Tag: Cheating

Q: Help, I am deathly jealous. I can't do anything with my boyfriend. We can't go out, we can't watch television, we can't play video games. I hate that everyday my boyfriend drives to work and sees billboards with slutty women on them. I feel like I'm ruining my life and his. I'm so tired that I want to kill myself.

A: Well, I'm no doctor, but the first thing I would prescribe is a giant "chill pill." As in, relax and take one. And then ...

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Q: My boyfriend left a message on another girl's FB saying how "he couldn't keep his eyes off her" when they met. What is the best way to bring it up to him? I feel really disrespected and disappointed in him.

A: As well you should. Not only did he flirt with someone else, but he did it publicly for the whole world to see, includin...

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Q: I cauhgt my wife sexting with another man. When I asked her about it she lied at first. Then used the Tiger Woods excuse "you shouldn't look at my Blackberry." I don't have a problem with it and it really makes her horny. She calls it her porn. Just don't like the sneaking around and lying.

A: That's understandable. You're giving her a LOT of leeway with the "whole sexting with another guy" thing. The fact that ...

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Q: ok so my bf went to Vegas to a porn convention and took a pic with a porn star...and he put his hands on her butt!!! Kind of upset me, but he was very honest about it! Should I be upset, is this cheating??

A: This might sound a bit insensitive but he's at a porn convention. Just be glad he's not smanging anything. Putting his h...

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Q: I had an affair(I'm married) with my ex, I want to see him again for some nsa sex, how long should I wait to contact him so I don't look desperate?

A: How soon can you file for divorce? Tell your husband you want a divorce, go through the proper filing. If you have kids,...

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Q: Why does the guy "never leave the wife"?

A: It's not really that hard to understand; even the biggest jerks tend to be emotionally attached to somebody they've been...

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Q: I cheated on my (almost) bf on New Year's by kissing someone else. I have already come clean and we are trying to get past this. He is still really infatuated with me and other times he looks and me and kind of hates me. What can I do to make things right?

A: You've already done it. You confessed and, I assume, apologized. There's nothing left to do but wait and see if he gets ...

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Q: Okay, this is all sick, but i need advice. My fiance recently tried to get nude pictures from my mother. Well obviously i left him, but i still care for him (i dont know why). He's been calling/texting since i left and will just sob and cry about how he misses me and he wishes he had never hurt me. What to do?

A: What's sick is that you want this guy back. Well, that and the fact that he asked your mom for nude pics. (UGH. I feel i...

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Q: Would it be cheating if I flirt and cuddle with another guy?

A: Your boyfriend probably thinks so. For most people, cheating doesn't necessarily mean sex. It can be as simple as sendin...

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Q: I love my boyfriend but hate his body. He got gastric but isnt taking care of himself. Im afraid I'll never be able to find someone who treats me this well and is attractive/not gross. Can I have flings to curb my urge for a hot man stomach?

A: ... No. If you're concerned about your ex's health, try going to the gym with him. Otherwise, find a ladder, brace it ca...

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Q: I'm in a ldr n each time i go to my bfs house something always comes up, hairties, hair in his bedroom n bathroom that isn't mine, condoms in his dresser, a earing, a girls shirt n even a sextoy toy that was out of a package n looks like it was used. But he always seems to have a believale excuse

A: Once, twice, three times a d-bag. He's cheating. Condoms and hair ties are one thing, women's clothing and sex toys are ...

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Q: My husband and I have only been married a little over a month. But I found that he is looking and signing up for casual sex on a dating site. My feelings are so hurt. Any advice? Please do not advise divorce.

A: Okay...I won't advise divorce. How about a trial separation? Seriously, aren't you feeling more than hurt feelings right...

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Q: i found condoms in my boyfriends car, we dont use them, he has had a vasectomy

A: Again, not exactly a question. More like beat poetry, but I'll take a stab, Jazznik. You are wondering if his car runs o...

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Q: I know that Snoopy is shady and stupid. But I knew something was up. I looked through my boyfriends phone and saw emails he's sent to other women and seen that he searches the craigslist personal ads. It seems as though he hasnt cheated yet but is trying to. Do I confront him? How do I do it?

A: Of course you confront him. You say, "Why are you sending emails to other women and searching craigslist personals when ...

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Q: I have been casually hooking up with someone for over three months now. The sex is out of this world.I recently have had reason to believe that he has a GF. If he does-would it be wrong of me keep seeing him? He initially told me that he didn't have time for a GF, hence the FWB. Help!

A: Yes, it would be wrong for you to keep seeing him, if he has a girlfriend. But let's give him the benefit of the doubt, ...

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Q: MM-FollowUp Q from 10/15: Should I stay or GO-OH: We had 3 dates in Oct to keep connected. I asked for 1wk N/C this wk. After a few days he called wanting to end break, b/c he loves me and is ready. I asked if slept w/anyone since we broke in Sept: yes,1. Im mad b/c he kept up the "miss you" talk w/me. Was he cheating?

A: Previous question is here. Tricky one. You were on a break, so not together, even though you stayed in touch fairly cons...

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Q: Is admitting to getting a blow job different than admitting having sex with another woman? How much different? If someone admits to getting a blow job from amother woman, does it mean that he will admit to having sex? If not, why?

A: Not really. If you start defining what does and doesn't constitute cheating, you start down a slippery slope. "Well, the...

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