Tag: Bisexual

Q: How do I support my friend who thinks she is bisexual without influencing her decisions about her sexual orientation?

A: Well given your obvious lack of belief in your friend (as evidenced by your "thinks she is bisexual" line), I'd say that...

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Q: A guy i am seeing has in interest in men. What do I do?

A: Become a man. Short of that, you need to assess the situation very, very carefully. Your question was only 14 words so I...

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Q: I find that I am becoming evermore confused about my sexuality. I could see myself with either a guy or a girl. I am attracted to both sexes until the clothes come off. I'm really disturbed by penises but love boobs & vaj. In that case, am I a lesbian? Does sexuality really come down to who you'd rather have sex with?

A: The quick answer is: you are what you eat. And right now, my friend, you are an omnivore. The longer (more thoughtful) a...

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Q: what do you look for in a girl?

A: I have a checklist I use. Suppose I can share it with you. 1/ Does she have a pulse? This one is vital. 2/ Is she defini...

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Q: I just found out that my boyfriend went to a gay bar and made out with some dude. This isn't the first time my gay friends have told me they've seen him at the bar. I didn't know he is bisexual. How do I discuss this with him???

A: The only way you can, you specifically ask him if he's bisexual because you know that he's been out making out with othe...

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Q: Hi, so I'm bisexual, and I have a fbuddy who's a girl. But, I met this guy, he's boyfriend material, he's hot, and he promises he has a big junk. I am in a dilemma because I want to keep my relationship with my fbuddy, but I'm thinking of actually settling down. Should I take the plunge?

A: Take the plunge! He promises to have a big junk. What more do you need? And if there's one thing that guys never lie abo...

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Q: I seem to be able to sense when girls are bisexual. I'll just pick them out in public places, or just choose one out of a bunch of acquaintances to get close to. Is this normal for other guys ?

A: No, it's not normal for other guys. That must mean you're special. Like a super hero. Your power is the ability to tell ...

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Q: I'm bi, which my fiancee is aware of. Actually, he's one of the only males I (can) find attractive. Should I be worried about hurting his feelings if I talk about how hot other girls are?

A: I doubt it. Most men, hypocrites that we are, find the idea of you being into another girl extremely hot. And I don't ju...

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Q: I'm 20, bisexual and technically a virgin. One of my guy friends is interested in me and has told me so. Although I like him too, I'm scared that later on in the posited relationship I will feel like I'm missing something (that is to say, sex with women). Should I say yes?

A: If you can't live without having sex with women, you may want to upgrade yourself from bisexual to full-on lesbian. Or p...

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Q: Do guys really find bisexual girls hot? I mean, I'm bisexual but don't see what the big deal is when guys start panting like dogs when they learn that I have a girlfriend.

A: Guys love bisexual girls! The math is simple, a girl who likes girls but also likes guys may at some point have an inter...

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Q: I found gay porn under my boyfriend's bed. I'm really afraid of confronting him about it. What should I do??

A: You need to talk to him. Right after you read this. I don't care if Jersey Shore is on. They'll run it again in a couple...

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Q: I came home last night to find my boyfriend in bed with another hot dude. I did get angry and storm out to stay with a close friend. What should I do today and say to my boyfriend? I love him so but want to make him happy.

A: And here I was, thinking this only happens on TV. Let's first address him being in bed with another dude: don't address ...

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Q: If a guy keeps staring at you and then when you look looks away, does that mean that he likes you?

A: Yes! It means he loves you. It seems you have stumbled on the secret mating rituals of man. Other clues: If you look at ...

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Q: A guy friend that I had always thought of as being as gay has recently started to "flirt" with me and telling me he's bisexual. At first, I thought he was kidding, but now I'm not so sure. Any advice?

A: I always take people at face value. I trust them, and what they say, until proven otherwise. If this guy is flirting wit...

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