Tag: Ex-Girlfriend

Q: My boyfriend is going out of town with his ex for the weekend. How can I tell him that I'm not comfortable with this without seeming jealous? I trust him but not his ex.

A: What? They're traveling together? Same flight/car? Same hotel? Oh, hell no. I would have a BIG problem with this trip. I...

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Q: Hey Wise-Ass, I REALLY need your advice on this one. I'm dating this guy, but I can tell he still has feelings for his ex. Should I wait for him or run as fast as I can? I really do care about him. We started dating one year ago and he's still not ready.

A: He's still not ready for what? A commitment? To let her go? You say you can tell he has feelings for her, but that's jus...

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Q: I want the hard truth. My perfect bf is friends with an ex, and when she visits from out of town 3-4 times a year, he drops everything (including me) to take her to dinner 2-3 times. I demanded he stop seeing her and it ended the relationship. We're both reeling from the quick break. Did I make a mistake?

A: Did you make a mistake? No. And yes. More no than yes. Like 90/10. To demand something might not have been the best appr...

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Q: My ex (who has a gf) texted me the other night and basically said that he wanted to do me. When I said no, it seemed like he was really okay with that. Is it possible he was just seeing if I still wanted him and had no real interest in seeing me? And do you consider this cheating??

A: Yes, it is possible that he was just seeing if you still wanted him or was just flirting with you, but I don't think tha...

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Q: Could my bf of 5 months still have feelings for his highschool sweetheart? They were together for 5 yrs and they have a 2 yr old together, they broke up a yr ago and they use 2live together. Somehow I feel as if I cant compare to the mother of his child. He still has old love letters from her. What should I do?

A: Of course he does. I am not saying romantic feelings, those are unlikely, but no one drops 5 years of their lives and th...

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Q: I'm dating this guy who I feel is slightly out of my league. I've seen pictures of his last girlfriend and can't help comparing myself to her. I know there is some attraction or else he wouldn't date me. But he never compliments how I look. Any advice on how to get over the feeling that I'm not as cute as his past gf?

A: While I realize its easier said than done, you have to stop comparing yourself to her. For one, he's not with her anymor...

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Q: He e-mails his ex that I (his new gf) am perfect for him and he recognizes good in me he wouldn't have noticed if not for their relationship. He told her he's a changed man and better boyfriend because of her. Why does he feel the need to tell her this?

A: Why wouldn't he? I think it's a nice gesture. Just because a relationship ends doesn't mean a person stops caring about ...

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Q: How come every time I ask my boyfriend about his ex or their past relationship hi gets very mad and he doesn't want to talk about it. Does he still love her?

A: Let's not jump to conclusions. There are other reasons he might be reacting negatively to your question. It's human to e...

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Q: How do I nicely ask my boyfriend to stop talking to his ex girlfriend. I'm fine with all of his other exes except this one. She's batshit crazy. She once faked a pregnancy and she's even accused him of beating her.

A: Sit him down. Smile. Kiss him on the forehead. Inhale. Exhale. And say this: "Honey. Snuggle Biscuit. Sex Jedi. Here's a...

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Q: I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?

A: Forget about it. For starters, it's old news, and the statute of limitations ran out months ago. What would you accompli...

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Q: my boyfriend keeps bugging me about having a threesome. i find it weird and to me its kind of a form of cheating. should i be worried about this, especially because he says he wants to do that with his ex and me?

A: It sounds like your boyfriend is reaching for the stars on this one. The whole threesome thing, while it sounds awesome ...

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