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Q: Hey Mr. DCer! I had asked you a question about the guy I REALLY liked who was sending mixed signals so I sadly ended it. Well he came back, said he cared for me and asked to be my "friend." Can you confirm that this sorta means- "Can I please keep tabs on if youre moving on but continue to have no commitment?"

A: Can I ask why you care? Are you asking because you still want more so you're looking for any reason to believe this man ...

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Men Want Exceptional, Women Want Accessible

It's no secret that the key to successfully dating (assuming success means ending up in an actual relationship) is finding that person who matches whatever intangibles that you're looking for in a mate. For some people it's financial stability, for...

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Q: My boyfriend confuses me. We've been dating 6 months, and we have not seriously discussed marriage. If I tell him one of my friends is getting married he says "blech. why?", but then other times he'll talk to me and say "when we get married...".

A: Congratulations, you're dating a man. From the sounds of it and your question, I'm guessing your still young. And just t...

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Q: I do volunteer work and while I was eating lunch my group was discussing what traits we liked in the opposite sex. One of the guys explained that he only goes for one type of girl: dark skinned, dark eyes, etc. I look nothing like this, but when we were at a bar a few days later he kissed me deeply. Whats going on?

A: It's a good rule of thumb: the more a guy insists he has a "type", the less likely it is he really does. Don't get me wr...

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Q: Why would a guy act like he is interested for a while, then back off suddenly for seemingly no reason?

A: He wouldn't. Which means despite what seems to be, there IS a reason. It may not be apparent to you, or you may not want...

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Q: Should I tell my closest guy friend that i like him a lot? Even when I KNOW he doesn't feel the same way.

A: Nope. If you know he's not interested, you're just putting him in an unnecessary awkward position to have to tell you th...

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Q: What does a guy really mean or want when he says "text me later?"

A: While the scholastic fortitude of say, Plato, often eludes me, I'd bet all of the money in my pocket and yours that what...

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Q: Hi Mr. Jackson, I love your honesty so I chose you to ask. I have been dating my ex for over a year exclusively. We are having a blast and this is the best time we ever had together! Actions speak louder than words so, when will I know I am his girlfriend again if he hasn't directly said girlfriend?

A: You will know when he tells you, flat out. In very clear and uncertain terms. Basically, until he uses the words *______...

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Q: What does a guy mean when he says I'm really into you but its hard to tell if we could make a relationship work?

A: What he means is that he likes you, a lot, and perhaps even wants to love you long time, but the truth of the matter is,...

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Q: If a guy I only had as a boyfriend for a night but still talk to him as friends stares at me constantly even while dancing or vise versa, what does that mean??

A: Um, what in Sam Hill does it mean to have a guy as a boyfriend for a night? Is that some new trend I'm just not up on be...

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Q: Okay so me and this guy have been talking. He calls or text me everday with no initiation on my part. He told me he would like us to be friends. Yet he has sang on my answering machine and also written poetry with my name. What gives?

A: Perhaps this particular chap has taken a shining to you but it goes no further than him thinking your just an awesome do...

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Q: I have been seeing a man for about 6 weeks. We have been spending a lot of time together. And we are starting a business together. The other night he said that we are like ships that pass in the night. What does that mean?

A: I had to consult three monks, two defrocked priests and Google to make sure that your guy wasn't making any sense whatso...

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