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Q: My boyfriend tends to post exceptionally goofy and unattractive pictures of himself on facebook, I mean total creeper pics. He's an attractive guy, but I never know whether to joke with him about them. I know they're meant to be funny, but I don't know if a joke about his appearance from his gf would be taken poorly.

A: People use Facebook for different purposes. Some people use it to show how hot they still are; how much fun they're stil...

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Q: Will a boy only date me if I put out? I'm an 19 year old virgin who hasn't even kissed a boy or had a bf yet. My mum says that the 'right guys' don't want me because I don't put out. I've never had a bf so I guess she might be right, though i stick by my 'not until im married' guns.

A: Wow. No offense, but your mom kinda sucks. Tell her from me that you are absolutely right to stick by your guns, and any...

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Q: My roommate told me today that she doesn't like when I have my new boyfriend over. We had originally agreed on 3 days but she said she's feeling overwhelmed. Help!

A: This can be a tough thing to negotiate and falls under a larger umbrella I'll call: The Ways and Means of Shared Living....

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Q: Ok Wise Ass, I need your help. In ANY universe, if you date your really good friend of many years for several months, is it EVER casual? He dumped me out of the blue claiming it was casual. I disagree, but maybe I'm blind.

A: Is it ever casual? That depends on who you ask. One man's casual is another man's "I'm gonna marry this woman." "Casual"...

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Q: Am I too thin? I train horses and work hard every day, so I get an automatic workout, but my boyfriend keeps trying to make me gain weight. I have a D chest, a tiny waist, strong arms, legs, and abs, and a curvy backside, so I'm happy with my body, and I'm NOT skin and bones. Should I gain some weight for him anyway?

A: Wow, this is the opposite of the questions we usually get. See readers, some guys do like curvy women. Don't gain weight...

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Q: Is it weird to have pet names in the form of Pokemon? I have an odd habit of doing this to almost every guy I want to get romantic with. First, it was Psyduck. Then it was Growlithe. Now I'm all over Mightyena. Would you get turned off by immaturity or be intrigued by slight creativity?

A: Uh, if the guy's really into Pokemon, he might be cool with it. (You aren't doing this in public, right?) Otherwise, he ...

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Q: My boyfriend tells me he refuses to get married until he's 35. This is 9 years away and i would be 38. Is it worth staying hoping that he may reconsider his timeframe or should I cut and run if that does not work for my time frame?

A: I'd give it some more time. "I'm not getting married until I'm 35" is what every twenty-something guy says at some point...

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Q: My boyfriend IM'd me, asking me to call him. I did, only to be ignored in favor of a game. Was I right to get mad at him for ignoring me when he asked me to call, or was that me just being a hard-ass bitch?

A: My gut reaction is to say that if "game" referred to sports game, then dump the asshole, but if it referred to Red Dead ...

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Q: I feel like my boyfriend might break up with me soon. I've heard that if this happens, I should calmly agree and go along with it, if I ever want to get him back. What do you think?

A: I'm not sure who spreads information like that, but my suspicion is that it's either women who have had very little actu...

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Help! I Hate My Boyfriend's Pal With a Fiery Passion. What Should I Do?

Our good friend Emily Gordon from Lemondrop has a problem: she hates her boyfriend's obnoxious pal. We've all been there, and it is the worst. Check out Emily's open letter to guys with jerky friends below, and stay tuned for...

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Q: My boyfriend adores Sheryl Crow to the point where he has kept all her pictures. He is 30 years old and it makes me doubt our relationship because I don't keep stuff like that around. Should I think I think it's nothing? Or am I just jealous?

A: So I assume he's dragging you to Lilith Fair this summer? Hey, I'm not judging. I went to the original back in the '90s....

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Q: Do guys really feel less manly when a girl kicks their butt at a video game or a sport? If so, why is this?

A: Absolutely. It's pretty hard to imagine yourself as James Bond when your girlfriend keeps shooting you in the face, or w...

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Q: My friend's bf checks her phone logs, wants to know where she is every moment (with camera phone proof), and a bunch of other ridiculous stuff. She insists I "just don't know what he's been through." What should I say to her, if anything?

A: I think your instincts are dead-on. Unless your friend is widely hailed as the town's biggest skank, his level of suspic...

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Q: My boyfriend's been leading some of our conversations towards my proposal preferences (public or private, romantic or fun) for a few weeks. How the hell do I stay calm about this and not ruin the surprise (if there is one)?

A: Man, you "surprise people." I'll never understand liking surprises; I'm a man who would gladly read a book that laid out...

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Q: We were at the mall and my boyfriend went to order food from Arby's and didn't even offer me anything. Then he just sat there and ate it in front of me.

A: Dump him. First he's making you watch him scarf down a Big Beef and Cheddar, then he's forgetting your birthday and "lik...

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Q: I might sound like a psychotic, jealous gf but I don't like it when my bf has tickle wars with other girls he knows. It's not so much the tickling as WHERE he tickles. The mid to high thigh areas are a no-no for me but I know that he and I are from different sides of the spectrum with physical openness. What do I do?

A: You aren't psycho-- he's a douche. He shouldn't be having tickle fights with anyone but his girlfriend. (I can't believe...

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Q: Last night while watching a movie my boyfriend of two weeks did some stuff with his hands to me and I didnt return the favor...should I feel bad?

A: After two weeks? Absolutely not. If anything, he should feel slightly presumptuous. Mayhap a gift card is in order. And ...

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Q: I put some Bengay on before my boyfriend came over. We started kissing, and he told me I smelled really amazing that day. What?!

A: Grandma fetish, perhaps? Perhaps he's still on a high from Betty White's hilarious SNL episode. Next time you're making ...

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Q: My boyfriend is mad that I don't text him throughout the day to let him know if I'm busy or free. My days are a bit chaotic and very stop-and-go, why can't he just assume that I'm busy when I don't answer him right away? I feel like I'm reporting to some higher authority with every text and it's quite irritating.

A: I can relate. I don't love texting. I accept that it's part of the way we communicate now, but if I have to punch button...

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Q: My boyfriend expects lots of blow jobs...whats the average amount a guy should get a week?

A: Hmm, so your boyfriend expects lots of blow jobs. That's actually pretty novel. I mean I expect bjs for breakfast every ...

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