A: Why should you? Forgiveness is not for the benefit of the forgiven, but for the benefit of the forgiver. Rage, pain and ...
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A: I have no idea why he stays with this woman. Only he can answer that question. Are you certain that she is cheating on h...
A: You've already done it. You confessed and, I assume, apologized. There's nothing left to do but wait and see if he gets ...
A: I think maybe you've been listening to too many Christmas songs about Santa. The gifts we give people should have nothi...
A: Listen to your cousin. Let it go. Hey, I get it. We get more angry when people hurt our loved ones than we do when peopl...
A: Thank you. Should you walk from what, your family? Ha. Good luck with that. They're a little hard to shake. It's like th...
A: WHAT?! You're not perfect?! I'm so disappointed. Yeah, you screwed up. Yes, it sucks. But it's not the end of the world....
A: By understanding, though it makes forgiving no easier. The guy failed. He failed himself, but, far more importantly to h...
A: That depends. Is this the first time he has called you a name, or is this habitual behavior? Fights are a normal part of...
A: Hard to say. Time definitely heals some wounds, but words and actions done in anger tend to be remembered long after the...
"What is the most dominant problem in relationships, the one thing we do more than any other to sabotage our own love lives?" I got this question a while back and liked it so much I decided not to answer...
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A: Yes, absolutely. She will need your friendship. I'm a big fan of forgiveness; it is almost always the right response. Th...
A: Oops. I can see why he is angry. It's not so much what the lie is about, but how long you kept it from him. Two years is...
A: You ask a very good question and a very difficult one to answer. When somebody cheats on us and we decide to take them b...
A: I don't believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater." Do believe the statement "Never a cheater, but check back tomor...
A: Oops! Hey, we all make mistakes. Cheating is bad, obviously, but at the very least you are taking responsibility for you...
A: Go get tested for STDs right now. Don't worry, I'll still be here when you get back. The question isn't whether he can c...
A: It is possible to rebuild trust after a devastating break-up, just not likely. Rebuilding trust takes time and patience....
A: I have no idea what he means. Unless your boyfriend is having an existential crisis, questioning the very nature of life...
A: Wow. Give him a second chance, with conditions. There's no reason you have to give him the keys to your heart. Invite hi...
