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Q: Things have gotten a little, um, different with one of my co-workers. I caught him looking at me in a meeting, touched me during a conversation, and he compleately lost track of what he was saying when I walked past him the other day. Is he intentionally trying to send me signals? I can't get him out of my head now!

A: Well, it may not be entirely deliberate on his part, but that sounds to me like some pretty clear signals. If you like t...

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Q: when flirting with a guy, what'll be a sure thing to get his heart racing?

A: Whether your prey is a fifth grade boy in the schoolyard (not that it should be), a middle-aged Wall Street hustler or a...

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Q: What do you do if you have a friend who recently came out of the closet, and is hitting on you, but you'r unsure if you want to flirt back! im straight/curious!

A: It's pretty simple: are you going to follow through with your flirting, if you decide to, or not? It seems harmless, but...

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Q: alright "Funny Guy".... My friends husband is always being funny with me about sexual stuff. He is a big flirt but does subtle things like put his arm around me or gets loud and goofy when I am around. What things should I look for if he is wanting "more" or is he just being a funny Guy?

A: The most interesting part of your question to me is how you're not exactly coming down on either side of this. As in, ar...

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Q: What Should I do when I see a pretty girl flirting with my man My boyfriend dont not flirt with that girl !! But should i tell the girl something ?

A: First thing you do is go tell your man you love him. Go on, I can wait. Why was that first? Because resisting the tempta...

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Q: hello! just wondering if a guy wants to make me a playlist and we're not seeing eachother is it a ploy to get in my pants?

A: Well, not going to lie, giving a girl a mixtape is generally an accepted strategy for expressing interest. Whether or no...

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Q: How do guys behave when they meet a rival for a girl's attention?

A: It's a sort of sad thing to witness, but I'm sure you've watched nature shows and have seen it many times before. The al...

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Q: My boyfriend left a message on another girl's FB saying how "he couldn't keep his eyes off her" when they met. What is the best way to bring it up to him? I feel really disrespected and disappointed in him.

A: As well you should. Not only did he flirt with someone else, but he did it publicly for the whole world to see, includin...

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Q: My boyfriend flirts with my mom And when she gets up to walk his eyes follow her! My mom is an attractive woman and likes to act like shes 21 which is my boyfriends age. My boyfriend is a good guy but I can't let this mom thing go! Help :(

A: Who flirts with who? Figure you are maybe blaming your boyfriend here when the fault is mostly your Mom's. Lets see, if ...

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Q: Guys who call girls by their last names and not their first- what's the deal? And if a guy does call a girl by her last name (on the regular) is there any chance he sees her as more than a friend? PS 95% of my friends call me by my last name, so it's not THAT weird, but all my exes called me by my first name.

A: There are a few reasons why a dude might call a girl by her last name. As you note, one of the reasons is in fact a play...

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Q: My fiance is going to community college this fall; should i be worried about other women flirting with him?

A: Yes, you should be worried your fiance is only going to community college. Wait, was that the question? Let me re-read. ...

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Q: Okay Panama. What is the deal! This guy and I have been steadily texting everyday for over a month, shamelessly flirting mind you, and we have talked on the phone for hours and hours on end. Then, via a random FB update, I find out he is "In a relationship" What gives?! Did all of that mean NOTHING?? HELP :(

A: I guess that depends on if you think the ends justify the means. Not sure if that fits here perfectly so let me try a di...

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Q: Panama I know you will know how to answer this question! How do you have class while flirting and not look too 'easy' but still show you are definetly interested??? Thanks!

A: I'm often amazed at how many wome have no idea how to flirt. It's like the female condition is to overthink everything, ...

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Q: Would value your take on this, Cary. How can I identify if a married man is flirting with me? He was very attentive and complimentary in a social setting, and when the chat turned to love and life he mentioned going through some soul-searching. If he was just being friendly I don't want to be too cold.

A: I can't say, because I think flirting is a subjective call. Some people would consider "attentive and complimentary" to ...

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Q: I am allergic to alcohol & whenever I tell a guy, he just laughs at me and says something like "Oh, you're one of those girls..." I then try to tell him that I really am allergic, but he just keeps laughing. How do I make guys really believe that I am allergic to alcohol?

A: "One of those girls?" One of which girls? The kind that drinks alcohol, starts sweating, loses control of her bowels, go...

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Q: I have an older professional acquaintance who shamelessly hits on me. I want to keep the professional relationship but I need the flirting, hugging and jokes about us being "in an affair" to stop. How do I tell this much older man to stop without ruining the professional connection?

A: Yes, that behavior is definitely inappropriate and I don't blame you for wanting to stop it. Unfortunately, no matter ho...

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Q: I've been getting rumors that my husband has been flirting @ work w/ a co-worker. They text a lot but nothing incriminating. I found pix & jokes for her on his phone that he hid from me. He denies there is anything going on & she does too. Is this an innocent crush or something more sinister?

A: While it's unreasonable to think married folks will never ever have crushes outside their sacred union, acting on them i...

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Q: What is the best way to subtly show a guy you're interested?

A: Pinch his ass, give him a wink and make that "chik chik" sound that people do with horses. Oh, wait. You said subtly. Ne...

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Q: I figured i'd ask you since youre the 'funny guy' I was at the bar the other night with some friends, dancing and talking with this guy who is also a friend, he was semi drunk, and made a joke about us dating, it was loud so i said "what" a few times, and he said nevermind. ...was he joking in your opinion?

A: As the foremost expert on funny guys and funny things I will tell you this: he very likely meant it. Humor is often used...

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Q: What's the best way to tell a girl to back off without sounding jealous when she's flirting with my boyfriend right in front of me?

A: Me, I'd throw a drink in her face, but I suspect that lacks the finesse you're searching for. The first step is to talk ...

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