Tag: Crushes

Q: A married man just found out at our workplace that I liked him. I keep away from him but he comes in after he gets out and comes to my desk. He just stands there and takes forever writing a check out. Why would he do this?

A: My first question to you is why do you like him? I mean, sure, tell your girlfriend once in passing, "Joe is hot. Too ba...

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Q: Does having a drunk makeout session with a crush hurt my chances of something happening with him in the future?

A: Not necessarily. At least you know he's interested. And you didn't sleep together, so there's still some mystery. The tr...

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Q: What's wrong with me? The guy I've liked for over a year sent me flowers anonymously for Valentine's Day (I know this for a fact), so clearly he likes me, but ever since then, I haven't felt the same toward him. I'm not getting butterflies or anything! What's the deal???

A: You are experiencing one of the great ironies of life: Sometimes when we finally get what we want, we no longer want it....

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Q: Is it weird to fall in love with someone you've never met? I've seen someone on TV several times & have read articles about him. He's not even my type. Yet when I see him on TV I get a weird feeling - like love. Am I completely insane?

A: No it's not totally weird (though you might be insane for other reasons). Thing is, you've fallen in love with the idea ...

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Q: I was doodling in my notebook the other day, it turned out to literally be the best drawing I've ever done. I want to show it off on Facebook with all my comics, only I'm afraid this guy who always comments on all my art/videos will see it. It happens to be based on an old artsy pic of his, where he looks so kissable.

A: What are you afraid of? Seems like the perfect icebreaker. If he likes your art, that means he has some level of interes...

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Q: Should you ever post your location of FB statuses in the hope that your crush will bump into you? Or is that too transparent a thing to do? The guy I like is barely ever on FB anyway, but I haven't seen him in weeks, so I'm grasping at straws.

A: This is actually a pretty terrible idea. You said it yourself that he's rarely on Facebook anyway, so you'd just be post...

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Q: My crush at work is constantly making non-harmful jokes about everyone at work, so how will I know if he seriously likes me?

A: The sad truth is, you may never know. Hey, maybe he seriously likes everyone at work. Maybe he's so full of love, he can...

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Q: Is it annoying to ask my geek friend to repair my computer multiple times?

A: It's not annoying if he is cool with it, but I certainly hope you're buying him dinner or doing something else nice for ...

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Q: Who would you rather marry, Alicia Keys or Beyonce? And why?

A: Let's play "boff" or "marry"! This one is easy. I would boff Beyonce because, come on. Who wouldn't, male or female? (So...

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Q: HELP! A friend that I'm crushing on just told me (after I confessed) that he's always seen me as family, because I remind him so much of a female relative. He's been hooking up with an ex friend but not dating her, so I'm wondering - do I still even have hope? Can I get out of the technical "friend zone" one day? How?

A: Ouch. Unless he has some sort of creepy Flowers in the Attic-type crush on the female relative you remind him of, it's s...

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Q: what do i do if my crush has a girlfriend?

A: This is a common and recurrent situation when it comes to l'amour. No matter who you are, at some point in your life you...

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Q: There is a girl at my school who's obsessed with every single guy, including the guy I like (as in, facebook wall posts every two minutes). As far as I can tell he doesn't seem to be interested in her, but in general do guys like girls like this?

A: If you've been screwing up the courage to make a move on this guy, it might be time to put on some strappy boots and nai...

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Q: I'm kind of geeky, but i have this crush on a popular guy in school. He talks to me a lot, but i don't know if he likes me. (I know, I know, not another teen movie!) How do know?

A: Oh, high school. You would think society would've moved past the point of '80s teen comedies to a world where geeks and ...

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