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Q: I recently am in a relationship and it's going wonderfully. I have not cheated and know that I never will. He's also very understanding and not the jealous type. However, when I find myself talking to other guys I feel like I'm betraying him. Is this something I need to get over or am I on to something?

A: ...What the heck are you saying to these guys? I wouldn't say you're onto something in the sense that you might cheat. T...

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Q: Hey GBFF! I'm really good friends with one of my exes (there was no catastrophic end, just didn't work out) and recently he told me that I was (still) his first choice to be the mother of his children. Not wife or girlfriend (again) but baby mama. Seriously, was that supposed to be a compliment?

A: I suppose I don't know, but unless he actually used the words "baby mama" then I think it might be a fair assumption tha...

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Q: Panama, be real w/ me... there is this guy I have hung out w/ a few times. I told him we shouldnt hang out anymore cause we are obviously both too busy, right... So after 3 weeks dude comes back claiming he has "feelings" for me. I'm like ok??? You don't really know me.. So is this psychotic behavior? His, not mine :)

A: Psychotic...I don't know if I'd go that far. It's definitely a red flag though. And he's definitely full of sh*t. Here's...

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Q: i am not touchy feely. It is not that i dont want to be, because i do. i just dont really know how to be. I see other people and it looks so normal and easy, but for me it is and has always been awkward. Is there a way i can fix this about myself? Because men like woman who are not awkward about touching them!

A: I sympathize. Being physically demonstrative never came easy to me either. You are definitely not alone. Way back in Feb...

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Choices

On the 17th I answered a question on Choice. Fairly flippantly, true, but it was light answer day. On the 20th, this came in:"I always wondered where the pro-choice is in regard to the man. He gets no choice in...

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Ugly Ducklings: Are your friends getting hotter or is your self-esteem getting colder?

This week's post is about Ugly Ducklings, Weird Ducklings and Gross Grapes -- a  concern that's been popping up with some frequency as of late in the Guyspeak inbox. I'm not sure if people's friends are getting hotter or...

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Wangs and Wedding Bells

This morning on my drive into work, I did what I do every morning. I listened to my favorite radio station in the Washington, DC, area, Hot 99.5. The morning team is hilarious and apparently drink my particular brand of...

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Q: Please save me from self-destruction, I struggle with being open about my feelings and showing affection. I wasn’t raised in a hugging type family and I just don’t know how to do that. I just started dating an amazing guy that I really want to get there with him. How do I get there before I lose him?

A: Calm down. He's not exactly going to freak out and storm off if you don't give him a cuddle. Well, he might, but if he d...

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Q: MM you give brutal but candid, honest answers which I appreciate. I really like this guy I work with and want to tell him how I feel but am not sure how to do it without coming across as crazy, desparate, and awkward (Don't worry- I've already been warned about getting involved with someone at work). Any ideas?

A: OK. There is a part of the body you need here, located between your nose and your chin. It is not only used for decorati...

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Q: Do men speak the TRUTH when they are drunk or stoned or both ie they really have feelings for you? What to do?

A: I'm not sure I'd trust anything that anybody said while they were drunk, high, stoned, Tiger Woods, or all of the above....

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Q: I need your help, Panama. My boyfriend of 2 years still shuts me out when he has a bad day. He's dealt with depression before, and he's told me that sometimes he just needs to be alone with his thoughts. I'm trying to be understanding, but I stil feel hurt that he won't open up to me. What should I do/not do?

A: While I completely understand that want him to open up to you and express his feelings, that's not the guy that you have...

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