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Tag: Intimacy

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Q: Will a guy cherish a woman more if she gives her first time to him?

A: No, probably not. Some will, but in my experience, it doesn't seem to make a long-term difference for most. If you are c...

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Q: My guy thinks naked is weird. We get naked together only for sex or a shower. He says that no one looks that good naked and he's more used to seeing people with clothes on. I'm self-conscious about being naked now that I realize that he doesn't think it looks good. What do you think? :(

A: I think he is ashamed of his body and projecting those feelings onto you and everyone else. Most guys would love it if o...

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Q: My boyfriend likes to hold my hand during sex. Is that weird? What does it mean?

A: Is it weird? No, darling, it's called intimacy. That's kind of the point of sex. Well, one of them, anyway. Holding your...

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Q: CM, you say that men are always thinking about sex. If that's true, why does my husband claim to have no sexual appetite? It's crushed my self-esteem that he doesn't want to touch/kiss/be touched by me, though he claims he doesn't want sex with anyone else either. For a guy who was VERY sexually active before me, is that possible?

A: Well, I was exaggerating, of course. Men don't really think about sex all the time. We think about it a lot of the time,...

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Q: Cary, I'm so desperate to ask this. Every time I fall for a guy I always end up getting hurt because they don't feel the same way. Guys who fall for me are usually not the ones I want to be with. Should I just force myself to love someone that I'm not into, since they're into me?

A: I think you already know the answer. The problem you describe is one that 99% of people reading this question have had a...

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Q: I'm 42, my BF is 45. We've been dating 5 months and we're not having as much sex as I would like. Our long weekends together are fun but I'm lucky if we do it once. He doesn't respond when I initiate and ignores my hints. Is this even fixable? Is it our ages? Please help me. I'm on fire and he's snoring away.

A: Silly man. He doesn't know how good he has it. What a waste. I gotta ask: has it always been this way, or is this a rece...

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Q: What do you thing of farts in a relationship? Should girls keep their gas in?

A: Your question speaks to the idea that females and farts are unseemly.  Should women be afraid that by coming out of the ...

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Q: My guy won't kiss me after i swallow you-know-what even if i drink some water. I actually enjoy drinking his dude juice; he's affectionate afterwards so should i even mention that it kind of bothers me?

A: Before I get to the specifics of this "dude juice" question, let me start with the last part of your question. Should yo...

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Q: My boyfriend brags to his friends in front of me that I give excellent blowjobs. I have confronted him about this and he says he's only joking. Am i being oversensitive? I find these sort of remarks juvenile and degrading.

A: No, you aren't being oversensitive. He's being inappropriate. While it's nice that he considers you a skilled fellatrix,...

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Q: I've been dating someone 6 months. He is 41 and has never been married, no kids. He has slowed down the intimacy because he says it causes relationships to move too fast. I'm going to see other people. Keep him around too? He really is a great guy. No he isn't gay and he has volunteered that he isn't shagging others.

A: Keep him around as what? A spare tire? A life preserver? An emergency boyfriend you keep under glass? Or is keeping him ...

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Q: I was sexually assaulted at a young age, and am now 29. I've put it behind me, but when it comes to interacting with guys I freeze up. A million stupid things go through my head and everything stops being enjoyable. I really want to be intimate with my bf but I don't want to tell him what happened. Any advice?

A: Everyone has the right to privacy, but if you're having trouble connecting to your boyfriend in the way you want, you ma...

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