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Q: I looked through our (my bf and I) shared computer's internet history from last night. I saw that he spent 30 minutes reading an article & comments (1 webpage; not multiple searches) about alcoholism. We had a fight the night before because of his drinking. What do I do?

A: Do you think he has a drinking problem? If so, the best thing you can do is go to some Al-Anon meetings and learn how to...

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Q: After an epic fight with my bf, I'm sure it's normal that I'm not fully back to "I love you" even once we've talked it out--esp since he did something pretty hurtful. I want to get over it, so will time make things go back to the way they were before? Or am I always gonna see him a little differently from now on?

A: Hard to say. Time definitely heals some wounds, but words and actions done in anger tend to be remembered long after the...

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Q: Does the silent treatment work?

A: No. It's passive-aggressive and stupid. It's like a child holding their breath until they get what they want. You're say...

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Q: Ok, so I screwed up. Nothing major, I just didn't trust him and freaked out. Now he won't talk to me. I was wrong and have apologized; how do I get him to forgive me? He's acting like I slept with his best friend.

A: You can't "get" anyone to forgive you. They have to make that choice on their own. All you can do is take responsibility...

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Q: Why does the guy I'm dating shut down and give up after an argument?

A: Because he's just so very, very tired. Let's face it; by and large, ladies are far better at arguing than dudes. They've...

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Q: Why can't guys try to find out what's wrong instead of leaving the girl alone? It's obvious something's wrong when they say "nothing's wrong." Why don't guys try?

A: BECAUSE YOU SAID NOTHING WAS WRONG! Sorry, I'm just used to screaming that; hard to break old habits. The situation you'...

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Q: I'm friends with my ex-boyfriend on Facebook. This bothers my current boyfriend a lot and he's even threatened to break up with me if I don't de-friend my ex. Do you think this is a reasonable request? I think it means he doesn't trust me.

A: Before I answer your question, I'll ask you one: why are you friends with your ex on Facebook? What are you hoping to ge...

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Q: For a laugh, every time I greeted my boyfriend I'd punch him instead of a hug, or head butt instead of kissing (not hard). Now it's developed into a habit. He seems to be growing tired of it, but I can't stop myself. What to do?

A: Wow. Okay, this is probably the easiest question I've had so far, except maybe the guy who asked if a curved penis is no...

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Q: Whenever I ask my boyfriend what he wants to do for fun, he says "I don't know, what do you want to do?" Then we discuss why I have to be the only one to have an imagination and make plans for us. What's wrong here?

A: That largely depends on how your boyfriend reacts AFTER you go do whatever it is you chose as the evening's activity. If...

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The Things Guys Say And What They Really Mean

As part of my court-mandated community service (long story), I'd like to lead you through this helpful look at a few things guys like to say and what they really mean when they say those things. Don't think of us...

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