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Q: my boyfriend has never been in a relationship longer than 2 yrs.we have been together for 4 and in may it will be 5 yrs.he says he wants to get married but everytime he wants to ask me i do something to make hm mad.maybe im scared cause i been married.he is 41 and me 39

A: Somehow, some way, I suspect the commitment phobia here isn't entirely on your end. The whole "I was going to ask and th...

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Q: My boyfriend didn't acknowledge me as his girlfriend online. On Facebook, he is listed as single. Being extremely handsome, talented, intelligent, and charismatic, he has both men and women flirting constantly, but he didn't mention me. When I told him it made me feel bad, he yelled at me for not trusting him. Help?

A: Time to ask him if he really wants to be your boyfriend. Because he's not acting like it. He wants to get attention onli...

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Q: Hi MM - Please tell me what to do. I'm at a total loss ! I'm currently seeing this guy who claimed to like me too but is not able to commit to any relationship. He showed signs of affection, we had sex but he didn't wanna commit due to his studies family & work stress! I just like him. Should I let go of him already ?

A: The guy has been honest with you - all credit to him. Be honest with yourself. What do you want? Chances are he is not g...

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Q: What are the rules for Friend with Benefits if the guy has a girlfriend? Oh, and he is my ex of two and a half years also.

A: The first rule of being a "friend with benefits" is: you should both be single. I have written plenty of times about how...

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Q: Is there a certain amount of time after which a guy should know if he loves you or not? I've been with this guy on/off for 15 months now. I love him and have said so. He said he doesn't love me but sees hope for the future. Should I wait?

A: I wouldn't. But you're not me and I don't date dudes, so let's talk it out. No, there's no set time for a guy to decide ...

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Q: I am starting to wonder if men really need and want love. They seem to be so reckless with woman and their relationships with them it's making me wonder. I would like some feedback about this.

A: Hey now, Grumpyheart Sadpants. First off, whoever he is, I know for a fact that I didn't vote for him. He doesn't repres...

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Q: Why are men commitment-phobes?

A: The same reason planes remain airborne: beautiful, flawless design. We're built that way. Not to reduce men to a simple ...

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Q: How long does a guy need to date before he commits? All I am asking is for an engagement.

A: You are the reason men are afraid of commitment. All you're asking for is an engagement? All you're asking for is a prom...

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Q: Can you please enlighten me and tell me why do guys stop calling with no reason whatsoever? Is it so hard to say 'This isn't going anywhere' or 'it's over'? Are guys afraid we'll act psycho and/or melodramatic by saying so? What's the deal with this?

A: Let me, first, answer all of your questions. 1. When men stop calling, we have a reason. Unless our thumbs have fallen o...

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