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Q: I'm a 20yo girl and a student living at home while I go to university. Every time I go out and come home kind of drunk (not wasted) my mother gets real upset. My dad is pretty chill, but in general they don't want me to drink at all - or at least not get drunk. So I end up feeling really guilty every time. Should I be?

A: I don't know, do you usually feel guilty when you upset your parents? I get it: you're in college and you want to drink....

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How can you tell if your ex still loves you? Can an Ivy League grad love a 'regular' girl? Should you send FB love to your high school flame? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

Does the silent treatment work? Can smarty pants Ivy Leaguers fall in love with regular university girls? How can you tell if your ex wants you back? How should you treat an ex who left without a goodbye but now...

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Q: He graduated form Harvard then Harvard business school.... me? From a regular college.... he's Jewish I'm Catholic...is love enough?

A: Love is not enough. What's enough? Love, acceptance and belief that your partnership is not diminished but empowered thr...

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Q: My bf of two years dumped me but says he still loves me. I actually believe him. Stupid of me? If he does, why would he dump me? He's going through a sort of transitional period in his life (read: college). He says he doesn't want to date other girls but he needs space? We live in different cites...

A: If he's going to college, it's over. He may be sincere, he may be insincere, but if it's different cities, he's in colle...

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Q: My fiance is going to community college this fall; should i be worried about other women flirting with him?

A: Yes, you should be worried your fiance is only going to community college. Wait, was that the question? Let me re-read. ...

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Q: I was drunk last night at my first ever college party. Moved in my dorm last week. Apparently i got gangbanged by 4 guys. I think im gonna drop out.

A: This question might be a joke. Not because it's impossible for such a thing to happen. But I doubt that a woman would re...

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Can I use sex to pay for college? Do nice girls finish last? Are black men attracted to white girls? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

We broke up - should he get custody of the PlayStation? Is it OK to use sex to pay for college? Why do I feel so guilty about sex? Why do nice girls always finish last? Are black men attracted...

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I Went to Harvard And All I Got Was This Lousy STD

Arianna Huffington and her Huffington Post was all a-buzz this week exposing the growing phenomenon of Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies. In short, young women (and some men) paying off their steep college tuitions and student loans through the selling...

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She's Out Of My League?

Believe it or not, there was a time in young Panama's life when he absolutely talked himself out of approaching not one, but two women. I had completely convinced myself that these two women were out of my league. Which...

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Q: Dearest Wise-Ass, there's a guy at work that likes me and has asked me out. The opportunity is good but the timing is bad; I'm moving an hour away in two months. I want to be single because it's a college town and I want to flirt and party guilt-free. How do I tell him I want to be single without hurting his feelings?

A: Just tell him the truth. That's almost always the best approach. The alternative is a phony excuse, and there's no need ...

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Q: What action do you recommend for a high school couple going to two different colleges?

A: Ugh. I've been there. It sucks. You want my honest answer? Break up now and get it over with, because it's only a matter...

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Q: My brother seems to lack "life skills." He doesn't know how to sleep, eat, study etc. He got kicked out of two high schools and is flunking college. My parents are desperate. I think volunteer work abroad might help. What can we do to make him realize he needs to change?

A: Volunteer work is a step in the right direction. He needs what the French call "le kick in the pants." There are a few o...

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Q: Is it embarrassing to go back to school at 27 and possibly be a 29/30 year old intern?

A: No, not at all. Particularly now. The economy being what it is, all bets are off in terms of what you should and shouldn...

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Q: My boyfriend is going to try cocaine. I don't feel like it's my place to tell him not to do it, but it will bother me a lot if he does do it. I haven't talked to him about this yet. Advice?

A: You've come to Guyspeak for what R. Kelly calls' Real Talk', and so I'm not going to waste your time talking about "ooh ...

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Q: I am in college but I have a problem: I don't drink. Everyone else does and it's seemingly the only way to meet people. What should I do? I've been to enough parties sober to know that they are not fun when everyone else is completely wasted. Thoughts?

A: You've made a tough decision for the situation you're in and I applaud you for sticking by your guns, whatever your reas...

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Q: Do most people find their first love in college? If so I'm screwed. I haven't found anyone. Not that I'm looking, but as a junior in college with no first love found yet, I'm beginning to feel lonely and frankly worried.

A: Don't worry. Most people don't find their first love in college. Some do, but for others it takes a little longer. Most ...

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Q: I'm in college and I feel like everyone is telling me to 'enjoy my years of freedom' and hook up and have sex all the time, and 'make the most of it'. Is it wrong that I just don't want to have sex all over the place just because I can?

A: No, it's not wrong. But I don't think that's what everyone is saying. When people tell you to make the most of your coll...

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Q: From one geek to another- I just got accepted into an amazing, out-of-state college. Problem is, I really love my bf of 1.5 yrs. and I'm afraid to leave him behind. What do I do?

A: Go to college. No question whatsoever. Do not turn down an amazing, life-changing experience for a relationship. It is m...

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Q: I'm scared my boyfriend will find someone else once he starts community college. Should i tell him my fear or will that make him think I'm not confident in myself?

A: You should absolutely share your fears and concerns with him. Even if he's going to school in the area, he's going to be...

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Q: How can I encourage my boyfriend to go back to college?

A: I'm glad you used the word "encourage," because to be honest, this question sets off my "get off my back, woman!" alarm ...

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