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Q: Should I stay or should I go? Been together 10 months, never had a fight, calls every night (or during the day), listens, snuggles, sex is great. but: never met friends or family, only has time to see me once every other week, had a messy divorce a few years back, always late.

A: I can't tell you whether to stay or go. Only you can make that decision. I will tell you that I think the pros you menti...

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Do Not Break The Seal

As the Republican Primary enters its third week a truly remarkable shake-up occurred this Saturday. What we thought was inevitable, is no longer inevitable. What we once thought a forgone conclusion must now be re-imagined. The Seal has been (heart)BROKEN. Yes, it's...

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Q: Thoughts on getting involved with a guy who is legally separated but not divorced? He also has a young child with his "ex" wife.

A: Bad idea. People do it, but it's still a bad idea. It's wrong, it's messy and it won't end well. She's not his ex. That'...

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Quick Answers Of The Month, Vol. 21

Asked and answered.What kind of guy would say "bye bye" to you?The kind of guy who's leaving?Boyfriend doesn't invite you to the work partyThat's okay. I didn't invite him to mine, either.Does fingering the lady (virgin) makes her less tight...

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Q: I'm a 50yo female - a dating virgin, even tho I've married twice. 1st divorced, 2nd widowed. Recently reaquainted w/a couple of old crushes thru FB. Had a blast talking & visited w/one for a day. The prob: I'm very funny & they love being friends but don't take me seriously for more. I don't want to be "just friends".

A: Having two parents who entered the dating world after a 30+ year marriage, I hear ya' sister. I sincerely hear ya'. The ...

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Q: Why do people stay married when they aren't happy?

A: Why do unmarried people in sh*tty relationships stay together? Unless there's a pie in the face moment of horror, status...

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Q: My ex is being an idiot and not paying child support. Would it be unreasonable as a last resort (before sending the lawyers after him) to speak to his mother or father about it?

A: I don't know about unreasonable, but I think it's a waste of time. Unless you have an atypically good relationship with ...

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Q: WA, one of your colleagues suggested recently that divorced women are undateable because we have "a ships hold of baggage." Do you agree?

A: Ah, she seeks a second opinion. Okay, I'll play. With all due respect to my colleague--we are an opinionated bunch, whic...

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$$$ Penalty for Sexless Marriage? Guy Group Question!

A man in France has been ordered to pay his ex-wife about $14,000 in compensation for "lack of sex over 21 years of marriage." The judge said sex was a basic component of a marriage and that the man had...

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Things That Make You Go 'What?!'

I was trawling the net the other day, looking for parental abuse cases (don't ask why, you REALLY don't want to know) and came across a true gem.A pair of children sue their mother for "bad mothering." Now you know...

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Quick Answers Of The Month: Vol. 19

File under "Cleaning Out The Inbox."How do i give my boyfriend anal sex?Very carefully. Have you ever been in love? I mean the kind you would die for someone else you love them that much. Have you ever had heartbreak?...

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How do guys really feel about pet names, cuddling and long-distance relationships? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

Why do guys check me out? Why do they expect me to cuddle? How do they feel about pet names? How do they feel about trial separations? What do they mean when they tell how many women they've slept with?...

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Q: What is your take on a separation to see if a marriage is salvageable? I want one, but my husband doesn't.

A: I am sorry to hear that you are having trouble. To be perfectly honest, my take is "I don't know," because I've never be...

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Is Facebook Really To Blame For the Divorce Rate?

Over on Dumb as a Blog, our old pal John Devore has a hilarious essay about how Facebook is cited in more and more divorce cases. A divorce lawyer in Florida claims that Facebook is involved in 90% of her...

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Q: I know a guy who is in a relationship with a girl and they don't love each other, he is unhappy, they argue all the time. It all around is a bad situation. The reason he stays is 'for the kids'. what do you think of this, if a child sees bad all the time?

A: I totally agree with your assessment. Staying together for the kids is a ridiculous excuse and emotionally dishonest. If...

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Q: My husband is a liar and a cheat and he has me trapped so I can't leave with my kids.

A: Get a lawyer. If you can't afford one, consult the Legal Aid chapter in your area. There is always a way out. If he's ch...

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Some Women Are Just Meant To Be Married

I recently came across an article penned by Tracy McMillan on The Huffington Post entitled, "Why You're Not Married." It's a paint-by-numbers list of reasons that explains why women - who allegedly all want to be married - can't seem...

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Q: I couldn't get pregnant after a year of trying. I assumed that something was wrong with me and apologized to my husband many times. Today he told me he is sterile and has known for years. How do I forgive him for letting me worry and feel guilty so long?

A: Yikes. I'm not sure you can--or should. I'm a big fan of forgiveness, but what he did borders on unpardonable. The fact ...

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It's Complicated

Been watching the North Korea, South Korea thing these last couple of weeks. I know politics is slightly below sanitation engineering in terms of general interest, but I kept on thinking I have seen it all before and it is...

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Q: What do I do when my husband takes an unexpected job 1/2 way across the US, didn't communicate until the last day before leaving, and blames me because he's overly obsessive about my weight, while he's underweight, and also hangs me out to dry when it comes to having a lack of spirituality, when he himself does not?

A: What do you do? You file for divorce immediately. Right? And maybe sue for emotional distress and abuse. Let me see if I...

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