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Q: Why are there mixed signals about "hooking up" being bad verse how many people do it? I'm so confused about if I want to hook-up, or if its social pressure? And it leaves me feeling horrible no matter if I "hook-up" or if I don't because I feel like I lead some people on accident or I don't know if it's what I want....

A: It's a pretty simple rule: it's your life, it's your health, it's your peace of mind, so what you say goes. Nobody has t...

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What does it mean if a guy pulls your hair? Or calls other girls hot? Or says you're the right girl at the wrong time? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

What do guys think of the girls their friends are hooking up with? What do guys mean when they pull your hair? What do guys feel about morning breath? What is a guy thinking when he calls another girl hot?...

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Q: What do guys think about the girls their friends are hooking up with? Predisposed to like them or dislike them?

A: Guys are loving yet competitive little creatures. We want our buddy to be happy, just not overtly happier or luckier tha...

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Q: I tried hooking up with one of my friends (a girl) because she likes me. It didn’t work and I couldn’t get it up. Now she’s pissed!!

A: In my heroic and celebrated sex life this has happened to me twice.  Yes, both times were humiliating - to me, to the gi...

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Q: Hey MM! I'm 17 and starting university in September, never had a boyfriend. I do everything I can to put myself out there, especially to places where I might meet someone who has similar interests as me. I do put effort into how I look and I'd say I'm somewhat confident. Nothing seems to be working. What else can I do?

A: First off, chillax. University is like an all you can eat buffet for the single gal who gets herself out there and looks...

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From 'Hooking Up' To 'It's Complicated': Defining The New Dating Terms

These days, just saying you're dating isn't enough. Thanks to social networking, and the natural evolution of the English language, we have so many different terms for dating, engaging in casual sex, and being in a serious relationship. In addition,...

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Q: So i'm a slut. I don't want the "that title degrades women" speech, because honestly it's gotten to the point where I blow guys before even kissing them. I don't think I have low self esteem, just something's obviously wrong and I can't understand it. Please help

A: First off, give yourself a high five. No, seriously, do it. I'm not kidding. I'll wait. So...Chris Brown, huh? I wouldn'...

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Q: How do you feel when you wake up beside a girl who has makeup smudged all over her face. Do you think she's ugly?

A: Of course not. Because if she fell asleep with her makeup on, that means we had wild, crazy, probably drunken sex the ni...

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Cats, My Number One Dealbreaker

I have a very short list of preexisting relationship conditions that would keep me from dating someone. So long as you're not on the run from the law (international courts count, btw,) addicted to meth, or a terrorist, chances are...

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Q: I was hooking up with this guy for a couple of months. At a party, something very stupid (some may say kinky) happened. Then summer came and i went away. I saw him this weekend and the memories flashed before me. i NEED closure!!

A: First of all, what exactly happened at that party? Kinky? Really? I'm speaking strictly as a professional here. I have n...

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Q: Can you give me the play by play of a booty call/one night stand? Like how a guy expects it to happen.

A: Here's the basic outline of a booty call: 1. It's between the hours of midnight and 2AM. 2. You get a text that reads "H...

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Q: okay so this guy asked me to hook up but im not sure if im a rebound... his girl friend broke up with him like three weeks ago.. but hes always hit on me and stuff... what should i do?

A: You have two choices, depending on what you want. If you just want a fun, no strings attached romp, then go for it. Atta...

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Q: One date. OK, a GREAT one date, but still one date. He sent me a Facebook friend request. I don't want him to be moving too fast. Is he? That's kinda a 5 or more dates thing, don't you think? What to do?

A: By the fifth date, there better be some serious exchanges of bodily fluids. Five dates means something is cooking. Fires...

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Q: Does the old rule "He won't buy the cow if he's getting the milk for free" hold true? If I like someone then I want to fool around (i.e. bone) and not play the games...does that automatically disqualify me as girlfriend material?

A: That is a gross rule. You should be disqualified as girlfriend material for even quoting that lame, old-fashioned chestn...

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Q: How can I ask a guy that I'm hooking up with for the night if I can spend the night?

A: Well, first of all, stop hooking up with guys who make you leave right after you've done the deed. Who are these d-bags ...

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Q: I've been seeing a guy I met online for about a month. I'm ready to lock him down. Not sure if he's ready to lock me down. Is one month too soon to ask if he's dating/sleeping with other girls?

A: Lock... him... down? As in, what a corrections facility does to its inmates? Perhaps you shouldn't use prison terminolog...

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Q: I met this great guy, but last night i drunk texted him. I am so embarrassed and don't know what to say to him. What do I do? From Kissanddish.com

A: Okay, so our friends over at Kiss&Dish have thrown me a question one of their readers sent them. I'm like a second opini...

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Q: I hit it off with this guy I met last year. We ended up sleeping together. He stopped talking to me because he "hits it and quits it". I'm going to be seeing him this Thursday. I was wondering if I had a chance with this guy or not?

A: A chance at what? A chance at sleeping with him, and then weeping over a wedge of coffee cake because he won't call you ...

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Make Out At The Bar, I Won't Judge You

Do it. You both just met tonight, the music is thumping, and you're both drunkatronic, right? Make out at the bar. Live a little. Who cares what anyone else thinks. Pucker up! Make-a da kissy! Is it trashy? Yes. But do...

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Q: Can you please enlighten me and tell me why do guys stop calling with no reason whatsoever? Is it so hard to say 'This isn't going anywhere' or 'it's over'? Are guys afraid we'll act psycho and/or melodramatic by saying so? What's the deal with this?

A: Let me, first, answer all of your questions. 1. When men stop calling, we have a reason. Unless our thumbs have fallen o...

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