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Q: I was adopted when I was twelve. I am grown up now (as in, done with college), but I have never had a relationship because I have always been in love with my adoptive father. Who is, obviously, married to my adoptive mother. I'd never actually show it and hurt them, but... this is wrong, right? Please help!

A: This question may be unbridled bullsh*t, but it is factually and emotioanlly possible, plus on second read -- maybe it i...

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Q: i think i may be attracted to girls, does that make me a lesbian?

A: Not necessarily. Hell, you said you think you may be. If anything, you're more confused than any particular label. What ...

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Five Ways to Decode: Does He Like Me or What?

Here it is, ladies, the quick and handy cheat-sheet to "How Do I Know if a Guy Likes Me." I've distilled everything into Five Guys. No, not the burger joint, but the 5 types of vibes or interactions you may...

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Women Fall Under Three Distinct Categories: Hot. Kinda Cool. Threatening.

Earlier this week, I was minding my own business on a sandy beach in Maine. Donning my sheer Speedo, and armed with nothing but a leather-bound edition of Hunger Games and my tall gin and tonic, I was hoping for some...

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Q: Most of the time my guy and I have sex he doesn't undress me but rather lifts up my skirt or dress, pulls down my panties, and gets busy. One time I started to take off my dress but he stopped me and told me leave it on. Why does he do this? Is it because he doesn't like to way I look naked?

A: Your boyfriend's interest in having sex with you in this fashion is a result of one of two things. Both of which will re...

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6 Simple Ways To Attract Guys (Or At Least Feel Better About Yourself)

Want to know how to get noticed by guys? Of course you do; why else would you ask us every single day how to make that happen? No surprise there, given the nature of this site. What is surprising are...

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Ugly Ducklings: Are your friends getting hotter or is your self-esteem getting colder?

This week's post is about Ugly Ducklings, Weird Ducklings and Gross Grapes -- a  concern that's been popping up with some frequency as of late in the Guyspeak inbox. I'm not sure if people's friends are getting hotter or...

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Q: My boyfriend hasn't been to the dentist in years. His gums sometimes bleed and I'm worried they're infected. I've told him I'm worried about it, but he shrugs it off. I think he's embarrassed. How do I get him to go to the dentist?

A: How do I get him to go to the dentist? Wrong question. Correct question? How do I get you to understand that pleading fo...

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First Names: Why Do Some Make Us Hurl, And Others Make Us Hug?

Names have been around for a long, long time. Ever since Adam and Eve, though it seems a bit unnecessary considering there was only two people alive at the time. Unless Adam was talking to himself, it was pretty...

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Q: I just started dating this guy and we're very physically attracted to each other that we ended up having sex on our first date. Now he wants to step back to "take it slow", wait on the sex to see if we can develop our relationship into something more--see where it goes. Is there a catch?!

A: There is something to be said about making sure you've got some solid bread before slathering on the sex-onnaise. This g...

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Why do we like the guys who may not like us back? GuySpeak Group Question!

A new study says a woman is much more attracted to a guy when she's not sure if he's into her or not. It's called the "He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not Study" -- which would be cute if it...

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Q: OK, so here's the deal, I am extremely attracted to guys in wheelchairs... That's it, I've said it. But my question is: WHY? I feel like a freak, please help!

A: I guess that's just how you roll! Get it? Hello? ::: tap tap tap::: Is this thing on? Um... I really don't know why that...

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Q: Hey Wise-ass, I'm smart, funny and not bad-looking. But I seem to attract only those guys that don't attract me at all. How to attract guys that I would like not only to talk with, but also have relationship with?

A: I wish I could answer that. But if I could, I'd probably be lounging on a palm-lined beach on one of my private islands,...

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Q: My Boyfriend is starting to thin out on top. It appears to be a touchy subject for him. How does he approach Balding Gracefully?

A: In the not so distant future human balding will be a thing of the past. Much like the Soviet Union and hotmail accounts,...

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Q: Do guys really think about other women during sex? Why?

A: Have you ever been caught in a rainstorm while thinking about sunshine? Have you found yourself eating cereal, but think...

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Q: Why would a guy chose masturbation if his woman is more than happy to be of service and available at the time? Is he just lazy or a boob?

A: Sometimes a guy needs to reacquaint himself with his first sexual partner - himself. It doesn't make him lazy or a boob,...

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Q: What kind of girls are teenage guys interested in?

A: Are you asking me this because you are a teenage girl wanting to woo teenage guys? Or, are you asking me this because yo...

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Q: What part of the woman's body attracts men the most?

A: Oh that's simple: her heart. As a guy, I'm most attracted to the heart of a woman. While it's not a standard body part, ...

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Q: I've recently met a guy who's PERFECT for me! He's easy to talk to, funny and treats me well. The catch? I'm not physically attracted to him. There's no "spark" for me. Should I hang in there and hope it changes? Or would it have already happened by now?

A: It would've already happened by now. If there's no spark now, there surely won't be one in the future. And don't call me...

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Q: What does it mean if a guy you think is interested in you touches you all the time?

A: It means you're covered in ants. It also means he obviously likes you. But I'm going to give you the same advice I've gi...

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