Tag: Jerks

Q: he lives with the girlfriend but isnt in love with her and doesnt want to kick her out but he cheats

A: Wow. What a jerk. Please tell me you're not sleeping with this guy. If so, stop immediately. You're better than this. He...

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Q: How do I let boyfriend know that he pulled the cruelest mindf*** on me that I've ever seen? I want him to FEEL my anger

A: Easy, dump him. No, seriously. A prank is one thing, but if he's genuinely messing with you with no regard for your feel...

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Q: So, this guy asks to go out with me, at first I'm hesitant, but soon I agree. We make plans, tell each other how we can't wait see one another, then all of sudden, he is a no show! He's avoiding me now and I'm confused! What's going on that I don't know about?

A: He stood you up? Who cares what he's thinking? Scratch him off the list. Unless he was in the hospital, a guy who stands...

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Q: Can you please tell me why I only attract taken men. Is there an "other woman" gene I am unaware of? I am average looking, dress rather conservatively, and am not a wild child, but I can get down if the opportunity presents itself. Please explain.

A: There isn't an "other woman" gene, but there is such a thing as bad luck. My gut tells me the problem is two-fold: one, ...

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Q: What does it mean when a guy who dumped you goes out with one of your best friends 2 days later?

A: It means you have one seriously lousy friend, and your ex was a jerk. It stinks you got dumped, but look at it this way:...

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Q: I've been seeing a guy for over a year. He tells me hes in love with me yet every time I talk to him about being my boyfriend he says he doesn't have time for a relationship. Should I move on?

A: Yep, he's stringing you along. He might even be dating someone else. Dump him. Just be ready for a long, looooooong conv...

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Q: My BF has to be right about everything. He tells me exactly how I should apply for a new job, preaches why standards are better than automatics, etc. He'll keep going until I agree with him. I've told him I'm allowed to have my own ideas and that he belittles me when he acts like that, but nothing changes. Advice?

A: Pretty simple: don't give in and agree with him. Ignore him when he gets like this, and do whatever it is the way you wa...

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Q: Will a guy ever apologize even if he was the biggest jerk ? I was diagnosed with a neurological disease and he left and came back but come to find out he was living with another girl and told her he was just using me and that I was sick and that's why he couldn't leave me but yet we were together for over 2 years

A: ...I think we're beyond describing him as a jerk. We might have to resort to profanity in other languages. It would be n...

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Q: my boyfriend leaves me to sit by the bar alone when in a club and goes off without telling me also he grinds with other girls infront of me what do i do?

A: Dump him. No, seriously. If he treats you like dirt when you go out, that's not going to change over time: in fact, it'l...

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Q: A guy stopped being my friend because I wouldn't have sex with him. He said many rude things and then immediately after he said we need to pretend to be friendly for our friends. I've tried to keep my distance while still being polite, but now he is telling everyone that I need to be more friendly. What gives?

A: Why are you even listening to this dude? You aren't friends anymore but he's giving you orders about how to act? Tell hi...

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Q: I saw my boyfriends inbox & it was full of convos with women dating back to the 1st(4 yrs 2gether) yr in our relationship.It said he wanted to make luv to them & would leave me if they wanted him. He says he didnt do anything with them & it was only entertainment.Should he have a 2nd chance? Is it considered cheating?

A: The only thing he deserves is a kick to the groin. Let's say he didn't do anything with them, which is not a safe assump...

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Q: A coworker constantly flirts with me and our personalities are really compatible. I really am starting to fall for him, but... he's married (and 12 years older than me). He also knows I'm a good girl and thats part of what he likes about me. Is there any possibility that he's actually interested in me or just a fling?

A: It doesn't matter. He's married and he's your coworker. Do you really think the workplace gossip would be worth it? But ...

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Q: Have a friend for 1.5 yrs who pumped and dumped me, insists there is no blame for anyone in the situation and insists on communication on his terms, Ie. waiting for me to stop being angry at him so he doesn't have to deal w the prob face 2 face. Should I just call it quits & stop talking 2 him? I'm not on call/ a slut.

A: Really. He insists? What are you, idiotic or simply desperate? And stop being so damned dumb. That ain't no friend. Stop...

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Q: My bf seems to like my bj's more than having sex with me. We haven't had actual sex in over 2 weeks, and he swore he'd never eat a girl out, so I'm getting frustrated. I kind of understand because he almost always orgasms much stronger with a bj, but I have needs too. What should I do?

A: Cut him off. Seriously. If he's not respecting your needs, why respect his? He's being a complete selfish jerk, and ther...

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Q: I knew my friend is a jerk, but I didn't know to what extent. I got angry when he didn't follow thru on a favor and he just snapped, used bad language, and told me if I didn't apologize, we wouldn't speak anymore. I'm not a proud person but I think what he did was wrong and shouldn't take it. Yet I really miss him.

A: You miss him? Why? If he got angry at you because you were upset with him for screwing up, this isn't a person you need ...

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Q: My boyfriend calls other girls hot right in front of me. After he says that, he looks toward me, as if he wants to see my reaction because if I don't comment, he sometimes nudges me for my attention. What do I do? It really bothers me that he does this. Does he just want to see the jealous side of me ?

A: You should dump him. Even if he's trying to make you jealous, he's going about it in a crappy way. Who does that? He's s...

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Q: Please help This guy used me for sex&a place to stay I lost my virginity to him B/c of this I did stupid things Now Im bein talked about I really want to feel better How can I? What do I do with all his crap because its in my room&I havent given it back to him yet nor told him Im done bein his doormat what do I do?

A: You throw his junk out on the street, change the locks, block his phone number, mark his email as spam, and if he shows ...

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Q: is it true that some guys would have sex with a "fat," girl but never date her/publically acknowledge their relationship? I literally saw a guy kiss a plus size girl goodbye, and then turn around tell his friend, "she's a scooter.. i only ride her at night in private." they had a good laugh...what's up with that?

A: Some people are, well, jerks. It is true that there are guys who do this, but they're the exception, and a lot of the ti...

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Q: what does it mean when your dating a guy and he suddenly ignores you and wont talk to you?

A: Honestly? It sounds like he's dumped you but hasn't bothered to tell you, and is trying the "silent treatment" tactic to...

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Q: what kind of guy would say they love you and want to marry you and not mean it

A: A guy trying to get into your pants, that's who. Consider this jerk an abject lesson that some people stink, dump him, a...

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