Tag: Condoms

Q: My long distance bf, who I haven't seen since since Christmas is staying for a week with me. What is the condom etiquette? Does a gentleman buy/bring them since I'm provide food/lodging? Or as a good hostess is it my job to provide them? But then I don't know about sizes and styles, fit and comfort.

A: Condom etiquette falls in the guy's court, BUT etiquette and reality are two separate things. If your man either forgets...

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Q: A guy I have been seeing and I broke a condom during sex. Now, I am six weeks late. Should I tell him?

A: Yes. Why go through this alone? It's bad luck that the condom broke, but you shouldn't have to deal with the consequence...

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Q: i found condoms in my boyfriends car, we dont use them, he has had a vasectomy

A: Again, not exactly a question. More like beat poetry, but I'll take a stab, Jazznik. You are wondering if his car runs o...

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Q: My boyfriend hates condoms and is terrified of child support. I was a few days late in starting the pill and he refused to have sex for a month and a half. His willpower was better than mine. Now he is in the habit of staying up till 6am playing games and we have NO sex. He is so zoned into this game it's crazy.

A: Hang on a second. Ever heard the expression "buried the lede"? In the newspaper business, it's when you ignore the meat ...

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Q: Is it unreasonable to ask my boyfriend to wear a condom for oral, until we both get tested to make sure we're STD free? I'm worried it would ruin the experience for him and he would think it a strange request as it seems most people don't bother with doing so.

A: It's not a strange request. In fact, it's a pretty smart move. There's nothing wrong with being safe. You're right-- man...

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Q: When my guy and I have sex, he can't finish inside me unless he's wearing a condom. I'm on the pill and have been for quite some time so we bareback it sometimes, but he can't finish when we do and it bugs him hugely. Any feedback on this?

A: Well, at least he's polite. Everybody has their individual hang-ups about sex, and his obviously is about safe sex. The ...

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Q: My BF always wants to wear a condom, even when I tell him not to. I am not on birth control, so maybe he is freaked of a pregnancy, but still, I think most guys would totally jump at the chance of not having to wear one. Plus, I was a virgin so no STD chance. What gives?

A: I have no idea how old you are, but I decided to answer this one anyway. I figure you're probably in your late teens but...

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Q: If my trusted partner makes it clear that all of his past sexual experiences were safe (condoms, etc), should I probe further? I feel like I'd be intruding on his personal relations with other people, but I'm genuinely curious. What do you think?

A:  Curious is one thing, terrified that your man's penis is a loaded STD weapon is another. This whole subject can be a di...

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Q: Boyfriend and I had sex twice, no condom, birth control, he ejaculated. Same night I slept with someone else, no condom, no ejaculation. I told him the next day and we worked through it, I am now pregnant and the date leads back to that day. I wish I could explain more, but do you think it is my bf's son? We do.

A: I'm assuming that you and this second guy used the "pull-out method"? You realize that even if he didn't ejaculate insid...

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Q: Why do guys say condoms are uncomfortable?

A: Because they're trying to trick you into having unprotected sex. "Condoms are uncomfortable." "I can't feel anything wit...

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Q: I found out that my husband has been poking holes in our condoms and now i am pregnant. I told him that i never wanted kids when we started dating and he never had a problem with it. I'm devastated. Why would he do this to me? What should I do? (Abortion is not an option.) How should i confront him?

A: Wow. That is unbelievably wrong. And also grounds for divorce. A good divorce lawyer could sue him for all he's worth so...

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Q: Can an uncircumcised man orgasm during sex with a condom?

A: Yes. Of course. Don't let him tell you otherwise. "I can't feel anything with a condom" is the oldest dirtbag trick in t...

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Q: I'm in a monogomous relationship and don't want to use condoms as I am on birth control. Would a man be opposed to me asking for him to get STD tested with me so that we can be confident and less stressed out ?

A: I don't understand why he'd be opposed to getting a test. Granted, getting tested for garden variety crotch critters and...

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Q: OK, is he just not into me or is just BS? I met a guy who cannot ejaculate with a condom. Can only come without one lying down...yep even a blow job. Is it performance anxiety? Do i simply move on?

A: Jeez, why would you bail? Maybe your hey nonny nonny is busted. You ever think of that? OMG PANICSIES! Look, condoms red...

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Q: Who should be responsible for supplying the condoms? The guy or the girl?

A: Sometimes a guy can't win: he doesn't pack any rubbers, he's reckless. He comes bearing a box or two, and he's presumptu...

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