Tag: Attracting Men

Q: I am a self proclaimed "f*g hag." It seems the only guys that are ever around me are gay and as much as I love hanging with my gays, I need a straight boyfriend! Is my overwhelming amount of gay bffs ruining my chances of finding a hetero man?

A: Yes. There's no other way to put it. And I've spent a few minutes staring at my monitor trying to evaluate if it's reall...

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Q: Do guys really care about the colour of a lady's labia? Do you prefer it pink, brown...or do you just not care?

A: WOW, it's raining labia questions on GuySpeak. This is the first one I got. A few hours later I snatched another one. Ra...

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Q: FG! Do guys care about jeans? I've busted out this past year to buy 7s, Trues, Meks, Rock Revivals, and etc etc. Do they notice them? Are they attracted to them? Are guys more or less likely to date a girl w/ designer jeans?

A: An answer in 3 parts & 1 bottom line. Some dudes are into labels and trends. They like a lady who rocks the latest desig...

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Q: How do guys feel about outie bellybuttons?

A: Well, as you might expect, some guys prefer In-ies. The "hot" norm, I'd say, is a subtle-shell belly button. This is wha...

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Q: How do guys feel about "fat sex?"

A: My first instinct when answering this lovely question was to ask, "What the hell is 'fat sex'." But, I think I know what...

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Q: If you're on a date and you ask a girl, 'what's your favourite band/artist?' are you wanting her to say a band you really like too? I always reply with a girly, flowery artist, to which guy's facial expression's turn a bit sour! So is it best to say you're into some 'manly' band so that you have this in common?

A: Music is a sacred thing for most people. Guys in particular often pride and identify themselves by the type of music the...

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Q: How can you tell if a guy is out of your league? Please no "nobody is out of your league" b.s. either ...

A: The idea of "league" can feel mean, but it also has its place. Alex Rodriguez doesn't play in your softball league becau...

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Q: Do guys care about nipple size? Sometimes I think they are on the small side, but I'm only a 32C so compared to a 42F they would be small, but I have no idea. I've never had complaints. Is it something guys REALLY notice?

A: Dearest Marie, Sure, guys care about nipple size. Humans can be some scrutinizing mother-F'ers -- some more than others....

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Q: i have submitted questions before, but did't get ansered. so will try 1 more time. there is a guy at my wk i like. i asked him out a few months ago. he said he was in a relationship. i still see him from time to time. i wish he'd ask me. how do i get over him and move on?

A: I know I answered this question before, back in November I think. Still, that is a long haul back through the archives, ...

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Q: Does breast size matter?

A: Sure, for some things. If you don't know your breast size you may inadvertently buy a 46 Double D bra when in fact you a...

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Q: Men's opinion of a women in uniform? Stuffy or hot? Do tell.

A: Stuffy or hot depends on two things: Who's stuffed in it and what kind of a uniform? A hot woman is made even hotter in ...

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Q: What kind of girls are teenage guys interested in?

A: Are you asking me this because you are a teenage girl wanting to woo teenage guys? Or, are you asking me this because yo...

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Q: What are the first 10 things you notice about a girl?

A: When a woman of interest walks in a room, guys (even really really dumb guys) get this wave of Sherlock Holmesian deduct...

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Q: If a guy's really into a girl but the girl has a little stubble "down there" one night, will that turn him off forever?

A: I'm wondering why you quoted "down there" and not "a little stubble". Surely we all know what down there is, but a litt...

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Q: Funny Guy - fill in the blank... Chicks like a guy who kisses like a ____. (explain)

A: Chicks like a guy who kisses like a sentient being. What I mean is, someone who is in the moment -- emotionally receptiv...

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Q: When you first see a girl/woman, what do you look at first? What do you notice first? How can women make good, lasting first impressions on men she likes?

A: Personally? Eyes. Forget the "windows to the soul" crap - that is fairly irrelevant. But a pretty, clear, sparkling pair...

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Q: Are guys intimidated by women with a little muscle? I compete in fitness competitions so I'm on the muscular side, and I can't get a guy! Any advice?

A: I know exactly how you feel. I'm constantly intimidating all the incompetent morons around me (I'm looking at you, Barry...

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