace. I pret...
A: I have no idea. I'm a nice guy, but my love trunk is so gargantuan, when I get excited I barely have enough skin to wink...
A: A chance at what? A chance at sleeping with him, and then weeping over a wedge of coffee cake because he won't call you ...
A: The mind wanders, especially when relaxed. Slips of the tongue are accidents that can happen to anyone in any situation....
A: Were you having a stroke when you wrote that question? Are you okay? Also: just because you call him "husby" (gag) and h...
A: It helps to be straight up with people. If you want a guy to know he's in the "friendzone," the best way is to tell him ...
A: Trust him. Please. Stop being a smothering paranoid. Oops! Did I just type my think? Sorry. But it's the truth. You have...
A: When a guy says he wants his woman to be "slutty," what he means is he wants her to be more aggressive. And not just agg...
A: The two of you should break up. Seriously. You and your boyfriend sound sexually incompatible. Why do you even need help...
A: I wouldn't recommend banging it out with randoms until you are good and ready. Sex has a way of amplifying emotional sta...
Q: How does a girl know when a guy is actually lying to them?
A: You're not going to know, not at first. There's just not going to be an "a-ha!" moment. The thing about liars, is if the...
A: I am generally anti-manscaping. I'm severely weirded out by waxed, dolphin-smooth guys. Like the dudes from Jersey Shore...
A: I don't get it. The last thing I want to see when I'm cranking it is me, naked. I don't make sex tapes. First of all, yo...
A: You don't have to tell him, but you should. The two of you aren't married, so your finances aren't combined. If you were...
A: Assuming I can generalize? Woman, sweeping gender platitudes are my specialty. For instance: women love candles that sme...
A: Stop being so shady. Seriously, you're totally sketchy. Here's the truth: you don't get to have this boyfriend back. Oth...
A: Wow. Give him a second chance, with conditions. There's no reason you have to give him the keys to your heart. Invite hi...
Q: Does my boyfriend think about other girls, such as having sex with them or making out with them?
A: Yes. But let us be fair: you've thought about it as well. I frequently think about donning a cape, calling myself "Batma...
A: Yes, do what you have to do to get your cookie. You deserve it. Besides, a healthy sexual relationship is one where both...
A: It means he's either a borderline hoarder or he's just insecure interacting with people in the real world. Either way, h...
A: Your husband is a chump, but he's not a liar. And if I were him, I'd be ashamed. Dude got played. Ha, ha, ha. Strip club...
A: This is not a big deal. That it's a big deal to you makes it more your problem, not his. His exes former stuff is probab...
Q: Is it hot when girls are loud during sex?
A: Yes. But to be more accurate: it's not so hot when girls are quiet. Unless the dude and a chick are playing a twisted CS...
Q: Pretty blunt, what makes a good blow job. What to do and what not to do?
A: I'll be blunt back: the best blow jobs are the enthusiastic ones. There is no bigger turn off than a woman who treats mo...
A: He doesn't think you're stupid. He just thinks he's clever for getting away with it. And I think you need to grow a spin...
A: If you date a guy who is bothered by your ass kicking prowess, then you shouldn't date him. Oh wowsies, isn't that easy?...
Q: Hey there John, what is it about a 17 year old girl's innocence that attracts older men so much?
A: Men who routinely chase considerably younger women are insecure in bed. The theory goes that a young woman who doesn't h...
A: What do you mean "what do you do?" You already did it. Done. You broke up with him. Don't answer his calls. Instead, use...
A: I have three answers to your main question, which is about why guys tell some girls that they are their girlfriends in p...
A: Yes. You're reading too much into this. Facebook is not reality. Things that happen on social networking sites are not r...
A: You're not doing anything wrong, but you should think about just not doing anything at all. The death of a parent is ter...
A: Go on another coffee date and ask him if he has a girlfriend. Not in an arms-crossed, accusatory way, but in the way two...
Q: Would you rather see a girl in skinny jeans and heels or flared/bootcut jeans ?
A: I would rather see a girl out of her skinny jeans and heels or flared/bootcut jeans. But not in a scary no pants hobo wa...
A: My first thought is: are the two of you fifteen? A hickey? That's the sign of an inexperienced mouth. Segue! You kind of...
A: It depends on your perspective. A high-five, or knuckle bump even, is a preferable review of your carnal assets than, sa...
A: How can you be sure if changed? Not a player? Why, you just have to wait and see. There's not much else you can do. Grab...
A: Let me, first, answer all of your questions. 1. When men stop calling, we have a reason. Unless our thumbs have fallen o...
A: What should you do? Absolutely nothing. Smile. Clap. Eat a shit ton of wedding cake, knock back a couple magnums of cham...
A: I wouldn't even feel guilty, provided your man luh-vah isn't self-conscious or frustrated about it. Let's flip the situa...
A: Yo. Yes, steer clear. For many reasons. The main one being he's a freakin' lazy moron. A dude should know better. Women ...
Q: Does casual sex ever really exist between two people?
A: Yes, casual sex exists. But it's always more casual for one person. I also believe it can only exist between two people ...
Q: What does it mean if a guy you think is interested in you touches you all the time?
A: It means you're covered in ants. It also means he obviously likes you. But I'm going to give you the same advice I've gi...
Q: He blocked my number. Is there a chance to get back together?
A: No. Okay, there's a tiny chance. Nothing is impossible. Implausible, yes. But not impossible. The only way you'll ever e...
Q: What does it mean when a guy tells you he'll be your hero?
A: It means you're dating Enrique Iglesias. Or Batman. Either way, he has a complicated relationship with his father. Are y...
Q: When having sex, and a girl tells you exactly what they want, whats your reaction?
A: Normally my reaction is: okey dokey! Bring it on! I do so love a challenge. Sex is best when two people are comfortable ...
A: Don't worry, you're sexy. That you even care about being sexy for your future husband is proof of sexiness. Other than t...
Q: Is sex all men really want? That's what a couple of guys told me...
A: Men want more than just sex. It's not like we want it all the time. Just, say, 51% of the time. I arrived at that conclu...
A: The practical advice is: there's not much you can do. But whatever you do, don't change. The odds are against you. If yo...
A: Guess you won't know unless you go out with him. Have faith in your natural born womanly instincts: you'll be ale to tel...
Q: Why does he not help around the house? He comes in from work and lays around. And always tired.
A: I have three answers to your question. He doesn't help around the house, and just lounges around like a human lawn chair...
Q: How do you tell a guy that his kissing skills need some refinement?
A: You don't tell him. Sheesh. You SHOW him. I'm a big believer that how a person kisses is more or less how they're going ...
Q: Can I get my guy to stop looking at other women?
A: No. You can't. I mean, you could, but that would entail chloroform, a spoon, and possibly some jail time. More important...
A: And here I was, thinking this only happens on TV. Let's first address him being in bed with another dude: don't address ...
A: Your boyfriend really doesn't want to get married, at least not yet.The two of you have been together for a substantial ...
A: He's either telling you what you want to hear in order to sleep with you or he's a serial killer. Let me reiterate: he's...
A: Yes. Go for it. Take a risk. We've all become such risk-adverse wusses when it comes to sex and relationships. Will you ...
A: First of all, let's remove the comfy snuggie of honesty you've wrapped yourself in. You were not honest with him. You ad...
Q: Is a smiley face a flirty jesture in a text?
A: Yes. No. Neither. The answer to your question is: I don't know. He's texting you, right? That means, on some level, he i...
A: You're not in love with your boyfriend. At best, you're rapidly falling out of love with him. The best way to make a per...
A: Yes. It's probably a sign he's not into you. There are other reasons for him being flaky. He could be wrestling bears. O...
A: You loved him, huh? Then if you loved him then he deserves a second chance. This is why love sucks. Of course, there are...
A: This guy sounds a little loonycakes, but in a strangely appropriate way. And you're wise to be leery of it. The relation...
A: To those who don't know "Testim" is a prescribed gel that you apply to your arms and shoulders to improve testosterone l...
A: Yeah, you need to stop sleeping with this guy. While you're at it, don't see, talk, or text him. Defriend and unfollow h...
A: I always take people at face value. I trust them, and what they say, until proven otherwise. If this guy is flirting wit...
A: I'm sorry. That really sucks. Without threats, guilt trips, or grand drama queen exits, I'd slowly try and stop spending...
A: I don't think guys really care about whether their woman wears make-up. A touch of eye shadow, lipstick, or beauty putty...
A: Yes, it would be wrong. You know it's wrong, but you asked the question anyway. It's wrong, specifically, because your m...
Q: What do guys want after they've had sex with a girl?
A: Probably more sex. Or a sandwich. Definitely a short cuddle, and a long snooze. Personally, I like to watch Mad Men or 3...
Q: Who should be responsible for supplying the condoms? The guy or the girl?
A: Sometimes a guy can't win: he doesn't pack any rubbers, he's reckless. He comes bearing a box or two, and he's presumptu...
A: Punch him in the nipple and shout, "STONE UP, JELLY DONUT!" I know for a fact that nothing drives a woman to crazytown f...
A: It sounds like you've already decided you're going to cheat on him, so go get your freak on. Satisfy your urge, scratch ...
A: Don't "discuss," it with him. "Discussions" are for performance reviews, book clubs, and his action figure collection. W...
Q: What exactly do guys do with "the sock"?
A: Guys put them on their feet. During the winter, I have a wool pair that are cozy, and keep my toes all snuggly. Usually ...
A: You really shouldn't care who your bestie shares her bed with. It's obvious she knows, as do her dude friends, that ther...
Q: do you like girls with tattoos?
A: Yes, I love women with tats. The more, the better. And piercings, too. Lip, tongue, nipples, nether regions. All of it's...
A: Oh, we do love hotel sex. I'll try to answer your questions, as you seem exasperated. We love hotel sex for multiple rea...
A: This site is barely a month old and we're already at "red wings," huh? Let's do this. First of all, it's not strange. Wh...
Q: Can an average looking girl be successful in the dating world?
A: Yes. I'm an average looking guy, and I've been successful. Except for all those times I've been shot down, sneered at, o...
A: Whenever I've been on a date where the chick seems nervous, I ask her questions about herself, the simpler and more basi...
A: If you have an STD, it is your responsibility to tell whoever you're about to have sex with. It sucks, it's humiliating,...
A: By all means, end it. End it now. No? That's what I thought. Stop being so neurotic, insecure, and impatient. I do not t...
Q: What's the worst pick-up line you've used on a girl... and did it work?
A: Everybody knows pick-up lines don't work. The best way to strike up a conversation with a woman at a bar or a party is t...
A: You don't want to hang out with a dude who won't call first. Sorry. But chances are, he was hammered, and has either for...
A: Life is too short to care what chattering, busybodies think. Just keep doing your work and have faith that you're being ...
Q: When my boyfirend drinks, he gets really obnoxious. What can I do?
A: There's not much you can do. You can mention it to him that when you guys go out, he behaves like a vomit donkey after a...
A: I don't see anything wrong with it either. Women have sexual desires and needs, just like men. In my experience, women a...
A: While he's asleep, take a black magic marker and write "WHERE'S MY B-DAY GIFT, D-BAG" on his forehead. Then scrawl crude...
A: Why are you going through his phone? That's shady as all get out. Once a woman has decided to indulge her paranoid fanta...
Q: Why do guys always have to make dating some kind of ridiculous game?
A: Are you seriously serious? Because, largely, we blame the ladyfolk for making dating a nearly unbearable obstacle course...
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