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Q: I don't want to keep living together and not be married. If I give him an ultimatum will that make him marry me?

A: Well, it'll get you a decision, one way or the other. But some finesse might be called for. Here's the key thing to ask ...

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Q: When do you think it's time for a guy to take down his online dating profile?

A: Well, that depends. Are you exclusive? If he's your boyfriend, there's no reason why he can't take the profile down once...

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Q: Why can't guys commit- marriage before the age of 30? The real reason, is it because they want to see what else is out there. I've noticed marriage doesn't usually come until after a baby has been involved.

A: It's worth turning this question around and asking why women can't commit before the age of 30, either. The average age ...

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The August Interview: It's A Fair Cop

From one extreme to another, that's how the interviews go. Last month, a pole dancer/stripper. This month, an exceptionally pretty lady who happens to be, not only a cop, but a member of a SWAT team. You know, the nearest...

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Stayover Relationships - Bad Idea? GuySpeak Best of the Week!

"Stayover Relationships" - somewhere between living completely separately and fully moving in together - are apparently a new thing. What do you think, guys? Are they the perfect next step for "can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em" relationships?...

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I Want a Surprise! I Want a Fantasy! I Want my BF to make me his GF on FB or GTFO! GuySpeak's BOTW (Best of the Week)!

Is it OK to fantasize about other guys when you're committed? Is it OK to fantasize about your own guy when you're committed? Is it OK for guys to fantasize about comic book characters? Is it OK for me to...

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Q: What does it mean when a guy says he isn't seeing anyone else but isn't into labels? is he scared?

A: It means he's not looking to get serious. He likes you, wants to keep dating, but isn't looking to be your boyfriend. He...

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Q: He says he's committed, for good... so why does he still have dating site profiles? Albeit ones that he doesn't log into and that show his relationship status. Those can be disabled, so if he's really committed, why not disable them rather than just state that he's in a relationship?

A: Wait, how do you know he's on these sites? Do you have a profile as well?? Were you surfing for dudes and your guy came ...

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Q: Is it true that guys don't commit until they start running out of options for casual sex? A lot of other male advice bloggers say so. To get commitment, is it better to find the guys who can't get laid otherwise?

A: Wow, that's not incredibly cynical or kinda sexist on the part of those advice columnists or anything. Contrary to popul...

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Does girl-on-girl cheating count? GuySpeak Group Question!

According to a new study, a man is WAY more likely to forgive a woman if she cheats on him with another woman than if she cheats on him with a man. Guys -- how would you feel about your lady...

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Q: Did you ever wish that a girl's personality could be in another girl's body? There's this great guy at work who is hilarious and very sweet. I've been in relationships before where I got bored bc I wasn't attracted to them but also in ones where sex was the only thing. How important are the butterflies?

A: The butterflies are important to get you into the door, but its unfair to expect them to last forever. I'm sure it can h...

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Q: We've been hanging out for a few months now and we're both commitment-phobes. I'm not trying to put a title on it, but I definitely think I have more feelings than he does but I just can't seem to walk away from him... any tips for moving on to someone better?

A: I'm confused. Why are you trying to move on already? You said you don't want a title but you're ready to roll because yo...

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Q: why do men think its ok to love 2 different woman??

A: It's not loving two different people that's the problem. The problem is trying to love them at the same time. I don't be...

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Q: I am starting to wonder if men really need and want love. They seem to be so reckless with woman and their relationships with them it's making me wonder. I would like some feedback about this.

A: Hey now, Grumpyheart Sadpants. First off, whoever he is, I know for a fact that I didn't vote for him. He doesn't repres...

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Q: Why are men commitment-phobes?

A: The same reason planes remain airborne: beautiful, flawless design. We're built that way. Not to reduce men to a simple ...

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Q: I'm getting married in 5 months and I really would like to know if he's ready to make that commitment. How can I know for sure? What should I ask?

A: How about "will you marry me?" for starters? If you know you're getting married in 5 months, I assume one of you propose...

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Q: What does it REALLY mean when a guys says, "this is going too fast and I want to slow things down". Keep in mind this is after 3 great months and he was talking about buying a house together.

A: I don't normally do straight translations from dude to lady. But this one time I will. When he says "This is going too f...

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Q: Is "I'm not looking for anything serious" code for: I don't want to see you any more, or I want to take things slow?

A: Neither. It means, "I want to pork (or continue porking) you without any obligation or commitment." He could be saying t...

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Q: How long do you "date" before you can ask that dreaded question, what the hell are we?

A: The dreaded question is "What the hell are we?" Well, what the hell are you? Serial Killers? Cyborgs? Sleeper cell agent...

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Q: I'm 22 and my Mom is worried that I've only ever had relationships that last about six months. She fears I have commitment problems, but it's really just that I want to concentrate on my studies and my friends. Is this normal?

A: "Is this normal?" is, as a question, usually totally irrelevant. What's normal? In Iran, normal is not dating until marr...

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