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Q: My friend with benefits slept with my roommate. I know the main rule is you can sleep with whom ever you want in F.W.B. situations but this just seems a bit to much. She didn't know we were hooking up just to be clear. I should end our benefits, right? Or is this a normal part of f.w.b.?

A: Nope, your FWB went too far. Now you're getting into dicey territory. Contrary to what Hollywood wants you to believe, "...

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Q: Please help GBFF! My my guy BFF tried making a move on me, few months ago. It kinda freaked me out. Took me by surprise. Both ended up agreeing not to have it mess up our friendship. But I want to maybe give it a go and be FWB. How the hell do I go about doing that? Known each other 4 yrs, nothing like that happened b4

A: Can I ask you a question? Why exactly would you want to even attempt a FWB situation. I feel like the success rate on th...

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Q: Can a guy shower you with money and gifts, fix numerous things in your home, be your shining knight in tough jams; and still only want you for sex? This man has been running hot and cold for over a year now, and sends a lot of mixed signals. What's a gal to think? Am I just a sex buddy or could I mean more to him?

A: Sure, why not? Just because he only wants to have sex with you doesn't automatically mean he'll treat you badly. The onl...

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Q: We go out with friends on weekends occasionally & we watch football together sober every Sunday. We always do it after the game, sober. He says he loves my boobs, he's attentive, makes sure I'm satisfied & I hang around after until I feel like going back to my place. Is this going anywhere or are we good "buddies"?

A: Honestly, I think the door's open to more, but you've got to walk through it. If you're going out with friends some week...

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Q: I tried hooking up with one of my friends (a girl) because she likes me. It didn’t work and I couldn’t get it up. Now she’s pissed!!

A: In my heroic and celebrated sex life this has happened to me twice.  Yes, both times were humiliating - to me, to the gi...

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What gifts to guys like best? What weight women do guys like best? What time do guys like best to commit? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

My BF's ex is coming to visit and wants to stay with him! My BF is taking things slow but I'm ready for a relationship! My BF called me fat! My BF called me skinny! My BF needs a birthday...

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Keep The Baby?: Choices We Make And The Decisions We Don't

Every so often I'll get a question around here that makes me feel like it needs more than just a quick answer. I assume this is the case with the rest of the Guyspeakers. Such is the case with an...

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Five Things I Liked (and Didn't Like) About 'Friends With Benefits'

Recently, we talked about the Justin Timberlake/Mila Kunis romantic comedy Friends with Benefits. Did you guys see it? It was better than I expected! Timberlake and Kunis had good chemistry, and the cast was filled with great actors like Woody...

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From 'Hooking Up' To 'It's Complicated': Defining The New Dating Terms

These days, just saying you're dating isn't enough. Thanks to social networking, and the natural evolution of the English language, we have so many different terms for dating, engaging in casual sex, and being in a serious relationship. In addition,...

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Q: How do you feel about the new movie Friends With Benefits, coming out right after and being just like No Strings Attached? Ridiculous, no?

A: Yeah. It does seem like Hollywood just discovered the concept of "friends with benefits," doesn't it? It's like when Arm...

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Should you believe your head or your heart? His actions or his reputation? Your wishbone or your backbone? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

What's more important - how your head feels or how your heart feels? How big your boobs are or how far apart they are? How out of your league he is or how much you want to take a chance...

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Q: I considered him as my older brother, until we cuddled one night. He told me he is afraid i might misunderstand. Still we slept in each other's arms. Now when we go out he kisses me awkwardly on the cheek. Is it possible to tell him i just want to have sex without jeopardizing our friendship?

A: Yeah, you're way past that point. You want a friends with benefits situation, and this guy, in the parlance of the Jerse...

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He dumped me for my best friend! He won't take me on dates! He wants to meet for drinks? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

Why do guys always dump me for my best friend? Why do they ask me out for drinks if they want something more? Why do they not ask me for drinks if I want something more? Why do they say...

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Q: Why would a guy have sex and spend time with someone in their apartment but not ask them out for coffee, dinner, movie, bowling or something?

A: Because he doesn't want to date you or be your boyfriend. He's just looking for a f-buddy, a friend with benefits, or a ...

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Q: My best guy friend slaps my butt, touches my boobs, and jokes around about having sex with me, and I really don't mind as long as he doesn't take it too far...but now I'm wondering what it means since he does it so often...what should I do?

A: It means he's a scummy jerk. A real friend wouldn't take advantage of you like that. Clearly he wants to hook up, but he...

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Q: If a guy asks for advice on another girl, am I automatically in the friend zone?

A: Pretty much. Sorry. At best, you're a fallback plan. Sure, it would be nice if life played out like an '80s movie and th...

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5 A's of Relationships, 3 Reasons to Date Online and 2 Dudes to Dump: GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

This week's best dating lessons? Go for grade A, take the shot, cut the strings, study online, try sci-fi loving - and for heaven's sakes stay away from married dudes who call you Cottage Cheese Thighs. Go to the head...

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Why Friends with Benefits is Never "No Strings Attached"

p { margin-bottom: 0.08in; } First of all, greetings to all you Guyspeak readers. John DeVore has been forced to return to his home country to free his people from the cruelty of Tyrann the Malicious, so I'll be...

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Q: I recently got into (and then out of) a long-distance relationship. It simply wasn't working, although neither of us harbors any hard feelings. We're going to be in the same city for the holidays, and I want to see him. Mostly for the sex. Is that so wrong??

A: No. Not wrong in the least. As long as neither of you is in a new relationship. That would simply not be fair. If he is,...

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Q: My ex broke up with me two months ago and since then I've been going through this emotional cycle, trying to be friends but we end up having sex and I get attached again. What should I do?

A: Take a break. A serious break. No getting together for a casual drink that turns into you getting drunk and waking up in...

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