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Tag: Dating Rules

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Q: If a guy gave you his number, how often should you call him?

A: I'm not going to give you a set number of times per week or anything, because every guy will be different. What I have f...

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Q: Why doesn't a guy like it when one of his friends dates his sister? Please enlighten me!

A: Because we have hung with that friend. We have had lengthy discussions with that friend about the things we would do if ...

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Q: We went to the mall and he bought food...didn't offer me anything, then just ate in front of me. He said he only had $5, but still.

A: Who I side with on this one depends entirely on your relationship status. If you're dating, and this was a date, then ye...

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Q: What does it REALLY mean when a guys says, "this is going too fast and I want to slow things down". Keep in mind this is after 3 great months and he was talking about buying a house together.

A: I don't normally do straight translations from dude to lady. But this one time I will. When he says "This is going too f...

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Q: What do you think of tall women dating shorter guys?

A: As a comedian, I'm all for it. I was crushed when Flava Flav and that blonde amazonian woman broke up...although they we...

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Q: I have a friend whose ex (they broke up about a year ago) is into me. Can I go out with him? She and I aren't like best friends or anything, just friends.

A: Before answering the question of whether you SHOULD, I'll say with almost complete certainty that you are going to. It's...

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Q: A very busy man didn't call for a couple of days. He is married but going through a divorce. Why dont those type of men call or text?

A: You are not allowed to freak out if a guy hasn't called you in a couple days. And this is for your own good. Close your ...

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Q: Double dates. What are your thoughts?

A: Tons of fun once you're in a relationship. Early on, it can be tricky. I would say double dates shouldn't start until a ...

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Q: My boyfriend is going away for six months to backpack and see the world. What should I do?

A: Tell him to have fun and send postcards. Then find other guys to date. What? You're supposed to wait for him? You certai...

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Q: Assuming we could generalize, what would you consider *THE* most important quality for a man's "ideal woman" to have? (Let's leave sex out of it, for the purposes of this one question.) Many thanks!

A: Assuming I can generalize? Woman, sweeping gender platitudes are my specialty. For instance: women love candles that sme...

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Q: There is this guy and he keeps giving me mixed signals, he stares at me a lot but acts like a total asshole, how do i know if he likes me?

A: Oh, he likes you. He definitely likes you. This is the classic mating ritual of man. It goes back to the playground days...

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Q: Would you say it's EVER a good idea to begin a new relationship with someone who has just ended a very long, complicated previous relationship? This is assuming you haven't been friends for very long to begin with.

A: When I read your question, my first impulse was to stand up like an asshole at a horror movie and scream "DON'T GO IN TH...

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Q: Do guys get embarrassed if their girlfriends call them by "pet names" in front of their buddies?

A: It all depends on the name, the friends who happen to be nearby, your boyfriend's overall demeanor, and whether or not t...

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Q: I started talking to this guy I met online, and I liked him at first. We recently talked on the phone, and the chemistry was just not there. Now he's wanting to meet. Should I tell him that I'm just not into him, or just slowly stop talking?

A: I'd say just phase it out over email. He'll get the idea. You've never met in person. Why lay the "I'm just not into you...

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Q: Is it right for the girl to make the moves? I kissed him first, and even though I wanted to wait, I didn't. Now I'm thinking that one kiss (that lead to others) ruined things.

A: I'm a terrible dancer. I'm not talking about your foxtrots or macarenas, mind you (as I am a certified macarena champion...

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Q: I hate, hate, hate receiving oral. It doesn't do a thing for me, but it seems men love to give it. I love to give oral, however. Should I just pretend I'm enjoying it and deal, or tell him his mouth is not allowed near my southern region?

A: This is clearly a bizarro world question and stands in direct contrast to this recently asked question. What world do yo...

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Q: Do guys get turned off when a girl cracks dirty jokes?

A: That largely depends on three factors: our social proximity to the girl, how attracted we are to her on a scale from one...

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Q: If a guy says, "Let's go out again. When are you free?" but you haven't heard from him when you tell him when you're free, is it worth checking in to see what's up?

A: Here's what's really happening--the guy is putting you on the shelf as a backup plan. He likes you enough to want to hoo...

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Q: If a guy keeps staring at you and then when you look looks away, does that mean that he likes you?

A: Yes! It means he loves you. It seems you have stumbled on the secret mating rituals of man. Other clues: If you look at ...

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Q: On my last few dates the men were blatantly REALLY nervous. Not sure why...I think myself nice/approachable/friendly. I try humor to break the ice. Why are they so nervous? What can I do to make them more comfortable?

A: Whenever I've been on a date where the chick seems nervous, I ask her questions about herself, the simpler and more basi...

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