Tag: Alcohol

Q: One of my guy friends and I got drunk at a party we were at and we got snippy. I tried to leave and he put his arms around my neck/chest to stop me. It was more playful than violent, but I was mad so I pushed him. Relations between us have been frosty since, so 1. who should apologize? and 2. why would he do that?

A: You were both drunk and stupid. Either of you can apologize. It doesn't really matter who did what in this case. If you ...

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Q: 3 months ago, my best friend was beaten by her ex. He's back in town and they're reconciling. She's told me she knows it's nuts but that she's SO happy. She swears it's because of drugs and alcohol and that he's changed. How can I be a supportive friend when I want to mutilate the "love of [her] life?"

A: You're in a predicament and she's in danger. Unfortunately, both are true. If a man beats his girl he needs heavy, heavy...

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Q: I'm a 21 year old college student, I just got a DUI and crashed my dad's car...I feel like a completely worthless piece of shit. This is the first real "bad" thing I've done and I'm not sure how to get over it....

A: WHAT?! You're not perfect?! I'm so disappointed. Yeah, you screwed up. Yes, it sucks. But it's not the end of the world....

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Q: The morning after a drunken hookup that included cuddling and lots of sweet words, I proceeded to throw up on the way to breakfast. It wasn't on him or in his car... still, how high are the chances I am now viewed as "that girl who threw up"? How embarrassed should I be?

A: Aww. I wouldn't worry. It happens to everyone. This one time I got really drunk at a family reunion. The next morning, I...

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Q: My BF needs to reel in his drinking just a little bit. He's fine, but at our typical weekend gathering with all our friends over, he gets a bit too drunk and it's a turn off. I really don't want to be a nag. My mom constantly nags my dad about drinking too much & it's lame. I wish he'd just know his limit! Any advice?

A: Well, as long as you use language like "nag" to describe what you're doing you will see it as such. There's nothing nagg...

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Q: I am allergic to alcohol & whenever I tell a guy, he just laughs at me and says something like "Oh, you're one of those girls..." I then try to tell him that I really am allergic, but he just keeps laughing. How do I make guys really believe that I am allergic to alcohol?

A: "One of those girls?" One of which girls? The kind that drinks alcohol, starts sweating, loses control of her bowels, go...

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Q: So I just turned 21 not too long ago and I've been introduced to the "lets meet up for drinks" trend. I'm a little clueless when it comes to decoding a guys intentions. Other than straight out asking what are some ways to figure out if he wants to get drinks to get to know me or increase his chances of getting laid?

A: Well, that in itself is the beauty (and curse) of "hey, let's get a drink sometime." It can pass as a social hang, or a ...

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Q: If a guy (in his early 20's) is really into partying and drugs now does it mean that he will be like that for the rest of his life? (he was really into partying and drugs in high school too)

A: Heavens no, Dear Reader; if he's a drugged out, zombie brained, frat cat now there's a fair chance it can be outgrown. H...

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Q: I am in college but I have a problem: I don't drink. Everyone else does and it's seemingly the only way to meet people. What should I do? I've been to enough parties sober to know that they are not fun when everyone else is completely wasted. Thoughts?

A: You've made a tough decision for the situation you're in and I applaud you for sticking by your guns, whatever your reas...

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Q: How do u know if a man enjoyed sex with u, but doesn't say anything?

A: I think that 9 out of 10 dentists would tell you that if man has sex, he enjoys sex. Now, its not to say that all sex is...

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Q: What does it mean when guy asks a girl to meet up for drinks. Why not just ask her to dinner for their first date?

A: Because dinner food rarely has high alcohol by volume. I mean sure, there's vodka chicken, but you've got to eat like ei...

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Q: What is your opinion of older women dating younger men, and is there an age a 45 year old women should not considering dating?

A: I, for one, am all for cougar love. It even has a great name: Cougar Love. That sounds like the name of a Courtney Love ...

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