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Q: After eating anything my bf's breath becomes so horrid I can barely stand it. It could be something as small as a few crackers, even when he's just brushed his teeth. I don't know what to do. Should I tell him? It seems like it might be something he can't control but I can't stand it. Idk what to do.

A: Bad breath is a killer. Our noses can't tolerate what they can't tolerate. I don't care if your face to face with Johnny...

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Q: A guy I kind of dig high-fived me the other day. Game over? High-fiving seems like such a buddy/friend thing to do.

A: Nah, not game over. You're right, it's a buddy/friend thing, but it's also an awkward flirty thing done by guys out of h...

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10 Signs You're Too Picky In a Relationship

At one point or another, we've all done it -- ruled out a potential relationship for superficial reasons. But eventually, we start to realize that, for better or worse, we've perhaps been a tad too picky. Our pals at...

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Q: I am an atheist. Ive met some amazing guys who have everything I want, EXCEPT I quickly learn they are religious. I cant make any exceptions on that, I cant date a guy who believes in angels, demons, life after death, and other imaginary things. Am I being to harsh and/or critical? I mean,I want someone rational. Help?

A: Weird. I have had exactly the same problem with atheists. And vegetarians, cause screw those guys*. Fortunately, both of...

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Q: my boyfriend isnt thoughtful...he won't pick up my favourite muffin randomly, make a surprise trip to come see me (we live a little far), or ask how a big event went. He's forgetful as well! Is this a deal breaker?

A: Obviously it isn't, he's your boyfriend and I doubt this was brand new behavior that just popped out of anywhere. Here's...

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Q: What do guys think of imperfections in a woman's body? Stretch marks over hips/butt, a stomach that isn't perfectly flat, a girl with larger hips/thighs, a girl who's skinny but has no shape? Honest thoughts! Not just- 'if u like them u won't mind'. Are these turn offs/deal breakers? We all want to know!

A: This is the kind of thing that depends almost entirely on personality. Yes, there are guys who demand that any woman the...

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15 Things Not To Say On A First Date

What you say on a first date is more important than what you wear, order, or smell like (stupid doesn't wash off.) If the eyes are the windows to the soul, then words spoken are the credit ratings of the soul. Judging from what...

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Cats, My Number One Dealbreaker

I have a very short list of preexisting relationship conditions that would keep me from dating someone. So long as you're not on the run from the law (international courts count, btw,) addicted to meth, or a terrorist, chances are...

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The Number One Sign He's A Modern Day Ebeneezer Grinch Doosh

This holiday season, ask the bro in your life the following simple question: "What is your favorite Christmas movie?"If he answers "It's A Wonderful Life," great. It's a classic, a hard, dark, and oddly inspiring look deep inside the American...

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Q: Why does my boyfriend's friend always suggest he hook up with an old girlfriend from junior high on Facebook?

A: Because he's a jerk. A turd-head. A lame-O. He doesn't imagine that you are a real human person, or that a Facebook wall...

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Sleeping Naked, Breakup Boycotts & Lady Bosses: GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

This week on GuySpeak, we learned the guys' dating dealbreakers, their breakup boycotts, their votes on the great PJs vs. Birthday Suit sleepwear debate and their thoughts on random "hey, what's up" texts. Oh, and we also learned who's...

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What Makes A Man Undateable?

Deal-breakers. We all have them when it comes to choosing a mate, those things that tell us in an instant, nope, this isn't the guy (or gal) for me. Put another way, deal-breakers are habits or traits that make someone...

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You Might Be A Player If...

*You might be a player if... you have more than one body spray named after an active verb or a mythological beast. (Like "Stroke" or "Pegasus.") *You might be a player if...  you buy condoms by the spool. *You might...

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Q: How do I get my boyfriend to buy me tampons?

A: Tell him to man up. Or "HTFU," as my Wise Ass pal Cary would say. Occasionally buying tampons is part of being a good bo...

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Q: I'm entering a serious relationship with a really awesome guy. I know he is VERY experienced and I'm cool with it. I'm not that experienced. I'm open to trying things. But I'm nervous that I'm not enough for him. Is that a deal breaker?

A: I wouldn't worry: if you have an open enough mind to accept his sexual past, then you are already well-equipped to handl...

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I Can't Go For That, No No No: Dealbreakers, Vol. 1

We all have them. Some of us have more than others. Some of us are too sexxy for our shirts. Some of us are even so sexxy it hurts. What does that have to do with the price of panty hose...

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Q: I'm tired of cleaning up after my man. We live together, and sometimes I feel more like his mom than his girlfriend.

A: I'm going to give you the same answer I gave to the question about going to Michael Bay movies: just stop doing it. Man,...

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Q: I'm a martial artist trained in several different disciplines, but you couldn't tell by looking at me (short, geeky). How does it affect a guy to find out I'm capable of winning a fight?

A: If you date a guy who is bothered by your ass kicking prowess, then you shouldn't date him. Oh wowsies, isn't that easy?...

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Q: If you met a guy online and he says he loves you before you've met in person, what does that mean?

A: He's either telling you what you want to hear in order to sleep with you or he's a serial killer. Let me reiterate: he's...

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Q: Do you think guys really notice the difference between girls with or without their makeup? We ladies can always tell but does it really matter to guys?

A: I don't think guys really care about whether their woman wears make-up. A touch of eye shadow, lipstick, or beauty putty...

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