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Q: From my previous relationships I've learned that I am not a jealous person. I know what's mine and I don't get jealous over girls looking at my man. But, do you think that could be a negative in some relationships? My last BF left me for my roommate, who always saw him shirtless and hung around with us...

A: Jealousy is not attractive. I can't imagine how your lack of it could be a bad thing as long as your security in your ma...

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Q: I give you the sweatshirt dilemma. An ex once gave me a sweatshirt. I wear it around my house but never tell my bf about its existence as it may bother him. I do not hold any feelings for its original owner. I just love how comfy it is, but I don't want to get rid of it. Am I wrong for hiding it from my bf?

A: Ah, yes, the dreaded sweatshirt dilemma. An intro like that will get your question noticed every time. You aren't wrong ...

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Q: I've worked very hard in my MA program and my department gave me a scholarship for a PhD program. I was excited and told a friend and he replied that I only got the scholarship because I have big boobs and the chair wants to f*** me. Is that really how it works? Do men really only see me as a talking pair of boobs?

A: Nope! Your "friend" is jealous you got the scholarship and he didn't, so he's looking for some excuse that doesn't invol...

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The Evil But Effective Guide to Making Your Man a Jealous Wreck

Having just answered a question on how to know if a married man is flirting with you, I thought I'd one up myself in the immoral dept. and use this week's blog to post my indisputable list of ways to...

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Q: My boyfriend is going out of town with his ex for the weekend. How can I tell him that I'm not comfortable with this without seeming jealous? I trust him but not his ex.

A: What? They're traveling together? Same flight/car? Same hotel? Oh, hell no. I would have a BIG problem with this trip. I...

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Q: Why doesn't this guy I've been dating for 8 mths. not show signs of jealousy that I'm dating other guys? He clearly wants to be with me a lot, but not ready for a full commitment. He has told me he doesn't want to date anyone but that I have every right to.????

A: Some guys just aren't the jealous type. You said it yourself: he's not ready for a full commitment, but he does want to ...

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Q: My ex-boyfriend is in town for the weekend and is texting my best friend asking if she wants to hang out. Is there a reason for this that doesn't make him a huge jerk?

A: The only one I can think of is that he wants to get back together with you. Perhaps he thinks that by hanging with your ...

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Q: My husband is very jealous. Jealous so much he always accuses me of looking at other guys. Why is this?

A: Could be he has all the self confidence of an overcooked strand of spaghetti. No, that is not an insult, or not much of ...

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Q: My guy says he's turned on by watching me get turned on by other women, and we have discussed a 3some, which I am down for, but is there any other reason he wants this too?

A: You mean aside from bragging rights? The unspoken question here is "will he be using this to sleep with other women?" an...

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Q: MM what's your take on polyamory? Or dating someone and instead of breaking up when hitting a rough patch, experimenting on the side to see if the relationship is worth it?

A: If you are all cool with it, go for it. My personal preference is for serial monogamy, but I can see the appeal of polya...

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Q: I've heard you shouldn't try to make a guy jealous when you're talking/dating them. How true is that and why? The only reason I would do that is to is if they like me and its kinda cute.

A: It's very true because life is not like a romantic comedy, and playing with people's feelings is both a crappy thing to ...

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Q: My boyfriend calls other girls hot right in front of me. After he says that, he looks toward me, as if he wants to see my reaction because if I don't comment, he sometimes nudges me for my attention. What do I do? It really bothers me that he does this. Does he just want to see the jealous side of me ?

A: You should dump him. Even if he's trying to make you jealous, he's going about it in a crappy way. Who does that? He's s...

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Q: My boyfriend calls other girls hot right in front of me. After he says that, he looks toward me, as if he wants to see my reaction because if I don't comment, he sometimes nudges me for my attention. What do I do ? It really bothers me that he does this. Does he just want to see the jealous side of me ?

A: Personally, I think a good hard punch in the nose is a suitable response, though some may opt for the timeless classic o...

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Q: Whats the best way to make a guy jealous?

A: Stop caring about how he feels and live life the way you want to. Seriously, any sort of jealousy-inflicting strategy be...

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Q: so what does it mean when a guy who is really nice to you suddenly, becomes mean to you after he saw you flirting with another guy??

A: He's jealous. That wasn't too hard now, was it. Sounds like one of those nice guy creeps to me....

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Q: I don't like one of my BF's friends bc he's a cocky jerk who thinks he's way smarter than he is. Part of it is jealousy, definitely; he's doing what I want to do: establishing his own promotional business. He thinks he's so awesome for doing it, but he's been given every advantage (family $$ and no need to work)! Help?

A: So you don't like him because he is doing, effortlessly, what you want to do? Exactly how green are your eyes right now?...

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Should his new GF be jealous of me? Should I be a teacher? Should I not be so turned on by him? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

Can he tell if I touch myself? Can you tell me what "I'm sprung" means? Can I get too wet? Can I be happy if things are going great? Can I be a teacher? Can his new GF stop being...

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You Buy It, You Own It. Don't You?

Two weeks ago, Carrie dropped us guys a question, asking if we ever owned anything for the purpose of getting laid. She's always asking questions like that, it being her delight (and job) to come up with some really confounding...

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Q: I'm 24 and just recently moved in with my bf. And ever since I moved my bff has gone batshit crazy jealous. Help! She goes out 4 times a week and whenever I don't go she says I put my bf b4 her. I work 50 hrs per week and go to grad school pt, I'm not going out bc I'm tired!! How do I get through to her?

A: Were you going out with her four nights a week before you moved in with your boyfriend? Unless you are suddenly working ...

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Quick Answers Of The Month, Vol. 17

And away we go...From a guy's opinion, do you think women expect too much from guys?Some do. Some expect too little.Do guys like it when a girl tightens her PC/pelvic muscles during sex?God yes.There is a guy i like but...

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